💕 Why the DM isn't making "the" big move... just yet 😉

[@sarahjoy6704]

Erika, I'm having fun with the older readings, allowing myself to enjoy them as "current" fun readings to play with. I hope you consider returning to youtube someday. Much love, Sarah

[@chocmilk4388]

Yes. Definitely very masculine. Don’t push me, I know what I’m doing, I will make my own decision, trust that I want you

[@RedbarClothing]

He’s exactly here. Very stern, never had a real thing and were in 40s. Powerful smart man. He’s learning and doing nice things for me and it’s very different. Slow but nice. He’s trying 😉.

[@MakeupByBarbie1978]

SAME! Down to us being 40

[@sueb7239]

Caroline Condon when did it all start? I remember when I was 32 he know I liked liked him and he told me he’s loves his new bought earphones and it him n his music that’s all he’s about then I told my Devine masculine to talk to me when he is 40 talk to me he looked shocked with my response to his egoness

[@kdc111]

I got to spend some time with him lastnight, first time since a couple weeks ago when he went quiet for a bit again. We watched a movie. He seemed to be distant off and on all evening.. flip flopping and readjusting himself a hundred times, cuddling and then pulling away, long sighs, shaking his leg, like he really just needed to get something off his chest about what's been going on. He didn't. And I caught those yucky feelings of being "unwanted" or "rejected" creeping in on me but I was able to send them away a lot quicker than I ever have before, and sending him love and light while laying there. Today it's back to me, go for a nice walk and do a little shopping for myself💖💖 Have a lovely day !

[@melistermint]

My DM finally unblocked me and came forward yesterday after a month and a half of silence. He's still in his past energy and not ready for anything serious, he did communicate this to me yesterday. Doesn't want commitment, yet. We talked about what we want. He understands that there have been some negative things in the past such as distance, living situation and outside influences that have negatively impacted our relationship. He also told me that he is still entertaining other people, sexually. Which I understand was a way to try and make me jealous, but it doesn't make me jealous. It makes me feel sad for him that he would do that to himself and put himself in that position. I understand that he has other relationships he needs to go through in order to learn from the experiences. And I'm at the point where I'm just needing to heal from the past. I don't even want to entertain other people, because of the way it makes me feel. I'm not ready. I'm just hoping he chooses the right choice...otherwise I feel like he is going to put us in another karmic cycle and I don't want that. Basically everything you said is correct. I'm just waiting peacefully and working on myself. Told him we could stay friends while he's going through this cross road. He'll get back to me in a couple of days. Hopefully with good news. Thanks for your awesome reading. :)

[@sueb7239]

Melissa Hajdu I’m still waiting for him to unblock me he blocked me on Facebook messenger two years ago but he still greeted me every time he was in my presence

[@RH-ul2bc]

Melissa I'm wondering if you have considered that he knows you are waiting for him and as such the process may take longer. When a person knows they have you, they dont have to work for you. This is an important step. I dont know your situation but I do know the feeling that goes along with this dynamic, I've been on both sides energetically. It would be tragic for you to lose so much time waiting on this man. We never know how much time we have in this life. Tomorrow is not promised. Things happen.

[@marygreen8387]

Hey Melissa so what has happened to your DM?

[@soul2soul399]

😭😭😭 I just finished watching this and the extended. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. My DM has been holding off on us meeting in person... sabotaging it. I’m letting him take it as slowly as he needs too. I know once I see him in person, it’s going to be intense. I’m afraid the intense energy may scare him back into his hard shell. I’m asking my guides and the angels to please take the wheel and guide us through our meeting so that the intense energy does not spook him. This budding relationship feels so intense, it’s got to be a twin flame relationship. I’ve never felt anything like this. He’s not even physically anyone I’d be attracted to, but I’m drawn to him with a spiritual intensity that I can’t ignore.

