Sometimes the thought of it is better than the actual thing.
@scuttle-t1u3 жыл бұрын
It just sounds better in your head the real life so...
@ler8553 жыл бұрын
same
@fordcruiseider13223 жыл бұрын
LEVI!??? NANI?? i thought u already have erwin
@jmo_ont93073 жыл бұрын
What's the worst? falling inlove with your best friend. You have to freakin choose between your friendship and relationship
@adrianaa3332 жыл бұрын
I had to do it and we were very happy these days but now we are nothing.
@jmo_ont93072 жыл бұрын
@@adrianaa333 we are like strangers and i hate that everything just disappeared
@meganlseibert34942 жыл бұрын
@@jmo_ont9307 exactly how i feel rn
@galvi9012 жыл бұрын
purtroppo è successo e ora non ci parliamo più ..
@jmo_ont93072 жыл бұрын
@@love4jd i totally agree, i hope that every single one of us will end up with a person that will love us in every situation.
@azumi1823 жыл бұрын
nobody: youtube on recommended: me: "sees the title" h-how did you know
@kyleigh10953 жыл бұрын
FRRR
@isaa.l26833 жыл бұрын
Same
@someoneontheinternet74903 жыл бұрын
exactly like how does youtube know does it stalk my discord dms or something
@adrianamarvin80693 жыл бұрын
The same thing happened to me and this popped up on my recommended while i was thinking about her. Except my best friend is my ex we dated twice both only for a day. Then she said we just have to be friends since her parents didn’t except her. we both love each other still. I’m going to try and ask her out one more time and hopefully it lasts
@someoneontheinternet74903 жыл бұрын
@@adrianamarvin8069 i hope it goes well!!! good luck
@J_Adams3 жыл бұрын
I'm in love with my best friend. It hurts to know I'll never get to be with him; he's straight and I'm gay.
@user-xy7qw8nn1o3 жыл бұрын
You got this bro
@samplatt43883 жыл бұрын
Exact same here 😔
@litium28963 жыл бұрын
Oh I've been there my bro, the one thing i have to say to you is allow yourself to feel any emotion you're experiencing now and please express it, show it in any way i swear it's gonna get better, unfortunately I promised myself stop looking at him the way I did because it was too hurtful watching and having to help him with the girl he loved I remember I even had to write the declaration he send to her to confess haha I cried so many nights and even tought he knows I'm here for whatever he needs I really needed to heal i dont know if this helps you but i hope you're doing fine i send to you my light you got this
@s1llyb1lly273 жыл бұрын
I feel that
@iwanna.banana38623 жыл бұрын
omg that hurts soooo bad😐
@elyse56393 жыл бұрын
I'm not in love, but I want to be. I wanna get butterflies, I wanna dance at midnight with them, I wanna get in trouble with them and laugh till my stomach hurts. I've been in love before, but they changed. We weren't even close. I just want to be in love, even if they don't like me back. I wanna cry at 2AM because they aren't here. I'm so in love with love. Update: Im still not in love ❤ however im happy with myself and i feel content. Nowadays im just waiting for fate. If it happens it happens, if not it doesn't but I'm hoping fate will be me falling in love eventually.
@lily-ej1cf3 жыл бұрын
thats beautiful
@Analee_o3 жыл бұрын
Very off topic but the pfp is just **chefs kiss**
@elyse56393 жыл бұрын
@@Analee_o Thank you, lmaoo
@anamerkviladze62093 жыл бұрын
I feel the same listening to "people watching" by conan gray
@desistamenova72433 жыл бұрын
Wow. You describe it so beautiful.
@adorablue.3 жыл бұрын
he joke flirts with me but damn i caught feeling because of it
@AmiliaLynnDeiley3 жыл бұрын
Same 🙄✋ and I know he doesn't love me but........
@sophie-vb1te3 жыл бұрын
ou really? i flirted with him as a joke but im the one who caught feelings..
@user-ny9zm9oi9d3 жыл бұрын
When guys joke flirt, it might mean they like you. At first I didn't believe it bc my boy bestfriend did it all the time but I guess we weren't really joking. We are together and it's the best relationship that I've ever had. So all I'm saying is ask him bc you never know
@hibanesrine80393 жыл бұрын
Same ... And I can't tell him cuz I'm afraid of losing him ..
@torlis23 жыл бұрын
fr, same w me. he got a girlfriend tho ;/
@yukimarusan63673 жыл бұрын
im slowly falling in love with my best friend day by day :\
@izukumidorya17253 жыл бұрын
same but they have a gf so i have 0 luck getting them
@jeniferfernandez24643 жыл бұрын
same but I think she’s not into girls
@queer.Hannah3 жыл бұрын
Same bestie and now he is mine:) (Btw he is a Demi boy in a girl body)
@kyleigh10953 жыл бұрын
same i love her so much. she says she loved me back but i don’t feel a romantic connection, we’re both bi and joke about growing up and marrying eachother but i actually really want too. we’ve knows eachother for years and she is the sweetest girl ever.
@raleaim49833 жыл бұрын
@@jeniferfernandez2464 omg sameeeee 😭😭
@erefy76513 жыл бұрын
i heard the beginning of "the night we met" and started bawling
@lovelymarie46253 жыл бұрын
Same 😔
@jaykk12223 жыл бұрын
me too...he knows. We talked but we stay friends. He likes a different girl but we can't help it. It just hurts like hell
@tyronelove31623 жыл бұрын
SAME BESTIEE
@erefy76513 жыл бұрын
dude i told her i liked her and she likes me too bUT SHE HAS A BF THAT SHE WOULDN’T BREAK UP WITH FUCK 😭
@bellap52103 жыл бұрын
ME TOOOOOO I CANT W THIS SONG
@iliana.chaidi3 жыл бұрын
these songs...these comments...how can I hold my tears?
