Grief is crazy. I lost my husband in April and the whole situation is surreal. Music has been one of the biggest things to help. But I will say that after the Taylor Hawkins tribute concerts, I have started getting back to my old self again.
@ChrisCovers782 жыл бұрын
I am so terribly sorry for your loss.
@deniseflood64312 жыл бұрын
❤️
@ashwhikidd2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. We lost my mom suddenly this year and for awhile I couldn't listen to any music without breaking down. Most of what I love in music came from my mom. It's been several months and now I'm starting to be able to listen to things that would have made me bawl my eyes out. There is finally some catharsis there. Sending you love ❤️
@paulmccarthy20322 жыл бұрын
Jennifer..praying for you and your beloved husband today..may he rest in peace
@nicolascesario49982 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. Always keep your head up!
@Blowinshiddup2 жыл бұрын
Chris Shiflett is one of those guys who stands to the side while the others take the spotlight. All the while, he's tuned, refined and keeping the pace. I admire the guy.
@joannas79272 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate the interviewer's calm demeanor, good questions and talking about his own personal grief. It made for a great conversation.
@Plumeria64602 жыл бұрын
What a good interview. The tribute concerts were such a selfless gift Chris, and the rest of the Foo family gave to Taylor’s fans across the globe. I hope they all find ways to heal. There is no roadmap for grief of this magnitude. Chris was brave speaking about his grief, and you were sensitive and respectful with your questions. 💙
@stefj46602 жыл бұрын
A great interview, done in a very respectful manner. The fact that Justin is sharing his grief along with Chris' grief makes this feel right.... Grief has many stages and people heal differently. I hope both Justin and Chris heal.... The Foo's family is there for you ❤️
@FacuPuig2 жыл бұрын
Listening to them talk about their parents made me remember the death of my own father. What a great person Chris is, really someone I could spend hours with listening to his stories and his experience. Greetings from Argentina
@traceysawyer11392 жыл бұрын
What a lovely, eloquent, respectful interview. Grieving goes on for the rest of your life for the people you lose. That was so tastefully done - thank you.
@theplugwithjustinjay2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words, Tracey
@ClareB782 жыл бұрын
You can see how hard it is for Chris to talk about losing Taylor, it's easy for people to forget that it wasn't just Dave who lost a close friend, it was all of them.
@PurpleResey2 жыл бұрын
That’s right, plus he had very close friends in his other bands as well. Let’s not forget an entire crew that has toured with them for years. I can’t even imagine the heaviness that’s surrounding that camp right now.
@tylerdurden12212 жыл бұрын
Thanks for asking and thanks to Chris for talking about it. Think it’s the first time I heard a band member discuss Taylor. Sorry to hear about your dad.
@brandimccarty25882 жыл бұрын
Me too
@garykramermusic Жыл бұрын
Wow. That was a really respectful way to initiate and guide that conversation. Great job and so sorry to hear about your father passing.
@TheKevgray12 жыл бұрын
When Taylor passed me and my wife felt it viscerally. We didn't know him personally but the loss was hard felt. We saw the Foos 9 times, we are part of the Foo Family and it felt like we lost a family member. Because of the gigs, the memories, seeing how tight the band were and being part of something more than music. To be a Foos fan means you experience a felt joy at a gig. The fellowship you feel at a Foos gig is like nothing else. I'm 60, I saw every British punk band and had some memories. But experiencing a Foos gig is something else. We're so glad we were part of that energy, that pleasure and that togetherness.
@rickyalvarez59032 жыл бұрын
Nobody misses a Useless Junkie.
@PurpleResey Жыл бұрын
I stand in agreement with you. The loss of Taylor was exceptionally hard, mainly because being a true Foo means you’re a part of something hugely tight. I don’t know what the band will look like after today’s announcement (that they’re headlining a show in May), but I will never forget the Foos as I’ve always known them.
@ConglomerationCat2 жыл бұрын
I lost my father towards the end of June this year. It's truly the strangest feeling to lose him. I knew him 50 years and you're exactly right, you almost forget for a minute and then something as silly as a blanket or a beer comes into view and you just break down. I don't think you ever really get over it but being constantly surrounded by very people in your life helps quite a lot and also allowing yourself to be patient with your grief. I hate crying in front of people and sometimes you just can't really help it. But it does remind you that you're only human and you will get through it. Great interview and it's still a healing process for lots and lots of people.
