Facing Tough Choices and Life's Challenges

Life is more than sharing wins and beautiful moments. In this video, I am talking about a very difficult decision I had to make, how I made it, why it's important to talk about these tough challenges and moving forward.
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[@brendariley8982]

Oh sweety, I'm so sorry. Remember, it's never goodbye but more....I'll see you again someday. He knew you loved him, and he thanks you for letting him go.🤍💜💙💚💛🧡❤

[@OurGabledHome]

Thank you! Your words mean a lot to me 💛 ~ Anja

[@adelegower834]

Btw, there are horse chiropractors out there that hv wonderful results, beyond any diagnoses (sp?)....

[@renitasloan]

I’m sorry about your horse. Our animals are such a gift from God and give us so much joy.

[@OurGabledHome]

They do and thank you so much 💛 ~ Anja

[@kimprindle4819]

I’m so sorry for the loss of your friend and partner prayers are coming on Angels Wings!🐴💕🙏

[@maryderleth7860]

I'm so sorry. They really are part of the family no matter what the animal is.

[@OurGabledHome]

Thank you💛 ~ Anja

[@divinemotherwisdom6611]

Hi, Anja. I just saw this video today (YT says it was posted 3 months ago). I am so sad that you lost your beloved horse friend and partner. I am glad you shared about it and that you are allowing yourself to take time to grieve. I remember when I had a puppy when I was 12 years old who, sadly, followed her mother onto a country road to chase a truck carrying chickens to a nearby processing plant. Sadly, while her mother was fine, my puppy was hit by the truck and died instantly. I still remember how strongly the grief and sadness of losing her hit me, and I am sure there are more feelings when one has to consciously make a decision to let an animal be put to sleep. You were brave to do the right thing to release your beautiful horse from pain and disability. Many blessings to you. Be kind and nurturing to yourself. I love your channel for your regular content, and I am glad that you felt you could share on it about something so personal and difficult, as well.

[@lindav3455]

I am so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful being. RIP 💙💙

[@LuciaLeePollard51]

You were very responsible and did what you felt was best! Prayers with you, and try to remember the great times with him!!!

[@BrendaWoods-kn3jd]

My heart goes out to you. As you said, it is never an easy decision to make. We absolutely must put our emotions aside and do what is best for a pets. Thank you for sharing and a bigger thank you for doing what was best for your horse. 💔

[@BeatePowell]

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Es ist immer schlimm wenn man so eine Entscheidung macht.

[@homemadeonourhomestead]

Oh Anja I’m so sorry. Horses are truly the best animals. Prayers for you my sweet friend.

[@OurGabledHome]

Thank you so much for your sweet comment, Brie 💛 ~ Anja

[@Maria-101]

I’m sorry for your loss, I truly understand how you feel. I recently started watching your KZbin channel and I really like everything you share with us. I am a believer and believe that God made me click on your video today. We lost our dog a week ago, we had to put him to sleep, he was 12 years old and got him when he was a puppy 🐶 , we bought it for our son who was a child then. All the emotions that you are going through, we feel as well, and even though our pet was a small dog, no comparison at all with a horse, which I know are very special animals, he was the joy of our household. I’m glad you talk about grieve because I think we all need that time to heal . I wish you the best , you are an intelligent person and although I am not German, my mother in law is of German descent and in some ways you remind me of her. Take care of yourself, God bless.

[@marcihill7688]

I’m so sorry for your loss. The animals we bring into our lives love us so unconditionally. What a gift they are to us. We lost our very old dog last week. It was not due to his age but rather a rattlesnake bite. We had to make the decision to let him go due to his poor health and the unlikelihood that he would recover. It was such a difficult decision. But we know it was kinder not to let him continue to suffer from the bite and then the treatment and its aftermath. He was a lucky horse and you also for the love you gave each other.

[@lindagordon2955]

I so appreciate you doing this video. We also lost a very precious kitty a few months ago. I can't imagine losing such a special animal. He knew you loved him, and you will see him again.

