THE SECRET TO FLIRTING WITH GIRLS | HOW TO SPEAK WOMANESE

Find out the secret to flirting with girls using womanese, the overlooked language that all girls have been using for thousands of years.
The last video was about 'intent', but this will only get you so far. Three other components of flirting with any girl are:
1. subtle communication or 'womanese',
2. exaggeration
3. becoming the prize.
For those of you who made it this far, you're amazing and I hope you have a happy New Years!
-Julian

[@diogopereira1743]

When a girl says "I dont sleep with guys on the first date" you could always say something like "Yeah...I dont usually sleep with guys on the first date either"

[@franciscoaquino2259]

Diogo Pereira ,...... That’s a good one!!!!

[@broccolinyu911]

or jokingly say "really? I do." XP

[@drpicmeup]

Lmaooo 🤣🤣

[@supindersingh5538]

😅😅

[@GS-fk8dw]

the keyword being, "usually" meaning she does sleep with a guy on the first date. they are after sex more than guys are

[@raymondsantana1]

*Girl starts talking to me* “sorry I don't speak womanese”

[@lord1c1s]

How’d that work out for you?

[@seanandrews5329]

I always just say “sorry I have diarrhea” gets em every time

[@Pigeonman1810]

I have a crush on a girl in my year 3 class and I am rlly nervous 😬 ;_;

[@mckenziesabin4277]

Bro just go for it

[@kellyjjohnson5154]

Hey hey

[@TheHappyWanderer]

"If you don't flirt, you're probably dead inside" Guess I'm dead inside

[@RunToEternity]

To a goth, that is a compliment, ty. BTW it's a good song too, I think I'll play it. "Dead Inside" by Ludovico technique

[@codmortel2821]

Me to

The same skills work with clients.

[@neosrdjan671]

There is RESURRECTION.. with right kind of a KNOWLEDGE. So... no time to lament. Learn and DO! Cheers!

[@dgrayman43]

@Sam Joseph you're not worthless bro. Shits rough out here. But anyone can improve it just takes work and the will to want to

[@julialagrone589]

I love how this guy makes girls sound like aliens from a different world with a different language 😂

[@franciscoaquino2259]

The_smol_introverted_ Bean ,....... Yeah!,... But it is true!,... all what he said!

[@sheldoncooper8199]

@hungry hungry Hippo They are.

[@agarrikr2996]

@@franciscoaquino2259 nop

[@CiCiLeathercraft]

Because they are

[@K3NB0T]

No cap bro.. NO cap.

[@TheRealTrimBrady]

I took your advice and now I am suspended from school

[@MrMetalFan101]

Lol, the line about bumping into someone at work and saying "Are you trying to seduce me?" is pretty much sexual harassment.

[@dzhk143]

It's not fr kids

[@Lucky-tm4ys]

@@MrMetalFan101 If you do it in a right way it isn't...

[@howmathematicianscreatemat9226]

You want to make us sad ?

[@howmathematicianscreatemat9226]

@@Lucky-tm4ys yes but it's a true art to be able to deliver it successfully

[@ContinualImprovement]

I want to become fluent in Womanese.

[@DavidElCid300]

Don't be a fool.

[@amirbargh3728]

DavidElCid300 stop being an ass

[@pgmallon]

Continual Improvement Be careful what you ask for!

[@DavidElCid300]

Play with fire, you get burnt. I'd much prefer to be an ass, then on the wrong end of a false accusation by a scorned woman.

The best way to get good at flirting (or anything really) is to just have fun with it... if you're in school there's going to be other girls in your class, if you're working there's going to be female coworkers and in a worst-case scenario, you at least have some friend that has a hot, younger sister. ;-) I must, however, remind you of Article 19 of the Bro Code "A Bro shall not sleep with another Bro's sister. However, a Bro shall not get angry if another Bro says, 'Dude, your sister'shot!'" but "flirting" is not "sleeping with", just remember where the line goes.

