‘90 Day Fiancé’: Lily Reveals SHOCKING Truth About Sex Life with Josh (Exclusive Clip)

[@chelseaxjaye]

"at this rate your hymen will grow back" 😂 vivian is the best

[@Natwell1990]

Lily is very lucky to have a daughter like her. Spitting facts like that.

[@bambinaforever1402]

Wdf? Are u for real? The amount of sex your parent has is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS!

[@troysmith5749]

Talking to your mom about her sex life and hymen is disrespectful, inappropriate and flat out gross. Lily isn't spitting facts she's being toxic rolling her eyes at her mom, throwing her head back, complaining about her mom's relationship and asking shameless questions. If Lily is a great relationship expert where are her husband and kids? Nowhere to be found but she has a dog that she carries around all the time while dressing it like it's her child.

[@MissPurdeyChihuahua]

She is very lucky she is so honest lover her

[@joshbachmann5065]

@@troysmith5749you’re a bad egg or a bozo

[@ThouSwell-zx3fd]

Cringe 😬

[@nicoler3499]

I absolutely love lily's daughter.

[@Bunny11344]

Her daughter so pretty omg

[@faustopacheco120]

Hell no. Dogs are not fashion accessories.

[@bambinaforever1402]

What is here to love? Rude, bossy and not pretty

[@troysmith5749]

Yeah she's such a badass for being disrespectful to her mom. Imagine how she would treat you when she is insulting your flaws.

[@ThouSwell-zx3fd]

She's flat out gross lol

[@thelight.thedark]

See Lily’s daughter is perfect for reality tv she is asking all of the questions that the viewers are asking

[@JG-po3ip]

Lily’s daughter is wonderful. I hope she listens to her and leaves Josh.

[@troysmith5749]

Yes, then she can get a dog that she can carry around everywhere and dress it up and pretend it's her child.

[@cynthiaisako]

​@@troysmith5749So ?

[@protectedearthempress3986]

Lily. You're too good of a person to settle for any man who's not meeting your needs. Drop that zero and find u a hero hun. Listen to ur daughter. Any man who doesn't want a relationship with my child can't have one with me. Family first.

[@JoseHernandez-ql8vw]

If she's good then why is she single at 40?

[@jacquiandp-dog7755]

Vivian needs her own show. Not on TLC. She needs a daytime talk show.

[@krtlkid]

Shes an actress

[@jacquiandp-dog7755]

@@krtlkid Really? Do you know what shows/movies she is in or if they are available to watch here? I know there are some Chinese productions available to watch in the US..

[@krtlkid]

@@jacquiandp-dog7755 not sure what's the names but there are some videos of her on KZbin

[@henlostinkykittin7407]

@@jacquiandp-dog7755 You can find her shows if you look up Cao Wan Jin (there’s a list of shows and movies she’s been in on MyDramaList too)

[@a.m.3921]

Something is definitely off about Josh- this is a HUGE red flag. Listen to your awesome daughter, Lily!! She is so right!

[@lauren4078]

Lily's daughter is not only intelligent, but she's naturally gorgeous, too!

[@bambinaforever1402]

Dear god

[@TienShanTradingEducation.]

yes❤

[@TienShanTradingEducation.]

ita like ahe want to a marry a foreigner a white man thats the only thing the man just wants to marry an asian china vietnam thai whatever he had no idea. yes he can teach english in these countries and mean he speaks clearly. but the problem is no aex a bit like ginos realtionshop ao...no end here ....

[@troysmith5749]

So where is Vivian's boyfriend or husband? She's not 14 she's 27. What relationship experience or accomplishment can she point to that will prove she is intelligent when it comes to relationships? Her beauty draws them in and her toxic attitude and temper tantrums drive them away.

[@TienShanTradingEducation.]

@@troysmith5749 ıts not rocket scıence. she ıs rıch , he ıs not. ı cant see love there ,ıf he even doesnt have sex.he can teach englısh easıly ın chına.

[@shellymckerrow9632]

Lily's daughter is so sweet and concerned about her Mom. She really seems to love her so much!! ❤

[@tesscontreras]

That's how Asian people are,sweet ,loving ,caring and concerned to their parents and siblings.

[@troysmith5749]

She's concerned for her mom but she's not sweet. Even Lily asked her how can ask about her sex life. Didn't you notice the temper tantrum she was having while talking to her? Rolling her eyes, throwing her head back, asking shameless questions.

