How To Work On Your Own Emotional Needs | Part 01 | Salman Asif Siddiqui

[@peace145]

Salams from Tamil Nadu, India. I cannot explain how elated I am and I feel extremely blessed to have come across this channel and their world class content. This is simply amazing... I'm an just mesmerised at how knowledgeable ppl from our Ummah are.. SubhanAllah.. Allahumma Baarik. I am speechless & at loss of words. I cannot thank Dr. Sahab and his team enough for making this precious ilm reach us despite all challenges and beyond borders on this world platform.... JazakAllahu khayran katheeran.

[@theAnonymous20027]

Exactly, words are not enough for dr sahab contribution..

[@abdullahmahmood7263]

It’s so unfortunate that a very few people are here for such an important intellectual talk. When I see other you tube channels with thousands of following and hundreds of comments on entertainment, politics, music etc it make me afraid where our nation as a whole is heading. But no frustrations at all, InshaAllah these few will change the ummah. I wish I could see Siddiqui sahib one day since I’m living abroad. Accept my heartiest wishes.

[@ERDCPK]

You are right. It would take some time for people to understand and realize the importance of these things, but meanwhile, we are putting all our efforts in it. Thank you for appreciating the cause. :)

[@SochnayKiBaat]

abdullah mahmood You are right

[@AbdulRaheem-ft4ur]

I also feel that

[@saharatif8170]

Abdullah Mahmood: So true! But...We can include those who r not here in our prayers to be here❤️❤️

[@hassansiddiqi3050]

Yes, and we can send and share these talks too

[@jabpoona6843]

Very Impressive speech and outcome of this speech is: 1- Do not expect from others , Only expect Allah 2- Make a diary to manage your emotions, control the behaviour , avoid the event or manage your emotions Date- Event- your feelings/Behaviour- What did you do (to manage your emotions) 3- Make a list of top 10 wishes ( valued ones not useless), evaluate your wishes 4- Cleanse your heart to meaningless worries 5- Learn to forgiveness 6- Understand the difference between patience and tolerance 7- Stop considering yourself helpless/Victim I am an emotionally weak person even I am a mature age woman. But from your speech I learn a lot. I feel so lonely , Can you talk on this " How not to feel lonely" ?. The country I live not many people and I have difficulty to. make friends and being old is more hard to make friends.I do pray daily.

[@peace145]

I never knew پاکستان has such knowledgeable intellectuals and doctors. It gives me goosebumps.. I wish I could make the entire Ummah listen to these gems.. Dr. Siddique sahab, Dr. Murtaza بن baksh(who was in jeddah dawah center), Dr. Javed Iqbal, the channel Takhti, all their content is so novel, class apart & nothing like I have ever heard before. I make it a point that i forward links of these amazing scholars amongst my family and to the important members of my kid's school management. Since they are Muslims and speak urdu I hope they benefit from these lectures and train their teachers. May Allah protect the scholars of our Ummah and keep them in aafiyah in this word and the next. Aameen. My special thanks to Doctor sahab... Me kya bataun Mujhe kitni khushi hoti hai aapke ilm se jo bhi seekhne ko Mila hai. The best part is how wonderfully you connect deen and Duniya.. How I wish our countries had good ties, I would have travelled to convey my thanks to you for making us better people. BarakAllah feekum. Allah aapse Razi ho.

[@sadafnouman02]

I’ve never heard such complete lectures on metal health!! It’s amazing therapy session thanks a a lot. JazakAllah khair!!

[@saraharshadkhan3172]

Mind blowing!! You are a blessing of Allah for all and a treasure for Pakistan. May Allah bless you always Aameen!

