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[@Kaspaa]

This felt wholesome but the content of the conversation surely was not.

[@Chamoricangurl7]

PREACH

[@ubchnfhnbh2278]

The second half was definitely getting salty. Mate she starts talking about his friends seeing her naked that was pretty horrible

[@alliesteph6274]

You can definitely tell that they’ve moved past everything and matured for the sake of their kids but that’s just what I’ve gathered. I respect people who can put their past aside and coparent

[@adrianwb]

100%

[@giovannicastillo794]

Facts!!

[@motomoto6821]

Most toxic yet not toxic relationship I’ve ever seen

[@Neo.Jordon]

completely toxic, and he needs help. He has no spine, he shouldn't even continue consort with her after being emasculated and disrespected during their marriage.

[@smileprincess6834]

@@Neo.Jordon he literally spent a lot of money and time on porn and strippers. How is she the only problem you see? Clearly they both acknowledge they both had wrong doings that lead to their ultimate breakup and they're mature enough to move past it

[@LegionIvory]

@@Neo.Jordon Seriously? What are you, an incel?

[@mokaa.9553]

@@Neo.Jordon eenie minie miny moe caught the incel by his toe

[@enderwiggins8248]

Truth, their relationship is a lot of things

[@GermaeAnne]

They obviously have a much better, healthier relationship as exes. It's cute how ex-husband said he really likes her current husband.

[@TheBiggestMoronYouKnow]

Maybe he likes him 🥵

[@SkippyBippy]

@@TheBiggestMoronYouKnow sensei 😫🥵

[@BG-sq7zf]

1st Take: "My advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier." Yours sincerely, Sheryl Sandberg, chief operating officer of Facebook 2nd Take: “My music is always going to make a woman feel like a bad bitch. When you make a woman feel like she’s the baddest bitch in the room, to me, that’s female empowerment.” Decently yours, Cardi B. My Humble Take: What most simps, feminist fe/males, white-knights, betas and conservative guys fail to realize: bad boys provide excitement, novelty, unpredictability and fun (fear, roller-coaster drama) to a new level. In other words, stability and commitment (no longer) won't cut it for today's 🦄. Why is that? Before she was your girlfriend, wife or lover, she already had been "run through" so many guys. And each time she slept with someone (both wo/men), she lost a part of her soul. In other words, she is no longer able to have emotional attachment in a healthy or committed way. *The Rational Male Series* by Rollo Tomassi *The Manipulated Man* by Esther Vilar *Anatomy of Female Power* by Chinweizu Ibekwe *Silent Weapons for Quiet Wars: An Introductory Programing Manual* by Anonymous Isaiah 3:12 *Childish* leaders oppress my people, and *women* rule over them. O my people, your leaders mislead you; they send you down the wrong road. Proverbs 31:3 Don't give your strength (attention, resources, mental point origen) to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.

[@SkippyBippy]

@@BG-sq7zf bro shut up

[@ciselycormier]

100%

[@juliancarabajal7036]

-When I found out she cheated on him 😯 -When I found out he would go to strip clubs 😲 -When I found out she became a stripper 😱

[@kylie6764]

Your reaction killed me 🤣🤣🤣

[@shubhangijain98]

When I found out his friends went to the strip club to watch her strip 🤯

[@YallahYah]

When I found she belongs to the streets 😵

[@Gleyi07]

🤣😂🤣🤣🤣😂

[@FluoxetinaBelcher]

For real, who are their writers!!!!!!!

[@rdvanbilgic341]

The fucking complications this relationship have had is beyond anyone's imagination...

[@augustlion8]

Everyone has their own baggage

[@bardoorble6045]

Hundred percent

[@Sophia00011]

Porn addiction and alcoholism are sadly not that uncommon.

[@bbbccc3420]

Rıdvan ismin ve fotoğrafın arasındaki müthiş uyum..

[@juggernautjay307]

what kinda grammar?? lmao i almost had a stroke reading this

[@kittyyourock]

"I wrote it in my diary" ... "then it must be true" truer facts have never been spoken

[@Neo.Jordon]

and she is fat, that's a fact.

[@shortyisdope9493]

@@Neo.Jordon I don't know why you felt the need to reiterate that but ok...

