Facing Generational Problems In Your Family?

[@tatie7604]

Fr. Thady's advice is excellent. I will listen to this video multiple times.

[@elliewilson8863]

Awww Father you just brought up my favorite evangelization group . I am a third order Carmelite and also a Legion of Mary in which Frank Duff said “ when you go go with your hat in your hand in humility” and to bring all to Our Lord . We have been doing evangelization in the Catholic Church for years .

[@donnadelfino6070]

✝️🙏🏻Blessed Mother and The Infant Jesus.Please help my Son.Help him in the right direction. Please Bless Him, and keep him safe and healthy.

[@englishrose6627]

My original family A passed. Dad died in France. I've undergone a life of cruelty and trauma. My ex used family violence, so did my past brother, follow Wed by 2 rship. My ex has turned my.2 children and 4 grandchildren against me. I've had psychiatric.and spiritual care. I feel dreadful,.so alone. However I still hang on to Jesus.

[@GodsCottage]

Please God, Jesus will lead you into immense healing

[@mick1gallagher]

@@GodsCottage did God give her the disease in the first place

[@allanlindsay8369]

@@mick1gallagher Hello Michael and greetings to you. You have lost me, what disease are you referring to?

[@honey-rosegbologah4220]

Thank you Father for this talk

[@HopeLaFleur1975]

Thank you father, this was amazing..love how you said, if you have a problem with a person, don't get others involved! so true..I know of a mother who would complain to her other children about things her children did. And it riled up all the other siblings and caused so much division..this mother did not know how to be a peacemaker. And I can see this kind of behaviour with other family members. I wish that people would think for them selves! Good topic! God Bless.

[@GodsCottage]

Yes, the more who get involved the worse it usually gets

[@rajvinderkaur7213]

Lord I leave my mum in your hands she still needs to accept that I have left sikhism and have turned to jesus

[@clockwatch5222]

Rajvinder Kaur, God bless you in following Jesus. I suppose your Mum feels rejected, as you have now rejected the old religion she still follows. She may also feel you don't love her. In her mind if you did you would share her love for Sikhism. I think you have to keep telling her you love and don't reject her. You just reject Sikhism as you have found Jesus, which I'm sure you'd love to share with her too. You can offer her the miraculous medal and tell her the mother of God loves her. If she accepts the medal, especially if she allows you to put it around her neck (in a necklace) then it has great power to convert. The Legion of Mary usually offers these medals to bring people to God, through his Holy Mother. I wish you well. Don't give up on your Mum. I feel despite religion tearing you apart, you love each other very much. God bless x

[@gerrywalsh7677]

Well done father. Thank you. God Bless.

[@emmaflores5933]

From the Philippines We love you Continue to be a good shepherd0

[@domedweller4202]

Thankyou Father for your words of wisdom. My own father always said ....There are two sides to every story.......God bless you Father Doyle.

[@GodsCottage]

Thanks for feedback. Appreciated.

[@prezcellaprez6311]

Thank you Father Td...for your words of wisdom..this words will awaken to those who is conrcern ..be mercifull to your neighbours 👍👍🙏

[@vilanidabarera7382]

Praise the Lord 🙏

[@mariaponnudurai9778]

That letter reflects exactly my sentiments. Recently I have released everyone of them to God and now I have peace of mind.

[@GodsCottage]

Yes, an important step is often releasing everyone to God, that is accepting them as they are, but one has peace of mind, one is still called to try to find ways of leading them to Jesus.

[@GodsCottage]

Tomorrow we are having a birthday Mass for Our Blessed Mother at God's Cottage. During it I will explicitly ask her intercession for those who have shared family problems arising from my talk on Sunday

[@mariaponnudurai9778]

Thank you so much father for your kindness and love. Looking forward to seeing you in person someday in Heaven.

[@lourdesportelli6565]

Pleas God stay with us we need you .thanku for evrey things l love You vergin Mary pray for us we love You Holy Spirit bless all

[@josephinebcmpatrick9207]

If family members are not talking to each other, attempt to vent all of your family troubles to each other via email - a safe distance from each other to say all you want to say & allow your family member to say all they want to say. Writing about your troubles, releasing all of your thoughts via email, is extremely therapeutic. Easier to send your thoughts via email than to have to talk face to face with your family. One healing sentence if you are not able to resolve your family issues - 'could we just agree to differ'. Let us just agree to differ.

