Father’s Day Drama With My Dad!

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[@dawnhanson992]

You should feel so proud of yourself! You handled this difficult situation with grace and maturity. Your mother did a fantastic job raising you! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜🖤🤎🤍🧁🧁🧁

[@margieostervig3479]

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[@msbee5183]

My mother was my father. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@jennymarais8782]

You're such a breath of fresh air.....stop feeling guilt...which you've had no control over. You've a very good heart.

[@Sheshe1973]

That’s wonderful! Your mom is so supportive ❤

[@jennymarais8782]

Your Mother is an amazing woman❤ please treasure that!!

[@margieostervig3479]

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[@MtlGirl]

You will never regret this moment Sebastian. Parents aren't perfect but your mother is an amazing mother. You will look back on this day and be so happy you gave it a chance. ❤God bless all of you, healing to you all.

[@2getherWeAreWAND]

My dad doesn't claim me and knowing what I know now I am grateful for this! You're so prescious dear sweet brother, your mom loves you no matter what!

[@saramaldonado1732]

Dear Sebastian…through your forgiveness, grace and humility you have shown your father that your Mama raised a fantaboulous human. Forgiveness and the willingness to extend an olive branch to your father speaks volume. I’m so proud of you. Your friend ❤

[@trawlins396]

Exactly. You can live with forgiveness or you can live with regret.

[@mariahdrouillard4427]

I like how you are only looking forward and not back

[@plumberofamerica]

That's a very mature way of handling this and is a real testament to how well your mother raised you❤

[@wildberrygarden]

Oh wow I am so touched by all of this, many of us have difficult relationships with family members and it can be hard but you have such a healthy attitude.

[@brittanytidwell1754]

Your mother raised such a good man. She’s obviously a good and selfless woman. ❤

[@Kala99999]

So proud of you, bestie! You handled that very well and your mom did such a good job raising you ❤

[@margieostervig3479]

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[@natalierickett1302]

Love your beautiful support and devotion for your mom. You are passionate like me when it comes to our mothers. Love it!

[@BiffanyRN]

I only met my father 4 times after he left when I was 6 months old. I 100% understand your feelings and you are valid. I am so happy for you and the relationship you have with your mom. Blessings best friend

[@perfumetherapie]

….I’m not even done watching yet…YES!!!! You went!!!! I knew your mom would have given you that advice!! You are an amazing son and an amazing person…because of HER!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤

[@margieostervig3479]

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[@michellethompson9674]

Your mother is awesome. She raised you well. I’m glad you went and happy you got to show your father how your mom raised you to be a caring, loyal, loving individual. I guess you showed him.

[@margieostervig3479]

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[@umadbro6359]

I cant wrap my mind around how some so called religious people treat others. Nothing religious about abandoning your children. God bless your mother who knows what it is to be a parent ❤ i hope you can mend your relationship and i hope he takes this second chance seriously bestie ❤

[@LeesaDeeee]

You're mom loves YOU more then her dislike for him... U celebrate her.... whenever u want ...Just because it's Monday...hope he appreciates ur efforts 🥰 just such an emotional story...SHOW OFF UR MOMMAS WORK 🥹

[@nildakovacs-colon5892]

I love you so much y Andy está contigo. Te admiro por ser tan raw y real. Gracias por compartir tus sentimientos y por ser vulnerable con nosotros. Eres una flor 🌹 y brindas tanta luz en este mundo. Eres un hijo ejemplar y da alegría al saber que disfrutaste estar en Colombia 🇨🇴 con tu mamá y que es lo ÚNICO que importa como ha sido mamá Y papá. Eres perfecto como eres!!!!! I LOVE your mother’s position and advice. She is right. You have the right to give yourSELF the opportunity to give him and yourself the chance to compartir. Incredible experience for you to show your father who you are and who is your darling mother!!!! ❤❤❤❤ 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@lyndatewell4604]

Sebastian, you handled the lunch with your Dad PERFECTLY, with grace and maturity. Your Mom is an amazing woman, and she raised an amazing son. ❤

[@Angela-o1j2b]

Sebastian, must have been emotionally exhausting for a few days!? Trusting the lunch was relaxing all the same! 🌻

[@Paul-oj2ze]

I knew your mom would do what she did I told you that in the last post ! She is an amazing woman and that light shined when I saw you guys together ! So happy it went well and yes God works in mysterious ways and always for the good! Grace and peace to you and your family! ❤️✝️🙏🏿

[@tammywolf3189]

That's wonderful I am so proud of you and your mother did an amazing job raising you with the kind and loving heart you have

[@cathneary6135]

Ooh glad it went okay for you! Excellent advice from the momma, it seems a bit like fate that you are there at this time!

