Ep. 68.5: Real Time Update - 8/6/2023

First, why are all my thumbnail selections only me with my hand on screen??? 😂
Secondly, this is just a real time update on the going ons in my life.

[@donnamariedunn3944]

They say there's no such thing as a coincidence. I believe it all happened for a reason. Meeting that man with such a similar situation as yours was meant to be. I hope you feel better, Darrin. ❤

[@Beyond_Cancer]

Hey Donna! You're 100% right! It's hard to not see the world that way after everything we've been through! lol. And thank you, I'm feeling a bit better today.

[@southernbellekari]

So glad you're ok Darrin !!! And I believe with all my heart that GOD sat that man beside you & I'm so thankful He brings people into our lives when we need them the most. He is so GOOD like that. Thankful for you having that moment. God bless you my Friend 🙏❤🙏

[@Beyond_Cancer]

Thank you, Kari! I'm doing much better now, and as always, I'm amazed at God's perfect timing!

[@jennifersanders2456]

How utterly magnificent that you met that man. Amazing yet perfect. I am going to try and see the world as divine providence. Amen Darrin 🙏🏻

[@Beyond_Cancer]

Amen, Jennifer!

[@teresapaliwoda]

I feel the same way. I lost my first husband due to leukemia. He was 44 and I was 40. I lost my 2nd husband to a massive heart attack when I was 59. So I've experienced the long goodbye and no goodbye. I look at all of the interactions that I have with people and things and believe they all happen for some reason. We don't understand some and some we do. Keep moving forward and blessings to you.

[@Beyond_Cancer]

Hey Teresa! First off, the Template (If you've already seen this, please disregard the first part of the message) This is Darrin, (Brittany's husband) She passed this January this year from Kidney Cancer. We filmed a lot of videos and Brittany wanted to upload them, and she was able to do so for awhile. But as she got sicker, she wasn't able to post them anymore. By the time she passed away, we were a year and some change behind in videos. So now, it's on me. I'm posting everything we filmed. And there's a lot! And I've got more to go, too! You'll notice on every video I list the date, including the year that the film was taken to help avoid confusion! The one you watched was from 8/6/2023. The story is wild. God shows up in big ways (sneak back to episode 22.5 if you want to hear why I think you should keep watching despite the fact that she's gone) and God shocks EVERYONE in our lives. Brittany wanted to touch lives, and she felt called to do these videos, and would often say if she could touch just 1 life, then it would have all been worth it. I hope you continue watching along with us for the journey! We do, get a miracle... a HUGE one. (Episode 80 and forward) It just wasn't quite what we expected. You've messaged me riiiiight at the point in the story where we see God move in some amazing ways! I hope you continue watching! (Okay, now that's out the way) You're another fellow Professor of the Literature persuasion! Hey! lol. I taught low level comp classes in Louisiana before I moved to Mississippi several years back. Welcome to the journey! I hope you stick around with us for awhile! Thank you for your comment and blessings! I really appreciate it. And, I'm so sorry that you've had to experience this battle too... It's not easy. And you've gone through it twice!

[@teresapaliwoda]

@@Beyond_Cancer yes. I know why you are doing this and the stories do matter. They matter in Brittany’s memory and this is a way of honoring her. She will always be your love. I pray in time you love again but I have learned that love grows and there is always room. What a blessing that you are able to do this for her legacy. I do teach ENC 1101 and ENC 1102 and one Lit class, AFAM 2600 at Tallahassee community college. It’s an adventure and I love it. Thanks for the content. Brittany is smiling.

[@avahaggerton5342]

I call that "A God thing!"

[@Beyond_Cancer]

You're absolutely right! If there's anything the journey has taught me, it's that He can use ANY situation in furtherance of His plan and Glory, as well as uplift his people. I'm amazed at his beauty and perfection.

[@Kirimoon67]

That was your future self.. an angel… i have been through exactly the same thing… take comfort 🌟

[@Beyond_Cancer]

