Episode 44 | Parenting advice | Comment Responses | Near Death Experiences |

[@sanelen_]

Found you guys from Tiktok and I had to come and check you out. NEW subbie and I'm staying. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH❤❤.

[@siblingthrivalry]

thank you for the love! Welcome Welcome to the Sibling Fam 🥰

[@aussiethemba]

Same here. and ndizilanda zonke iEpisodes till 1🤣

[@takalani3367]

Same same 🎉🎉😂😂❤❤they are such a vibe

[@XHOSASOUL]

This is what radio should be, and this what they think they are and they are not it. You guys always make my week, ndihleka oko😂😂😅, thanks for the relatable content👌

[@siblingthrivalry]

Our pleasure!

[@itsyourgirltee3754]

Topic ideas: a) breaking the news to your friend that their partner is trash b) are we ready to be the new adults - we dont even know funeral and wedding songs c) black tax e) unrealistic relationship expectations

[@siblingthrivalry]

love, love love the suggestions. thank you so much - as we add them to the list :)

[@nonnymbathane7897]

One of my favourite quote: “Boundaries are the distance at which I can love you and me simultaneously.” By Prentice Hemphill. I think the ways boundaries have conventionally been explained or perceived, is from a difficult place. Seeing it as loving yourself and the other brings a sense of humanity.

[@Sibusiso-d5n]

Your Tiktok clips landed me here! I love you guys

[@siblingthrivalry]

Thank God for Tik Tok and thank Him for you too 🫶🏾

[@sandramkumbuzi8648]

Sesiyi 5000 ngoku siyakhula sana and I'm here for it❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@siblingthrivalry]

Siyi 5000 !!! Can you imagine! 🥳🥳🥳😭 thank you guyzini!

[@akhonaposwayo]

❤❤❤

[@VoVo551]

You guys are really doing the most. I love it here!

[@siblingthrivalry]

Love to hear it - thank you for the love! ❤️

[@phyleedelphia5052]

My mom has only ever asked me to get a qualification. She didn’t care what it was. I’ll always be super grateful to her for that. Although I chose Performance Art (and currently work in a completely different industry) It was the process to endure and finish school that lead me to want to do better in life generally. I now want to study on my own, not because I need to please my mom but because her request for me to study all those years ago, built a foundation of wisdom I never would have gotten anywhere else.

[@Mimi_07139]

New subbie here , straight from Twitter❤️. Love love you guys

[@sikelelwa_]

Been here since the very first episode. I’m so proud of the growth. It’s finally this channel’s time🎉

[@zingisantwana8733]

Also, outside is expensive!! 😭

[@siblingthrivalry]

Outside is sooo expensive… yhu, when out uhlala ukhuza oko

[@Matt_N03]

Ran from your Tik Tok videos to KZbin ❤ followed instantly. Love you guys ❤

[@siblingthrivalry]

You are a star! ⭐️ we appreciate you 🫶🏾

[@ningidavies979]

Thank you so much guys. Been crying all day lost my Dad. You guys have made me laugh. I only found you 2 today on reels. Thank you ❤

[@talithatravels3832]

So sorry about your dad honey. Glad we could help in some way❤

[@plee8686]

Back when we had the insta lives sasibizwa nge 'thrivers' but 'blings' has a nice ring to it

[@siblingthrivalry]

BLINGS! oh yes!

[@Natjhili]

I saw short clips of this podcast on tiktok , I am hooked 🥰. Been catching up from old episodes and I'm here now. I love the energy here, it's love, funny and just engaging on all things relevant 👌. I'm gonna tell my brother about this podcast 😊

[@siblingthrivalry]

Welcome aboard!

[@siyamthandafrans5116]

I'm convinced "siloni" comes from cyclone which is a system of winds rotating inwards to an area of low barometric pressure, with an anticlockwise (northern hemisphere) or clockwise (southern hemisphere) circulation; a depression... because what says crazy like air moving in a circle.

