EXCLUSIVE: Yvonne Jegede Speaks On Her Separation From Husband, Olakunle Abounce Fawole

[@PulseNigeria247]

Going through a separation is super hard! It takes strength and support to get through it - Please share your stories and support.

[@HearttoHeartTV]

This lady is one lady i do respect alot because she's got no scandals but i am sorry to hear this. Its no good news at all. For me as a Certified Relationship Mentor i always advise couple to see how to resolve issues when you see them instead of keeping quiet until it lead to separation. Act fast and learn to forgive easily. #hearttohearttv

[@independentscope6470]

Yeah as for me i went through the asme thing she went through with my girlfriend and everytime we try to talk or work things out she will never put in any effort then she will say arent we having a conversation but in realality she answer just simple yes or no

[@independentscope6470]

So when we broke up i saw thats she did some things with other guys she did do with me like having a good conversation with others guys and having a good day with them for me it was the opposite

[@cheesecakeonice]

People say marry your best friend marry the love of your life..marriage is hard work ..I've come to realize that marrying your best friend doesn't mean that u guys wont fight ..marrying the love of your life wont garantee success..My marriage isnt perfect it took work to get to where it is today,I got married in haste we barely knew each other,we both came from different backgrounds me from a wealthy home but my spouse was not from a privileged home we always clashed and fought alot in the beginning it took alot of pain and submission, taking care of someone when people have taken care of you all of your life,finding yourself it's so hard and involves a lot, but what I have realised about marriage is that it takes forgiveness to make a marriage work,it takes patience and most importantly no third parties or friends,I've learnt to make my spouse my only friend and confidant I've learnt to trust God to take the wheel .Am glad that I have a spouse who isnt perfect but unbelievably faithful..who wasnt my bestfriend who wasnt the love of my life but has become all these things over the years 3 beautiful children with twins on the way ,Hes pushed me to better my self by getting my BSN in nursing,he constantly wants to see me win,hes always there to help me so fir these little things am grateful. I believe Opposites do attract the rest is in Gods hands..if ure going through marital problems or issues know that it gets better with communication respect and submission..Gods grace cover all marriages..Amen..No marriage is perfect, starting a marriage because of chemistry is certainly not a guarantee the marriage will work,starting a marriage because hes the love of your life doesn't guarantee success but starting a marriage with someone who might be totally different from u might succeed with God as the center and no third parties 🤗❤❤..I wish u well yvonne and Xavier is absolutely adorable bless him

[@megakhams6675]

I love her courage die and the way she talks is👌 I know God will make a way for you for sure.some men are something else

[@ilosworld3435]

It’s sad how a man would put in so much effort to get a woman, but won’t put in similar work to keep the relationship. Most women want to be in a committed relationship, not jumping from one place to the other. Please men, If you know you’re not ready for commitment, look for a player like you & stop breaking people’s heart😢😢

[@leviblessing9395]

You just spoke my mind dear so funny how men put so much effort to get a woman after getting her u can't keep her so bad.

[@adelle-theworshiper7852]

#Thetruthhurts5 well Said. People are just evil they want to break your heart ❤️

[@shamoyusher5283]

Amen 🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️❤️❤️💛

[@asheleyafutu3697]

#Thetruthhurts5 Amen

[@Daizyonceagain]

I thought ppl would boo her..am surprised at your comment because ppl push so many blame on women that I become so irritated with the sound of marriage..every stupid creature on earth is a marriage counsellor!!!lol

[@lynatem4434]

She is so mature. So far, for all celebrities who are divorced; she is most matured. Love you Yvonne! Keep being so strong.

[@HearttoHeartTV]

Yes i can imagine

[@bigpussy6712]

Lyn Atem that’s the whole thing. She is not badmouthing anyone. Are you sure you are not from my town? You are like us

[@Starmoms]

Sooo soo matured. You don't judge people by their movie role. She's so matured. I like you mama

[@lynatem4434]

@@bigpussy6712 i am Cameroonian my dear. But i love the nigerian entertainment industry so much.

[@kateofori-attah7290]

I reeeaaallly like this woman. She's strong and really beautiful. I dont know her but i feel she is very kind at heart

[@jamilaabubakar8633]

You could tell she is hurting and really controlling herself. Strong woman

[@ihuomaosuji6864]

Sure she is a strong woman

[@daniellechibuye9427]

Its painful you know.its sad

[@ZoeBredan]

Yes o....I feel her well...some men are just weaklings...while some are very cool

[@olaideshasore]

Yeah. It shows.

[@blessinggambo1427]

Yea shes hurt from her facial expression..i feel sorry for her and i pray she gets over it someday

[@nkiruozoemena6108]

Even in a break up and d pain she talk about the break up with class. Yvonne you will be ok.sending you a big hug.

