The Most POWERFUL Thing A Man Can EVER Do

[@SportsFreak217]

Your biggest weapon against woman is attention and stoicism. I walked away from a relationship and during the breakup she begged for me to keep us together. Never tolerate bad behavior. Stay strong men.

[@jm-drums498]

Same. Left a toxic woman and she texted me for months, even after I met my current wife.

[@50macks94]

💯💯💯

[@roberthowell2502]

My Ex learned this a few years ago, I finally woke up and walked away from her crap.. Then she wanted Me....never look back fellas nor go back! Now she is pals with my daughter Trying to keep tabs on what I'm doing 2 years later🥴 She knows she lost a Good Man.💯🛡️

[@mikestroud9969]

Ditto same here. I walked. Best decision I ever did

[@4lugan]

Best negotiation position? Walk away and mean it. I dumped my ex and she begged for 6 months. Again we saw each other and I told her I was not returning to her so stop asking me out.

[@michaeldooley3396]

For what it's worth: Take care of YOURSELF physically, mentally and financially. Never get too attached to a woman to where losing her would destroy your life...no woman on earth is worth that...stay strong 💪

[@Ody-up6kg]

Michael, you are absolutely correct! I found this out the hard way.

[@michaeldooley3396]

@@Ody-up6kg good luck to you 👍

[@robertgrimsted877]

There’s only one god don’t worship a woman

[@samhixon3593]

Wish i had know this years ago.

[@drclown2103]

I dont understand

[@betteralphaadvice1567]

The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.

[@malone4735]

Shout out to MLK💪

[@kentaprice5715]

It's not a better way to say it!👍✌

[@carlosverde-datingtips7001]

I hear ya - BETTER ALPHA ADVICE! Great tips - by FarFromAverage! Women will always test you until the day you die - so get used to it! Lol She’ll test you from the moment she meets you - until the relationship is over, and even after that, she’s going to find ways to keep on testing you. It’s your job as a man to never let her make you lose your composure - because the minute you do, she wins, and you lose! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

[@CognitoTanKhaiiHuitkh9917]

why？

[@xxlynxelator1079]

I stood on the prayer mat at my worst times and still do at good and bad times

[@bf1lv]

It's very simple: the person that cares the least in the relationship is the one that has the power.

[@TheKingTywinLannister]

Thats so True and so sad at the same time.

[@originalfrank7669]

I have experienced this lol

[@farhany8129]

It’s sad but true

[@vodaredhill1704]

Then it's not a relationship.

[@TheKingTywinLannister]

@@vodaredhill1704 Thats blue pill thinking. You have to understand women nature. Otherwise you just set yourself up to lots of disappointments in life. Women can’t never love you like you think or want. They are incapable of that.

[@malone4735]

Walking away is a man’s Greatest Strength💪🚶🏻‍♂️

[@RIMAUIWAN]

I concur

[@TheLace]

As do I!

[@tylervasquez192]

Give me a Hell Yeah!!!!!

[@ThandoKING]

@@tylervasquez192 HELL YEAH!!!🍻🍻😎

[@kentaprice5715]

That's right, I tried to walk away from a woman who I was over it with and she just kept running after me, like how I wanted her to do all along!!!☺️

[@MrTennisgolf]

I made a vow to myself when I was around 20 years old to “Never live my life in ‘Quiet Desperation’, and never let others make your life miserable for long. This has served me well for the past 74 years.

[@davidbereczky5319]

Well said Raymond, I’m 74 also and your statement catch my attention it’s so true.👍

[@thomashill4380]

POGCHAMP

[@pablorojas4398]

@@thomashill4380 PAGMAN

[@anorfindelfin20]

wait, so you are 94?

[@RishabhSharma10225]

If you're really that old, why would you be watching this video?

[@JariVasarainen]

I've done the walk away many times. Sometimes they come begging, sometimes not. Every time when I walked away, regardless of the outcome, it was the right thing to do. I have no regrets.

[@eoinMB3949]

Even if you don't have any other options still walk away. By relying on other options I.e. other women, you're still depending on a woman for your validation. Being willing to walk away when you have zero other options and have no idea if you ever will again......that's how it should be done.

[@universe6319]

Eoin Brennan I Couldn't agree more, if man relies on other options /women it's like to try to stop drinking whiskey/alkohol by drinking vodka. If a man needs womens validation to feel good, he is screwed. What you suggest is a damn fucking hard, majority of men have trouble living a woman /emotionally even if they have multiple options, and if one let go of a woman even thou he has no other options, this is power beyond measures.

[@overcomeego3893]

I couldnt agree more, its not that you run to other women if they are all the same. Its that you have the option to walk away regardless of where you go. I however find this part hard when you have the wife and children that you love involved. When you have kids it becomes harder to walk away because you are walking away from your kids not just your wife.

[@ThandoKING]

@@teravolt6113 that's the way to go👏😈💯

[@tapfumaneyiyt8855]

You are godsent

[@edogpaws30]

@@teravolt6113 🤣🤣 delete this

[@Lover-ur4te]

Gentlemen, fellas and brothers. You always have other options. Or least one: peace. Peace is always the other option. That’s your cheat code of the day. It doesn’t have to be 9 other women. Your option can always be peace and yourself.

[@frenchinhale91]

My brotha💯💯💯

[@drleo6409]

Right who NEEDS to be around anyone or woman that is difficult

[@SimplyKnownAsTron]

peace, myself and my lube.

[@Lover-ur4te]

@@SimplyKnownAsTron exactly

[@smokeyjoe4078]

Absof***inglutely!!!!

[@jcnlaw]

Seasoned divorce lawyer here. Just my two cents: do NOT get married. Once you get married, you will be bound by state law and getting away from a toxic person will be much more difficult and costly. Stay safe. Stay single. You can still have terrific intimate relationships without inviting state law into your life (marriage and divorce laws).

