ESTP vs ESFP w/ Taylor (FlowState), Daniel Storm (PsychologyJunkie), jetplane48, John S. & Mary Anna

[@jravage77]

Jetplane48's body language is the most educational part of this call.

[@INFJet]

Glad i could help. What did you learn from it?

[@pixelpulse_boy]

Hey im sufferimg from esfp stress i become withdrawn ,anxious pls help me to enjoy life

[@c.s.70]

@@pixelpulse_boy Use your Fi Aux function, get out of your Te tertiary binge if you're actually an ESFP and make sure you're not mistyped.

[@lxf9914]

@@INFJet i'm guessing that Se is movement lol

[@aleesiadae382]

@jetplane48 Se - physically Fe - manipulates others emotions Lolz

[@icanrelate]

Jet is so great lol I love that he's doing his own thing while being in the panel.

[@sandradibiaso7316]

ESTPs are direct and ESFPs are informative. ESTPs can say only a few words by being direct and to the point. ESFPs are talkative and can take forever to get to the point because they are informative. Linda Berens was able to define the intereactive styles of all 16 personalities.

[@capricorn8494]

I would love to see Daniel and Susan together so they can talk about dual relationship I am interested in how this plays out in the real world :) must be fun :)

[@sandradibiaso7316]

ESFPs make great choreographers or dance teachers or makeup-artists or entertainers or pediatric nurses or elementary school teachers.

[@icanrelate]

The EPs are the cool kids at school.

[@kellikakes81]

This makes me want to see a panel of ENTJ vs ESFP and a separate one ENTJ and ESTP, and compare. I hear so many similarities yet some differences...

[@JoyceMeng22]

Hey Kelli! Nice topic suggestions. I will set up the ENTJ vs ESFP panel someday! I have a video on ENTJ vs ESTP up already, here is the link: kzbin.info/www/bejne/a5nKdGN3ma2FmtE

[@dominicsey3032]

This is one of my favorite panels. Very interesting people

[@RetroXRicardo]

Jet is hilarious! This panel has truly helped me to type my Dad. We were both watching this and we both concluded that he's an ESTP. Although he argues that as he got older, his Ti and Fe are starting to balance more now that he's in his 70's. He says he's a lot more emotional now and is much more aware of his Fe. Great panel! 👏👏👏

[@dashontwowheels]

I love ExxPs more after watching this. Thank you for sharing

[@dashontwowheels]

and Happy belated birthday!

[@JoyceMeng22]

ExxPs are so great! Thanks for the birthday wishes, Ashton. :)

[@PowerRedBullTypology]

Especially lately it's been a thing in the community to be 'anti stereotype' when it comes to types. However, if one takes a look at a video like this where the estp's actually seem correctly typed, then one can also observe they do seem to talk/think/behave somewhat "stereotypical'. I do not think stereotypes are such a bad thing at all in a field like typology, because one could argue that in some way a type really ralated to "a stereotype", as it's not unreasonable to be open to the idea that as a result of a certain specific cognition one could gravitate towards a certain type of behaviour/display. Sure, not everyone of a type is as "extreme" as the stereotypes, but I do not think "being against the stereotypes" or "fighting the stereotypes" will really improve ones typing abilities, as one is basically taking away something that could actually be a clue about the type of a person.

[@JoyceMeng22]

"as one is basically taking away something that could actually be a clue about the type of a person." Agreed. Sometimes, stereotypes are helpful in generating clues to a person's true type. It's important to not rely or base your assessment off them. But don't completely dismiss them as every (good) stereotype has a grain of truth to it.

[@ngqabuthomafu6517]

I think it reflects our disconnection to sensing how can you make sense of something that doesn't make sense. The question is, is the intuition connected to the the source because if it is it can come down to earth and live a life that is exemplary to a sensor. Which is what sensors say how can l foresee something in the future that hasn't been seen yet how can you do without conscious thought that doesn't make sense? what are you perceiving that's unconscious, make sense of that? you can't stereo type what isn't typical. l could be waffling just to let you know. I think we need to learn from experience that's what l think l agree just talking.

