Jennifer Lopez Opens Up About Her Past, Present and Future Relationships

[@nonnad9210]

I love how honest she is. Brave woman and beautiful.

[@katjaxxx7353]

You forgot strong & disciplined

[@aznpanda510x]

What I respect about jlo is… she never give up, even when she take a beating… she will get back up and keep on walking with a smile

[@yourbeat2739]

So down to earth and always had been! Just misunderstood! Love you Jen and your book should be at my front door today. .... yes!

[@Dancediva240]

"You have to say this is good for me, this is not good for me. You can't accept anything that doesn't feel right in your soul". These words are so so so true. They are the sentiments of a confident woman who knows precisely what she wants with acute self awareness. I'm currently in a situation where I like a guy who can only offer me friendship because he doesnt want a r/s at the moment due to his recent breakup. I thought I would be OK with it at first, I tried convincing myself that this person I'm so attracted to and enjoy spending time with is just my friend. I realised I was fooling myself and the day I admitted to myself that I dont wanna be just his friend, I want more, I felt peace within. Now I'm gonna tell him exactly what I think and feel and walk away. If he wants me, he knows how to find me.

[@DIMITARMIL]

Jessie K you go girl !!

[@Dancediva240]

mysketar4eto thank u so much!! i already told him by the way and he was very very accepting and gracious about it. so im grateful :)

[@treesforlifeong1639]

Jessie K hey jessie! i need so encouragement to do the same...telling a guy how i feel about him...

[@Dancediva240]

Go for it Trees!! I was scared to death right before I did it. Cos I had never been in a situation like this before, had a million fears. But I did it. And you can too. As long as you believe whatever you are saying with 100% conviction and you speak from a place of honesty and humility without accusations or judgement, you will be fine. I told the guy, "You're free to live your life the way you wanna live it and you dont owe me anything. I just want you to know that I think about you everyday and you're an awesome guy and if you ever decided you wanna give us a chance, you tell me. If Im not already with someone else, I will put my heart and soul into it. And if you decide you wanna be with someone else, then I wish you all the happiness. I had to tell you this because I dont want to be just friends, and my feelings just wanted to be heard thats all." This is what I said according to my situation. In your case Trees, just tell yourself that whatever happens, you're gonna honour YOUR feelings by letting them out and the rest is up to destiny. You show him the best version of YOU. Don't worry about anything else. Good luck!

[@Dancediva240]

@Neno Martínez thats good to know coming straight outta a guys mouth!👍

[@christinainthecity]

I love jennifer! I'm currently reading her book and it's SO good! Very honest! I really recommend it.

[@AshleeMC_MODx50]

+christinainthecity Just read it. Took me 4 1/2 hours. Such a great book

[@5MARYANNA5]

Ashlee Carter what exactly is its theme if you could say? Does it teach women to love themselves more?

[@bbdass4598]

Does she talk about David Cruz her first love? That was a real true relationship that set the bar. When you have a great first love it can set up your personal life in the future.

[@christinainthecity]

@@bbdass4598 No. She mentions P Diddy, Cris and Ben Affleck in the book. She mostly talks about the ending of her marriage to Marc and the life after divorce.

[@c19561284]

Jennifer your honesty is so inspirational to me personally I love you thanks for helping me

[@KIMSOULJA]

JLO is my hero, she such an brave, strong, inspiring, real woman!!!!!

[@marge6581]

Honestly she is my biggest inspiration. ♥️

[@IAmYourHEAVEN]

Because of your open about hard time in a relationship and break up - I forgive myself for them in my life. Thank you Jennifer!!! You did so much more than just a few minutes interview..... Oh. Strong brave woman!

[@dragonfly6908]

Interesting when the interviewer asked Jennifer what she would look for when dating her next guy and one of the things she said was "super faithful", so i wonder who it was in her past that wasn't "faithful".

[@MIMI232]

Puffy

[@jessiedo4133]

dragonfly6908 Ben and Marc too

[@babyboo792]

R

[@MrAllysonn]

Puffy was hanging with lot of girls maybe him.

[@dinavienna]

Diddy, but most importantly Marc

[@suyapaan1615]

I love Jennifer for her great marketing skills, she was dating Casper at that time, but for her book tour she decided not to share that with the world.. because she was pretending to take a time for her self, which we know she never does, because she's always in a relationship....... she's a master at marketing and selling whatever her fans are buying. Good for her.

[@MrAllysonn]

Yes!! She was not with him true!

[@dinavienna]

Haha that s interesting ! Master marketer. I love her either way

[@aznpanda510x]

Lmao at the end, she pretty much sum up Ben affleck

[@Nazaba09]

Accurate.

[@B-ch6uk]

Except for the faithful part

[@nene1066]

Wow she looks so much younger now in 2022 than back years ago.

[@carolii4834]

Ben fits in all those points.. Kind, faithful, funny and handsome even if it wasn't questionated 😍

[@dinavienna]

Uhm... he cheated on his wife Jennifer garner though..

