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[@Rodeowithkaylee]

Love all the honesty! My mom always tells me “Don’t be nervous, the horses sense when your scared or nervous. You feeling scared makes them scared. Remember, trust your horse.”

[@shilohteta2701]

I'm having the exact same problem with my horse. We almost sold him, but we decided not to. We gave him a break for a bit, and now he's doing way better now. I think we both needed a break too, because I would get frustrated with him. Obviously it's not the same for every horse. I'm glad you didn't let go of Tucker, you guys are great! I can't wait for what's coming!

[@goldenyearsacres9163]

Carmella, thanks for your transparency. I'm sure it must have been difficult to be so vulnerable on this platform. Especially since you create training videos & your channel name is equine helper. How brave of you to put yourself out there like this. How awesome that you sought out the help from an outside source. You didn't allow the english/western riding to get in the way of helping yourself help Tucker. That, young lady, shows maturity and humility. Two REALLY good character traits to have. I watch your channel for not only the horse content, but also your personality. I love how you aren't afraid of being a little "goofy," like dressing up in a horse costume, to share some insight on horsey antics. You are genuine, which is what I was looking for in a horse tip channel. One of the 1st videos I watched of yours was you demonstrating how to put a rope halter on a horse. I think it might have been Bella, coat was white, if my old lady memory is working. Anyway, she took off on you before you could get the shoot finished. Instead of editing it out, you left it in. That video played a big part in me subscribing. You're genuine & down right funny at times. There are TONS of horsey channels out there, but few who speak to my needs. I'm not tuned in to see horses & trainers getting it right each & every time. I like the levity. When we can laugh at things that don't turn out like we invisioned, it allows us to take a breath & try again. Sorry for the novel here, just hoping to encourage you like you have encouraged me as a 50+yr old newbie horse owner to not be afraid to try & I see from your own examples that if it doesn't happen on the 1st try, I can allow myself freedom to try again, & laugh at myself when I or my horse aren't perfect in execution.

[@EvilFleesBeforeMe]

Thank you for your honesty, it helps those of us who are afraid of horses, like myself. Im in my 40s now but used to have horses when I was a child. Bad experiences with the horses linked to other abuse gave me terrible PTSD which I never dealt with but just ignored. I was terrified of horses and just stopped riding. 30 years forward and we were given Poppy. A rescue 12 hh pony. The first thing that happened when I held her on the lead one day, was all the body memories coming flooding back and I just stood there sobbing uncontrollably. PTSD is invisible but it is real! I dont know if I ever get over it, but Poppy is very forgiving even though she is a madam LOL Hope you too will heal from your PTSD, take your time and be gentle with yourself and your horse. And pray to Jesus, because He is the only one who can really get rid of our fleshly fears. All the best and God bless

[@luanndavis-jindela3223]

😢

[@denisewineberg3371]

Amen....

[@mushroom.equestrians]

i have ptsd not from horses from a person :D

[@fliecegates112]

This kind of honesty is so needed in the horse world. I've had horses in my life for over 50 years now, with time out for college, marriage and family. I have learned a great deal from your videos, especially about ground work. I'm working with a new, green horse, havo g lost my mount of 24 years in 2021. I can so relate to your experience of getting anxious and, frankly afraid, of a horse. I will hold onto your story of working on you to work on your horse. Thank you.

[@rosie3568]

I asked my husband, "was it after your third world championship title, or after winning World Equestrian Games or the second European champion title.. was THAT when you stopped needing a Coach?" He replied, "Never. You never stop needing coaching" So this^^ this is awesome. It shiws your amazing character, heart of a champion. (Hes multiple time world/european/french champion for Vaulting)

[@debbiejames5670]

Just when I thought I couldn't possibly have more respect for you....I watched this video. You have been such a tremendously practical and helpful horse person to me. "Along life's journey, those souls entrusted to our care will become our greatest teachers."