[@sudiprizal]

i first stereotype then confirm by functions. stereotype can be explained by functions. like ENTJ, they have Te and Se, of course they will be controlling. of course INFP will be emotional with Fi hence they will be bad at taking criticism.

[@dxfifa]

If there are no stereotypes that apply to any categorisation system based off observed behaviours then there must be a big question on the validity

[@meredith18352]

OK, my hubby is most definitely an ESTJ not ESTP. I think my step-daughter is and ESFP and step-son an ESTP. I find Se doms to be extremely exhausting, that was like watching a bunch of over-caffeinated hummingbirds.

[@maryannawright]

"a bunch of over-caffeinated hummingbirds" hahahaha i just LOLed

[@mamawarriorprincessdaughte797]

🤣🤣🤗🤗 I’ll take it..

[@jameskirton4469]

I love listening to ESFPs which don’t come across as stupid as most of their convo topics aren’t deemed intellectual socially like gossip

[@giacomocasartelli5503]

2/3 ESTP are wearing a hat. ESTP wear hats, confirmed

[@dachoist]

Yea, and the only reason the 3rd guy is not wearing it is because he wants to show off that beautiful hair.

[@giacomocasartelli5503]

@PrexorAMVs LOOGEKZ

[@melisasegura4054]

Pink hats 😂

[@icanrelate]

😂

[@chanelf.4934]

IDK How I got here but the JetPlane48 was chaotic in the beginning and I absolutely love it. I'm not in the Extroverted realm but I love watching their videos because it's entertaining. They are humans, they have reactions, they laugh, smile, sidebar conversations, they drink, they blink it's amazing. The introverted videos are.. dry...and I'm an introvert. Can't even watch it because everyone talks like they are speaking from a textbook. They've memorized their types and are acting on it, it seems unnatural sometimes. They throw around the acronyms and as someone that doesn't know what the hell Fi and Se are it's boring.

[@maryannawright]

@ilkldme hahaha if anything, it added flavor, fun, and spontaneity to the panel!

[@chrisohara5893]

As an Estp, like they mentioned in the video, we are good at hiding when we are getting frustrated and good at bringing the conversation back before it turns into a sgit show. Esfps are similar in that respect I think. Jetplane seems to try be honest about that fact that his brain is very chaotic. He can mentioned he might have a personality disorder or something. He doesnt seem logically consistent enough to me to be an estp and gets really judgey if thats a word.

[@thatoneisfj2810]

Amazing, I learned so much about Se from this video!! Just from listening to John and Mary Anna talk, I now think I’ve been mistyping some ENTJs and ENFPs I know... Mary Anna comes off just a bit like some ENTJs I know, and John similar to some ENFPs... so now I’m questioning lol. Anyways, great video!

[@JoyceMeng22]

Wonderful! Glad it was helpful, Nat. :) Yes I have seen ESFPs mistyped as ENTJs & ENFPs before so that makes total sense!!

[@maryannawright]

How interesting! Thanks for sharing this. I don't know if I am more flattered or dumbfounded about coming off as an ENTJ hahahah was there anything certain that I said/did that gave off ENTJ vibes? Genuinely curious! Going to see my old ENTJ boss at a mutual friend's wedding this weekend and would love to share your insight with him lol

[@yanasimitchiyska9289]

​@@maryannawrightyou gave me total ESFJ vibes tho

[@crisisalert3029]

Joyce, happy belated birthday!!! Thanks for hosting. Always interesting to hear types explain their functions.

[@JoyceMeng22]

You are so welcome! Thanks for watching @Crisis Alert!!

[@ariantejano2518]

Se-doms are rugged individualists, whether you're a feeler or a thinker.!

[@StraightLineMusic]

Awesome Se interview again Joyce! You mentioned the Fe emotional pivot - could you please go into more depth on that?

