They Were Staring At The Autistic Girl | Fathering Autism Vlog #71

[@jessamonet2634]

"Abbie put your shoes on now" Abbie: >.> "Make me"

[@jillybean6]

Jessa Monet that look so said that

[@vickiyoung5651]

i would not laugh at her bad behaviors

[@TheErren]

I like that u guys keep us updated on your son. Its pretty cool that you guys do a full on family thing here its not just all abby. I know this is a channel about parenting someone who is different but its pretty cool that you guys present it as this is just how the family works and that leaves it open to whatever you guys wanna post. KZbin recommended one of your videos to me and so thats how i ended up here. Even though in my daily life i dont deal with anyone who has autism i do deal with some other things. Watching you guys helps give me some perspective and seeing how loving you are as you raise your kids is inspiring.

[@boricua4483]

i love, at the end where abbie's listening to the music. it's like she has a picture of the music in her head and she's playing it out live for us to see.

[@jayshey5151]

yall are so cute it hurts.. " you need a hug?" "yeah" bless her heart

[@AudretteMaxineMusic]

Seeing the love and patience you have for your daughter is so amazing. I love your Channel! She is so lucky to have you all as family.

[@ajimenez1719ify]

I love that you guys have patience. No matter what kind of day Abbie is having, you always have patience with her. I dont know how you do it but, it's awesome.

[@redtarka]

Abbie's facial expressions in the restaurant were so funny!

[@zariahgoodwithbabydolliesf1663]

RedTarka stimming is what Abbie does when she’s excited

[@kwaktak]

I love how she did "air drums" and snapped her fingers when she put the headphones on! My 13yo son is "percussive".

[@RedK5]

Maddie Ray what's that?

[@redtiger8189]

It's Camp I Am Special, for everyone asking. I love Abbie's hair.

[@slynnw4386]

I'm not sure how I got to your vlogs, but they popped up on my homepage and here we are. You truly have an amazing family. The patience you have with Abby and your dedication is commendable beyond words. I love watching your videos and seeing the different things you do and how you handle situations. I cant speak for everyone, but you've definitely opened my eyes to the reality of autism. You guys are awesome and Abby is so sweet!

[@tammyduke2504]

As a kid, I can remember my parents sending me off to Muscular Dystrophy Association Camp. It was the most amazing week of my life each year. Mom worried herself sick and I was having a blast!! ❤

[@PianoDisneygal10]

You guys are the freaking best at packing for things like this! You know that you can't expect those caring for your child to know everything about what she needs to the extent that you do, so you do your best to help them out! I encourage all parents to do something like this.

[@Tay7WonderDog]

Those safari animals were cool. The deer were beautiful! Oh my gosh! I totally pack in ziploc bags and label everything also! It just makes packing so much easier. Especially if you are going somewhere for several days, just having outfits labeled for each day and in separate bags is so helpful

[@hayweb866]

The amount of emotion your daughter shows floors me every time , I work in a school for autistic children in the UK and these last term I’ve been working with a girl whose family hVe chosen ABA. Without these videos my progress would be slower and less personalised . I thank u for putting your life online for so many reasons. Wishing love and blessings from England xx

[@marissatroia4928]

You guys are amazing parents! Very impressed with your patience and positivity

[@leah6820-y9v]

I love the look on her face when you're telling her to put on her shoes. Also that moment when she leaves the cart. I love your videos.

[@paultye7004]

My friends boy who I have on weekends to give them a break is verbal and when we are out in public places he swears and is very inappropriate. People stare and comment under their breath. Lots of people seem to think life is Walt Disney well it’s so not and stop pretending. Your channel is so refreshing and the more people who can understand beauty lies within in perfection the better. Thankyou so much. Paul UK.