[@tawn2009]

Aw Sebastian. Thank you for sharing your life with us. I'm glad that you spoke with your Mom. I know she is so proud of you. Your Mom nurtured & raised you to be a wonderful person. What you told your father was truly amazing. Big hugs & Kisses to your Wonderful Mommy & you.❤❤❤❤🫂🫂

[@peaches2012]

Sebastian, watched this with my daughter, she agrees with you. A dad who wasn't there when you were growing up but now does, has to earn the name "Dad", You call dad who raised you even if it's your mom or a step dad..

[@drdogbarker3830]

The videos you've done about your father are the most authentic you have ever done. It's a very deep rooted, emotional situation to deal with. I wish you well.

[@PaulaAviles-t9u]

I’m so happy for you Sebastian ❤ you do best for you❤❤❤

[@naomenpards1547]

P. S bestie , thank you so much for sharing as it helps others like myself personally. I don't even care what you talk about on your channel, I'm here for you🥰🥰

[@nichollebraspennickx943]

That’s so sweet… he’s such a ray of light… this world needs hope and light and positivity… and now I’m crying thinking of Sebastian’s mom… what an angel…

[@lisanyhlen457]

Love that you gave your "father" a chance. You handled it so well! Your bio father saw what he missed without you. 😊✌❤

[@DamienWilliams-re5hy]

I love your attitude. Such grace. You’re an asset to the human race ❤️❤️❤️

[@theuncatchablelizard8495]

Wowsers that’s a lot to process and deal with…imho you did an amazing job (kudos to your gorgeous mumma!). This stuff is not easy to navigate-we never have the page in the manual-but…it’s better to regret something you HAVE done, rather than something you haven’t. The universe lined up these opportunities and you’ve grabbed them and run with it…once in a lifetime chances. Be in the present and enjoy the times with him. Life is short and chances like this may never come again xxx

[@margieostervig3479]

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[@nichollebraspennickx943]

It’s obvious you are blessed with a beautiful soul for a mom….

[@marisolfigueroa5905]

SUCH A SWEETHEART AND I AM SO HAPPY THAT YOU DECIDED TO GO TO THE LUNCH AND TALK WITH YOUR FATHER. YOUR MOTHER HAS DONE A BEAUTIFUL JOB RAISING YOU. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS.😘♥️

[@maxbird9500]

Thank you for sharing such a personal story. Your mom has a beautiful heart and you took after that right from her. I am happy for you that this reunion has turned to be a positive experience and you wouldn’t have a regret to move on to whatever the future brings. Sending you many hugs for your emotional past couple of days ❤

[@tinachristine7966]

Your so respectful and have a beautiful heart !! ❤❤❤

[@lynnnakita58]

Kudos to all the single Mom and Dads out there raising their kids by themselves 🙏😊. Love how u love and respect your Mom 🧜🏻‍♀️ you handled your situation with maturity … Your a star 🌟

[@dorothymcnerney4347]

So proud of you best friend 😢

[@naomenpards1547]

I'm so glad you went for your sake. Tu mamá es una gran mujer and gave you the best advice as a loving mom🩷🩷.

[@greceelhaddad130]

You are so humble so sensitive and so polite all that because your mom raised you very well and taught you the good manners and not to have a grudges. Respect to her

[@Jazzie654]

Sebastian you’re such a wonderful person, i absolutely love your outlook on this situation. 🫶you’re the best.