[@tabilelandu4612]

Why ndiyiva lento uythethayo Siyamthanda? 🤣🤣

[@siphonjena7415]

😂😂😂this makes sense

[@siblingthrivalry]

Hahahahhaa we will definitely accept that! Hayi jonga infact we can’t be convinced otherwise 😂 love it!

[@nosicelomarele3438]

I love how Talita fills TaMzubela’s cup😊😊😊 oh uyamncoma maan umntana wakowabo❤ it’s beautiful to watch

[@nonnymbathane7897]

Education on your neck is hilarious! 😂😂😂I honestly didn’t know people did this. I would be petrified 😅

[@CyaMatomela]

I'm glad i found this page, and i have finally caught up with the episodes. So authentic, so refreshing, so relatable. Thought provoking, feel good content. Enkosini bantase.

[@tokozilembadamana7233]

Abazali the rents😂😂😂 “lento nje incinci”. Mine wanted me to do nursing and I put both my feet down! My grandmother and her older sis were nurses, mama is a nurse, ndathi yhuu it ends with her sana… Mabangandifaki🙌🏻 I love the channel and enjoy the conversations❤️ The laughter sends me🤣🤣🤣 all the time! Keep up the beautiful work guys.

[@siblingthrivalry]

Not it ends here. 😂😂😂 how did that go down? Have you been forgiven yet? Thank you thank you for the love we appreciate you 🫶🏾

[@tokozilembadamana7233]

@@siblingthrivalry basashwabula nanamhlanje 😂 “ukuba wawenze i-nursing ngekungenje”. Such bullies😂

[@siyabz]

Umhlola = great happening = almost something like a phenomenon

[@siblingthrivalry]

Nazo! Couldn’t have said it better 🙏🏾

[@aussiethemba]

06:57 I started working from home during covid, and later got a fulltime remote job. The only moment I leave the house is going to the airport for fieldtrips. The way I've become so comfortable just being at home, I even buy groceries online. OUTSIDE freaks me out. Humans have become a mess! 😁

[@AllAboutMbasa]

You guys can talk about things we’re all experiencing in our adulthood collectively (amongst friends & family), especially in this economy.

[@siblingthrivalry]

things such as? heheheh we are asking for abit much neh? hehe

[@AllAboutMbasa]

@@siblingthrivalry Not really yazi. There’s so many things actually but I do think as other people watch your show (including myself), there will be interest from the audience on the things people want to hear from you guys. For now, I also don’t know as much as I love yapping. 🤣😭

[@aussiethemba]

@@AllAboutMbasa 🤣😂🤣😂🤣 Its the last sentence for me...

[@vuyolwethuntabeni9262]

Loving the colour coordination siblings!😊❤ Sihlekile, safunda and once again, as always, this was a great episode❤❤❤😅

[@nosiedyantyi-mwanda6694]

Ndiyanithanda nina maani! Zuko reminds me so much of my brother. Talita has that beautiful and authentic Mafungwashe aura,I love it. May the channel continue to grow.❤

[@siblingthrivalry]

From your lips to Gods ears! Thank you thank you so much - we appreciate you 🫶🏾

[@itsyourgirltee3754]

Rha ndiyanithanda!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 being so far from home you guys remind me of the time me and my siblings and cousins sit over the December holidays just laughing!! just subscribed will be binging your episodes for the next 43 days 😅😅😅

[@siblingthrivalry]

my on my what a lovely 43 days it will be hahaha. so glad to have been found by you! looking forward to sharing many more laughs with you. :)

[@LihleM1]

This randomly popped up in my feed and I subscribed in the first three minutes of watching it, I hope you guys are on Spotify and other podcast apps.

[@mindofsi]

I love fridays!!

[@siblingthrivalry]

As much as we do!!! 🫶🏾

[@siyabz]

@ 24:06 Talitha nailed it with the "hata" = "zawtsha" 😂😂😂😂 baba language on point

[@siblingthrivalry]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 unbelievable scenes !

