Episode 245: The Secret to Getting Everything You Want: Archetype Embodiment

Ready to step into the best version of yourself to reach your goals and achieve your dreams? It’s time to meet your alter ego and transform your life!
In today’s solo episode, I’ll teach you how to harness your inner alter ego to upgrade your habits, make smart personal investments, and use archetypes to achieve your dreams.
I also talk about…
- How to identify your personal archetype
- Affirmations and rituals that will help you step into your alter ego
- Ways to transform into your dream job, lifestyle, and social life
- How to close the gap between who you are and what you want to be
- Embracing growing pains and unlocking new versions of yourself
Catch up on these related episodes:
- Episode 240: Your Summer Glow-Up Plan: How to Become Your Healthiest, Hottest Self open.spotify.com/episode/4mxcDNQP4Ddx4sonjoLECb
- Episode 236: How to Become Your Highest Self: Essential Glow-Up Tips with Jaz Turner open.spotify.com/episode/0HPFspTINLG6lsRIULX9cy?si=c0LUe4C5TmqLURdDxnoVAg
RESOURCES:
• Subscribe to my Substack, Balance with Les balancedles.substack.com/
• Read “The Alter Ego Effect: The Power of Secret Identities to Transform Your Life by Tom Hermanamzn.to/4cFj6Vh
• Read “The New Rules of Lifting for Women: Lift Like a Man, Look Like a Goddess by Lou Schuler amzn.to/3xRy77e
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[@airesesotericos]

That moment when you read an old journal and the dreams come true ❤❤❤❤❤

[@BalancedBlackGirl]

🥹🤎

[@jonellesm]

Starting the journey and commenting here to mark the spot I can look back at when I get there. Didn't know what to expect from the video's title, but you touched on every point that I needed to hear, at the time I'm receptive to hearing it. I feel like I finally get what I've been trying to understand for a while, like several abstract concepts converging into something I can apply (realistically) day to day. Thank you.

[@dreday8526]

"Embrace the awkward moments and don't fear them" is super motivation, thank you.

[@tionnemcneill5230]

This is so relatable! Thank you!!

[@martiag9389]

Absolutely loved this episode!

[@CoachDeeVa]

This is deep!!! So I opened up my notebook and girlllll🤣🤣 the last thing I wrote is a description of starting what my new identity looks like 🤯 basically the same thing you’re talking about here! I need to start opening my notebook more🤣 I’m starting the book, I’ll be writing what my “alter ego” looks like. Still building her ❤

[@martha4382]

I’m so ready to unlock my inner Sasha fierce ❤️‍🔥

[@BalancedBlackGirl]

Yessss

[@DomoisDivine]

I really enjoyed your perspective and I’ve realized I have my archetype already. I do believe that the foundation of who I want to be is the same across all parts of my life. I am still going to dive into each area and see how I how my archetype evolves. I can’t wait to really write in depth about this.

[@BalancedBlackGirl]

@@DomoisDivine love that! Sounds like you’re well on your way 🤎

[@Pocketofsolshine]

Les you Queen! Just in time for- I was laid off from my job yesterday and was just in such a low mood about life but this episode… was everything thank you 🙏🏾

[@BalancedBlackGirl]

I'm so sorry that happened, getting laid off feels terrible. Sending you so much love as you navigate what's next!

[@Iam.MayaKeila]

I had to come on here to let you l absolutely loved this podcast. I've listened to many different podcast, but this partcular episode was so perfectly fleshed out. Like, you talked about things that are in my head daily - like, I know these principles - but I struggle with putting them into consistent practice -- BUT hearing you talk about it, talk about how you are your own dream girl basically, inspired me so deeply that I listened to it at least 7 times and I sent it to all of my friends. I pray you keep going. Oh, I love the solo epidoes - clearly - but I also LOVE your interviews. Looking forward to a nice balance of both.

[@BalancedBlackGirl]

@@Iam.MayaKeila love this so much 🥹 thank you for the kind words. So glad this episode spoke to you!

[@veritysixduchess1860]

Baby girl, congrats on the sponsorships! Another great episode, you have literally provided me with gratitude moment.I get lost improvements ways not taking time in really recognise all the achievements lol Thank you and love from London

[@BalancedBlackGirl]

Thank you so much!

[@kharissalove]

First and foremost, so proud of you Les for staying strong and reaching your archetype goal!! That is such a win 🥳 Also love that you are doing your own promos!! Entrepreneurship is going up for you 🤩 I really loved this episode and affirms the energy I have been feeling and how I wanted to start my week. I’m definitely going to embody my wellness goddess for now because I was truly trying to do it all! But I’m excited to continue the work I’ve already been doing and embodying the consistent woman I know I can be ✨

[@BalancedBlackGirl]

@@kharissalove thank you so much for the love! That wellness goddess energy looks so good on you 💕

[@LeahLuxe]

Love this video thank you so much🥰💗 perfect to hear I just finished a 30 day cleanse and realized I am closer to where I want to be! This video has helped me I will now turn it up a notch 😇😇😇😇

[@BalancedBlackGirl]

Realizing you're close to where you want to be is an amazing feeling!

[@marquistumpkin4745]

a leoooooo!!! instant subscribe

[@kirsyxi]

So good, I love the idea of an archetype 🤎

[@BalancedBlackGirl]

@@kirsyxi 💕💕💕

[@MsAggie2012]

Loved this episode

[@BalancedBlackGirl]

Thanks for tuning in!

[@daniellekelly2266]

Girl. You know how you can hear something 100 times and you understand it, but you don’t get it? Until you hear someone say it and then you suddenly DO? I get it. Thank you! ♥️

[@BalancedBlackGirl]

@@daniellekelly2266 so glad! 💕

[@SimonSuh]

thank you for the video!

[@teezy8736]

This episode hit my soul.

[@BalancedBlackGirl]

@@teezy8736 💕💕💕

[@kadijhastrong8787]

Omg I have struggled with make friends like I use to be the kid who would go up and talk to people but overtime I started being kind of awkward but I'm growing to be okay with it I feel like I always give off of sweetheart vibes but I'm also I have to protect my energy

[@zoenichole999]

I love this, thank you 🩷

[@BalancedBlackGirl]

@@zoenichole999 thanks for tuning in!

[@ebonichanelKey]

Did you feel like you built a better community by creating spaces where you could have better relationships with people and the people you wanted to surround ypurself with? I have a hard time with this currently. I really enjoyed this episode, and i am loving this solo series!

[@BalancedBlackGirl]

Yes, that's something I'm still working towards. Thank you so much!

[@jossly21]

What do you use for skin care?

[@MissAnn544]

Is there a way to get this without the commercials? I have a Premium KZbin membership specifically so that I don't have to see commercials while watching a video.

[@BalancedBlackGirl]

@@MissAnn544 those are separate from KZbin ads and make it possible to do the show. producing quality video podcasts is really expensive for us. We really appreciate your support! 🤎

[@egyptlane9357]

❤❤❤❤

[@rachaelmolene]

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