Hey Kiri! Thank you! Not sure if you've been with us for awhile or not, so lemme give you the "template" - I post this to all newcomers. If you've seen this before, or if you've been here awhile, and I just don't recognize you, please ignore this: This is Darrin, (Brittany's husband) She passed this January this year (2023) from Kidney Cancer. We filmed a lot of videos and Brittany wanted to upload them, and she was able to do so for awhile. But as she got sicker, she wasn't able to post them anymore. By the time she passed away, we were a year and some change behind in videos. So now, it's on me. I'm posting everything we filmed. And there's a lot! And I've got more to go, too! You'll notice on every video I list the date, including the year that the film was taken to help avoid confusion! The one you watched was episode 68.5. We're all the way up to the 90's now! The story is wild. God shows up in big ways (sneak back to episode 22.5 if you want to hear why I think you should keep watching despite the fact that she's gone) and God shocks EVERYONE in our lives. Brittany wanted to touch lives, and she felt called to do these videos, and would often say if she could touch just 1 life, then it would have all been worth it. I hope you continue watching along with us for the journey! We do, get a miracle... a HUGE one. (Episode 80 and forward) It just wasn't quite what we expected. You've messaged me riiiiight at the point in the story where we see God move in some amazing ways! I hope you continue watching!

[@Kirimoon67]

@@Beyond_Cancer Thank you Darrin.. your story.. your life… your wife.. was and is beautiful yet so tragic… strength & blessings 🖤

[@Beyond_Cancer]

Thank you, Kiri! So much!

[@keithcitizen4855]

Situation still raw for you . After two years of grief time heals a little bit , sending best wishes

[@Beyond_Cancer]

Thank you, Keith!

[@dorottyalaszlo6947]

Hi Darren, thank you for your reál time video. It's 2.a.m. In Europe, and i needed to watch right away. Best wishes, and take care of you.

[@Beyond_Cancer]

Dorottya! Thank you so much for the comment! Brittany often said that if her story could affect even just 1 person in a small way, then everything she would have experienced would have been worth it. Granted, this video was not about her, but... if not for her, I wouldn't be here doing these videos. So, long story short - you're one of those '1 person's she wanted to help. You're a part of this too. I hope you continue to follow along with us!

[@cazharris5581]

Glad you are feeling okay now - it must have been very scary. It is interesting about the chap in the hospital, my Nanna always said everything happens for a reason…

[@Beyond_Cancer]

Caz, I believe this as well! I'm doing better today, thankfully!

[@compassionentheogen]

Praying for you Darrin.

[@Beyond_Cancer]

Thank you, Misty Moon! 💕

[@MargoBarackman]

Such an interesting story.I’m glad your ok.you deserve a break in life.Hang in there, thank you for update, I always wonder how you are.

[@Beyond_Cancer]

Margo, You're welcome. Thank you for checking in on me. I'm up and down - just being honest. But, I know God's got me and He's got Brittany too. The Lord never promises an easy time, or a good time. But, we know that He's with us through everything, and that all things work towards His glory. And I think that's the most comforting part of this.

[@hopefulcorrectgirl7104]

I'm glad that it turned out to be just able to dissolve on it's own (how scary). I see it as a meeting that was supposed to happen and for a reason only God knows why. It's good to see you getting out and seeing friends and meeting new ones.😊 God bless🙏

[@Beyond_Cancer]

Thank you, Hopefully! And I believe it was God, too. After everything I've been through, It's like He was saying "I can use anything at anytime and anywhere for My Glory!" And even lift up his people along the way!

[@darlenepietzak9847]

I feel that you both were brought to each other. No coincidence. You have been struggling emotionally and this man was someone who truly understands what you went through and sometimes that's what we need. I had cancer and my cancer support group got me through some bad days. I absolutely believe you do these videos because our messages help you. Heck I watch them and they make me think. I am sorry you choked on lettuce, but glad you got to speak to this man. Take care of yourself, Darrin. ✌❤

[@Beyond_Cancer]

Thank you, Darlene! I really appreciate it! And yes, I believe that it was a nudge from God. If anything, Him saying "I can use any situation for my Glory." And, in the meantime, I got to interact with another person who could uplift me and vice versa!

[@lifeonwheels5756]

Hope you feel better soon..

[@Beyond_Cancer]

Thank you, Life! I'm doing a bit better today.

[@thelegendofhisown1762]

It’s completely understandable that you’ve been feeling emotional and depressed. Apart from being recently bereaved, there is also the mental and physical exhaustion that remains after caring for a loved one who is suffering from terminal illness. Be kind to yourself and give yourself time. I’m sure that God brought you and this stranger together because you needed each other in that moment. The road ahead will unveil itself in time.

[@Beyond_Cancer]

Thank you, @thelegendofhisown1762 ! I'm sure that God brought us together in that moment as well! I am taking my time, and processing. Thank you for reaching out!

[@beckymellon8135]

That happens to my mom with apple peels even like the tiniest piece 😵‍💫 happy you had a pretty good experience in the hospital for a change, totally sounds like it was meant to be ✌️❤️😇

[@Beyond_Cancer]

Becky, I'm sorry that happens to your mother! It's scary! And, as much as I don't like hospitals now, and quite missed my battle buddy being with me, this time was fairly simple. Praise God!