[@sunrisefarmer2340]

Yes I really love that strength in her and the energy of calmness

[@naaakotravels]

And kisses love u

[@RoselomonTV]

God bless you Sis for uplifting other women 💟

[@franciscaamaka6749]

Yvonne I love your person...no pretence....she is feeling bad and never hid it from the camera...may God continue to keep you strong. I love you.

[@QueenOfTheCoast]

Yvonne should open a youtube account. I could listen to her talk all day.

[@nwokoriechiamaka]

Same here. She's sweet

[@barbara_amp]

Sameeee

[@goddess9624]

Thank you Yvonne Jegede, for sharing your story. You are a brave woman, and did the right thing by leaving during your pregnancy. Better early in the marriage than later, only for the situation to get worse and negatively affect your son. Nigerian women and black women in general need to stop suffering and enduring in order to hold onto toxic marriages/relationships. I wish you and your son a happy, prosperous life.

[@charisbassey4854]

Exactly i stayed in the mess for 8years thinking it would be better. Wish i had left earlier

[@funmilolamakanjuola2360]

I love her maturity and how she doesn't try to blame Abounce, God bless her and her son

[@julianaoware8106]

Hmmm Yvonne you are blessed. God is with yu

[@carolokoli7874]

Girl you had the GUTS!! to walk away from a toxic environment, not many women would do that o but You did that girl!! 👊

[@YettyCooks]

I am a living example. I fucking (excuse my FRENCH) walked out with my head held up high. I keep hearing all sorts of rubbish about me, who cares? God gat you Yvonne.

[@YettyCooks]

@Victoria Akomolede So sorry I just realised you mentioned you. Where are you based? And how do I get in touch with you Vicky?

[@uruonepaul5320]

She never said it was toxic... From her own story, she tries not to make things look like she was good. I think the secret behind the marriage coming to an end so soon, speaks for it self about some secrets which need not be told.

[@uruonepaul5320]

Infidelity was the reason why this marriage didn't work. From her stories we should read through further.

[@uruonepaul5320]

@V A let the music play on

[@Princessmicheal]

Any man that neglect his wife during pregnancy is a beast. May God continue to bless you and your son

[@donjazzy5510]

Sometimes good friendships do not translate into good marriages!

[@hlobeauty664]

I feel your pains my dear, I went through same situation (6yrs ago)with my EX trust me you will pull through. You have a blessing(ur son) he's ur strength. I love you Yvonne

[@funnydogandcatvideos4893]

nnema essien How did you scale through? How did you do it? How much pain was it? Did you have kids together? What did you tell them? I have so many questions. I am shattered....

[@esthermoses407]

I love u dear ur strong...

[@tabitaeguangs]

I have a similar story to Yvonne.I walked out when I was 3 months pregnant.From that time till now it has been 5 years.He has never helped us.If I did not leave he would have killed me.I gave birth to the baby alone and no one was beside me.

[@saisau296]

@@tabitaeguangs Sorry dear😢😢😢some men are very wicked chaiiii

[@kosokojoy1615]

Yvonne you are great lady . I love you .just keep being yourself.

[@elizabethwiredu3790]

She is in pain,see how she is talking, so sad,may God strengthen u Yvonne, much love

[@cookwithbibi563]

You could see she's trying to hold back tears..... Stay strong girl.

[@nkechialison7959]

Yashim blessing she is not trying to hold back any tears. I love her though.... she is strong, brave, tough you know!

[@feliciaokoro2872]

She shows class

[@MariamaSonko]

Yashim blessing Yea she was but it’s very sad and painful.😢

[@congoboy9626]

She really was holding back her tears but luckily she's strong, if it was an american person here there wouod have been rain of tears already

[@sunrisefarmer2340]

I love her calmness and may God heal every broken hearts, heal this marriage Lord

[@stephenpraise2373]

Facial expression can't be compared to inate and heart feelings.She has been hurt

[@priscilliaadomayi2631]

I see the pain as she narrate her story. It brings tears to my heart. Am sorry you went through all these. May God give you strength through the remaining journey of your life. I know you will be the best parent and mom to your son. Love you both 😍😍😍 You are brave, strong, real and beautiful.

[@DeluxCakeQueen]

This is soooooo DEEP. I COMMEND HER BRAVERY AND MATURITY. YOU CAN CLEARLY SEE SHE'S HOLDING BACK HER TEARS. MAY GOD STRENGTHEN HER AND HER BLESSED SON.. THANKS PULSE FOR BEING PROFESSIONAL AND SENSITIVE TO THIS INTERVIEW..

[@estherasantewaa379]

What kind of husband is he, to abandon her pregnant wife? Oh I’m really sad that her marriage did not work well... She’s so beautiful and very smart. I’ve loved her since 2face video music ‘you are my African queen. It’s well my dear.. we should always be careful of friends...love and support from Ghana 🇬🇭

[@congoboy9626]

I've loved her since then too

[@bukkylarissaamoboye4355]

My respect for this woman just multiplied. I love how she is taking responsibility on her own part too. Maturity and wisdom. I pray she finds true happiness and true love. She deserves it💕

[@Victorygabz]

At least ur financially empowered to take care of yourself and the baby with or without him... For this reason many African women stay in abusive marriages.

