Episode 2 || Curse of Lavish Weddings in Kashmir || Kashmir Ki Kahaniyan

[@rubayahassan9656]

Behtareen topic . Good work .

[@daniashagufta2338]

Marriages should be simple and should follow sunnah's of prophet mohammad s .a.w .i appreciate your content which is a most need of our society as it builds pressure on both sides ,mostly bride's side.

[@rizaali8220]

In our society adultery has become cheaper than nikah.

[@Dolandtromm]

Marriage won't do anything, an adulterous person never changes, regardless of marriage.

[@macshah9846]

Who is to blame? :)

[@Zahid_deeds]

Jammat ke saath jhudna padhe ga bhai. Kashmir mai bohot behayayi hai, especially in Srinagar.. Meri life change ho gayi Hyderabad mai. Every person has taken a responsibility upon himself to do dawah, attend ijtimas, conferences,.. Every woman wears burqa, covered, modest, even little girls.. Womem and men are separately seated in Buses. Every man wears cap/topi and non western clothes.

[@sumaiyadar1677]

This was very necessary to talk about kashmiri culture.People should understand this not everyone can afford expenses. Poor people like us get stuck nd forced todo formalities.. luxurious kashmiri weddings have become a trend nd everybody gets inspired by them and becomes obliged to spend such expenses..

[@ehsandar5753]

Assalamu Alikum

[@sajadali5459]

Masha allah very interesting topic good work may allah bless u ❤ sister

[@KOMAILSHAANQomailShawn]

Ooo humsafar marriage councelling bite was depth of research and an old days recaptulated of radio kashmir they must be appreciated is doing marvellous job.

[@DanishtaGull-w5y]

This issue must be highlighted... Wonderful initiative 🤞

[@ehsandar5753]

Absolutely

[@Halal_wayz]

nicely addressed, keep highlighting and discussing such social curses ❤

[@mehakyousuf8422]

My Favorite Teacher, Dr. Naira Mam Thank you for challenging me to think critically, encouraging me to pursue my passions, and providing me with the tools I need to succeed not only in university , but in life. I will always remember your dedication, patience, and kindness! I'm so proud to say I learned from you. 🥰

[@nisarhussain444]

Good work... Allah bless you

[@mohammadowaismir5066]

Wonderful initiative

[@zulheramusafir]

nice reporting

[@GZC786Y]

Good program.keep going.

[@MaimonaHamidbutt]

Good job mam. You must visit to hawal.their nikkha is totally simple.they have their own rule for nikkha.like only 4 items in wazwaan.nothing from Dulhan side nothing. Even till now they all are following their rules. Proud for them.

[@foziafarhatbeigh7486]

There are many hidden impacts of lavish marriage culture.. More such videos n more such content is the need of hour.. Our youth is more thoughtful now n they can make a big difference in sha Allah

[@PeerMunazil]

Nice step 1 should think of everyone including poor or middle class Don't go against sunnah or hadees My request to everyone spread this videos to everyone

[@miriqra1894]

This type of content is need of the hour❤❤❤

[@peaceloving1626]

This is a burning issue 🔥😮

[@Sharpedge-d2f]

True esteemed people like Fayyaz Ahmad zaroo sahib is very right and far sighted ulema. We need to reconstruct our society on the right path

[@Asiyajan-n5k]

Good step

[@Maryamm.]

Wow really appreciated ❤

[@MEHNAZAYOUSUF-x5z]

You people are doing very good job....

[@mhg2847]

Salute to ur efforts ❤❤

[@MubashirAhmad-r9r]

This needs to be forwarded and spread awareness regarding this serious issue. If u can afford this doesn't u cross the limit

[@craftswithzoya9639]

Awesome concept

[@readeradc405]

Good Work. Keep it up. God bless you.

[@Bismarehman-k4t]

Very nice content❤

[@darshazia7181]

Omg mehak.. Good job.. Dear❤

[@burhanbhat0214]

Finally some took stand against it😢

[@Rozyarehman7]

Much of this lavish is driven by percievd mindset n social expectations rather than personal desires nd likings ,causng unnecessary stress among peopl ,,,, display of wealth has become increasingly common ,..leading to competition among kashmiris...To conclude Best Marriage iz one which is easiest😊....