@chelseaceballos67102 жыл бұрын
The comments is what let them fall
@iliana.chaidi2 жыл бұрын
@@chelseaceballos6710 true
@ashcatchu43902 жыл бұрын
Hope ur feeling better 8 months later
@iliana.chaidi2 жыл бұрын
@@ashcatchu4390 thank you so much for asking , im a little bit better i can say :)
@noordaghay6032 Жыл бұрын
fr
@Amoeba693 жыл бұрын
Sucks when you know your best friend doesn't feel the same way
@sillykittyrissa3 жыл бұрын
it really does- and u do gacha ? :D
@Amoeba693 жыл бұрын
@@sillykittyrissa I used to, but I don't anymore, my pfp is my old oc but I still do make oc sometimes :P
@sillykittyrissa3 жыл бұрын
@@Amoeba69 ah nice!
@ari82633 жыл бұрын
Sometimes all it takes is time
@Amoeba693 жыл бұрын
@@ari8263 it's been 2 months and she treats me like a second opinion now 😃
@haleighmitchell40643 жыл бұрын
My whole friendship was built on me being in love with her. It's the fact I can't move on because it's all I know. She's always gonna be that girl I could never have.
@nadakhenniba67723 жыл бұрын
she made me realize what love feels like even if she wasn’t feeling the same…
@stevoochi3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been that guy for 5 years, and all I can tell you is to make her happy, even if it’s not with you. It’ll be better knowing that you helped her be happy than just moping around about how you weren’t the Romeo of the story. Even if it hurts, you have to support her, as a friend and her biggest fan! I hope she realizes that you’re always by her side, I believe in you m8!
@franciszorammuanahlawnchhi46872 жыл бұрын
Sad ,but bro ,why not dart up at least once,JS 😊
@thatrunnerfr2 жыл бұрын
well shit that hit home
@ImmortalJeremy2 жыл бұрын
Don’t lose hope. It’s ten years later and While it’s messy, we both love each other now
@sss-ep2hq3 жыл бұрын
My and my bestfriend frequently joke about being together and they call me wifey alot as a nickname. I have accidently caught feelings and it hurst to know they most likely dont feel the same way...
@AmiliaLynnDeiley3 жыл бұрын
Ooh mcyt fan
@oana.2223 жыл бұрын
same..
@bobbybilly30563 жыл бұрын
Me and my bestfriend also joked about us being together and we would tell eachother "ily" and all that couple stuff, and when I finally told them how i felt, they rejected me
@nadakhenniba67723 жыл бұрын
same..
@morgankovac36322 жыл бұрын
Hah me and my bestfriend had that joke and then they ghosted me twice for being gay (yeah twice in stupid) I win
@hozay203 жыл бұрын
when you fall in love with your bestfriend-I thought I was straight … She currently is talking to a boy, and I’m trying to be so supportive but I’m slowly dying and crying to these playlist at night … I wish her the best and I’ll be cheering for her in the back 🥲
@liv-45703 жыл бұрын
Just confess it. Get it over with even if it will hurt and even if she says no I hope y’all will be together in the end. It will be alright, bestie. Believe in yourself.
@CH3RRY-STARZ872 жыл бұрын
Aww, well I wish you luck, hopefully she chooses you in the end. I'll hope for the best for you. :)
@themoth44672 жыл бұрын
You a real one
@AlikahRafiu2 жыл бұрын
same except my bsf is dating a guy so yk were in the same boat wish you the best
@fortsancoto23902 жыл бұрын
Me too
@Abby-wi4jl3 жыл бұрын
my best friend was an absolute jerk when I met him but now he is the perfect best friend and over they years i started falling for him but now he has a girlfriend I'm friends with her and she thanked me for fixing him and he always ask for advice with her and I'm just slowing dying
@zinaigonzalez64433 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry... I know how you feel 🥺
@samplatt43883 жыл бұрын
Felt that 😔
@Yaspah3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for you. I hope you get the person you want one day!
@raleaim49833 жыл бұрын
I. Felt. That. Too.
@justwantobiors15333 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh- i am so sorry :((
@bon.soleil3 жыл бұрын
listening to this playlist makes me remember the time i confessed to my best friend. i tried not to fall but it was hard, i couldn't help it. at the time he was talking about his crush, and i was kinda hurt. when i can't hold it in anymore, i decided to tell him how i truly felt for him. and of course i didn't expect anything as i already knew he liked someone else. i told him i just had to let my feelings out, but i'm not expecting him to like me back. but hey- i was the crush he was talking about. he said he was too afraid to tell me about it. he was afraid of rejection and was worried about risking our friendship. one year later, which is now, we're in a relationship happily. but not with each other. he's still my best friend. yeah, we didn't end up together. we were too afraid to risk our friendship and both agreed to just stay as friends. and now he's happy with someone else, and so am i.
@evecrain87092 жыл бұрын
pretty interesting story and its kinda ironic at that but at least you and him both are happy now but i gotta ask how did you just kidda stop liking him bc as you said you are with someone else
@bon.soleil2 жыл бұрын
@@evecrain8709 when he told me he liked someone else that's when i knew i had to move on too. i just slowly accepted the fact that we weren't meant to be. i told myself i gotta move on, my feelings won't take me anywhere anyway. i've grown a little distant from him, but it really won't be easy to start moving on if we were still very close right?
@evecrain87092 жыл бұрын
@@bon.soleil yeah you're right its not easy to move on but im really happy you did, i had an issue kind of like yours and i was just wondering how you handled yours so thank you so much for resonding i dont get it very often, and if you dont mind me asking how did you and your current bf get together
@bon.soleil2 жыл бұрын
@@evecrain8709 well my bf and i we've met after i graduated high school, so we've known each other for years now. we were like a thing before but it stopped for some reason. and just last year, a while after i started moving on, we started getting closer again. we talked more, spent more time together, and just naturally developed feelings for each other. but it's actually like rekindling the sparks? and yeah, he asked me out and i said yes
@evecrain87092 жыл бұрын
@@bon.soleil wow thats amazing how that worked out haha well im happy for you it seems like youve got it together and i think you seem like a very well put person
@shee71903 жыл бұрын
You know, the worst thing is when you don't even have a best friend to love.