[@Dayna75]

Aww, Priscilla crying broke my heart💔 This was a sweet video💗

[@fifteenq9102]

I laughed and smiled so much through this video BECAUSE I can relate so much “given up on parenting” - when you were left in target with raised hands stRing in disbelief oh good Lord I had tears (so me). For a young person to be a buddy for a week for someone with such significant needs is such an admirable thing to take on and I have (although I’ve never met them) the utmost respect for them - big time. I wish we had such a system. Abi is such a cute, smart girl. You keep posting and I’ll keep smiling Warmest regards from the UK

[@kaitlinc892]

That little snarling face she makes during the show argument is like my favorite expression of hers It shows so much attitude😂❤️ glad to see some things are the same for all children

[@lindsayschultz3816]

You are both excellent rolemodels for how to stay calm and collected when a situation arises. I have given your channel to some of my students who want to get into special education. They love it too. Thank you for sharing your lives with us

[@amypearsall]

I am a special education paraeducator; Abby brought a smile to my face when she was so clearly happy listening to music in the store.

[@reginaross-schmid9174]

Happy anniversary Maverick!!!!! And to the two of you. Keep doing what your doing. These videos are great and I do love that you guys get the not so pretty side of autism as well. It's an emotional journey and sometimes you just needs to cry. hugs to you both!

[@joanmcgilton5148]

I seen a sign one time I don’t remember where I seen it but it said. Flappy hands are happy hands.

[@daviedarling]

As a camp counsellor who worked a lot one on one with kids with special needs, those outfit bags are genius! Definitely would have made my life a bit easier sometimes!

[@ssb753]

Love when she was shaking head no No shoes yes she always listens to dad Made me smile

[@KarlaAkins1]

I about died the first time I sent the twins to camp. It was so hard. But you guys deserve time alone! ENJOY IT!

[@fatheringautism]

+Karla Akins Oh I know! I almost told Priscilla to turn around and go home the first year.

[@kaylamcfetridge1548]

Priscilla could seriously be someone I could hang out with! I totally feel ya girl! You are constantly making me laugh hysterically and I cry just like that lol!! 💕

[@jayceesanchez4226]

I am so glad you put the awareness of rude staring behaviors. Everyone should see your channel to understand the realistic lives of families with disability

[@connormacleod7010]

My sister is a paramedic in California and she knows how to work with children that has special needs thank you for sharing your daily experience

[@1Life2Live007]

Heck you made me nervous! Lol 😂 aww Pricilla! Such a sweetheart. She needs to go to bed. 😂 I love watching these old videos and seeing how far y’all have come how much y’all have grown. It’s such a blessing. I just watched a video of Pricilla doing her first makeup routine or something like that. Wow! Now she’s all into makeup! So awesome!

[@user-kr7df3tk9z]

Richmond VA here Used to work in an group home for kids with autism and the kids favorite trip was that safari. We’d go at least once a month. Some very funny experiences there

[@elysemedina662]

I’m seriously so in love with your family. Cutest family ever. Sending all of the love and support from Colorado. Abigail reminds me so much of my nephew and you guys are such an inspiration and full of wonderful ideas on how to better assist my nephew.

[@shygirlnow2011]

I'm going to miss seeing Abby. But, I can't wait to see the pix. This was such a good vlog. I will miss seeing you and Priscilla humorously chatting in the suv!

[@winter7186]

Maverick is such a pretty doggy!

[@kaceysmith947]

I work with toddlers everyday (and I know it’s not the same as your situation at all but...) my coworker and I deal with our kids taking their shoes off all the time and refusing to listen. What we have been trying is incorporating it into our routine. For example we’ll say that they can keep their shoes off for a few stories or a certain amount of time or give them rewards for putting their shoes back on. I completely understand that it’s not the same thing as having a child with special needs but that’s what works for me! Just a thought! I discovered your channel maybe a week ago and have fell in love with your processes and your mindset on the situation! Keep up the great work!!!!!

[@o.o4566]

Some of the best times I had as a kid was at camp. It's fun getting to decide your activities and experience new things at your own pace. Camp is contained so as a kid you feel free getting to pick if you're going to the craft hut or playground or to the lake but still in a safe environment. Sometimes just getting to choose that you're swimming in the lake verses going to the playground makes it more fun. My parents were very controlling and especially as I got older being controlled even in free time was really frustrating. (Also I think it's great that you let her go. I have friends with kids that have disabilities that are afraid to send their kids to camp even if it's one designed for kids with special needs.)