[@benedicttakalesh6938]

You are very right dear

[@jayoriona5505]

MY DEAR SISTER, THAT IS THE REASON I HUSTLE OOO, BECAUSE I WANT TO BE THE CAPTAIN OF MY OWN SHIP.

[@tochiezeife7566]

Why is she not crying....but I am?! I m in tears listening to you Yvonne. If God brings you to it....He will surely Bring you through it! Hang in there Yvonne! God Bless you.

[@laurasmith6266]

She does not need to cry , the man obviously has a issue and he need to sort his life out .I like how strong she is I agree with you when you said God will assist her .

[@abacecilia]

Yvonne will always be Yvonne. I just love you. Even in the midst of sharing your pain still making me laugh. It is well my dear.

[@uwaschannel5068]

Dis Yvonne is very matured so as d interviewer 👌 kiddos she’s so smart with her answers

[@lolz8794]

I love how u are able to control ur tears dear, you put the devils into shame. Good moral lessons, never leave any stone unturned. May Almighty God see through n strengthen u more. Love u girl

[@gazellemoses6065]

Time With Aaliyah 1

[@addie1309]

i usually don't go about commenting esp if i haven't heard from the other side but on this one...the so called husband is just WRONG!!!1 At least be there for your son... before, during and after his arrival. This alone can make the son detest you FOREVER cos he can only be born ONCE and you cannot turn back the hand of time...i guess i watch too much paternity court hence my reasoning. Pregnancy alone in itself comes with a lot of stress and then to do it ALL by yourself???? no feet rubbing, back rubbing, going together to the doctor's office, ultrasound etc. I pray for you this day with all the needed strength you'd need to nurture your child.

[@treasurekitchen]

With you on paternity court 😊

[@chineyennamani6253]

addie1309 amen

[@maryroseorah1234]

U have said ot all dear....i dont knw wat must have transpired btwn the two but the baby shuldnt be involved in any way.

[@wordofgrace3047]

The man said the son isnt his. So i think that probably the reason for his actions

[@oluakinwale4485]

@Addie 1309 you say you don't like to judge without hearing from the other side. You just did cos you did not hear from man. What if she is the one preventing contacts with the child or are people it's not something women do?

[@nkemsdiary]

lesson of the story: don't bring in friends into your home especially at the tender age of your marriage when you're still building and always let your friends know their boundary in your home

[@Babitoswold]

Well said. I couldn't have said it any better.

[@stephenpraise2373]

You are right

[@nanaafuasarpong2204]

Bimbo?

[@BlessingAmez]

That's right

[@nanaafuasarpong2204]

@@BlessingAmez Sad. Some friends

[@foladshow8792]

If he is doubting, let him get a DNA Test and stop hurting the woman unnecessarily now.

[@stephenmoses4934]

Bukola Adekunle are you kidding me ,, have you seen the boy,, looks totally like the guy

[@foladshow8792]

@@stephenmoses4934 But still, he is doubt Thomas, let him get the test and all this rumors or story of the child is not mine will stop, Yvonne is will free of wrong accusation, those friends who don't want happy home for them will be put to shame 'I think' and maybe they can come together, you know you men na (lol), you always act on what you hear.

[@Xploreontario]

Stephen Moses very true sir. No need for DNA

[@Ruthie4j]

Resemblance doesn't matter when it comes to paternity test,watch paternity court on KZbin.

[@christiesss465]

The way she talksss!! She talks with so much intelligence, taking into consideration of every word she says. Like she takes her time. She is so mature. Thank you so much for sharing your story in such a collected way. Well wishes to you and your son!

[@olubunmimabel8684]

How can a sane man neglect his pregnant wife? For whatever reason? Keep being strong, Yvonne.

[@oluakinwale4485]

@ Olubunmi maven for whatever reason! Some women can be very wicked and deserved to be neglected. Am not insinuating that Yvonne Jegede is before am crucified.

[@ramia184]

@@oluakinwale4485 no one deserves to be neglected. If a man feels that his wife is being wicked he can simply walk away and end the relationship instead of the mental abuse that can come from neglect in such sensible time in a woman's life.

[@kayholn7522]

''for whateverreason''...are you serious? this is kind of shit they love to perpetuate all the time. How about if she cheated on the guy and the guy got to find out? or do you think she will come out openely and confess what really happened. Make una dey there dey do whatever reason , as if its not almost a daily occurence wives kill their husbands

[@oluakinwale4485]

@@ramia184 exactly what l said. "walk away" Maybe that is what the man has done. Women want to be seen and for people to see them as "victims" in most or all relationship breakdowns. Not so and am fed up of this "see how l have been treated". I repeat there are wicked women and men out there. You don't have to destroy the other because you no longer have feelings for that person even if there are no children involved. When children are involved you both need to put your "thinking caps on" l am one of the men that believe in treating a woman with respect and dignity and l expect the same from the woman. However, we all know that no one is perfect only God is. As a man or a woman look for a future partner, look at their habits/vices you can live with and those you cannot live with and make your decisions from there. Finally, most women are more interested in the man's look and their bank balance than anything else.