[@sabrinanascimento5248]

Observing, His way. Stay in control. Transformation is Happening,Creative, success.Confidence intuition When he is ready. Waiting for time. He needs a break. Priorities. Clarity.Moving things forward, Mental energy. Not giving up. Ending the cycle and conflict. He wants to continue. Trust the outcome. Cross road. Deciding. Balanced. Picking the battle. Choose battle, Passion stable. Clearing things up. Make long term plan. He wants his DF. Following his heart. He wants DF.

[@frenchqueen]

I totally get him! It's not defiant, but like "I have a plan and I've got this". I also wanted to share that the weather was really nice and I had the front and back doors open to get fresh air. I had butterflies flying in and out of the house!! I didn't recall at that time how they stand for transformation! 🦋😊❤

[@queenofluv4193]

This is absolutely beautiful man my divine masculine has recently got back together about three weeks ago we’re taking baby steps but there’s so much passion and there’s so much healing and so much forgiveness and so much love between us I can feel that he’s totally different I know I’ve totally changed thank you so much for your readings

[@GoldDustWoman-he3ed]

How is going so far? How long had you been apart? I’m happily married, but my DM and I haven’t seen or spoke to one another in over 7 years. I’m just trying to prepare myself. 😩

[@jimmy7205]

This just popped up after your latest video and can I say that your voice has changed. Like when you speak now it’s with so much conviction and that is so inspiring ❤️

[@Cyberscribeinc]

I guess readings find you when you need them! Excellent timing, I needed to hear this. Thank you!

[@JanetteRene]

Yep!! So on point! We were together on the 15th, he went back into hermiting. I began to pull away, giving ultimatums to the Universe. I still desire him to come forward with a full cup...at least the Truth. I finally surrendered, followed by a heavy purging around full moon/Easter and began receiving him once again. The last few days I've felt him (I usually do at night), but this time I felt his Heavy thinking, and I asked last night... "What is he thinking about"? Answer: The Plan ❤❤

[@barbbbzbunnieslife1651]

Omg, the moment you said about the feminine having an open heart at the end of the video...it really caught my attention, this is my situation and I just posted something on my ig post just awhile ago saying " I will always have an open heart," meaning I will always be loyal to him and wait for him...wowwwww very accurate reading thank you I'm very grateful 😊☺️

[@xi-8840]

This is the one. This one speaks right to my heart and my gentle-man. Others have resonated but this one was it. Thank you Erika for always being my leading source as I take this, oh so, interesting journey.

[@ashleyg5543]

My dm just came forward with the sweetest messages. He has been very vocal today & happy. Were coming back into union slowly. I can see where my growth & his is doing. We have come so far. Its been 4 & coming up for 5 years together. This coming together is very different this time. He is happy & playful he is my dm that i've been waiting for patiently:) this messages are really resonating with me. I'm very happy i've learned & going into my higher power to just let him be him & he is getting into his higher power. 💕💕💕💕💕

[@Redhalobaby]

So glad I watched this. Just Friday my masculine told me “I think I’ve figured something out, I just need to meditate on it to solidify it” and I knew that meant union because we’ve been doing this for some months and then suddenly he went quiet. I’ve been super tired of lying in wait lol

[@lmb4710]

I've been watching your videos for the last couple weeks or so and this one popped up on my feed this morning. I almost didn't watch it, because it's 8 months old, but decided to anyway. As I was watching, I realized it was published on the day I sent my last email to my DM. It was angry and harsh. I was just fed up and frustrated by the whole situation. He never replied (not surprising) and we haven't spoken since... I know that if he ever does reappear, he will only do so if he can in a sincere way and fully committed. I made that clear lol. I'm loosing patience, but still holding on for now!

[@saraabrooks100]

You described my and his situation to a T. We are both over 60 and it is a spiritual bond. We both know it, but past experiences and possibly past lives dictate a slow approach. We are not in the fast lane by any means, but a consistent trek for 10 months. So, I've been wondering and guessing. AND . . . here you are, following your guidance to help us. Thank you so much. I needed the clarity. I'm a Gemini Sun and Ascendant, and he is a Leo.