[@ThanosAnim]

After so many years of flirting and having heard any kind of advice, I ended to one and only conclusion. Guess what, just have the guts to go for it and then find what works for you best. I've seen brutally direct players being extremely successful and the opposite. Which means the trick is to do what fits best to your type and personality and do not try to copy others or take advice like this for granted. Thanks for the effort though.

[@broccolinyu911]

from my own personal experience and research, a majority of what he's saying is true. Sure, there are different strokes for different folks, but how long do they last? the problem is most people don't understand our natural biology as human beings. especially the dominant-submissive dynamic that is ingrained into most men and women. And believe me, it goes well beyond just "sexual"

[@dannycorreia8750]

Kachu you sound like you know what you’re doing i need to get better at flirting, i know I can do it I’m not ugly I’ve got a good body I just don’t know how to talk to girls

[@broccolinyu911]

@@dannycorreia8750 lets just say it's a matter of first improving your own social skills and humor. if you're interested

[@Jackgritty28]

@@broccolinyu911 social skills matter,subtle and indirectly,don't be so direct,flirting will make you feel excited❕

[@proudClorox_consumer]

@@Jackgritty28 or u can mix direct with indirect

[@Phil_Trujeque]

I no longer flirt with women without my attorney present.

[@theeternalnightmare2630]

Witty guy 😂

[@medicinekeysformrcps5025]

😂

[@henryedeh5944]

Why?

[@ZoeyMauve]

Hilarious! I think I'm gonna follow that advice

[@HYPETIZE10]

😭

[@Zoltar1811]

So womanese is this on duolingo

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[@c0pyca113]

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[@pythios8982]

Lol nice one

[@Leuthen57]

He-hello lmao

[@sehall5031]

I wish

[@uvweyweydiogenes2424]

When I look back to high school after watching these videos, I can help but to kick myself in the ass. All the missed opportunities that I had no idea were right there

[@ericmcdonough6771]

Nineteen-Eighty two Rampage pussy

[@viciousvigilante4985]

Nineteen-Eighty two Rampage its bullshit, i know.

[@diritakaifritz1669]

i thought I'm the only one who realised that ..😆😆

[@lordvader1672]

I'm having the same issue and I'm in high school right now

[@brownbri1983]

I always wondered why they think Id have sex with someone who cant communicate in a healthy nonambiguous way

[@PookieRay123]

"Wow, you really look like someone who wants their toes sucked". - works everytime

[@nekotfarmer]

It's 2 years later... Does this still work?

[@earth_is_a_prison]

Neko T. Farmer I think it got patched In the new coronavirus update

[@eb1508]

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[@whoispluto]

Wow look at how the moon is shining on your toes 😍

[@johnanonymous7873]

Kind of like when you tell them you look like a girl that loves Getting it in the butt. It works every time.

[@carlwilhelm2307]

5:37 "Wow... Nice bracelet!" "...I bet you say that to every girl..." "Only the ones with bracelets."

[@Leon-yi4mu]

This is what i was thinking

[@rnell1472]

Cha cha real smooth

[@bigidiot1400]

Ur better than the guy telling us

[@sammassey5587]

Lmao 😂 😂

[@marc-andremartineau443]

You just answer : but i never told a Women before.

[@pkd5849]

Interviewer: So why do you think you should get this job? Me: I’m fluent in womenese Interviewer: You’re hired

[@ThorOdinson1269]

"Are you trying to hire me?" *winks at the interviewer*

[@barnabasnsowa4118]

​​@@ThorOdinson1269 this has made me giggle,I bet It can work like magic😅

[@TheHellBoy05]

Basically, master the art of insinuation. Hit the right amount of vagueness and specificity to let her imagination run wild and let her do her own thinking. Women much rather believe she is loved by what she guesses than what she sees

[@rafik159]

One of the best youtube channels I've ever encountered. The tips are so handy, logic and natural.

[@Dunqqq]

50 sec in i realize im dead AF inside

[@johnallen9917]

I'm dead inside to!