[@andiswanomvete8799]

wow, I have level 1 and level 2 yeFirst Aid, kodwa when it comes to my daughter veske kubemnyama eboardini. Kodwa for my friends kids, I know exactly what to do.

[@siphokazitau5444]

The conversation on children was so hillarious and true. Ok topic suggestion - death.

[@siblingthrivalry]

Yhuuu Spoky! 🥺🥺🥺 Kuzofuneka siqale siyixoxe le - but ke definitely will put in the suggestion hat. Thank you!

[@priscillamaseko6939]

Tick tok brought me here and i am absolutely loving you guys, ndini thanda manyan' nyan' ❤

[@siblingthrivalry]

Ooohhh we love it for the Tik Tok, welcome to Sibling Thrivalry 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@stheyeni4644]

Had to watch this after watching a cash cruisaders snippet, I'm inlove❤

[@siblingthrivalry]

🙌🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@sithsabamacembe]

Marking the register ♥️

[@siblingthrivalry]

🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@Yolissa.M]

Andihlekanga kangaka throughout the video ohh man you guyz are hilarious beniphi all this time😂😂😂❤

[@Surve-l3f]

Ta Mzubhela has a great sense of humour 😅😅😅😅😅😅" Ohh Ndicimba ilaw degree " Commenting from Germany

[@siblingthrivalry]

Das ist grobartig! Thank you for joining us 🫶🏾

[@MakolaTL]

That time teachers are in school from age 2 to 60.

[@LunikoThompson]

So to this episode,my mother wanted me to be a pilot but I wanted to be a doctor so I had to do it for 3 years and I didn't enjoyed it I was fuckin failing and she didn't understand she was like "no its fine kuzolunga qha wena nyusa ikawusi "yho I wanted to cry 🤣😭😭

[@eleanorfulani]

Imagine finding rats poison in your child’s mouth? It is this reason, that I will continue to unsubscribe to parenting because this is WILD. 😅

[@siblingthrivalry]

super wild! what a horror story, but the child shouldnt die though, i mean its rat poison not child poison. no?

[@Charlie-tj4lz]

My lil bro and I really love you guys. ❤

[@q.7628]

24:06 wow.. Ndaziva ndisithi Thank God for uTalitha.. Hata is uza'tsha.. Iyhu😂❤

[@nomaswazinyawo5642]

Haibo you guys this channel is growing so fast ke now,from 1k to 4k all because uTa Mzubhela took us on his jog?😂😂❤love yall ke sana

[@siblingthrivalry]

😂😂😂😂 yabona 😂😂😂😂 lol

[@TaMzubhela]

😂😂😂 on the floor!!!

[@tandozzzl.o.v.e2113]

😂😂 Nanku ngoku ekhulula iidimasi... Usenzani sana lo bhuti?

[@TaMzubhela]

@@tandozzzl.o.v.e2113anindifuni kanjani kudala ndinijongile 😅🥲

[@Imithandazo12]

Just discovered your channel and I love you guys sooo much🤣🤣🤣💗

[@siblingthrivalry]

🫶🏾 welcome welcome !

[@sibongilematomane2361]

Just subscribed from tik tol🎉🎉🎉🎉❤ oh bantase looooooooooooooove y’all yho

[@siblingthrivalry]

❤️❤️❤️ thank you for the love! 🤗

[@nonnymbathane7897]

I swallowed paraffin when I was 3 years old! My older sisters always remind me of this near death experience 😆

[@luz5835]

😂😂😂😂😂Mna I swallowed I razor blade, My cousins took me to hospital,on our way we bumped into my mom coming back from work Girl looked at us and asked what was happening 😮was told and she kept it moving... Bumped into one of her friends who told us that I must be faced down.And the razor fell... I mean my mom could have told us naye but no not that one,only cared about going home after a long day at work😢

[@nonnymbathane7897]

