Episode 1.7: Processing Difficult Conversations

You just got through a major argument/outburst/tantrum with your child and you want to have the closing ceremonies- the post-event debrief. But then you approach your child to have that lovely, connected, mutually respectful conversation and it is just not happening. Many of us struggle to find the right time to have those challenging conversations with our kids. Fear not! Dr. Jill and Dr. Roseanne are your trusty companions on this journey. Join us as we unravel the art of timing those tough talks just perfectly and what to say once you’re there.
In this episode, we'll delve into the secrets of identifying those golden moments to broach difficult subjects with your kids. With the expert guidance of our hosts, you'll learn how to recognize the ideal opportunity to initiate these important discussions with your child, because it may differ with each instance and each child.
Once you see a white flag, where should you start? Don’t worry, we have you covered there too. We want you to leave this episode feeling empowered to navigate these conversations with confidence. Together, we'll equip you with the tools and strategies needed to tackle tough topics effectively and sensitively.
References:
Gaertner, S. L., Dovidio, J. F., Banker, B. S., Houlette, M., Johnson, K. M., & McGlynn, E. A. (2000). Reducing intergroup conflict: From superordinate goals to decategorization, recategorization, and mutual differentiation. Group Dynamics: Theory, Research, and Practice, 4(1), 98.
Miller, R. B., & Brickman, S. J. (2004). A model of future-oriented motivation and self-regulation. Educational psychology review, 16, 9-33.
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