[@hahahhaha3425]

I feel u

[@DrLx-dy2nk]

I think we all agree with the fact that you are in the top 3 man's advice channel on KZbin. Personally, you are my favorite! Your channel is full of useful information, the graphics are good for those who need more visuals for learning and later recalling, but we don't need to watch the video actually, it's perfectly enough if we just listen to it, just like an audiobook! Amazing! So yeah... Your channel is really Far From Average

[@mav1877]

This guy knows his stuff. I didn't think about it that in such a systematic way. Good advice and I will use it more consciously now.

[@ballerstatus8170]

Ayyye bro, I appreciate all the advice you put out here, you help me out a lot, definitely a lot of good tips I don’t think about!

[@reyforapps5414]

Girl: “I love Skirts” Me: “Skirts are not really for me. I have tried them a few times, and it just doesn’t work!” Girls usually laugh

[@Mark-xw5yt]

And me just now (laughed)

[@bulidrians2182]

Nigga you gay.

[@Mark-xw5yt]

@@bulidrians2182 but it didn't work

[@veervg6066]

Or walk away...

[@markusnoble5866]

Or you could say "Me, not so much. I don't really have the thighs for it." Lol

[@alghoulaj7172]

I'm dead inside!

[@huysavage6883]

mouth to mouth with a girl will revive you

[@alghoulaj7172]

Huy Savage That's if I'll be lucky enough to have a girlfriend....

[@alghoulaj7172]

Awesome Car Hehe, good luck... I'd be the luckiest guy on earth if I find a girl that doesn't find me repulsive...

[@sydtysken1785]

me 2

[@elaxel1469]

youre not alone

[@allcatsaregods2043]

Do this. Be yourself, keep making efforts to improve yourself and do it for you, move forward in a positive and productive fashion. Lose the Ego, hate and addiction, don't care about what anybody thinks, only what you think, you make you. You create your own reality, don't let others dictate it. Be connected to your highest self spiritually. Do all this and you will be unstoppable, unflappable and a legend in the making!!!

[@henryobele7053]

ye

[@Masterpiece65]

The great advice I’ve ever seen thanks you may God blessing you

[@angrysealion2259]

This video is so helpful because it gives a lot of examples. That's something that I don't get enough of from videos of this channel.

[@fallingin7173]

That flattering and the end of the video is so effective, it's like I have to like the video by order

[@octane2344]

Great video. Learned subtle speaking is normal to girls. And also the components of flirting was good too. I never thought about exaggeration as normal to girls talking but I see it now. Also becoming the prize was a great trip. So if you make yourself seem soft or weak from the outset, you don't make yourself "the prize". Good tip

[@tigerx36]

Eddie Allen My guess is chest out, feel strong, go get some. That's how you become the prize.

[@dragonswordmountain2908]

+Eddie Allen I learned Womanese through Disney Channel hahaha. "The Suite Life on Deck" show. Dylan Sprouse: Hey, would you like some apple juice from your dear friend that you gave 5 bucks two days ago? Debby Ryan: That reminds me...you owe me 5 bucks pay up or kiss up. Dylan Sprouse: I think i prefer the latter option, how you want it, sweet or dirty. Debby Ryan: Apple juice please. Dylan Sprouse: You know you want it sweetie. Debby Ryan: You are too cute as well.

[@josephercastor8026]

Yeah, they act dumb but really they're sneaky speaking in code. And if you don't know she could be doing it with other guys n saying it was nothing. I've seen conversations where my gf did it w a guy we knew and I was curious if this indirect stuff is a thing. Now I know what his responses were really saying to her

[@JetBlackThreat]

Happy new Years Buddy - great year of work

[@dclipz1689]

You the man bro. Keep doing these videos, they're appreciated

[@froyeo8608]

One of the best channels on youtube in this area. Thank you.

[@QuestingVistas]

why didn't we get to learn this language at school instead of idk any regular subject...