@@luz5835 wow!!!! This is wild

[@kopanokgabi]

Watching all the way in Botswana🥺🇧🇼 Love Love you guys!❤️

[@siblingthrivalry]

Shout out to Bots! Thank you for the love 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@dollyseptember523]

Argg yall are Hilarious without trying too hard. Andayilarha la segment ye Parenting advice🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣"hata" is soo gerro kodwa

[@Masipatisane]

Ta Zuks ingathi uyacothozisa when getting ready! Uironile and well moisturised, uyanyinyitheka dyan😭😭

[@nokwandamafuya7676]

I love you guys so much 😄❤ Suggestion: When you guys decide to have guest, please invite October the Podcast host. That would be a episode full of laughter.

[@siblingthrivalry]

Sibuhlungu isisu just thinking about it 😂😂😂 thank you for the suggestion - definitely something to be considered 🫶🏾

[@aussiethemba]

20:36 You guys are a mess! 🤣😂🤣😂 A party kubizwe abamelwane nge-'private part'... How private is that?!

[@pamelangqinani9164]

Game changers. Fridays are never the same...fixated on our screens. Sayeka noyodlala nabanye abantwana😅

[@siblingthrivalry]

Right ukufa… enye into bayathanda nodlala rough bona abo yho… 🫶🏾

[@BuhleSiyothula]

Phindani eza topic ze live zaku Insta😹😹😭❤️ My all time favesss! Love your dress Thalithaa!

[@talithatravels3832]

Licebo elo. Thanks for the compliment ❤

[@siwerea]

happy friday, love it here. lmao, uthini uZuko ngeMountain, ayonto encinci 😂😂😂

[@siblingthrivalry]

Yeeeeyi… caba ayondlwana iyanetha sana… imagine - wawunoya wena if you were a dude?

[@thandonkosi2941]

Man i love you guys😍

[@siblingthrivalry]

🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾❤️❤️❤️

[@onkejukuda4657]

Old peeps get lonely and social media keeps them company too as much as it does with us youngins and entertained 😜🎉

[@siblingthrivalry]

True! Actually never thought of it like that. Great insight! 🫶🏾

[@frommyhearttoyoursYNMS]

"4 year olds are always trying to kill themselves" As my 4 year old is jumping from the edge of the couch because yena nguSpiderman 😭😭

[@siblingthrivalry]

Spider-Man Ongena powers! Yhu hayi sana… ngumhlola ka James 👏🏾

[@MbaliMzamo]

“Ok babe what’s the plan “ bhuti zuko -khohlela 😂😂😂😂😂

[@siblingthrivalry]

😂😂😂

[@frommyhearttoyoursYNMS]

James is catching strays😂😂 "umhlola kaJames" 40:32

[@siblingthrivalry]

😂😂😂😂clean!

[@sithsabamacembe]

The Mgidi chat😂😂😂 hayini nina!!! I am thinking about my little brother mhlawmbi he felt this way😂😂😂😂

[@siblingthrivalry]

Uzukhe umbuze would be interesting to hear what he has to say… so many things that happen we take as normal not considering uba what happening in the background

[@masixoleburu2799]

​@@siblingthrivalrysbwl uyiva nami because what you guys were saying in this episode makes sense.

[@khanyazinja]

I swear all Xhosa kids have stories of not listening to parents and it’s repercussions 😂😂😂😅

[@siblingthrivalry]

Big facts!

[@albinaesihle1253]

Not Thalitha saying ungumntu wamdlwabizo😂😂😂😂

[@athi_zikode]

Ungcungcuthekisa = heavily annoying someone by applying some unnecessary pressure. I couldn’t think of one word 😅 Umhlola = unbelievable scene. I feel like it’s something that has a negative connotation so there’s no way uYesu did imihlola 😂😭

[@tokozilembadamana7233]

Kids are always on suicide watch sana🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Could never be my cup of tea✌🏻

[@siblingthrivalry]

The entire time!!!