[@andybee1381]

It might just stimming, but I like to think she's just hardcore head banging to Journey.

[@amyrivers9381]

It looks like she is playing the drums as well.

[@boricua4483]

i love how, at like, 7:42 she gives that real quick teeth grit that wolverine gives to all the bad guys; to her dad. lol. it's like, "come on bub, bring it." so defiant sometimes. lol, i love u guys, love u abbs

[@lalalaptop33]

Abbie is so sassy! She has such a wonderful personality and way of communicating! 💖

[@katgarry836]

I'm addicted to your vlogs too🤷🏼‍♀️😁 I spend my mornings and late nights watching you guys. Sounds creepy🤣 LOVE WHAT YOU DO!

[@nerdykittykat1945]

I totally love Abby! Even though I have high functioning autism she is just so relatable to me. A lot of the stuff she does and how she does things is very similar to what I do/How I do things. Especially the similarity in stims we have which makes me feel less embarrassed about mine knowing that Im not alone. Such an amazing family,Please don't stop doing these videos...At least for awhile,I live for them :)

[@staypawsitive1002]

I love when she smiles, when she was smiling at the beats it gave me a warm feeling

[@alliebabydoll6280]

I just found your channel after feeling helpless and frustrated. I'm a 21 y/o mother , with 2 autistic , non verbal toddlers ( 3 & 4) My daughter is more progressed in her classic autism and she has combined sensory issues and ADHD. She gets so frustrated with being non verbal , that she literally just screams and is destructive 80% of her day. Watching your family makes me feel a lot more at ease, knowing I'm not the only one going through this. Is your daughter 100% non verbal? My children are in multiple therapies , but speech therapy hasn't helped them at all. My daughter can't even point to express her needs or wants, and it's a very helpless feeling , as a mother, nor being able to help or ease her child's screams. Any advice on how to stop her non stop screaming/wanting to be destructive is greatly appreciated!!!!!!

[@orangedazzle]

I'm not a mom, and I don't have much experience with children with autism, so I don't have any advice to give you. I wanted to comment anyway and tell you that you are doing a great job :) I have a friend who has two little ones who are only a year apart, I have seen how exhausting it can be. Just always remember that you know what's best for your babies and for your family. It shows such strength that you are honest with what you are feeling and reaching out for advice and help. You're a good mama and I wish all the best to you and your little ones.

[@prakticlej8677]

Allie Babydoll patience is a virtue seriously be patient as much as you possibly can it's very hard I know I have an 8 year old autistic son your not alone at all rocking the spectrum is another good channel stay strong and try to depict what makes them tick.

[@christinadaya9850]

I have a 5 year old daughter with autism. Two things have helped beyond belief in my experience: a gluten-free casein-free diet (and casein is dairy basically), and also probiotics. Give strong probiotics every single day. Since I started the diet and probiotics, my daughter has improved so much. She stopped grunting, started responding to her name, making eye contact, and talking some. Now she's still improving with her special ed preschool and she's starting to say two+ word sentences. But if I even forget one day of probiotics, her autistic behavior gets worse. She starts grunting again, gets frustrated easily, and so on. There's such a huge connection between the brain and the gut. It's crazy. But it's definitely worth the try. I've heard to try the diet, you should do it 100% for at least 6 months before making a decision. But I seen results right away. But I've also been told the younger the child when you start, the more impact it will make, and I caught it young with my daughter and put her on the diet right away. But yours are still young too, so give it a try. Good luck!!! 😊

[@saharnouri8110]

I have a autistic daughter. She is 6 1/2 now. She was nonverbal with all other symptoms of autism. She was very badly aggressive to herself. When I got the diagnose with 4 years I wanted a solution for her and for a better future for her. After long research and work with biomedical doctors I started the gaps diet. 3 weeks after the gaps diet she started to speak.today she has mild autism. Almost all symptoms gone. Because I started so early with a gut healing diet, detoxing her body and speech therapy and other therapies she is almost neurotypical now. autism will never But she can manage her life much better now. Autism starts the the mother is very toxic. It begins in the womb and if you have a autistic child start to heal yourself and detox you body before getting pregnant again. And get enough vitamins like vitamin b.