[@jolenejolene95]

Huge props to you for putting this out there. I have a handful of a horse myself that got worse before it got better. It took years of me finding trainers, vets, etc. to make sure I'M being the better horseman and he's feeling the best he possibly can. It's been a long journey but between me getting myself right, him finding the treatment he needs, AND him being home now - major difference in our partnership and in his temperament. I was exactly in your shoes and many said "sell, sell, sell" but I dug my heels in knowing deep down I hadn't exhausted all my options yet to make that call. Luckily, all that time, effort, money, etc. was the answer as it has paid off. There are times to sell (especially when it becomes dangerous) and there are times to find other solutions. It's important the community know that there is no shame in either. I'm happy for you and Tuck, good job!

[@greygryphon6881]

Thank you for posting such an honest video. One of my biggest Ah HA moments with my own horse journey was realizing I was causing my horse a lot of stress by constantly thinking what I wanted *her* to do. A mindset shift of focusing on myself and what *I* needed to be doing in that moment made a world of difference. It's truly amazing how they can essentially read our minds One of the best things about being an equestrian is that it IS a journey, a life long journey, and I look forward to continuing to grow and learn as the decades go by!

[@nozee77]

Huge respect to you for sharing that story, for not sugarcoating the dark parts of beeing an equestrian. Very touching story. I'm glad you made it and are still a team!

[@gossamerabba]

"I realized I was the problem and had to fix me first" to a lot of people sounds like a cliche but with horses it is 10,000% true. They are so perceptive and can pick up on something so small we wouldn't even think it was a "something". Uber kudos to this young woman for being so open about her journey, I hope it helps someone (or many someones) else.

[@blixten2928]

All animals. Dogs too. Dog trainers don't train dogs, they train people. And, you can get into a vicious circle where your own anxiety that, say, a dog will try to attack (say) other dogs consistently triggers such attacks. That lies behind alot of unsure and therefore "aggressive" dog behavior out there -- stressed, anxious owners. Our poor animals, it's not easy for them!

[@user-jk5ur9dh5h]

Thank you for being so humble.❤

[@lisafraser7446]

Learning to keep your body without tension and hold your hands soft when your scared is hard. Especially after a bad fall ! But it's true our horses reflect us like a mirror. If we reflect fear, our horses react to that. Getting over the first week is a hurdle maybe even a mountain emotionally. But definitely worth it in the end ❤️

[@jodysweeney9181]

Thanks for being so transparent with your struggle. My mare does well in the ring, but when we go on trail, she gets super anxious. It has taken me a while, but I am realizing that yes, she does get more “up” on trail, but I do too. I am not helping her anxiety. Your video reaffirmed this for me. I will be working on myself in this area! Thanks for all your videos and helpful advice!

[@dardenyerkes5757]

I was about to start scraping my pennies together and race to VA to buy Tucker. I am so glad that you got some outside help and things are back on track. It is a very important message, be sure there isn't a horse health issue, don't blame it on the horse, get the help you both need. Something we should consider in all of our relationships.

[@shannandesh]

The EXACT same thing happened to me! I bought my gelding Jan 2022 and the first 7 months were fantastic, making progress together. Then, last July I started getting really fearful and my horse must have picked up on that and he got more fidgety, spooky, and less predictable and my confidence was gone. It’s been a viscous cycle the past six months. I can’t say I’m back to 100percent but getting there. I’ve grown so much emotionally as a rider during this time that I’m almost grateful for my fear backsliding because he caused me to reflect on myself so much more and grow as a person and a rider. Hearing your story makes me feel a lot better so thank you for sharing that!

[@barbvanee3788]

It’s so good to know that someone as experienced as you who has had this horse for so long can be going through this and understand there is always more to learn. I’m glad you guys figured it out and I hope to see you guys as a team for years to come. Take care Carmella

[@Marta-df2hs]

Thank you so much for finding it within yourself to do some reflective work. As you mentioned, oftentimes we blame the horse and we fail to look within ourselves. Horses are a reflection of us and by being open and search what we contribute to the relationship, we learn to be better partners and our relationship improves. Horses are masters at reading body language. They are also wonderful teachers if we allow them to be and get past our ego. So glad you gave Tucker the opportunity by looking deeper. Thank you for seeking help as oftentimes others may see what we are missing. Our horses deserve it.