[@stacymatthias6907]

This reading really resonated with me so much and sounds like my DM. The fact that you used the crystal tarot for this reading is significant in the fact that I literally just placed crystals and gemstones into a rock tumbler tonight! In a month's time they will be smooth and their beauty will be evident for all to see! Thank you for the lovely reading. 💗

[@nitamurphy966]

I Really Needed This Reading. I'm So Grateful For You And Your Precious Energy. I've Been Lost Trying To Figure Him Out. It's Been Three Months No Communication. Just Ghost Me And Had Me Wondering. I Knew He Was Going Through Some Things. He Asked Me To Be Patient With Him. It's Hard To Do That When Threre Is Very Little Communication. Everything You Talked About Is Him. But When You Cloed With That Last Card. I Could Only Cry. And It Released So Much Off Of Me. I Love Him So Much. And He Loves Me ❤ It's Like We Knew Each Other In A Past Life. I Remember Him Telling Me. I Was Made Just For Him. And That He's Never Felt This Love Before. We Would Sit And Look Into Each Other's Eyes. Our Souls Would Communicate. It's Sounds Weird. But It Was So Amazing. Thank You. You Did A Wonderful Job.

[@shaybloxham-onetribe6185]

Oh Erika, your readings bring me so much joy and make me smile from my heart. This message of sacred sexuality keeps coming up for me lately. I only recently came across the concept, and instantly it made sense to me why I have not been able to move on from my DM with anyone else, why I have not given my body to anyone else. My soul has been telling me that our connection is sacred, and my body is sacred and I cannot share that with just anyone. Bless you gorgeous soul, you have given me the strength to keep trusting my intuition. I feel stronger and more powerful than ever before. 🙏🏿💖🧚‍♀️

[@queenamo7624]

I give my all to my DM, here for US and the relationship!! He’s my #1

[@gigiromz]

Just about to turn my phone off to go to sleep. And got this notification. Was with my dm tonight, and I asked for clarity a little bit ago. Erika spirit talks through you to me so much. I am so grateful to get these messages. And am open to more. Thank you for your readings!

[@cinamonreed237]

Yes, thank you, this is what I’ve been believing intuitively all along but of course, doubts, fears, and all kinds of things interfere with that knowing sometimes-it’s easy to get derailed 🥰

[@koreyspringman]

Really enjoyed this spontaneous reading. Great job! Thank you for all you do. I know and feel he is remembering and processing a lot from his life before we met. We have been together since we met 5 months ago physically, but right now he is healing and unable to be present emotionally or spiritually. The masculines have been through so much. His healing is intense and rapid - we all should recognize this and be supportive and extremely patient. However, that doesn’t mean to let them be mean or trigger you so he distracts from the situation at hand. Hold your ground - detach with love (like in al-anon) and stay centered in your peace, light, and knowing this will pass. I am excited for the future together once we heal the wounds that have been plaguing his ability to be his best. I told him - you sounds are my wounds, your healing is my healing. When we remove the separation of DM or DF and see us as one soul in 2 bodies, that’s when we really move things forward. Last thing - I finally asked him to meditate with me (just listening to KZbin tones for meditation without guidance). We met in our dreams that night. So try it 😊

[@ShivaniGrail]

Resonates completely. Thank you for giving us another window to see out of. Makes waiting easier. Love ❤️ to All!

[@butterflygroove]

This was SO MUCH NEEDED, completely resonated with my situation. Will be watching the extended for sure. Thank you SO MUCH. 💞✨

[@trumpetsharps4496]

Hullo, I have just started using the same beautiful Sacred Union image as my Facebook profile photo, greetings to you!!

[@AnanyaChattopadhyay09]

i saw 2 butterflies today...felt happy n light like them... thanks.

[@trumpetsharps4496]

I also saw 2 butterflies yesterday, when you posted!!

[@trumpetsharps4496]

Yes, betrayal and addictions are ending for DM, taking time to release a lot, before new choices can be made. The beautiful last card reassures me that rebuilding Trust is possible again.

