Everyone Blames Mary but what about Brandan?? Sarper's NOTEBOOK, Daniele Exposes Yohan

[@cactusmama7183]

Mary and Brandan are the perfect example of a couple who brings the worse out of eachother

[@NotSorryCharlee]

Trauma bonding at its finest!

[@SweetWasabi]

And they face a baby together 😖wtf is wrong with some people’s mind set

[@AnimeArchaeologist]

Mary and Brandon are a stereotypical passportbro couple. The only things missing are Mary going to America and hating herself because she's not American.

[@asdfghj13579fly]

⁠@@AnimeArchaeologistBrandon is just a stereotypical bully who knows how to play innocent and his mother is also terrible. Mary could have revealed this to the show and chose to return in a later season paired with Donnie else but I wonder if she got pressured by her family.

[@AnimeArchaeologist]

@@asdfghj13579fly I have a suspicion that the reason why she chose Brandon is due to his nationality.

[@demoneyes-.-]

It’s frustrating to keep watching TLC support abusive relationships by keeping them on their show.

[@Chitownhomestead]

It makes them $$$ sadly... happy couples are boring unfortunately 😪

[@AnimeArchaeologist]

Worse - because TLC promotes passportbro insanity with 90 Day Fiance.

[@TheRealCalypso]

Is there any non-toxic relationship on the channel 😮

[@TheRealCalypso]

5:49 have a friend that could reach that number. All it takes is a fear of intimacy 😂😂

[@channel69gorlworldnews66]

This!!

[@karmagal1796]

Brandon and Mary are SO toxic and SO codependent. The true tragedy is that they brought a child into that mess. No respect for either one of them. Poor baby. 😕

[@AnimeArchaeologist]

Mary's grandparents are gonna suffer worse now.

[@Iron678Maiden]

*two babies

[@AnimeArchaeologist]

@@Iron678Maiden Where's the second one?

[@5050TM]

Young and beyond dumb.

[@Margriet101]

Did you got your life under controle when you where 24? To be honest i would have wait with a baby in there place, but yea it is what it is, they do what they can Ok now iam by the name calling its not oke to call a new mom bad names😮

[@wumbology6072]

Originally? Yes I felt bad for Brandon. But now it seems like he’s depressed and checked out and that turns into rage. Both being controlling and dependent on each other. Their kid is being used for clout and whatever money they can scrap together

[@lisah8070]

Yeah I’m in the same place - he makes such stupid comments, I’m over feeling bad for him

[@GOTTA_RUN]

That's not the point they was trying to make @lisa8070

[@kelsey.allonsy2001]

Don’t blame them for using their kid for clout, that’s not unusual when you put your life under scrutiny

[@elizabethchint2391]

@wumbology6072 The fact they named their child 'midnight' is so sad. Like your naming a human being, not an animal.

[@Yuna-vi2iz]

@@elizabethchint2391it’s a Filipino thing

[@ccb6013]

Brandan and Yohan are two perfect examples of why viewers must stop emotionally investing in rando strangers based on how they initially represent themselves on TV.

[@beewest5704]

And more than one person be the problem in the relationship. Healthy ppl do not marry unhealthy ppl.

[@CherryCharris]

Yesh! But investing in them and then realizing they suck is how we create empathy towards people in this situation. A lot of times people say: “how didn’t she know he was awful?, how did it she know he was abusive?, how did she miss the signs”-- because they only show what they want the woman or the partner to see! They don’t show their true colors until it’s too late.

[@AnimeArchaeologist]

Sadly, TLC had never learned from Ed nor Usman. They care more about ratings than anyone.

[@munchmongoose]

And Mike!!

[@Zeroshiki]

Jihoon, too.

[@haneulnophi]

the framed faces in the back is hilarious! thank you for taking the time to upload videos on the holiday season 🥰

[@jazbarry13]

Kimberly has me DYING.

[@priscillafuentes8663]

Kimberly's is the best of the pics. 😂😂

[@priscillafuentes8663]

Holly looks like the witch in snowwhite, the frame fits perfectly. 😅

[@irairod5160]

Brandan is a manipulator, and so is Mary, in different ways and for different reasons. They need help. But how are they going to get therapy when they make $17 a month? HOW???

[@AnimeArchaeologist]

Yeah! Therapy isn't cheap in the Philippines. Add in transportation expenses alongside the pills and that's a massive problem right there!

[@beewest5704]

They could ask TLC for a therapy spinoff show.

[@AnimeArchaeologist]

@@beewest5704 As much as we all want this, the expenses would outweigh any positive ratings that it'll get.

[@catrinacrystallina]

They should have used the TLC money to buy a package of online therapy sessions instead of a PS5, an iPhone 15 pro, braces, and dining out/trying to become influencers. Mary claims she doesn’t want people to know her problems but Live Streams all her and brandans problems. Next time they ask his mom for money, she should gift them each a zoom session with a psychologist.