[@DianeRichRhea]

So sorry for the loss of your guy. I'm a horse owner as well and most of mine are in their late 20's. They have a home with me as long as they are alive.

[@themamma341]

I am so very sorry, Anja. I believe animals are a gift from God and I miss those I’ve had the honor to have terribly. Let yourself grieve as you need to and know you gave him a wonderful home❤

[@barbaradieckmann9020]

My daughter is going through it as her 26 year old horse needed to pass over because the pain was too severe for the horse to continue. She is having the hardest time. Yes, the support is super important.

[@OurGabledHome]

So hard for us, hope she can make the best decision for her horse 💛 ~ Anja

[@OkieJammer2736]

What 😢 heartbreak and you have SO many folks lifting you up.

[@OurGabledHome]

Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

[@justanonymous5681]

If only all animal owners were as kind, devoted and responsible as you. You did everything humanly possible to help your horse which I hope gives you some comfort. And most of all, you gave him your love!! 💗 🙏🏻

[@OurGabledHome]

Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

[@epsitucky0920]

I am so sorry I know your pain as we had to say goodbye to our rescue Great Pyrenees. I laid on her bed with her as we said goodbye. It hurts so much. Many blessings to you as you go through the grieving process. I am still crying every day

[@lisapayne7330]

I know this feeling. We always have had Blue Heelers. My soul dog, Gunther, had compression as well. We went for months with him. He finally lost all function in his hind legs and we HAD to make that decision. Thank you for being real. And I’m so sorry. ♥️

[@OurGabledHome]

Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

[@wendywesley7423]

I feel for you. I had to put down one of my horses because they developed a severe case of EPM I had to make the decision quickly. The horse could not feel his feet. He couldn’t hold his head up, but when he was laying on the ground was sort of OK, but I knew that he couldn’t live his life like that. Other people in my Barn had used medication‘s to quiet the EPM, but it seemed like it only lasted for a few months and then they were putting the horse down. The Vet did not think that was think that was an option for my horse due to the severity of the case. I do not regret putting him down, but I miss him terribly and frequently will still cry even though it’s been over two years I believe horses have a special place in our hearts we ride them. We work as partners and they keep us safe and we trust them,I think you did the right thing and it’s obvious that you really loved your animal.❤

[@elledechenestudio]

I am so sorry for your loss, Anja. Such a beautiful, sweet boy. I lost my boy, Sandro, almost 10 years ago in similar circumstances. One week he was learning canter pirouette, the next he was leaning against the wall, any wall, so that he wouldn’t fall down. When the vet and trainer both are telling you that there is only one compassionate way forward, you do that. He was my boy for 14 years and I miss him always. Listening to you tell your story makes me realize that I haven’t fully faced this loss. And I need another horse in my life. Thank you for sharing.

[@lindahigginbotham8279]

Anya, thank you for sharing this with us. With our beloved pets who become our family, though they are with us way too short of time. it gets harder to let them go because they do bring us so much joy and love us unconditionally. You have explained this so well, if not dealing with the death of our pets but death in general. I think in getting older, it becomes harder to say goodbye. Your Donny was so blessed to have your love. He had a blessed life and now he is running around the beautiful heavenly fields waiting to see you again someday. No one will ever convince me that our beloved pets will not be in heaven. To a lot of people, their pets are their family and if there will be Lions and Lambs, why wouldn’t our loving Heavenly Father allow those that mean so much to us?

[@justacountrygirl8750]

I am so very sorry for your loss. I’ve never had a horse but I have had to make the same type of decision for a couple of dogs over the years. Do allow yourself to grieve.

[@zenaidaoftarsus]

Your love for Donnie will live forever. You have my deepest condolences as you grieve.