[@spinetilt]

Couldn’t agree more.

[@keith4826]

Preach Brother

[@iREK4Ni]

PIN THIS MESSAGE PLEASE

[@Nubkickass]

Sir if you are kind enough would you answer: What about children?

[@Rob0917]

Why is the state involved in marriage anyway? Get married without the state.

[@thechancellor-]

To the *worthwhile person* seeing this, your dream is not dead. Don’t allow the past and current pains and hurts stop and define you. You’re more than a conqueror. Rise up and put yourself together. Keep pushing your future depends on it. I wish you all the best in life ❤️.

[@aspeltaofkush3540]

Word. ✊🏽

[@happywebster7151]

preesh. God bless

[@davidcarothers3311]

@@happywebster7151 Huh?? Wut??

[@happywebster7151]

@@davidcarothers3311 preesh is 1990's american slang for "i appreciate it"

[@jukijunk]

let's GOOOOOO!

[@jomll1]

This quote helped me a ton: You are responsible for your own happiness, that is YOUR responsibility alone. You lose your happiness when you give it to someone else (a girlfriend, wife, mistress, stripper, etc. for example) and expect them to know how to make you happy. They don't always deliver but it can be corrected if you make yourself responsible for your own happiness.

[@overcomeego3893]

That is why being single is the best way to go. You can have safe hook ups but dont devote your life to anyone!

[@jomll1]

@@overcomeego3893 If your're happy single, cool but you don't have to be. I've been married for 21 years and still going strong. My point is I'm not emotionally imbalanced because I'm looking to others for MY happiness. I don't get frustrated easily by others when things don't go my way then DEMAND they make it right. That is a sure path to frustration.

[@markdejongh47]

This feels good Thank you very much for confirming🤝🏆

[@jomll1]

@@markdejongh47 It's a better feeling isn't it. Glad it helped you.

[@Ozzyozzysheesh]

@@jomll1 wish I would have known this a couple years back when i was a senior in high school. I was depressed that whole year cause I wanted to find happiness in others like making new friends and then the girls that I liked didn’t like me back it affected me too much. I was looking for happiness in others and I took it too hard when things didn’t work out. But after high school I had the same mentality as you but recently I slipped up on it again with this one girl things didn’t work out. So I’m glad I came across your comment. It’s a reminder of the mentality I need to apply again. And it’s very true what you just said.

[@Dainja]

I literally just had this conversation with my wife two days ago. I financially supported her when she first started her own business ten years ago. For the past year and some change, she's been earning more money than me, which is great, but lately she's been ego trippin and taking it out on me. We had an argument and I told her that she needs me more than I need her and we can split up if she's such a badass. She did not take me up on that offer and subsequently changed her tone.

[@ircriz2586]

Sheeeeeshh😎😎

[@joeblingx-jb3128]

you have my respect !00%

[@Has7e]

How are you now sir?

[@marc7983]

@@Has7e he’s living in a one bed shit hole!🤣

[@alesto3779]

The fact that you even got to the point where you have to have that kind of conversation with your wife shows that the end is very near..

[@Ronintados]

Attachment is the root of suffering. This lesson from Budhism is applicable here. It causes a person too much suffering when he/she is attached to another person and that person leaves/breaks up with her/him.

[@4lugan]

It’s true. Incredible but it’s better to be a jerk. Just don’t care.

[@tekiwi]

Read up on what Buddha has to say about women, he ain't no fan !!!

[@jagatjeetsingh8902]

True happening with me

[@trollzynisaacjohan1793]

@@4lugan no, just emotionally controlled. You can still be kind and a good person and be in control over your emotions.

[@vancemcnulty8242]

All true. It's easy to fall into this trap when you are emotionally connected to a woman ie "in love". Once you give a woman your man card, prepare for pain.

[@ThandoKING]

PAIN 😭😢 But we live and we learn 😎🥶

[@vanbias4234]

I'll never let a woman make me feel less of a man.

[@Krisowy]

"we are a generation of man raised by women, I don't know if another woman in my life is the answer I'm really looking for."

[@ericlee419]

insightful!!

[@jamesmccloud7535]

In Tyler We Trust

[@dominowhite8074]

Fight club

[@nope9858]

I don't need Women.

[@Riftayl]

I have to confess, I thought this topic is ridiculous and if I behave like this, I act like an asshole... But my ex-GF and I were arguing often and in one fight, she said "It's better we end our relationship!" - I reacted with "Okay if you think that's the only way, then go for it." - after an hour, she came back to me and said "I thought about what I said and I think we shouldn't throw away our relationship..." and we were together a few months longer. But in my case, I was convinced that I want to leave her. So... she's now my ex

[@yasirsh008]

Same story 🤣. We broke and now it has been a month. She blocked me few days ago and two days ago unblocked me. Showing everything is going great in her life 😂. I don't even care now. Never gonna fall back... Never.

[@bhaveshdk]

Yeah... That's what I thought... Woman with a lose mouth is worth our long term partnership!!!

[@etwanican_7439]

I have a similar story. If she’s willing to test me like that, it’s not even worth it. Don’t ever put up with that level of disrespect I always find it’s better to move on even if that means you’re single for a while. I had one girl that I got back with 3 different times and it’s just toxic as hell. You block them and they come back twice as hard trying to get you back for some reason. If I’m gonna date she needs to be somewhat sane and not playing these games

[@harrysbleton7174]

some body tell me what he just typed? i cant read cause the size of his balls

[@RealCoachLee]

It’s not so much that they “want” to you to be willing to leave them, it’s the information that such a realization transfers - that she doesn’t control you and that you could be lost. Then she is less likely to take you for granted. Calmly call her on her crap and you will “pass” her tests by refusing to even take them.