[@Kevin-jb8do]

Thank you for having the courage to share this with all of us! I am so happy you and Tucker have made it through a tough time.

[@paigemontague4022]

I'm so glad you've shared this! It makes me feel a lot better to know that such experienced riders can still have some super tough times in their riding journey. ❤

[@AmeliaNewcombDressage]

Great message! Love it!

[@nicolecermak238]

Happy you two are still a team.

[@darlenemassey6161]

I don't own a horse but I used to ride when I was younger. Really love watching and learning from your videos. This one has lessons for more than working with a horse. It shows how to be humble and what you might be doing something that stops your forward progress in life. Thanks so much for sharing such an intimate lesson.

[@hillbillylivestock4162]

Good for you! Train the trainer! Thx for sharing. ❤

[@Pippa_Love]

What a beautiful heartfelt video. Thank you so much for sharing! 💖

[@krishnachaitanyajagadam3601]

Thank you for sharing your short tough journey - At the moment I am reading a book named " Building a Truly Accountable, High-Performance, High-Growth Life for Yourself and Your Organization" , listening to you connected many dots for me understanding it better. Thank you once again :)

[@kristynfedich8926]

As a new rider, this was a beautiful video to listen to and watch. Thank you for sharing your vulnerability and honesty ❤

[@shinymoon.digitalart9475]

Thank you for this video. I love the way you reflect about all that, trying to find a solution without giving up, always open to learning new things and accepting that the horse is not the problem. Wich I know is really difficult. You are great 😊❤️

[@HanaTheRussell]

Yes!! ❤ I love this message. When I first got Hana, it was HARD. She was a rescue puppy. My dog from growing up was a rescue too but she had been rehabbed by a foster before I got her and Hana hadn’t. So I really didn’t know what I was getting myself into. (Through no fault of her own) she was so terribly behaved the first couple weeks, and none of the training techniques I used with my dog from growing up were working. I was literally crying in my room every night like “wtf is happening why isn’t this working?” So then my friend told me that Petco does free initial consultations for online dog training (this sounds like an ad lol it’s not) and so I signed right up. And immediately the trainer understood what was happening and empathized with my feelings and we made plans on how to train Hana. And just as you said it was lots of desensitizing and adjusting things on my end. It’s been constant constant work. We still practice things everyday like how to walk away from barking dogs without panicking etc. Good on you!

[@hejjmumper4659]

Thanks for this, really admire your honesty and really like this series.

[@starwalkerranch]

Made me cry. Thank you!

[@christinamuller1741]

First, I am so sorry that there was a break in your relationship with Tucker. Life is pretty crazy. When you look at your horse you always have to step back and into a different zone because it’s not their fault that life is crazy. I’m glad you did a moment to self reflect. I am also very happy to hear that Tucker and you have made amends and are starting a new. Huge fan!

[@JH-qi7fz]

Very interesting to hear the benefits of seeking out trainers of a different discipline.

[@dmm8890]

Did you move back to Virginia? Glad it's working out. ❤

[@nancyzabel-hofstaetter1867]

Thank you for your honesty. I am in a similar situation. You didn't fail, you did it, you came out togetheron the otherside!! Horses have such a big love for us that they take us where it hurts, and where it hurts, we can grow. I am grateful for your channel, please keep it coming! ❤

[@empienaar]

What a lovely video. I find so much value in your videos. Started riding 3 years ago after a 27 year break an your videos guided me all the way. Got my own horse a few weeks ago and I am studying your groundwork videos like crazy. You made a big difference in my life and I am very grateful for the time you put in.