[@OurGabledHome]

Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

[@dianejohanson98]

So sorry for your loss. Our pets are part of our family. I know how you feel. I lost my sweet dog 2 years ago. He was 13 and in bad health and I knew I’d have to make a decision sooner rather than later. His last seizure forced the hard decision. I still miss him so much. So I do understand what you are going through. Some days are harder than others. Know you are not alone.

[@FelicitaFlores-Santana]

I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful horse. May God heal your heart. Blessings and prayers for you. ❤

[@lighthseskr]

I am so sorry for your loss. This type of decision is always hard and it sounds like you made such a well thought out decision for your beloved horse. Thank you for sharing this moment of your life.😢❤

[@amdarkcoffee]

this is our world. a mixture of bliss and sorrow. nothing is eternal. touched so much by your courage and perseverance.

[@OurGabledHome]

Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

[@janinedevilliers7746]

My deepest condolences to you, Anya! You did the right thing for him, even though it must be totally heartrending for you.

[@aruna1811]

So sorry for your loss, I have been through this with my dogs and I know how hard it is to make this decision but for me this is part of the love for my furry friends and I stay with them till their last breath❤ Take care❤

[@angeliacarpenter8730]

So sorry for your loss. Our animals are in our heart. Prayers for your family🙏

[@teresawoods5099]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Rest in Peace Donnie. ❤

[@belieftransformation]

My deepest condolences to you with your parting of your beautiful horse; you did all you could to for him & loved him. Blessings to all 🤗🇨🇦

[@bethshelley561]

Sorry for your loss. It’s a hard decision but you took care of your family member.🙏🙏🙏

[@veronicabush9844]

I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful horse. I feel sad for you but overjoyed for the wonderful life you gave to him and the treasured memories he has given to you. Bless you 💔❤

[@saranebeling6375]

So sorry! My heart breaks for you. Take care of yourself right now. He was family and your decision was very hard. Bless you

[@OurGabledHome]

Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

[@crisrodriguez579]

This is a difficult decision. Stay strong. Big hug!

[@d.chesney7807]

I’m sorry for the loss of your beautiful horse. I grew up on a ranch with many horses and cattle and it’s always hard to lose them. Allow yourself time to grieve and cherish the memories you have.❤

[@OurGabledHome]

Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

[@patriciaremonda4789]

Oh so very sorry. Our friends are precious, both human and animal and it's so painful to part with them. Hugs and prayers, Anja.

[@OurGabledHome]

Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

[@sandersida]

So sorry for your loss. These tough decisions really hurt, but, they also come with a sense of peace from doing what is right. You are in my prayers.

[@ellenmurray7747]

When i was a very young girl I brought home a kitty and wanted to keep it. Ok. The kitty had to live outside. It was my responsibility. I had to be the one to feed it, be kind to it, make sure it had shelter etc. And if it was injured, or old, or seriously ill, I had to have it 'put down'. Now at 80 I still remember what my dad said. "Remember, our animals are not volunteers."

[@OurGabledHome]

Well said and thank you so much for sharing 💛 ~ Anja

[@gabridi8874]

I’m very sorry for your loss. I hope you can find comfort knowing you did well by him and also in sweet memories you have of time spent with him.

[@ceciliarowedder4017]

My deep condolences. It's so hard to give up our dear animal friends.

[@OurGabledHome]

Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

[@kathrynmoll86]

Wow, I’m not a horse owner, but as a person who has her own and loves all animals I certainly understand your grief and loss. I have tears already. To lessen Donny’s pain & suffering, you had to make the right and painful choice for him. You did a very unselfish thing for him. It is an acceptance of life’s gifts . Hugs to you! Congratulations on 100!

[@OurGabledHome]

Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

[@bonniebartlow5631]

I have been to your channel over the years, I love you as a good friend. I admire you for showing your grief and show us the whole circle of it. I have had to put down animals before and it’s no fun for us, then we grieve. And we remember them forever. Hopefully we will see our animals again when we go to heaven. I love your apron and pattern for it. Thanks for showing us this side of you. Take time for your grief. Let it unfold naturally. God bless you and your family. We see the goodness, fun, the Care and humility within you that’s why you have 100,00 subscribers 🤗❤️

[@OurGabledHome]

Thank you so much!

