二姐说话的时候,华晨宇为了掩饰自己的情绪就吃薯片,好心疼。。。孩子2-5岁时是建立安全感和健全人格最重要的时期,这个时期如果缺乏父母的陪伴,终其一生心里都会有一个巨大的黑洞,过了2-5岁这个重要时期,任何的关爱陪伴都无法弥补这个黑洞了,这个黑洞会伴随华晨宇的一生,并且影响他对亲密关系的解读和处理。一方面渴望亲密关系,同时又害怕亲密关系,所以,他以后如果恋爱结婚,都会有一些心里障碍,不会很顺利,所以其实我是觉得他应该再晚一点儿结婚生子,经历更多一些,心态更平和一些的时候,结果会好一些。幸运的是,他天生具有强大的内心,和对人性深刻的洞察力,能够自我化解一些内心的纠结,尽量心平气和的去接受这些无法改变的现实。是的,接受现实比改变现实确实需要更大的勇气和更强大的内心。God bless you !
Dear Star Xin, such an excellent observation and comment! hope that you can also post to Weibo 's Ace vs Ace to let more fans reading your valuable comments , thank you
@starxin73814 жыл бұрын
LY miranda chu Thank you for your reply. Actually I don't use Facebook much, so I am not sure I can post it on Facebook correctly. Maybe you can put on it if you don’t mind? Thanks
@starxin73814 жыл бұрын
LY miranda chu or sorry, you said post on it to the Weibo instead of Facebook. maybe I can try, but I'm not a very good weibo user either. So you can do if you don’t mind and can help me. Thanks