[@catrinacrystallina]

@@AnimeArchaeologistthere are online resources they could utilize especially if they have a VPN. Brandan bought a PS5 and Mary an iPhone 15. They make dumb financial decisions and still asking his mom for money 🥴

[@alyssapinon9670]

Kalani calling out Brandan had me saying “hell yeah”. She knows a deadbeat when she sees one and doesn’t want another woman to go through that shit. Plus she has a similar cultural background so she understands why Mary has reservations about therapy and divorce.

[@lovem7635]

For him if he gose to his country for good work and send money for his daughter marry is crazy did any one seen har happy sines he arrived okay every body the baby only one month old always me me

[@dhglowlightblue]

Kalani is so real for that.

[@fredskull1618]

Look in his eyes: Brandon is one seriously bad week away from becoming a full-on serial murderer.

[@nikimalloy808]

I thought the same thing

[@idadiipadaa]

More like a mass murderer, one big breakdown and shit hits the fan

[@LilySaintSin]

They're both toxic for each other. Poor midnight.

[@RaccoonNation]

He’s got those Tracie Barbie (from Catfish) eyes 👀 😅

[@brandishoogy]

​@@RaccoonNationlmao

[@markjackson6431]

why do people bring children into poverty? if you can’t afford to take care of yourself why do you think you can afford another child? this is my biggest pet peeve. i feel bad for that child. having to grow up in a toxic relationship. Mary and Brandan please seek therapy

[@lisah8070]

She had baby fever ie already pregnant or looking for a trap

[@patrykapiezo1650]

We're teaching people to be irresponsible. Sex without stable relationship, murdering children, promiscuity - if society treats those things as acceptable, we're giving a signal to the people: "it's okay to be irresponsible".

[@JaseekaRawr]

Bc most of the world is broke?? 😆 what kinda question is that lmao

[@JaseekaRawr]

Eugenics mode: activated 😆

[@konye618]

​@@callmekirkland8i think this is worse because it's a Filipina and a white person. He knows how much better life could be and he's just being lazy.

[@deriale6015]

I really hope they don’t bring Mary and Brandon back. She isn’t the victim and neither is he. They are both absolutely awful. They’re both clearly miserable and now they’ve brought a child into the situation.

[@Chitownhomestead]

Facts

[@LuisCruz-ne5wo]

Sarper was only one sided since he is probably fishing for followers, since he probably knows about how the net is partially more enraged with Mary. 😂

[@endearment6705]

When Brandon was mad about her not turning on her camera, I was like Mary would literally bawl her eyes out and scream if he didn't have his camera on him at all times in America. She's so hypocritical, but they both are toxic AF

[@kakishisfriend1126]

They won't. I believe they violated their NDA

[@jasg771]

Yea, they are boring. Hope they are removed from next season

[@loulou82-ql1ob]

I've literally stopped watching the full show as Ur recaps r so good ❤️

[@deegSZ]

same haha

[@finni-h2x]

Same 😊

[@sunnyscott4876]

Me too. I have not watched TV in years but I love this little potato 😍!

[@Xgmzydyk]

When you said holly doesn't look well, my husband replied "does she ever?" 😬😬😬

[@brendabaldino8857]

😂😂😂😂

[@angelascharmedlife]

I'm not pn tik tok but I so wanna know what po means

[@destinys5846]

She always looks like she needs a cold shower😂

[@caribbeangyal2884]

Lolol your husband is hilarious 😂😂😂😂

[@captainlarrynosleepfishing5350]

Remember, she said that she’s a vampire that runs naked at night through cemeteries? 😳

[@sinceritydjp]

Man shekinah looks so bad with all of the plastic surgery. She legit does look like handsome squidward.

[@fredskull1618]

Some people thrive in completely toxic environments. She looks bad, and she loves how much we disapprove of her.

[@Alsomnia]

Because of kiblz and quick slice, I just can't see her as anything other than Shakira lol

[@lammcmahon4917]

Never mind her, what about the one in South Africa? I would ask for a refund

[@sinceritydjp]

@lammcmahon4917 holly? I think that's her name. She doesn't bother me as much...well maybe her ability to dress appropriately and her hair.

[@ItsYaBoi888]

Shekinah is more handsome than handsome Squidward though

[@jovalove]

Honestly I can’t stand Mary and brandan has no excuse. They both know they need help and just won’t do it. UNHEALTHY PARENTS CREATE UNHEALTHY CHILDREN. It absolutely will affect that baby. Just the thought of them yelling around her is concerning. Babies feel energy since they can’t really communicate.. that baby will feel their toxicity and it will affect her development

[@FaePanx]

So true. Really sad that they have a daughter having to hear her mom being called a bitch. That is verbal abuse.

[@QueenGarcia]

Facts!!!!