[@carolii4834]

@@dinavienna we're not sure of that!

[@dinavienna]

@@carolii4834 well.. it s kind of all over town Isn’t it .. if it weren’t true, jlo wouldn’t be dropping all those hints about being hurt by unfaithful partners.. if he were innocent she d protect her children s father s Reputation (by saying btw it s NOT him I m talking about especially given all those rumours).. what she s not saying in Interviews is quite interesting imo. She s just saying in the failure of a marriage both are somewhat to blame, but that she was falling apart when something happened .. a very diplomatic way of saying what he did to me was extemely hurtful and actually he is overwhelmingly to blame. Also, the way he reacts to the question in interviews is quite interesting. He denies it halfheartedly imo. But you know - we re all entitled to form our opinion. Jlo was classy enough to leave it open

[@Alphavirtualsolutions1]

Faithful ??? Ben ? Loool

[@Nazaba09]

@@dinavienna no he didn’t. Jennifer garner said his thing with the nanny happened AFTER they broke up.

[@kristycaminero4653]

Love jlo

[@chibaby5274]

She's looking for a "super faithful" guy. So if the rumors were true about A-Rod cheating or talking to another woman (sans sex) then she probably called off the engagement with the quickness. No way she was gonna marry him.

[@dinavienna]

Yeah .. I think she wasn’t going to get into another marriage where her husband is a Cheater (like Marc has since confirmed to be)

[@chibaby5274]

@Exposing Liars There was def something disingenuous about him. I could never quite put my finger on it. I never got that either of them were madly in love with each other. I honestly think Jennifer was settling because he seemed to be a good match culturally and on paper. Thank goodness she came to her senses before they married.

[@SHARMISTHAish]

@@chibaby5274 they were like friends who are alike and like same things and working together as a team...they were more a cool group comfortable with each other.. Their family blended well and the whole thing good good on social media..putting happy family videos and all...

[@gavinguthrie9979]

Awesome

[@Wasanthakumara-nx7il]

Great :)

[@ST-bz5ii]

They look like sisters. They could even pass as unidentical twins

[@controversialmann5345]

they can pass for sisters

[@hyssopian]

Sorry..... I will wait for the Biopic.

[@Wasanthakumara-nx7il]

Great

[@jlothebest3639]

how tought she was going to cry ? 😭

[@nene1066]

No she said she was not dating that she was on her own alone not even flirting

[@sylviadiaz8247]

Hey jlo if you have not love you are nothing. Our true love is our Lord God Almighty. Only he can fill that emptyness in you. GOD Loves you.

[@nene1066]

At first glance i thought it was her bff leah r.

[@filmon623]

How much time? I'm dying here.

[@siphowarrior9080]

she just described Beau capser smart "kind, sweet, funny"

[@Lore-wv5mt]

How long did she last alone???

[@geetywaziri8321]

3 minutes 5 seconds Pray for ben

[@vaheyetimyan5193]

She could have gotten a better deal in regard to her marriages if she was slower and more cautious in her decisions but considering her back ground it is not easy to see the broader picture at once and act accordingly..

[@Nazaba09]

She could have gotten a better deal if she DIDNT MARRY MARC AS A REBOUND.

[@tacitamorgan1529]

cute my girlGodMOM💋❤💙💖yeah I see u in video cute I love it.see u soon💋❤❤❤❤❤❤💙loverWithTc

[@movi3srock]

Her basically describing Arod at the end.

[@jamyasmith2034]

it's sad jlo can not find anyone. this is happening so many times more it's not your partner it's u . she can't go through the ups in down in a marriage. and she keeps bringing. up her past with Marc it's sad cuz she can't move on. u go to Marc interviews he don't even talk about jlo . just stop talking about it .

[@Ashnesss]

Jamya Smith LOL she has moved on. She's using his name for publicity. She wrote a book. The kids keep them connected. He's a top musician. Very well known. She has a former lover who's a good friend and the father of her kids. And after the divorce, she doesn't mind being friends with him at all. She seems to prefer it. She's totally over him. This is how she works.

[@wadesolomon2292]

J o to the lo

[@Rainbowmelon]

Selling her book..sorry..jlo I'll pass.

[@Purplemetall007]

She says, "when I sat down to write the book..." She didn't' write jack shit.....she employs people to write for her and she puts her opinions in it.... big whoop!! Every celeb book is exaggerated for ratings.

[@Eldragonic]

She is a nymphomaniac

[@song4mozart]

JLo doesn't know the meaning of love much less true love. She uses people as props in her narcissistic world. Yes, she even uses her children as props. Just look at her IG page. She's real alright, a real narcissist.

[@teresahenderson954]

Pass around chick nothing special

[@jorni29]

She looks all run down and tired maybe cause of her age now 47. In my opinion

[@Rainbowmelon]

I thought she was 45 or 44. I think you added a few years more to her age.