[@jacquettabanana]

Hey.. be careful out there 😅😆 darn, how bizarre that happens twice in your life! I hate it when I accidentally inhale my food too, can be quite scary. Glad to see/hear you're doing ok 💚

[@Beyond_Cancer]

Hey Jacquetta! Thank you! I am doing a bit better today, thankfully!

[@janaculbreth007]

Don’t you know God!!!! Lol!!! He has to give us a not your average ordinary situation for us to realize it was all him showing us how much we are loved!! That being said you were suppose to be there to share about your story and the other gentleman was suppose to be there to share about his story!! God is so good are making great plans even thru a piece of lettuce ;). Btw let’s not eat those things that can get trapped!! Unless God secretly puts them there for a reason!! Thank you for sharing this with us!! I’m so glad you are going out and hanging out with church members!!! A church family is the best to have and that will help especially during times like this!!!

[@Beyond_Cancer]

Thank you, Jana! I appreciate it. And I LOVE the way you put that - God is so good that he can make great plans even through a piece of lettuce! And it's SO TRUE!

[@AleciaHelm]

Darrin, I watched the last video posted an it said you 2 had four months not to go to Houston. Then this one your beautiful wife passed. What happened? I know from watching the videos in the last 2 days cancer but she was so happy to go home and have a break…🙏

[@Beyond_Cancer]

@user-nw2zr5ol1h Hey Alicia, sorry for the confusion! This is Darrin, (Brittany's husband) She passed this January this year from Kidney Cancer. We filmed a lot of videos and Brittany wanted to upload them, and she was able to do so for awhile. But as she got sicker, she wasn't able to post them anymore. By the time she passed away, we were a year and some change behind in videos. So now, it's on me. I'm posting everything we filmed. And there's a lot! And I've got more to go, too! You'll notice on every video I list the date, including the year that the film was taken to help avoid confusion! The one you watched was from 5/15/2022. The story is wild. God shows up in big ways (sneak back to episode 22.5 if you want to hear why I think you should keep watching despite the fact that she's gone) and shocks EVERYONE in our lives. Brittany wanted to touch lives, and she felt called to do these videos, and would often say if she could touch just 1 life, then it would have all been worth it. I hope you continue watching along with us for the journey!

[@AleciaHelm]

@@Beyond_Cancer thank you … she touches my life every day… I learned a lot from her…. As you are in my prayers , daily … luv to u and the fur babies… milo must miss her😇🙏❤

[@Beyond_Cancer]

Milo sure does. Not nearly as much as Butterball does, however.

[@alleyoop5185]

Must have felt like dejavue or how ever it’s spelled:)

[@Beyond_Cancer]

It REALLY did, Alley! I even have a friend who I spoke to the day after, and I told them "Well... I was actually at the hospital last night" and the response was "What, you choked on another Bay Leaf" - "Actually... YES!" 😂

[@lynneosborne5200]

Intresting story today Darrin. A few years ago i lost a friend whom i hadnt seen for many years, and then i saw her in town and we had a chat but sadly she just died in her sleep just a few days after i saw her it was so sad. Xx

[@Beyond_Cancer]

Lynne, No doubt that moment was meant for you! I'm glad that you got to see her again.

[@lynneosborne5200]

@@Beyond_Cancer that's right x

[@avahaggerton5342]

It's odd that they didn't do more.

[@Beyond_Cancer]

Ava, I'm in Mississippi. I'm surprised they didn't schedule me for surgery, amputate my right foot, and pat themselves on the back for a job well done. lol.

[@mumzee7680]

Good to see you and hear you're doing ok,maybe go to the doctor appointment just to be on safe side. How are the fur babies doing ? Do you have any support from Brittany's family or your own ? Take Care 😊

[@Beyond_Cancer]

memzee, I think I'm going to be okay. I'm coughing a bit more, but I don't feel anything now. So, it's probably dissolved. lol. Fur babies are fine. I actually had Gran and Brittany's mother come check on them while I was at the hospital for 4 hours. lol. I'm grateful for them.

[@mumzee7680]

Hi love, It's nice to know you can call on them if needed. How are they coping ? How are you doing now ?

[@Beyond_Cancer]

Milo and Butter are okay. They're each healing at their own rate, I guess. I'm feeling fine from the lettuce now. I was coughing a bit the last few days, but it's starting to clear up.