[@djpluggerandminecrafter9010]

Instead of spanish

[@gamers279]

I know that ought to be

[@NateGotJokes]

Supposed to be learned organically

[@shawnjbray]

This is one of the greatest tips I have gotten, from anyone besides my father. I thank you man

[@daynightart6648]

Omg this video is legendary! Thank you for making this. I have gotten really good at speaking womanese.

[@XalphYT]

This is the first explanation of flirting that I have ever understood. Thank you!

[@Timotheus157]

Saying it without saying it is the key. The only exception is the expression "I love you", which is vitamins to a girl's soul.

[@timothyn4699]

it's not like I like you or anything. B...baka!

[@hodeneofficial]

3 keys to flirting: Exaggeration Subtle comunication Becoming the prize

[@brownbri1983]

He is telling you to lie. 90% of people cant be a prize

[@bartunthegreat2999]

This video is actually a lot more helpful than the previous ones.

[@Sigmanovar]

I feel like a Egyptian pharo listening to this video,thank man,keep up the good work!

[@leo_misha]

Best summary of flirting and also one of the best videos, no doubt about it. :)

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I love how far dating advice has come on KZbin over the last ten years. No more “product to be sold” IE Those Carlos Xuma and that Jake twit who wrote the Tao of Badass which you had to buy and was ultimately utterly useless. I’m incredibly happy this day has come.

[@masong4756]

Your the best every night before I sleep I must watch 3 videos...I love the way u explain and break down the points much love bro✌🏾

[@davidross9365]

Has anyone read the "Attraction King" by Matt Birdy? I see no one talking about it but I have read it and I think its one of the best book written on dating and flirting. Would love to discuss this with fellow readers :)

[@mikelitorous5570]

Haven’t read it but what are the basics

[@lostboy8214]

Thanks for the heads up! I'll check it out.

[@42flyingphish]

You have piqued my curiosity good sir, care to intrigue us more

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No. If you need a gimmick, well Im not interested

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If it was so good why are you here?

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ye

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u got that from hercules

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You didnt quote hercules

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Show me a video of him saying that or it didn't happen

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Subbed since 20k. You are the man.

[@YouMockMe]

I normally only watch these to get into the "mind set" before I'm out the door....but way to go. This was actually a good one

[@zdtgbnkopljiygdrwasadgjlot6565]

I just realized that I speak womanese to my guy friends and I'm straight-forward with my girlfriend. Is this why my parents think I'm gay?

[@shannonforrester1704]

Zdtgbnkopljiygdrwas Adgjloteq yes. Switch it up, be fun with both!

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[@theremixer4582]

Girl : I love skirts Guy: I like girls without skirts on...

[@lordvader1672]

Lol

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🤣😂🤣🤣

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What I can't understand is how I can be such a great creative writer. Yet, have been completely oblivious to how blunt I am in person! Around 3:35 or, when you were explaining things in poker terms or the story telling I had a massive realization. So thank you!

[@ThorOdinson1269]

Same G, same

[@WhoWhereTheBee]

Very useful video. Here's an example: I you are walking or driving along with your girlfriend, or with someone with whom you just started dating, and suddenly you approach a "love motel" or a similar place and out of nowhere she asks "would that place be too expensive?", she is actually telling you that she would like to go in there with you. (This happened to me, I was dating her for a couple of weeks and didn't actually know how she went with certain topics so I didn't catch the drift at that moment... wanted to shoot myself in the foot later)

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You have no idea how much this video has helped me

[@teawrld5976]

Bravo, bravo!! this is the best information i found about flirting thank you very much sir.

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Thank you making these videos, I watched your Alpha Male Videos as well as the girl related videos and my life has changed SO MUCH. I used to get shit on all the time but now thanks to you im the alpha and always am able to claim what i desire. THX

[@DrewOnTwo304]

This video "be indirect because it's the way girls talk to each other and she will understand it" last video I watched " be direct because that's masculine and will make her more attracted to you"

[@marc-andremartineau443]

That's two school of thought. Being direct is indeed Masculine. So is fighting and being blunt. Which can be turn ons or big turn off, it depends on the girls, be direct when not flirting with her, interacting around her with other people, but when you get your flirt on with her switch to being indirect, shell understand whats going on, seeing you much more in control than you actually are, and as a bonus, if you're not so good at it, at this point you still have the benefice of the doubt about your "true masculine self" just overflowing on your game. Win-win.