[@enderwiggins8248]

@@shortyisdope9493 the Jordan character is just being dumb, he’s in other comments lol

[@haleighnoelle6323]

@@Neo.Jordon alright you are definitely a virgin based off your comments

[@graceobyrne2639]

@@Neo.Jordon yeah and?

[@jenjuice432]

Just when I thought this conversation couldn't get any crazier, she said SHE became a stripper after all of this.

[@mprice6683]

And still blames him for the breakup. What a psycho.

[@jamiejoonks]

@@mprice6683 she didn’t blame him she said the reason they broke up was because she cheated

[@mprice6683]

@@jamiejoonks She literally equate his bad husband behavior of seeing strippers was equal to her cheating and actually suggested that it was his fault he cheated. If he refused to consider her feelings and see a therapist she needed to leave. There is NEVER a justification for cheating.

[@sola_a]

@@mprice6683 well yeah. Seeing strippers and getting lapdances IS cheating. Both of them suck

[@alex1114_]

Agree lol

[@kouseiarima8555]

This conversation was so polite and free flowing and the energy they have seems so much healthier, but what they were actually saying had me thinking how can you say this with a straight face 😂

[@VonCarti]

?

[@Cartanimee]

I made your comment 1k.first time😭

[@casslowry6225]

Just goes to show time can heal everything

[@peepmam]

love your pfp :')

[@kouseiarima8555]

@@peepmam A person of culture I see

[@danielnaranjo6321]

People want them to get back together but it's obvious they are better apart

[@masoodtareen2218]

Who the fuck wants them back together the destruction they did to their life their children life's is enough

[@SkippyBippy]

@@masoodtareen2218 shut up

[@graceobyrne2639]

@@masoodtareen2218 thank you for your input however we actually have a very healthy coparenting relationship and our children are quite happy and stable:

[@masoodtareen2218]

@@graceobyrne2639 they maybe happy and stable now but the trauma they have been through they will never forget about it they maybe somehow somewhere in there mind would still want you two to be back together and happy but I hope that would never happen

[@erin4924]

@@masoodtareen2218 you might need to go to therapy bud, you have no idea what's happened with their children at all. sounds like you're speaking from a place of personal experience and hurt, but you can't project that onto other people.

[@captainclyde4438]

Oooh, I feel like their relationship at the time was quite toxic, but they both grew up and became quite mature and good people

[@yoshzlac2429]

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[@yoshzlac2429]

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[@arpitabrahmachari7649]

@@yoshzlac2429 stop

[@anacecic9605]

Yeah idk bout that, they both said they would do everything the same if they got back together...

[@louisa5629]

@@anacecic9605 they grew up and matured and know they're better apart. no one's saying they should get back together

[@OneRandomVictory]

This is the most healthy post-toxic marriage relationship I've ever seen. Just the fact that they can look back and laugh and acknowledge that they both fucked that marriage up is kinda refreshing.

[@jenjuice432]

I think it becomes easier to look back and laugh back on chaos when you're no longer in the same place of dysfunction. It doesn't have as much of an emotional affect on you with time and maturity.

[@OArchivesX]

The worst thing is that she goes on to have more kids. I don't know how/why people can do that. Like stop. Can you people stop fucking having dumbass kids

[@AlaskaBoyAlex]

this episode is certainly interesting. I find myself coming back to it every once in a while just to remind myself that good people are good people despite their flaws, you know?

[@ratpitt4292]

„When you cheated on me...“ Them: 😂😂😂 Me: 😐😐😐

[@tarianna07]

Fr I was like 😒

[@DA-js7xz]

Can't blame her.

[@korkunge]

@@DA-js7xz Exactly

[@potheadraccoon8536]

@@DA-js7xz a cheater is always a cheater fuck outta here with this

[@SeeShmemilyPlay]

@@potheadraccoon8536 They were married when they were teenagers lol, they've clearly moved past it and are mature adults who probably/definitely make better decisions than as teenagers

[@scoober4386]

HUGE respect to him saying "well then it must have happened, and I'm sorry for that"

[@velenofiore]

it was the least he could do! damn, the bar is so low for men that he looks like a prize

[@fgdh2460]

@@velenofiore Ok karen

[@Chocolateeepyt]

@@fgdh2460 😂😂

[@Chocolateeepyt]

@@velenofiore a lot of people wouldn’t do it though so it’s about taking accountability for being wrong instead of making it a big deal. Less issues

[@blossom4884]

Dude didnt have a choice. Theyre on cam so he got cornered 💀

[@MrEclipseHeart]

Oh she's the bad guy. no he is! no wait but she did this oh no he did that. Just how complicated is this relationship.