[@Ninjaharlot]

I'm impressed with your commitment to your pony. I'm also impressed with how quiet your lower leg is. ❤

[@sofiasingh4812]

I'm so sorry, you looked so good together

[@cabincreekhomestead761]

Your honesty makes me feel so much safer and gives me the gentle nudge I need to work on myself. Thank you so so much for this important message

[@lacyimes8091]

Thanks for this video. It helped me right now. I just bought a horse 3 months ago, a little 4 year old mare, to finish its training. She just seems like she has gotten worse since I bought her. I thought I was a good rider. I thought could train a new horse. I am working with a trainer and this has given me hope to keep going forward and to work through the hard times. I think the move was really hard for this horse and I just need to give her space to settle in, not get mad at her, and just be calm. Thanks for being vulnerable to help others also struggling!

[@loutalksabouteverything2575]

I'm so happy you are keeping Tucker.

[@westbard1]

I’m going through a rough time with my horse also. He started tossing his head while I rode, in the cross ties, everywhere. After a lot of testing we eventually narrowed it down to a health issue. But while we didn’t know it was a health issue, I consistently got more and more frustrated just being around him. I didn’t wanna do lessons or clinics and I was just completely mentally drained from this horse. He is also HUGE and very strong, and as a short human I can assure you he’s hard to ride and even harder to work with when your not equipped. Though we knew we had a health issue, we are still trying to figure what that health issue exactly is. Both me and my horse were completely over each other. I’m still recovering from the funk, and I really really did want to consider selling him and buying a horse that I could have fun with. It really struck home when I realized how much I actually wanted too. I’m pushing through, this horse is my heart horse and I’m trying to convince myself he’s a blessing in disguise. I’m glad you are doing what’s best for Tucker and you, and hope things get brighter in the near future! ❤️

[@Phoenix13Rose]

Thank you so much for being so real. I'm sure many riders can relate to your recent struggles with Tucker. I only recently discovered you but you've been tremendously helpful to me on my recent journey of independence. Blessed be!

[@kearnsey64]

Wow, how could the Equine Helper need help?? That was a great testimony Carm. Glad things worked out. I'll stay tuned for you and Tuck!

[@applewood_breyers9883]

Thank you for this video! I have been feeling stuck with my horse. I have had thoughts of what if he was better off without me. But I love him to much for me to not change how I am. I get frustrated with him at times like you said. This has helped me feel a lot less alone.

[@HanaTheRussell]

Wanted to make a separate comment for this separate point - I honestly think, for your KZbin channel, Tucker is BETTER than some perfect behavior 100% trained horse. It’s almost impossible to properly demonstrate how to train a new skill on an animal that had already mastered it. You can still go back and show each step. But the animal will perfectly perform each step on the first try. A viewer with their unbroken horse won’t get everything right on their first try. With Tucker having difficulty with some things, your KZbin videos are even BETTER because you can SHOW how to do the troubleshooting. You can show how to step back, reassess, make adjustments to the training plan based on the horses needs, and keep going. That’s invaluable and something you couldn’t get from an already perfect horse.

[@darlenemassey6161]

Great comment. We can learn tons from this channel.

[@farmgirl1560]

Totally agree. Much harder to learn from the "here's one we prepared earlier" horse training videos.

[@zbar19]

Wow that's amazing to share your honesty, Infront of the whole world. And it's okay to have some hard times when riding because no one will ever be perfect at it. Great job! 👍🐎

[@jennifersteiner5777]

Very strong video! Never blame yourselfe for not knowing things. As long as you're willing to learn, everything is perfect :)

[@chitrawalmsley5999]

I am pleased that you stuck it out and that you and Tucker are working in partnership again. He's a lovely horse x

[@thisirishcobcan]

I resonate a lot with this. I would say that it’s important to make sure that a vet is consulted first just to make sure that it isn’t something physical. Not all pain can be seen. With that said, I had a bad fall with my horse. A freak accident which resulted in a broken back. He can be very spooky with me, whereas he is very different with my husband. Horses very much listen to us and when we are tense, they become tense - it then becomes a downward spiral. I totally get it. I’m working on myself and I try to be much more self aware. Very good video.