[@mohdyousuf7455]

Finally kisi nai baat ki

[@shaziarashid15]

Worst ever weddings nowadays extreme extravagance in terms of food, decoration and other expenses really disgusting It's great to highlight such issues which are menace

[@malickramsha2110]

Right ......chlo ksi ne baat tou ki ...KYA KARI KORI MOEL ....NARAS DEYA NARI MOEL 😢😢 ..(My fvrt Maria ma'am ❤)

[@Pppttsqrtttmmn]

And what about the demands from girl side ,govt nokri gasii aasun yeh kya eeman aur sunnat ka hisa ha yeh ladeeni and dunivaiye laalch hai isliye nikah nhi horhay

[@quratulain9424]

So true ....

[@AsifBanday]

Great work money sadka karna chaiye jis ka pas zada ha

[@AsifBanday]

This content need of time 😊❤

[@Mrunknownknown]

1. Nikah simple hona chahiya 2. Nikah 18 to 25 age mai hona chahiye 3. Music should be stopped in weddings only duff

[@bhatrubi1574]

100% Right😢😢😢😢😢

[@Choompla]

The best video ever made cuz this is a social cancer.....

[@youtubegirl273]

Right daulat ke namoish

[@GowharAhmadBeg]

Nice to hear this programme. But no body has the real solution.

[@shezanpathan6526]

Lavish weddings have become a curse in Kashmir, draining resources and overshadowing the true essence of nikah. Instead of hosting 200 guests and spending extravagantly, couples should focus on simpler weddings and invest in meaningful experiences, like traveling the world together. In a time when adultery seems cheaper than marriage, it’s crucial to uphold the sanctity of nikah by prioritizing love and simplicity over societal expectations. Correct me if I’m wrong

[@merekhayaalsay]

3:58 yes we as Pakistanis are also accursed with luxurious weddings and extreme riyaa. may Allah protect us from these practices. ameen

[@bintqamar]

Sirf masjid me nikah pado or dulhan ko ghr le jaao apne sath not even ladki walo ke ghr pr chai bhi nhi . Islam ne ladki walo ko 1rupee bhi nhi kharch krne ko bola nhi h. That's how our beautiful Islam made marriages simple. But we made it complicated nd just for showoff..

[@manzoorahmad6257]

Proud of you mohsin.❤

[@sehreenakbar5046]

Keep it up❤

[@bintqamar]

Usually these type of marriages end up into divorce. Aisi shadiyo me koi barakat nhi hoti , jisme haaram kaari or biddat shamil ho. Barkat to sirf saada simple wale nikah me hoti h, I've seen couples jinhone simple nikah kiya vo aaj boht khush or sukoon ke sath zindagi guzar rahe hain.

[@bimladhar6575]

💯 true

[@IrshadAhmad-mr8hb]

Jazakallah

[@alinatasneem1]

Nice video!

[@servantofislam313]

Alhamdulillah we shia are doing work for this dowry system.. it should stop after that we will lose our beautiful culture 👆👆

[@EMAAN-R18]

Jazakallah brother for bringing up this topic, which is so much required... I don't know why kashmiri wants to change their ethnicity, i wish these foll fellows will understand that kashmir has beauty in simplicity This all creep thing is not for our society n culture as kashmiri are not earning in lakhs monthly Even if that's the case , still this all is lanath.. And bahir ja k khudko aise bolty hain ,hum kashmiri hai we are so relegious.😢😢😢

[@yasirarfat2716]

Jitna sunnat se dur hunge utni Allah ki laanat utregi

[@Pppttsqrtttmmn]

Nobody talks about the demands from the Girls side ,inko Eeman and yakeen he nhi rab pay ,inko barosa ha Toh Govt ki bokri pay . Kirdar say yeh Compromisee kar rahy hai ,lekin Paise and paishy say nhi . Jisko yeh job security ka naam dai rahay woh laadeeni ki pehly manzil ha ...