@bibbles82193 жыл бұрын
Man I feel u
@stefaniamercadolopez48413 жыл бұрын
even worst if u fell in love and then u regret liking them bc they just see u as a friend
@Analee_o3 жыл бұрын
@ellewasfound_ I FEEL THAT
@itbelikethat54373 жыл бұрын
Felt
@itbelikethat54373 жыл бұрын
@@stefaniamercadolopez4841 felt
@michii-3 жыл бұрын
I'd like to imagine I could find someone that I could fall in love with.
@bisydes26503 жыл бұрын
Same
@raven_darling3 жыл бұрын
My problem isn't finding someone I could fall in love with but someone who would love me back as well. I've fallen in love twice, both of them my best friends. One who left and the other one who appeared after and fixed all the damage the first guy left.
@alungoo_uwu3 жыл бұрын
@@raven_darling that sounds so sweet🥺 wish u the best😷❤
@Valentina-kz2rv3 жыл бұрын
Same, but my overthinking makes me second think stuff so
@Valentina-kz2rv3 жыл бұрын
@@raven_darling No cause same
@frvitylxxps13863 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I'm in love with my best friend. I catch myself staring at her from across the room. When we touch, I get butterflies. When she tells me she loves me and she'll always be there, I know she means it in a friend way, but it takes my breath away. I over-analyse what I do around her. We've never had an argument, not once, and considering that our parents were friends long before we were born and I grew up with her, that's an achievement. I kept the old hoodie she gave me that she grew out of. When we were younger, we used to just mutually agree that we'd live together, and multiple times we've talked about where we'll live and what we'll do and how we'll decorate the house. I dread the thought of seeing her fall in love with someone else, even if it's selfish. We have nicknames for each other and share interests. I've been trying to gather the courage to break up with my gf, knowing full well I've lost feelings for her. But I still care about her and I don't want to hurt her. I'm stuck in the situation where I'm dating someone I care for but too far fallen for someone else. It's not that bad, though. I doubt I'll ever move on, and I can't see the end of this. But at least I know she'll always be by my side. She's already made plans with me for a future, and I'm glad that she wants to stay friends with me for as long as we can currently see onward. It might hurt, having to move on eventually, but god, I'm so, so, so grateful that she will always be there for me. Hey, J, if you're reading this, I know that I'm doing this anonymously, but I've always loved you and I always will at this rate. Thank you for being there for me. Okay that probably makes no sense but I just wanted to get that off my chest y'know? Edit 1: We're both girls btw :) and neither of us are straight (Both under the bi umbrella)
@shuelmusix20642 жыл бұрын
You just made me cry...try telling your gf this she would understand it would hurt her,but yk before she gets to know herself maybe tell her yourself. It’s not that easy but doesn’t mean we can’t do it .
@iziex92312 жыл бұрын
damn maybe you have a chancew with her...my bsf is straight:(
@nazarslan69032 жыл бұрын
i cried
@brunopeixe79492 жыл бұрын
At least she ain't straight , we have to celebrate the small victories
@daphnetheia2 жыл бұрын
Ummm- Same we have J crushes…
@annika76363 жыл бұрын
i wanna fall in love with someone so badly but it feels like im trying to force something that isnt there instead of letting the universe run its course
@OA26052 жыл бұрын
yea i feel the same :/
@michaelmchale59872 жыл бұрын
the most accurate thing I've read
@toiletsponge2 жыл бұрын
I always find myself frantically trying to get into a relationship because I feel empty but then when I get into one I end up feeling more empty and losing feelings faster than a Japanese bullet train.
@uploxy53413 жыл бұрын
this is so underrated i cant-
@bear6293 жыл бұрын
aw :)
@pinksun44653 жыл бұрын
When I was a kid I found a guy best friend, we went everywhere together, do everything together and other stuff. When I was in middle school, I fell in love with him and didn't want to tell him, because I didn't wanna ruin our friendship. At the same time my girl best friend fall in love with him and they started dating. I said to her "when he have a girlfriend, he don't need a girl friend" and she said that nothing is going to change, but he forgot about me and our many year old friendship disappeared..
@queerelf95933 жыл бұрын
samee-
@angel-19003 жыл бұрын
sis i can relate a bit , he fell for me , i think i did a bit too cause when he is with his ''girl best friend'' i feel lil jealous and we are friends since 10 months and i feel that he likes her more but i wont tell him that will be weird
@emersonwilliams62743 жыл бұрын
no no no don't make me cry!!! i'm scared the same thing will happen with meeee
@trinidadabikatrinaarianac.84472 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry, you have to go through this:(
@meowambreilly3 жыл бұрын
Love is difficult and everyone deserves it. You’ve had it rough lately, and I know it seems like you’ll never find *your* person ever. But everyone has a soulmate, whether they’re platonic or not. You’re so deserving of love. You’ve fought so hard. You’re a good person in a bad place. Be kind to yourself. Love will come.
@alexiafulga60943 жыл бұрын
Thank you, this was such a beautiful message. I think I really needed to hear something like this because now I'm in tears :) hope you have a good day and a great life 🧡 be kind to yourself and take care 🌻
@meowambreilly3 жыл бұрын
@@alexiafulga6094 I’m so glad this helped- stay strong darling 💛🌼
@themoth44672 жыл бұрын
Can't say I agree about me trying hard and all that but thank you none the less
@iivalsxmmer47422 жыл бұрын
I seriously needed to hear that.
@domo67593 жыл бұрын
I remember confessing to her and didnt like me back, but were still good close friends tho
@bear6293 жыл бұрын
aw it’s ok :) you’ll find the one when it’s right
@domo67593 жыл бұрын
@@bear629 thank u
@xkatzz3 жыл бұрын
@@domo6759 aww, I'm so happy for you! :)
@domo67593 жыл бұрын
@@xkatzz thank u :D
@sahithinanda84343 жыл бұрын
i'm in the same situation :)
@im_n0t_ace3 жыл бұрын
yeahhhhh Im falling... hard. I don't want to tell her because she's my only friend, the only person other than my therapist that I talk to
@cancionesdeyu6 ай бұрын
AWWWW 😭😭😭
@dnphnex3 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna save this for when I'm gonna ask my best friend out, wish me luck :)
@pheobe11133 жыл бұрын
good luck!! i hope it goes well!!