@blackfishgaming71452 жыл бұрын
I'm not a big foo fighters fan but ia gotta say, every interview I've seen from this guy I can't help but think these guys are really down to earth.
@consentofthegoverned51452 жыл бұрын
All of them are- the whole band.
@SydneyDrums2 жыл бұрын
One positive amazing thing is the recognition of Chris’ guitar playing more than ever. His ability to play the songs & solos of so many legendary artists during the concerts for Taylor is next level.
@happyvalley69902 жыл бұрын
he plays other peoples songs...its pretty easy.
@610luna2 жыл бұрын
Such a great interview. Thanks for posting video. My heart goes out to Taylor’s family and friends as well as to the band who are grieving publicly. I can imagine how hurtful reading the misinformation is to all of them. Thanks to them for the tribute concerts - they were amazing and I hope helped them with their grief.
@donnawoods73702 жыл бұрын
Thank you Chris for sharing. My thoughts and prayers are with Taylor's family and all the Foo Fighters family.❤️
@mattmckay4172 жыл бұрын
Great podcast. The discussion on grief was spot on. I will be following from now.
@JTB--2 жыл бұрын
Huge props to Chris, Dave and the Foo's for being able to process all the music from other bands for the tribute
@Chakirisan2 жыл бұрын
Great interview Justin, I got teary when you talked about grief and your Dad because I experience the same things and it’s been 3 years. I own a lot of my fathers tools, many of which he initialed and when I see that writing sometimes I have a memory and the emotions come back. Thanks for sharing this.
@bradcole4942 жыл бұрын
2.5 years and ditto. It hasn't gotten easier.
@OpheliaDarkling2 жыл бұрын
A completely respectful approach to a difficult question. I'm so sorry to Chris, the Foos and Taylor's family to have to grieve while being seemingly surrounded by the idiocy of sick people who think it's okay to just keep spreading garbage about a guy people are still grieving. What a messed up timeline to live in. Great chat here. Condolences to you both on your losses.
@Mialamorena12 жыл бұрын
Thank you Justin Jay for this podcast. Thank you 🙏🏾 Chris Shiflett for a fabulous show in LA. Thank you for your sincerity and humility and your stand against internet nonsense. Thank you thank you thank you!!! Peace to you and all the Foo Fighters and family❤
@ceasecapo12 жыл бұрын
I lost my dad in Feb. all the memory photos that pop are so bittersweet. Watching the grief of the band and I keep trying to hold it together but it helped me to cry with them. Needing to release that grief or allowing myself to cry is so difficult.
@johndeere85942 жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss. I lost my father 10 years ago, not long after that a friend of mine lost his father and we were talking about the changes emotionally and otherwise. You are definitely a different person. I heard one guy say you aren’t a man til your father dies. That’s kind of corny but some truth to it. You’ll always miss your old man but it gets easier. I think of mine and smile.
@darlenenadler78462 жыл бұрын
Great interview sensitive yet so honest. Thank you Chris 💜.
@alwaysevolving2812 жыл бұрын
I really appreciated your approach to this topic. I bet Chris did too. I feel like he was able to voice a couple things troubling him during his grieving process.
@lindawilliams2211 Жыл бұрын
It's the quite and out of time grief that hits You. My son passed in '19 it is so hard. But then you can smile when you miss them. Love you Chris 😊 Peace...
@TherealdealDava2 жыл бұрын
I lost my mother and grandpa this month and last month its been rough but too here you two talk about death in such a relatable way brings me so much comfort thanks for this (:
@theplugwithjustinjay2 жыл бұрын
Thank you ver much for your kind words. That means a lot to me that this conversation could help bring you comfort.