[@tagaustagein]

Viel Kraft, liebe Anja, ich weiß, wie sehr es schmerzt, ein geliebtes Tier zu verlieren.

[@OurGabledHome]

Danke Dir, Kerstin 💛!

[@partinsheritagehomestead4981]

I completely I understand how your feeling, im so so sorry hun. You're in my thoughts and prayers

[@Arianna1308]

So very sorry Anya for the loss of your dear horse. Pets are part of the family and I can relate with your feelings. As you say Life is not always easy especially when we have to take difficult decisions. I am sure you did the unthinkable to keep Donnie at your side but came to the right decision as painful as it could be. Keep the happy moments Anya, there is a lot to be thankful for. Big hug for you.

[@grammym1643]

I am so sorry. My heart breaks for you. This was very timely for me personally. Last Monday, I went through a very similar situation with my beloved dog. He had a wonderful life and was constantly at my side. Very suddenly, last Monday, I noticed he started to have extreme pain. I took him immediately to the vet. Tests, x-rays, then finally surgery. Expecting a good report, after 3 hours in surgery, I received the devastating news. I'm thankful I could be there to tell him good bye, wrap him in his favorite blankets and take him home to be buried. Emotionally, it may have been easier to let the vet handle everything, but he was such a loyal, loving companion, I felt I needed to do that final service to him. As hard as it is, I'm allowing myself the room to cry and grieve. My family and friends have all been wonderful and supportive. I'm so thankful God has blessed us with animal companions. I know one day, I will have another dog, but it's important to take the time to grieve. Thank you for your openness to share even the hard times. That is real life.

[@OurGabledHome]

Yes, animals enrich our life and making the best decision for them is the least we can do 💛 ~ Anja

[@sandrahege8720]

Liebe Anja, es tut mir so leid 😢. Den Schmerz, ein geliebtes Tier gehen lassen zu müssen, kenne ich. Hut ab, daß du den Mut und die Stärke hast, auch solch traurige Dinge anzusprechen, und nicht nur die "heile Welt" zu zeigen. Und das trotz deines Schmerzes über deinen plötzlichen Verlust, denn den kann man in deinem Video gut heraushören. Ich wünsche dir viel Kraft bei deiner Trauerbewältigung . Ganz liebe Grüße aus Hessen ❤️

[@curban616]

I am so sorry. Making a decision like this is so incredibly hard. You really have to weigh out what is best for the animals we love..we have had to put down numerous animals and it is incredibly hard to let them go! Hugs to you my dear..🩷🩷🩷

[@Karen-l5q]

My heart goes out to you!!😢😢 Allow yourself to grieve and feel it fully and over time things will lessen and become less harsh. We suffered the loss of our beloved cat about 2 years ago who died from cancer of the spleen and it came on very suddenly so we made the decision and it was all for the better of her not for us.

[@angiewhittoo]

I’m so sorry you lost your beautiful boy!! It’s so hard saying goodbye…thinking of you in this hard time😢💜

[@deborahyellowhorse467]

I'm sorry for the loss of your horse. Our animals are such an important part of our lives.

[@OurGabledHome]

Thank you so much ~ Anja

[@barbaralongmire1220]

I am so sorry, you did a brave thing for your sweet horse. I have had to face putting pets to sleep, I know it is a difficult decision to make. I am sending you a hug, and you take care.💗

[@OurGabledHome]

Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

[@mkhoory2145]

My deepest condolences and sympathies on your loss .. May Allah grant you peace and show you way of relief

[@tovahcarver6049]

I am so sorry for your loss, Anja. I, too, had to tell my sweet Troubadour good-bye 3 years ago. It is very hard and the decisions are made in great agony. I pray the Lord's comfort and healing for your heart in the coming days. Thank you for being real and sharing such a vulnerable and difficult piece of your life. May God bless you! 🙏💕

[@OurGabledHome]

Thank you so much for your heartfelt comment 💛 ~ Anja

[@susanhilley8977]

So very sorry for such a big loss. Take the time you need to grieve. My prayers are with you.