[@mprice6683]

He was a bad husband so instead of getting counselling or just leaving she banged his friend. Who is the bad person here?

[@lolmao500]

Both were shitty but clearly the dude started it.

[@Savyflores]

It is very complicated yeah. It’s just a great illustration that there aren’t always “bad guys” in relationships. All people are complex and some can meld together into a very toxic relationship that makes both parties do wildly unacceptable things. Neither was the “bad guy,” but both desperately needed to separate in order to grow as people

[@mprice6683]

@@lolmao500 "The dude started it"? Seriously? There is NO WAY you would be equally blaming the woman if her husband cheated. You want privileges, not equality.

[@mprice6683]

@@Savyflores Thank you. They are obviously both bad spouses, but the sexism here to blame the man no matter what is insane. The idea that he is this evil man that went to strip clubs despite her begging and crying him to stop is completely a made up fantasy by women justifying cheating. His uncaring behavior may have been fixed through counselling but we will never know since the vindictive woman immediately slept with his friend and then became a stripper to get attention. He could be redeemed. She went pure evil that here was no turning back from.

[@stephenleonchase6929]

Two parent's apart with a healthy relationship is better than 2 parent's that row and have a bad relationship together.

[@azore554]

Tell your relationship was toxic without telling me your relationship was toxic...

[@tihamercsepregi7885]

The parameters of this relationship are too difficult.

[@harrier1830]

A man of coding perhaps😅

[@mitarthsingh7515]

@@harrier1830 nerd alert 👀

[@harrier1830]

@@mitarthsingh7515 I know man but for my dumb luck my codes never work 😂

[@claire-yn2zi]

They work as friends, but truly... yikes.

[@Horac3]

Wow, I mean he was jacked up for constantly going to the strip club and neglecting her but Damn. Cheated on him and intentionally became a stripper so all his “friends” could see her. SHEESH That’s Wild!

[@yoshzlac2429]

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[@yoshzlac2429]

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[@monkeyboilik3654]

Yea and i can guarantee a lot of people dont see a problem with that.

[@ashleyg.3995]

"jacked up" is an understatement. She should have dropped his ass immediately but I guess she took another path lol

[@perkymina9275]

@@ashleyg.3995 Yes "another path" is also described as Petty Central✨😌✨

[@Soumik.Naskar]

Teen romance, getting pregnant at 18, he spending all his money on strippers & booze, she cheating on him with his (their) friend, he falling into depression, she going crazy and becoming a straipper herself to hurt him and the list probably goes on... Damn😆 I'm just gonna watch inception, interstellar and tenet back to back to clear my mind. All of em together would be easy to explain than this😁

[@zzzz26526]

LMAO the part where she became a stripper part had me shook. What a weird ex couple.

[@Soumik.Naskar]

@@zzzz26526 lol exactly😆

[@kyra6744]

CHRISTOPHER NOLAN, I FOUND MY FAVORITE COMMENT ON THE INTERNET

[@nateplaysgolf]

This was a blast! Thanks cut for having us. I cringed at myself quite a bit, 100%. Relationships are definitely a 2 way street and we both messed this one up and grew exponentially from it! Much love to the comment section! Y’all the real mvps! ✌🏻❤️

[@graceobyrne2639]

The comment section is wildin LOL. Looking back we would both do things differently. Shoulda coulda woulda, but I’m grateful for where we are now.

[@pamelafaddis1351]

You're great and totally sweet! Do you have social media we can follow you on?

[@pamelafaddis1351]

@Nate and @Grace y'all had the balls to go on a public platform and spill your dirty laundry. And you talked about it in a super healthy way. We can't change the past, but y'all seemed to have fixed your future pretty well :)

[@graceobyrne2639]

@@pamelafaddis1351 IG @stylesby_grace

[@Cainbo]

Why did you have children if you weren’t ready.