[@teganmcl]

Love this so much!!! I have a similar issue and trying to work on my emotional state around my horse! Feel seen x

[@chris_versi.403]

I have a 11 yr old quarter horse gelding. When I first got him he was fine, but maybe a year into owning him, I gained many of the signs you developed with Tucker! I thought he didn’t like me anymore and what we had was through so I truly was going to sell him and if it weren’t for my mom (who later turned out to be his person lol), I would’ve. I made the extra step to let my trainer know what was going on and that I was really in a slump. She worked with me for a good while on the skills like you learned and now he and I are good again! Made me sad that I thought selling would be the best way to go, and while I don’t use him as my head honcho any more (he’s now a kids/leaser type horse), we still have a good bond! It’s great that you shared this experience, I’m sure so many have gone through the same dilemma and we as horse people definitely hit those slumps! You and Tucker make for an awesome team and I definitely can’t wait to see what else you guys will do!

[@annettemcnabb3033]

Love your honesty!!! I too ( i have to think most horse people) have experienced what your taliking about. My horse is tb cross and we have had our times!! but i realized he was my best teacher!!!!! He mirrored everything! From my anxiety to if i did or did not execute and exercise correctly i would really look at myself and try and figgure out what i did wrong-it was slow going for a few years but i wouldn't quit and because of that willingness to look at myself he and i are still together-best horse ever! and he's now 22 yr.'s old:)

[@gonetothewild2900]

I felt this with my heart horse. I have been riding since I was 6 but I didn't start getting better at riding until I got my heart horse. About a year of prac practicing, she went from happy and outgoing to this moody, unhappy, not wanting to be ridden horse. She would buck, kick and bite.I couldn't afford a horse trainer. My grandma had always helped. So I went back to groundwork with her and was trying to figure out what was happening. Because I hated riding, I hated spending time with her, I would always get frustrated. I realized that we needed to go back to the basics of riding, if I got frustrated, or she got frustrated we would just walk a lap and try again. After I did that we started getting closer and it felt great, I reflected on myself realizing that horses act how their rider does. I wish I would have found this put sooner, as she passed away recently but I'm glad we were doing good before she passed.💕 Sorry this is so long

[@auntiem71]

Love You and Tucker.❤

[@josephtilseth5002]

I appreciate this video Carmella. I'm pretty sure that I'm the problem with my horse, so I'm trying to figure that out. This gave me inspiration and hope that I can figure it out. It seems like Ulysses reflects some of the more prominent aspects of my personality. Sometimes I find myself thinking critically of him, and I realize that I can say the exact same thing of myself.

[@cindywynne120]

Thank you for your honesty. It’s good to see that trainers go through what I go through. I came to the same conclusion - what’s going on with us is all me. Not him. Glad you two are working it out. So are me and my boy and I look forward to our journey together - finally.

[@erynd2524]

I completely understand. I’ve had similar experiences with my mare and as of yesterday, she had one of her “moments “ and I was flung off her back. I got back on and she was fine. I’m glad you stayed in the fight and got some help for both of you.

[@83annak]

Thanks for your honest message. It means a lot. I wish you a really great time with Tucker. He is a beautiful horse and I‘m very glad you two found common ground again. ❤ And for the record, I had some really difficult times with my mare as well, but I also came to the conclusion that first of all I have to work on myself before getting all frustrated about my horse. She had always tried her very best and in the end it‘s really often enough the human that has to change aka do things differently to make it work. 😊

[@erikaa652]

That must have been really hard, facing the idea of selling your friend. I just overcame a very similar problem. My guy was constantly running with his head in the air and would be super worked up all the time. When I rode him in a different area he would not listen and we would both get very worked up. I switched to western riding and got some pointers from a trainer and we are working so well together now. He and I are so confident together and we both tuest each other now. This was comforting for me to hear and I am so glad you and Tucker are back to being your amazing team!

[@traceylamping8979]

Amazing story. Everyone has been through this - thanks so much for sharing the story. ❤

[@sabinebaron241]

Horses are our teachers ❤😊

[@Artemesia_]

Such an important message. Thanks so much for sharing this.