@kyleigh10953 жыл бұрын
good luck! rooting for u :)
@xkatzz3 жыл бұрын
good luck! hope it all goes nicely! :]
@dwivishabhura32533 жыл бұрын
How did it go?
@quigglez3 жыл бұрын
let us know as soon as u do :))
@msfairy-tf9sb3 жыл бұрын
sometimes i miss the first month of friendship with my bestfriend, when i still don't love him. everything was good and simple :(
@mujhekyapata2 жыл бұрын
i miss that too
@alexanderhamilton15033 жыл бұрын
i fell for my best friend and i am more scared to lose her as a friend than anything...
@alexanderhamilton15033 жыл бұрын
@Service BurnsandSons lol I made this account in grade 3 and never changed the name
@skirgailebalezentyte23672 жыл бұрын
I started dating my best friend and I was really worried about that too, and 3 months later we broke up and... The friendship is not the same.
@LucasLasuley2 жыл бұрын
@@skirgailebalezentyte2367 same but me and my dude are still homies sorry about ur problem tho
@caleecalhoun63803 жыл бұрын
I have basically fallen in love with my best friend, but I know she’s straight and honestly I would rather be with her forever, watch her fall in love, get married, have kids, grow old. I don’t care as long as I get to be by her side and watch her grow internally. I just don’t want her to leave me. I am ok with not having her romantically
@SilverMoon13136 ай бұрын
Same
@grace88263 жыл бұрын
sometimes i hate myself for kissing you. i know that you hate me too. why did we do it? why did you, knowing that i’m in love with you, let me do it? when i told you i loved you, you said, “no you don’t,” and i accepted it. but i do. i love you, and you do not love me back. and i fucked everything up. i’m sorry.
@vxnlli3 жыл бұрын
I hope you are ok now 🥺
@trinidadabikatrinaarianac.84472 жыл бұрын
everything's gonna be alright in time, you got this!
@OA26052 жыл бұрын
Hey there! How you doing now? I'm sorry to hear about all the chaos you had to go though. "Out heart doesn't know what it wants until it finds what it wanted all along"
@grace88262 жыл бұрын
@@OA2605 hello! oh my god i forgot i commented this. i’m doing well now. i dropped the person i kissed because i decided it’s too hard to just be friends with someone you’re in love with. i was in a lot of pain back then but now i barely even think about it. thank you for asking!
@OA26052 жыл бұрын
@@grace8826 that's great that you are in a better place now! Better things are coming! Never lose hope!
@crazy_blue44133 жыл бұрын
Me: adds to playlist of playlists. Now gonna try to get some sleep. Also very underrated, I love it.
@bear6293 жыл бұрын
ty :)
@Highlighter3623 жыл бұрын
Same here
@kat.biscuits3 жыл бұрын
I have this really long playlist of playlists it’s my favorite this to fall asleep to at 4am
@oliviasmall14052 жыл бұрын
Yo same - I'm only a quarter of the way through my playlist of playlists (many of them are about hopeless love) :,)
@crazy_blue44132 жыл бұрын
@@oliviasmall1405 I lost track of what I put in there, but there’s 911 videos
@silkvibe27303 жыл бұрын
me not having anything to relate to to this playlist. listens anyways and imagines myself falling for a future best friend and getting sad.
@liv-45703 жыл бұрын
Oh my god, same lol.
@themoth44672 жыл бұрын
facts
@zion9486 Жыл бұрын
We twins 😭😭😭😭😭
@bear6293 жыл бұрын
0:00 - the night we met by lord huron 3:17 - bubblegum by clairo 6:07 - line without a hook by ricky montgomery 10:14 - roslyn by bon iver 15:22 - girls by girl in red
@babyneji10403 жыл бұрын
👽👍
@misa63133 жыл бұрын
thank you
@katie13443 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊☺️🖤
@havefun35393 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@sxtloml54773 жыл бұрын
tbis playlist is everything 😍
@sarahann743 жыл бұрын
You really had to start with the night we met I’m crying now thanks
@monoscum15783 жыл бұрын
Bestie pls idek what the difference is between romantic and platonic feelings are so i genuinly dont know if i am in love with her or not
@ridashaikh91133 жыл бұрын
yolo tbh
@cuphrt3 жыл бұрын
Same here. As someone said a question - "would you kiss her?" I would. I would kiss her. And i want to, but her being taken, and me messing shit up by saying that i like someone (her) as a cover, i think i messed shit up. I need to say i moved on from that 'person' and hope i'll eventually be with her. (Which won't happen. She's bi and likes both girls and boys. I'm agender..)
@manonvm50493 жыл бұрын
The fact that you doubt that shows you care bud
@moonlightboyz64103 жыл бұрын
same question here
@OA26052 жыл бұрын
yea same :/
@lia5073 жыл бұрын
I pressed on this as a joke cause until I saw “The night we met” started playing..because.. me and my bsf claimed that song as *Our* song 💀
@haneuul2 жыл бұрын
reading this made me happy, because me and my bsf claimed 'despair' by leo as our song. glad to know we weren't the only ones :)
@jordancastaneda50563 жыл бұрын
i fell in love with my best friend then we broke up and im still hurt by the thought of them.
@xingqiu1283 жыл бұрын
are u okay now?u guys still keep in touch? =((
@jordancastaneda50563 жыл бұрын
@@xingqiu128 i’m okay now thank you
@xingqiu1283 жыл бұрын
@@jordancastaneda5056 that's horrible but at least u are fine now..dont sad about it!!