[@imeldaprendergast9423]

Thank you Fr Thady, you are a true shepherd leading us on the right way! Thank you so much. Imelda

[@GodsCottage]

Thanks for feedback. Deeply appreciated

[@reg8297]

Its so traumatic trying to cope with life long effects of abuse abuse from childhood my mother then met a person who also abused me brainwashed my family against me also the relationships are destroyed ive only one left i have prayed and prayed my head off got masses said yet tthis same toxic evil is still in my fanily of origin i cant see them anymore there so dysfunctional to having a relationship with me there was never any love they cursed me from age of 5 i havent been able tp fix the effects i couldnt stop my x turning my kids against me so how do u fix that kind of situation thats heen happening a lifetime your a wonderful priest u can see the holy spirit is in fact inside u

[@GodsCottage]

Some situations are so sad and complicated. The only person we can take responsibility for is ourselves. We pray for others, but they have to open their hearts to God. And even as we pray for them, we need to surrender them to God.

[@MsLucky443]

Very good advice. Also you know human people very well.

[@julieh7456]

Thank-you Father for another Inspiring you-tube video. God Bless You from my Washington D.C. home! 3 Hail Marys for you!

[@GodsCottage]

Delighted you find it helpful - and sincere thanks for prayer support

[@shaunswebtv]

Wonderful message..thank you Father...I do find it hard to believe that even the regular mass goers seem to accept that their children have to make up their own mind to follow Christ..which I cannot understand.....God Bless all

[@mariacarroll4250]

DEAR FR.THADY AGAIN YOUR VIDEO TO DATE IS JUST WONDERFUL AND SO HELPFUL ON THE PROBLEMS THAT CAN BE IN FAMILYS AND EVEN PASSED DOWN FROM EARLY YEARS SADLY TRUE,THIS VIDEO A GREAT HELP ON THIS SUBJECT,TO HOPE WITH PRAYER & TO LEAVE ALL THIS IN THE HEALING HANDS OF GOD NO JUDGEING TALK ONLY PEACEFUL, FR.YOUR SO WONDERFUL YOUR SPEECH ALONE, AND IN YOUR WAYS PLEASENT & HELPFUL, THANK YOU AND GOD BLESS YOU FOR EVER, SENT FROM MARIA,

[@GodsCottage]

Tomorrow we are having a birthday Mass for Our Blessed Mother at God's Cottage. During it I will explicitly ask her intercession for those who have shared family problems arising from my talk on Sunday including yourself

[@JesusisLord12]

Amen thanks be to God!

[@itisntwhatyouknow]

Regarding your video on the priest and false prophecy, it doesn't surprise me one bit that it got a huge amount of hits, because so many of us after going after the sensational. This video won't attract half as many hits but the teaching within is infinitely more valuable. We've had ongoing problems in my family for almost 10 years now. I prayed and prayed and prayed and nothing seemed to be changing. Then I started fasting just once a week, nothing exceptional, and within a few weeks the positive change in my family was very noticeable - I could hardly believe my eyes and ears. I'm working on handing things over to God, I find it so hard to do because I'm a worrier, but I'm trying all the same, one step at a time. Thank you Father for your sound teaching.

[@GodsCottage]

Many thanks for sharing. Yes, fasting can have a major role to play, both in one's own journey into deliverance, and then in bringing it to one's family

[@Sanedrac366]

Thank u father for this beatiful reflection. God bless u. Our Lady protects you. Amen

[@lourdesportelli6565]

Holy spirit Bless all Your preasts tks Fr

[@cherylbruen3643]

Beautiful THANKYOU Father.

[@TuanAnhTPBQ]

I'm so glad I stumbled onto your channel. Now I'll have to catch up. Thank you, Father.

[@GodsCottage]

Welcome to the God's Cottage Channel. May the Holy Spirit guide you in what will most help you.

[@TuanAnhTPBQ]

Thank you, Father.

[@christineschlogel9192]

Thank you so very much. May God blessings be with you always. I am going to try to get your books here in the USA. Please pray for me

[@shyamakakkar3867]

Thank you Fr Teddy. Your talks are very inspiring, urging us to live with the awareness of Jesus living in us. I have some court cases put on me n they are being prolonged by d opposite party .,plz pray that they are resolved at d earliest. Pose pray also for my nephew suffering from vitiligo that he may be healed(30+yrs) .n because of this he also shows no interest at all in spiritual life May you lead many Catholics to lead a truly Christian life

[@tesfayemarimadlen4506]

Thank You Father 🙏🛐⛪❤💐🌹🌹🍁🙏🙏🙏

[@sheiladumigan451]

Thank you Father!

[@GodsCottage]

Thanks for feedback. Appreciated.