[@DrewOnTwo304]

@@marc-andremartineau443 that actually makes a lot of sense, thanks

[@marc-andremartineau443]

@@DrewOnTwo304 hey you're welcome man!

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[@judeemeka6300]

You 've been watching too many videos mate... Lol

[@xteel1176]

I can't believe it....this is actually helpful...he pointed out flaws in my approach...

[@jackwalker1822]

Your channel makes a lot of sense. Giving me things to improve on.

[@emotionalsupport]

i never knew i was such a flirt it just comes naturally to me... i actually feel bad for those who arent good at it

[@centergaming5055]

To be honest, I know a lot of fluent Womanese speakers. This is a lot better approach to flirting than other videos. 👍

[@DonRamiro1]

best video yet. thanks, FFA. when I'm down, you help bring me up just that much and give me hope. If I could give you a bottle of tequila from my town in Mexico (Atotonilco el Alto), I most certainly would

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your channel is amazing!! how come you still don't have 1MILLION subs??

[@howmathematicianscreatemat9226]

It takes courage to admit to oneself one needs help

[@kenputer56]

I love women but not female nature .

[@CaptainAdmiralMango]

Sexbots, my dudes

[@ShadowBanned1234]

It’s because we allowed them to get that way.

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[@alphonsusho8962]

Why can't they just be straight up forward, always so hard to tell if they real or not. Lol had to deal with a friend situation where is gf said she didn't care if he did something and so he did it, and she got real mad

[@johnallen9917]

@@alphonsusho8962 I so totally agree with you. It's almost not worth it anymore. Fake or Real??? You just never know!!!!!

[@vincereed9634]

I find it interesting that certain parts of these videos seem highly accurate to what I have learned in my own experiences.

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Wow, what an interesting video! You are the best!

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“Yeah, I play Xbox all the time, what about you?” 😂😂😂😂

[@howmathematicianscreatemat9226]

That's honest and authentic. Women often say they want that...

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Thanks for examples. It's easier to understand what you mean. Keep up good work.👍

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this man is powerful bro !😭😭😭🤌🏻🔥

[@FloridaBikeVlogger]

good stuff. I''ve been told I am very direct. I get it now

[@jqualls7901]

David Corey me too & I feel like a God damn idiot!!!

[@gusgus1217]

Girl: How old are you? Guy (flirting): Old enough to piss off your dad, not too old to be your dad. XD

[@theeternalnightmare2630]

I me gusta 😂

[@marc-andremartineau443]

Omfg thats great hahahaha

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I have have watched 2 videos and I love this man already

[@edislavtrenev8278]

This is a great video sir. Thank you, really enjoy it!

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Can never do this without the right C-O-N-F-I-D-E-N-C-E

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Kris Ablaza then get some lol

[@finnchiss1948]

If u been to the boys locker room i think u would realize that it's not the guys who are the bland ones...

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Great videos, FarFromAverage! Keep it up! They are helpful!

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I've never seen a channel i've liked on youtube as much as yours. You should post more videos on how to succeed in business.

[@donx2341]

I like how the moonlight is glowing on your lips! Lmao! Some girls love that blunt talk though... it all boils down to place & time... that’s it!

[@amosdeanludwig3135]

I think I might be a chick....

[@chickengiraffe4473]

its called being an insecure little bitch who doesn't take chances (holds eye contact with a playful voice)

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soyboy

[@elpollo7079]

Dean Ludwig WE HAVE A SOYBOY HERE

[@brocku0]

Christofer Serrano lmao

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Dean Ludwig I'm sry but you should visit the nearest doctor

[@codeblooded6760]

Plz make a video only on flirting with sense of humour and give more examples like these. Those flirting lines were amazing!!