@queer.Hannah3 жыл бұрын
Im scared that this is going to happen with me
@jordancastaneda50563 жыл бұрын
@@queer.Hannah maybe it will work for some! it’s worth a try and if it doesn’t work out it’s okay because you’ll find the right person soon
@cristianruiz80822 жыл бұрын
Fuck it. I need your help y’all For the past few months, I’ve become extremely close friends with someone that I can literally not stop thinking about. I know this probably sounds cliche or cringe or whatever the hell, but she’s perfect. She is mature and polite, extremely respectful and being around her is just so refreshing and healing. Shes the literal first person I have ever gotten to know up close and personally, she’s the first friend I’ve had that I could actually visit, the first friend that i have had that I feel I could relate to, the first person I ever feel myself around. But recently, something’s begun to change. Im such an idiot for falling in love, and God knows how or why, but I just found her to be that perfect since day one. The way we talk, its starting to shift. I haven’t told her my true feelings, nor do I think ill ever. I know she sees me as just that, a friend, but I see her as quite literally the world. This feeling is so painful, I cant coexist with it. My fear is that one day we’ll just stop talking all together. I try to be lively but at times, I have my breaking points. I dont know how or where to go from here. Its at the point where I think its dying but I want to tell her so badly. Im sorry for the random stranger who stumbles upon this comment. Im just venting here. But if you chose to read through, God bless you. I wish you the absolute best luck in life. Godspeed TLDR: I fell in love with my best friend and lately I wanted to tell her but I feel like she just sees me as someone else. Im an idiot
@user-gl3jm4mn2i2 жыл бұрын
im so sorry. thats literally how im feeling. :((
@zion9486 Жыл бұрын
If u really think u can move on or ignore the fact u love her and could still be good friends don't tell her .But if u really love her so bad and think a future with her tell her maybe she also loves u girls are good at pretending u never know man .if someone else still ur girl u might regret it later 💜💜💜I cheer for u 💜
@avs239511 ай бұрын
You're thanking me for reading this? I'm thanking you. You sound just like my bestfriend, the boy I've falling in love with, even down to the story it's all the same. This made feel better and gave me hope. Goodluck with her ,it sounds like you truly love her. You only have one life so make it a life worth living and tell her how you feel. Have a good life stranger.
@Mexx00611 ай бұрын
Update?
@Reddzero09 ай бұрын
update?
@Susan-ne2vy3 жыл бұрын
It’s sucks to be in love with them when you know deep down inside that they’ll never like you back
@kaidenn62313 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I cant even tell if its platonic or if i genuinely love her. I feel like I just want the feeling of being loved by someone I care about so much. Shes gotten me through so much but I know that I’ll never get to be with her since she already told me shes questioning as a lesbian. I really hope thats not true. I feel like I love her, but I haven’t had romantic (and or sexual) feelings for a person in such a long time that I can’t even tell if its platonic or not. I love the way she smiles, I love her laugh, her gorgeous brown eyes, every single flaw she has because to me they’re all perfect and beautiful. She’s made me the happiest i’ve been and any person has ever made me. I can’t bear the thought of her leaving me for someone else, someone else making her happy besides me. Sure this may sound selfish, but thats just how I feel. When I was breaking apart, she was the ONLY one there for me. I had no one else besides her. Im so attached to her, I can’t.
@maria_lind97452 жыл бұрын
Feel this :(( Breaks my heart to think about him with someone else.
@nouizen2 жыл бұрын
im literally crying with my heart in pieces on the floor :(( lots of love, wish you the best. ! < 3
@karmaqueen33273 жыл бұрын
i liked my best friend and he KNEW sadly he had fallen in love with someone else but we stayed as friends he thinks that I'm over him but reality i'm really hurt I try to act bubbly and positive like I always do and support him on his relationship. i'm jealous but happy he found someone who can make him happy : ) GREAT PLAYLIST THIS NEEDS MORE VIEWSS
@itxz.not.melissa33882 жыл бұрын
oh god yesss bro makes me cry
@confused_rat10173 жыл бұрын
ive already told them. they liked me.. then i fucked it up. we're still close friends, but damn. why do they hafta be so cute.
@quigglez3 жыл бұрын
wtf this sounds like my relationship with someone but i was the one they liked and they messed it up
@ry3nn3163 жыл бұрын
the fact that I’m slowly falling in love w my bsf of 8 years kinda hurt bc she still doesn’t know if she straight or pansexual but she thinks she straight just hurts and even if we did both like each other we still wouldn’t date bc I wouldn’t want to mess things up.
@wei95283 жыл бұрын
Everyone... Don't fall I love, be in love Cuz everything that falls, break:(
@fintansullivan64172 жыл бұрын
or it flies
@idkmanvi Жыл бұрын
@@fintansullivan6417 that's a beautiful thought :(
@valorianaguipo3493 жыл бұрын
I'm literally crying from listening to this playlist while reading the comment section
@livikeiser57263 жыл бұрын
I confessed to him a few months ago and so far, we're happy together. Ironically it started as a friends with benefits situation. We're still keeping it a secret from family because he is my cousins best friend Update: We broke up for mental health reasons
@AmiliaLynnDeiley3 жыл бұрын
Oop.... wait friends with what now 😳
@livikeiser57263 жыл бұрын
@@AmiliaLynnDeiley um yeahhhh😅😂
@SaberThornn2 жыл бұрын
I’ve accepted it and know that I’m falling for him, the thing is.. we live on different sides of the country. It’s been 2 years since we have seen eachother and somehow we have made it work. We call eachother literally almost everyday and amuse eachother. I don’t think it’s a crush either. We have been best friends for about 5 years and I notice his flaws and that’s what I love him for. His sarcastic tones and how he playfully teases me in call. How if he misplaced or accidentally breaks any of my items in a game he shyly gives me a box of goodies (Minecraft shelker full of replacement things and more) and how he acts all tough but is really shy in social interactions and try’s his best. How if I ask him a favor he grunts and sighs like he isn’t going to do it but goes and does it secretly anyways. How he laughs, how he is serious in sad or bad times, how he actually cares in his own little way. He used to wake me up some mornings by my ringtone for calling me, I would always complain a little but behind the screen I was smiling. I don’t know how to tell him though. I don’t think he likes me back but I’m attempting at giving some mixed signals very discreetly >:] Wish me luck! (Ps I don’t want to tell him until I move back to where he is, I’m thinking next year. I rather be physically there than virtually)
@yoisheeshee83762 жыл бұрын
i wish you the best and goodluck (^◕.◕^)
@lavafox48362 жыл бұрын
I kinda wanna know how this turns out I'm hoping for the best for you :)
@kaivanblessing56963 жыл бұрын
I fell for my bsf, and she fell for me. The night I was going to ask her to be my girlfriend, we got into a fight, and we've barely talked since.. I miss her so much.