[@olivia_adams]

they just came here to drink lmao. but yea their relationship was EXTREMELY toxic

[@SuperLuxz]

Thanks God "It Was" now the look more mature and respect each other

[@brandonbreuer6589]

She's knocking back those shots like they are water.

[@blackmamaessa]

he hurt her, but she made sure she hurt him x10 more. toxic couple

[@mprice6683]

He never cheated.

[@MrFlash119]

She hurt herself getting naked for his friends, they’re probably laughing at her

[@mprice6683]

@@MrFlash119 When she did that they definitely went to him and said "You dodged a bullet. I am glad you are not with that psycho anymore".

[@BlissfulBluebell]

@@mprice6683 really depends on what they consider cheating. I know some ppl who consider kissing to be cheating. Moreover, they were teens parents. They're brain hadn't even finished developing yet. Add the stress of working and a newborn in the mix, I don't think it's surprising they made questionable choices... tho she did go a bit overkill with her revenge. Clearly they were too young, too soon

[@laisha6903]

@@mprice6683 going to strip clubs just to see other women naked and getting lap dances is 100% cheating, she specifically asked him NOT TO DO IT.

[@GabyBumb]

They wholesomely hate each other.

[@kathrynorozco5416]

They don’t hate each other

[@bc001__]

nobody: guy: yeah. 100%.

[@Jotaku27]

03:10 he said that as I read it

[@JesseJo95]

“I was a teen mom before it was cool” 😂

[@fyedupshawty]

It has never been cool smh

[@blind3766]

She became a stripper so his friends see her? 😧 fam

[@davuswentzel8847]

Yeah ngl I got some AWFUL vibes from this lady- when he said she cheated she immediately pointed out his faults instead of recognizing her own wrongs

[@louis9905]

She seems soo toxic..

[@alanwalker5845]

@@louis9905 agreed. She is crazy.

[@yknowthatgirl]

The guy left her home with a baby while he spent money on porn and strippers. Can you blame her? Neither of them are angels.

[@ashleyg.3995]

@@yknowthatgirl Acknowledging when a man does something wrong isn't cool, didn't you get the memo? He basically cheated. "I begged you not to go to a strip club but you did anyway" is cheating to me, if not blatantly immensely disrespectful. And he made a habit of it too. Just lol She should have just left his ass instead of cheating, but anyone with an ounce of empathy can kind of understand why

[@Megan-sr4du]

Grace looks like a sims 3 character lol

[@yoshzlac2429]

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[@Jersmen_Kay]

Best sims though😂

[@itrugater]

He’s gotta figure out which friends watched his ex strip lol that’s not someone who can be my friend.

[@babaentertainment6615]

had the same thought

[@dawniebug784]

She's not gonna out the people who helped her get revenge for him going out to love the sight of other women than weren't her, his WIFE. Ex-wife now.

[@ShayantanSantra]

Their kids will cringe everytime they watch this. Loved the video though. PS: No hate to anyone ❤️

[@dimitriosmantarlis9404]

Cringe? Jesus they will be traumatised.

[@arpitabrahmachari7649]

@@ShayantanSantra that's no laughing matter, mate.

[@ShayantanSantra]

@@arpitabrahmachari7649 that traumatized word felt funny

[@graceobyrne2639]

Actually we have a pretty open and honest relationship with our kids, and they will be just fine.

[@ShayantanSantra]

@@graceobyrne2639 that's so cool 😍 Loved your honesty and I didn't mean any hate whatsoever 💕

[@taylormiller2633]

I really appreciate how the guy owned up to calling her fat, most guys don't do that.....

[@victoriap7864]

it should be basic human decency to apologize when you do shitty things to people...

[@kfallon862]

Don’t applaud men (or anyone) for doing the bare minimum.

[@velenofiore]

@@victoriap7864 the bar is so low for men!

[@Rudi_Mentary723]

@@velenofiore Well if you're fat you're fat, I haven't seen any woman apologize yet for calling men short.

[@youllbemytourniquet]

@@Rudi_Mentary723 you sound short haha

[@MlleKnobs]

This is such a healthy relationship. Yeah, they fucked up when they were young but they own up to their mistakes and can be honest and kind with each other now. Kudos guys!

[@sushilsharma4202]

Bruh! If this is healthy then I don't want to know what's toxic.