[@nocturnaltenebris1168]

love you coach Lee, you helped me alot.

[@kinginblack1120]

It's an analogy for Death, bud. "Reality" is considered the "womb", the thing you live in, Mother Earth, etc. It's all referenced as Female. Everything in this world is not so secretly tilted in the favor of Women, even all these dudes talking about "raising your value as a Man" are actually simping hard, because who are you raising your value for, exactly? As long as you stay in this existence, you failed the "test". Don't cling to this shit, it's a disgrace.

[@DeadpoolX9]

do I have to be calm? I like being aggro

[@Dipperdap1]

Bingo. It even works after 39 years of marriage. Trust me guys the "tests" never end. Just learn the method and stick to it. And if it does come to pass, she wasn't worth the investment.

[@yashencaldera]

Thing is I’ve already have met the my soul mate but due unavoidable circumstances we have to go separate ways. I have other options available not that I can’t. But I don’t want to move on from her because she is the one. So do I act is if I don’t care for her to value me more and what she’s losing out on or do I stay by her side through out her hard times and prove her that I’ll be there no matter what?

[@ExoecistBlue]

Even women in your family test your strenght

[@mysteryman8465]

💯📌

[@bighennybihh8532]

💯💯

[@juny1982]

You can be a leader, good provider, good father, responsible, good lover in your mind or maybe she's faking it try to elevate you ego!! She's gonna leave you for something else or for someone women are unstable and that's true!!

[@pablogb8077]

The sudden bad behaviour, the mental strength you have to show, the test you have to pass, the indifference as your best weapon against this things... This should be taught since we are kids.

[@Respect2theFallen]

Yup our fathers should teach us but it's either chalked up to it means they like you or just ignore them

[@flyonthewall7026]

Trust me when I say... I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS RIGHT NOW 🙏

[@madhatter9001]

Be the King because you are a King.

[@drleo6409]

Right who NEEDS to be around anyone or woman that is difficult and makes life difficult to their advantage? ????? Think about it. Is it worth it?

[@Username-ze1ux]

A strong man doesn’t give the slightest Fck about mind games and sh!t test that women play…they know they’re in the drivers seat…and they keep it moving

[@flowon583]

Kinda True anyway we live în a fuckt up world

[@Gloryboyquan]

Tell Em Bro!!!!!!!!!!!

[@Jay-_-4]

The more I watch videos about what a man or a woman should do to show power over the partner, more I feel sick about getting in a relationship again.

[@davidbereczky5319]

Jay you should listen to the song from Betty Midler “The Rose” (And the soul afraid of dyin’ that never learns to live) Don’t be afraid 👍

[@MrConstantMalachi]

It's about living within your own power my dude, the rest of the pieces fall into place. Don't worry about how you're perceived.

[@gheperegrino1131]

Well said. A man with value knows how to be in control of the situation. Knows when to stay and when to leave.

[@junaidahmed6486]

Walk away!!! Be ready to walk away!!!

[@leeemufasgmailcom]

I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after being separated for 4months . All thanks to Mr Ali whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 3days..

[@atifulislamasif7893]

Can't emphasize how true this is. lemme give u an example from my experience. i had a fight with my ex. the problem was something complicated. i reacted on it and she then started getting mad at me. like, she would just burst in anger and say shits. i would stay calm and not react to what she was saying at all. at one point, she went like -i have had enough of dating you. i went pause for a couple of secs and said -i had told you that i won't even bother asking you to stay if you ever decide to leave me. and then she went silent for like a minute or so. and then said -i shouldn't have said what i said just now. i should have thought before talking. now.. as long as i remained the way as if it won't even phase me if she ever decides to leave, she had respect and attraction for me. she was even willing to put herself low. but when i lost that attitude (which was due to my insecurities and some stupid beliefs) she lost all the respect and attraction for me. and now she is my ex. welp, at least, i learned a lesson. i am glad.

[@chikechibor580]

Well said comrade

[@thewasian2715]

@@chikechibor580 well said

[@salxakio]

@@thewasian2715 My man.

[@saicloneshabazz7573]

Don't feel bad lesson learned. I too have had identical experiences and lessons. I've been in the same current loving relationship for almost 8 years now.

[@thewasian2715]

@@salxakio My son.

[@VincentVega987]

Recently I heard someone saying: A man’s relationships should come from his power as a man and never be his power Great video

[@clas683]

’It is yet another opportunity for you to show your strength’ Good line right there

[@WayfarerAj]

Sigma doesn't leave her to show he can, but he leaves and don't take her back.

[@k1m1]

Be good and walk away when you did everything what you could do for love. That is a power: putting yourself second, not first. Each time you walk away without fight you becoming more bitter, more egoistic, more self center to the point that you will never be able to open your heart. Most people are broke, especially women nowadays. Advice: fight for love till end, be good but always remember to respect yourself, read books about relationships, woman nature, human behaviour, self helpers et cetera. On the end you will die as good person and as a fighter who respect himself and love till end. You don't want to leave everybody because they are not perfect, no one is. Or die just with self respect, without feeling love. Real man change people and leaving behind better people and future, not broken more ex girlfriends. Walk away = quitter. Move on = you did what you could do. That's my point of view.

[@levicookslevi1437]

I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 3months All thanks to mr Willson whom held me to get back my ex again I will suggest y'all get help from him and it's works within 4days.

[@levicookslevi1437]

I was in the same difficulties before he helped me few days ago.He will definitely help you he have solutions to all problem... 🏃‍♂🏃‍♂🏃‍♂

[@levicookslevi1437]

contact him right away ☝

[@nelsonmoramusicanoles9455]

at this point, after giving myself and being heartbroken I realized I am the center of the universe and all it matters is me, just me. no more Mr. nice guys if they can't take a joke f#%$k em.

