Everyone is getting married & having babies but I want to... | 7 Minute Saturday

[@FlyByFrancis]

"Do it. Be it." - Oni

[@RandomlyOniC]

✊🏾✊🏾 Now you got me wanting to get this printed in cursive and post it on my wall!

[@FlyByFrancis]

Haha do it! 😁✊✊

[@MakenzieJoInspo]

I agree with this. Age doesn’t matter. It’s just really hard when you really a desire a husband/ family with your own kids bc women can only have kids for so many years :(❤🙏🏼

[@MakenzieJoInspo]

Very encouraging video though. I never thought about it like that: that maybe sometimes they wish they would’ve followed more of their dreams instead of rushing into things. Society puts too much pressure on to us to do certain things by a certain age. But we are unique and have unique callings and dreams from God♥️and God has the most perfect timing

[@RadicallyRose]

I needed to hear this today! I relate with the topic draw. I do my best everyday by God's grace. Who made the biological clock anyways? Somebody show me where the clock is so I can break that thang!😂. Comparison is the thief of joy. Everything on earth has its time. Live your life regardless. Being in my 30s now, with no kid yet or husband, I get asked questions if I want. (Of course, I do!) But I am not gonna settle just because...😩

[@Sternschnuppen85]

Natasha Becke comparison is the thief of joy! So true!!

[@user-vo6hm1tb9f]

People need to be aware of social constructs. For some, following social norms makes them genuinely happy but for others it makes them absolutely miserable. Be comfortable with being different. Take pride in being an individual and going against the grain of what is considered normal. Life is too short to be like everyone else. This may sound morbid but at the end of the day we’re all going to die. It’s doesn’t matter what career you’re in, how much money you make, or the lifestyle you choose to live, fact of the matter is we’re all going to leave this earth. But while we’re here, we have the freedom to create a life of our own design, regardless of what society has to say. I know it’s easier said than done but...be brave enough to live creatively.

[@RandomlyOniC]

Ohmygoodness!! I love love love that you said this. So perfectly stated. Yes it may sound morbid but it's the truth.

[@08phil]

Come through with the 7 minute Saturday

[@Lillbetlayne]

People who ask about the kids and husband are thinking of the grief they would have living your life. They have no expectations of you really. They’re expressing their fear about them. Run with God’s gifts in your life. They won’t be disappointed in who you are. -I bet bunch of your subs are those who came in on your nursing vid and want that freedom from expectations

[@RandomlyOniC]

Projection in essence. I know i've done that before--put my fears onto others. Through that, I have learned that - whatever another person decides to do with their life - it has nothing to do with me and it's not my place to express or even feel any particular way. Can you elaborate on freedom from expectations?! I think I know what you mean but I want to make sure I understand

[@Lillbetlayne]

Randomly Oni C -I meant to be emotionally free from any hidden meaning of questions or from a sense that we’re doing something wrong when our life situation surprises someone because the risk of projection is so high (yes what I meant but rarely use the word. For me the concept is, “I’m gonna keep your head outta my head)

[@08phil]

Preach!!