[@sherryyates2016]

Way to go my friend!!! I too have a similar situation but sadly it was a lot more complex & me & my father don't speak, but not from me not trying!!! I'm so glad you got your closure & there's still time for you . DON'T EVER FEEL BAD OR GUILTY, remember It wasn't you it was him... I luv u my friend ❤❤❤ still would luv to see you do a video with your husband 😊😊😊

[@lann2bme7516]

❤💜💗💙👋☀️🌞🙏🙏🙏

[@rebeccabader4928]

You moved me to tears what sweet affirmation you gave to your mother for the credit you gave to her. I’m so proud of you as a mother myself you handled that with such class wish I could give you a hug love hearing the updates. We have your back we love you, best friend.

[@melissam-m883]

You're Mom is so awesome and so is Andy (who I love he helped me thru Covid when he was in the car). The 2 people who are so close to you know you best and gave you the best advice. Your Mom walks on the path of Christ and it shows with her advices. So happy everything went well and you were able to express your true feelings and he accepted!❤

[@Shardashian]

So happy for you... ❤❤❤❤

[@theashholee]

First off I wanna start out with saying how amazing your mother is in general, but for her to be so encouraging to you, even though she does not have good things to say about your father, I think that’s beautiful. AND I think you are amazing for taking that on. I know that was not an easy decision for you at all but as one of your followers, I am very proud of you! And I’m sure your beautiful momma is too 💗

[@eagles1161]

Beautiful story. This can help so many others who are in the same predicament

[@endless_summer_rose]

I'm so happy you went! Your mother has her space! One day you andnyour fathernwill talk about the past , you will both cry and you'll be happy!

[@StephanieGelling-Wollenhaupt]

Enjoy your visit tomorrow with your dad. Time will tell regarding the future but I have this feeling he missed you too and has many regrets!!

[@kathyherman7079]

I think you did the right thing ❤

[@summertownley4986]

Oh best friend, I'm crying at my desk. I am so proud of you. Sending you love and healing vibes!

[@theuncatchablelizard8495]

It’s so nice to see all the compliments to Mumma Sebastian…I know it makes my heart sing when people say I have done a good job with my own kids…goodness knows it’s not always easy but as Mummas we try Our hardest! ❤

[@jojo2226]

I can’t tell you how much I love this video. I am old enough to be your Mom, and I have struggled with this exact same thing the good part of my life. I have held a grudge, and lived in the past for much too long. After listening to your powerful message, it really made me think. I realize now I’m ready to just move forward with him, and embrace what the future holds for my Dad and myself. Thank you Sebastian ❤

[@pamelamatheis5698]

Sounds like things went well. Good for you! The more you see him and the more you talk with him will make things get a little more easier each time.

[@MissJIF]

Remember the world is full of people who will be there for you consistently, who come find you and care for you. They are the ones to treasure.

[@angelinaking5014]

WOOOOOOW what a beautiful story and beginning to hopefully many years of good memories so happy for you. I think God is bringing you two together for a reason

[@kathyolney4083]

As long as it's positive for you, you did what you wanted and in the end...it is your life. So glad you had a great day!! It's great that you spoke with mom and didn't we know she would advise you to go. She knows you want to find that real father thing, not being negative to whoever has been there for you. You both seem to be working towards a good relationship!! Just enjoy life to the fullest!!💫

[@ticklishaura1]

Your mom is so wise. I’m so impressed by you at all times Sebastian. Bravo to you and your mom❤

[@luxurylifela2068]

Sebastian you handled this beautifully. I’m sure your mom is so proud of the son she raised. My own father didn’t really know his father. His parents stayed legally married but separated when he was 3. Growing up, he went through so much and had so many responsibilities beyond his years. He only met his father again briefly before he passed away. After his father passed, he met so many of his cousins who grew up with his dad as their father figure. His dad played such a big role in their lives. My father was silenced and berated when he’d say his father had never been the man to him that he was to them. The whole situation made my dad bitter and angry in a way he never really got over. I know how much it means that you can treat your father like this while still approaching it honestly and openly. I understand the strength it takes and the love and security your mom must have provided to make this possible.