[@oluakinwale4485]

@@kayholn7522 good comment.👍exactly my point. Women always want people to believe it's always the fault of the man when a relationship falters. I will say this again; there are wicked women out there Very wicked women. They act before they think. "Impulsive"

[@reneeyoung1182]

I love you Yvonne jegede you know how to control your pains and the way you answer questions shows you are a strong woman❣❣God bless you.

[@graceghaniuwabor]

Though I have never met this woman on ground, I must say this, Yvonne Jegede has never been the controversial type, probably that is what makes her unique, it's a pity things turned out this way., I wish her nothing but the very best. As for the husband Abounce, aunty Buky is definitely not smiling about this.... I pray u make efforts to fix it, try to look for that same thing u saw in her that made you call her your wife..... I still love you both..... graceuwabor your super fan

[@francessvlog1750]

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[@francessvlog1750]

😩😩

[@Pamaxbeauty]

You suffered alone all through the pregnancy... He should have understood it was pregnancy hormone at work.. Is well. You are just so beautiful

[@partdonatus8796]

So sorry

[@ehinonmomodu6296]

Pamax beauty what does she mean by pregnancy hormones?

[@Pamaxbeauty]

@@ehinonmomodu6296 Happens in women during menstrual period, pregnancy and after pregnancy. Become so tired and unexpected anger

[@amyokoh5428]

@@Pamaxbeauty pregnancy depression lol. I always barred incoming calls on my phone when am pregnant hahahahhhahaha. Avoiding every confrontation or upset cause my hormones is all over the place. Just do my things and come back home watch movies is relaxing.

[@kelvinogbeide313]

U can actually tell how she's so heart broken.....her voice is filled with tears. She's one of my favorite actress, well spoken & very articulate.

[@chichiikpeama4071]

I am not a nollywood freak. I don't even know this amazing woman but she stole my heart. Most nollywood actresses are air heads but this lady......? She is my idea of a strong, intelligent and beautiful woman. It is obvious she is still hurting yet she tried to tell her story as objectively as she could without excuses. Hang in there darling, you got a beautiful child out of it and that is your consolation. It's his loss, just move on and continue to be as amazing as you are God bless and keep you!!

[@abyedoks2728]

Aww such a classy& confident lady.She talks about her problems so normally without bitterness or maliciousness of any sort.Her strength is commendable!She is such a lady!May God bless u & ur cute son& May He give u d resources to take care of him to d best of ur ability.Good u came out to speak for urself b4 they tarnish ur name!

[@naaakotravels]

Yvonne there are people out there that care for you be strong for your son

[@anthonyazomz2200]

she spoke her truth! I love u Yvonne!😘😘😘 just concentrate on picking the pieces of yourself together. Time heals dear. u will surely be fine

[@nanaf8887]

Great interviewer also. Not too intrusive

[@nakuyajjemba6804]

Yesssss

[@alexandergomes3317]

Nana F he was spectacular and did a fabulous job..kedos

[@laurawesseh8086]

I don’t know why most men are like that! They love and cherish u, once u get pregnant 🤰, the love story changes for no reason. Be strong 💪 in the Lord sis. We are with you 🙏

[@divinebaby1950]

My sister i ave been aaking me self dat also...

[@naaakotravels]

Selfish

[@DivulgewithAsquare]

True

[@inelsclassics4378]

If anyone knew the answer to that they would be a millionaire. If a man doesn’t want children early in the marriage, why can he not tell the woman that??????? So they can be sure they beef up the contraception. Ironically, it’s these types of men who don’t want children that are the randiest and won’t want to use protection. This one even took her to a fertility doctor!!!!!! Why turn on her after getting her pregnant? I have heard numerous versions of this story, it’s not even funny. Or maybe they assume that once the woman is pregnant, she has nowhere else to go and can’t attract any other men so they can start treating her the way they really feel. Thank God for women empowerment. Very soon he would have started ‘toasting’ other women in her presence.

[@michaelonyeka4075]

That's not true. You're absolutely wrong. I am still in my marriage with three lovely kids. Family is everything

[@MOMO8355]

I love this lady from day 1😫😍❤️ nothing will change that 😝 baby girl God bless you 🙏❤️❤️

[@AnastasiaEs.]

You can tell she is really hurting and heart broken... I really pray everything works out for her. She's beautiful and talented and has her whole life ahead of her.