[@GaffGiraffe]

Your comment is toxic.

[@justicewillprevail1106]

I wish you guys live around my neighborhood so we can be friends. Bc you guys seem to be such easy going, friendly and with great sense of humor. Subscribed!

[@stephaniegrieve4519]

You are such amazing and wonderful parents. Your daughter is absolutely beautiful and your son is such a great big brother. You should be very proud of yourselves 😍

[@peetred]

I had never seen the hand stem until I started watching your videos. My 7 year old son is high functioning autistic and he does the hand stimming. and I just wanted to say thank you for all of your videos.

[@annedyal8088]

I'm kind of amazed at the support you've found in our community. I live in Neptune Beach, my daughter attends CSS at Mayport. She's 5 yrs old, now. She's been attending Mayport CSS since, 2015. There's only a couple of girls, with ASD, there. Certainly, none that are as young as my daughter. Also, my girl is NV/GDD/Echolaic/Classical ASD. I wish there was more support in the community, for little girls like my, Zoë. Maybe as parents we could figure out a way to create activities and groups for girls on the autism spectrum. Locally. There's a lot of families here, that would benefit.

[@orangedazzle]

One of my favorite things about this world is that no matter what, difference in language, ability, ethnicity, etc., all kids are the same in some ways. I'm sure every parent has had some version of the "get your (insert article of clothing here) back on" discussion lol.

[@zariahgoodwithbabydolliesf1663]

Abbie is amazing

[@daguardaguar9479]

Your videos are great. Abbies adorable and your family bond is great.

[@adamshattuck1985]

im aspergers. watching this you have the one thing that all humans should have, patience and true care. i know at times my mom still gives me hugs even when im down and as a 32 year old adult who lives on his own-it means alot.

[@wannabevegan565]

Abbie's laugh is a heavenly sound. She's like an angel.

[@alinesimon3330]

Camp is so exciting for parents that are 24/7 caregivers

[@codysmom4444]

you guys are simply the best....hugs to "Cilla"!

[@BeautyHairLife]

New sub. Enjoy the videos. My daughter has a spd and I feel is on the autistic spectrum even though not officially diagnosed. Your family is beautiful and really nice to see you guys bringing awareness.

[@dianeoliver9356]

Hello I've been enjoying your blog of your life with Abbie. You mentioned she is going to a catholic camp. I'm so excited for her. I would love to tell you our story with Asperger's syndrome with my nephew Adam who is 33 now. He is the joy of my life. Thank you for sharing her life and how it makes you closer as a family.

[@emilyross2732]

Hey guys! I know that you posted this vlog over a year ago but I am just watching it and had to write a comment. You said that Isaiah was in Virginia at a safari park and at Natural Bridge. I live a half hour away from there. So cool!

[@juliamartin4526]

The natural bridge safari park. We love that place. Not too far from us. The llamas love to spit and the emus are rude. 🤣🤣

[@christyncmom6463]

Happy gotcha day to Maverick!! Love all your videos!!

[@jodygillam8197]

Oh Priscilla you are so adoreable!!!! Such a beautiful Family.. I just started following you and I think I'm almost caught up!!!!! I'm Abby hooked!!!! I'm the Maass Family Fan!!!!

[@alexscaffidi8624]

Happy 4000 subscribers guys!!!!!!!

[@fatheringautism]

+alexandra scaffidi Thanks!

[@jennybridger]

I love the outfit ziplock bags! Such a great idea!

[@123hemangi1]

Your daughter is so beautiful and so adorable.

[@123hemangi1]

God bless her

[@tracymathews1839]

Love when Abbie is in Target & love the camp vlogs & the family vlogs i love too

[@gourmet2276]

I Abbie has an awesome time at camp.