[@cholakasese3191]

👍🏿👍🏿

[@bradinperriguey7273]

I'm all the way across the world for the girl I'm in love with. Your videos helped me get through a divorce last year, and rebuild my confidence. My current girlfriend has been acting cold, and I needed this video today. I've been contemplating if I should fly back home, and now I know what I need to do. Thanks for doing what you do man, you're helping people keep their sanity.

[@SmithMaximus]

Good luck man, its not worth it sticking around for ppl that dont value you.

[@tastelikechinahadababyandn9928]

What if they married

[@Impaler722]

You need to look into the mirror.

[@222333aaaaaa]

Hope stuff goes well, man.. Just remind yourself that youre the fucking man, and do it repeatedly. You got this, my guy

[@Saberdud]

bro just cheat

[@chrisstone2506]

The best gift a woman can give you is that of herself. The second best gift a woman can give you is the freedom to go find the next girl. LOL So never sweat fellas, you will always receive one or the other from her and therefore you can’t lose.

[@tafadzwashabani8800]

This is really dope Chris 😄.thanks for sharing.

[@chukwumakenneth6602]

This is indeed wisdom

[@caffeinatedbuffalosauce883]

Women sleep with who they want, while men marry who they want. So remember the long game is yours not theirs.

[@xrouagial]

As man you have advantage over women, if you Wana fuck you can give 20€ and get a round. If a woman wanna fuck she has to go around and search for someone.

[@Respect2theFallen]

That is if you even want marriage anymore. It hardly seems worth it nowadays. I believe women just want it because they've experience everything besides that and finally wana settle down for security whereas some men know it isn't security getting married and there's the possibility of losing their resources at the cost of wasted time and effort with an ungrateful woman

[@TheGuiltyShow]

The moment you fall in love, you trade your brain for your heart. There's a very strong quote from an awesome series i always keep close to my heart, it goes like this: "If you believe a lie for too long, the truth doesn't set you free, it ripps you apart." Once you open your heart all the way to someone, you basically give them full power over it. I once was such a player in my earlier days, never had anything longer than a month. Until i met a girl that changed my whole world. I felt so happy, even tho i always was the second choice, in every aspect of the relationship. It was never about me, and i never made it about me, all i cared for was her happiness. I went from an asshole to an unsure, scared little boy because i didn't wanted to risk anything by speaking about my feelings or my fears. Long story short, i did way too much and she threw me away and instantly got together with a friend of her. She's now married and getting a child. It destroyed me. I had no confidence after, no selflove, no will. I was just a hollow shade. It did change me. It took me more thank 5 Years to swallow that reality check. And since then every relationship i was, i always had a line, i never would cross, regardless of the situation. I have been called cold, arrogant, egoistic and so on, but i just can't let myself be ripped apart ever like that again. If a person doesn't value the things you give stop giving immediatly, prioritise your selfworth. The right person will value you regardless of your flaws.

[@MrConstantMalachi]

Where do you think guys are getting the message that they need to be sensitive and vulnerable? Seems like a blueprint for failure. Followed it my entire life, never got anywhere; stopped caring, and now I'm suddenly more attractive to women. Felt guilty that I was effectively turning off an emotional tap which I assumed was the source of human creativity; but that also seems backwards. Men drive forward: that is the creative instinct in effect. Take care of your own, as a provider, but don't suffer fools, phonies, or allow dead weight to attach to you.

[@TheGuiltyShow]

@@MrConstantMalachi Amen brother 🙏

[@recognize7]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥✊🏽💪🏽💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@su2sa1li4]

One of the best answers in this video. Draw a line.

[@learnpianofastonline]

Abundance mindset. Absolutely love this.

[@andrawise8706]

"As a real man you always put yourself first and focus on your path, and never lose sight of who you are as a man, and if she is a lunitic, and cannot recognize what she is dealing with in a real man, then you are wasting your time, because she is to self absorbed to know what respect for a man is, yeah it is easy to get a man but keeping him is another thing." Most women are to stupid to know the difference in how to treat a real man, not a simp." "Because they think they know it all, and they don't take the time to listen ,and learn from their traditional mothers, and grandmothers and aunties, on how to keep a man." "This why they will always fail in keeping a real man, they can manipulate simps all day but eventually it get old to them and they end up unhappy." 'That wall is kicking them in the face all over the place, and until they wake up and realize that they aren't in control like they think, the better off they will be."

[@recognize7]

All kinds of 💎s dropped in this one, whooooo!

[@randysetterberg4672]

Spot on. Never tolerate duplicitous divas. I gave no warning , , , , I simply walked.

[@felipe741]

Not to “walk away”. Rather, “be willing to walk away” 👍

[@KRATOS-kn7nf]

After giving her the cold shoulder and moving on with my life, my ex recently sent me a text telling me she didn’t know if it was me or a friend of mine sending her threatening text messages telling her “be careful. I know where you live”. She was basically telling me to stop bothering her. In my head I was like “wtf? Lol”. And I told her the truth. I said to her “good luck with that but you don’t have to worry about me. I’m done waisting my time” I was left wondering if that was her way of breaking the “no contact rule”. I would always tell her that im there for her and would protect her from everything and everyone. She was probably expecting for me to tell her the same thing but nah. Good luck to her.

