ep1: mom things nobody talks about | being single and pregnant + body odor + missing out

[@Courtmichelle635]

Currently pregnant and doing it alone! But GOD IS GOOD!

[@Richgirlshana305]

I’ve been there single and pregnant recently had my daughter I was alone but God kept me and gave me strength and peace throughout the whole pregnancy and now I get to hold my baby and love her ❤ you will get through it just enjoy your life and let God guide you through it all

[@NiaKnowles]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@shemeyaperkins3981]

I needed to read this ❤️

[@Richgirlshana305]

@@shemeyaperkins3981 ❤️❤️❤️

[@mariamusic99]

Seeking the healing behind this post. I currently battling with pregnancy alone. It has been the hardest time of my life, I wanna be happy for my baby but I feel down. Any suggestions? Anyone else feel this way?

[@Richgirlshana305]

@@mariamusic99 pray for strength… no it’s not easy but it will get better soon just continue to show up for your kid and God will take care of the rest. Stay positive 💗

[@rsvpevents6780]

The line about “when you’re pregnant, all you have time to do is think” really hit home for me. It’s true. There’s no alcohol to mask your thoughts and emotions. Clear mind, very real thoughts, all the time….

[@m_4720]

I was single my entire pregnancy, my sons dad left me at 3 months pregnant. He ended up in a new relationship by the time I was 5 months pregnant. My son is now 3 months old & his current gf is pregnant. I say all of this to say the road isn’t easy but god will pull you through! You got this mama❤️

[@bellerosebianca]

i feel you. i'm currently 5 months pregnant and i have been alone since the very beginning. he's ice cold to the child and to me. he's dating his "best friend" who i never got to meet in the whole relationship. the world is unfair and hard but in the end we get to know a new love. an inseparable love for the child and that's the most beautiful and strongest love you can have in life. and .. who needs a man who probably can't even change diapers? come on. we moms can do it all by ourselves!

[@loipowell1267]

I'm pregnant now and struggling it's really hard but I trust God 🙏

[@ericawelch6117]

As a mom who not in the best ideal situation I can honestly say being pregnant has made me have to face some hard realities. Everyone isn’t gonna be happy for you or share the joy of new life no matter how close they are to you. I cry soo much because I feel alone I feel like I’m literally the only one going through it and I’m not. I’m praying for peace and clarity to all moms apart of our community. Lani always give different perspective. I’m using this time to tap into myself,writing in my journal, seeking professional help and most of all staying healthy for my girls and my son whose growing inside of me. Thank you for being open and sharing advice as we navigate through pregnancy & motherhood ❤

[@Axrespes]

Knowing the hardship now would you have done it all over again? I suppose it’s kinda hard to answer that after experiencing the overwhelming type of love a child brings? I’m currently contemplating if I can be a single mother right now. I know I will face the hard realities of that and I guess the unknown is so hard to jump into. The fear is definitely there in me. The babies father is also not really going to involved and has another baby mom expecting. I had no idea about her and she’s around the same weeks as me 🙃 soo I’m not in the most ideal situation either 💜

[@ericawelch6117]

@@Axrespes I wanted a son so bad that yes everything I endured for him to be here was worth it. I realized the strength I had as a women & boss up and handle business. The most important lesson out of all of this is never depend on a man to create happiness in your life. You make yourself happy and whoever comes along just adds to that happiness. You just gotta really focus on you & your baby at this time and remember God is in control

[@Axrespes]

@@ericawelch6117 thank you for this 💜

[@ashleysalazar2012]

I get that ideally people want a two parent household but if a child is loved and cared for then that's what the child needs. Some of the most special and important people in my life were raised in a one parent home. It happens sometimes, doesn't mean the child is getting any less love.