[@oeu3669]

“I cannot be perfect. I’m Yvonne not angel Gabriel” What an absolute legend. She’s a beautiful and Utterly Wonderful Soul ❤️💗❤️

[@ornamental8235]

Don't overlook things and never you trust a friend as close to your husband.

[@ernestinendibabonga9684]

joy purity same thought 💭 u can’t trust friends

[@ultimateblends1238]

Very true

[@luxurydesigner5653]

True almost happened to me too bad ass friends

[@Jooniey87]

Why are they your friends if you can't trust them???

[@ornamental8235]

@@Jooniey87 that's the reason we are human" We can change at any time. If you blood can stage you kidnap let alone friends

[@xoxoriama23]

Don’t trust or leave your husband with so called friends! Thank you for sharing Yvonne

[@urennayaorji8558]

He was cheating (with or without your so called friend) ..... thats what can make a man to ignore his preg wife( first trimester) ...first baby !! Are u kidding me?

[@couturend]

If a man wants to cheat he is going to cheat. Even if you leave your friend with him or not...he is going to find someone outside. Woman need to stop this stupid mentally of acting like Men aren´t responsible for their actions.

[@xoxoriama23]

copper I feel like he cheated but according to her there was no cheating involved, I don’t know, maybe she’s trying to cover up for him

[@KingsMime]

You can see the pains in her eyes 😢😢😕 stay strong Yvonne ❤

[@ghchic2568]

She married a Narcissist. They know how to shadow the perfect relationship.

[@gibrett_]

Like!

[@nike9362]

GHchic absolutely narcissist

[@enjay4real]

How can you classify someone you don't even know?

[@jacobdoej6970]

Yvonne WAS the NARCISSIST. She wanted her her ex to be reduced to a little boy bcoz SHE CLAIM S being the bread winner. When Yvonne offended Yvonne felt to big to apologize. In Stead Yvonne PREFER S to inquire if her ex wanted to eat bcoz SHE Yvonne WA S COOKING. HAVE YOU HEARD HER VERDICT VIZ YUL AND HIS EVIL?

[@atohtenguhsamuella7769]

I love the way she speaks, her choice of words.... She doesn't accuse but says the truth

[@beegee4791]

Some men can be complicated. I’ve gone through a relationship where he asked me out for 18 months, and we were very good friends during this period. Finally I said yes and we dated for almost a year, and boom, he started being ‘unnecessarily complicated’😃. I watched things just fade with no explanation and I went through all the phases of mourning the death of something beautiful. Finally I decided in my heart to walk away peacefully, and five months after not hearing from this guy, he suddenly wanted to get back. Unfortunately I was done emotionally and spiritually. He is still trying. Don’t know why SOME men make things complicated🤷🏾‍♀️

[@itzgoldenbae5608]

You are trying to hide your pains and hold tears, you are strong indeed

[@aziabo6127]

It'z Golden Bae you here again?

[@MariamaSonko]

It'z Golden Bae Yea She was and I was crying Cos it’s emotional and sad

[@Mama_Ivy]

Love you Yvonne, you remain our Choco Queen 👑 married or not married 😍😍😍😍

[@RoselomonTV]

Beautiful comment ❤️

[@mildrisplested4804]

I always love her

[@olajidesamueltunde8712]

bad fans... so your happy with her brake-up

[@olajidesamueltunde8712]

@@RoselomonTV rubbish talk

[@wendyhappiness9989]

Not happy, but the man is foolish, pregnant women deserves a good care, well you are not a woman that is why u don’t no the pains.

[@Joselynetv]

This lady is strong, being pregnant and having marital issues is difficult to handle. Thank God for giving you the strength u needed that time.

[@daughterofelohim7]

Yvonne you've spoken so wisely. May GOD give you more grace and joy.

[@fortunatemd3253]

There's a whole lot more she didn't tell us. Trust me. The guy seems to have skeletons in his cupboard which she dosen't really want to reveal. The man might even be gay or impotent but she dosen't want to expose him yet. From what she said, she probably got pregnant through Artificial insemination. And she said u have to ask questions before jumping into marriage without taking anything for granted. Those are ur clues.

[@chukwudiphilips6000]

Even when they've dated for years? I personally feel that both of them have an axe to grind in this situation. Yvonne's maturity is somewhat borne out of timidity either because the husband tolerated some level of unfaithfulness from her when they were still in courtship & in return, she either would buy him gifts or give him some money & that way, there was an understanding btw them & the lady felt she could marry him based on the fact that the guy could tolerate her & that she already knew the guy as such. Now, the guy isn't comfortable with that anymore when he either remembers or sees some of the guys that probably have had his wife, he would feel so emasculated & weak in the sight of his marriage so the lady is guiding her utterances cos whenever in marriage & things like this happened, women always tend to be the one without faults but in reality, that's never true. U'll be surprised to hear the man's side of this story or maybe the reason he wouldn't come out to speak is because he hopes they settle someday or because of their child cos this for me, is really an integrity issue. How about a DNA test in the first place?