[@muhammadyasir0001]

This is not a lecture... This is therapy sir Thabk you so much

[@gulbaloch120]

یقین کرے آج یہ سب سن کہ بہت روئی ھوں میں دل سے دعایں آپ کہ لیے خوش رھیں آباد رہیں آپ میرے روحانی بابا بن گئے ھیں اللّه پاک لمبی زندگی عطا فرماۓ آپ کو آپ کا ایمان سلامت رہیں

[@johnsonmayor241]

Same here, he is my mentor

[@gulbaloch120]

@@johnsonmayor241 good

[@alikhansahab8356]

@@johnsonmayor241 same here

[@umairkhan2448]

❤

[@Monabaloch-y7i]

Same Here Allah ap ko jaza dy

[@saimasiddique53]

بہت اعلٰی 'ایسے محسوس ہوا کہ تمام مسائل کا حل مل گیا 'اللہ ہم سبکو عمل کی توفیق عطا فرمائے آمین

[@sairanisar5582]

Allah sidduqi sahab ko jaza ata farmaye. Rooh ki pyass bujhany ka behtreen source hen ye. Boht ki bariki sy cheezon pr nigah rakhny waly hen.

[@aliyakamran9544]

THIS CONTENT NEEDS TO BE TAUGHT AT INSTITUTIONAL LEVEL IN EVERY SCHOOL, COLLEGE AND UNIVERSITY

[@md003ali]

Pointers for ref: 1)Stop expecting things from people 2)Be vigilant of your emotional state 3)Make a list of your wishes and evaluate them critically 4)Cleanse your heart of meaningless worries 5)Learn to Forgive and Forget 6)Understand difference between patience and tolerance 7)Stop considering yourself helpless, oppressed or victim 8)Understand the meaningfulness and value of Dua 9)Learn to appreciate the gifts of life, learn to be greateful 10)Dont ignore your basic physical needs 11)Be careful in selecting your companions

[@ice-chills5153]

Jazaak Allah ❤😊

[@amkhan8397]

What a word Allah k supard karo Supreme Court mai pesh kia hai. Es sabar ko mai 15 years say dhond rahi hon aaj mujhay sabar aagia aap k words say . Sabar ko mai 15 sal say dhond rahi hon aaj mai nay samj lia

[@ammarashahid6153]

Ma sha Allah 💝💝💝🥰🥰🥰

[@zainabbibi7972]

I am Grateful of ALLAH that I came to know about him , very very dedicative and purely hardworking Man ;and more power to the team ERDC . You people are doing a very wonderful job .

[@mr.nine9]

1. Stop Expecting Things From People 2. Be Vigilant of Your Emotional State 3. Make a List of Your Wishes And Evaluate Them Critically 4. Cleanse Your Heart From Meaningless Worries 5. Learn to Forgive 6. Understand Difference Between Patience And Tolerance 7. Stop Considering Yourself Helpless, Oppressed And Victim 8. Understand The Meaningfulness And Value of Dua 9ِ Learn to Appreciate The Gifts of Life, Learn to Be Grateful 10. Dont Ignore Your Basic Physical Needs

[@umairkhan2448]

ممكن ہے یہ سب جب لاحول ولا قوة الا بالله پڑھنےسے ۔500 بار روزانہ یا صبح کے وقت صرف 100 بار

[@engrattaullah6227]

Mentor of the mentors, the great Sir Salman Asif Siddiqui. May Allah increase his knowledge and may the whole Ummah benefit from such a great gem. May his knowledge,vision and wisdom spread throughout the world . Ameen

[@sabrjannah2812]

This man is extraordinary . May ALLAH give you life filled with Imaan, health and joy .

[@ftt3544]

Ameen

[@amanullamulla]

Alhamdulillah... May Allah bless him... I believe in him as my mentor

[@umulqura5350]

ہماری ایجوکیشنل ٹیم نے ایک نئی سکیم آف سٹڈی متعارف کروائی ہے جو تین سال سے انتہائی کامیابی کے ساتھ ادارہ ام القری" پبلک سکول احمد پور لمہ میں جاری ہے ۔۔۔ پرائمری اور مڈل تک بامقصد تعلیم کے فروغ کی اس سکیم آف سٹڈی کا نام آسان تعلیم رکھا گیا ہے آسان تعلیم سکیم آف سٹڈی سیکھنے کے لئے ہمارا چینل سبسکرائب کریں ۔۔۔ آنے والے دنوں میں اس سکیم آف سٹڈی کو لائیو سیشنز میں سکھایا جائے گا آیئے فروغ تعلیم میں ہمارا ساتھ دیں اور اپنے ادارے میں آسان تعلیم جیسی کامیاب سکیم آف سٹڈی اپنائیں