[@JoyceMeng22]

Thanks @IAmDalet :) Fe emotional pivot is a concept originally coined by Carolyn Zaikowski! It's about how Fe users avoid getting personal and emotionally revealing in their answers, and turn the focus back on the other person instead.

[@valemadres302]

This was great, Joyce! Thank you for creating this content, your channel has helped me to find my type and it's so interesting to learn how other types interpret their functions

[@JoyceMeng22]

I'm so glad! Happy my channel has proven helpful to you, Valeria!! 🙂

[@Banana_nana8]

i believe the only different is one makes decision logicially with the brain and another one makes decisions based on feeling, how it feels.

[@samuelunias673]

Thank you guys, this video is so rich. Recently I've being trying to use my second function to see the reasons of my forth and it seems to be very helpful.

[@JoyceMeng22]

Wonderful! Our pleasure, Samuel. :) Best of luck with using your second function to access your fourth!!

[@sandradibiaso7316]

I think ISFPs are similar to ESFPs. I feel the similarities are undeniable listening to the ESFPs in this video. I am confused about my personality type. I feel so connected to ESFPs but I think I am ISFP or ENFJ. I feel a lot for others and myself. I get upset when things don't go my way or when people are rude or use people for money, anything else materialistic or sex. Unhealthy ESTPs, ESTJs, ENTJs, ENFPs, ENTPs, ISTPs, INFJs, ESFJs, ESFPs, ISFJs, INTJs, INTPs, INFPs, ISTJs, ENFJs and ISFPs cheat on their significant other. All personalities who are unhealthy will use people or things for their own benefit. That makes them narcissists.

[@pixelpulse_boy]

I like john 👍🏻

[@WiseKing97]

I think jet is an estp 9w8 sp. As he him not really aware of himself or doesn't see importance in being aware of himself reminds of me type 9 self forgetting and when he does speak it's very direct and forthright in an 8 fashion. I could be wrong but that's my guess at it lol

[@ngqabuthomafu6517]

I feel like feelings are hard to track because they follow logic or at least how logic makes you feel but you can misunderstand the logic thereby feeling a certain way or the lack of feeling unsettles you so that you become anxious. i feel like the lack of feeling causes you to wonder why you can't connect with others l don't know perhaps that's why we resort to ideals like things should be this way I should feel free but l don't l don't know l forgot. Sarah Mbti in her video "infps and enfjs can't connect with others".

[@icanrelate]

I learned so much from this discussion. This is my 1st time completing this video. Btw I don't think ENTJs micromanage. I have done it and it didn't go over too well so I stopped that quick! I learned no one likes that - I certainly don't and it's counterproductive. I don't think ENTJs micromanage for long bc we won't achieve the results we want if we do that. We look at the big picture and long term goals. I think micromanaging is an ESTJ thing.

[@MrLuigiFercotti]

Ni through Ti, I endorse this message.

[@solo0link]

as an ESFP I only recommend products that I tried and use and can guarantee their quality. I don't think selling products people don't want is the right way. I think earning people's trust and trying to turn them into returning customers instead of a one time sale per person.

[@AndeAndrea]

I will say when it comes to "masculinity" and power; ESTP's & INTJ's can be incredibly similar. however the way we go about getting & yielding that power is different.

[@PowerRedBullTypology]

What is incrediblity similar about these types when it comes to 'masculinity and power', if they way they go around getting and yielding it is different? Then is (left to be) "Incredibly similar" about it?

[@AndeAndrea]

@@PowerRedBullTypology in sum the desire for power is gone about differently based on ambition & ability to see long term /big scope. ESTP’s tend to think in the moment power moves with potential long term not very important as were INTJ start off much softer and end up a huge force to be reckoned with in the end. It takes growth for both types to really fulfill their visions tho.

[@PowerRedBullTypology]

​@@AndeAndrea ok, but again that is mostly what is different about them. The only real consistant thing here seems that they do like a power, in some way? However, that seems almost too generic in order to call it 'incrediby similar'. Then one could argue that ESFJ's and INFP's are "incredibly similar" when it comes to living, becasue they both like oxygen.

