fall day in my life: weekday routine, answering your Qs (*TEA), apartment organizing (chatty)

[@claremagee2592]

Regardless of what happens, yours is a model relationship: you kept it classy and respectful after it ended, which puts you in a strong position to start fresh together (if it makes sense for both of you to try again). You’re an inspiration either way!

[@PaytonSartainHH]

I'm so glad you noticed. This is so pure. Thank you

[@brookeheller7101]

ikea has giant frames

[@WanderlustMyWay]

THANK YOU for the transparency. I hate when people drop breadcrumbs and then never address something (and I know you don’t “owe” us anything)

[@PaytonSartainHH]

Ya know I had to eventually ❤

[@gingerbaldwin1238]

oh my god this feels like christmas

[@basicuser122]

this definitely instilled in me that you're one of my favorites. you are SOOOO raw, authentic, genuine, inspiring. it feels like the big sis I never had. whatever happens with you two (or doesn't happen), it is meant for you

[@PaytonSartainHH]

this comment is so thoughtful 🥹 thank you for watching 💘💘💘💘

[@devin1003]

Omg hope everything works out 👀 loved y’all together

[@PaytonSartainHH]

thank you 😘 whatever is meant to be will be. xx

[@alannahtaylor5957]

Love having more frequent vlogs again!! And yew, hope all goes well with you and Joe. Loved you two as a team.

[@PaytonSartainHH]

I loooooooove when couples describe themselves as a lil team. & vlogs are back :)

[@jmelll93]

Ok now I don’t feel bad about always hoping Joe would come back😂😂 he always seemed to let you be yourself and still shine and I know how important that is for us independent girlies

[@PaytonSartainHH]

you are SO right! & he also knows how to help/take care of me without making me feel like I’m not independent anymore. idk how he does it tbh - the boys need to learn

[@anitatrinh1488]

Love you payton! Appreciate how open you are! ❤

[@PaytonSartainHH]

ILY

[@BABYLONWOLF]

okay out of topic but this chaotic yet lady payton? i love her! literally just her running everywhere and just saying whatever she wants? omggg i love it more here! 🥹🥹❤️

[@PaytonSartainHH]

she’s beauty and she’s grace !!

[@PaytonPlace]

Loved the vulnerability and want you happy! Loved y'all together and hope things workout however best suits you and your needs! 🖤I'm currently getting back in the groove of just enjoying my life and doing what makes me happy; a lot of that inspiration came from you actually. From one Payton to another, appreciate you 🤌🏼

[@PaytonSartainHH]

simplifying- I LOVE IT. thank you P ❤

[@tenzintseringg]

everything happens for a reason

[@kyrajansky]

I literally feel like we are having a salad bowl together in this! You're so easy to listen to

[@PaytonSartainHH]

ahhh love to hear this. & yes, we are in independent girly rehabilitation.

[@PaytonSartainHH]

Let me know if y'all want specific links! K, ily. Take care of yourself this week. ❤

[@AlanahCole]

I would love to hear that list of 'needs that have to be met before getting into a relationship' that you mentioned!

[@PaytonSartainHH]

For sure! It’s obviously different for everyone - thinking of doing a pod episode about getting back together with an ex in a healthy way IF I can figure out how to do that lol

[@iMirandaD]

not me getting giddy at the possibility of Joe coming back 👀 truly hope and pray yall do what is best for yourselves and your futures but i cant lie im jumping for joy! Love these types of videos, you're so easy to hang out with!

[@PaytonSartainHH]

thank you for hanging out with me 💕

[@fairlybusyreading]

Payton, I just wanted to tell you that your videos make my days so much better. I love watching your videos/ listening to your podcast during work. ❤

[@janhavi_satpute]

Such a great epi Payton! Back to your youtube after a year almost and Just realised that you are capricorn !!! The reason i relate so much to you !! Great and feels like a relief being back.... Feeling like meeting a bestie and catching up after a really long time🥺🥺🥺❤

[@ownyourbold]

I love love love how honest you are

[@isabellawilkey2390]

Omg PLEASE do a podcast episode on the non-negotiable rules for dating (ikr they’re different for everyone). I’m an early twenties girlie trying to figure dating out and I’ll take any advice I can get

[@PaytonSartainHH]

okay I'll add to the list

[@danaschloemer9303]

I just love your vlogs so much!!❤️‍🔥

[@Lunabearlove]

Love your vlogs, P! Happy you're getting more consistent here.

[@amandaw2200]

Same thing happened to me with my ex. We broke up for some time and tried to get back out there again, but nothing ever felt right and we kept gravitating back to each other. We got back together and our communication is so much better now, we live together and are thinking about getting engaged soon. Sometimes it takes some time a part to strengthen the relationship and to have much needed self reflection before you can give your best self to the relationship. Whatever happens, I cant wait to see your journey!

[@taylorjohnson9576]

LOVING all this content lately!❤

[@gabriellabenevento4567]

Fav video! A video podcast is the vibe

[@yo_yo_meg]

This was so good and def the kick in the rear I needed to get my apt organized lol - thanks for posting!

[@nz2510]

Omg loved you guys together! Hope it works well for you two 🥹💕

[@emmerrlly]

Such a good at home/daily vlog payton!!! Just wanted to say how much i loved this one and how much i love yu and thank yu for always being so honest and transparent to us when yu dnt have to be! Cannot wait for the next vlog🫶🏽 &i think ur baby2baby meet up volunteer day would be such a good idea and id deff try and go!