[@umulqura5350]

ہماری ایجوکیشنل ٹیم نے ایک نئی سکیم آف سٹڈی متعارف کروائی ہے جو تین سال سے انتہائی کامیابی کے ساتھ ادارہ ام القری" پبلک سکول احمد پور لمہ میں جاری ہے ۔۔۔ پرائمری اور مڈل تک بامقصد تعلیم کے فروغ کی اس سکیم آف سٹڈی کا نام آسان تعلیم رکھا گیا ہے آسان تعلیم سکیم آف سٹڈی سیکھنے کے لئے ہمارا چینل سبسکرائب کریں ۔۔۔ آنے والے دنوں میں اس سکیم آف سٹڈی کو لائیو سیشنز میں سکھایا جائے گا آیئے فروغ تعلیم میں ہمارا ساتھ دیں اور اپنے ادارے میں آسان تعلیم جیسی کامیاب سکیم آف سٹڈی اپنائیں

[@sugar_plum1690]

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[@7adalpha772]

It is very helpful and veryy veryy unique channel jiski ashad zroorat thi JazakAllah khair

[@AneelaGhani]

I am speechless after listening to this powerful lecture. It gives you broad vision and solution to many problems. I feel myself lucky that I found Sir Asif siddiqui as my mentor. May Allah taala give you ajar e azeem for doing really amazing work in this dunya and in Akhirah as well.

[@tasneemrasool8222]

I am extremely happy to have cone across you and feel fortunate to get someone so knowledgable like you who can reflect on all our crucial issues in the light of Qur'an Majeed which is the need of the hour...I have done NLP Practitioners and have access to consciousness. I take strength from Salah Sabr and sleep and wake up at 3 automatically since a couple of decades.I have experienced a lot of magical incidents.And really feel we should focus only and only on Quraan first.Coz we need to learn spirituality first otherwise we get trapped in the vicious circle of this material world.Our education system is obsolete and needs special attention at the earliest and with utmost urgency and importance.You are the Most precious personality who has really understood all this and giving us a treasure of divine learning.Lets be a part of spreading it just like Dr Farhat Hashmis Amazing work.Allah will give you ajr for this.May Allah bless you and Aisha Deen Duniya Barzaq and akhirat alll Jazak Allah fiddarain khairah.I would love to work with you.

[@asmaarif6728]

Can I have a chit chat with you please? 🥺

[@اممحمد-ح1ط2ح]

Indicator of emotional stability... You look happy and you are happy.

[@nightangle476]

Living in Pakistan for half of my life, moving abroad rest of my life really made me a better person. Soo true as to how these all lectured by ERDC as I have been there teaching and myself learning while I was living in Pakistan. Our society as a whole urgently requires revolution in regards to our education system however at the same time keeping our own religious and cultural values as well as morals in mind. I get sooo surprised as to how people here take pride in their system but unfortunately our society back home has forgotten its rich values. It's such a dilemma however, as they always say hope keeps this world going, thank you for such inspirational videos. Iam one of your huge admirer. 👏👍🏼

[@aishaatique392]

Jazakallah...today while listening to your lecture I got answer to my problem that I had been finding and asking to many people. Infact I got it after many many years of restlessness which was totally due to my emotional needs and relying on others for its fulfillment.

[@ayesha2891]

Wish this sort of speaking were for us 15 years ago when we were youngsters , that time only parents and natural learning was available. But still Alhamdullilah now it’s the need of time . Please add subtitles for English speaking generations who understand Urdu but don’t understand it’s literal words ( m talking about kids born abroad ) . Well done sir you are doing great job

[@sanamunir22]

اَللّٰهُمَّ اَرِنَا الْحَقَّ حَقًّا وَّ ارْزُقْنَا اتِّبَاعَهٗ وَ اَرِنَا الْبَاطِلَ بَاطِلًا وَّ ارْزُقْنَا اجْتِنَابَهٗ O Allah! Enable us to see the Truth as Truth and give us the ability to follow it. And show us the falsehood as false and give us the ability to refrain from it.