@DestinyRodriguezz Жыл бұрын
We’ve only really been friends for this school year, but I can’t help but have feelings for him. He makes me smile when I’m down, he makes me laugh when I don’t want to. He comforts me when I need him, he’s just perfect…to me that is. But I don’t know if he feels the same and I’m too scared to lose him.
@adelaideboaduwaa17387 ай бұрын
Me and you both
@Sage-gh7ir3 жыл бұрын
we decided to stay friends. we were so young anyway. we were friends who joke flirted, our eyes always met each other in a group. Friends who looked at each other a little too long. Friends who slept too close to each other. Friends who meant the world to each other. The pain of not being yours was great, but a good price for a best friend. so, the story ends here. we will always be, more than friends, less than lovers.
@Timothyjnordstrom2 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna cry that's so adorably sad
@quigglez3 жыл бұрын
6:06 scared the crap outta me lmaoo it was so quiet at the beginning so i had the volume all the way up then it went to a really loud song bahaha
@mrocks05152 жыл бұрын
Same!😂 My dad's napping, so he told me to keep it down... I thought I chose the quietest playlist... And suddenly this song almost gave me an heartattack
@nazarslan69032 жыл бұрын
same, i jumped😁😁
@Itz.JustxKa1lan12 ай бұрын
SAME LOL
@angel-ku7im3 жыл бұрын
"There is one pain I often feel, which you will never know. It's caused by the absence of you." - *Ashleigh brilliant* "Out of all people, my heart chose the one that would hurt the most to love." - *me* "My heart knows it can't have you. Which is why it wants you." - *me*
@yoisheeshee83762 жыл бұрын
okay these hurt a lot (┬┬﹏┬┬)
@Leo_9192 жыл бұрын
The second quote made a heart skip a beat
@alexisburdon66712 жыл бұрын
Damn you my eyes were so strong up till now
@melaann42543 жыл бұрын
It sucks when you can't figure out if you're just inlove with the thought of love or inlove with the person that your mind made out of him or really inlove with him. Damn. Idk what to do. I can't tell him bcause i know he still likes one of my friends. I like him, he likes her, she likes him back.
@reaganinterlude3 жыл бұрын
I’m hearing listening to this, after we JUST confessed to each other.
@SPriya-qs6sr3 жыл бұрын
OMG IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU 🤗💜
@samanthagomez36983 жыл бұрын
I also confessed to my best friend and let's just say... I have a boyfriend now 🥰
@SpikeyBagel2 жыл бұрын
i've never fallen in love. i feel as though i never will. i've seen it portrayed in so many ways, as beautiful and warm and wonderful, but also as painful and filled with unfulfillable longing. i don't know whether i should be glad i never had to deal with it or mourn the fact i never got to feel the butterflies. i have notes on my phone about what falling in love is like, just in case i ever feel it. i think it's something you know when you feel, isn't it? the butterflies, the warmth, all that?
@evachandrakapure13553 жыл бұрын
fun fact. dont do this. ever. just dont let them find out. the amount of times i talked about them and the way i just talked so highly of them to people who knew. it literally was nothing but love.then it got to them out of spite and god knows what story they heard. they hate me for whatever reason when all i ever did was whole heartedly love them. until they took everything thats ever happened out of context. dont. do. it.
@mimikyuuuu3 жыл бұрын
background info before i start being dramatic: Her and I have known each other for about 9-10 years now. We are also platonically (not romantically) engaged. She is bi-curious, I am gay too and demisexual. Although we are engaged and such, I've always seen her differently than my other friends. I don't know why. It's just something about her I can't really explain. Being around her and just simply spending time with her makes me so incredibly happy. So happy to the point where I think I'm in love with her. No, I'm sure I'm in love with her. I love everything about her. Her chocolate brown eyes, her beautiful blue hair, her sweet mellow voice, her little laugh, she amazing smile, the way she talks to me, just everything about her is perfect. Thing is, she has no idea that I'm in love with her. I've told her many times I love her, and she's said she loves me too, but it's always in a platonic way. I've tried to at least give her some subtle hints, such as giving her favorite flowers (white roses), making her favorite tea (chrysanthemum), sending her favorite memes, trying to make her smile every time I see her, but she never even picked up a sign. I bought us sun and moon rings for our platonic marriage, and she loves them! But now I'm just scared to tell her that I'm in love with her because I've had this same situation with an ex-friend and let's just say, that ex-friend ended up using me for my money and for clout. (ouch). Anyways, now I'm stuck in this situation on whether I should just tell her that I'm in love with her, or I just keep my mouth shut and not tell her. I'm scared that if I tell her, she will either 1. Hate me for it and leave me. or 2. Be cool with it but now everything is awkward. I don't want to lose another friend. I don't want to lose the only person I trust the most. I don't want to lose her. She means so much to me and I don't know what I will do if she leaves me. I know I sound selfish, but I don't want to lose her. I can't lose her. She means the world to me and I would give up my life for her. I'm so scared.. edit: forgot to add that she's ace too edit 2: he came out as trans, we dated, he chose our friend who sexually harassed us over me, i got a new gf, we broke up, they became best of friends, and now i wish i never met him. i fucking hate you allister.