[@day1678]

Kindly consider praying an additional holy Rosary to your current daily one, for the loving intentions of our Blessed Mother - she will be ever so grateful. God bless you all. Love your down-to-earth advice.

[@GodsCottage]

And the intentions of our Blessed Mother include the conversion of one's family

[@day1678]

@@GodsCottage Her generosity is beyond measure - remember, she is our Mum.

[@donnadelfino6070]

🍀🙏🏻✝️Happy New Year Jesus! Blessed Mother and The Infant Jesus. Holy Spirit. Please Bless Me and my Children, And My Family.

[@Monk_Life]

Thank you Father. Your making me a better preacher. Today in the homeless ministry I asked each individual to ask Jesus into their hearts. I had been too heady in the past. God bless you and your ministry! Lord have mercy on us all

[@GodsCottage]

May God bless and anoint your very important ministry

[@charlottescott6609]

Thank you father this is a generation curse in my family siblings against siblings from when my mother was young she had no love for her family I see it now in mine all split apart no love most of them are atheists in there heart I pray for peace through the Lord Jesus Christ ✝

[@GodsCottage]

See video of Mass. You are the Charlotte I prayed for

[@GodsCottage]

I would also like to share your comment in The Curate's Diary (without giving your name). So many are facing the same.

[@snowyskylar8821]

Exactly the same in my family....heartbreaking

[@englishrose6627]

I do.have a Personal.rship with a Priest some time,.he ministers in generational.curse and healing.

[@richardfagan2546]

Thank you so much for your kindness and such a beautiful Mass for us all that I have just watched on your latest video and may you RECIEVE Tenfold the Blessings you've give us all

[@GodsCottage]

Thanks for feedback. Deeply appreciated

[@1woksape606]

People read and agree to: Families , parenting, homes of: 1. Galatians 5:22 - fruit of the spirit is love, joy, peace, kindness, goodness, gentleness, self-control 2. Golden rule & mutual respect 3. Individual and family prayerfulness. 4. Love of God & love of neighbor( our spouse & parents and Children are our neighbors also). 5. Repent and forgive. 6. Give cards, burdens, fears and enemies to the Lord. 7. Do justice, love mercy and wail humbly with our God.. 8. Faith like children.., walk by faith and not by sight.. *the just shall live by faith..*God makes a way where there is no way.. 9. Nonviolence emotionally, verbally & physically.. fight fair and not to win or harm.. work for win/win solutions.. *Godly problem solving *10 commandments 10. Personal, family, parenting towards Godliness and excellence.

[@GodsCottage]

Many thanks for sharing, and the fruit of the Spirit, only come to those who have the Spirit, have Jesus living within them

[@1woksape606]

@@GodsCottage yes, but 95%of the Christians and leaders don't manifest it or even know about it- and I'm not being cynical; when people know about it they can remember to choose it. Most Christians have the same pathology statistics as secular society; divorces, violence, drug and alcohol abuse, broken homes, unhappiness, etc. and it doesn't have to be. God bless us everyone.

[@felicialamisiayamga2715]

Fr Thady good evening. I have received my curate diaries today. Am grateful. God bless you and keep you safe always. Thanks for this powerful message. Kindly remember to keep me in your prayers. What is God's will for my life. His will be done.🙏🙏💛🙏🌹

[@donnadelfino6070]

🙏🏻✝️😊

[@mercyshanthi9555]

Dear Father,please pray for my peace.

[@GodsCottage]

Total surrender to Jesus is often the first step to personal peace. May God bless you and guide you

[@marychapman8307]

Holy mass offerd for healing of family tree is also very powerful fr thady

[@GodsCottage]

For Mass to be effective it must be accompanied by the other steps. Mass costs one very little; leading people to Jesus 'costs' a lot

[@clockwatch5222]

My eldest son refuses to go to Mass or confession. I've tried dragging him to Mass, when churches were open. No good. I brought him to Knock confession once. He went to the door of the confessional and told the priest he wasn't going in. I keep praying for him and keep trying to get him to at least hear Mass online. So far he keeps refusing. He is incredibly helpful to me & his step father, never refuses us and we never refuse him aid. If it wasn't for him not believing in God and not sharing the joy of faith with us, he would be a perfect son. I must be doing something very wrong, not getting through to him.

[@jackd8439]

Patience humility and trust in God. God loves him infinitely more and is infinitely more merciful and patient. Keep praying and when inspired maybe say a positive word or two. I know in my life often trying to do things myself turns out bad!! Pray the 7 Aves to Our Lady of Sorrows devotion. I love that one!