[@MissPurdeyChihuahua]

@@troysmith5749 wow under every video with lily you put something, are you obsessed, her daughter is perfectly honest, intelligent and tries to keep her mother for a man who can't do anything

[@troysmith5749]

@@MissPurdeyChihuahua You read all of my comments? You sound obsessed with me homegirl. I just need to call out all of the hypocrites and liars making delusional comments about Vivian. You say she is intelligent? How do you know? All of the information she has is from her mother trash talking Josh behind his back. Vivian is honest and Josh probably is a lazy, cheap guy. But don't make it sound like Vivian came to her own conclusions about Josh all on her own. How can she possibly observe their relationship when she lives 795 miles away in Beijing?

[@ESLEDUCATE]

I think josh is secretly gay. Certain things he says and how he acte

[@ben361971]

ive thought the same.

[@loredanadincu4300]

Well, he had 2 or three wives before Lily, so I don't know about that

[@MRZE506]

​@loredanadincu4300 they are tons of man that have wives but still are gay

[@NF-hh3qq]

@@loredanadincu4300 All his marriages failed.

[@loredanadincu4300]

@NF-hh3qq I know and is damn obvious. But may be other reasons for why the marriages failed, and that doesn't necessarily include him being gay. It may be because he is a patronizing, gaslighting ass that used his wifes and profit of them.

[@santefeaster460]

Paying all the bills and not getting any? Lily pump the breaks

[@KaseemWalker-ow4wo]

Josh fails to realize that his wife spent most of her money to accommodate him plus she’s paying all of the bills he needs to man up

[@neeeenah]

Her daughter is so precious. ❤😂

[@MochiColorsZanos]

Leave him, Lily. The guy doesnt work which, okay, is understandable because he's in a different country and doesn't have papers there, but he could take interest in helping you with your business and help around the house. It's the LEAST he can do. And on top of that, doesn't give you sex?? Girl, he's good for nothing then and who wants a man like that???

[@whatdudeokman6481]

Would you say the same to a man in the same situation? "She doesnt work, she doesnt give you sex, so leave her". I mean, I think its weird, Lily is hot, but I know women advocate for married women to withhold sex from their husbands, so its just different hearing a woman tell another woman to leave, because the guy is not giving her sex.

[@jacquiandp-dog7755]

He is looking for a mother, not a wife. He's a mentally sick person.

[@MochiColorsZanos]

@@whatdudeokman6481 What a weird comment.

[@donaldschultz676]

​@@whatdudeokman6481I'm with you. When a man is torn down financially it's a libido think. If he treated her like a two bit women that he didn't care for he probably could just knock boots and leave but he loves her and is being berated by him. Why don't women get this. They hold out on men just for a different opinion that day or the hubby failed to say you look sexy. Now tables are turned. Just screw her Josh don't make love...if that's what She wants.

[@DN-kf4gg]

“Woman advocate for married women to withhold sex from their husbands.” Whaaaaaaaaaaat tf are you talking about?

[@nishadh366]

Your hymen will grow back LMAOOO

[@helloliggy]

Daughter is asking the right questions

[@OlgaBab-ov2uo]

I just wonder how real it is that the daughter speaks so openly about mother's s life in Chinese culture. Does ever happen?

[@bluelight8664]

the convo sounded very american to me apart from the saying .but it maybe bc i don t know the culture enough

[@troysmith5749]

@@bluelight8664 There is no culture where it is common for a child to ask their mom about their vagina and sex life. Maybe in the next episode she'll ask how big Josh's private part is and what sexual positions they used 7 months ago. It's very embarrassing and shameless behavior on Vivian's part. You can tell Vivian was never punished or told no growing up.

[@kristimartinez7528]

Probably questions planted by the show...I doubt she came up with these..​@@troysmith5749

[@ThouSwell-zx3fd]

I wondered the same thing too! Girl, that's your *mother* lol

[@Bing-k8j]

It’s not common but my mom is Taiwanese and I talk to her about sex

[@Jboog742]

Her daughter is so wise.

[@troysmith5749]

Talking about your mom's sex life and genitals on international tv is wise?

[@spiritedaway99]

her daughter is very wise,I hope she listens to her b4 its too late!!

[@troysmith5749]

Yeah her daughter is so wise, instead of having a husband and kids or even a boyfriend, she carries her dog everywhere dressing it up as if it is her child.