[@amakadominion9705]

Men should understand that a pregnant woman is not "Normal". I understand this now. A pregnant woman gets angry, irritated most times and desires the uttermost attention. It takes only a wise man to understand and handle his pregnant wife the right way. They would have overcome those moments after delivery but the husband didn't help matters. I pray for a stronger you.

[@tinamanyinda]

Why am I the one crying 😥 I've been through this and beyond but I survived. You'll be fine Yvonne 😍

[@NeneBlessing]

I agree with you love is never a enough in marriage! God is your strength 🙏

[@vickievickie3678]

Yvonne is so so mature,no faking of words,no faking of emotions, no faking of accent..... Dear Yvonne you are a beautiful strong woman and I pray you find happiness in all areas of your life....love you Mama💕

[@BlessingAmez]

It's well.. They need to explain to people what's not working in their marriage to educate others sha.. I really feel her and how much pain she has swallowed down. It is heart breaking seeing young couples marriage breaking down💔😔.. I am married for 4years now with 2 beautiful kids and its been from one blessing to another😍 marrying my best friend is the best decision ever. Little tips from my experience 1)marry into a Christian family 2)marry a character you can handle 3)have same vision and goal 4)sincerity and open minded to each other 5)share your weakness 6) apologies all the time wrong/right. Women are so strong, I don't know where we got the strength from💪.. When you are married don't forget to treat your husband as the first born 😂😂 and all will go smoothly .. I have 2 children and hubby, that's 3 children 🙊🙈😂😂.. #ILoveyouhubby

[@MoriyonIpuole]

Thank you very much for this

[@naaakotravels]

Thanks God for urs

[@maafiaagyekumwaa6936]

You’re so right my sister,thanks for the advice too

[@BlessingAmez]

@@maafiaagyekumwaa6936 you are welcome☺️

[@BlessingAmez]

@@MoriyonIpuole you are welcome 🤗

[@mideblack7843]

Okay... Okay... This is a bloody good interview!! If Yvonne watches this in 10yrs there won't be anything to regret, even if they got back together.. It is very obvious she loves and understands herself. Self awareness is so overlooked.. You are really brave but u still need a good friend Yvonne.. A true friend or just someone with positive energy, true love and light. Good vibes. I am reaching out to you(finger's crossed u see this, if u don't see this sef i'll still send a message to u other ways) someway somehow, I wanna be there for you any little way possible. I'm a female, undergrad of psychology at the uni of Ibadan.. I'm also an excellent cook, nailart enthusiast, real estate marketer and part-time radio host. I'd like to be your PA. Consider this my application. *i'll try to get this message to you with every bone in my body.. Hopefully i get the job. You're very beautiful.. I mean that in every way possible. 😘

[@victoryonyenwosa2529]

You are hired I am in faith with you sis I hope she sees this

[@mideblack7843]

@@victoryonyenwosa2529 thanks😁 so kind of you.

[@lifestylewithmommynelly]

Hope she sees this 💕 good luck & your words are beautiful

[@mideblack7843]

@@lifestylewithmommynelly thank you for the compliment.. Thanks for caring. ❤

[@olami4821]

She’s such a strong lady...... love u babe

[@naaakotravels]

Me too

[@RoselomonTV]

Yes she is

[@selinaadamu4795]

Awww... am a Ghanaian but I love you sooo soo much seen u always happy and listening to your story makes me feel yr pain 😢but you are very strong God will see u through 🙏

[@francescap2340]

Kudos to the interviewer for having some tact and empathy

[@adedoyinolayode9127]

this marriage is under a siege..pls pray ooo...your husband can't just stop talking to you for no reason something is wrong...you're really strong.. keep being strong for your baby

[@sweetchristie8560]

Yvonne Jegede my one and only Etsako central actress, my blood. I wasn't happy to hear your marriage broke up. May God Almighty grant you and your ex-husband the grace to come back. The people who destroyed your HOME will be left for God to deal with.The Lord is your strength. Xxx

[@adejesumajemuayo114]

AMEN

[@oeu3669]

Ck Entertainment why come back? Nah. She needs a good man

[@sweetchristie8560]

@@oeu3669 Yes, correct but that's the best prayers to pray for a breaken marriage that is not under physical abuse. It was a third party issues if that make sense.

[@omonluaorhewere491]

Now this is how you interview a person not that nonsense interview with tiwa savage

[@rachelanthony532]

Exactly

[@olufuntoesther9016]

Exactly

[@biancedamien9944]

Truth

[@ritafrempong9003]

🤣🤣🤣

[@iamtee6844]

I don't really see any issue in this marriage. I think It's just a clash of egos. There has to be an influencer that can scatter the negative egos you both have. You guys are good friends, if i tell you what we have gone thru in marriage; today my wife is my best friend. Dont separate.

[@IniMc]

Is it so easy?