[@khadimsuhail857]

Dil k bat bole apne lkin ispe koi bat nii krta hai

[@313SoulsOfBadr]

This shows the beauty of Islam aur kis tarah Islam sab ka deeyan rakhta hai gareebo ka bhi ameero ka bhi

[@RAvani-in5cf]

The main reason for this shit is doctors marrying doctors, professors marrying professors etc. My mom is at high post and my father left his job and give it to a very poor man. This is very common in our family. If two are doing job then one left .

[@aliyarashid5912]

Sahi sahi

[@basrajehangir198]

There are other reasons too like boys being unemployed in our society and not taking their career seriously. Nobody wants to see their daughters suffer after marriage atleast basic necessities must be met. Secondly, the demands from boys side of the family is also a big issue. Thirdly, this social media has ruined our mind set everyone around us is in a “relationship” which has f**ked up peoples perspectives about a partner in comparison to the people back in 90’s.

[@ZahidEhmad-vs6dx]

No that is nt the case . Everyone tries to make sure that he earns as much as he can help his family get going. But girls have turned into more greedy ones . Even if a boy is well mannered n earns sufficent to feed his family, the girl still doesnt let her ego to agree upon this. Moreover , the parents on either side have sick mentality, paricularly from girl's side. i have seen n observed it myself, thiugh there r exceptions.

[@Nazimabashir567]

Naira maam humko oe padhati hai 😊 university mein

[@Rosiey9]

What about bride and groom pay for there own weddings

[@positivevibes7442]

Aakh mindset Diya hai society nai ke Jo cheezai shaddi kai time ladke ko milai Ga woh phir nhi mil sakta ...this is the reason ladke kuch fazool cheezai lati hai aur jahan aakh Cheez LAGai ge waha doh lati hai 🤦🤦🤦

[@Maryamm.]

Yup😂

[@zeeshanmir8397]

100 dishes?

[@WaseemLone-k5i]

Bilkul sahi fazool karchi musibat hai

[@313SoulsOfBadr]

Meri har time mere papa se isse baat par ladai hoti hai, i knew this when i was about 23 hope sab samjhe khaas kar wo jo well off hai to set an example

[@yousufmunazah4433]

I’ve heard some people saying that when someone is rich, they tend to spend money on lavish weddings. So, why are the poor trying to compete with them? Let me explain, my dear, that the society you live in has certain norms, and these norms have been followed for generations. Being part of this society means you have a social responsibility to adhere to these traditions. If you feel the urge to break away from these norms and you happen to be wealthy, you can choose to settle in countries where such behavior is considered normal. P.S. - Think before you speak.

[@SD-vh9pr]

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[@Sadiyabhatt__]

The tradition if weddings we had. Love, brother hood amazing ng neighbors used to be more prioritised over theykeh theykeh. If not that simple ,Let weddings be atleast that simple we used to have. Women folk singing and blessing(this way we had a hold upon our culture and tradition) i'e wanwun. In the awe of dj's our new generation lost the interest and love for our culture and language. Wazwan, the only prevailing authenticity in our culture is being filthed by bla bla. The pherans embroidery we used to be a source of income for kashmiri artisans. Since we stepped towards belly button revealing lehengas the elegance of heritage us lagging behind,,,, heritage is at verge of extinction due to multiple visible political forces that have been in play since decades now at this time if we went for the outside lavishes the essence of kashmir will be completely lost!!!!! To think about these matters we won't recieve angels from neighboring places we have to take steps for safeguarding the heritage by our own...

[@learncommerce00122]

Kya kahay gai log sab sai bada rog .Allah ko razi karni ki koshish karo na ki logu ko

[@firdoushanief1886]

This is because people don't know the real meaning of the marriage that is why the divorces are common because of this immodest culture

[@sheen3865]

Good initiative but all depends up on us Kashmiri’s we should stop these lavish weddings... It should be very simple…honestly speaking I am personally very scared about my marriage

[@quratulain9424]

Yeh sb nhi bdlny vla yhaa ....

[@bintqamar]

Ham kyu bhool jaate h ki ham muslamaan h hamare liye ideal Islam h nabi saw ki sunnat h hame usi ko follow krna h. Lekin nhi hame sirf dusro ko follow krna h bs

[@SheikhHumaira-n4u]

Hum na in se contact kiya....humsafar...... Wahn pa inhoo na bola ladka kya job karta hai kaamata hai ki nhii... It z gud but Allah says... Do nika and i vill make u ganiii.... Yeh iss pa amal kartay hai...

