The domestic violence thing is a very victim having to save themselves. The amount of times I was made to feel like I was keeping myself in the situation until things came to ahead and I leterally had to run baby in buggy pj's on and went to the social worker I had in care. They literally before I asked said I had to come back the day after cos there was no on duty social workers. Ended up in a refuge but again I had to leave my friends, I had to quit my job while he stayed and did what he always did. We need violence rehab centees not refuges