[@Isthisjoebiden]

Exactly. I do not like either one of them.

[@lovem7635]

​@@IsthisjoebidenMary don't like her she can drive crazy any one I don't fell sorry for her there is noting to fell sorry the baby is one month old she was not there from the bigging the controling Mary was toxic every body is bringing the baby

[@viktorijasun3082]

Being scared of telling your partner anything should be a massive red flag and a sign of concern.

[@christinakinch]

Here in the Caribbean too, there has always been a stigma regarding metal health issues and/ or mental illnesses. Labelling an individual as 'mad' or 'crazy' is unfortunately easier than educating and sharing awareness about mental illnesses/ mental health issues. Also, therapy is hardly accessible for the average Caribbean person (especially in my country).

[@bertooo1358]

Stop trying to label everything as a mental illness this is one of the reasons we have become so weak in today’s society! Everything is a crutch and excuse!

[@Sarina2511]

💯

[@katet8639]

This is facts. I'm carribean too and mental health is still frowned upon.

[@inprogress5210]

Same. It costs alot here.

[@snoox27]

Id be more scared of brandon than sarper. Ive been in a abusive relationship and that shit is scary.

[@lovem7635]

No Mary the manipulator she have very scary face

[@mikasjewels5772]

Let's be real, we're barely empathetic to mental health and therapy in the USA.

[@MdnightWnd]

We're a little more open about it, but most people don't get the help that they need.

[@kaylaamaya1720]

Brandon brings back such PTSD from my ex. He was just like him with his anger, manipulation and possessiveness. I worry for her safety and their child’s.

[@fahsky]

Same here, he ended up being emotionally abusive & a serial cheater. Not saying that's going to be Brandon, but it's so similar vibes.

[@sammyparadero8762]

Mary was very controlling too

[@channel69gorlworldnews66]

Mary is controlling and manipulative too. This isn’t one sided at all

[@lovem7635]

​@@sammyparadero8762I don't gat it that little innocent she can drive crazy she plays victim the baby wasn't there all the time when we seeing all the abusing going to wards Brendan the baby one month old she will use her

[@MdnightWnd]

Same here. I was in an abusive relationship and when Brandan's demeanor completely changed it actually scared me and brought back memories that I'd rather forget. The look in his eyes was exactly the same. I know Mary isn't a saint and she brought a lot of this on herself - obviously she saw this before he came over there. But still, Brandan seems like somebody who could come completely unhinged over nothing.

[@boot2478]

I really wished they let people from the audience to come on the tell all and put some of these people in their place. It frustrates me how this show and most of its cast loves to lean towards defending the American every time. They're all delusional in their takes 😭

[@lovem7635]

Not to wards marry

[@dhglowlightblue]

Ikr. It’s always about defending the Americans and making the foreigners look crazy… the tell all sucks so much because of that reason. That’s why Angela gets away with her abuse towards Maaaahkel every single time, and I’m sick of it.

[@KagomeYasha023]

Brandan and the “I need you to sleep for me to sleep” reminded me of one of my bros baby mamas, she would attack my brother like a rabid bulldog if he didn’t go to bed when she wanted him to.

[@Isthisjoebiden]

He deserves it for making her a baby mama

[@xxDeeMmmVeexx]

Brandon gives serial killer energy… like ONE bad moment away.

[@Roksee]

I think Brandon has a very abusive side; it's probably physical at this point. I have a feeling Brandon probably tantrums and throws/break things when he becomes upset, along with the emotional blackmail he showed in the video you showed us today. It's pretty sickening.

[@AnimeArchaeologist]

If Brandon gets arrested for this, cue certain people defending him and requesting his release.

[@lovem7635]

​@@AnimeArchaeologistwho defended him Mary the little victim I don't gat it

[@dovesi]

When Angela was more pissed at Mary and justified him calling her a bitch than she was when she found out her son calls the mother of HIS CHILD a scammer and a bitch. Smh. I could never.

[@MsAshleyMarie94]

Right?! Like ma'am, you lost your children, you have no right to judge Mary

[@RainySkies-05]

Mother of his child or not she is a scammer & a b*tch tho

[@alyssapinon9670]

Angela is the ultimate pick me woman and yet she can’t even care for her own kids

[@lovem7635]

​@@alyssapinon9670his mother is too nice to Mary I wouldn't

[@JLynnEchelon]

Fr. It's bad enough if he's saying this before children, but he's saying this in front of your grandchild, Angela. This is what that sweet innocent baby is going to pick up and think about her mother.

[@kitten5290]

I was in a LDR with a man from Japan for the better part of a year, and I'm not typically a high strung or jealous person but let me tell you... the long distance thing wrings out insecurities and paranoia one doesn't know they have until they're in the middle of the sixteenth consecutive rage text. I handled it poorly and I was in my late twenties, so I understand (to a degree - it doesn't justify bad behavior but it does add context and empathy) the absolutely unhinged dynamic while they were apart. That Mary can look back at those behaviors and feel guilt and regret is such a great sign that she has the capacity to grow and do better than she did when their relationship was so tenuous.