[@JohnDoe-dl1vx]

THIS VIDEO CAME AT THE RIGHT TIME. I DATED A GIRL FOR ABOUT A YEAR. IT CAME TO A POINT THAT I BROKE UP WITH HER. LONG STORY SHORT... SHE LIVES ON THE SAME FLOOR AS I DO. SHE GOT A NEW BOYFRIEND.I WAS SORT OF UPSET IN THE BEGINNING. THEN SHE STARTED KNOCKING ON MY DOOR FOR VARIOUS REASONS IE.I NEED YOUR PARKING SPACE,DO YOU HAVE GARBAGE BAGS,ARE THESE YOUR KEYS? WOULD YOU LIKE MY PARKING SPACE... ON AND ON WITH B.S.TESTING. FINALLY LAST TIME SHE KNOCKED. I TOLD HER IF SHE DIDN'T STOP BOTHERING AND STAY AWAY FROM ME WITH HER NONSENSE... I WAS GOING TO HER BOYFRIEND ABOUT HER ACTIONS... THAT'S THE LAST TIME I'VE SAW HER IN MONTHS. MEN ... LIFE IS TOO SHORT FOR A WOMAN TO SHIT TEST YOU... WALK AWAY AND TELL THEM YOU'VE REALIZED IT WASN'T A RELATIONSHIP AND IT REALLY DIDN'T EXIST... IT WAS A HANDFUL OF GOOD TIMES... AND THAT'S ALL... IT NEVER EXISTED IN YOUR PERCEPTION AS A RELATIONSHIP... ASTA LA VISTA BABY.

[@jeremyking5309]

I think this is coming to me in divine timing

[@TheReviewPigeon]

walking away literally is the best strength you can execute. I've been married before, had several relationshits and when they started getting bad or if i felt disrespected i walked away every time. 90% of those instances they came back apologizing and changed parts of their behavior.

[@s3dghost]

"changed parts" of they behavior... Lol he said part...

[@maguire_bully]

relationshits!! haha well said brotha👏👏

[@stevenjacks9966]

Re: Disney movies. Actually, it seems to me that most of the classic Disney movies, until perhaps Pocahontas, always portrayed the man that got the woman as a strong chivalrous type. Yes, they were unrealistic, but they weren’t wrong. They were just animation that were fantasy and exaggeration. But the Disney movies of the twentieth century did portray women as feminine seeking the masculine and Vice versa.

[@macvena]

Honestly, anyone who takes cues from children's fairy tales is asking for it. Women want the winner. They just wanna show up and look pretty. Treat them mean keeps them keen. If she's tripping, walk off and find another chick. She will have instant regret. The best way to deal with women is to BE HAPPY NO MATTER WHAT!

[@eldrickejleest]

what if; -there are no coincidice -everything that is happening, was preplanned by you.

[@alturcot4793]

I had a girlfriend do that to me about two years ago. I walked away and got a younger woman who is ten years younger than me. I don’t put up with crazy.

[@DG4444everrrr]

I’m in my younger 30’s... every relationship I had in my 20’s I walked away and ended. Most were talking with another man or wasn’t worth the effort. Every single one of them reached out to me after I walked away.

[@tempemail5337]

What gets complicated is when it becomes financially liable for the man when leaving a bad relationship.

[@meltedplasticarmyguy]

After doing time in the army, I have absolutely no tolerance for bad behavior. The core values I was taught, direct my life, even after the uniform. Of those values, two of those, Honor and Integrity, are held close to my heart. When my ex began acting this way to me, at first, I tried to address the issue, but soon it became apparent that nothing that I would say or do would change things. Then one day I said I've had enough, I left and never looked back. She called and tried to apologize a few months later, and very bluntly I told her that she had her chance and she blew it. I hung up and changed my number. That was 15 years ago, I swore to myself that I will never put myself in that situation ever again and became a serial bachelor.

[@recognize7]

Bravo sir!

[@christopheradams8807]

Changing your number seems a bit OTT

[@dirtyminerapparel]

If leaving is the only reasonable recourse of action always remember why you left and stay strong. Every time my ex asked to come back after our divorce I changed the subject. It drove her crazy to the point she threatened physical violence. I pointed at the cameras and told her it was time to go back to her downgrade. I don’t play games. Everyone breaks up so don’t let it get you down. You come in alone and in a diaper and you will go the same way.

[@heathRocco]

Women subconsciously love it when you put them back in their place verbally. It shows them your a dominant Man.

[@Apex_grind562]

I rather be weak and alone then strong and insulted! When I'm weak God is strong.

[@VikCalo]

🔥 🐉 bro spitting 🔥 🐉

[@photonz1812]

"I will inflict upon them the greatest insult an enemy can suffer. To be ignored."

[@chrisjpritchard]

Yes I agree , walked away instantly from 2 women these last few years and, because I am in the social latin dance scene , still have them at arms length in my orbit . Interestingly they have shown a tendency to try to get my attention again but I outwardly act like I am full options choosing to dance with other women and joking with them. Woman hate being ignored .

[@808Turtle]

My ex wife of 27 years pulled this crap...I never went back...I had her replacement in 9 days. I can say I even traded up with her replacement 10 fold. 6 years later my new one decided to play games...this one is narcissistic so after learning how this personality is not one you can win over. All the love in the world... will not change them...I tried. They are controlling everything starts off good then the controlling methods happen. Either way. Being ready to walk away is your best choice. Never go back to a known evil...it will happen again. I do not need her...I wanted her...I choose her...she choose to test me. I did not play that game. Life is too short to waste it on such things. I choose a queen that and she choose me. We do not need each other. We wanted each other. We can and will be fine alone. This is what I learned after the lessons from 2 narcissistic people that I thought were "the one". Truth be told. I settled on the first one...I was fooled by the second one. She actually told me she was damaged... that should have been taken as a fair and yet important warning. Pay attention or pay dearly. Be safe, be kind, be careful, be swift. The signs are right in front of you. Watch for them. Lol Use the head with the brain in it. Lol

[@georgeharvey3062]

My problem is my ex started acting nasty to me while raising 4 children. I was caught between my responsibility for my children and a nasty wife. That puts so much more pressure on you. I was just buying my time until my children were old enough to not need me so much. Talk about agonizing! Sometimes timing is everything. If we had not had children at the time the choice would have been so much easier. Oh she did beg me not to do it while signing the papers but at that point I had made up my mind. No going back.

