Erik & Amber - Worth the Wait

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This is the story of God's miraculous workings in our lives to bring us together. It is the story of our friendship, courtship, and engagement. We hope that it inspires you to love God more. We also hope it challenges the way you think about the way that God works in relationships.
This video was created by my sister Heidi to show at our wedding reception. We decided to tell our love story while we showed the typical slideshow with photos from our lives and relationship.
We are firm believers in the God-centered relationship model that we call courtship. We believe that emotional and physical purity before marriage is something that has been tragically lost in our society. We have a heart to have our culture restored to a place where God-centered relationships become the norm. ~Erik & Amber
UPDATE: July 2022 - We've been happily married for over 10 years. We have four children, ages 4 through 9. We're thankful that we waited on God's timing for our relationship.

[@mphophahlang9695]

10 years later I still type "Erik & Amber" in the YT search bar, fills me with so much hope and reminds me that God is writing my love story

[@deanmiller294]

59 yr old man married to a wonderful woman and your story brought me to tears. I wish the same joy to others and God’s blessing on all couples.

[@justinpullin98]

ShardayEdwards & JustinPullin luis Luciano and Danielle Pullin Scott Brown and Misty Brown Mike Ellis and Megan Ellis Barack Obama and Michelle story

[@sandyjohnson2129]

I'm married to my third, solidly Christian husband, and am over 70. Having been widowed twice, I wasn't sure that I would ever remarry again, but God worked amazingly to bring Jim and me together when we had never even met before! (God did the same with my previous two husbands -- we didn't even live in the same area). I'm so grateful that Jesus prompted me to be happy as a single woman, whether never-married or as a widow. I realized that "God would be my husband" as it says in the Psalms. He is enough, no matter our marital state is at the moment.

[@sharoncrawford7192]

I'm 66, and my husband is 64. This is not the way things worked for us because when we married we were not serving the Lord at all. I got saved a year into the marriage. It's a long story. But 3 yrs later he finally got saved. It truly is a miracle we are together. But God works all things together for good to them that love the Lord, and are the called according to His purpose.

[@cinnamoroll2699]

After I watched the video, it made me realized how God truly works in each everyone of us. It has always been God. I know God listen to my prayers. I pray that someone will truly pursue me with purely and sincerely.

[@nicoledennis-lawrence-lg6lc]

God's way is the only way!! That's the way I want to do it!

[@sarahreyes2558]

I wish I would of waited for God's timing I rushed into a marriage with a man I wasn't meant to be with we had 3 beautiful children but our whole marriage was toxic and didn't glorify God we are in the process of getting divorced..this gives me hope that one day I will fine the man that God has for me ..please everyone keep me in prayer thank you and God bless you

[@whitechocolate2567]

I pray God would show you exactly who is meant to be the partner for the rest of your life

[@dandylion2837]

Please don‘t have any more children with another it‘s not fair on them. Know from experience. God bless 🕊

[@PurposefulLife123]

Don't get divorce God will restore your family just trust him.. Give your family issues to Jesus.. Never try divorce as solution, God forbid divorce unless it is adultery case... I pray that God will bring his perfect plan in your family

[@adiraFEARSHEAVENLYFATHER4EVER]

@@PurposefulLife123 not even adultery

[@PurposefulLife123]

@@adiraFEARSHEAVENLYFATHER4EVER you're right

[@danielcrawley5630]

Y'all's story has really challenged my way of thinking in regards to relationships. I have long-held the idea that if you are following God's will, things will progress smoothly and with clarity. Y'all's story is another example of how God's way is often hard to understand yet better than what we could ever plan for ourselves. Thank you so much for sharing your story.

[@justinpullin98]

Tyler Hank and Justin Pullin I'm gay

[@susanthobekilencube71]

A testimony that God's way is ALWAYS the best! Glory to Jesus!