@offtherecord862 жыл бұрын
Really well done interview. The questions were worded perfectly in an extremely considerate way
@danieltrakell2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful conversation about grief and losing someone close, lost my dad a few years ago and the little things that just really bring it back out of nowhere x
@karaeldred90272 жыл бұрын
Sorry about your dad....my sweet amazing dad passed 3 weeks ago. The grief and emotions good (the Amazon memories we have but also the love and kindness of friends and family - and the bad.... the deepest whole left in our hearts 🙏🙏🙏
@cathyhiles76352 жыл бұрын
People that you are close to, it is hard to deal with them no longer being there with you. It is difficult to even talk about it. It was so sudden. And you guys had played music together for a long time. Very sad. He is gone but not forgotten. Thank you for at least talking about it. I have always loved the Foo Fighters. Just hope you continue on making music that everyone enjoys. I don't think he would want you guys just to stop entertaining people. He seemed to be that kind of person. No one has a promise of tommarrow. We never know when it is our last day. So he seemed to really enjoy life. Loved Shane's performance. Watch it a lot.
@nikkijones49782 жыл бұрын
I cannot imagine how it felt for the remaining Foos …. I hope they take time to grieve and heal now that the concerts are done. My thoughts were especially with his wife & kids when they came out on stage. ❤
@EricFDrums2 жыл бұрын
Chris really is spot on in his assessment of how the public is fascinated with the death of celebrity’s. He always seems like an every guys guy to me. Solid dude.
@andrewbowen68752 жыл бұрын
He’s so right as well. Oddly enough Chris Cornell who has joined that certain group once said that people every day are dying from the same things as Taylor did and they don’t get a look in, albeit their passing was no more or less than anyone famous.
@KristinaFerrarino2 жыл бұрын
Discussing the dynamic of grief and being a public figure is a sensitive way to approach the loss of Taylor with sensitivity for everyone .Congrats on playing the Opry a few weeks back, Chris . What I would give to sing a little Patsy Cline on that stage. Must have been a blast !!
@cindysmall528610 ай бұрын
Awesome interview by the way. Very heartfelt and respectful ❤️🙏
@consentofthegoverned51452 жыл бұрын
Shane playing WAS heavy, but also the most uplifting and cathartic thing I've ever seen.
@bigbadbruins1 Жыл бұрын
Chris is a class act.And one awesome guitar player.
@therealwilfreddierkes99802 жыл бұрын
Chris was the best. He not only tore up every song, he did for 6 hours, Making it look effortless. So sorry about losing his friend/brother.
@happyvalley69902 жыл бұрын
i play guitar, i do that dailey...big deal.
@Laugowiththeflow2 жыл бұрын
Chris is so genuine and sweet, I love him. I don't need to know how T died, never did, I miss him so much. It's so good to listen to Chris ❤🩹
@happyvalley69902 жыл бұрын
it was the vax.
@brandonxpagano2 жыл бұрын
Chris is grounded in reality and that's damn near impossible with the insane spectacle happening around him at all times. I'm sorry he has to grieve publicly to a degree but I appreciate his honesty.
@mayfairblue2 жыл бұрын
the sad but ironic thing is that the person who could get them through a tough time like this and bring camaraderie and the love and support is the one who died/ his amazing smile and fun loving warm hart. time is a healer. love to the foos
@dilegox Жыл бұрын
I love you Chris. So sorry for your loss.
@soyburglar772 жыл бұрын
As I was listening to Chris talk about the finality of death, I found myself wondering why, like, since death is that ONE fundamental aspect of life that we share with literally every other human, as every person to ever exist either has died or will die, you’d think that by now we would have evolved to find better ways of dealing with it. But then I had the realization that we absolutely HAVE evolved to deal with it and that’s what empathy is. We have evolved to process death by fully appreciating what it means to be alive, I suppose. And I can’t think of any other person who better represents that idea than Taylor did, of the enthusiasm for music and for life that he had.
@seasonallyaffected2 жыл бұрын
I don’t really comment but this was really sensitively handled. Well done. Wishing Chris the best with the solo material.
@GTlv4u2 жыл бұрын
It is so effin' great, respectful, sincere, and appropriate that the band invited Taylor's son to play with them at both of those memorial shows. Shane Hawkins is playing like an animal, and you know that he is thinking of his dad the whole time, like maybe he's watching from above, and he just wants to impress Taylor with his performance, which no doubt he does.
@happyvalley69902 жыл бұрын
and dave made tons of $$$$ from it.