[@musiclover5023]

Typical gamer, got kids pile on.the pressure. Good on you to get out ☺️

[@bradleycortez7909]

Right on brother,I was in your same exact shoes as yourself,just abiding your time justifiably, and moraly,without wrapping g your hands around here neck the whole time over the years,you are the walked away,and proceeded this in the proper way,and walked away like a lion .

[@wademaxwell3797]

I'm currently dealing with the same predicament as you did George. How long did hang in there for?

[@musiclover5023]

@@wademaxwell3797 Be careful, with your mental state, that's where the stress affects the most, you can lose so much of your self control if you are not on top of the situation. In fact if you're not up to it you will lose your mind and end up in an institution, maybe that's what she wants. If your children are around 10/13 years old it might be ok to leave and maintain a healthy relationship with them.

[@georgeharvey3062]

@@wademaxwell3797 28 years. Until our twins were in college. Divorce is not an easy thing to do when you have children.

[@sebastianxxx3351]

it‘s really easy: get a person who CAN have options (no matter if you actually have or not) And at no point ever need one particular woman. Same with people in general. If you REALLY don‘t need them you automatically behave the right way and they will respect you.

[@carlosdixan112]

The moment she begins to play mind games she’s out . I don’t time to play this silly games

[@princepacifico1512]

You can be my buddy I think like this.. get outta here with ya rubbish attitude. Test? I had enough test in high school and life itself is like a test.. take ur test to someone else willing to play ur silly games. If she's not satisfy with what we have keep it moving

[@MasculinityR]

Indeed this super power makes you Far From Average THE POWER TO WALK AWAY 🦍 🦍

[@leeemufasgmailcom]

I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after being separated for 4months . All thanks to Mr Ali whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 3days..

[@aricgomez7235]

Hell yea bro 💯... you are right one point 👌.. going through this right now with a gym friend 💪 👏..

[@princepacifico1512]

I can never understand "testing you" evaluates to bad behavior. Once she start that nonsense she can happily move on. Ain't got time for no woman testing me life in itself is a test.. tf

[@Martin-jk2ng]

This is the right answer. Allowing these.women to act stupid and constantly having to deal with it is in itself giving them power. You enable their asses to be stupid and pull this crap. I had to leave the most beautiful woman I have ever had because she took advantage of me. She's hating it now, (I am hating it worse) but I would not allow myself to be treated like that.

[@ryanovski]

Goodbye (or Badbye) Girl. I'm going to do my thing...

[@williamcarey8529]

This is one of the best relationship videos that I have come across!! I have become total MGTOW and I have the greatest relationship with the woman that I am dating now because we basically live separate lives; that is no cohabitation; we split the costs and we brainstorm ideas on how to spend our together time and I make the final decision and she loves this!! Don't be afraid to walk away gentlemen!! That is your best weapon against a woman!!

[@Jubee12]

So true. What I also learned from my experience as well as from my dating coach of many years who I’m now good friends with of why women give you drama is allowing comfort to take place in your life and you stop improving If you’re continuously improving yourself in many areas of your life, then she most likely won’t bring drama to you, and it also means her life could be better in the process Even since doing that I haven’t had this problem from women except from this one girl last year who was giving me shit and messing my self improvement She left me with no choice but to cut her out of my life. A week later she started texting me saying how sorry she and I just blocked her because I knew she was gonna bring problems to my life based on other behaviors I saw from her Also, women do want to feel needed by you but not to the point where you make your life revolve around her. Based on my own experience if she starts to feel neglected, she’s gonna start to wonder why is she stinking around and move on. There has to be balance

[@princepacifico1512]

No miserable people loves company. The so call "testing u" can stem from many things including she can just be bored and a boring woman waiting for a man to provide excitement while all she brings to the table is some meow.. some women needs to grow up and realise a man job is not to make her life happy .. happiness depends on oneself. And I didn't say neglect her or the relationship I'm simply saying some people are just plain mean and troublesome.. Men and women

[@jcramirez77]

@@princepacifico1512 finally a man making sense, these brats cant be attended to everytime while working alot of jours and providing, you can do it all perfect and they still do this, i say ignore or walk away, and even talk to other women if need to its their loss for playing games

[@ligdeyendama884]

You dont test a lamborghini cos you know its good, if shes gonna try and test me then its obvious she wants me to prove something as if im meant to be worthy of her?! Nah homie im the prize.

[@overcomeego3893]

If they are going to test us knowingly or not first thing is that they should value the man they have and then look within to see if they can work together with the man to live a proper life, because we still are each responsible for our own happiness we can still look around to see what we can do to help each other live comfortably, doing our part.

[@thunderkatz4219]

Proverbs 31:3 do not waste your strength on women your vigor on those who ruin kings

[@nvduk3]

I only wish I had found your channel before lol. However this thing I figured out by having some bad experiences of my own. Also, I heard many others facing these similar kinda crap. And yea I must say its true. Women do these things. Now the problem is that they subconsciously are doing it, so it becomes easier for the guy to ignore these kinda behavior specially towards someone you love and care for. You would think that it was just a spur-of-the-moment thing. But it keeps repeating until an equation is set between you both dictating who is the dominate one and who has more control in the relationship. And once the equation gets set, it'll be too hard to change it then. And all these things naturally happen and will always happen, no matter how good your relationship looks today. It would be just naive to think that yours is gonna be different. So stay strong my fellow gents and stay happy 💪

[@89tonstar]

I have always said that if someone leaves you in a relationship, it means you already left yourself a long time ago. This video is true with one exception, women in the cluster B category. Women who suffer from mild to severe personality disorders. These women take the normal games to a whole new toxic level. Pushing and pulling, cheating playing games, all while they expect you to put up with it. Only those who have ever been with one of these Women or men know what true hell is.