[@markushoffman8735]

Father, I pray that I wait for your timing. No matter how hard it may seem. This is just beautiful, in all regards. This shows me more that being completely devoted to you leads to a love life that is better than anything we could seek on our own. Praise Jesus for this beautiful testimony and showcase of his faithfulness

[@bekahleah574]

Amen

[@sophiacoichy2117]

Hope one day God will bless me with a love like this

[@NganahMabelleStéphanie]

Awesome story and beautifully narrated. I pray you grow old together. Please, pray for me to find my better half. I am 33 My journey as a single woman is sometimes challenging.

[@chridegekatasohire3578]

Indeed, God is faithful to his word and his timing is perfect. He doesn’t go against his word, he doesn’t deny what he said or forget what he said. HE IS GOD♥️🙌🏽.

[@kpballa1009]

brother, in this day and age where the type of dating stuff is going on, even among Christians, hearing your guys' testimony is a blessing. Courting, keeping biblical principles, the involvement of the fathers, the way they led things and such, is great and much needed today.

[@theochasid8996]

Pretty story lovely smiles. Joy in the Lord I can't imagine myself loving anyone like you guys do. I think I'm dead. I want to love but I can't All I do is sin and break everything precious And cry and cry and cry May God save me May God save that lovely lady that I miss. May God bless our families May God bless his children.

[@dancerlywakeness]

Aw it’s been a few years since this was recommended to me. Oh, I cried. So beautiful. God bless you two. Your love is so beautiful and strong.

[@PrecyBiyi]

I'm watching this in 2020, God brought this video to me, and after watching it, I had to repent because I realized I've been waiting for God's plan for my life wrongly. Now I know that we wait in prayer. Thank you for this video.

[@_heyimbritt]

I watch a lot of testimonies about how god writes love stories and this one is the first where I heard so much of the families involved. What a blessing to have family’s that are firm in Christ to help bring wisdom and guidance along with waiting upon the Lord. I also am seeing that these testimonies don’t always go as we would imagine. Which is an instant knowing and for things to go smooth. Praise God for your testimony!

[@wamekoo3116]

I watch this 9years later and blown away.Amen🙏🙏

[@nancywilliams7997]

God first and then everything follows. May you two awesome young ones be blessed.

[@mariamat1175]

I have been praying to God for a husband for almost 10 years. The years passed by and I am still single. They're days where loneliness takes over I just get so upset. And times where I even doubt that God has someone good for me. Part of me can't imagine how God can have something good for me when I doubted him so many times. But when I lose hope and feel very discouraged I find myself coming back to this video. What an amazing testimony that brings me to tears. This video keeps reminding me of God's love and kindness.

[@mariamat1175]

I just came back here. I even forgot I commented on this video. I am still single and heartbroken. Maybe one day I'll come back here and I will be with married to the one I've been praying for all these years. It's hard to keep the faith at this point but I know God is good and has a plan for me even if I can't see it

[@joy-catalea5842]

"The best part of the story .. is knowing, that the Lord has chosen us for each other. I never have to wonder, if I made the right choice" - what an awesome GOD do I have? AWESOME: AWESTUCK: "The Lord knit our hearts together" - HOW beautiful *-*

[@pamelakilgore4459]

Erik and amber u have no ideal how much your testimony means to me. pray for me. Pam in Detroit

[@divinelight144]

How you are doing now? ❤️

[@HotelCharliHill]

One of the best marriage testimonies! And such a testimony of patience through heartache. And not full of crazy charismatic “signs” that aren’t really that difficult for demons to orchestrate…

[@terranovaofjesus8396]

I love this so much. I’ve watched it like 3 or 4 times over the past 2 years. Since I met God and got radically transformed by Him. This is my favorite story

[@Wasoska]

What a lovely story thanks for sharing! Both of you are gorgeous! And she reminds me of Jessa Duggar! So pretty! Loveddd the song at the end!