[@PaytonSartainHH]

THANK YOU for watching always ❤❤❤

[@emmerrlly]

@@PaytonSartainHH yur literally my fav internet squish gal!! Hehe

[@sofia_serrano]

We need to get you a Tea sponsorship

[@Princess-ef2ux]

Loved this episode

[@harls13]

I think we need a cooking series from you

[@rosytropics]

payton, you are my role model regardless---sending love from dc

[@claudiamodesto98]

the screams in the kitchen lol happy to watch another of your vlogs today!

[@PaytonSartainHH]

I am *not* a chef

[@jennanehme2157]

I hope it works out!! You guys were made for each-other. My ex and I got back together and had a solid relationship before ending it, we both wish we did therapy instead. Literally all is right in the world again, you seem so happy 🥹❤️

[@jaco4341]

I love that you’re posting more on YT! The pod is also doing amazing, as always. I personally love Margarita’s content. I love the topic. If you could interview an emotionally intelligent, masculine man (maybe dating coach or therapist?) that would be GOLD. I do realize that’s very specific though… lol. Take care ❤

[@PaytonSartainHH]

Wait I love this idea!! I’ll brainstorm. TYSM.

[@RebeccaABeaudoin]

Love this energy. Thanks for sharing

[@vanillasweetcream]

omg i was just watching baseball & i saw you posted, and i thought about Joe pitching lol….. then I come watch & you spill this🫢🪄✨

[@PaytonSartainHH]

the alignment !

[@leanneeggenberger9127]

Thanks for chatting and sharing with us ☺ Also - please add Chicago to your list of cities to host a live show, (Midwest girl here). Ok, that's all 💜☀

[@PaytonSartainHH]

I will take any excuse to visit Chicago

[@tarakelliesmith]

I got chin filler a few weeks ago, regret it so much I’m getting it out tomorrow, I wish I would’ve waited a year to really think about it before getting it 🙃

[@natashamckinney8175]

Wait, stop. I thought my dad was the only one who *conveniently never tells me the whole story when my sibling and I ask him about his time in the military/alien knowledge!! Maybe once in a blue moon will he let something slip, so I know how much of a win that was for you I'm sure:) Those conversations are the best!!

[@emmabauer8504]

If it’s mean to be it will be that’s all

[@whitneybourgeois1762]

Really liked this vlog ❤

[@AllysaLarson]

Couldn't relate more to the Capricorn things in relationships haha

[@katieeasterly9150]

yesss swanky live show!! come to ny!

[@jaco4341]

I live in Toronto and I will come to NYC for you!!!!

[@PaytonSartainHH]

Wooohooo

[@mdsnph]

literally going through the same with my ex rn so I feel this 100% and also loooving margarita's podcast as a fellow first born type-a girl lol

[@elizabeththompson1525]

Did you have a closet organizer?!! Amazing!!!

[@PaytonSartainHH]

I didn’t! I’m honestly impressed with myself tbh 😏

[@elizabethseeley4539]

Payton I love you but you need to turn the flame down when you cook those pancakes. The heat is too high so the outside is burning and the inside isn't getting a change to cook and rise and be fluffy.

[@PaytonSartainHH]

No bc I needed this tip! Also I think my stove’s “medium” is really high

[@unapologeticallyromel7096]

Binge watching ❤

[@thaliavila412]

Omgg girl! Where is your windbraker from the first part of the vid?

[@PaytonSartainHH]

It’s old fabletics!

[@lanfriesen]

TEA MAMA

[@sarahkatherine6075]

I got chin filler and loveeed it!

[@meadow_maker]

Love how every single hot girl (myself included 😎) owns that ALO bag.

[@bpal5644]

I need to know about your reincarnated family member who is the fly in your apartment lol

[@PaytonSartainHH]

More to come on this

[@ashleym8867]

Don't change your beautiful natural faceeeeeeeeee

[@PaytonSartainHH]

this face gets subject to botox twice a year so we aren't exactly natural anymore !!! but ilysm

[@ashleym8867]

alright alright but your chin IS cute 😀😀@@PaytonSartainHH

[@katieprather8404]

who else is here after #shoegate 👀

[@whitbygappa5762]

💪 Promo-SM

[@audreys4007]

wait what i thought it was normal for lips to stick out beyond the chin ah

[@PaytonSartainHH]

Idk is it??? Am I making up a problem that doesn’t exist?? Wouldn’t be the first time

[@jessicaolliges3301]

Would actually love to see Joe back in the vlogs🥹 also unsolicited advice but years ago before my husband and I were married we did couples therapy for a while and it was the best thing we’ve ever done for our relationship. Not bc of any major problem but just to learn how to communicate better. We started going again recently and it’s just such a nice refresh to bring you back together when you’re going through rough patches or big life changes, which we all inevitability have. I recommend to all my besties bc why wouldn’t you want the healthiest most loving possible relationship? I’ve always loved therapy but just wanted to put it out there, maybe it could help you guys too esp when you have such a strong foundation to build from and a lot of love for each other❤ thank you for being so vulnerable with us- you are the realest

[@PaytonSartainHH]

I love this!!! I’ve been in and out of therapy for myself in for the last 10 years. We will def be doing it if we ever plan to get married, it’s a non negotiable for me for sure.

[@lulu_boyeee689]

i knew it 😎 but if it works out, or doesn’t, i know it’ll give you what you’ve been needing 🤍✨