[@Ellie-qf7qb]

The way you feel about Brandon and Mary is also how I felt about Jasmine and Gino in their first season. The whole time we felt like we were viewing this unassuming guy being abused by his gf, but in reality we were seeing the type of a guy who would send pictures of Jasmine to his ex GF. I think they are similar, and just better at hiding things and acting then their partners are. I think we are probably seeing some reactive abuse in both of these woman's cases and it's really sad.

[@channel69gorlworldnews66]

They’re both awful. They’re both manipulative abusers. Midnight is the only victim here.

[@h1kk18]

As a Filipina, mental health is severely looked down upon, at least in my family. I struggle really badly with my mental health and ive had mental breakdowns where im full on sobbing, telling my parents i wanna yk, and doing some SH and getting caught multiple times SH, instead of being sent to get check, officially diagnosed and talk to a therapist, im just constantly told "youre being dramatic" or "youre [insert age], grow up" or "ill tell your grandma" and yeah.

[@Toskrr]

I’m sorry you have to deal with such an unhelpful attitude from your parents. I wish mental health issues weren’t minimized all over the world because they are very common. It’s a health problem like any other and should be treated as a normal health problem. I know you’re not being dramatic. I have mental health issues myself. Good luck to you. ❤

[@ccb6013]

Sarper was probably a full on gigilo and got to the 2,500-number thanks to his "work".

[@isabellancali5388]

Every time I see Sarper, I see Robbie Rotten from Lazy Town while hearing the song “Just a Gigalo” from David Lee Roth and the band Van Halen. 😂

[@local.sagittarius]

when sarper busted out the notebook, i was hoping someone would ask which "X" is Shekinah👀😂

[@courtneylee643]

There was an episode where Brandon says Mary wasn't his first love. Mary starts crying and he smirks for a breif moment. He enjoys getting an emotional reaction frkm her.

[@Ilikemakingstuff]

Tim’s eyeroll was perfection 🤌

[@taylorcarson8893]

Definitely 😂

[@fallyneprinciotta9058]

Sassy little one

[@Montisfe]

Brandan and Mary are going through a trauma bonding, they depend too much of each other emotionally but at the same time they’re checked out

[@sandydee8148]

You just made my Christmas, Po! It's not been my best holiday, & you just made it better! I'm in the process of getting new teeth, right now, I'm at the part where they extracted them, SO, I'm eating alot of baked & mashed potatoes 🥔 & thinking of you! I can't wait until I get the new teeth. I will feel human & confident again. I also can't wait to eat a steak & corn on the cob! Oh, yeah, Mary & Brandon are really weird, that conversation was too strange & a bit scary! RED FLAGS everywhere with those two! Thanks for this! ❤

[@irairod5160]

I'm using the holidays to get dental work done, too! I got 2 implants (the screws) in my lower jaw 3 days ago, and OMG, they hurt! I'm eating lots of different soups, rice, yogurt, pasta, tamales, mangu, fried plantains, pupusas, avocado, eggs, fish...potatoes sound good. I'll roast some sweet potatoes tomorrow. Thank you for the idea! Wishing you a speedy recovery! In the meantime, let's keep watching the train wrecks these couples are!

[@sandydee8148]

@@irairod5160 I'm sorry you're in pain! We'll both be better off soon! Also, thanks for your food ideas too! Yes, watching these crazies makes me a little less depressed! These people are all nuts & I just LOVE Po's take on all of them! Take care of yourself 😊

[@irairod5160]

@@sandydee8148 🤗

[@ginanotafan1039]

Dental work club!!🎉 I'm at the same point in the same process, and so much yes to everything you're saying, I can't wait to be out of the weird middle point & have my hew teeth!!😂

[@Jerseyboondocks]

It would have been the best Christmas for me if I could be getting new teeth. It's been 3 years now and I can't even get them all extracted, let alone the new teeth. The old bad teeth just sitting there always at risk of an infection because it's going to cost thousands of dollars to get this done. With the cost of living increase, all that money goes to car house property taxes, ECT My health insurance only covers cleaning and x-rays. So again like I wish that I could be in your shoes

[@saiyamoru]

Po uploading on 25th when none of us expected a video today is the best present I could have asked for. 😍 also JFC these new clips make Brandon seem like such a manipulative and controlling partner. It feels like he's one of those redpilled dude who advocate for moving to the Phillipines because 'you can find an obedient housewife easily there!' and 'you'll be rich in that country because your money's worth more!'