[@bimladhar6575]

Idar udar ka paisa bahut a gaya hae

[@ulfatmuzamil9195]

It is all bad think about poor families...

[@Hidden99919]

Culture destroyed hoo Raha hai planing k through

[@nazneenakhter3228]

Totally wrong...

[@junaidshafi5453]

Kaeshir peth krzeha kath ye bihear zabaan cha zaroori

[@damkhan13]

Its very unfortunate that u cant translate english from the news paper head line srinagar mein nahi kashmir ke baat horahe.. U r obsessed with srinagar.... N the reason is not extravagant marraige but the methodology used to get results is flawed. Due to insurgency we lost 100 thousands boys(mostly) in last 3 decades n their lies the reason. Agar thodi budi hoto use karu.... Sirf ladkiyan he kyun rehjati hai who ladkay kahan hai.... Kabrun mein hai..... Shayadi data collection methodology ko sudar na ke zaroorat hai 49 age consider karu ga tu data hamesha skewd mela ga. Only thing i liked about this video is the imam sahab he is beautiful soul.

[@sofirubeena2514]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Maryamm.]

What , ap has ku rahe ho ?

[@ulfatmuzamil9195]

I wish yeh sb kuch band hota

[@safiakhan498]

I think it's ones personal choice to spend as much as we want. If a person is rich why wouldn't he spent? If a person is not financially stable he must refrain from spending money on unnecessary things. Simple.

[@Sharpedge-d2f]

You have a very narrow vision.. you can afford drug it's still a menace

[@uzaifakhan07444]

It's about lavish weddings doesn't have the barkat nd the weddings which are done simply those are blessed by Allah

[@Altoff1313]

Why no one is talking about 5 star mosques being built in every corner of kashmir. When god wants 5star mosques why can humans not want luxury. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Divaj3127]

In Islam, the concept of worship and connection with Allah (God) is not limited to physical structures or grand mosques. In Islam, Allah is considered to be omnipresent, infinite, and beyond human comprehension. Therefore, the idea of needing a grand mosque to connect with Allah may seem paradoxical. Mosques play a vital role in Islamic communities, serving as centers for prayer, education, socialization, and charity. They provide a sense of belonging and unity among Muslims. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) emphasized the importance of humility and simplicity in worship. He even performed prayers in simple, unadorned space.The Quran teaches that true worship is about cultivating inner purity, sincerity, and devotion, rather than focusing solely on external rituals or grand architecture. So assertion is totally illogical and is based on your wicked perspective. it is a problem with the people of every religion that they are building grand architectures for worship. Moreover in islam whole earth is a mosque for you. u can pray wherever you can if space is pure...

[@rayeeseconomics]

Andbhakt chukh

[@Divaj3127]

@@rayeeseconomics cxe ayaa samaj be kya aouses ems wanna

[@Sahilkhan-jd5fz]

Allah sbak dega aise logo ko gunah hai levish marriages

[@drgullati7267]

Is mein ghalat kya hai , jis Kai pass paise hai wo kharach kare, jis ke pass nahi hai wo mat karein, who r u to decide their morality?

[@uzaifakhan07444]

But our prophet saw has preached us to do simple nikkah nd usually jinki lavish weddings hote hai unka divorce hojata hai I m not talking about everyone it's actually about the barakat factor the weddings which are not lavish those weddings are blessed by Allah

[@khadimsuhail857]

Our so called maulanas are not talking about such serious issues...

[@Fatima_binte_Hussain]

"May Allah's curse be upon those who waste money and leave the poor to suffer. Our Prophet Muhammad's (peace be upon him) Sunnah is the best, and simplicity is the best. There's also blessing in it. That's why their marriages end in divorce after 2-3 years, because there was no blessing in the marriage from the start."

[@kritikabhatt8641]

And pakistani copy bollywood

[@Zab.Kashmiri]

Iam 26 year old unmarried iam happy girls love rich boys 😢😢😢😢😢😢😂😂😂 mein shadi kabhi nahi karo ga