[@lauratempestini5719]

I so broken. My hearts desire was this would be the path of my children. 😭

[@abrahamcavazos1984]

This video was one of God's many ways of telling me again. Just wait, she is coming. By the time I'm writing this I've shed 10000000 tears over this matter. I've even told God that I wish He would tell me it's not going to happen and then I would move on. But God time after time, after time and way to many more times keeps giving me hope. Whoever reads this and believes in Jesus Christ as his LORD please pray for me. At times it hurts so bad and even as I'm writing this tears are coming out of my eyes. But even though the wait feels endless, God's promise will be fulfilled because He has said so. And I believe Him.

[@mayangmendoza1608]

Hey Bro Abraham! You’re not alone. I am currently in the same situation where there is absolute pain in waiting. But we have to fixed our eyes on the One whose promises never failed. As I read your comment God spoke to me that I have to encourage you the way He encouraged me everyday of my waiting. May you always find Hope in Jesus! I will include you in my prayer. God bless you Bro!

[@NganahMabelleStéphanie]

Reading this in 2024. I pray and hope you found your better half.

[@lovemecom3832]

This couple is very sweet and inspiring. They are both lucky they found each other as lifetime partners. Congrats and best wishes to this beautiful couple.

[@queenilynliwat]

God is an amazing writer of every love story. Praises to our savior for your testimony. True love waits & its always best to wait with our loving savior.;-)

[@erikpallhansen]

Agreed!

[@ludysaintil925]

+Erik Hansen do you and your wife have social media account? or an email I wanted to email you how your story impacted my life. :)

[@DeutscherGospel]

@@erikpallhansen Hello Erik, I watched the first 2 minutes, but the high level of the background music really distracts me from the spoken word. Is there a version of this video with lowered background music levels?

[@justinpullin98]

@@erikpallhansen JustinPullin & TylerHank Melissaoiler & MikeOiler DaniellePullin & luisLuciano Scottbrown & mistybrown MikeEllis & MeganEllis Kevinstory & Michellestory KellyHammond & Ronniemarrero latianaLuciano & brandlynpursley Jeanettespirit & TylerJohnson

[@sharoncrawford7192]

Seeing young people like this, gives me hope. So glad that there are young ones that do love and live for God.

[@SJ-jl2bh]

Such a beautiful couple and an incredible story! I pray life will be as beautiful and magical when your aged as it is now for you! Your story gives me hope, I’ve put my trust in him and not been out seeking anyone and sometimes wonder if I’ve made a mistake in waiting for him as I’m now 30 and seem to look at it as I’ve missed the boat, yet strangely lately I’ve experienced a glimmer of hope that there’s an amazing future before me, but that didn’t come until I was completely ok with who I now am, I realized I have an incredible life now. And started loving myself as an incredible person that God has given my spirit that privilege to prove my worthiness to keep this tabernacle by taking good care of it and loving it for Him not for vanity or to attract anyone. I’m happy to experience the path of preparation for the next step He has for me, whatever it may be! Bless you all

[@asianagangmei4544]

Wow! Walking with God is the best option in our life. Incredible is our God.

[@cristinavillamin-santos3401]

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. - 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 God bless you both.. :)

[@leaweell3343]

Thank you. I've always read this scripture, but now am really realizing what it means by *love is patient*

[@annnganga4602]

That was great testimony for young people today. God bless and keep you safe in you marriage what patient and discipline. Excellent idea of involving and trusting you parents in your love story. Great love has no fear. Great testimony. Thank you

[@antoinettebrown1949]

This love story orchestrated by God blew me away! I pray by now yall are married and sharing the love God blessed you with! What an amazing testimony!

[@rafikgl]

God is amazing. He gets involved in the smallest details in our life.

[@Keep-Believing-Mark536]

Amen. I pray that God continues to bless your marriage.

[@crystalw8458]

Beautiful story and a beautiful couple! I'm crying over here! I'm 31 and I'm still waiting. It's so tough at times but your story gives me hope and encouragement. Thanks so much for sharing.