[@angelascharmedlife]

Omg you're right. I'm so old I forget about these trends sometimes

[@saiyamoru]

IMO it would also explain why he was very focused on having sex with Mary as soon as he arrived. These endorsements of 'find a wife from a poor country, because American women are too picky and disloyal' are popular in incel spaces and sexual activity (or lack thereof) is hugely important to them. Might explain where the hyperfixation on infidelity/lack of trust comes from, too. I might be tinfoiling here, but man, if the shoe fits...@@angelascharmedlife

[@Isthisjoebiden]

And like we said, those foreign women ain't as submissive as those dodo birds think

[@AnimeArchaeologist]

If it's revealed that Brandon's a passportbro, that'll be something.

[@rurisuoh7919]

Filipina here with Bipolar 2 and PTSD (I got my PWD card last year. Bipolar 2 is considered a disability) I went for a medication since 2020-2021 and it bled my wallet so bad. But that's not the worst thing. I get to be judged by the people around me just because I go to a psychiatrist. Yeah, the stigma here is sooo BAD. I bet Mary is really ashamed of going to a therapy bec of teh stigma, plus they cannot afford it. Trust me.

[@AnimeArchaeologist]

Seeing as Mary and her family are in the countryside, it gets worse because of a lack of access to mental health care in there. Having to commute to a big city for mental health care is already painful, but if said big city doesn't have any mental health care? Mary and Brandon would have to save up plenty of money just to go to Manila for that!

[@jesswhycamarz]

Damn I’m so sorry. The BP brain is a really hard one to exist with.

[@bellezbubbles238]

The background set up is SENDING MEEEEEE 😂😂😂😂 Really like the concept Miss Po, lurve from Brighton, UK 💜

[@elizabethbrown5289]

Thanks for posting, Po. I love your normal stuff but this was great too. Mix it up. If this is easier for you and allows you to take care of you, yes please keep these coming. Also I can't wait for the next recap of Joynono and Red. I don't even watch Love After Lockup but I am obsessed with your recaps! ❤

[@angelascharmedlife]

Yes! Love Joynono.

[@laursouth52]

I never thought Brandon was a great guy. I’d always thought they had equal issues and then the episode came out where she asked him to turn down the volume and he left the house and I was like ohhhhhhh there’s something very wrong with him. They’re both abusive in their own ways but honestly he’s had so much damage done in his life he’d need A LOT of therapy to heal and seeing his mom enable that behavior makes it worse.

[@laursouth52]

People think just because he looks small and puts on an act he’s harmless but him losing his temper over the volume told me everything I needed to know.

[@PsycheAi]

I respect that Kenny and Armando are doing these things for money, but they don’t need to be around all this negativity.

[@drunkenwench]

Who names a child Memory? The kind of parents who name their baby, Midnight 😂

[@CherryCharris]

Memory Midnight! Get it now for the fullest comfort while you sleep! Only $999.99!

[@Anonymouseduck]

KALANI was the best part of the tell all. So glad to see her in a better place

[@Margriet101]

For us strangers its always easy to jugde

[@sweetcheeks5775]

i think she’s a manipulative narc. can’t stand her.

[@katiekotok505]

Girl why am I so down to potato-and-chill and hear your gossip when I have never seen your face😂 love your videos!

[@troubleinthevalley5884]

They always say don't go to couples counseling with your abuser. Because all it does is teach them how to be sneakier with their abuse

[@tinaa8419]

As well as telling them how you caught them up exactly. Always love when the first question out their mouth is.. how did you know/find out?

[@ronaldmussulman2735]

What on earth earth Po? You saw the ripping away of the lollipop, him getting in her face all the time, him telling her she wasn't leaving the apartment.. They can say that their relationship works for them but he is still abusive.

[@laieli]

Agree ~ it's just as abusive/red flagging as anything else, but 'since Shekinah likes it, it's ok'? I didn't expect Po to react like that - there's a LOT of criticism that Sarper deserves but I'm not hearing it.

[@taylorhaynes1703]

Brandon and Mary are the perfect example of needing to make sure you work on yourself and are happy by yourself BEFORE getting into a relationship. Let alone bringing a child into this world. The goal is to raise your child so they don’t have to unlearn childhood traumas. As someone who got out of a narcissistic relationship Brandon definitely has some mirroring behaviors.

[@Starprinceemile]

Its really sad that with the option of therapy becoming more common, people are forgetting how hard it is to reach out for help when most people seem like they're handling life fine while you're drowning, and when you do bring it up people knee jerk reaction is to shush you, even if it's with the best of intentions.

[@emilythayer8228]

Emotionally abuse people will always say they’re doing what they’re doing to help them. He’s definitely being abusive to Mary

[@AnimeArchaeologist]

Brandon and Mary are both very suspicious.

[@thegaybookpixie]

Mary has her demons but she wants to become better. Brandon on the other hand...there's no way he's not verbally and mentally abusing her.