[@edshane3324]

This reading is very on point. Especially with the events of the last few weeks

[@jeremypezzeca7170]

Once again, your reading is 100% on point with where I as the DM am at. Monday was a great opportunity for union and it slapped me right in the face but I ran again. I wasn't ready and it really confused me because I really thought I was. I still feel union is immenient and near but at the same time I feel if I don't take action soon, she will find someone who does. I really hope I don't screw this up. ❤️ Thank you Erika

[@eternalrage7082]

I actually believe in patient love, because it's a virtue that I must follow under. If I move in too fast, it kinda feels like I'm forcing love which feels super awkward. Taking it slow and explore myself deeper, the foundation in the relationship can be stronger.

[@francescae6116]

Oh Erika you are always spot on!!!! Thank you for being an amazing reader and thank you for sharing your gift with us ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@traceywhite9979]

Erika thank you so much you always seem to be confirming exactly what I’m feeling and yes the extended always feels like a private reading. So much gratitude to you and all you do, thank you 🙏🏻

[@tuckercattanach9515]

You sweet, sweet lovey! I just happened upon this and yes, went on to the extended view...no joke, this journey, my life with my love was all there. Outpouring of confirmations of my own whispers and dreams as I the DF embrace who I Am. And yes, Zoolander was for me as well 😂 so very blessed and thankful, and pass my own joyful blessings on to you💞

[@dianamary6170]

You're an amazing reader!

[@joana6126]

Lol I swear it’s almost every time I read your title and I already know what’s going on! Lol

[@gailforbes7834]

As always your reading just amaze me! If I had sat down and told you what I have been experiencing this last week or so you could not have been more accurate! My DM and I are in some communication. I have seen some of this in the 3D and even more in 5D! His transformation and ascension are really been taking the path you describe and while he has never bullied me he has told me he has done so in the past and hates that about himself, has been really trying to change that. It has cropped up lately in how he deals with others. I shake my head at him when I see it and have even laughed, it is so not really him! Usually he will start to laugh as well or gets quiet and withdraws a little! Lol We are not in union, but in contact. I have shared some things with him, yesterday I sent him a quote from Teddy Roosevelt's called " The Man in the Arena", I do this when heavy prompted to do so by spirit and my guides! He loved it and it spoke to him! I have really cut down on watching KZbin videos on twin flames, mainly because of this peace and knowing I have, not that they are unimportant or that there is something with the readers I am just finding my own guidance is more on point and that I do not need it as much. You and two others are the exception. Your readings touch something deep in me that really resonates and helps my understanding! Thank you so much!!!

[@patod5392]

Same here.

[@bevlarue8167]

Thank you for the beautiful reading! Thank you for allowing your spirits to support and encourage us on this journey.

[@spunkysagittarius87]

I truly enjoy how you tell the story of the energies. Your extended videos are excellent! Thank you so much. I feel like the miracles card pulled- eyes closed just knowing and waiting blissfully for his arrival. Can’t wait to tell you when it manifests. 🔥❤️😁

[@ErikaElmuts]

And I can't wait to hear! ;)

[@spunkysagittarius87]

Erika Elmuts we crossed paths today unexpectedly and had a brief small talk conversation- he was so chatty! So the door is opening up further. I still think there’s more time before we really sit down and talk but I think he’s starting to feel like it’ll be ok to communicate with me now. More to come!

[@ErikaElmuts]

wow that happened quickly! ;)

[@favor0220]

I do believe he's planning also. I'm trusting in Divine timing. Thank you.

[@corinaputvin8228]

Wow!!! Dead on!!! I can’t wait to see your extended reading!!!

[@niluhkapileo1119]

Thank you so much Erika! Your reading gave me a goosebumps and tears. Thank you again! Your extended reading means alot to me.

[@emimac182]

Thank you, this was very helpful! Love your authenticity.

[@CrescentCove-vk5vy]

I’m happy for him!

