Fatherhood Unfiltered I With Abel, Phil, Njugush and Newson.

Since Mumbus can't join us today, we're back with another Fatherhood Roundtable. On set we have our awesome dads - Njugush, Phill, Newson, and our one and only Daddy Abel - to share their unique experiences, healing Childhood Wounds to Build Better Dads..
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God Bless You!

[@mrwakili254]

Lakin hii friendship tunaomba ikue ya forever 🤜🏿🤛🏿

[@ABlessing479]

Amen Amen Amen.

[@johnpaulbenedict]

@@ABlessing479 kuna mtu mmoja anafaa kua hapo lakini hayuko na imeniuma sana kwa roho. na sijui nifanye nini

[@ABlessing479]

@johnpaulbenedict Sure, but very soon, the Lord will come through for him .

[@mrwakili254]

@@johnpaulbenedict kama n butita he couldn't relate hii conversation but tunamtaftia bibi shosho yake alisema by force by faya😂😂

[@commentator254]

Mi na Phil mzae was the same mpaka saa hii I still doubt kama kuna vitu naeza fanya manze but luckily am getting my confidence up lately. Always learn from such convos as a young dad. Love this video Judy. Thumbs up😊

[@bimkurugenzi]

Thaaankyou!!

[@lindahmutua687]

😊😊

[@lindahmutua687]

​@@bimkurugenzi😊😊😊 QQ

[@maryngocho6838]

@bimkurugenzi this is an awesome interview. Relevant for all times.

[@simonkarechu5538]

Njugush makes even the sad parts sound hilarious 😂😂😂

[@muthoni_]

I know i wasn't supposed to laugh but yoh!

[@bettyvivi8335]

It's sad but vile anaisema inakaa funny😂😂😂

[@kikenyilydiah6721]

The love Philip has for the son❤

[@lohwonder5485]

Haki... How I wish they were still together with Cate

[@mukamiwanjiku4024]

Petition to make this team a show 👏❤️💯 I have enjoyed the whole show😍

[@agirlyouhavetoknow4125]

Its beautiful to know that this generation is filled with intentional fathers actively breaking parental traumas

[@wangarikariuki3192]

Wangari here, raising a nine year old boy , ive loved the conversation, and the realness. I'm here to the end of the conversation, ive loved what Abel has said about as a woman i can't be everything for my son, and i am grateful to God for teaching me this early on in my mothering journey. It's true, take up the role of making a date with a son and engaging them .

[@bimkurugenzi]

Would you like to share your motherhood journey ?

[@wangarikariuki3192]

@@bimkurugenzi yes I'd love to Judy.

[@bettynganga9303]

Yaaani I just leave this conversation..... I'm just 18 and I'm already learning how to approach life... Vitu hadi wazae wangu hawajawai nishow manzee you guys just inspire me .. ..

[@bimkurugenzi]

Thankyou!!

[@shirogitari3641]

This is why I love this team ,and i can tell rising boys as single mum ,not easy but we try our best. Keep it up bi.mkuru team and philitv as large ❣

[@lydiaakoth8761]

Always learning in such conversations we need to have more of this.Good job Judy

[@lwandomweetwa2908]

I can relate to Tim's story,mzae alikuja Kenya to study as a pastor hapo machakos kwa kina Abel...the struggle ya kuwa in a foreign country 🇿🇲 kwa masomo and having wasee kuwashikilia maze will forever be in my heart.Wakenya walishikilia familia yetu in so many ways.For that reason me ni mkurugenzi and Kenyan at heart daima❤️

[@lohwonder5485]

Phil is the father of the year❤

[@lucymurage6654]

Judy as always, a great show. What I love about your shows is that they teach, help us know that our experiences are more or else the same and most importantly, you come up with ways in which to help the wider society. I love the idea of mentoring boys and helping mums who are rearing them. Be blessed.

[@bimkurugenzi]

Thaaankyou!

[@almonnykumu]

Judy i love how you ask these questions because very composed, intelligent and i pra y to God I get an intentional Father to my kids like my dad was to us.....This circle really really inspires me

[@nyamburakimani3726]

Abel Mutua ,good job am 34yrs old and to date I have never heard my Dad shout at my mum ever

[@mwalimuabel]

I love the way this guys are intentional in their parenting. God bless you guys

[@charitywanjohi884]

The show is Awesome. I take notes through such conversations. The guyz are REAL. Keep up

[@nancymwangi3943]

I love the authenticity in this convo. Well done Judy. The suggestion by Mkuru to bring mothers of sons is wonderful

[@waganaliz7479]

I've finally watched this conversation...thanks Bi Mkurugenzi... it has evoked a lot of emotions😢😢 coz some (actually almost all) childhood situations are relatable. It's amazing all has healed from their childhood now but what I've not picked up from THE FATHER WOUND is how they healed (The Healing Journey), the steps they took. Like did it take a therapy, a good friend or what else.