[@marzinvades8765]

I was married to one of the cluster B types for 4 years and lemme tell ya, it's absolute confusion and mental hell. Day to day would be a different puzzle to solve whether I wanted to or not. Only after a year or so of constant research I was able to put together the pieces, nothing I could ever do would help that person or our relationship. Eventually one day I decided I'd had enough. I wasn't able to focus on my self but all of her needs were met, mine was not. After I left, I went no Contact and focused on myself. I'd forgotten what it was like it wake up and actually look forward to the day ahead. Mentally it's taken alot of time to fix what was destroyed but I can assure that once I walked away, the biggest weight I've ever felt in my life had been lifted. Now I'm happily single with a house of my own and a large bank account. Although it took over 10 years to figure things out and refocus on my goals, not for one second to I regret leaving some one toxic. I've never been happier

[@marlonfraser4608]

Real talk. As I am walking away from my ex wife. This video is amazing.

[@mwshaikh1382]

I totally understand my wife has mental disorder and finally found out that she has been cold with me in 12 years of marriage because she has been doing with numerous other guys just 3 months after marriage. Now we have four children together and I don't trust her with them.. not even sure if they are mine so waiting for dna results. Just wanna break free from this crazy monster

[@89tonstar]

@@mwshaikh1382 wow what a situation! Yeah you need to verify who is yours!

[@mwshaikh1382]

@@89tonstar yea bro let's hope for the best!

[@mrmartinez4188]

I agree. Just had a 2nd date with a woman that turned into her becoming very argumentative. She was almost attacking me verbally and gaslighting. I respectfully paid our bill and left her to hang out with a group of friends. Well, she obviously realized I had no issues walking away from her and I blocked her on my phone. I feel if anyone can act in a disrespectful manner to me, I am done. No need to argue. I’m done. I deserve to be treated as the gentleman I am.

[@arricammarques1955]

Why, even pay her bill? LOL

[@amirtp_]

The scarier, the more valuable!

[@Xwagmi]

Be careful what you tolerate, you are teaching people how to treat you.

[@justsomeguy.8670]

One thing I can tell you. Is focus on your career. Focus on your work outs. Don’t over cater and don’t loose your confidence. And if you achieve all those things at top percentile you will do good with women and it’s not that hard.

[@BabyboyG123]

Is not the most powerful thing to do. That’s is just putting yourself first and giving yourself respect and value.

[@justinbrockwell8396]

Love this one! Super accurate, and trust me it works. Don't take any bulls#!t. If she gives you a hard time, why would you ever want to date that anyway. Go find someone amazing. Cheers👍

[@whirlwindmgtow5534]

There are no exceptions to this rule. ALL woemeen are like this. That’s the lesson here. You change yourself and your expectations.

[@makoshark3759]

Amen , I've been doing this all my life ,men .. Listen too this man... wise words

[@samuelcaicedoserna2728]

This reaffirmed why after some time, it felt great to say goodbye when she started "testing" me.

[@exootikkmusic]

To everyone who may read this I hope y’all make it let’s keep grinding 🙏🏽

[@TSierra]

I love your videos. Thank you for posting and helping us🙏🏽

[@trevordaniels7857]

The beat…..🤌🏾🤌🏾 🔥 🔥

[@zumasamson6603]

Thanks for this material...Men we need to take care of ourselves instead of focusing on impressing women who do not deserve our attention

[@joshuaanderson2163]

It’s actually pretty easy for myself to walk away. I’ve done it before.

[@BlabLablA-oi8pj]

You always unconsciously make the assumption that women are needed or that they are more useful than harmful. Just look at 40 to 50 year old men and see how much they like to date and how many of them are still dating.

[@bromike4503]

Good women don’t act nasty towards their man just to “test” him. Men are being taught that this is somehow normal, yet I don’t see good women ever act this way. Women with serious problems in their life act like that….but I’m not sure why any guy would want a woman like that in their life. If a woman tests you like this….leave her for real!! She’ll create problems in your life.

[@michaelhill2933]

Thw mindset is "i aint afraid to be single, ive done it for years and it was awesome"

[@curiousrex5183]

The summary guy: Topic: how to get woman to treat you better? Solution: you should be able to leave her when she acts nasty (which women does subconsciously) Don't take their shit Show her you have options and the strength to leave them except yelling at her for her nasty behaviour or take their shit because you want them This shifts the power to women and she losses attraction towards you Even if you don't have the options you just need to plant the idea Women subconsciously wants you to lead and have power Women want the man who can show them that he don't need them They dont actually want you to leave but want to know if you can if it comes down to it

[@deadeyecpt.7765]

summary of the summary: If she bothers you all day just go don't give a shit and go somewhere else.

[@curiousrex5183]

@@deadeyecpt.7765 Yeah!

[@phantasma8401]

Women are just not worth it. The modern western woman is the most miserable, spoiled, and downright mentally ill kind of woman to exist. Why bother with the mind games.

[@Valentinfj]

Change the subject or ignore her negative frame ✌️

[@Sniperkitten971]

Every man should wake up in the morning and watch that video, starting at age 10. If you do not apply that advice, you will suffer until you're broken.

[@jornfox3545]

Go within, find your peace inside (prayer/meditation/sharing with others).