[@clockwatch5222]

@@jackd8439 thank you for your caring advice x

[@ma.elenabobadilla6652]

🙏🙏🙏

[@patriciaowens3479]

I could write a book... only God's grace gets me through or did get me through...

[@frankmurray7493]

Father your so right in what your saying however 90% of parents I speak to have the same problem in getting family to beleive or trust in the lord , My beleive its trendy now not to attend mass or beleive in the lord

[@GodsCottage]

Sadly very true. Blessed are those parents who see and realise that their number one calling in life is to lead their family to Jesus.

[@josephinebcmpatrick9207]

In reality, family disunity I found extremely difficult to resolve. Often, family are not wanting to tell the truth to each - for fear of a family eruption. Also, they often realise, telling the truth could be upsetting. Often, they do not even know the truth because the roots of family troubles are deep rooted the past - a past they themselves are not aware of. All family troubles in my Family & with other relatives of my Family, all had one thing in common. Every Family had a lapsed Catholic in them. A lapsed Catholic, not listening to JESUS, leaves a trail of destruction behind them - often for generations. I uncovered a lot of my family troubles by researching my Family Tree. Contemplate facts found & compare them to present Family situation. Learn about past family - their negative traits are often passed on to their Children, meaning they grow to be like their dysfunctional family - through no fault of their own because that is all they have ever known. One of the most common part of family troubles is - misunderstandings. Not being able to hear the secret thoughts of your family, leading to all troubles. Often the words people say, are not a true account of their thoughts. Often, a safest route could be avoidance. I always knew If I sat with my family all together in one room, to sort out all family troubles - there would be a verbal fight, there would be tears, upsets, disagreements, denials, anger, false accusations, a lot of misunderstandings, perhaps resulting in an even worse broken family. If you are all at least talking to each other, just stay that way, as I had to for my whole life. My one piece of advice to all Families - equal Love. Love each other in your Family, equally. Do not have 'favourites'. Do not form a split Family where you take sides against each other. I lived my whole life in a split Family, in latter Years discovering, my Mother came from a split Family. I thought my lapsed Catholic Father loved his Parents & Sibling. As a surprise, I framed a picture of my Father as a child with his Parents & Sister. On opening his Gift, my Father went quiet & became sad. He never told me why - he just told me he was not wanting to display his framed Family picture. Difficult to know a Parent properly if they have hidden Family secrets & wounds, difficult to resolve Family troubles, if events in life are too painful to talk about. In such circumstances, there are times you just have to live with your Family as they are. Keep loving. Keep talking. Keep going forward & be sensitive to each of your Family members personal sensitivities - often not known to you. Be prepared to be submissive, even if you are in the right. Just be a Family peace-maker as all fall out around you. If all Family members were peace-makers, there would be peace. If you decide to be a Family peace-maker, you will find peace.

[@shailacarvalho2799]

Spark from Poland prophecy diary no 1732 in the diary of Sr.Faustina

[@marthamargaretemaclean593]

Father, I have listened to what you have said about confession during the time we can't confess in person- I am approaching the end of my life- and I have confessed my sins- in person, in the past. I am afraid of not being forgiven if I have inadvertently left out something- and also, although I am saying I am sorry, I can longer commit any of the sins of the past, due to age- and there is no temptation any more. I pray daily, I pray for the people I have hurt, for forgiveness for the things I have done.. Have I been or will I be forgiven?

[@210SAi]

The Church teaches that you are still forgiven for sins you have forgotten. You are only held accountable if you knowingly withheld confessing (a) sin(s).

[@210SAi]

What’s to be done when a spouse filed for divorce and ‘remarries’ another person taking the children with them? They obviously aren’t going to listen to their former spouse and the children aren’t old enough to be dealing with such a situation.

[@arjenvandoorne9321]

The generation problem has it's origin in the history of the collective memory where death cannot be passed true justified by Heaven and so it is a question about how to deal with the good message trough the by God changing times in the personal belief to come to God's promise of eternal life while every life has a meaning. Parents are in the state of sin of giving birth while the child has the innocence of nescience which has to come to belief to God Creator in a world of uncertainty where both have to deal with by promise. How to bridge this gap is part of the story of belief to God for the promise of eternal life in these times with the promise of God's justice by Heaven, a part of the story of the computer and in what belief to God the science came into this world.

[@GodsCottage]

Once one invites Jesus into one's life, one can begin to deal with everything that has come down through the generations

[@arjenvandoorne9321]

@@GodsCottage Jesus is a part of the collective memory which God Creator started remembering Adam.