[@KarenLeu-c7m]

So sorry for your loss. I’ve had animals in my life always & therefore have lost many too. They are a part of our family & hard to let go of them when the time comes.

[@oxfordcreekfarm]

I'm so sorry. We have horses too and can't imagine what you're going through. We will pray for you and your family. ❤

[@jeannalichtenberg4944]

I'm so sorry for your loss. 😢

[@rachelseibert7882]

I agree with you on this, it is so very hard, but you did the right thing, God bless and comfort you.

[@Jenekks]

My deepest condolences for the loss of such a magnificent creature. It must have been so difficult and heart wrenching for you 💔

[@yolandalynner2978]

Thank you for being honest. So sorry for your loss! Letting go of the animlas we love is one of the hardest things we have to do. I appreciate your channel and all you share and teach us here. God bless you as you grieve this loss. 💔💔💔

[@OurGabledHome]

Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

[@tinaluu9810]

Very sorry for your loss. Keeping you in my prayers for strength and peace during this transition of life. God speed

[@phyllisbell8698]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I know the deep loss of a beloved fur baby. My pom/chi, (Diamond) was an 8 week old puppy, when we chose each other, and was by my side for nearly 13 years, when i lost her in 2016 to a failed cancer surgery. My heart still aches.

[@OurGabledHome]

Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

[@debbielaney5097]

So sorry for your loss, animals add so much joy to our lives.

[@turtlemark2]

I had to put my heart horse done last year . She had laminitis and had kept it good for several years. But last year was hard and her coffin bone rotated again punched threw the hoof and I choose to end the suffering. It was hard because like yours she was perfectly healthy in every other way. I miss her every day. She was my heart horse and also my last horse at 57 I am no longer able to start over. Thank you for choosing your horses life over your comfort... they were lucky to have you... We will always love them and they take a piece of our heart with them.

[@OurGabledHome]

Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

[@LittleCountryCabin]

Anya I have walked in your shoes. The pain is not always understood by others. Part of being a loving, responsible owner is knowing “when” and acting quickly for your horses’s best interest. Relieving the suffering is such a loving decision. Putting your horses needs above your own will to hang on a little longer. I had vowed when that time came I wanted to make that decision because I knew “not one second too soon but not one second late”. My precious horse was 29 and had been with me for 28 years. He took his last breath with his head in my lap. I cried everyday for weeks. I still cry when I think of him😔

[@maryjonorum107]

My sincere condolences to you. You are put together very well, in all aspects of your life. My late husband and I had three dogs in our life together, along with our 3 children. Our pets are family. Our pets bring us much joy. You realize all of these things. Horses whisper to humans.❤️ I encourage you to take the time you need, but also accept that it is ok to begin again, yet another love story with a magnificent creature that will love you back. I believe you will, as you say. I look forward to ALL of your videos. 💕

[@lilliestefano1762]

I’m so sorry. I had to make that decision with my handsome 9 1/2 year old German Shepherd on 1/17/24. He was losing his legs and come to find out he had cancer. I’m still grieving. Give yourself time to grieve. I try to just remember or the good times. 💕

[@paultotoritis475]

I feel your pain and I am sorry for your loss. We recently lost our pomeranian Houdini and occasionally we still hear his bark. He died of natural causes, but it makes no difference, although we didn't have the pain you had in making the choice. That is truly painful, stay strong and remember the times you had together.

[@debrademedici864]

I’m very sorry for your loss .. it is not easy to go through…❤

[@noragranados6728]

I am sorry for your loss, I know how difficult it's to lose a pet. They're part of our life. It's so difficult ❤

[@DallasLaxton]

I'm so sorry for your loss. He was lucky to be so loved by you.