[@johnsonschannel720]

Remember if she wants to leave. more money in your wallet

[@bryanholt76]

Option 3: stay calm during their craziness, give them space to express, and lead them out of that state with love. The more you do this, the less craziness she shows. I don't want my women anxious about me leaving. That will induce more craziness.

[@RasKalevthesouljourner]

Watch Jesse lee peterson

[@simonfuller8940]

Your right in line with the truth. Women want security

[@jonathondavis170]

ABSOLUTELY! Was thinking the same thing...my girl tests me DAILY, and she's ALWAYS seeking if I'll stay and put up with her anxieties and problems. Just saying resilient, loving, and supportive during their tests gives them all the validation they need - I get my strength from God, and let my heart be a vessel of his never-ending love. God is what will make ALL relationships last, but you need to find a good Godly woman to be evenly yoked with! Then your relationship WILL NOT FAIL if you both seek the heavenly father in all things!

[@GabrielPierreStudios]

@@jonathondavis170 amen on point!

[@nelsonmoramusicanoles9455]

until you run out of options

[@badguy3963]

After a bad relationship where she didn’t respect me and I allowed her to treat me wrong many times and let her keep coming to Me. I knew I had to change. So I started hitting the gym. I didn’t know what else to do. After 2 months of heart break, I felt a little better and had lost a lot of weight and had a new job making decent money. I met another girl, we dated for 3 months before making it exclusive. But this time I always checked her bad behavior or any disrespect. Well, one day she crossed the line we were laying in bed. I knew I didn’t have a better option. So I sat there for like 2 minutes in silence. Until I simply told her that I could not trust her. She didn’t cheat but I caught her on a lie. And it hurt like a mother fucker but I said we’re done. Then told her to grab her things and I would take her home. We’ll she got upset and said I’ll walk( lives close). I said okay and walked her out and closed the door behind her. Completely stoic. But deep down I was hurting bad. Still I knew that deep down if I continued to work on myself and improve, I would eventually find another woman who would show me the right respect. Well, she left and I went to lay in bed. Not gonna lie I did cry because up until that point this chick was badass and everything was solid. And we spent a lot of time together. But I knew that respect was a must from my gf or partner no matter what! I looked in the mirror and told myself I would get through it that I was strong and to keep improving. About 1 hr later after she left. She texts me literally begging for forgiveness and to take her back. That I was the one for her. And I didn’t reply. Then FaceTimes me and she is crying on her doorstep. I know she could still be playing games so I kept it cool. She was apologizing and begging me for forgiveness asking what she could do to make it up to me. We talked for a bit and keep in mind up until that point she was amazing. Cooking for me massaging me. Sometimes paying for lunch or whatever it was. So I gave her another chance. And I told her if I find out again about a lie that I would simply just disappear from her life no explanation and she understood. It’s been about a month since that incident and Honestly things are good but I notice a lack of trust from my end. So I’m contemplating if I should continue the relationship. She is still cool girl. I’m skeptical but we will see. The point is I had to walk away. Not to prove a point or to get her to come back. But to show myself respect towards myself. She could do something again but I know I will walk away and this time for good. She knows it now and has seen it for herself that I’m a man of my word. It was very hard to walk away I will not lie, but after my ex I learned that the pain of heartbreak goes away but the pain of getting treated like shit by the girl you care for is much much much worse.

[@vectors8841]

What she is doing is fucking up, and making you leave for someone who won’t do that to you. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

[@fragidistic]

This clip only show things from ''being single'' perspective. It's a completely different story when you have full family home on your shoulders.

[@araaramlbb746]

*There was a time when a girl acted crazy and i showed her i have many options and completely ignored her.* *It's been 2 years she didn't text me back I guess i should wait more😊*

[@Sir_Killsalot]

Lmao!

[@We_fight_in_the_shadow]

Did u level Up? If not, thats why!

[@princepacifico1512]

If u had many options u would have never waited in the first place. Which leads me to the conclusion that u didn't had many options lol

[@TheGangsterRH]

@@princepacifico1512 probably just a joke

[@dandydandy7423]

Like! Its not all about leaving her o Level Up!!

[@h2oboi531]

In the end of it if she disrespects and crosses that line. Don’t say anything, cut contact, and send her back to the streets

[@MattPerry]

Yep, it's true. The problem is if you love her, then you must be ready to act the same and still go on and don't look back.

[@za3676]

I left my wife, and I think my biggest mistake was handling the divorce completely wrong. I tried to get back and made it worse, then I met another women and boom she wanted me back. But I told her to f*** off, then it went south with the other girl and I did the try to get back with her thing and it failed. Now I am alone lol. But in time I’ll meet someone else down the road, in due time. Besides that whole fiasco kind of made it okay to be single while I do my thing. Point is, this video is accurate and next time, I know I’ll do things the right way that is respectful to myself.

[@throoming]

ive heard this psychological perspective a hundred times over now. Ok so how do you keep a woman loyal then and have her grow up past all those middleschool/highschool behaviors of testing you? say you've showed her that you don't need her attention and have options, etc etc. the whole 'testing men' thing is so cringe and childish and ive still observed this behavior up into my late 20s

[@bradtoops5108]

Being married, this is all facts. Providing everything for everyone else and giving up my wants and needs to make everyone else never struggle or hurt, this saying sticks in my head. No one cares as long as they get what they want. But then I’m wrong when I get depressed and wonder when I’ll ever get what I want. My wife and kids are my entire life. But when do I get what I want and when do I not have to give up what I wanna do or when can I get some financial help so I don’t have to sell any of my stuff when times get hard.

[@TyfoiD75]

This actually is pretty solid advise in many aspects of life: "be needed, not needy."

[@uaetub]

Feild test truth for a 50+ guy..... Last 10 dates had so many red flags, I grabbed my tackle box and poles and hit the road. The juice wasn't worth the squeeze.