[@crimsonite2044]

Lily seems like such a nice lady. She deserves a REAL man

[@jenduh]

I'd watch a show of just these two

[@libbydriver8762]

Her daughter is absolutely gorgeous and well educated as well as street smart. Josh won't even give her the bare minimum, and she's giving him a whole mansion all bills paid, food and he won't give her affection or validation? That's his only job and he won't meet her halfway. Bye

[@troysmith5749]

How do you know she's well educated and street smart? Because she asked her mom a bunch of shameless questions? Where are the daughter's husband and kids or her boyfriend? She's 27 and all she has is her dog that she dresses up as her child. I guarantee you her toxic attitude and lack of respect is what pushes away all of her boyfriends.

[@vidar8772]

I really likes Lily s daughter, she is very pretty!

[@troysmith5749]

You like her based on her looks? I bet you she would roll her eyes at you based on your looks and ask you a bunch of embarrassing personal questions the first time you met.

[@GOTTA_RUN]

@troysmith5749 ^ Did that experience happen to you recently? That last part was pretty descriptive

[@troysmith5749]

@@GOTTA_RUN I'm describing your behavior when you first meet people. You're very shameless, rude and obnoxious with your questions but I guess if that makes you happy, so go for it bro.

[@coleeaz]

Sometimes we're all stupid and we cannot see if someone are using us or love us selflessly

[@DN-kf4gg]

He’s just not that into you, sweetie.

[@sassyempress7916]

Lily daughter is right. I am speechless right now. You fly from the US to China all that way to your wife and you aren’t having sex. Something is wrong with that man. A wife have needs man😂😂😂

[@c4arla]

wow they are mother daughter I thought this was a friend

[@陈丹丹-y7u]

Her daughter is a very smart woman

[@Africaisthefuture-zh8bo]

I love her daughter😂😂😂😂 thats such a taboo question to ask a mother in my culture but i get that shes concerned. And YES it says a lot about a marriage. You're a good girl to care, darling.😂😊

[@Lalalalala98872]

It’s taboo in china and asian cultures too lol, she’s just brave af 😂

[@troysmith5749]

Does this mean you ask you parents about their genitals and sex life too?

[@chocolate2476]

@@troysmith5749 when you have responsible and honest parents yes. It seem you didn’t have that, so you up and down this comment thread spewing anger. Go fix that buddy

[@celestialsupernovas7909]

Please make Vivian a 90 day cast member soon!!

[@tinytim4657]

This really opened my eyes to my own stereotype about Chinese women being demure and not really caring about emotional things and physical satisfaction oh my God I feel so embarrassed. Thank God, I saw this video.

[@lavenderfields5944]

I think it’s because those emotional conversations are not shown in the media and kept private with friends and family.

[@HWDragonborn]

Bruh, you never watch C-dramas? Chinese women are very emo.

[@troysmith5749]

Don't let the media or Hollywood teach you about someone's culture and traditions.

[@ambermcentire5695]

Vivian is amazing!

[@Aryantics]

He’s a bad man.

[@troysmith5749]

Because he won't have sex with his wife or because he won't bow down to be the daughter's servant?

[@pn4640]

How come children like this girl are wayyyy smarter than their parents. Lilys daughter is beautiful and very smart. Why in the world is lily with Josh? He is like a spoilt teenager, he doesn’t even like her at all. She provides everything for him, he is driven around, he can’t even cook or even contribute for groceries, he sold his home, took his retirement, he could be a millionaire and he refused to help…what kind of a man is this🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@troysmith5749]

I'm just wondering how he can't contribute when he should have a lot of money. Unless he is saving it all for his eventual return to the states. He must have a back up plan to go back. Maybe he gave himself a one year deadline to make the marriage work and if that doesn't happen he's gone. Lily might wake up one day to find out Josh went back home without saying anything.

[@ivanskirchak4935]

Got to love Chinese honesty 😂

[@ashleyamory2951]

You hymen will grow back at this rate! 😂😂😂😂 dump him!!!!

[@troysmith5749]

And if Lily was withholding sex you would be screaming girl power or right on girl!

[@brendaclark8053]

UGH something is wrong with that man 😮

[@troysmith5749]

There is something wrong with both of them. If he is wrong as you say she is worse because everyday she stays with him she is encouraging his behavior.

[@krustycreme1093]

Yeah- he's gay!

[@mickymao7313]

Sad.

[@lancemannion4113]

The daughters discussion with Lily is disgusting. She's do typical of modern day plasticized princesses. There is zero grace or humility with her. Maybe the shows producers push her to act vulgar for viewership, but she comes across as a narcissistic brat. And Lily's just too bougie for Josh, and he's finding out too late. This is why he's deliberately sabotaging the relationship. He wants her to end it. It's a messed up dynamic. Some cultures will just never blend organically

[@chycahaya]

Omg girl, save your mom! Help her see the big walking red flag called Josh.