[@Solja88]

Please please please do NOT ever judge anyone’s marriage. If yours turned out right, congratulations to you. But please don’t put your mouth in what you do not know. Let’s speak to your wife to see if she shares the same view about being with you.

[@conraddgreat.4938]

IamTee thank u for your enlightened comment. I listened to this interview from begining to end and all i see is also a clash of egos nothing more. Marriage is a place of humility for both parties. Yes i agree that They can still make it together if they both can throw their negative egos aside and work together in love.

[@QueenOfTheCoast]

@@Solja88 abi oooooo

[@lucasdjeutsa2197]

I feel so hurt right now. I mean see how she is controlling the tears, the pains, she is a strong woman. May God bless you momma. God is your strength. I feel like crying. This is horrible.

[@daphnesmith1686]

When LIFE ask u a QUESTION..its hw u ANSWER it. WELL DONE!!

[@ememrobert8480]

O wow. Could listen to Yvonne jegede all day. So intelligent. Never judge a book without really knowing the book. Girl,you are so strong. Take care of you,Xavier. God bless.

[@kheylam]

Stay strong, and give your son infinity love. Please that battle was /is not yours, and things do happens for a reason. We love you from Namibia 🇳🇦

[@beeojeiks6516]

Yvonne Jegede! I don't know you but I love this interview and I remember your traditional wedding. The joy on your face, for that reason I am saying don't be too quick to say your marriage is over. You are separated does not have to be end in divorce. Keep your head, keep praying for each other. Fight for each other and your marriage. It's not meant to be easy. You don't quit when the going gets tough if he is not physically abusing you. Prayers are sent to both of you.

[@wateromiproduction3898]

Sad to say i enjoyed this interview. I am a proud Ijebu man married almost 2 decade's to a beautiful Yoruba queen living in UK. I appreciate Yvonnes brave honesty. Your marraige can be fixed if you put God at the centre. On a practical level do DNA and put your husbands polluted mind at rest. I dont personally believe in across the sea relationship because i cant do without sex or my 9ja food like most men. I want it only with my wife. Thats the selfish part of a man. Also ladies dont be too relaxed allowing your female friends into your home. They could corrupt your mans brain. Keep temptation away. Finally no house girls. I even make my wife control the TV and internet password. I have seen what women can do to a man. I feel my dad was almost destroyed by women so i put a lot of controls in place. Finally my mum can not live with me in my marital home. She can come on holiday but she must go back to her house. I hope i have helped other women and men who do not want to destroy their marraige or add to the sad statistics of the state looking after your children.

[@miriamajuh9809]

You've said well

[@prevaila7107]

Thank you for the bravery of your response.

[@MD-nu8ku]

She is so eloquent and mature...unlike other "celebrities". Yvonne you are greatly admired!!

[@nellyjoseph2857]

Is not evertime that your best friend or that guy that has disturbed you for years is the one 4 u..

[@antoniawilliams2627]

They were a beautiful couple. And honestly it’s harder to walk away from a toxic situation than to stay. And no one should judge someone for doing what’s best for them and their child.

[@independentscope6470]

Never have a third party in a marrige ralationship weather family friends boundary are very important

[@Ajmatthews7]

Yvonne you’re a rare gem. I watched the whole event unfold, you held on through it all like a strong lady that you are. I’m not holding brief for you or Abounce but you did what you had to do. Daddy didn’t raise a weakling ✌️

[@marita1751]

don't worry sis life is not all about marriage take care of ur son

[@ekamaeshiett8870]

So admirable. Yvonne handled it so classy. No one is a saint... keep your head up. Still you rise!

[@angebelle2425]

This is the issue I don't like about friendship and love. I personally try dating my friend after he has been asking out many times and I keep refusing. The moment I gave in and we started dating boom that was the end of our friendship. Now I can't have him back to the friend zone

[@magiebeescuisine6119]

True definition of an African woman, keep being strong Yvonne,love you loads💞💞💞💞😘😘😘

[@ednabello4403]

My Edo sister, I strongly agree with you that Love isn't enough for marriage. I wish you & your cute son the very beat in life.

[@nicolethompson3283]

Edna Julie is she from edo state?

[@bluesee5500]

@@nicolethompson3283 Yes

[@priscillaworships]

You are smart, the amount of time I say love is not enough to keep marriage

[@natalieveeh6844]

As a woman who just gave birth myself 3month ago 😭😭😭 i cant , i cant .... i had all the care i had when and after pregnancy , and yet omg keep being strong mamah , raise your beautiful son ,

[@barbara_fombang]

At least for once it’s not about cheating. You are brave woman and handled the situation like I will. No one holds the key to ones happiness except u and God. Life continues. Lessons learnt from mistakes and no regret. Love you girl

[@gmed123]

Hmm

[@msunique9274]

Yvonne is an extremely strong woman. It takes courage, maturity and strength to do such an interview without shedding a tear or lashing out at her ex husband

[@gloryoaikhena4410]

Am so emotional right now watching her talk. I was 5 months pregnant when mine left....it makes you question yourself if you he ever loved you. Yvonne you are a very strong woman, u will pull through this.