@user-dp5en5yx2u3 жыл бұрын
Man im falling inlove with my bestfriend again... the first time she rejected me and we kinda drifted away but we started to hang out again and now i know why i fell for her before WHAT DO I DO IM SO AHHHH
@xoterynxo71543 жыл бұрын
I'd say do what's best for you and your bestfriend, but honestly listen to your heart, it can b SO TOUGH NOW, but the feelings you have should ccome out otherwise you'll explode, I don't really know honestly, you can tell her or keep it in im not an EXPERT ON THIS, but maybe tell her and take things slow, hoped this helped (:
@KillingLonliness3 жыл бұрын
We're finally dating :) i'm so happy, this is the best i've felt ever
@Timothyjnordstrom2 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy for you :)
@appletonfamily35203 жыл бұрын
I once fell in love with my best friend. I ended up falling hard. I stayed in love for years. I was friendzoned on a daily basis, and it really hurt. One day, I told a friend that I like him. Guess what she did? She. Told. Him. That is mostly the reason I don't talk to her anymore. But I remember being panicked. His responce was just ... silence. A couple months ago, I gave up. I now see him as a brother, and I am currently pursuing a new crush who is rumored to like me back. :) Oh, and me and the guy are still pretty good friends lol
@umme41492 жыл бұрын
The fact that most people like there close friend is just so relatable for me but obviously no one has the courage to confess because they think it’ll ruin the relationship. Honey, don’t worry, take risks, if it wasn’t meant to be, it wasn’t meant to be. Remember everything happens for a reason, be the bigger person instead of bottling those feelings up. Tip if you wanna know if the person you like likes you back (do it even if you don’t want to): if you’re close to them, go up to them and ask if you guys can talk. Then when you guys are ready to talk begin with however you like BUT do NOT confess yet. Instead, look dead into their beautiful eyes and ask them if they like anyone after their answer ask them if they like YOU. No matter what the answer is just remember you won’t regret liking that person since you didn’t bottle it up by yourself!! And also remember everything happens for a reason..!! Also I’m going to get this on someone to see if anything happens ;)
@lmher3 жыл бұрын
too scared to make a move. scared I’ll get rejected by him and scared ill make the same mistake of turning a friendship something more
@meilamarie22743 жыл бұрын
I know we are all talking about falling in love with your best friend romantically but how I see it is in a completely different way... mom my is my #1 bestfriend I just feel like she dosent love me as much as I love her...
@risvxn88253 жыл бұрын
He used to tease me a lot and then I fell in love with him. He never returned those feelings. Now people are suspecting he likes me, but I've moved on bc the pain of seeing him with other people hurt me.
@videogameluhver35673 жыл бұрын
i decided to confess after feeling like ending the friendship since i felt like he wasn’t putting enough into it and i’m not sure if that made him feel more confident but after he said he likes me to he talked to me more and i couldn’t be happier
@kota33163 жыл бұрын
This hits different when your falling in love with your best friend in your dr
@gemsanimate73993 жыл бұрын
I have a best friend and she is so funny and we dated for a little while in the past but I know she likes someone else but I still think I am falling in love with her but it’s weird to say falling in love cause I’m in 7th grade but I’m sure you understand
@queer.Hannah3 жыл бұрын
Bestie, same age. When was the last time you guys were on a date? And are you 100% sure she is into that other person? Then make her fall in love you again. Ik this advice sounds bad but trust me. If you really want her you will get that. Like i do not have much confidence but it worked! So if I got that you will get her too! Don’t give up so quickly. Good Luck
@elyse56393 жыл бұрын
@@queer.Hannah I'm not in love but I want to talk about love- my discord is LiaNotFound#9305 if you care for somebody wanting to spill everything about the love she doesnt have lol
@Oeosja_snsbskab3 жыл бұрын
Hey, in case your issue is feeling like your too young to date: Anyone of any age should be able to explore! (By explore I mean dating) Your feelings for them are completely normal and valid! Falling in love is normal, don’t let anyone tell you any different! No matter your age! If it makes you feel any better I started dating in kindergarten-
@anixya2222 жыл бұрын
i love her so much, like every time i look into her eyes i feel so lucky to be her friend. We know each other since 7 years now and ive always loved her. even if im at my lowest she builds me up and i cant explain how happy she makes me. i wished she would see it and stop falling for that stupid guy. it sucks that she thinks i love her ‘as a friend’. i wished she would feel the same
@arianebeaulieu35753 жыл бұрын
I'm dating my best friend for 9 months now. We were fine at first but then i started to get suicidal and dark, sad. I feel like he doesn't understand anything. He never helps me and went i'm sad and i don't tell him why (In my opinion is totally normal to not want to say why) he just let's me go. So i'm there standing with no one. My childhood has been hard. I have an alchoolic mom so she was never there for me. Ive never told my problems and feelings to someone before. Boyfriends are suppose to be your best friend, someone to who you can say anything to because you know they will understand you.. but ive never felt like this ones in my life. My last boyfriend never loved me apparently. I don't have trust anymore. I'm so confused.This playlist is so underated.
@liagalvin99313 жыл бұрын
if you guys have been dating for that long you should be able to tell him how ur feeling and ik it's scary especially if you have never told your feelings to anyone but I feel like you should tell him how you have been feeling and if he rly is who he says he is he should understand maybe he is going something hard to and you guys sharing your feelings and having open communication should help you grow as a couple. you deserve someone who is obsessed and in love with you not someone who doesn't understand anything so don't settle for anything less than what you deserve.
@liagalvin99313 жыл бұрын
I'm so proud of you for making it this far. it does get better tho I've suffered with depression for 6 years + and it has been so hard but I know and I am proof that it gets better. I hope this helps and I love you
@arianebeaulieu35753 жыл бұрын
@@liagalvin9931 thank u so much
@yaretzii_1773 жыл бұрын
I literally miss him sm.
@rubyslyrose77823 жыл бұрын
I fell in love with my best friend and it turned out he fell in love with me as well and now in a week and a half it will be our 1 month 🥰
@jazzygomez15143 жыл бұрын
Oh, I am definitely in love with her, and knowing that she feels the same way hurts, because since she just doesn't want a relationship with anyone at this moment, I've been waiting for her to tell me "I want to try love again, with you" and after a year I am still waiting
@s4mrtsa7792 жыл бұрын
i have to listen to her talk about all the guys she finds attractive while i sit and think how pretty she looks.
@steeredmeat3 жыл бұрын
I'd never thought it would have ended up the way things are, but I'm honestly happy that they did. I love you, Hailey💙🌅🌻.
@juliekeyser96963 жыл бұрын
i’m falling in love with my new guy best friend. he doesn’t know.. and i don’t plan on telling him.
@iz63953 жыл бұрын
i hate not talking everyday you know
@itssih2 жыл бұрын
My best friend is a boy and honestly i feel like becoming his friend was the best decision in my life. People say it's not okay for a girl to be friends with a boy.. But if he makes me happy..? If he is my reason to love myself..? If he helped me trough the hard times..? If he is my motivation for everything..? If he is my other half since i was 4..? He have been helping me for over 11 years.. I can't just end our friendship.. I'm not in love with him but i love him.. We did so much things together..
