Respect for your mother , but saying father support ends in financial way is wrong , father - protects, provides ,guides, wisdom sharing , a man in house (i mean a good person) is always a relaxing place next to a holiday trip ... but in this case your mother played all the role including nourishing .. If you can feel your mom pain then men also endure those pain and more cause what women fail to understand is men are treated harshly than women and are expected to take it as man .