[@joyfulbudgetingco]

Yes, you can usually go places like the container store and some college sites to get a packing list for what most kids need while staying in the the dorms at those colleges. No worries, it helped me with my daughter a ton. If you need help reach out I’ve sent 8 kids and have 5 more to go 😘

[@rebekahatchrimi241]

Abigail is hilarious..she's like if I can't throw them in the front then I'll just throw them in the back!!! hahahahaha I love her ❤❤❤ the deer were awesome...that ostrich would've had me freaking out...Isaiah is brave lol.

[@heidijd]

Lol “is there a packing list for college” 😁 yes where I went they did give a suggested list when you go to orientation

[@christinateresabrown]

Hearing you say Isaiah is 15 just blew my mind, I knew he was but something about when you said it out loud was just crazy to me because he's so mature for his age. I hope Abbie has a great time at camp, it sounds so nice, hopefully you and Priscilla have a nice relaxing vacation. So, I decided to try the THC CBD oil for myself so I could let you know how it was, well, the one with THC was way too intense for me, I felt even more anxiety on it and it did not help me sleep at all, it even gave me a migraine, I know everyone is different. I can smoke it with no issue but I've never been able to eat edibles and it felt the same way, I wouldn't give it to Jocelyn. Now the regular CBD oil with no THC is wonderful, it makes me feel very clear headed, and anxiety free, but it does not feel like a drug, I just feel very normal when I take it, that I would recommend although I can't really see it making a huge difference with autism, but who knows. For the Reg CBD I took a full dropper, for the THC one I took 1/4 of a dropper, that's how strong it is! 😳 Christina

[@karmarose6332]

The Forestas CBD is truly a miracle, I give it to my dog for her seizures. Cookie hasn't had a seizure in about 7 months...they need to just legalize it already so more testing can happen, I bet we are just at the tip of the iceberg with what it can do!

[@rachelgilmore5293]

I love your family Abbie is so adorable

[@katie2928]

If Abbie could speak with words I’m willing to bet $100 she would say “take a picture it will last longer.” Put your shoes on followed up with a matter of fact no to her dad. She is so sassy🤣🤣💕💕

[@bairdfamily5]

Hahahahahha the look on her face when you tell her to put her shoes on.

[@533134]

3 years later, the whole family goes to the safari in VA.

[@sportsmed1013]

You should make an hour long vlog

[@fatheringautism]

+SportsMed 101 Holy cow! To make a 20 min vlog I start with about 60 min of footage and edit it down. That would be a TON of video!

[@TheWackoGreenAlien]

FatheringAutism Your name, Asa Maass, is a pretty unusual name. What country is your name originated from?

[@bairdfamily5]

The Wacko Green alien I wondered too. Enlighten us Mr. Maass :)

[@service_poodles]

😂 oh goodness that face was hilarious

[@jimcarreyonline]

yes colleges do give packing lists. my daughters did anyway

[@smallcinema2010]

abbie will like the camp a lot!

[@TheJShiggs]

I love watching your vlog.....at the end there your wife had me crying!

[@staceyruwoldt9158]

Awwww that is the cutest dog ever 😍😍💕💕 That emu just driving in for the food 😂😂😂😂😂💜 I was killing myself laughing at that one, was so hilarious 😂💓 Abby dancing along to the music and laughing in the store that was so seeet 😍😍😍😊❤

[@staceyruwoldt9158]

*Sweet opps..* 💓💕

[@haylee989]

You guys are rock stars I hope she has fun!

[@tracymathews1839]

Love Abbie rockin out to Journey

[@christinagullotto7862]

you guys are so special. Love to you alllllllll

[@irelanddesm9079]

Why whenever she gets aggressive do they laugh ?

[@jamieharris3131]

Ireland Desm I wonder the same thing. It’s obvious she understands right from wrong.

[@megannicole8705]

I usually watch your videos on FB and I recently came here to watch the older vids. I couldn't be more happier, this is my favorite vid hands down. I love her defiance😂 I hate shoes too Abby!💕

[@sexc16ash]

Naw best of luck guys!!!! Awwww HAPPY ADOPTION DAY MAVERICK 🎉🎉🎉❤️❤️❤️ I love how happy Abbie was listening to the music. Did you open the flood gates of tears? Lol I do it all the time 😂🙈 My Annabelle stays overnight at her daycare teachers place once a week as I don't have respite in yet, I individually bag all her clothes for bedtime and the next day 😂 and pack her sensory favourites too.