[@victoriamuriuki6316]

Newson is under the right mentorship

[@teresiamungai7602]

Aaaaaw Paulo, the dad we all need. God bless him

[@kiarie_tochter586]

The questions Judy get to ask are so deep, real and mature 📌💯.... I'm questioning myself the same and figure out deep things that I couldn't think of😊 I love this❤❤❤

[@bimkurugenzi]

Thaaankyou!

[@welliqphotography1447]

Phil, I totally uderstand you, i can relate, when you say 'am not good enough'

[@MissMungai7]

Ahaaa,Njugush …my dad was a drunkard and he later died,,,fast forward to words that always get into my nerves when my granny tells me that your father was a drunkard and he left you with nothing…I hate to say those words are soo deep such that I work myself out and to say that I am now in U.K. pushing my nursing career and afraid of dating and getting kids… Such a lovely conversation

[@ritaroggs]

Yur story is my story. Drunkard absent dad. Lost him n here I am.in Usa dng nursing too.

[@MissMungai7]

@@ritaroggswe will change the stories in our own families

[@ritaroggs]

@@MissMungai7 ameeeen ameeen...in JMN!!! Cheers

[@annesam3671]

More grace, may God bless the work of your hands guys

[@millykayy9449]

Buana Iam a female with daddy issues since childhood...he was abusive, kutupiga kunitusi,vit affected me hadi wa leo....im still struggling with self esteem issues, iam 24, built my life and im happy naprogress well , nilijipeleka outside country and skuizi ni beshteangu mbaiyaaaa, but najua ananitumia juu ni pesa tu ananiomba , we don't talk, and hes never asked for forgiveness. Although nilimsomea, he felt guilty. I reminded him of all the insults and everything he ever did to me....i hated men halg of my life, but now i saw my siblings happily married snd i started processing everything differently. I got to understand that not all mem are or will be like my Dad. I almost ruined my life because of him, nikiwa form 3 i gave up, became so laid back, nikidhani naumiza mzae kufail exam but it was my life i was ruining kumbe ..i realized that when i was 22😂 after amenididown . Nikaamua kuishi kuijenga life kisolo from scratch ... it's been 2 years now.... going great 😃

[@berylallando]

This is an enlightening conversation😊 Thank you Judy for hosting and setting it up🤗 👏👏👏👏👏Gentlemen, keep soaring! 😂😂😂😂😂The humor beautifully punctuated the conversation.

[@symokawaru8805]

This is one of my best forum.. i wish it can be regular because for us raising kids we get more tips. kudos

[@maryngocho6838]

Phil; Abel; Njugush and Newson are all great Fathers in their own right

[@wambuimwangi6082]

I have really enjoyed this conversation. I am currently a mum of two boys expecting my third boy next month and let me tell you my husband has really taught my boys to be young men. Those rough games making them walk to the kinyozi by themselves and come back home with the proper change. Doing manual work with them my 8 year old and 6 year old have been toughened by their dad. If I did not have him they would surely be soap soap boys

[@bimkurugenzi]

Wow! This is inspiring ! Thumbs up to your hubby!

[@esthermaina9172]

Proud of all for fathers for choosing to be present fathers .intentional fathers . Learning from your childhood and being intentional to be different.

[@keziahwanjiku6560]

A bunch of very wise, funny and mature men in their own ways. Really enjoyed this episode ❤ Well done fahers and thank Judy for hosting them

[@bimkurugenzi]

Thankyou for watching.

[@life_with_Glory]

what about a conversation among girls who didnt grow up with present dads i feel like we also have a story to tell but its so nice to hear what its like to have a dad. it was an emotional and amaizing show

[@MercyKendi-je5wd]

I have laugh lines on my face cause I have been smiling all through the show. This is such a beautiful convo. Thanks Judy☺

[@bimkurugenzi]

Thankyou for watching.

[@judithmandere955]

I am a single mom.. listening to @abel mutua ama what he is today I know my son can be who I know he can

[@MaggieKahbuu]

😂😂I have laughed so hard. Wuuueh. We need part 3

[@watchNLearn393]

You are lucky guys at the end of it all you have something to show for your hard work. Some of us are still struggling no matter the effort they have put. Thank your God.

[@kandieeunice8452]

Nice Convo..so let me talk about something unique Single dad's...well I was raised up by a very present ..loving and strict dad..together with 2 boys and dads driver so I was the only girl ...he was so intentional about Education he partitioned part of sitting room and made a library reading newspapers and books daily was Mandatory..( he was an educational officer) when the hse help wasn't around he would cook ugali..and taught us how to cook mboga ...going to sunday school was mandatory...sadly when I was doing my KCPE in 2010 he died but he used to tell me to promise him that I will go to Alliance that was his desire and few weeks before he died he came to my school..took me out for a lunch date..bought me new glasses and made me promise him that I will go to Alliance.I worked so hard to go be called to his dream school.by God's grace I was called to Alliance but sadly I couldn't go so I gave my letter to a neighbour ..but still went thru highchool now doing my masters in Europe...