[@nanaaj4416]

He wasnt your husband, you were meant to be friends

[@victorpatrick459]

Yoruba people can't be faithful in marriage 💍, both men and women 👵

[@VeRYmUChLoVelY]

@@victorpatrick459 tribalism at its finest🙄🙄🙄😒

[@titi9238]

@@victorpatrick459 wow! I didn't know that about my tribe! I guess am not Yoruba then and neither my parents and everyone in my family who have kept their spouses!

[@jenny-he2pr]

Exactly..people should learn the difference btw friends nd getting married..oh God give us our bone of bone nd flesh of flesh

[@jenny-he2pr]

@@victorpatrick459 true they dnt value marriage like the igbo's no igbo man will leave his wife while pregnant even if his in doubt of the paternity of d child..he would mk sure their is a DNA test before leaving..

[@Marie-Golden]

I salute this young lady, i don't know her BUT calm maturity and wisdom omg, its the guys miss. More grace @Yvonne Jegede

[@kaelinstiles4746]

This is my first time of commenting in any movie or story like dis. Just like my story my husband abandon me when i was pregnant with my second child and d first one was just two years than.i left 10 months after given birth.from Nigeria to Paris.now he wants me to forgive him and come back home.

[@priscillaworships]

God bless you and theirs more blessing for you, sometimes it's unfortunate that our partners are our enemies

[@Terryu1]

Just like mine

[@queennetetetv1511]

Strongest woman ever, i can feel the tears in your voice yet she ain't crying, you are amazing, may the Lord continue to strengthen you and keep you in good health for your son, I have similar separation, sometimes those we call friends and fall in love with are the ones to show us the true meaning of life without trust, damn

[@chinlatabafaraschenshak5799]

U are indeed a very strong woman. I hv learned from ur experience

[@lynnexvee9687]

I love her comportment....other celebs feel like not talking about issues in their marriage will solve it....kudos to u jegede, stay strong for your beautiful boy

[@fideliaamare4599]

I really love this lady, it's well dear, through her I got to like her husband, GO HIGHER dear, you are a STRONG woman, i believe you can do much more, GO GO GO HIGHER dear, the Lord is your strength.

[@wilheminadogbe6312]

Who is her husband

[@fideliaamare4599]

@@wilheminadogbe6312 I think " she actually brought him to limelight" no one really know him before then.

[@wilheminadogbe6312]

@@fideliaamare4599 ohk thanks

[@ajike]

@@fideliaamare4599 depending on what you mean by "brought him".... we knew him before her, he was a musician, on some gigs, and was Bukky Ajai's son.

[@fideliaamare4599]

@@ajike I knew his mother was an actress, he wasn't an actor before his mum passed on. was he?

[@johnefokwu6342]

I feel like crying She loves that guy to her bones She made her mistakes, some even clear in her discussion but I think she covered her husband more than herself. I wish her quick recovery and reconciliations

[@sanyasway9666]

i love you so much Yvonne. God knows why it happened this way. Something far better is coming your way. I don't know you but I feel you have a very sweet soul. You're so strong.

[@loidamaulion4853]

Very strong woman.You have a lovely son the love of your life.You are the lucky one.Good job.

[@faustinadadzie5423]

Strength of a woman may God see you through all this

[@Starmoms]

I love you mama! She's not badmouthing him. Being neglected at pregnancies is the worst predicament ever.

[@Rachel-gv6hw]

Dear Yvonne, congratulations on your beautiful baby and your strength at this time. Although it may be somewhat “therapeutic” to have these public conversations about your marriage for public consumption please please rely on the shoulders of your immediate family and one or two genuine friends and minimize these public discussions. Let the “battle” if any, be private notwithstanding that you are a much admired public figure. There are many who may “delight” in what is perceived to be negative situation. Marriage is always a challenge and personal to the both parties only. May God continue to bless you all.

[@AngieTheENTJ]

I disagree to an extent. Yes, there are an immature few who will delight in the details regarding the demise of her marriage. However, there are exponentially more people who will gain strength from hearing that this wonderful lady has endured emotional abuse and neglect. There are numerous people who feel alone and are isolated who can relate with her. The best way to deal with dysfunction is to expose it. Her ex-husband's narcissistic behavior needs to be exposed. If he didn't want a child then he shouldn't have ever gotten married and he should've paid for a vasectomy or wear condoms. Also, the abusive people giving her secondary trauma... i.e. joking about her spouse emotionally abandoning her...need to be exposed as well.

[@YnOt-4]

Yvonne... one of the very "ORIGINAL" celeb from nollywood...met u one on one briefly almost 20yrs ago in sure lele and u have never changed still "YVONNE"...love u to pieces...WISH U THE VERY BEST