[@Chitownhomestead]

Shes doesn't want to do better cause she shouldn't have gotten preggo while totally broke in an unstable relationship shes a liar and a manipulator

[@channel69gorlworldnews66]

No she doesn’t 😂

[@lovem7635]

​@@channel69gorlworldnews66she is abusive she can drive crazy any one we seen her he is honest he tilling what he says her playing victim little innocent every body made here

[@sharonharris9782]

You must be kidding right? Mary doesn't want help or to change

[@Chitownhomestead]

@@sharonharris9782 excatly she says she's embarrassed about getting therapy but is on national tv making a fool of herself

[@wiredvibe1678]

Shkaina and Sarper litterally built each other for each other like legos

[@allysonlamba2960]

Id like to see Brandon's mum offer to pay for therapy instead of just running her mouth.

[@angelascharmedlife]

I was wondering if it's not popular there like where and how much?

[@Isthisjoebiden]

Why? They're grown and she's going through her own things trying to stay sober. Brandon is old enough to make smarter decisions, he chose to be a dum dum pop. Screw him.

[@lovem7635]

​@@Isthisjoebidenfor him if he go back for good and send money for his child

[@suva707]

OMG I am loving all your background pictures!

[@ProfessorTakatoPalm]

At this point Mary’s angry face is just her normal face. Other than her crying, I never see her show any other emotion other than this 😠 face

[@alyssapinon9670]

Her grandpa has the same expression all the time too. Must be generic plus similar conditions of poverty and hardship

[@AnimeArchaeologist]

@@alyssapinon9670 It's not genetic. Brandon's grandpa rightly gets to have that face because his granddaughter's a problem. Both need help, and that starts if or when Mary gets appropriate mental health help.

[@lovem7635]

​@@alyssapinon9670I don't know what he seen in her l know alot of people from her country very caring hard working kind she is not all day complaining crying playing victim we seen like Rose nice Mary she should have meat some one from her country

[@lolaBee9]

​@@lovem7635he doesn't deserve a nice woman from anywhere with the way he acts. They both need help before being with anyone

[@ThePhilotherianist]

He saw a girl who wouldn't realize it was a red flag that he spent his time playing games online all day. Who he could convince that he and his family were loaded, and get to be a hero to by sending her money, when girls in his own country weren't going to give him a second look. @@lovem7635

[@kerencorner]

Out of everyone covering this whole Mary part. You were the only one that actually realized how horrible Brandan is. I'm afraid we have another Karine and Paul!!

[@catbuthuman]

Thanks for the Christmas upload Po! It feels kinda like getting a virtual present. Edit: those FaceTimes unlocked forbidden memories. That man is a red flag

[@Sophie-Claire]

Brandon is an addict, like his mother. Instead of drugs, it is video games.

[@annesawicki2930]

Omg I needed a video from you today so badly 😭❤️

[@MyCatsToldMe2]

Brandon reminds me of my kids bio dad. Never wanted to work, rage over games, it was a little triggering

[@nicolearaujo5820]

The pictures of the cast in the back 💀💀💀

[@skitteekatz]

We missed you! Hope you have a happy holiday!

[@LyssaJ830]

Brandon knows he be on the game 24/7 but still went to another country to purposely have a baby with Mary knowing damn well he’s not gonna help physically or financially. They both played themselves

[@AnimeArchaeologist]

If the passportbro simps get to simp for Brandon because he's an American, know that KZbin and Tiktok are doomed at that point.

[@bettywhite2694]

No ones defending Brandon​@@AnimeArchaeologist

[@AnimeArchaeologist]

@@bettywhite2694 I hope that this ages like fine wine, because the moment someone defends Brandon due to his nationality, things will get all manner of sus from there.

[@bettywhite2694]

@AnimeArchaeologist nothing wrong with people dating outside their nationality (seems like you have a problem with it), but Brandon is just mentally unwell and I doubt anyone is gonna defend him

[@AnimeArchaeologist]

@@bettywhite2694 I'm just saying that I hope that he won't get defended due to his nationality. Sadly, I know those who can do just that.

[@zingerbear27]

Wow, he’s really blaming her because he can’t sleep or eat.

[@sarahtaavetti]

Honestly, the Brandon Videos didn't seem so bad. The "You are not ugly, turn the camera on!" seem like the words of someone who is just fed up with constant self-deprivation and compliment fishing. If someone I love kept saying how ugly they are, I would be feed up at some point, too. He is using her tactics of manipulation to try and get her to do things she should be doing regardless. I've seen what people with those kind of tactics do... Instead of letting it "slide" and not demand to do something aka turn the camera on, they would have been "so you agree that I am too ugly for the camera be on?". She is the kind of insecure person who will start a fight, simply because she wants to see him apologize/grovel (aka make sure, he still loves her enough to do so). I am not saying that they don't have a toxic relationship. But they are both so immature and insecure, they keep goating each other.