[@SeeShmemilyPlay]

@@sushilsharma4202 It's clearly a super healthy relationship now. It was a mess and toxic when they were teenagers/early 20s, but it's clear they respect each other now and have a good parenting relationship for their son. It's awesome to see divorced parents talking like this

[@MlleKnobs]

@@SeeShmemilyPlay exactly. I wasn't saying it was always healthy, but overcoming problems and being able to discuss them so openly is the definition of a healthy relationship, at least for me

[@KTKRules]

They are so much better where they are now. Sounds like a wild ass relationship but I'm glad they are friends for their kid

[@theothers2744]

This conversation between exes is the calmest conversation I've watched. No slapping, or roaring 😂

[@thibault7476]

She's trying to make him feel bad, while she cheated on him? Damn

[@shamlove788]

To be fair he micro cheated. Don't get me wrong they're both toxic.

[@Mansoont]

that’s women for you

[@campeador94]

Dude. The guy was blowing money on strip clubs and porn and beer and passing out drunk on the couch while leaving her alone to deal with a one year old. Not denying that she cheated but it's not hard to empathize with someone looking for affection from outside a relationship.

[@howlsfilthycastle]

I'd argue he cheated too with all the bullshit he did

[@thibault7476]

Agree with these comments too, they just radiate toxicity towards eachother...

[@enderwiggins8248]

It’s weird to be able to see them both as like young high schoolers and parents and stripper enthusiasts and complicated humans all at the same time. Everybody has those layers but it’s rare to see them all at once I think

[@jackweissgarnix755]

Damn they seem toxic af

[@moojones6299]

in their past sure but the conversation they had about it seemed mature and healthy

[@gamalsankara1388]

Seem?

[@jackweissgarnix755]

@@gamalsankara1388 yeah, they "seem" toxic. It's a 5 minute video where they mostly talk about the best and worst experiences in their past. I don't really know how they are now. They may have changed, maybe they didn't. All I can tell is how they handled their relationship in the past and judge from that. I should probably phrase it differently: "damn they were toxic af".

[@abhaykumarsingh7081]

They were honest but mature and acknowledged their flaws in a gracefully mature manner that was nice to watch. Hope they continue being good friends forever!

[@britt1953]

I love how men consider going to the strip club and getting a lap dance not cheating. Just take the fact that you’re paying for it away, now is it cheating? Getting a lap dance from a woman who is bottomless or wearing a g-string is DEFINITELY not being loyal to your wife.

[@parps_official]

"...and you were hanging out with strippers" Producer: "WUT???" LMFAOOOOOOOOOOO

[@justtolivecomment]

That's why you should use protection, kids!

[@tiffanydlo.x]

but sometimes it fails you

[@jessi3434]

@S M exactly. I hate when people say “protection is not 100% effective it could fail yadadada” like some forms of birth control are 99% effective but they will take that 1% fail rate and run with it

[@jessi3434]

@S M Exactly. And I think you would make a great parent to a daughter

[@speakingtruth9924]

I think he wasn’t emotionally there for her so she cheated and maybe he didn’t fight hard enough for her so she wanted to get back at him and sought retribution

[@smileprincess6834]

True, I think her becoming a stripper (doing the one thing he focused his time and energy on) shows how she wanted him to notice her and perhaps show her the same love he showed strippers (just my opinion)

[@Atomicqueen9]

@@smileprincess6834 yess!!

[@mprice6683]

@@smileprincess6834 If she had a problem with his habits then get counselling or leave. Cheating is NEVER justified.

[@smileprincess6834]

@@mprice6683 I don't disagree that she should've left, but he was really wrong too. Why didn't he leave if he wasn't satisfied and still wanted to party with other naked women?

[@mprice6683]

@@smileprincess6834 How are you equating them? SHE CHEATED. What if she was reading romance novels instead of working on their relationship. That is female porn, so would that justify him cheating? NO. If he refused to go to counselling or acknowledge her problem with him going to strip clubs then she should have left. You do know how America treats women in child support. She would have got the kid and he would have had to pay child support. What justifies her going out and fooling around with his friend? She then went out and became that same thing she hated him for just to get his friends to see her naked. How is she not more toxic? The fact that you don't see the difference says a lot about you. Wow.

[@katiekincaid5026]

So he cheated the whole time getting lap dances and said she was the one that cheated.