[@amputeeinfluencer]

Same here. The Lord will see us through

[@avahamlincoln874]

WOW. Now I know why God was telling me to watch this video. He wanted me to tell me to follow his path and to listen to what he's telling me, that he is making me go through difficult situations to make me better and to help him pave my path and that he's doing all of this on purpose because it's part of his bigger plan for me. Thank you, guys, so much for sharing your story with us, it's a beautiful story about how God can really connect 2 people.

[@DesiLu4Life]

This is such an inspirational story-I cried! I find it funny that Amber didn't have the same type of attraction to Erik as he had her. Erik never gave up on Amber and in the end, they both got what they wanted!🙌🙋

[@jonathanpickett3068]

I am a 38 year old man, not sure what my life will end up. Fear that it will end up worse than I have it, and I desire this kind of a relationship, yet I don't know how effective it could do for me. In every Christian relationship, I hate to envy them. For they live happier lives than many do without God.

[@lisalizz9937]

I'm watching this 10 years later. I thought marriage with a God chosen man will always go smoothly, but it's not in all cases. I'm amazed. I myself have been going through such a hard time of having to be separated from the man i thought had all the qualities i wanted in a Christian spouse, because of his family pressure. I don't know where God is taking me, but I trust in Him.

[@annetoside9601]

Glory to God forever, the story of Amber and Erik it has really inspired me,lord I will wait for your time

[@EbenezerNyatangarock]

Amazing..The Lord of the Sabbath loves you keep listening and following his voice

[@blesschild2159]

Ur story brought me to tears...God is sooo faithful. Wish I had seen this testimony before I made some mistakes in my life

[@carolmmmueni1077]

Am 41, a mother to One beautiful Angel. And I know our God is a Merciful ,Loving and A Strategic God. He plans our every detail. Waiting for my love story to unfold. Happy for you guys. Such a lovely couple and story. God bless

[@jesuschristislord958]

"The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge: but fools despise wisdom and instruction

[@katelynnmarkle6089]

God knew I needed to see this. I was told someone wanted to pursue me but I knew I wasn't ready. So, that is what I told him. It has been so hard to be patient and know God has a plan. I constantly pray and think about him and I know he loves the Lord. It is just I know I need to wait because it is not God's timeing. Thank you for your encouraging story.

[@ruth..]

Years later and I still come back to this video.

[@valerielinares2068]

I am so happy for the two of you, and I am glad that you have told your story. It encourages me to remember that if something really is God's will, it will happen. Even if there seem to be obstacles in the way, God has placed those there for a reason, for us to grow spiritually and to gain the wisdom we need before entering into marriage. I understand that each and every trial He allows, there is a purpose in it. Amber mentioned the scripture Proverbs 16:9 that a man plans his way but the Lord directs his steps. That is SO true! We need to put God first in EVERYTHING we do (Matthew 6:33; Proverbs 3:5-6). I also LOVED and agreed with Amber and her family when she came to her parents and they prayed together about God's will regarding her and you! I love that they waited on God to move, waiting to see if you call her dad. That is so awesome! Wait on the Lord to move! He is the One who knows best!

[@germainejoygrande5130]

Just saw this today, I am in awe of how God wrote a love story (though it's 7 years ago) of two people who pursue God first and just grow in faith and hope, and putting all trust in God alone. It is truly an encouragement for me. God bless your marriage.

[@belreed8257]

So many twists and turns to Gods love story with them!! God is on all the details and wastes no tears 🙌🏽

[@nikkiisrael2708]

Such a beautiful love story. God really delight in bringing soulmates together, especially when he knows their marriage will glorify him, reflecting the marriage of the bride and the lamb, and will bless and encourage many. You are a lovely sweet, Godly couple. This has truly blessed me, and, I cried too. 🥲 I am so happy for you both. Live happy ever after.

[@JadaLynnOfChrist]

This video needs to be shared everywhere! Thank you so much for bringing all glory to God in this amazing testimony.

[@Melanie-fz3uz]

Thank you for sharing your testimony. Your video just popped up in my feed today. When things are done according to God's ways, there is so much joy. It's been 10 years since you posted this video and I pray that God has blessed you abundantly and that your marriage continues to be fruitful. I've shared this video with my daughter who is in a courtship with a wonderful young man.