[@farooqrehmania]

Please 0335_2328597 what's app pr share karain dain

[@naziahalloanjum4939]

امین یا ربی

[@alikhansahab8356]

Jazak Allah

[@Maalarao]

Thankyou

[@sadafchaudhary8040]

Excllent lecture... After listening to such lectures you feel life is soo easy, so pure and where and with what are we so busy😢

[@syedgroup1]

underrated channel, mind-blowing explanation by a real mentor, mashallah, Allah kareem bless you. In sha allah soon people will understand you, let see when they raise their caliber to accept such astonishing stuff. thumbs up.

[@sabakhan7360]

How true....this is one of the best lectures I have heard. Really breaks down the divine laws into simple steps off self awareness. Simple rules that we can apply to our selfs.

[@Kiran369-vy]

This is really healing and heart touching Allah apko jaza dy.

[@hajisahab9410]

احمد للہ آپ کی ویڈیو بہت اچھی ہے جو کچھ سنا اس پر عمل کی توفیق عطا فرمائے اور آپ کے لئے صدقہ جاریہ بنائے آمین ثم امین

[@ammarabatool9910]

Apki urdu sun k dil chahta he sunti hi jaun.

[@Jorjina.hayatt]

Excellent and very important concepts and highlighting of real issues within the human psyche and the society. it's great that its in urdu for the indopak audience, however english versions (or subtitles) should also be available as a lot of Muslims who are sincere and willing to learn, can understand these things in english as well, esp the hundreds and thousands of new reverts. may Allaah give us the guidance, wisdom and patience to apply such principles within ourselves.

[@shaimamazhar5935]

I needed this sooo much :( can't find words to thank you n Ur team .. Allah bless you with Alot of blessings here n in the HereAfter

[@kulsumkhalid6071]

Mashaallah pehli dafah maine suna iss tarah ka bayan or workshop ,Allah hum sab ko amal ki taufiq ata farmaye ameen

[@ummibrahim8521]

Beautiful. Want to listen it again and again . Worth knowing and benifiting from your ilm by the will of Allah . Jazakallah

[@ERDCPK]

Thank you. Keep us in your prayers.

[@minnie662]

i don't have words to explain the benefits i get from this lecture. extremely blessed to hear this lecture insha'Alllah i'll kepp listening to your lectures. JazakAllah for this masterpiece.

[@gulnaz5832]

جزاك اللهُ‎،Beautifully adressed the problems of personality,how to understand emotional needs of adults,how to fix emotional problems,how elevate our emotional stress,we have to be independent regarding to fulfilling our needs including our emotional needs,differentiate between needs and aspires,over all an informative and practical session.

[@sufiyamomin396]

Momin ki zindagi ka mojaza uski dua hoti hain.. Subhanallah🌹 Zazakallah sir, wise parenting se rab ka ehsaan bada achhese samzaya aapne

[@isachaque8861]

I'm in crises with my family these days I got the same problem, but your lecture is very helpful fom me .

[@farazalikhan4570]

MashaAllah MashaAllah..no words to praise.

[@ummmaryam7921]

Your lectures have helped me and others a lot Sir Salman! Allah aapko aap ki efforts ka jazaa e khair dai Ameeeeen

[@boejiden.11]

This is what happens when a person concentrates on self-purification (tazkiya) and taleem and reflects and has good tarbiyyah

[@hareemshaikh5530]

Thanks alot sir for this lecture. Much needed for me. May Allah bless you for your contribution to make muslim ummah aware of their psychological and mental health issues in this world and hereafter.

[@FaridAhmad-fc1bl]

Sir i extremely get motivation and really appreciate your efforts. You are the great scholar ever I am effected

[@bayanulquran114]

I find it so amazing that whenever a question comes to my mind while listening any of erdc lecture, a few moment later or in any other lecture I get that answered. Lots of prayers for you Salman Sir. Allah ap sy razi ho. salamat rahen, Allah apko apky maqsad mein kamyabi ata frmaye. Allah pak hamen bhi aisi khidmat k laiq bnaye.