[@lisahorstman1797]

Your a great person ❤

[@nasramsingh9978]

Continue on this journey of healing When it’s gone it’s gone never to reclaim So this is life and the healing is also for your father and you should grasp all these moments Make beautiful memories You are on your way to greatness

[@jennifernimmo9531]

So glad you shared your story with us Sebastian! I was adopted but raised by my step dad mostly who passed away when I was 16. I don’t have anything to do with my adopted dad and I have a rocky relationship with my adopted dad.

[@nichollebraspennickx943]

I love how you know yourself and stick up for yourself… I am just learning this in my 50s… boundaries boo! Internal and external boundaries! Healing? You are an amazing soul…. And I look up to you and respect you for how you handled this… “her work” and your self…. Your expression of your self… “quite frankly… you were not missed… “or needed… don’t need to go to the past.. wow….

[@kookie-ci3ni]

Sebastian, a mother's heart is so big and each mother knows her child to the deepest part of their heart. I am a single mother to a son as well. Even though your mother is everything to you, she knows that your heart still needs healing and she supports that. Yes those days of a young boy are over. Now your father sees you as a grown man and has to earn that respect and love. It doesn't happen over night. God put you there this week for the future steps you and your father will take. You set your boundary with him already. In your best JLo..this is me NOW. Hugs and best wishes to you ❤️

[@thewildmustangisfast]

I am happy that you went to that lunch. You now can have closure for all these years, when he wasn’t there for you. You cannot believe how many people are in your shoes.❤I have a mother as yours. God bless our mothers❤❤❤❤

[@michellemoreno72]

You are such an amazing role model. Your grace shines through and gives me motivation to heal and move forward with my issues. Your mother is an inspiration and please let her know that her grace shines through in an abundance. She did an amazing job raising you and it take a lot of maturity to put others first above your feelings. The advice she gave you was so heartwarming. 💕

[@ytuser392]

Wow Sebastian great news! So glad to hear that you went to the lunch and it was a positive experience! ❤ I know from myself that these situations can be super tough, lunches and dinners together also on father's day (or other occasions), it can be triggering for someone who never had a dad and you handling this calmly and being able to participate and stay positive is not obvious at all! 🌷❤

[@iloveyourvideos7730]

I’m so proud of you Sebastian he spoke truth, and you should be damn proud of yourself and proud that you stood up for your mother because she was your everything and she always will be mother’s love can never be taken or somebody on it. Mother and mother God bless you and your mama.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@GiGi-lg1dl]

Great job, SeBestie! 👏🏻 I don’t know if you partake in therapy, but you did what I counsel my clients to think. The past can’t be changed. I love that you got to show your dad what a wonderful person he missed out on. 💜 You’re following your open heart. Selena would be proud!

[@jp70468]

I am so glad you had this experience. I was never able to do the same as he passed away before I was able to have the maturity to do so.

[@Evelyn-yw3yy]

I think it's great that you give the fathers day to your mom.She deserves it.He had four other children let them celebrate fathers Day with him. That's what's real. Maybe you will developed a relationship with your dad from here. Do what is real.Not what you think the right thing is . The right thing is to keep your mom first. Like she keeps you first.

[@calmlani]

So interesting, I am actually in a similar place in my life. Great job on following your personal guidance or intuition. That went a whole lot better than I thought. This was a beautiful and healing moment! So incredibly happy for you and your father.

[@TheIcecaps]

You have a GREAT Mom she raised a Great man

[@KathleenBarrow-gh2ey]

My Father's bday was 6/15....( Many Fathers Days fell on his bday). Extra Day to Celebrate. I am so happy to have found your page and seeing you make this big step forward in Life with an open Heart. Its beautiful. I pray it goes well. Hopefully, youll never have a disappointment from that Man again. But shield your sweet Heart. It could one day happen again....Hopefully never but I am Glad you have your Hubby and sweet Mom no matter what! ❤

[@trawlins396]

Ask yourself how you'd feel if you woke up tomorrow morning and you got a call saying "Your father passed away last night". How you think you would feel will tell you a lot. If you think you'd have even an ounce of regret, keep trying to maintain a relationship. My father passed in 2015 of a sudden cardiac arrest. He had never been sick. It was SUDDEN. I was going to call him that night but I was sleepy and thought id put it off until morning. But that morning never came. Living with regret is the worst thing. Tomorrow isnt promised to anyone. Your mother sounds like a wise woman.