[@ariannahernandez606]

Glad to know I’m not the only one waiting

[@terranovaofjesus8396]

The most beautiful love story that God has written. Oh thank you so much for sharing this. My heart oh my heart, it’s so beautiful. I cried the whole time. God is so good.

[@rebeccakamusiime9448]

God's way is always best. He knows our future because he is already there. He knows what's good for his children. So all who are still single let's not rush. Let's wait for God's timing. His plans for us are surely good.

[@isabellucia8774]

I’m in literal tears right now, this gives me so much hope for mine. But God’s will first:)

[@danielr.5820]

A successful marriage is built on a solid foundation, Matthew 7:24-27.

[@lauratempestini5719]

Praise the FATHER THE GREAT RESTORER!!!

[@tonygutierrez4651]

BEST LOVE STORY EVER... Ive seen it maybe like 10 times. Your God-written love story blesses me in many ways, thank you!

[@lewismuthami6124]

Beautiful ❤

[@PurplePinkHearts]

I loved this. I've been praying for my husband since i was 11 years :) Love you guys

[@theresamatula4398]

Your story is amazing! Jesus is so good! Praise the Lord!

[@jinothomas6841]

You are beautiful

[@tomatomoussin9134]

Perfect in beauty, the perfect purity in a relationship ever seen, God almighty bless this couple to the end. Let such video be an example for others to follow.

[@hazelcapuchino1444]

I knowGod will make a beautiful story for me.

[@AuthorDavidHammond]

Thanks for sharing! I love hearing testimonies like this where God is the center of it all and bringing things together for the good

[@godsgirl9566]

Beautiful story. Praise God for your Godly parents. So, refreshing to know God has an army of young people seeking Him first.

[@lilahfoster1846]

happily married with a daughter and 2 sons! :) All the best guys!

[@tees2454]

not sure why this pop out at my feed but thanks! I'm so encouraged! God bless!

[@NS-br5jm]

14 minutes in, I'm like I cannot take this drama anymore!!! I hope for a happy ending!!!

[@tessatdg9601]

How inspiring. I wish it would happen to me as well. How incredible that when Erik wanted to court Amber he went to her father to ask for his blessing. 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

[@SuperDahlee]

A love story made by God . Thanks Erik for sharing . I will post your love story to my timeline so that many of our brothers and sisters in Christ ill be blessed . May God richly bless your marriage .

[@ThriftTea]

This is a beautiful story, wonderfully illustrated, by yourselves in this video and by God in your lives. Thank you so much for sharing. may God bless you both forever & always. Amen!

[@janisrozario]

I felt prompted to watch your video when it showed up on my feed…thank you for recording this video, I believe God was using it to confirm feelings in my heart that are from Him. Thank you again 🌷

[@dotsphere5263]

I listened to each word. Without distraction.

[@ladyofprosescript77]

What a POWERFUL story! Praise the Lord my brother and sister! I have been told that my standards are too high, but they are NOT my standards, they are God's! May the Lord continue to bless and use you both to win many souls for Christ!

[@cocoacr87]

Wow!!! What an awesome testimony. God writes the best love stories ever !! Thanks for sharing your testimony.

[@jenniferyoder6202]

Wow! What a beautiful, beautiful story!! How great our God is. Truly He is trustworthy! ❤️ Praise the Lord!!

[@rebeccahale6771]

What a beautiful story. Thank you for putting yourselves out there and telling the world how important it is to wait on God's will. Thank you for inspiring me to wait on God, and for giving me hope. May God richly bless you as you continue to share His amazing power and love.

[@gracecruz8783]

Your story made me cry... what a beautiful testimony

[@Crystal-el2qo]

I'm legit crying. I'm so glad I "happened upon" your story. I relate so much to it, but I'm in the midst of the unknown right now and it hurts. Your story gives me hope though! Thank you!