[@chezzehead]

THANK YOU this resonate for me. Just praying to see him now whenever he is ready. ☺️☮️♥️✨🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾# divineuniverse #divinegod #1111awaken

[@femalenarcsurvivour9065]

DM must take his time💙😍,in meantime DF 💗 shall do my own things..🤩 Take a HOLIDAY abroad in August for to get a wider percpective 😍,its so well deserved 💓

[@EadsB7002]

This heavily resonated... I mean whoa! Every single part. Both my DM and I have that Aries energy of “I get what I want when I’m ready to go for it”... I have had to exercise patience on this journey and just surrender:/trust in the divine timing. I’m proud of myself for doing so, and his heart is opening more and more to me/our potential union. 🙏🏻

[@PracticandoConPatricia]

💞 Oh me oh my, this arrived at just the right time... we had contact and he's in hermit mode again. Still feeling the connection and am very grateful for your guidance (haven't watched yet but your readings always resonate so much!)

[@gabebourghese5912]

you're an ACE, Erica. Great reaing with new deck. Great to know my DM is so considerate both of himself and me. I've got stuff to do while he's doing his. Still Divine Timing to patiently wait for, I guess. Thank you Jesus. IT'S STILL ONLY LOVE - NAMASTE

[@monica2054]

As a DF I am a broken, shattered empty shell ... as the DM builds his pentacles and spends time deciding how to act toward union.... it is too little too late for me DF.

[@patod5392]

How long have you been on this journey? Sending love. 🙏🤗❤️

[@monica2054]

@@patod5392 7 yrs

[@sagqueen-e2u]

This reading is very accurate with the dm collective 🦋

[@katonie1644]

I’ve been constantly seeing angel #s more than usual literally everywhere and all of them. I believe there’s been a change w him but we haven’t communicated in a year and it seems crazy for me to still have this on my mind. I feel like I’ve been guided to initiate contact just to send him some love and I’ve been putting it off bc of how crazy it seems (haven’t talked in a year). Our relationship was also so quick and brief for it to trigger such a change in my life. Blockages are being lifted and I’ve been feeling and receiving blessings lately. I just wanted to know if any other DF has felt guided to message their twin and how it went !!?

[@susub2282]

Katelyne Onie I messaged mine despite everyone telling me not to, and to hold my dignity and move on. We had a brief relationship also that deeply impacted the course of both of our lives and long story short.. I went with my intuition which was to encourage him (even if indirectly and sporadically) to get through the muddy waters so that we could both move onto the path of healing. His responses were not so nice at first and it took over a year of attempts but finally the ice block is melting and we are getting progress.. trust in your intuition and if you are unsure of what exactly it says.. try to disconnect from the outer distractions and find that voice within that is your own.

[@bonoloify]

More than anything today, I am so hurt. I am caught in between what I know deep inside me and what reality/3d is showing me. Heee is too much

[@nicolebecker2368]

Was there a few days ago. Stay true to yourself and you will feel better soon!

[@YellagalMe]

🌈🌈 same here to women tho do you guys have children?

[@cassondranorman]

That was my first deck!!!

[@funartcreations2190]

Beautiful read.

[@martakupis2323]

Amazing, first five minutes and it's just bingo. You have a beautiful gift:)

[@34ginanicole]

I only got about 3 minutes in and had to comment because I was JUST at Barnes and Noble few days ago in the Metaphysical/Spiritual section checking out Reiki/Energy healing books and saw the Tarot cards and thought "I wonder if anyone actually uses these in particular?" Well now I know! lol

[@chanadegordon2943]

Thanks for that I needed assurance

[@janinestailey]

Watching this a year later 4/30/ 2020 and this is making total sense? How is that happening? Crazy

[@ErikaElmuts]

Because my readings are intended to be timeless - in that when the message resonates is when you are supposed to hear it. Doesn't matter when I recorded it. :)

[@sueb7239]

This was a beautiful ending of the reading

[@goddessakasha2246]

Very nice reading 👏

[@ireneajodha5418]

Thanks for sharing and restoring the faith😋

[@foreveryoungpisces7426]

Thank you Erika! 🌻

[@GamingEnder98]

This definitely hits where I am at right now 💖👍

[@anartsil63]

I've no words... not enough. ..🙏💜

[@michelleboutwell-goodman818]

I’ve moved on and don’t want to hear from him. It’s a new world for me.