[@starrpena763]

Thank you for the transparency ❤ I’m new to the horsey world and I love your content, thank you for being here. Forever learning with this big loves 🐴

[@DavoShed]

Great video. Really hard to realise that stuff and harder to put yourself out there and talk about it. Here was me thinking you were both perfect 🤠. If you and Tucker have a few things planed I can’t to hear Tucker’s ideas. :) I certainly get that our animals read us way more than we realise.

[@kimberlyminix9621]

I’m so glad you didn’t sell him! I was tearing up because I thought you were telling me how you were to the point where you sold him thank goodness you didn’t. I love that precious boy and I will buy him if you ever decide. I think he’s perfect as well. ❤❤❤❤

[@equineabi1]

I love this video. Can totally relate with feeling frustrated and anxious then seeing it play out in the horse. I love how you explained everything too!❤

[@alexxxm9757]

So happy you guys were able to work thru the issues!! ❤

[@laurenw1168]

It sounds like you didn't fail in your training per se, you just didn't know what you didn't know. I applaud you for getting help from another angle. Sometimes it's hard to recognize or even admit that we need help

[@lynnm.kleingardner8640]

I so appreciate you! You are helping a lot of folks by sharing this video. I broke both ankles on someone else's horse. I know the fear. (The horse had bolted and jumped a gate and they found me unconscious. Thank God just my ankles broke. I didn't have a helmet).

[@j.elizabeth4621]

I learned training with a dressage instructor -- very studious, very into tools, very into ground work. Then I worked with mustangs and learned how horses become horses. A lot of cowboys need the base knowledge horses are born with -- their brains are totally different than ours, they rely on their instincts, and cowboys need horses that can use their brain to determine the best route, path, how cows or dogs react, etc. I noticed a lot of trainers (western and english) try and use a human methodology and human commands to get their horse to respond how they want. But some trainers really know how to give a horse what it needs in order to be a horse -- that is literally the only thing a horse knows how to be. They keep us so honest. I can't imagine how hard it was to go through this journey with him and share it with everyone.

[@myronschabe]

This was a great video that I appreciate you sharing... Before I say anything else....another thing everyone should check when there horse doesn't seem like themselves: spooky etc. is to get them a lyme disease test...i.e. my poa pony started getting real spooky ( and even shied at a feed bucket - at that point I knew something was off - he got the lyme disease test and his numbers were off the charts - he was treated and got better after that ).. But also, one of things horses always teach us is humility...and no matter what level we are at we be presented with behaviour we don't understand and we have to start looking for new approaches to get thru it...this is universal for certain and is an important life lesson to boot. I do think really commend you for trying to figure it out before selling.

[@Tinatinkin]

Thank you for this video!!!!

[@carriekruse9016]

Yes I definitely noticed it

[@joannesmartens9442]

Yeah, very emotional but real. A horse is feeling much better how you feel on that moment, they notice all. Don't know why, but it's like that. The mutual trust is very important. And you were lucky to meet that man who teached you he's s good horse.🥰

[@bjulias7299]

The honesty! 👏

[@andymcmanus2191]

I really needed to hear this today...Thank you for sharing your story it really hit home with me...I'm super happy it worked out for you too🙂🐴❤

[@kingskand]

I went thru a similar issue when I bought my chestnut mare. Leasing her I had no problems. After purchasing her, I went through some tumultuous emotional issues. She started getting anxiety and bucking and reacting in ways that scared me. I didn't know what to do so I consulted a trainer. I realized it was me and have been working on myself, which is helpful beyond the horse realm. But, yes, the trainer indicated that sometimes a horse isn't a good fit and it's okay to sell if it's better for both of you. However, that is not an option at this point and it's been a huge growth point. 👍

[@danielforrest3871]

Well done.

[@Blitzkid82]

Thank you for your honest words! I think many many equestrians can relate!