[@seeratfayyaz1123]

{ وَٱصۡبِرۡ وَمَا صَبۡرُكَ إِلَّا بِٱللَّهِۚ وَلَا تَحۡزَنۡ عَلَیۡهِمۡ وَلَا تَكُ فِی ضَیۡقࣲ مِّمَّا یَمۡكُرُونَ } [Surah An-Naḥl: 127] Sir Salman's words made me understand this ayat today . ' Sabar is what is filed in Allah 's court ' : وما صبرك الا بالله 'Sabar jab hota hai jab Dil chein main aa jaei' : ولا تحزن ، ولا تك فى ضيق

[@sal13luckyforme]

Perfect words , advise and spot on ! What an amazing lecture , covers all aspects in a clear manner . ‎جزاك الله خيرا

[@hirabushra8694]

ذرا نم ہو تو یہ مٹی بڑی ذرخیز ہے ساقی Thank you Sir..You are one of the great person I ever see..

[@wamiqhamid2599]

So glad to find you on KZbin. Alhamdulillah.

[@booklovers7781]

Mashallah..thanks for sharing wisdom..may Allah enable me to help others like u..jazakallah sir

[@اممحمد-ح1ط2ح]

وہ محبت جو دل کو چھوٹا کر دے اور کسی بڑے مقصد سے ہٹا دے وہ بری ہے.. اور وہ جو دل کو بڑا کردے اور زندگی کو بڑے مقصد سے جوڑ دے اچھی ہے.

[@sobiakamran3573]

Allah apkp khush shaad abad raky.. ameen

[@nusheenjan7418]

May Allah Taala reward you infinitely Salman Sb.MashaAllah you are giving a wonderful way of dawah

[@AItech525]

Must listen till end.....superb subhan Allah

[@zbairadnan1947]

your lecture help me alot ....Allah pak blessed you more intelligence

[@faizaali9552]

Excellent, this is exactly what i was lookin for, thanks

[@sidrahwasi2802]

Salman Asif you are a blessing for us....may Allah help you in your efforts

[@EmaayXakuma]

I think u r the only person on this planet with whom I agree 100%

[@alasmaahmad2963]

A must listen talk for each human being. Amazing work, Dr. Sb

[@sanachoudhary1758]

JazakAllah sir . This is sumthing we all needs to look upon our actions and intentions. A practical guidance in the light of Qur'an and hadees . # Food for thought 🤗

[@swetathagalee8990]

May Allah helps us to put these advice into practice.

[@humakhan731]

Aameen

[@kashif4723]

Do you have any personal interview of Sir Salman where he shares his own life experiences and events which led him to these conclusions about life. Because we hardly find in books what his opinions are. So it would be really beneficial if we get to listen his personal life experiences which made him to think such differently. JazakAllah

[@naseemkhan1244]

Thanks for the detail and intellectual information. May Allah bless you. JazakAllah KHAIR.

[@aaaj663]

jazakAllah ho khairan kaseera....sir apka buht buht shukria.

[@fauziakhanam7319]

The v best explaination on the tazkia e Nafs....and the solution of 11 points includes every single thing what a muslim can do for him self to come out from the emotional behaviour....جزاك الله خيرا" كثيرا

[@muhammedalisamana6180]

ماشاء الله الله يعطيك العافيه يا شيخ محمد سلمان آصف صديقى بارك الله فيك وجزاك خيرا آمين

[@spreadlove6980]

MashaAllah ....master piece ..... life changing ❤️❤️

[@alikhansahab8356]

Subhan Allah, Jazak Allah

[@ashash9506]

I couldn't hold my tears while listening ❤

[@syedaathar8255]

This is treasure. JazakAllah

[@nayabkhalidd]

Allah ka bohat shukar k Allah ne Mujhe ye video dikhayi. Allah Mujhe amal krne walon main se banayien. Or Meri zindagi asaan karien.