[@krisgilkison4007]

& thank u for all the great info! It truly helps!

[@tigerx36]

I've talked to so many girls in my age group growing up and never knew about 'womanese'. Maybe that's why I never get anywhere despite not losing my edge. I don't think I've ever exaggerated myself. I mean, I've had rumors I was a player in my school days, but never attempted it. Maybe if I can crack a joke, that'd help a bit. I need to have that mentality that I'm the prize. Eye contact and smooth talk, got it. Maybe a little support from my fellow guys.

[@irvintuumalo6406]

Quentin Ellis my man !

[@itsomar855]

Any more tips for the girl to like you more

[@pvaz]

Quentin Ellis I was like that till I was 15. Stop making friends with girls, that means talk to them, show your interest, if they don’t byte in a couple of days move on to the next. Also don’t start with the hottest girl, get experience with ones that are interested in hooking up. Then if they pursue and you’re not interested be polite, say you loved their company, but you’re don’t feel ready for a serious commitment at this point in your life.

[@riazadam4347]

Tiger X

[@malachi9427]

aye let me tell you exaggeration works good

[@OneNiftyBoi]

"Hey this popcorn tastes really old and stale, want to kiss me now?"

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I love your Videos! More power to You👏🏻

[@Chico21_]

Not every tricks work on every girls but, all girls love flirting..thank you man ❤

[@mpmomentum-d5o]

Damn I wasn't flirting my whole life

[@snorribjarnason8408]

Oohh!! Now i get it!

[@tigerx36]

Snorri Bjarnason Yeah, it took me a while, but I think I understand their language. When I talked to them on a regular basis, I didn't know about it.

[@sixstringstak]

Great insight brother!!

[@Arjun-ne3zu]

Thank You, Far From Average you always make the point of how to do it and it works, Thank you so much.

[@elaxel1469]

Your videos are very interesting ultimately

[@anonymous7247]

I laughed a bit when he said as you know “girls just want to have fun”🤣🤣

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Some say that you've trained the guy in "Lie to me" and he called you Senseï. Keep up n°1 channel for me

[@manh-haimuller6027]

Wow this was pretty useful. Thanx 😎

[@antonbyebajraktaraj1349]

Definition of Flirting is basically just showing a woman trough your subtle behaviour that you have somewhat a sexual attraction for her. You can do this with eye contact, light touching, teasing her with a sense of humor while being able to laugh at yourself too and just having fun conversations overall. Thats all it is but you gotta be confident in yourself while doing the flirting otherwise its gonna be akward for her cause she then thinks you are doubting yourself and have no experience flirting with women or getting chicks in general. Just be yourself every guy flirts differently just like every girl does too so don‘t get intimidaded by women when they start flirting with you. They like it and want you to join to potentially escalate to more things afterwards so if your flirting and she is too your already half in. After a while you get better at it and then the successes with women will come along. Practice makes perfect. And if you don‘t know how to flirt cause you never did it before just start by talking to women casually like women at work, school, sport clubs, gyms and if you get comfortable you realize how easy it is. You just gotta learn not to be nervous thats a turn off. If youre nervous just talking to her normaly how do you wanna be confident in bed with her(touching, kissing, sex etc). She needs to be the nervous one who gets dominated by you and guided cause you are the leader which is gonna make her nervousness go away so she feels confident around you.

[@jacobspaulding9970]

You have to first love yourself and be happy with who you are!! Otherwise you'll never be what a woman wants or needs. Be yourself and focus on bettering your own life because that's attractive and will make women want your attention.

[@Alecuba97]

Yeah, it does work, I used the knowledge gathered by this video & now I'm dating the most gorgeous woman I have known. I'm very greatful

[@beverlyjoshua4987]

Please continue giving in depth wisdom thank you

[@Pro-habits]

Master of Womanese

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This one will have a million views.

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I love this channel

[@curtsoulonline]

This is so god damn true. I stumbled across this technique while in my late teens. So glad I did haha