[@danielmwaura3547]

Iko love

[@bimkurugenzi]

Wow! May his soul rest in peace. He is so proud of you from up there.

[@morrynqueenel7539]

Woiye

[@monicawairimu2156]

Such an interesting conversation! I love the intentionality that comes from your stories of fatherhood and parenting. Bless up to this powerful team!

[@morrenewambui3312]

Kimani always in his character 😅😅😅,,,great great conversation 😍😍

[@bluxxfamilytv]

Umenotice ukidouble tap comment unalike try it uone😊😊

[@IvyJonnes]

How about hosting show ya young mothers',,,

[@faithshiko5228]

Healthy fathers is a win

[@bimkurugenzi]

A huge win.

[@dorankerubo8878]

Never got to finish this Convo to the end, now that I have my son has no present Dad but I'll give the exact lessons Mkuru was given. I love his genuine answers

[@damahdaves6446]

woooow..mom Mumbus thanks for this conversation.. it's so educative,fun and just the best ❤❤❤ kudos ✌️ to more of these

[@ndirangurukwaro254]

Well done Bi Mkurugenzi and the high value men!👍🏿These are the types of conversations that should dominate the content we are consuming in our society. These guys are a huge beacon of light! Keep up the good work guys!

[@bimkurugenzi]

Thaankyou!

[@mewa1659]

I will always be back to say Phil thank you for being a dad to your son and always acknowledging him..that melts my heart..Bless you! Judy i wll never get tired of listening to these men..they are awesome!

[@bimkurugenzi]

Thaaankyou!!

[@aggasheri06]

Very thoughtful conversation, i like how all of you have decided to be present and be different to your families. Judy be blessed for allowing this men to speak out its brings out the a generation that will challenge genz.

[@debrawanjiku6087]

I pray for a healthy environment, caring and loving dad for my kids 🙏🏽

[@pisaliteenterprises2751]

As a parenting enthusiast who advocates for intentional parenting, I love this conversation. All parents now should pass here and of-course I can pinpoint 1,2 things of what my own parents were/did.

[@reginahwaithira8684]

Eeeish Mama Mumbus you look amazing, so beautiful ❤️💃💃loving the conversation

[@bimkurugenzi]

Thankyou!

[@ttanufaith763]

The conversation about boy mums is very much needed

[@mercymutindi6665]

Yeah many would really benefit from this conversation.

[@thesmokychef]

Many lessons learnt here 💪🏿💪🏿thanks for this continuation❤❤❤

[@SageQuotes33]

An awesome convo that should not be halted. I celebrate you'all for taking the most important job in the world seriously.👏👏👏. I'm a single mum to a 8 yr old boy and I'm afraid that most of us are smothering our sons and I would love to have one of you as a mentor to my son.

[@dorothygacheri4724]

In the same shoes

[@patriciahngendo1399]

Me too I'm in the same shoes..my son is 9 yrs old I really need a father figure in his life ...I'm afraid of failing as a parent ...I can't keep up with him

[@itsamadidi]

Nice convo, can't regret the time I spent watching this nice piece. Kindly create a playlist for Fatherhood, and also bring on board single fathers

[@gracewahura5987]

I wish all parents could listen to this

[@rachaelchirindo1645]

This is so good judy I'm a mother of one and I'm learning alot through this.... I never saw my dad he died when I was two years and I understand the pain of living without a father. God bless you abundantly

[@bimkurugenzi]

Thankyou! God bless you too.

[@belindahnjeri]

My God help the fathers-to-be become as intention as this great men on the set❤

[@bimkurugenzi]

Amen.

[@cynthianzomo6132]

Wueeee 😂😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉that was an amaizing conversation Judy, can't wait for more ❤❤

[@bilhahnjeri6427]

Wow great men n wonderful conversations bring them more often we are learning a lot

[@jennifer-hx5wg]

The shock from Judy when Njugush said ," am a slow eater" and we all know he is "Mr Ma-speed"😹😹😹😹😹😹

[@denisngetich2509]

High risk high return..Newson God gave you the real gentlemen.Most of us out here we wish to have sometimes with those guys you have.

[@mumleina0179]

Learning in every episode,😊 much love mama Mumbus❤😊

[@mercykanini9994]

I've learnt a lot from this episode.. Also kids raised by single parents and how that affected their current life

[@maryannndichu1470]

Aki kimani... *nalima mbwa* ha haaa

[@AnnMureithi-zu3nu]

Super dads and great conversation inspiration to many.