[@malikaleem9705]

you are asset of Nation...May God bless you with more intellect..ameen

[@اممحمد-ح1ط2ح]

رب کریم نے تعلق کو ذات کی تکمیل کا ذریعہ بنایا ہے جب کسی صاحب نظر سے مخلص سے تعلق ین آتے ہین تو مضبوط ہوتے ہین

[@ayeshaahmed5191]

Subhan Allah .... Superb...! I loved the last half part ....

[@اممحمد-ح1ط2ح]

You have be dependent if your needs are infinite.. If you want to be independent than you have to identify, define, and restrict your emotional needs..

[@AC-qp3ms]

Subhan Allah. May Allah (SWT) Forgive us and Give us all this wisdom and self control Ameen.

[@sheensheen8399]

Masha ALLAH ALLAH pak sir salman ko ajre azeem ataa farmaen

[@drshafeeqa9493]

Golden words Jazakallah

[@rimshanoor1748]

Me Apki Video's s Boht Mutasir Hwi Hun I don't know itny DinO s ye channel mje Q nai Mila....Really I Need U Sir ME 22 Age Me Hun Really Me Apni emotional Needs ko Lekar Boht Tnshn m Thi M khud kO smbhl Nai paa Rai thi Mje nh ara tha smjh m kia karun kis trha kRun..... Lkn Mje Boht Hlp Mili h... Thankhuh sO Much Allah apko Lmbi zindagi De I....hope Me Khud ko Thk Kar lungi insha'Allah

[@naveela56]

This is beautifully crafted, original content that KZbin needs more of.

[@fireboltechocool8656]

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[@textualrelations7548]

sir, please make a video on the difference between hope and expectations .

[@mariaali3632]

Sir Mere dil se apke liye duayein nikal rahein hein..... You are amazing.... Allah pak apko asaniyan ata kare ameen

[@fatimanoor9687]

Bht hu khonsorti say samjhaya ALLAH amal ki tofeeq day Ameen

[@rizwanai8753]

JazakaAllah khair for sharing your content it is very important and vital topic especially within our communities. May Allah bless you abundantly and everlastingly with happiness more than you ever deserve in and with aafiyah AmeensumAmeen

[@aneelapervez2393]

I'm living in Uk and was looking for psychological perspective which is not secular. Alhamdulillah you make it came true

[@shaheen7367]

Very true

[@ERDCPK]

Glad that helped. If you can spare and dedicate time, there are lot of other videos on our channel and many other regular programs we offer Online too. You may check out. erdconline.org/certificate-course/

[@abeerasadi5538]

Very important information. All parents must listen and improve themselves.

[@ERDCPK]

Do share in your circle. kzbin.infoVideos

[@Muzammilibnismailshaikh]

Alhamdulillah ! 💎

[@JigyRigy]

Really appreciated sir I love learning and listening from you

[@maryamraza990]

MashayAllah haqe Ada kar rahain hain

[@hinafarooq6704]

Buhut hi behtreen

[@اممحمد-ح1ط2ح]

درگزر کرنا.. کوئی بات نہین کہنا آسان ہو جائے.. زندگی کا مشکل فیز وہ ہے چب کوئی بات نہین کہنا مشکل ہو

[@emilyrobbin7057]

Very informative. صدق کلام👍👍👍

[@ayazahmadayaz9548]

W0w such a great scholar I never seen, I like sir y0ur all lectures

[@aniqabano1582]

7:00 excellent point

[@muqqadasshaheen8773]

بارک اللہ فی علمك و عملك

[@drcolmunirahmed9065]

MashaAllah, brother ur lectures originate from spirit of Quran n sunnat

[@afaafsaeed5136]

Very informative and concise. Thanks alot for your sincere efforts.

[@almasali5959]

کوشش کیجیے کہ اردو زبان کا استعمال ذیادہ سے ذیادہ ہو تو بات بہتر سمجھ آ سکے بہت ہی علمی گفتگو ھے اللہ عمل کی توفیق عطا فرمائے آمین

[@anneabubakkar5597]

Ma Sha Allah

[@aadildar6639]

Mind blowing session