[@bububago1017]

This feels toxic af

[@gogogadgetabby]

It was... but now it seems like they're cool

[@kristenharnish8773]

I actually love this. Not everyone is meant to be together and it’s great they can co parent in such a healthy way 🥰

[@ashleynichole8687]

He spent money on other naked women while married, when he knew it hurt his (now ex) wife, but wants to feel some sort of superior because he “didn’t cheat”? Honey you did. You put your own sexual gratification over your wife. You cheated on your commitment. Not to say she didn’t also make mistakes, but at least she owned up to it and accepted responsibility for what she did. Not try to deflect with a “oh well at least I didn’t do ____”. Both of them were extremely toxic people making very bad choices. But that moment of him trying to victimize himself is ridiculous.

[@maphytaffy]

True!!!!!

[@anniemiller1654]

This is true!! Him going to strip clubs all the time is probably what lead her to cheat because she didn't feel appreciated or valued in their relationship.

[@SIincerly_Sli]

I ain’t never been this early😂

[@itdmann5856]

EVER 😂💯

[@ramazan1835]

same 😂😂😂

[@yoshzlac2429]

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[@mrsanders6656]

me either bro.😭

[@itsme-mf4rp]

"he kinds reminds me of me" "they even look alike" "both have ginger beards, tattoos and are about the same height"

[@NamcoGam1ngGod1]

Ngl I can still see that little bit of chemistry between them

[@naturyst2915]

Probably because they were, you know...married.

[@samthewizzy]

Mans really said, “Like almost a year.” Like it was an achievement.

[@dandelion_.]

when someone talks about cheating and laugh i just be having this straight face, like ?

[@Miswhitness0520]

True but when you’re young shit happens. They are over it so we shouldn’t be mad

[@graceobyrne2639]

@@Miswhitness0520 exactly! We are over it and can make light of the situation. It’s been 12 years and we have grown as people and friends.

[@Miswhitness0520]

@@graceobyrne2639 yes girl and sometimes when relationships aren’t meant to be cheating is just gonna happen. I’m not excusing the behavior but something led you to that choice just like something led him to those strippers. I’ve cheated before and now that I have my dream man it wouldn’t even cross my mind to cheat. Live and learn.

[@sushilsharma4202]

@@Miswhitness0520 That's the dumbest justification I have heard. If you can't stand a relationship then just leave. No need to make the other partner feel humiliated.

[@nigelthornberry9484]

@@graceobyrne2639 you said it yourself, your kids are going to watch this. And they are going to see your nonchalance towards cheating and breaking your vows. Food for thought. I only say this because finding out my fathers infidelity and similar nonchalance towards the issue was the biggest factor in our falling out and current 5 year estrangement. Sometimes we can move past the mistakes of our youth and also show respect to the severity of the mistakes we’ve made and the people we have wronged.

[@whatthefruiter24]

Rewatching and taking a shot every time he says “100%” If I don’t come back to share results, I’m probably dead.

[@44RisingSun44]

"I didn't do that" "Yeah huh! I wrote about it in my diary" "Well then it must be true, I'm sorry"

[@Papa-Kilo75]

Perfect case study on the crazy sh*t you can get past with an ex for the kids’ sake. Not easy, but good for them for making it work.

[@availablenowondvdvhs794]

I would also cheat in my bf/husband if he was going to strip clubs. Literally guilt free.

[@m.k4653]

They came such a long way. It’s great to see that they have such an open relationship now.

[@sesamesprinkles]

This made me feel some type of way... “hundred percent”

[@julianblasing8498]

Super toxic relationship but very wholesome post-relationship

[@mackataz1605]

I can’t understand this dynamic at all. Him going to strip clubs while married is bad, but so is saying “I wanted his friends to see me naked” didn’t sit well with me either.

[@dawniebug784]

When you've been dragged through hell, you tend to take some with you on the way out

[@diveshrana7359]

This was the worst thing a woman can do to man if he loved her

[@tianamiliani326]

I love that you are highlighting transformation and growth within relationships. These videos are short and sweet and entertaining but they are really doing some deep subconscious work in reprogramming our belief systems of how we think communication and relationships should work. Thanks TheCut.

their vibe is so calm & cute but the content of the convo... Holy...