[@lawrentw]

That safari is near my house! I live in VA. Y'all should all check it out. Lol. And then do a meet up. 😂

[@makidoko]

How precious is his defying stare at the restaurant. That's such an intense eye contact. Your baby girl will always be your baby girl, but don't forget she's now a teen, and autism, I think, don't spare from teen issues, coming from biological hormonal changes. BTW, I just admire you in your heavy duty as parents, you are doing good and always try to think about what's best for her. Right to this, I noticed one point : the "good girl", or "you're doing good". Why don't replace it by common gratification like "thank you"? For instance when she puts the pot back after you asked her to, which is just a normal thing, not a performance (even if it's for us to see her complying with such orders). It's more likely to insert her into the common communication mode. I think, it could be more valuable to make a difference between exercises, where you can say she's a good girl doing well, and the everyday life, which is not a training moment, and gets rules, and she can be thanked as everyone, when she simply follow the rules.

[@mariebarrett8774]

Awe Priscilla I'm crying for you....you are a beautiful couple so loving & supportive...x

[@ellegreen7541]

I get stared at when I'm having panic attack in public. It angers me and makes it worse but if I put myself in their shoes I mean they see someone flipping out and acting strange. It's natural for them to look to see if you're alright. People that secertly record you or laugh are another thing...

[@el_barjak8550]

I couldn't stop laughing when Abby threw her shoes at you in the car!!! The entire lunch segment made me laugh even harder!!!! Also how long does it take you to pack Abbie's stuff for camp? And does it stress you out to pack for camp (even the thought of it stresses me out!!)? p.s sorry for the random string of thoughts, i'm on full on ADHD brain!

[@Brynwyn123]

Eloise Barjak I started giggling like mad when you could just see her arm slowly reach down and throw them into the back seat afterwards!

[@alexisrivera1941]

What part did she throw the shoes..i hae been trying to find it

[@RedK5]

alexis rivera 4:29

[@Phil-og8fx]

You should make a video on all the equipment and software you use and show the process of how you edit your content

[@fatheringautism]

I think I will.

[@dianedizayee2439]

Abigail likely chooses her music because she likes the beat and/or the instrumental part.

[@xgamesrox]

My college gave me a packing list. Also a long list of prohibitive items like guns, microwaves, pets unless they're a fish. You know, the usual. I went to the Virginia Safari Park just a couple months ago. Did not feed the animals though. I was with my mom and my sister. My mom freaked out the whole time.

[@maranvazquez9982]

I love her she is adorable. I have a 12 year old girl with autism she is non verbal she is just like Abby . So blessed to fine your channel . I will be taking more advice from your channel. God bless your family.

[@v-ballwoman3808]

FatheringAutism, I used to be really loud too like Abbie back when I was a little girl, but it was not really rude for me too. 😊 Also, I sometimes cry with some sad tears when I go to an event that I feel uncomfortable when there's a lot of ppl that I don't know, or if it is too loud for me. 😮

[@adrianasala2780]

Abigail communicates really well with you two She does everything that's asked from her parents ❤️

[@Katiespreciousangelsreborns]

I about died when she just decided to turn and let the cart go you was like ummmmmm lol.so i have a question no disrespect in anyway but does she undwrstand everything you say?she is so adorable.❤

[@amberkay2776]

Most do understand everything.. It's not the input that is different than ours it's the output or communication that's different xoxo hope that helps

[@abbyalsop8689]

I have been looking for a Catholic based special ed camp! What is the organization called and where is it at? I would love to be a part of it

[@annamartin9840]

I honestly can’t get over her beauty. Her skin is so clear and beautiful while her hair suits her so well, and her face brings it all together in the most perfect way!

[@the7thwreck]

Lol! That look at 7:42 Oooo! The SASS!