[@queenjamiyah1118]

I’m loving this video and even these comments by other fellow moms❤️. I’m 23 & 4 months pregnant. I am an single mom because I chose to leave a toxic abusive relationship and my child’s father feels if I’m not with him relationship or intimate wise then I gotta deal with it on my own. It’s a lot. Especially because at times I blame myself for bringing my child in a single parent home. Scared that my child would resent me in the future. This pregnancy has taught me so much but in a way has brought me so much strength and motivation. I still feel alone especially because I don’t have much support with my family etc. I been on KZbin looking up single mom videos to just give me encouragement and insight on others. Love this content, the lil things help bring hope. 💓💯

[@FACTS2GO97]

Going through the exact thing ur not alone

[@makebabaron23]

I’m also 23. In my last month! I chose to leave too. I couldn’t take the toxic mentality anymore. Wish I walked away earlier 😢

[@Lynbro]

Can we get updates, bc same 😩. 4 months

[@lovedove2661]

You are already stronger than you know. Making a decision to leave a toxic and abusive partner to be able to raise a baby in a safe, positive and loving home is so essential to their developmental growth. You are AMAZINV and everything is going to be okay. ❤

[@Brownsagey]

I hate the hate I get as a single mom. It’s very discouraging and it’s disgustingly disrespectful how both genders talk on us. Men have kids with all types of people and still get to sleep in peace no matter what. I’m just praying the lord forgives me for how I’ve been feeling. I love love loveeeee my daughter. It’s only sometimes I can’t enjoy it with all the women in my family saying I should have never gotten pregnant. “I would have had a way more peaceful life ” “ there’s no turning back” like I cant

[@brittneeroussel5110]

I needed this. Currently 8 months pregnant. My sons father has left me twice during my pregnancy journey & it’s making me even more depressed. My hormones have been every where & I agree with you when you stated that you didn’t deal with your emotions before & it’s definitely harder to sort them out when you feel like the weight is all on your shoulders. Hoping that things look up for all of us. God got us & Much love to everyone ❤️

[@NiaKnowles]

Your very strong. I’m clapping for you!

[@Syydknee19]

I’m only 2.5 months pregnant but since finding out my baby’s dad has broken up with me three times and I just ended it with him for good because I couldn’t handle the constant back and forth. I’m so scared to do this alone, trying to have faith!

[@yasmineiman966]

Trust me the timing wasn’t off. Yes as a human you feel like it wasn’t the best timing. But God already knew what was going to happen before you did..At the end , everything happens for a reason. And you wouldn’t be the women you are today due to having that teen experience. I was a teen mom and I can totally relate.

[@lovedove2661]

I totally agree. God makes no mistakes and this soul was ready to come to earth and God doesnt give you a challenge he knows you cannot handle. Things happen in devine timing and trust me I just found out Im pregnant and single because I just split with my baby's father not knowing I was pregnant. My fear was I just landed a new career and Im actually thriving really quick for someone new and I started doubting how this baby will be an issue because of taking time off and then providing the care etc. I prayed and prayed to God for comfort and guidence. Best wishes to you all mamas and hugs to the babies. 🥰

[@jgmommy3024]

I was single my whole pregnancy dad didn’t come around at all my son is 6 dad is still not in his life like he should. It’s ok it happens to the best of us ! We’re moms fora reason God knew we would be the best fit for him our kids. & TT will be the best big sister ever !

[@Axrespes]

How does it make you feel now that the dad isn’t in the picture? Does that cause you frustration and stress? How do you cope with that and try to keep peace in your space? Currently contemplating on this thought in the situation I’m in.

[@KaraCharnae]

Girl pray & vent to God through Jesus even get you a prayer journal if you want to write about it. Therapist do not care at the end of the day but God is always willing to listen and fix anything you going through. He is the healer and provider 🥰🙌🏼❣️

[@naturallyreece_]

I'm currently 8 months pregnant with my rainbow baby 🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈 & single . My daughter's dad decided he wanted to be a deadbeat over being a father but I ain't tripping. Hes missing out & he'll have to deal with her in the long run

[@ellpark1769]

I really appreciate your honesty regarding this topic. I am currently 7 weeks and my boyfriend of 5 years decided to tell me he no longer wants to be in a relationship. Im currently looking for a new place ontop of the fact I have to constantly tell him to stop touching me as if we are together. I feel like he doesn't respect me or my boundries during this transition. I don' t trust anything he does or says. I can't believe this is a reality. The thought of me going through this process alone is devastating.😭

[@jessicajesus3557]

Im in the same situation after a relationship of 10 years. Im lost in my feelings😢😢😢

[@Mariestallings0505]