[@DineoProperties]

Be’nana (Bethuna) mna ndiyanicela nibukele zonke iADS in FULL and press LIKE 👍🏾 so the algorithm can make them popular. And please please send or forward to one person you think should see the video. How can you not want to share this good time. 🖤🤍🖤🤍

[@siblingthrivalry]

Each one reach one - this is beautiful and so helpful to the dream… thank you so much ❤️

[@sinazomcitwa2854]

I keep funing to resubscribe indzeba sinyuse inumbers 😅❤❤

[@thabomomoti5619]

Sizoba Yi10k by the end of January. Trust 🤞🏿

[@siblingthrivalry]

From your lips to Gods ears! 🙏🏾

[@luz5835]

Jan too far...End November ...we are doing good.Only subscribed yesterday sendizifaka phoff😂😂😂😂

[@sivuyisiwetwalo834]

“Ndicela nje undenzele lento incinci” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@siblingthrivalry]

A tiny smallanyana thing 🙈

[@khanyazinja]

19:43 Finding myself ndisenza idegree ye6 years 😂😂. Ingathi indongamele oku kwam because what is this na? So I’d hint towards ideas of changing. Umzali acts like it’s not that hectic. Ayinzima iAnatomy yezilwanyana phofu (Studying Veterinary Science)

[@siphonjena7415]

He looked really good emtshatweni ubhuti wethu kaloku yi-yellowbone version kaTaye Diggs....😂💖

[@siblingthrivalry]

😂😂😂😂 oh siyambongela 🫶🏾 … not a light skinned version 😂😂😂

[@willtodah]

kumandi apha joh! New subbie from tiktok... 🙌🏽🫶

[@siblingthrivalry]

Ola Bhuda! Much love! 🫶🏾

[@khanyazinja]

Ta Mzubhela bruh that I remember at 14:58 upractisiwe soze. On the note 🎵

[@siblingthrivalry]

Hahahaha sikhule ngazo! “The first night when I saw you” oh yhini madoda skhumbuza abantu Bethu 🥲

[@khanyazinja]

As for ufunda unyaka wonke ngathi yiSilon 😂😅😅😅

[@siblingthrivalry]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@VoVo551]

Kubizwabantu....Yhuu aniva man andisayihleki!

[@siblingthrivalry]

😂😂😂🫶🏾

[@ingodwetrust6900]

Ukungcungcuthekisa- to torment someone.

[@siblingthrivalry]

Spot on! 🫶🏾

[@nelisam5359]

Yoh TaMzu ne retex 😂😂. Ndikhumbula ndiphantse ukutya lanto ingathi yityiwa ephuma kwibox yezihlangu😭😭kwa cithwa kwaloKFC kwahlwa with immediate effect😭😭😭😭

[@siblingthrivalry]

😂😂😂😂😂 lanto ibhalwa DO NOT EAT? Yhu hayiiini Nelisa. Yho hayi we are glad you made it sana 🫶🏾 wena kodwa, uyeka KFC uyotya lanto 😂😂😂

[@viwefutshie]

Isn’t ungcungcuthekisa torture?

[@siblingthrivalry]

Straight and two cold one! 🙏🏾✊🏾

[@macDMakganyoga]

A new subbie in the house 🎉

[@siblingthrivalry]

Welcome!!

[@mawandemtongana6768]

uZuku and the different accents 🤣🤣

[@lindiwevezigijana1417]

I love u so much guys ❤❤

[@siblingthrivalry]

🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@lazolabungane766]

Kids are always trying to kill themselves 🤣🤣🤣 Hata AKA uzakutsha... Yup, sometimes you just gotta let them learn for themselves because "hata" no "hayi" does not work simply because kids have inquisitive minds. Ja no shame kids are a handful, tjo!