[@keithhosannah3022]

Is there ever a Chinese conversation where a person doesn't reference a Chinese proverb?

[@troysmith5749]

They're so brainwashed they can't think for themselves.

[@747jpdrummer]

It is amazing how TLC always inlcude "friends" of the main character who are extremely good looking. We all know these are paid actors, potraying them as "friends."

[@SkyOfAria]

Are you talking about the girl in this video, Lily's actual daughter?

[@troysmith5749]

That would explain this scene. Vivian's temper tantrums and shameless questions are embarrassing for a 27 year old.

[@LOLLMAO11]

Josh is a leech 😂

[@Azzura_365]

Wise daughter 💯

[@troysmith5749]

Asking your mom gross questions and talking about her genitals makes her wise? The standards for wisdom are so low.

[@Quantum_Physics123]

Seems to be that josh is closeted-gay. He would be much happier if he came out and accepted that side of him. And then maybe for once he can have a relationship that hasn’t failed.

[@troysmith5749]

Being gay isn't always the answer. He obviously resents her so how can he possibly be in the mood to be intimate? Lily seems to be living in a fantasy romance novel while Josh is regretting the fact that he went this far into the relationship.

[@Quantum_Physics123]

@@troysmith5749 Yes, it’s very evident that he resents her. And even if that’s the case, he should approach this situation as a man and tell Lily how he feels (or leave her)…. the reason she lives in a romance-novel type of feeling is only because he lies to her and leads her to believe he cares for her as well. He also pretends that he wants to work on issues to improve their relationship. So basically he’s pretending. He’s a poser. And if he’s pretending about this then who knows what else he’s pretending…. Probably the fact that he’s closeted-gay. I mean, his whole demeanor & his actions don’t seem very manly, I think he would just benefit as coming out as a gay person instead of forcing himself to be with a woman to cover up his authenticity. I believe he is a boomer, no? He probably feels shame about being gay but It’s 2024 & most ppl are more open minded about this topic.

[@troysmith5749]

@@Quantum_Physics123 I agree that Josh is pretending and posing. But Josh is not a boomer, he is generation x which came after the baby boomers. Josh would have to be at least 60 years old to be a boomer but he's 47 years old. You have to tell me at least 2 things Josh does that makes you think he is gay and you cannot use the lack of sex as a reason.

[@TechGuyZone]

这个婚礼没有未来。 不好意思。 lily 很好的女人。

[@troysmith5749]

Lily is a good person but nags too much. Daughter too bossy and not respectful.

[@TechGuyZone]

@ she just needs a man. This guy is not a man. It is very easy in china to work. He can open his own company. Or she employs him. There are many ways. But he is only crying around.

[@bambinaforever1402]

Wdf ? Who talks about sex with their children?????? Or friends? Or ANYONE BESIDES DOCTOR if one has problems????

[@TheTerkzzz]

People do.. 🫠

[@apara2005]

It's very normal to talk about it with friends/family. I don't know about parents 😅

[@Lalalalala98872]

A lot of ppl talk about it with friends

[@troysmith5749]

@@apara2005 Vivian has zero shame.

[@troysmith5749]

@@Lalalalala98872 It's a really dumb idea. Everyone will know about sex life within 24 hours. I guess people like the attention even if it humiliates them.

[@4rel2]

I would have been ate that sushi... Real talk❤❤❤

[@troysmith5749]

Talking to your mom about her sex life and hymen is disrespectful, inappropriate and flat out gross. Lily isn't spitting facts she's being toxic rolling her eyes at her mom, throwing her head back, complaining about her mom's relationship and asking shameless questions. If Lily is a great relationship expert where are her husband and kids? Nowhere to be found but she has a dog that she carries around all the time while dressing it like it's her child.