[@Ivan-0000]

Happy you got this healing moment Sebastian, blessings

[@ash_wed111]

Thanks for sharing bestie! It really helps me not feel so alone. Everyone always wishes happy father's day and it's beautiful to celebrate the ones we love but family relationships can be complex and complicated. I also don't want to be bitter and resentful so I want to accept my father the way he is right now and if loving him means loving from afar, so be it. All we can focus is on what we can control and be grateful for what we do have instead of wishing things were different or "better." Love your channel!!! You're so relatable, kind, funny, and beautiful inside and out! ❤❤❤

[@dvp5094]

That was beautiful what you said to your father. ❤ Blessings. 🙏🏻

[@deanamoody8027]

Follow your heart ❤️ but trust your instincts God Bless 🙏🙏❤️❤️

[@dedehe7582]

Hello bestie, I’m so glad that you got a chance to show your dad that he missed out on a wonderful human being that he helped create....... his loss

[@cyndinelson8700]

Yes 👏 im so proud as a non Catholic I know forgiveness is a large part of your religion. As your dad I would’ve thought it was a non- issue. This a good life lesson of thought of family4 us

[@jamilinck6762]

I am so happy for you! You handled it perfectly!!! Cheers to you being the bigger person!

[@frederiquedebeer6669]

very well done bestie, God is showing you the best way to heal and you are listening ! ❤ much blessings for you !!

[@dafccmoran]

Great job! You handled it well and he saw your mom's product and I'm sure he's pretty content with the results.

[@mtnewman2001]

Sebastian, I am so happy that you spent with your father .

[@Toltecgrl]

You are such a good person. I know your Dad sees already that you are a good person and positive vibes to you to continue a future with your father. ❤And your mother is a good person to put you first above herself even though she doesn’t like him lol

[@deedeebeads]

Your super sweet Sebastian Soto. I like watching ppl evolve into good people. Congratulations on your achievement in life ❤

[@saracastillo9309]

Good for you Sebastian ❤ You did it and had some type of closure, forgiveness and chance to move forward with no regrets. So much love to you and your family 💕❤️‍🩹😘❤️

[@debbiec7116]

Ugh, stop making me cry lol. I think the universe is telling you both its time to heal and that is amazing. So many never get that chance. So happy to hear you both are getting to spend time with each other and to heal. Im sure he needs that as much as you do. Props again to your amazing mom for guiding you in all of this. 🤗🤗🤗🤗💞💞💞💞

[@NicksSloth]

Deep and real 😂😂😂😂

[@CarlyFaith15]

Your wise and loving mother raised you to be wise and loving. That's why you're so beautiful. 🩷

[@sherylmayo1]

I’m so happy for you & proud of you Your Mom just wants the best for you & supports you in everything ❤ glad you spent time with you father & siblings

[@Ima-Diamond]

I’m so glad you went. New chapter, ❤

[@RenataSalma-bv5zi]

Sebastian so proud of you❤❤❤ you did how you feel and that is the right thing for you,,your mother is a big,great person,,love you❤❤

[@dinatrevino5201]

Awesome,,,I'm sure it was healing for him also,,an a great start for the future in getting to know each other,,,🎉, it was meant to be ❤

[@deshaebraun3962]

I was so late to your video about the lunch. I wanted to give you advice. I’m so glad you talked to your mom. She said to you what I would have told my children. I love the relationship you have with her. I hope you go on to have a better relationship with your donor.

[@sincitygiggles13]

Good on you❤️Sebastian! To be bitter is like drinking poison yet waiting for the other person to die.

[@Birgitta123]

You really wowed me(wow) with your good heart❤ I am so happy for you that you met your father,you guys could talk and last but not least that you put up your boundaries and stood your ground! Im so proud of you 🥰

[@rebeccaperez1589]

Awwwwww's made me cry .you mom is special ❤

[@janicew8338]

Thank you for sharing. ♥️