[@gl7881]

I honestly wish we could see the full raw footage with some of these couples because I want to see their behaviour and the situations they are referring to in their entirety

[@lovem7635]

We did see alot of her

[@hinatamercury]

90 day fiance formula is portraying 1 partner as good and the other as problematic 🤷 guess they applied that again with Mary and Brandon

[@AnimeArchaeologist]

I sadly remember that formula from Ed and Rose.

[@lolo-ve9rd]

Why is nobody talking about Sarpers kid that he apparrantly has already that he has never met.

[@junglesuperstar9270]

What about him? He is ok. With loving mom.

[@beewest5704]

​@@junglesuperstar9270Who knows if the kid was even born or still alive. Sarper sure as hell does not.

[@junglesuperstar9270]

@@beewest5704 typical story . She wanted baby . Went to Turkey . I am sure the kid is well taken care of .

[@TheFantasticFox822]

I feel for Mary. She’s definitely worked herself into this position, but she probably didn’t anticipate how much Brandan would degrade under stress before getting pregnant. She is insecure and manipulative, I get it, but Brandan is seriously emotionally abusive. Mary’s trapped now.

[@lovem7635]

She used him

[@Aliasass]

​@@lovem7635ok, racist

[@ThePhilotherianist]

And he used her, along with whomever he mooched that money from, because there aren't many jobs he could have actually been working whilst maintaining his gaming/and mary schedule that would have payed as much as he sent in the amount of time that he sent it. @@lovem7635

[@onyx081]

Neither Mary or Branden are victims at this point. They're *both* abusive to each other

[@ShelbyEstrada228]

@@lovem7635 ….for what tho?

[@JaseekaRawr]

Wow, Brandan & his mama are 🚮 She's defending her son calling his wife that 🥴

[@AnimeArchaeologist]

I get that she's his mom and all, but she should've told her son not to do this.

[@lovem7635]

Mary is not nice she didn't respected her but she wanted him respect her family and he was

[@TS-ls7uz]

Mary and Brandon both need therapy but it such a problem over there they think your crazy if you go !! But maybe over FaceTime they can that’s sad that it’s hard to get help !! Brandon has big anger issues …

[@AnimeArchaeologist]

They still need therapy. Problem is, that's very expensive to do.

[@sunday4676]

A christmas gift I wasn’t expecting! Thanks for the video as always Po!

[@tjfromalaska4520]

Merry Christmas you beautiful Potato!! Thank you for posting today because it gives me something to watch while I'm working till midnight!! ❤

[@nishadh366]

I wrote to Holly on IG, she replied and basically said there was a lot more stuff that happened behind the scenes that didn’t air.

[@angelascharmedlife]

Anyone catch the look on Brandon's face when Mary describes being scared during the delivery? She said she was losing oxygen and he looks downright delighted. 😵‍💫

[@endearment6705]

I think that's like the first time I've seen Brandon smile like that since he moved there. Who smiles (ESPEICALLY THE WAY HE DID) when talking about their wife AND baby almost dying during delivery? Every other scene he looks depressed af.

[@LalunatheRevolutionary]

Because he's a serial killer that's hiding out in the Philippines.😂 They keep trying to say he's so depressed that m***********'s not depressed. He's just crazy. You can see it all in his eyes.

[@sharonharris9782]

​@@LalunatheRevolutionaryhi Mary, how are ya? 😂

[@angelascharmedlife]

@@endearment6705 it was super unsettling and I hope Mary watched that

[@dhglowlightblue]

⁠@@LalunatheRevolutionaryThat would… oddly make sense. I’m just wondering why a guy would choose to move to the Philippines and live in poverty, and now it all comes together. 🤔 Maybe the mother knows something too. Also, have you noticed that whenever he speaks to Mary, his voice always sounds pressed…like he’s holding back some serious anger

[@rayvenvamp3093]

Yay PO changed her mind on Christmas ⛄ tysvm You are awesome ❤

[@Liltwilightprincess2]

My main issue with Brandon and Mary is that they trauma bonded and that's the only way they knew eachother and the moment cracks started to form they thought they could patch it up with a baby

[@terryguerra1010]

Mary and Brandon. OMG. They are so damn emotionally and mentally immature... and now they've brought a child into this world. All hope is gone.

[@miraclemay24]

I believed Mary from day 1.. she was toxic but there's always a direct source for that. The fact she had to drop out of school because Brandon was jealous was enough for me to know they both are toxic

[@AnimeArchaeologist]

Wait, she dropped out of school because she was simping over Brandon!? Good grief!

[@channel69gorlworldnews66]

She dropped out for that dude? How embarrassing He’s absolutely not worth it

[@AnimeArchaeologist]

@@channel69gorlworldnews66 Her simping knows no bounds.