@bethmacisaac13002 жыл бұрын
@@happyvalley6990 the money all went to charity, Chief. As did money from merch sales. Music Support in the UK and MusiCares in the US. Google will tell you that in two seconds
@brandimccarty25882 жыл бұрын
I knew for sure he was going to say that Shane playing was the best part. Very respectful interviewer! ✌️🖤
@theplugwithjustinjay2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your kind words. It was a delicate situation, so Im glad it was perceived as respectful as I strived to be.
@brandimccarty25882 жыл бұрын
@@theplugwithjustinjay yes, it was very respectful, and you actually gave Chris time to respond plus talk without interrupting him. So few interviewers do that these days. Thank you for that!
@armandorodriguez35102 жыл бұрын
Respect and love to Chris and the whole foo fighters fam
@tracimecca8695Ай бұрын
my heart is yours Chris and still talking about Taylor is hard for me even still thinking about
@cdub19342 жыл бұрын
Great interviewer!!! Great questions!!!
@HumanCarBomb Жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear about your father passing! 🙏 Be well, brother!
@davidbrantley64252 жыл бұрын
Well handled Chris. Even public figures deserve some space in good times or bad. What someone does in their personal life is exclusive to their family & friends.
@loriru31352 жыл бұрын
I love the Foo Fighters; they have provided the soundtrack to my adult life. I loved Taylor Hawkins, and will not entertain any ignorant speculation about his death. Chris is not only insanely talented, but a class act. I will always support his music.
@sethcashman1011 Жыл бұрын
This was an exceptional interview. Cloer to a great conversation, really, which all of the best interviews are.
@theplugwithjustinjay Жыл бұрын
Thanks Seth. I'm blown away by all of the positive feedback. With such an emotional topic like Taylor's death, I've been pleasantly surprised at the lack of trolls and haters trying to find negativity in this conversation. Chris is truly a class act and he was very honest and open in our chat.
@NotimeforThis-fd4ye2 жыл бұрын
RIP Taylor, thanks for the music
@charlottesghost28452 жыл бұрын
Good convo. Sorry that grieving has to be so public and pressing. Hope Foos press on and keep their music alive.
@shaun64vet Жыл бұрын
Chris said what needed to be said. Too many morons overstepping themselves. They'd hate strangers speculating if they lost a friend or relative.
@drummerdave518 Жыл бұрын
It's funny, he can't actually say it. He just fumbles, and refers to it.
@j-mo24532 жыл бұрын
I like Chris Shiflett and think he’s an underrated guitarist for as much as he lays down performing. The now expected unexpected forays into widely diverse cover songs foofighters do live is built for him. Hoping his own stuff gets enough push to get the attention he’s happy with for it.
@j-mo24532 жыл бұрын
Reliable as fuck to just come through in what seems his perfect type of band.
@design1of47011 ай бұрын
I love Chris so much, I've been following him since the No Use days. RIP Tony Sly RIP Taylor Hawkins
@CatchMagazine2 жыл бұрын
Thanks guys. Just a great interview. Down to earth… like taking to old buddies from my high school days.
@JoeyVatavuk2 жыл бұрын
This was beautifully done
@michaelgehringmusic84402 жыл бұрын
Justin, I know I am late to the game and a first time viewer but great interview. Hearing you and Chris talk about your Dads reminded me of my own. The way I rationalize it is this; the depth of loss and intensity never goes away, only the frequency becomes less. -Thanks
@Ahardee2 жыл бұрын
I was at the LA THTC and it was one of the best nights of my life! #foofightersforever #flyhighhawkins
@johnhealy46472 жыл бұрын
No crap man; just lost my only brother in March 8th 2022 and I am still struggling...
@futuredentist700 Жыл бұрын
Sorry for your lost,you should give yourself time to heal
@brianborowski78922 жыл бұрын
I sometimes want to call my dad to tell him about my Accomplishment in my life now a days and then I realize he has been gone for 20 years
@ixxgxx2 жыл бұрын
powerful man. may your dad rest in power
@samchoate17192 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry about that, man.
@raoul_duke7253 Жыл бұрын
Rolling Stone’s fall from grace is such a disappointment. Its music criticism has always been crap, but these days I wouldn’t wipe my ass with it.