[@grasshopper832]

That's why it's important to define what cheating when first becoming a couple. For some people, hanging out with other naked women isn't ok, regardless if they're paid for it or not. It's all about consent and compromise, and she begged him not to, so she obviously wasn't ok with it.

[@Gryffindame]

This is why teens should wait. It's great to see that they still get on, I wish the same could be said for my parents!

[@aneasybee]

I'm so invested in these relationships now.

[@forgetfulmerc5564]

This 6 minute video has more plot twists than Sherlock Holmes alone did

[@lisa0833]

Prob that dislike is from there kid(s)

[@chloerosewood]

I can see where the relationship went sour. If he was always hanging out with strippers before she cheated, then she clearly didn't feel good enough for him so she looked some place else. Not an excuse to cheat on him but he also couldn't discipline himself from lusting over other women.

[@nocomment3677]

Seeing strippers and spending money on them when your spouse has repeatedly begged you not to and lying about the extent of those trips is ALSO cheating.

[@smileprincess6834]

According to most of these comments...apparently it's not. Crazy. I completely agree with you. He spent money to see other women naked, how is that different from her cheating.

[@arpitabrahmachari7649]

@@smileprincess6834 he didn't have sex with them. Cheating is when you fuck somebody else while your commited to someone else.

[@Atomicqueen9]

@@arpitabrahmachari7649 he was probably getting off so it's still not okay

[@smileprincess6834]

@@arpitabrahmachari7649 actually I'd argue he was cheating cause he was clearly emotionally invested in what he was doing to the point he neglected her emotionally. Unless what you're saying means you significant other can date online and sext too as long as they don't have sex with the person

[@smileprincess6834]

@@arpitabrahmachari7649 she begged him to stop and he continued.

[@autumn7809]

They clearly meant a lot to each other, young relationships shape you. I'm glad they figured out a way to keep something important alive and functional in a healthy way

[@katrinaxiv]

honestly good for them for knowing that they can’t work out together but still being there for their child that’s good parenting 🥰

[@dalekim9863]

Love their relationship now, seems super civil and honest.

[@teresakeding5585]

Damn sometimes I am sooo happy I am single :))

[@rainaz5677]

its nice how they can sit down and talk about their past relationship like this, idk if i could do that if i was in such a toxic relationship

[@martakolwicz512]

The way he apologized her becouse he called her fat is just melting my heart

[@inspiritsungjongie]

“You used to call me fat” ouch, do guys expect woman to have great boobs without having fat? Man 🤭🤭🤭 if this not the the most important reason why women getting plastic surgery to enhance their boobs then idk what

[@swoggityswitty7873]

Idk man I dated a skinny ass girl with huge boobs, they werented perky by any means but what can you expect if they're natural

[@Bringmethehorizondude]

When she started talking about becoming a stripper out of being angry at him, my jaw hit the floor. That’s crazy.

[@RomansR2]

I really respect these people for being self-aware of their self-destructive tendencies & taking practical steps to not let them take control by avoiding situations. That's emotional maturity.

[@MsMiaWallace]

I don't know why, but i get the vibe that he is still in love/something with her. The way he talks and looks at her...don't know. Crazy story though,cool that they're cool afterwards.

[@ganiopro]

This two look like really cool people, you can tell they mature from this relationship. Wish them the best!

[@yoshzlac2429]

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[@graceobyrne2639]

Thank you! We really have grown up quite a bit.

[@arpitabrahmachari7649]

@@graceobyrne2639 I hope so. Man you are one of the most toxic people I've ever heard of. I mean, you let his friends watch you naked, you married his friend, and according to the video, were constantly were dishonest to him.

[@amiablehacker]

@@arpitabrahmachari7649 Ok, there's really no reason to attack her. It's not like she's doing that now, and she wasn't saying that was a good thing. They moved on.

[@elisaduarte3604]

Omg they are amazing! I love how they seen so mature now and are able to talk about all the shit they did when they are young. That's it folks. You can be a really fuck up young people or, better saying, making fucked up choices and still growing to be a better person and have better relationships

[@JustAnotherLokiStan]

As much as they've grown, the fact that he cheated on her first (let's be real, hanging out with naked strippers and getting regular lap dances IS cheating) but had the audacity to say that the relationship ended because she cheated on him is so ridiculous. I don't support cheating, no matter who does it, but that is some serious pretentious behaviour on his part to blame her while he ALSO cheated. Bruh.