[@lazolabungane766]

From stuffing things into their ears and nostrils to drinking water from the toilet pit... You'd swear they are really trying to kill themselves or something!!! 🤣🤣🤣

[@talithatravels3832]

Constantly testing boundaries😅

[@lazolabungane766]

@@talithatravels3832 You're right and they will test your patience like nobody's business sanalam... Infact, zii terrorists abantwana ninani!!! 😂🤣

[@nokukhanyabrightness7512]

🤣🤣first time watching and i'm loving the p0tcast

[@siblingthrivalry]

Thank you for joining - we hope you will enjoy with us! 🫶🏾

[@nosiedyantyi-mwanda6694]

Ukungcungcuthekisa could also be "ukumhlalisa ngentsula enye", make someone uncomfortable, abangathi, ungamyeki!😂

[@siblingthrivalry]

For sure… spot on🙏🏾

[@sibongilematomane2361]

😅😅😅😅😅😅😂 ngathi uya silona

[@siblingthrivalry]

Tshiiini ! 😂

[@mantelekhitsane8935]

2 minutes 🎉gulugutho phakathi inside 🎈♥️♥️

[@siblingthrivalry]

Washaaa! 🔥

[@nandelwamnqanqeni2445]

Cava Theme nguGreen today💚💚💚

[@talithatravels3832]

We're telepathic at this point 😂

[@siblingthrivalry]

Literally!

[@fwbvlog]

My parents asked me to marry one of their friends son. I declined but yah neh. Marriage nje for my parents. Lol

[@tabilelandu4612]

Mhlola is an unpleasant surprise 🤣

[@siblingthrivalry]

We’ll take it! 😂 yenza isense gqith!

[@tabilelandu4612]

Watshiswa yi light uyi laaitie 🔥🔥🔥🫰🏾

[@TaMzubhela]

Someone got it !!! 🎉😅✊🏾

[@khanyazinja]

I thought I’m the only one who caught that 😂😂😂

[@siblingthrivalry]

😹😹😹

[@ongezwangotana1400]

My mom like to say “khawundithele xovu xovu ezimpahla mntanam” I mean ukuvasa is not that easy 😂😂😂

[@tokozilembadamana7233]

Andingekhali 😂😂😂😂😂

[@ongezwangotana1400]

Kuvele kuthi mandithi vuleka mhlaba ndingene😂😂

[@siblingthrivalry]

😂😂😂

[@siblingthrivalry]

The drama 😂😂😂

[@siblingthrivalry]

And hand wash at that?

[@tabilelandu4612]

Ungcungcutheka is torment. When something is tormenting you

[@siblingthrivalry]

✊🏾spot on! 🙏🏾

[@sibabalwen]

Oko ndiyihleka🤣🤣🤣Sana ndakbetha mxit " topic plz" , masiqaleni ekuqaleni . Xhosa word for next episode - ukucupha umntu (hayi soze kaloku ebekucuphile, ebekumithi🤣🤣)

[@siblingthrivalry]

Hahahh wild! Love it!

[@azolamgolombane318]

😂😂😂yhooo Zuko Retex bra phooo😂😂😂😂

[@ondelam1234]

Uyadika lo bhuti😂😂😂😂🎉😂😂😂

[@zizonkemasala4855]

Yho ndimane ndijonga akho notification from this channel😭😭I think postani noba kukay'3 ngeveki😅

[@siblingthrivalry]

Zizo!!! Usifuna sifile wena neh? 😅 we are looking to try some things soon though

[@pamelangqinani9164]

❤

[@siblingthrivalry]

❤️

[@nokuthula_q]

😂😂 I don't know what it is maybe it's witchcraft 😂😂😂😂 did I not die

[@siblingthrivalry]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@imangenikani1126]

mama uthi ukuncuncuthekisa is to torture someone. Like umphilisa kabuhlungu

[@masixoleburu2799]

Mna isikolo sindileqa ndingena bhola kuba sindongamele sana😭

[@tabilelandu4612]

Ufanan umzali kuTikTok? 🤣 Maka bone lento ayoyfuna pha 🤣🤣