@mariahtigyer39903 жыл бұрын
Hey whoever is reading this. I just wanted to let you know that you are very loved and beautiful. You deserve the world and I wish I could give it to you. I don’t know whats going on in your life but I promise it will get better. You’re strong and I know you can do this. I love you♥️
@coralinejone3 жыл бұрын
@imagine_isdumb2 ай бұрын
bro ur sweet af where the hell did u come from❤
@jay.lizzy_3 жыл бұрын
i’m in love with her, and it won’t go away.. :(
@legobatman133 жыл бұрын
im so in love with the idea of love. but i just, can't fall in love? it's just so. annoying. i want to feel love. unrequited, mutual, it doesn't matter. all i want is to be in love with someone
@legobatman133 жыл бұрын
update: i fell in love w a girl lol i know shes bi, so i have a chance but ill prob never tell her :)
@ellieb.83 жыл бұрын
i love reading these comments. i did end up dating my boy best friend but we broke up because of a number of reasons i’m not gonna get into, but i don’t miss him at all and i’m doing good actually! it’s almost been a year so that’s gonna suck but i’ll be okay lol. my new best friend and i talk about our crushes together so i love that i have a new good bond with someone like that again :)
@dshinepark2 жыл бұрын
I've liked my best friend since hs first started (though I didn't know it then), though when junior year came around, I didn't see him for a year. Seeing him again brought back so many feelings. My last year in hs, he confessed and I couldn't be happier
@Axel.axolotl3 жыл бұрын
I'm in love with him ... But... The distance keep him say I'm just they Best friends, forever. It hurt lol
@conyn.8213 жыл бұрын
He isn't even my friend, I just guess that's the only way it could be called. There's nothing between us but a "something", a "maybe" and an "almost". So, yeah, it hurts
@cayleesalvatore14802 жыл бұрын
ive never felt ready for a relationship, but then i met a girl who made me smile for the first time in a long time. i wish i could tell her how i felt but i don want to ruin our friendship. she makes me feel happy, but then yet again, makes me feel like an outsider. i always like the fake ones.
@beetlebug69763 жыл бұрын
WHY IS IT SO UNDERRATED OMG
@kurtisconnersmullet3 жыл бұрын
haha i dated then twice and we broke up bc they weren't ready and im still deeply in love with her
@OpossumNotPossum2 жыл бұрын
I’m in love with my best friend. Their everything, Their laugh, Their heart, Their stupid antics, I’m love with their love. I’ve never had someone like them, Who could cheer me up with just a “hello”. Just one message from them means the world. I love them. They love me. We’re soulmates. I’ve never wanted to date them. Never has it crossed my mind. But the thought of loosing them is incomprehensible. Some one who gets me, someone who loves me the way I love them no matter how much I’ve changed over the years. I have discovered and forged my own identity not worried about what they with think because I know they’ll always be there. We’ve both changed so much from when we first met, from 6th grade Harry Potter club to high school we’re still there for each other. Even though we don’t go to the same school we never cut that bond. I love them with my whole heart.
@charkinnie233 жыл бұрын
Would never imagine falling in love with someone who lives so far away. I know they aren't interested, they see me as their best friend, someone they want to live the rest of their life with but as just friends, nothing more, nothing less. It's an emotional roller coaster everytime they fall in love with someone new, while I wait for myself to move on or for them to fall in love. I have another crush, but it doesn't compare, these feelings are stronger than any other "crushes" that I had. Love you, H.
@snigdhabiswas40243 жыл бұрын
I knew I freaking knew I was in love the moment I chose staring at them under the moon rather than staring at the moon I wish we last somehow.
@vashwods3 жыл бұрын
i meet them 6-7 years ago online and last year i confessed to them. we're together since then, but unfortunely we can't see each other because they live in other country. i'm so in love, they saved my life too many times, they stayed by my side even if i pushed them away, they are my light in this 7 years.
@itsreegan3 жыл бұрын
I'm in love with my ex boyfriend. He's still my best friend and we talk all the time and he always trys to one-up me. I can't ever shake the excitment i get when he gives me attention and I generally love everything about him.
@nobodyimportant.12123 жыл бұрын
As long as their happy with their special person I'm happy. :)
@_alex_65883 жыл бұрын
I fell in love with my best friend, we dated. Today he left me... I can't tell myself he's gone. I loved him for over a year and now I have to forget him and move on, It's really hard to tell yourself that it's over. It's the first time that I'm so destroyed.. I just hope it doesn't spoil our friendship .. He's a wonderful person .. I don't want lose him.
@kiana42163 жыл бұрын
My best friend comes across my mind at night I never can stop thinking about him. I have had a huge crush on him ever since elementary school. I never knew I would fall for him this hard
@matthews87873 жыл бұрын
I fell in love with my friend (a boy) but I never had the courage to tell him, now he is in a relationship with someone else. I'm kinda jealous lol
@rae0674 ай бұрын
I’ve been rejected every time I’ve tried to love. I fell for one of my best friends who has been there for me throughout all my ups and downs the past few years. He likes one of my other best friends. He only deeply enjoys my company because of how close we are as friends…spent a lot of time recently crying.
@Craigmeowmeow3 жыл бұрын
I can’t tell her, she told me to my face that she’d never date me, it’d ruin everything, she’s my closest friend. And I’m already in a platonic relationship with someone else.
@thatratking92933 жыл бұрын
I fallen in love with my bestfriend and now he's my bf,I love him so much and I never wanna lose him Edit:I lost him
@trix87132 жыл бұрын
honestly, I wanna confess to him but it might get in the way of our friendship, and... if he does say yes, I'm not mentally ready for a relationship yet
@mrstein41703 жыл бұрын
Legit, one day I had this friend, her name was Natalie, and I confessed to her at lunch (this was school time) and guess what?, *she rejected me.* it hurt like hell. I actually started crying. Right when I had the courage, she rejected me. That haunts me to this day. And that’s why i’m never getting an significant other :’)