[@GodsCottage]

@@arjenvandoorne9321 It was not a "collective memory" that transformed my life, miraculously. It was Jesus Christ, truly God. Until you accept His as God, as your Saviour, and invite Him to come live within you, there will be something missing deep within you.

[@arjenvandoorne9321]

@@GodsCottage Jesus did not come to proclaim himself God but to bring to belief to God for God's promise of eternal life in Paradise. The image of Jesus as believer cannot replace the unchangeable Image of God. Aging to death is a sin keeping youth for the promise of eternal life is a blessing and it starts in the memory of looking back to your life since childhood, where gratitude is rewarded without money.

[@GodsCottage]

@@arjenvandoorne9321 "I am the Way, the Truth and the Life. No one can come to the Father except through Me". Jesus. "The Father and I are one" Jesus

[@lynneivison5773]

Father I love your advice but there are some pathologies in families which are irreversible and dangerous to approach some people.

[@englishrose6627]

I feel trapped in my mind re covid19. I sense death in the air, goes back to blitz and war time in England.when I was little. I lost my Dad D day France. We came Australia. So much trauma life long and now covid19.fills me with fear from the.invisible I don't understand.

[@GodsCottage]

Learn to bring all your emotions to God, to cry them out to Him, and then to trust Him

[@1woksape606]

This will change your life forever today. For Catholics on KZbin: 1woksape Catholic spiritual warfare

[@shailacarvalho2799]

Divine Mercy Diary no 378 of Sr.Faustina for your reference. There will come a time when this work which God is demanding so very much, will be as though utterly undone, And then God will act with great power, which will give evidence of its authenticity. IT WILL BE A NEW SPLENDOR FOR THE CHURCH, ALTHOUGH IT HAS BEEN DORMANT IN HER FOR LONG AGO. That God is infetinely merciful, no one can deny . He desires everyone to know this before He comes again as Judge. HE WANTS SOULS TO KNOW HIM FIRST AS KING OF MERCY. When this triumph comes, WE SHALL ALREADY HAVE ENTERED THE NEW LIFE IN WHICH THERE IS NO SUFFERING. God has promised a great Grace especially to you and all those - - - WHO WILL PROCLAIM MY GREAT MERCY. I shall protect them myself at the hour of death as my own glory. And even if the sins of the souls are as dark as night, when the sinner turns to my mercy. He gives me the greatest praise and is the Glory of my passion . when a soul extols my goodness Satan trembles before it and flees to the very bottom of Hell.

[@GodsCottage]

Thanks for sharing this

[@m-hayek1985]

Would you say that there are still quite a few large catholic family’s in Ireland (10+ people) or are they nearly extinct?

[@Kitiwake]

Worldwide that is no longer a phenomenon.

[@m-hayek1985]

@@Kitiwake it still exists in traditional circles and some opus dei type conservative novus ordo circles but it has mostly died out. (sadly)

[@GodsCottage]

The important thing for me is not the size of the family, but whether they come to know Jesus

[@m-hayek1985]

God'sCottage I know but it’s still nice to see. So I’m just curious if it still exists in your area or if it has died out.

[@m-hayek1985]

God'sCottage also many vocations come from larger family’s.

[@gfdthhcvxt4915]

hi Fr Thady how are you today?

[@GodsCottage]

Seeking to live in deep union with Jesus

[@margaretcunningham9176]

Thank u Fr.but why is it th

[@anthonysalatino1540]

There is a lot of substance abuse in the family. There is a great deal of bitter arguing about political differences, and mocking of the Catholic Faith.

[@GodsCottage]

Tomorrow we are having a birthday Mass for Our Blessed Mother at God's Cottage. During it I will explicitly ask her intercession for those who have shared family problems arising from my talk on Sunday

[@piaffe25rider76]

Yes Generational spirits- exorcism

[@GodsCottage]

Only fight with the devil if you really have to. Open one's life to Jesus who is our deliverer more and more, and one can be delivered without any exorcism.

[@piaffe25rider76]

God'sCottage Thank you, Father for this!

[@BrookDesHarnais]

Jesus said that the blind man he healed was not blind specifically because of his own sins or his families' sins. He said that the blind man was blind so that the glory of God could be revealed. The church is Babylon; the MOTHER church is the MOTHER OF HARLOTS.

[@GodsCottage]

Sometimes problems can come down through the generations, usually emotional and moral problems

[@BrookDesHarnais]

@@GodsCottage The catholic church, with every church under her wing, is the habitation of devils, and the hold of every foul spirit, and a cage of every unclean and hateful bird.

[@dorothy7589]

Thank you, Father.

[@GodsCottage]

Thanks for feedback. Appreciated!