@bigbowlowrong4694 Жыл бұрын
Rolling Stone paid Hunter S. Thompson to write Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas and for that reason alone they’ll always get a pass from me.
@raoul_duke7253 Жыл бұрын
@@bigbowlowrong4694 Given my handle, I concur… that’s why I’ll still wipe my ass with it ;)
@J.M.812 жыл бұрын
My condolences, Justin. Been in that situation 6 years ago and what you‘ve said about those times of grieve which are partly in situations when you would not have expected that (while others might wonder why you are in a „normal“ looking mood in certain situations where you SHOULD be grieving) is so true….
@GroverMonster2 жыл бұрын
R.I.P. Taylor Hawkins Fly high!
@AbbyMarmionMusic2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for doing this interview...
@shotgunsnare2 жыл бұрын
I don't care at all how he died.... I'm sad he died , and it was way before his time- his family is probably still devastated - and I'm still very sad about it and will be for awhile - This was a great interview ~
@poetsdreamsatc2 жыл бұрын
I’ll have a dream about my mom or dad wake up and still think they’re still alive. Then I’ll remember they’ve passed. I can totally relate to Chris.
@claygilchrist6322 жыл бұрын
I still do that with my grandparents even though they’ve been gone for decades. It never goes away.
@poetsdreamsatc2 жыл бұрын
@@claygilchrist632 You’re so right. It never goes away. I’m sorry for your losses. I miss my grandmother every day. She taught me so much.
@cvblaylock2 жыл бұрын
Internet sleuths going after a cause for his death and speculating out loud on the internet is disgusting.
@clairebennett30142 жыл бұрын
Lovely interview. Shifty is the best. So sorry people are jerks. We love you guys! ♥️
@jackoboyd48112 жыл бұрын
Love you Chris, RIP Taylor
@peggyh89372 жыл бұрын
Great interview, thanks!
@joshuaking342 жыл бұрын
I hope they take the time to determine what is best for everyone in the band. You can't rush these things.
@williamboyle89182 жыл бұрын
Rufus is next. Touring in summer 23
@bethmacisaac13002 жыл бұрын
@@williamboyle8918 FFS maybe watch the interview.
@williamboyle89182 жыл бұрын
@@bethmacisaac1300 Rufus is next. Tour starts next Wednesday.
@bethmacisaac13002 жыл бұрын
@@williamboyle8918 would you like to place a wager on that?
@williamboyle89182 жыл бұрын
@@bethmacisaac1300 Rob Reiner of Anvil is the new drummer. Tour starts tomro nite in Montana.
@Juan________S126 ай бұрын
Chris is the man. I hope he’s doing better now.
@offthewall94672 жыл бұрын
Chris seems like a real cool guy. Loved this
@merkinidgit2 жыл бұрын
I’m really benefitting from listening to Anderson Cooper’s podcast All There Is. He is so forthcoming with his grief and has terrific guests. Laurie Anderson talking about Lou Reed’s death and her project Heart of a Dog is a must-listen.
@tessmoks34342 жыл бұрын
That's because Shane is his dad.. a mini Taylor. Plays just like him. All heart
@ryanauker11442 жыл бұрын
He got a lot better too since march!
@hector_nimrod2 жыл бұрын
I Lost one my best friends and my music mate all of the sudden too, fame aside, i know How those guys are feeling
@chrisgreen38542 жыл бұрын
Outstanding interview! You have a new subscriber!
@joeychapman97702 жыл бұрын
Seeing people in the comments STILL conspiring after having watched this or say “it isn’t disrespectful to make it about that” is so frustrating and shows the fucked up social climate we live in. It’s easy to not view it that way because these people are celebrities and we tend to not see them as actual human beings in a sense. Conspiring about their lives/death does nothing but feed this weird part of people that like to gossip to make us feel bigger. People were conspiring about his death almost as soon as it was announced. It’s extremely disrespectful to those who are closest to him and mourning the loss of a loved one/friend to push a misguided and (now) inherently political narrative. Imagine if you had a loved one die and before you could even process your grief, people online were blaming it on vaccines or drugs. It’s a fucking human life man. It doesn’t matter how he died because at the end of the day he’s dead and not coming back. Coming up with conspiracies out of left field that people have no reason to bring up other than their own paranoia is just a bad move. Taylor’s death isn’t a vessel for people to push their conspiracies on. It’s a tragic loss of human life and people need to see it as nothing else. If you’re still making it about your beliefs/conspiracies, you are the one that’s messed up.