[@shirandawilliams]

If "lie and deny" was a person it would be yohan

[@taylorcarson8893]

😂😂

[@CannagirlGettadab]

Brandon's mom is sketchy af

[@ItsYaBoi888]

She's an ex drug addict... Wonder if she's actually clean currently

[@beewest5704]

How do you think Brandon become who he is?

[@channel69gorlworldnews66]

Well she did raise Brandan so there’s that 💀💀

[@lovem7635]

How Mary is scammer

[@sobanoodlegamer]

The Brandon tiktok clips look like the prequel to a true crime doc 😭

[@sunny-bl6cy]

Those bags swarming their wedding was undeniably a sign

[@itsNinaLeeyo]

I love your perspective on Brandon bc I definitely forgot that he plays a major part in the toxicity. The narrative is more on her, and since she is used to being pushed down, she can't stand up for herself.

[@msmaam2040]

All I'm getting is that Mary's fears of him leaving prior to them meeting is that Brandon used this against her and manipulated her. He manipulated a lot of people through the show. I knew that Mary wasn't getting upset or mad just out of nowhere. Angela needs to stay out of this unless she's willing to pay for them to go see a therapist.

[@qutesmilee]

I know you said you are trying this new format without much editing and wanted to hear our thoughts on this change. To be honest, I didn't find it much different. I still love listening to you and think you are hilarious 😂 keep the videos coming!

[@bellarina]

Brandon went right to the "nice" neighbour that has people in his basement 🤣 Mary has prob got attachment issues, but Brandon wants to fight for sport then come out looking good.

[@jadziabs6546]

I believe that mary can’t control herself when she’s jealous or whatever but he’s clearly in control enough to hide it from the camera which is just so much worse

[@yourmybeans]

Happy Holidays!🎉❤ And wow great coverage on Mary n Branden . I haven't seen any of that 😮

[@xletragedyx]

First of all, Po, this "minimal" editing is more than enough. This video was awesome! Second, Mary is disgusting. I never thought she was the only problem, but I don't think we can 100% trust footage that's recorded without the other person's knowledge. She's shaping a narrative. I don't believe that she's afraid of Brandan. I think that she likes that he's a piece of shit and she tries to mine sympathy from it. She even tries to get his mom to take her side, but she's so toxic she takes Brandan's side 100%. Mary is sick and doesn't want to improve the relationship. She doesn't want it to get better. Brandan is a self-absorbed ass and doesn't care to improve the relationship either.

[@mistyblue2917]

Wow, that picture-wall/lips-couch/“POTATO & CHILL” background is amazing! 🎉

[@apexbloodPRgaming]

Why would you name your child Midnight 😂😂

[@lenakalou1750]

I know awful

[@jandedick7519]

I wonder if they will have another child and name it Daybreak?

[@apexbloodPRgaming]

I never understood why famous people do this shit like Dream blue ivy north saint I'm mean shit Nicolas cage named his son kal -el 🤣🤣🤣

[@annaelisavettavonnedozza9607]

Cause they’re idiots

[@allysonlamba2960]

exactly. all the Midnights I've known are cats. or strippers lol. Memory isn't that bad.

[@craigjenkins5434]

This is such a nice present!!

[@jessicacl2689]

Mary and Brandon spend way to much time together no wonder they piss each other off. They need their own goals and need to feel secure about the relationship. I don't think he's that mean but they are extremely immature and need to have some priorities outside of tending to each other 24/7. It's dull and they become a soap opera to compensate.

[@whaddup691]

They named their baby midnight? Thats the worst thing they’ve done on this show

[@AnimeArchaeologist]

@@beewest5704 I'm a Filipino and even I think that it's very unusual.

[@beewest5704]

Might be common in the Phillipines.

[@AnimeArchaeologist]

@@beewest5704 It isn't.

[@jazzyj6640]

Brandon is a narcissist. The way he verbally abuses Mary, how he tries to act innocent and 'sane'. And none of this negates Mary's behavior. He plays this narcissist role VERY well.

[@sharonharris9782]

And Mary's an angel? Gtfoh 😂

[@Whatever_Linda]

The photos you chose for the background are TOP

[@soohyunkim4193]

Love the lipstick! (and obv love the recap!) Merry Christmas or happy holidays ! ❤ Love your recaps so much!!! Best present 😍

[@ZoeNycole]

Uploading on Christmas?? Omg thanks for the gift!! Hope you have a great day 💕💕

[@aurorarose1098]

Merry Christmas Po! Thank you for the video!

[@MsNorgab]

Potat Hill Merry Christmas thank you for this video as a gift

[@WatchingBadTV]

We're going to talk about the name Memory but not MIDNIGHT?!

[@allysonlamba2960]

a lovely name for cats and strippers

[@jaystr]

It’s the time baby was made

[@WatchingBadTV]

@@jaystr noooooo 😭😭😭😭😭😂