[@MysteriousUser1]

I love seeing these kinds of videos. As a teen wanting to become a equine trainer, seeing problems and sulutions is very nice for me. I also love how honest you are with us. Thank you!

[@joannokane8533]

So glad you worked it out 💜

[@kyleeswales]

I had a horse that was really acting up…the one in my profile picture, she would kick and buck and wouldn’t go anywhere when I rode her. I fell off loads and I was about to sell her. Then my horse trainer from South Africa, from Strydom Arabian Stud, where my horse came from she is an endurance Arab. I was the problem and soon I fixed myself and now we jump high courses and ride long distances winning nearly every event. She is quite hot and that didn’t help. I just shared that to tell you to persevere with your horse❤❤luv you

[@jessicat3951]

I am glad you found help! I agree about Western riding having solutions… The thinking came from sitting on and working with a horse all day, on uneven terrain, often in unfamiliar places, away from other horses. In a nutshell you and the horse must trust, depend on each other, and work as a team. Over time I am slowly turning Western. ❤

[@poniesinthemist]

Well done for seeking help and admitting the issue was with your behaviour and not the horse. Very hard to see that when things are not going to plan.

[@Mercury..309]

I wish you much luck making more amends with Tucker!

[@cinderellaatheart9728]

So I had a similar issue with my horse and I'm still very new to riding. She had been a complete Angel for the first year I owned her... but then she started to almost bluff rear and throw her head up... I didn't want to give up on her, after trying many things I found a trainer who worked with her and within 30 days... she had gone back to where she was before, a complete Angel. We are still having small tests but now that I know how to correct her, riding has been so much fun again... But yes people advised to sell her, saying she would turn violent. Do not give up on your horse unless you've tried everything (if you're able to). It's worth the work to have a horse that trusts you.

[@julieforeman8964]

Cheering for you and Tucker!

[@carencrisp4907]

Thank you so much for this video. It’s encouraging to hear! Keep up the great work & fun helpful content.

[@aponinaapu2973]

You inspired me. I watch my horse, we did have bad fall, she was abused before and shes smart and remember all . But just a tiny bit bad mode and i flying down. I am so scare dride her and it was not like this :( but i hear all time how great she is and i know , i need just fin way again :) shes now expecting, maybe that help a little too

[@picklesnoutpenobscott3165]

Not a horse person, just an animal lover. I wanted to tell you-kudos. You did not worry about “how you looked or might look” even though you had a social media presence to “uphold”. Animal first. Well done, very well done.

[@davevann2925]

Thank you for this one, I sold a real sweet disposition quarter horse gelding "ranch horse" because of rearing & regret it to this day.

[@KirscheLovesMusic]

In the case of such unusual behavior, it is essential to consult a veterinarian. Ideally, not just the cow, horse, sheep veterinarian, but a specialised equine clinic. Because such behavior actually always points to some physical health issues, especially if the horse is already well trained and has been with the same owner for a long time. Quite a lot of a horse's behavior is determined by how it feels physically ... we should pay more attention to that!

[@aina3387]

I occasionally have problems identifying my feelings, but my horses never do. If I'm having a bad day, they know it. Not because I try to "take my anger out" on them on anything like that, but just because they are more perceptive than I am. If I'm sad, they know it. If I'm excited to be on the trail, they know it. If I don't really want to work that day, my gelding will take advantage and be a lazy pony.

[@Julieannblake]

Thanks for sharing❤❤❤❤❤

[@leovolont]

I'm new to Horse Riding and KZbin Equestrian Videos, but I would have seriously missed Tucker... my Favorite KZbin Horse.

[@Lilian040210]

The "act like nothing is happening" is a thing I've heard a lot and from classic riders too.

[@ladynin1]

Thank you for sharing! This was me and my horse. I was thinking about selling him but I decided to figure out how to improve my skills so I could help him.

[@oksenrose]

Awesome job!

[@ln6455]

Don't give up on him. Horses always have a reason for doing whatever behavior they do

[@thecrittersitter1]

Harder to change ourselves than we like to think