[@watitduful]

Love this! These are the stories that need to be heard. Too often we only hear about toxic mating and dating stories and it’s passed off as the sole norm. I already know it’s not but sadly quite a few believe this. There’s people out here right now that would scoff at you guys and claim that what you guys have is “corny,” not reality oriented, and whatever else they may say. I personally think that those people are just projecting and would be jealous of the story you guys have. It’s sad because the root of it is that they don’t believe that they are worthy of having this type of story. They think the best they can do is get a bunch of partners and have a horror story to tell at the end of it. That’s very tragic. When I run into people like that I just shake my head and keep it moving because I know for all the bad relationships out there there’s also plenty of good and Godly one’s. The thing is that we just don’t hear enough about it. Makes sense though as we live in a worldlyy system. In any event, much kudos for sharing and may God continue to bless you guys and your marriage vocation. I aspire to have what you guys do and if it’s God’s Will I’ll surely get it. God bless!

[@justinpullin98]

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[@noverosetolibas6342]

"Lord I will wait🥰❤️"

[@reginawheeler5146]

How Beautiful is this, Wow, Patience, Letting Go and Trusting!!! #WOW

[@naturallygigi3294]

What a story. God is real. Thanks for sharing, so encouraging! Blessings, shalom!

[@cammiejohnson1276]

I'm encouraged by so many little details of this story! Thank you for sharing!

[@graceouabo9817]

This the most beautiful love story I have ever seen. God has truly blessed you guys. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us because it encouraged me to continue to wait on God for my husband.

[@ferlogan]

God has control of our lives , when we put our faith in him , God bless you guys, what a wonderful love story , blessings , in Jesus name ,

[@iSpeakFaith]

Absolutely beautiful! I'm so encouraged.

[@marigoldwilliam5114]

This is God ordained. Don't know if God has something supernatural as this for me. I prayed fasted and live in the spirit and not flesh. Trusting my breakthrough.

[@saviocarvalho6126]

God bless you Erik & Amber. So thrilled to hear how you put the Lord first. How I would enjoy to meet you someday! Greetings from India.

[@billding2418]

This testimony made me absolutely sob with joy. Congrats you too! God wrote your love story

[@victorvalenzuela7626]

Omg I cried.... 😭😭😭 it was so wonderful when God is control so just let God to guide you to his direction and always pray that God directs her to God’s direction as well.... I needed to hear this testimony because I know what I must do now 💪🏼

[@prophetallanmukisa2279]

Don't really comment on videos I see on KZbin but this video is just directed to me and the same situation am into. God is speaking 👏👏👏👏again I wanna say thank you so much for this video, was in the same situation with 1000 options but among all the 1000 God was speaking through this, interestingly my phone ringtone notification is the same tone I heard playing behind your story video, this ringtone notification is the ringtone I had set at the beginning way back before I ever saw this video, this is something unexplainable, a miracle of its own from God, only God could that, specifically I am that one person God looked for and started fighting for my marriage. As I watched your story I was hearing God speak to me all through. Thank you Erik and Amber for your story, it has been a great blessing to me. Regards from Prophet Allan

[@opingpabatan6879]

I'm 40 single lady i waiting with Gods perfect timing that someday i found the right man that accept of who i am and not what i have in life.Dont impress me of how rich you are just tell me your negative side coz time,honesty or understanding are much important to me of course maybe you have a stable job for our living as much as possible i dont ask or depend to your wealth i work for my own and earn although not enough for my needs but its ok for me and to help my family so Best and Godluck to us just be ourselfves dont lie or pretend GODBLESSUS🙏🙏

[@photodoor913]

What a great story this is. So encouraging. I've been praying to meet my wife and this gave me hope. God bless!

[@johannahanson1520]

God showed me through this to never give up on the one you know you love. When my ex and i first broke up, this video came up. I was in shock as my dads name is Eric Hanson lol. I thought it was amazing. I cried so much watching this and still do everytime. When things got rocky this summer, i watched this video every night and prayed the way Amber did. And now im watching the same thing happen to me with the man im in love with. God is SO good!