[@AndeAndrea]

@@PowerRedBullTypology the pursuit of power is exposed differently based on 'type'; imo. And from my observation. The relation to power based on type is also different. The effort to move towards power, create power & possess power seem to be MOST common in ESTP, ENTJ & INTJ's ; this is from my observations. The pursuit of power is just as present as oxygen to these types, so I believe it is an accurate statement. And yes ESFJ/INFP's have a lot in common when it comes to living, mostly because they are both betas.

[@ChristineCFord]

I have watched a few of these type talks in hopes of seeing some similarities, but there always seems to be some big point that I just don’t see in me and therefore can’t relate. I am fairly sure of my functions, Te/Fi and Se/Ni, but I can’t seem to see the order. Originally I thought I was Ni/Te, then Te/Ni, then Fi/Se, now I’m exploring Se/Fi. I can’t seem to tell if I’m Tribe above Self or Gather vs Organize. I’ve tried to ask people around me, but I’m not sure how to interpret the feedback, often because I think they are comparing behaviour of my youth verses behaviour of middle adulthood. Even though I think my Type has remained the same, how I’m expressing myself has obviously changed over the last 40+ years.

[@DRAVIASTUDIO]

1:12:30 This moment when Flow State say "" That was deep """ Lol

[@jameskirton4469]

Ooo right so I’m an ENTJ but I’m TE SE NI FI I think John is perhaps SE TE as he has control over himself Based off Objective personality There’s half SE FI and half SE TE.

[@kellikakes81]

This was great

[@JoyceMeng22]

Thank you! 😃

[@frankloof3535]

I like jetplane 🤗🤪😁😁

[@dogdonut3]

"I'll say this for myself...I can't speak to everyone else's experience" must be a very se thing to say? ESFP's use that phrase a lot.

[@maryannawright]

I think it's probably more of an Fi thing to say, at least in my experience ;)

[@dogdonut3]

@@maryannawright You might be on to something. Though as an intj I may say it more like "I think" or "this is just my opinion" . I just realized I don't usually even mention others in those statements. Clearly it's not fe. Lol

[@noturbo]

Does Jet own a subaru STI?

[@AndeAndrea]

Good :)

[@JoyceMeng22]

Thanks, Ande!! 😁 Always brings a smile to my face to see you in the comments.

[@AndeAndrea]

@@JoyceMeng22 ❤️❤️🤓

[@fatherleo4603]

I would love to see an ESTP go at it with an ENTP lol

[@soccer171717]

Not gonna lie, that Chet guy kind of rubbed me the wrong way. Dude seemed like he was acting the whole time like just be yourself or whats the point of this? (cue Chets annoying pseudo deep voice in my head " but bro we are all acting in life") Anyways no hate im actually curious what type he is because that will be interesting to know (leaning ESFP if between T or F).

[@moniqueeebite]

he's an ESTP

[@INFJet]

yeah i tend to rub ppl the wrong way but oh well

[@thatoneisfj2810]

@@INFJet tbh I think you provided quality content 😂 I loved “why does there have to be a catalyst for anything” that was amazing 10/10... like so much that you say seems surface level at first but when you think about it, there is way more there. Sensors get a rep for not being “deep” but like... idk define deep?

[@INFJet]

@@thatoneisfj2810 you're one of the few who kind of understand the game i'm playing. The people who don't initially understand my behavior....i have to consider them dumb lol and they probably couldnt keep up with the pace of any conversation I throw at them so I have to dumb down my conversation pieces. But thank you for being able to see past the BS the others couldnt lmao

[@INFJet]

@Demon Windu lmao thats what im saying. people get triggered so easily and have no reason for it. not my fault they cant comprehend different personalities. they can keep their boring ass lives while im out here trying to do myself.

[@thisyoungnhandsome]

Just an observation, all the ENTPs have scruff beards and look super roguish and manly, lol.