[@milk-yd6wv]

getting a lap dances is still heating 🤨

[@milk-yd6wv]

cheating*

[@lesavageunicorn7396]

yeah tru but the lady cheated before they got married as well. anyway this relationship is all over the place lmao

[@g3neriik901]

no it’s not

[@theonlyonewithgum1452]

@@g3neriik901 It is if the couple agreed to it. Anything can be cheating or not cheating depending on what the couple agrees to.

[@arpitabrahmachari7649]

@@theonlyonewithgum1452 well the couple didn't. So it isn't cheating.

[@Erikshan]

Trashiest personalities i've seen in a while in cut.

[@masoodtareen2218]

I think they were trash and toxic in the past don't judge them by there past I think they finally became positive and good people

[@Erikshan]

@@masoodtareen2218 nah...they are trash....the moment this woman thinks that his current husband might be doing the same thing...she will not even take a second to repeat her actions. It always is on back of their mind...they just need a reason to do it.

[@erikajxo]

so he doesn't consider getting lap dances cheating eh? hm, interesting

[@joshuaduque8819]

Cause it’s not I mean I think it’s worse when you have sleep with someone with actually felling rather than getting an lap dance which we all know is fake

[@arpitabrahmachari7649]

Didn't the chick sleep with other dudes before they got married?

[@extremepsyche3135]

@@joshuaduque8819 Depends on the person - some people even see glances as cheating

[@erikajxo]

@@joshuaduque8819 a real actual human being dancing on you is fake? interesting learning so much today lmao im sure he was aroused by it and enjoyed it or else he wouldnt have done it... more than once... it's considered cheating in my books.

[@erikajxo]

@@arpitabrahmachari7649 dont know wasnt talking about her, was talkin about his actions

[@Hello-qf3fd]

Neither of them consider the fact that he spent money to get lap dances from strippers as cheating? Weird... She definitely should have just left of course. But, weird...

[@harryd8537]

damn i’m early early

[@t_squared3]

They’re not bad people they were young and immature and now they’ve grown up

[@azivert_1979]

Their relationship kinda remind me of Micheal and Amanda. GTA V

[@tayemw4737]

You need new friends man

[@kimbarr4283]

Wait so lap dances does not count as cheating...? I would consider that to be cheating

[@rosebudd2075]

They talked about the cheating and strippers so calmly

[@TheeincredibleDaisia]

This is some DEEP stuff lol you can tell they’ve both moved on and are at peace w/ the past just by how easily both of them can talk about it

[@Ph4r0n-]

I know that this generation likes to believe that people can’t make mistakes and then evolve from it but I feel like these guys proved that you can. You aren’t defined by mistakes you make.

[@rhorantyko7796]

Lap dance is cheating in all the ways sleeping with another person is. The main difference between the two is the lack of intimacy, but many people in open relationships can tell.you intimacy and sex aren't the same thing and so it doesn't disqualify a lap dance from being cheating. Both are forms of sexual gratification with a third party without the consent of the other. The straights in these comments that say that it isn't cheating, y'all gotta do a little bit more of self reflection. Sleeping with someone is certainly higher in magnitude but it's all still considered cheating if we're talking about the typical expectations in heterosexual relationships.

[@marissag.1226]

I only just found out what a "bikini barista" is when I visited my sister in Washington lol. Its such a weird concept.

[@verindream4065]

Her: I wrote it in my diary Him: Then it must be true. XD lol facts!

[@MilesSpearman]

Bro the stuff they are saying is sad 😂 but they were saying it with such ease. Bruh she cheated on him with a whole other guy

[@graceobyrne2639]

Yeah I did bro, and?

[@gabrielmiraldo]

Where the fuck CUT finds these people? Lmao

[@rianlynn3854]

IM glad they are bothhappier now and worked through some stuff. Honestly though, if your going to strippers and leaving your wife and new baby at hom you cant be mad when she cheats. thats a horrible thing to do to any woman especailly one that just had your child. I hella love that she turned stripper after and just owned herself unstead of being destroyed. strong woman there!

[@graceobyrne2639]

Thank you!! Very well worded.

[@LetticeTravels]

This was a really good episode. Thanks for sharing. xxx