@Canadianwheelchairguitar2 жыл бұрын
A celebrity dies & so many people talk shit about what/how it happened, weird. Nobody thinks about a person, friend, son, father, uncle, husband, brother, etc. died. You'd expect some type of compassion from people outside the public bubble.
@macman61072 жыл бұрын
Well said. People forget that these people are just that, people. People who have experiences often no different to any other persons.
@dmarcellus2 жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss fellas.
@Bikewithlove2 жыл бұрын
Such a good talk. Thank you.
@zzzroxyzzz2 жыл бұрын
Fascinated is an interesting word, I haven't felt that about it, sad still, Like he's just gone and I'm still just sad about it. I watched so many interviews he and Dave did together so they show up in my feed and I'll be like oh, wait, he's gone. It's weird and it sucks. He made the world a better place just being who he was.
@MotownGuitarJoe2 жыл бұрын
I love the fact that Chris loves Rainbow's "Long Live Rock and Roll".
@mattrussell82902 жыл бұрын
Great interview
@Theumpsken2 жыл бұрын
Nice to see that these people are human.
@johnnydi22032 жыл бұрын
Sorry about your dad, passing, my man. That hurts.
@rachelfong9732 жыл бұрын
thanks for this.
@kravitz19992 жыл бұрын
at 2:42 after a big sigh, Chris looked up and was going to say something, and you cut him off with a question... missed the mark unfortunately. Otherwise, great interview.
@AaronRadioStudio2 жыл бұрын
I thought the same thing. Looks like Chris was about to say something and then he was interrupted
@kravitz19992 жыл бұрын
@@AaronRadioStudio yea, I couldn't wait to hear what he was going to say ya know?
@TsukasaElkKite Жыл бұрын
Shifty is a class act.
@barbr80122 жыл бұрын
Well, the world has become what it is....a lot of careless and disrespectful people. The way I feel about it, it doesn't matter how Taylor passed; but, how we all feel the extreme loss of such a talented and beloved human being. My regret....putting it off and putting it off to see the Foos in person with Taylor. Chris, hang in there. Taylor, so miss and love what I have seen of you in interviews and your talent, sigh.....
@machinegunhippy2 жыл бұрын
It doesn't matter how he passed ? It sure fkn does BARB
@barbr80122 жыл бұрын
@@machinegunhippy Man....don't get belligerent with me. To me, we lost a great artist and human being and that is the end of it. How he passed isn't going to change the way it happened, period.
@reverendlee76172 жыл бұрын
Taylor died because it was his time. I will not say anything different. Saying that anyone pushed Taylor to the limit, probably have zero idea of what happened.
@niciohara30324 ай бұрын
On point! ❤ May Taylor RiP. 🖤
@tomace1942 жыл бұрын
R.i.p taylor. R.i.p tony sly.
@rachelmorton47342 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤
@lc22962 жыл бұрын
Good interview
@design1of470 Жыл бұрын
Chris is such a good dude. RIP TONY SLY RIP TAYLOR HAWKINS
@jd08792 жыл бұрын
4:01 seriously? You couldn’t have been following it that closely because I’ve seen it everywhere on Reddit and Youtubr. Overall though great interview
@SpookMrsSpooky2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this. I love this guy and wish nothing but the best for him and the rest of the Foos. Taylor's passing was a catastrophe of Biblical proportions and even for us fans, it's going to take a long time to get over it.
@Halograph712 жыл бұрын
Really? Biblical? Nah people will move on and so will this band.
@SpookMrsSpooky2 жыл бұрын
@@Halograph71 We'll see what happens with the band. I can't see them continuing without Taylor, but who knows? Anyway, I do enjoy engaging in a bit of hyperbole now and then.
@jhaw33342 жыл бұрын
Dave should play drums on next foos, but for the tour they should use Tom Petty’s drummer