[@GULFGISTyvonne]

Big up to all present dads .i have been raised by a single mum,in form 2 I was kinda adapted by another family(not legal adaption) where the dad is very present it feels nice also the brother to mum plays the role of been a father to me but I can say I still feel the gap cause yes they are there but not fully like the way your own dad would have been there💯but i appreciate the fact that they try there best to be a present dad in my life

[@lizankatha4205]

I'm a single mum to a 8year old boy. Luckily I have a brother that teaches him the man stuff. I have learned to keep quiet when they are in it because sometimes I want to intervene ... So grateful!! Because it so easy to baby a child (a boy child) as a mother

[@pauline2604]

Please allow Them Back more often ❤❤

[@Qatmpendwa]

amazing, congratulations fathers. you are doing great. God bless you

[@Andrew_Mwinga]

Educative, informative and Inspiring. I like the fact that Abel has recognized we have a lot of feminine men in the streets that needs help

[@cynthiawambui3980]

I looove love love these people..nice conversation

[@LexMuchira]

Kama kuna mtu huwa ananiinspire as a single mum struggling to bring up a kid in hard economic times, ni Njugush...his parents are iconic... people you can look upto. Thanks Judy for such sessions.

[@johnnjuguna4785]

Taking notes. Very insightful conversation.

[@samsonkuriairungu5189]

Hi guys, I have really enjoyed our conversation. You have made me see the importance of a farmer I am a father who is working in Qatar my son was born while I was in Qatar he’s two years nowI have never seen him and I desire to see him and even bond with him I’ve not been able to go home because of some few finances issues

[@bimkurugenzi]

Everything will work out. You are doing great!

[@nyashmdogo2192]

Good stuff. God bless.

[@douglastories]

i neverb get enough of njugush

[@annfavoured6155]

Same to me

[@nasselianmwende]

Abel and Philip was my favorite actor kwa tahidi high citizen tv ❤❤ vibes wanakuanga nazo it's on another level njungush always smiling 😂😂😂 those three gentlemen are the best Big up 💖

[@MercyBlessed-lh8jt]

Very inspiring ,,,nice one Judy.

[@esthermaina9172]

Good job judy this is much needed

[@samsonmbiu]

Njugush being Iconic from time 1: 12 :00 he brought it up comically left me in stitches 😅 had to repeat that part severally

[@esthermaina9172]

Abel mutua just the first sentence of this show How you said you knew you would be a present father. Thats amazing

[@mwendemutuku6630]

Wueh moms of boys tunaumia wueh.. We need more intentional men in society. You guys are doing great and may God bless you guys more and more. Barikiweni sana. Y’all are truly appreciated….

[@mutheu24]

I love this.. amazing conversation ❤

[@marybirech4858]

❤❤ I love your content. Keep the inspiration going.

[@kelvinwachira2678]

I really love u wakurugenzi. Abel I love ur stories sana.

[@JanetMuthoki-zs4ip]

They are very inspiring stories😊

[@genvivechemutai3674]

Abel is just a proof that God really exist 😊I wish him more prosperity coz he deserves

[@wanjiruannecate1035]

This is beautiful I've learnt so much.

[@CarolineWKanene]

Hey Judy, This is really an eye opening and educative discussion.. I have definitely learnt a lot from it.. For the mums raising boys I would definitely suggest my sister, she's a mum of a 20 year old and based on our upbringing; amazing job!

[@bimkurugenzi]

Please reach me at [e-mail]

[@juniorraphael7]

Woow! these guys make an hour feel like a minute! 🙌🏾😂 Njugush naye spare our ribs 😂😅🤣 Gang gang 💪🏾

[@catherinegitau7086]

Judy t,these was a powerful session thanks alot , lessons are many.

[@bimkurugenzi]

Thankyou for watching.

[@AnnetWangari-ux6jc]

Very educative conversation 👌

[@jeffreactions]

This was time well spent!

[@cynthiamwikali8780]

Amaizing conversation ❤

[@bimkurugenzi]

Thankyou for watching.

[@charlesnjeru4205]

Good job. That was Deep

[@wangariirene2370]

I love this...newson my school mate...you motivate alot guys

[@charitynyakeruma8494]

Kumbe mnaweza kuwa serious. I love the conversation and the seriousness you have put in your families.

[@johnmacharia-ep6xf]

As an expectant dad an learning alot..thnks BMkuru

[@mumbimwaura1]

Thanks Judy for bringing to them again and may God bless them for sacrificing their time to come...aki pls warudi tena na tena we're learning a lot from them

[@teresiamungai7602]

This was amazing to watch. You guys are all amazing ❤

[@bimkurugenzi]

Thankyou!

[@elsiechoge9456]

It’s great to see fathers in art parent differently and have their own personal experiences that can positively influence the child’s future if they choose art. Art has been seen as a useless career for a long time which is contrary to the truth. Kudos to these dads