[@1grayhouse]

I'm sorry for your loss. They are such an important part of our family. ❤

[@Barbara-pz8ky]

So sorry for the loss of your beautiful horse, Anja…it’s good of you to share difficult moments too…take time to grieve and come back when you’re ready.

[@OurGabledHome]

Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

[@n.watson8497]

So sorry to hear about your loss. I'm praying you will know God's comforting hand.

[@cherylmeri5143]

Awww, I'm so sorry you had to make that choice. I know you loved him very much. Go through your stages of grief in your own time, that's how grief works. My neighbor has many horses and I see her taking them to the vet several times a week (I'm thinking lots of babies coming soon), but she recently had to put on down too..

[@jocelyneimmell9304]

I'm sorry for your loss. I know how your feeling. We had to make that decision with one of your dogs last Oct. Allowing yourself time to grieve is key you are right.

[@OurGabledHome]

The hardest but the right decision. Thank you for your nice comment 💛 ~ Anja

[@timothyschaible6025]

Ma'am I am very sorry for your loss, know that you are a responsible owner. Yet, hard decisions are never easy, but the time and love you shared are the relationship stronghold, Blessings to you and yours.

[@shervin6711]

I am so sorry for your loss.

[@OurGabledHome]

Thank you💛 ~ Anja

[@debbyowens4941]

I am so very sorry for your loss. It’s so hard when we , as pet owners, have to make those decisions . I have been through this MANY times. I have had dogs and cats my whole life and am in my 60’s. We fostered. And many were elderly… in poor health to begin with. My children sadly had to learn this is part of being a pet owner. And when they are blessed to go on their own in their sleep… it is heartbreaking, but also can be a blessing. It’s much harder when you have to decide… 💔💔😢 Again, I’m so very sorry.

[@julieparker5029]

Oh, Anya, I'm so sorry to hear about your beautiful sweet horse . They are part of the family, and he looked wonderful. Each day gets better, and it's important to allow our feelings to come through. Keep those precious memories in your heart. Big hugs to you! ❤️🙏🤗

[@pibble3962]

As horse trainers and caretakers we understand your decision. The tendency with our animals is to put personal affection before deciding that which is ultimately a kindness to your four legged friend. Thank you for your candor.

[@OurGabledHome]

Thank you and I agree!

[@rebalspirit]

May God bless you and be your comfort in your grief. My husband says that horses are like large dogs and we've lost a number of our dogs over the years. It's hard. Our last elderly husky past on the day after I entered hospital for my emergency spine surgery in 2022. My husband coped alone. That was hard to not be there for him and for our dog. If I wasn't four hours away from our home I would have checked out of the hospital and walked home to comfort my husband. I send you love and hugs. May your memories of your horse always make you smile, even amidst your tears.

[@OurGabledHome]

Thank you for sharing your story! It's hard not to be able to be there for them but I am sure up until then you always had been 💛🤗 ~ Anja

[@robinwillis7203]

I’m so sorry you had to go through this. A few years ago we had to put our favorite horse down because he had cancer. Such a hard decision to make. Sending love

[@OurGabledHome]

Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

[@nancyneupert1985]

I'm crying just hearing the story. I don't know if I could do what you did. My dog is my companion. We treat our animals as family members. It's OK to grieve in your own way. Take your time it isn't anything that comes fast. I am also a lover of horses-always have been. Give yourself all the time you need. I'm a softer, it's ok to love an animal so much they become your best friend. I'm very sorry for your loss. Give yourself all the time you need to heal your pain and enjoy those fond memories of riding and becoming one. Thank you for sharing your life with us.

[@beckygreen3733]

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, Anja! We are animal lovers too & it IS DIFFICULT to loose them! They're like our children! Praying for you!

[@OurGabledHome]

Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

[@yvonne127]

I can't even begin to think what you're feeling. I'm so sorry that you're having to go through that and I wish you healing and love and comfort.