[@JM-wn1gr]

Vivian is so nasty

[@danaa.4054]

They are so beautiful

[@donaldschultz676]

I think mother's nowadays wants to be friends with their daughters at all costs. I do not talk my sex life with my daughter nor her with me. We are close but their is a level of respect. Lilly new Josh couldn't work she also knew Josh never wanted that Lilly Welcome to My Crib style house. Too much money for show. She wanted it and just continues to throw it in Josh's face constantly. She portrays Josh as ungrateful for the things she bought or upgraded Where is $ for a rainy day Lilly?. Josh you sold your house and sold stuff. Don't you have money saved. No equity in your house. No cash savings for items in your house you say you sold. Why would you marry Broke? Is that a sound move or were you cashing in? I want to believe you Josh i do think Vivian is here to sabotage your wedding if there's one. But that is Lilly's fault for complaining about your sex life I'm surprised she didn't tell her daughter in inches how big your penis is? I think it's disgusting that your brother can't even stay neutral for the sake of his brothers marriage. Good luck. Maybe you need to leave China! 10 years is a lot of years not to work. Go on internet and get a job on line..anything...but if you haven't thought of it either you don't want to or you can't? Idk

[@NF-hh3qq]

I think it's inappropriate for a daughter to ask her mother about her sex life let alone in a public place. The producers of the show definitely asked her to ask and talk about it. It's become a common thing on the show to talk about sex because it sells and is controversial.

[@sheetmaskbabe]

Inappropriate according to who? Lily said her and her daughter are besties

[@NF-hh3qq]

@@sheetmaskbabe Even she said how can you ask such an inappropriate question 0:03, period. There are personal boundaries for each person that the other should not cross.

[@renatosantosreviews2000]

@@NF-hh3qq That's right, her daughter is very meddlesome and embarrasses her own mother in public. Her sex life is private and it has nothing to do with her daughter. She seems to have been a very soft and liberal mum.

[@NF-hh3qq]

@@renatosantosreviews2000 I don't really think she talks to her about it. She herself was surprised that her daughter asked about it. I bet the producers of the show asked her and convinced her to ask her mother and talk about it. Statler said that she wasn't comfortable talking about her sex life with people she was seeing for the first time and in a public place. She doesn't really do that in reality.

[@renatosantosreviews2000]

@@NF-hh3qq That may be, but her daughter looked very comfortable doing it in public and the way she talks, she sounds like a sex machine and not having sex is a criminal offence. This girl is very nosy and annoying.

[@heavenssanctuary4119]

I honestly dont understand why Lily is with Josh. He had 3 years to learn the language. He had 3 years to save, and he couldve applied to start his own business, but he's so annoying. The only tuing i dont like about lilt is bringing ip thr finance tjing, but josh shoyldve saved to oay for the entire wedding, and couldve given hee even if it was little for the hpuse she was building. What the heck us rhis dude going to do for the next 5 years? Play with is Lego people? 😮 Peace. ❤

[@troysmith5749]

He will play with his remote control toys while Lily works 20 hour days and then comes him to cook and clean for him because he is a poor baby.

[@faustopacheco120]

Dogs are not fashion accessories.

[@lordzeus6166]

Maybe he needs his brother to tell him women like sex

[@RoseRedd-k4b]

I think it is nice that Lily and her daughter have such an open relationship . I don't think Vivian is all that pretty, she just looks average to me. And 7 months without sex is crazy, I don't think Josh is all that good in bed anyway, if he can't handle flashing lights and people chewing, how can he handle moaning and the bed squeaking. What a weirdo.

[@troysmith5749]

Amazing, you're the only person who hasn't gone crazy over Vivian's looks. You made some good objective points. I forgot about the chewing thing Josh has. I wonder how he deals with Asian people slurping their noodles?

[@kathleenjimenez8968]

This is so inappropriate for the daughter to ask.

[@NF-hh3qq]

If you are participating in the 90 days fiancé you have to ask and talk about sex in a public place it is part of their terms apparently.

[@troysmith5749]

Thank you for saying that. Some people are calling Vivian wise for asking those shameless, toxic questions.

[@SeminarioMAE]

Josh should date her daughter, she seems nice.

[@troysmith5749]

The daughter can get all of his remote control toys in the divorce settlement.

[@krustycreme1093]

Why would the daughter want that loser who won't even sleep with a woman?

[@edgardoramirez7693]

Gurl

[@lashellecoleman2754]

Gross why is she asking her mom that

[@-Kr1s-]

But if she didn’t ask, we would never know. 😂. I am sure we are all curious about it

[@troysmith5749]

@@-Kr1s- So if she asked Lily about the size of Josh's private part you would be sitting on the edge of your seat frothing at the mouth, breathing heavy, oinking, moaning, writhing around and twisting your body into all kinds of positions taking in all of this perverted information?

[@Cassieali-cv7pj]

😲

[@linvi_chemutai]

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[@XiaoruiTian-xw9cv]

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