I have been a Single mom for 14years and it's a struggle at times, I have been talked about and Drugged thu the mug my supposed to be friends and family, but me and my son doing great now, it's doing a struggle sometimes but with God and my amazing mother I make it work, and I'm in my last year of medical school and work ❤️ my son has really help me grow up the love joy my son brings me is very unmatched, I didn't know I needed this type of love, I love my son with everything in me ❤️ I love this episode hope it's more to come

[@umwotdidusay]

thank you for posting this video im currently 11 weeks i wanted us to stay together but he literally told me he hopes it miscarries. its scary as shit and it hurts knowing I can’t give my baby both a mom and a dad but that’s the way it’s turning out to be, being single and pregnant is hard but I feel god let it go this way to help me learn to love myself fully during this time to be the best mother I can be, to learn how to do all the things for myself, even more so because I will have to do them for me, and my baby. Thank you for making this video I feel supported and relatable. xx 🖤✨

[@rowantimmermann9349]

10:18. That's a good mindset to have. Positivity is always good.

[@Angie_garcon]

To all the single moms please protect your daughters out here in these streets! We should make sure our daughters never go through any of these situations. As a mother I will ensure my baby do not struggle like I did.

[@thegoldenchild95]

Yes i experience the “im missing out” comments mostly because they themselves just suddenly stopped inviting me out or hanging out with me when i got pregnant as if im on quarantine… I go out all the time alone and do pretty much the same things i did before since ive always been the clean fun type of girl, but pregnancy definitely shows you who your friends are and the lack thereof. Its been alot of isolation but im trying to keep the best spirits for me and baby ❤

[@razhanecasmere6637]

I love this ❤ looking forward too more 💕🫶🏾

[@imanaisis]

You look so pretty girl I love the shades and your hairstyle so cute like this 😍😍

[@Kimberly-vj6ls]

Thank you for this 😢❤ loved this video

[@breath3easy.]

Thanks for the transparency ❤️ as far as armpits I’ve used roll on I scented and this armpit detox roll on. No scent! But of course not for 24 hours. Wash twice a day.

[@melaniek.breatherelaxmedit2271]

This video just made me so happy. Thank you 🙏🏾💕 i needed this.

[@Simply.i]

You looks so pretty😍 I love this hairstyle and those glasses really suit you. Wishing you an easy and safe birth and a healthy, beautiful baby ❤

[@TheRealKhay]

Loved the transparency ✨

[@footgoddessjazzy5496]

Yes I was told if I didn’t want to be with him then he’d send me the money for the abortion, some males feel entitled to you no matter what they choose to do . Also the body odor….. omg I’m fighting for my life !

[@beccas760]

That’s the thing I worry about. I am 20 and want to have a baby within the next year. I feel prepared financially and mentally and have done research to get a sperm donor. I just know if I did get pregnant my family would see it as unfortunate even if it’s what I want.

[@ItsTeezii]

Currently 2 months. He left me @6 weeks. Its fine, trying to cope with being alone because im an only child.

[@toniamoree]

I really appreciate you creating this ! I thought about blogging my current experience but I literally been drained. I can’t bring myself to dress up daily or anything. And you honey look so beautiful ❤ I look forward to seeing more of your relatable experiences.

[@chellysworldofsounds2055]

I’m 22 turning 23 next month and I’m currently pregnant. Been going through a lot with loved one at the moment being in the hospital need some advice on not trying to cause any stress towards me or the baby with just crying. Next week will be the week I start my second trimester. I’m so nervous to do this alone on just supporting my child while still having time for my child and myself. The father wasn’t for it at first. Didn’t tell me he had a family. His bm has two other children with him and found out she was also potentially pregnant with their third around the time I found out. He wants to fix his mistakes with family and told me he rather pay child support so he won’t be in my child life and have any contact with me. Just need some words of encouragement and advice. Been praying to god but I’m afraid that he’s not listening to my prayers

[@pinkinhot67]

You don't need your bd. You need a strong relationship with God. He has all the strength you need waiting for you. View prayer as a conversation with God, like a conversation with a family member or a friend. Build your relationship with God so you can build trust in him. God is always there, always around you; seek him. I'm 25 and broke up with my bf just to find out I'm pregnant weeks later. I spent 3 weeks depressed from the breakup; I barely ate. I didn't know I was hurting my baby. 💔 I can never make up for those 3 weeks, but now I've been following God and not my thoughts. I feel more than capable of raising this baby right, strong, and healthy. I advise focusing on keeping your baby healthy and caring for him/her.