[@MoonFlower52798]

Oh honey.... I'm so sorry for your loss. Take all the time you need, and we'll for sure be here when you feel like returning. Grief takes time, and we certainly understand that. The love you have for your horse was unmatched, and that clearly shows what a beautiful life he lived with you. Blessings and peace to you, dear friend. 🙏 ✨️ ❤

[@OurGabledHome]

Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

[@padmarubiales5184]

Animals are our best friends and our family. It’s the hardest thing ever to decide it’s time to let one go. So sad! I am glad you did what was best for your dear horse. ❤❤❤❤

[@OurGabledHome]

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[@florence_92]

I am so sorry... It is so hard to let our dear animal friends go. But I am absolutely sure you made the right decision and did what is best for him 💗

[@OurGabledHome]

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[@OurIntrovertedHomestead]

I'm so sorry for your loss, and I pray that your pain is eased with each passing day 🙏...know that he's no longer in pain 💙

[@OurGabledHome]

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[@arlenecoury9976]

Growing up, we always had horses but the grief I want to share is when we had to put our black lab, Juliet down. She was only 10 yrs. of age, but had Cancer. The vet always gives the option to either stay or leave your pet with the vet to be put down. We choose to STAY right by her side, telling her what a dog she was and how much we loved her. Choosing to let go of a pet, who truly is a member of your family, is one of the HARDEST things a person can do , I believe. Love, true love is in good times and bad, in sickness and in health. Thank you for sharing your story.

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[@tondamccarthy6537]

Yes as a lifelong horsewoman I agree. We have a moral obligation to let them have a beautiful life without unnecessary suffering. I lost my beloved national champion at 23 1/2 years old. I had to set him free from colic that struck out of nowhere. I got him at three months old and he died in my arms. He was the love of my life. I share your pain. We too did everything we could and I understand your pain at the futility of it all. The best you can do is be your face being the last sight they see as they cross the rainbow bridge. Hugs you are not alone.❤

[@Tammy-cj5qu]

I wish I could give you a big hug full of comfort. It's so hard to lose a pet. They are family. I had to put my 32 year old Paso Fino down on my birthday in 2020. My two other boys were mourning his loss and each dealing with it in a different way. My 30 year old Quarter horse stopped eating. To get nourishment in his body, I had to hand feed him and fill him full of oils and supplements to help his appetite and to put weight on. He was losing weight so quickly and muscle of course. My vet and I tried best we could but he just didn't want to live. He was such a silly and funny horse and because of that his nickname was Monkey. But after the loss of his buddy, he became mean and angry toward our other Quarter horse. It was such a sad time. On my birthday 2021, exactly a year after I loss my Paso. As soon as I got up I looked out the window to check on my boys as I always do and Monkey was down. My vet, my husband and I tried for over an hour to get him up. He didn't want to get up. My vet told me what he thought was best for him and I agreed. So he passed on the same day, a year later as his buddy. It was a tough year because in September of 2020, I had to put my 16 year old Dachshund down and in November 2020, I had to put my 14 year old Dachshund down. Only nine weeks apart. I had lost four of my babies in exactly a year. It's still hard to deal with as I cry and type this. I'm thankful for each of them. They brought so much joy to my life. I miss them so and I am reminded of them each day. Thankful for the memories. My heart will be with you. I'm very sorry for your pain. ❤

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[@cfs9828]

Dear Anya, Thank you for this heartfelt video. Having lost animals, I have had a few instances of having to make the hard decisions. I truly believe that when animals pass, it is like one door closes for them and another beautiful one opens. Sending prayers!

[@OurGabledHome]

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[@carmenmarcinkiewicz7149]

Oh, I'm so sorry for the loss of your beloved horse Donny. I've got tears in my eyes for you. Your words of wisdom about the loss of our beloved animals are on point. I've had to make "final decisions" for several pets throughout my life. It's NEVER an easy decision. God Bless you and your journey.

[@OurGabledHome]

Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja