5 Popular Parenting Tips You Should NOT Follow | Salman Asif Siddiqui

[@JuveriyaGazdhar]

Alhamdulillah speech less and wonderful explanation... Jazakallah allah paak aapko sehet or salamati aafiyat aata farmaye aameen... please aage bhi or batayiye

[@JuveriyaGazdhar]

Love and respect from India ❤

[@fadiasheeraz7221]

Praise ur child if he do positive things. This is wrong if we don't praise them at all it will demotivate them. The main thing is that we shouldn't praise them all the time. Criticism should be the part of parenting n children should have the tolerance against Criticism.

[@FirstComesMyBaby]

Great insights! It's important to question common advice.

[@sajidmehmoodtabbasum4419]

Very good and helpful talk

[@neelumasad6308]

Homework tasks are time bound. How to deal with them Sir?

[@JuveriyaGazdhar]

Woh konse essential kaam he jo 10 se12 yrs me krna hei.... please batayiye

[@JuveriyaGazdhar]

Want next vedio...iske aage ka video upload kare... please

[@halimakhatoon2254]

No kehnay se bacha bhi no kehna seekhega jo k aaj kal bahar ki dünya mein sikhaya jaraha hai k how to say NO

[@ummeqanitah5250]

Respected Sir, السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته Is baat pr mazeed clearance chahye he...Reward dena kese ghalat he..? Jb k deen men b dekha jae to hmen hr ache amal pr reward milta he... Jb ek musalmaan b reward k liye kaam krta he..ya phr Allah se darr k liye krta he..to phr ye ghalat q..?? Targheeb or tarheeb donon zrori hote hen..mukhtalif auqaat men..isi liye Quran men b donon tareeqay use hwe hen..kch insan reward se maante or kch darr se...

[@Emaansdrafts]

There is no doubt that praise may lead to harming the praised person, especially if the praise is about a religious matter and the person who is praised is weak and can be lured by the praise to self-conceit. It is for this reason that the Islamic texts forbade praise in the presence of someone who is feared to be affected by it, as reported by Al-Bukhaari and Muslim from ‘Abdur-Rahmaan ibn Abi Bakrah, from his father, that a man praised another man in the presence of the Prophet whereupon the Prophet said, "Woe to you, you have cut your friend's neck (saying it three times)." He then said, "If one of you has to praise a person and there is no other option, then say, I regard him to be such-and-such, if you regard him as such, and Allah is the One Who takes him to account, and no one can testify about a person above Allah."

[@Emaansdrafts]

An-Nawawi said, "Another narration reads, 'You have cut off the man's back;' meaning that you have destroyed him. This is a metaphor for the cutting of the neck, which is killing, as both destroy a person. It refers to the destruction of the praised person in his religion, and perhaps his destruction in this worldly life as well because of becoming deceived by self-conceit." Allah knows best.

[@amaanat.]

The message in the video is useful but to say that these are things propagated in western parenting books is not true. At least not for their best books on parenting like those by Daniel seigel. In fact I have experienced positive changes in my ky own parenting journey by learning more from the practical parenting approaches by the western authors especially by those who are willing to admit and address the challenges that come from parenting without a village. Most subcontinent thought leaders especially those of the previous generations are unwilling to address the consequences of carrying on generational trauma from fear of disrespect towards parents and elders in our society. There is a lot of content on parenting but very little to none on how to heal from complex trauma and reparent ourselves.

[@lifeinkarachi123]

13:20

[@syedsalman4186]

If not, praise then what ? Demean, their good act ? Which I guess surely encourages him/her to do good acts more frequently

[@calmness956]

Praising child should never be part of parenting but praising their process or work they put into.For example if a child does a home chores so instead of saying, "you are a good boy or girl or a child just say, thank you for being so helpful sweetheart or their name.Make it short and simple.Just let them know that you acknowledge their good act.In real world not everyone will say thank you to them but you as a parent should because at the end of the end it's who they look up to not entire world.

[@afghanipathan3209]

Usooli baato per to tumne tanz maardia to bhai ye science ki baat sunle phir. Usper to tanz ni aayega. Woto sarr jhukaa k maante hain sab. To wohi sunle.

[@syedsalman4186]

@afghanipathan3209 tujhe kis jin ne bataya bhai k mai science ko manta hun ?

[@afghanipathan3209]

@@syedsalman4186 Tumhe kisne kehdia k bacho ko demean hi karna chahiye?

[@syedsalman4186]

@afghanipathan3209 Not praising for their right act, demeaning them itself in my view