[@amilin794]

I love your readings Erica!! They always resonate ❤

[@rhimorganjones420]

Another beautiful reading, thank you 🙏🏼💕✨

[@frenchqueen]

Thank you so much for your readings, too!! 🦋🦋🦋❤

[@narcdramaunwanted4291]

Thank you for that information why my DM is slow💙,I understand and have surrendered🌞. I DF work on my healing💜,find balance and stability🤗. And my DM too work with his heaing and find balance before he moves forward to me💙,I shall wait for him 💏.

[@spiritpony]

So on point Erica!!! I love your readings!!! 🔥🔥♥️♥️

[@Charlotte_TSilva]

Beautiful reading. Beautiful deck. Thank you.

[@robbierice6830]

Spot on girl ♈️ all the way here!!!

[@michelascheuerman7166]

Thank you Erika! Very helpful reading! And he is Aries Sun lol (it came up in the determined energy). I hope he will feel ready soon, it has been a long road so far. I stay positive. xoxo

[@looslaura1]

True true, thank you

[@queenhippolyta]

Beautiful reading

[@Maryrose-fs6ue]

Thank you. This helps! 💗

[@sls4294]

So my dm is in my df-energy..my positive, happy, go lucky self...at peace. While I'm sitting here in his dm distorted energy trying to navigate thru all these horrible emotions and help him heal....this is really hard on me....so much negative energy, pain, sadness, hurt, even rage (but you would never know it. He hides it so well. Just like I use too). Please any suggestions or help in any way to deal with this energy asap bc it's like it's attacking me...

[@sls4294]

And he is somewhat seeing another female...which doesnt bother me except I know he knows who I am, and it's like he is stuck in that same cycle with females...and He needs to realize it...only he can stop the cycle and I can only help so much... that he will let me.

[@tiffanyr2827]

Thank you, as always!

[@alexb9319]

I needed this!!

[@Roseeeee11]

The extended❤♾❤beutyfullll thank u🥰💪🏾

[@rebeccajarrett5130]

OMG that's so weird. I just purchased this deck too. I never saw it before either. But I love it

[@JenFlit]

Loved, and the extended ending made me laugh 😉♥️

[@studioseagraves]

Omgod this reading totally sounds like BF! Thank you for doing this :) . My mind is blown :)

[@USSJ2Otaku3084]

I have a balanced polarity of both energies and I can definitely relate to the Divine Masculine in this reading 🤔.

[@ladynesh81]

Even though it was a month ago u did today is the first time I saw this and totally resonates..

[@amandakaltwasser7697]

So what if the DM is not ready yet but the DF is also not ready to wait no more? But I believe my DM girl is ready now......eventually

[@adv.jagrutigaonkar2084]

Thank you dear😘

[@jennieguido]

Beautiful message thank you lovely lady!! My Taurus masculine and I'm Pisces my twin flame connection process will happen when it's time DIVEN TIMING from God creator of the Universe is bringing. Union is May 10th union is coming first time in the physical union at the very same spot we were childhood crushes since 5th and 6th grade.

[@sagarikasaha3055]

Nice reading. Fresh perspective with your fresh new deck! 🙏😇🌹

[@IsabellasWardrobe1]

Our BIG move is STUCK!

[@ninahelgas]

Oh, thank you, I needed this 🧡🧡🧡🙏🦄🌹

[@gingerrogers3748]

Yes my love thank you so much

[@marymorton9870]

Love the cards!

[@beatraceingram7895]

Thank you Erika

[@sabrinanascimento5248]

Still in separation I am Gemini and my DM is Aquarius

[@lacygrace674]

Thank you thank you thank you💜

[@debs6550]

Omg...Ok...never dated...BUT I have a reallly intense connection....much younger but mature for his age..☺️...so much attraction. Yep...I miss him, I am stable...Come to me DM ❤️...really soon pls...I really miss you! ❤️ Thx Erika

[@revlovemusic]

sending you so much love Queen