[@Richgirlshana305]

Sending love ❤️ 💕

[@fearlessanaa]

Love this ❤

[@Heavin_]

Try baby powder for the underarms and other areas you sweat talc-free of course

[@MinimalisticLifestyle333]

Where are those glasses from?? Love them ❤

[@joliemypsel7744]

🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@vee7747]

Single mom by choice is a whole new community. KZbin it.

[@StephiTheLight]

Girl everything that you said I can attest to - my story is very similiar to what a lot of Moms have mentioned. I was in a relationship, this man ASKED me to have his baby, he wanted me to be his wife etc. As soon as I got pregnant and started asking the hard questions (I wish I would have done before) about where will we live? Are we going to buy a house? Lets fix our credit this man says we need a reset and he was going to live back with his parents. He wanted to save. Now I get an email last night (cause he's blocked everywhere else) that he is going to start entertaining other women. No crib, little dick, tight with his money, but yet has time to entertain other women. I'm hurt but also not because I'm literally not missing out on anything its just ego thats bruised because the MF audacity. Also, when the baby is born of course I won't stop him from seeing his child but just being attached to this man forever is like plaguing my mind...but I am trying to shift gears from focusing on him and focusing on my baby. Much love to all of y'all and sis thank you for this video I definitely feel less alone. 🥰✍🙏

[@C4coolkay]

thank you for real

[@SB-uv3my]

Love this.🇯🇲

[@kalinsage1]

I just found out I’m pregnant I have 2 kids 12 & 6 I’m so embarrassed this will be my 3rd baby daddy I thought I was being safe Nobody’s gonna want me I look like trash on paper My whole life has been rough and I let that excuse a lot of my mistakes I want to keep the baby but I’m single , he left me a few months ago and I JUST FOUND OUT yesterday

[@nessforbes7400]

I be feeling bad till I see someone got it worse than me damn lady. Omg. Sorry u going thru that mom 😢

[@cee9521]

Keep being positive and don’t give up, it’s not going to be easy but it will be worth it❤

[@xiv69]

I hope everything will be fine

[@Axrespes]

@@nessforbes7400that’s such a terrible thing for you to say. I mean to make yourself feel better by bringing this woman who is obviously hurting down

[@Axrespes]

@@nessforbes7400we are all human. We make mistakes but God, if we turn to him, is always willing to make them for the better. Good.

[@jatonblackmon1224]

❤❤❤

[@wallace245ful]

Why’d you leave him I’d love to see an interview with him

[@shakqwuiy]

💙💙💙

[@Denzelswife-rb7qz]

its 2023..my granny had 8 she didnt have time to be depressed lol being a single mom in some cases is a choice..let these men prove themselves and make an honest woman out of you before you commit to give him your body and a baby ...yes, I was a single mom, i didnt use protection i lost his dad when my son was 10 yrs old...i had my share of tears but that was the last and only child i had lol hes 34 now and i took custody and raised my nephew at 9 months old hes 20 now only by the grace of GOD !! if we put GOD first in these marriages most work ! you cant make excuses for not marrying God honors marriage ....

[@RoyalLawYeshua]

I found myself pregnant again by my son’s dad. He isn’t going to help. My baby boy is almost 2 and I have all the worries of keeping the baby can you guys give some advices of how to manage this situation

[@kbatayy]

Don’t ever get pregnant until you’re pregnant next time ❤

[@GetSlappedPlease]

Thanks for this vulnerability

[@beatrizmojica19]

Omg can we be friends in real lifeeee

[@damesha14]

Girl what 13?

[@fitzgeraldsemelfort3938]

This is crazy marry before you carry

[@Acewilliams225]

another girl on youtube said that if you get pregnant young and you catch it early then to get an abortion. do you agree with this or disagree?

[@dalerikajohnson]

❤❤❤❤

[@Chev33]

❤❤