Fatherless Men with Robert Kelly | Soder Podcast | EP 4

This episode Dan is joined by comedian Robert Kelly. Bobby had to skip his son's recital to record this episode. They talk about growing up fatherless men and how it impacted them over the years.
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[@DanSoder]

Dan is on the road! Get tickets @ www.dansoder.com/tour Royal Oak, MI | Dec 8th Atlanta | Dec 9th New Jersey | Dec 15 Philly | Dec 16 Boston | Feb 17 2024

[@ProducerKeylo]

Royal Oooooak 🖖🏼🤙🏼

[@jeremyblack9737]

Please bring Jacob on and give him a Nascar jacket. He will leave Jay in a heartbeat

[@Zozo-Revolta]

I got great seats. First time at royal oak theatre. Last time I came to your show was at the comedy castle.

[@aracnadei13]

Come to Dallas. I'll make Koolaid

[@a.k.4o]

Brother please flip that shelf behind your head the right way . Or I won't be able watch. My OCD won't allow it .

[@danielpenrodii2389]

Dan, we want Jacob as a guest. You know it, so just make it happen boo

[@aarontuplin]

We'll be having a party, man

[@steezycheezeyfries5930]

Agreeeeeeeeeeeeeèeeeeeed

[@tcomben]

Shout out foxhole

[@The_Masked_1der]

Yeah, and then I'll finally be able to convince my brother that Jacob is a real person, and not just another fictional character created for laughs on the bonfire.. he refuses to accept that Jacob isn't a bit!

[@Baylie_Brooks]

Second that, and he should wear his Pennzoil jacket.

[@robrock5724]

Jacob, Trish the Dish, golfer Deb, and Feld dog.... Dream guests I'm hoping to see soon

[@theramplocal]

Feldog will do the pod for an ad spot, or a McDonald's coupon.

[@buckley12341]

Please get jacob

[@shanestephens4728]

Feldog is going on tour with Limp Bizkit. Can’t fucking wait.

[@piffdat3877]

I'll do it

[@baxeto2595]

Jacob would be an epic podcast guest

[@jordancieslak6491]

My favorite thing about this podcast is the fact that Soder put that IKEA bookcase together and one of the shelves is backwards and his lazy ass just left it that way. Now it’s the main backdrop to his show 😂. Please never change Dan!

[@lynchtrammell1]

It was Katie, lol

[@drvenkman2380]

It drives me nuts

[@Eli_B3000]

He could literally just paint it white in under a minute so it doesn't show on camera.

[@TheDoucheMagouche]

Bobby Kelly sucks so much

[@livefire81]

Don't sleep on microphones falling apart, calling out edits he forgot to add in and people walking through the shot to leave the room. Dan's multi-faceted don't sell him short.

[@SupervoidCinema]

My dog always chills to Dan's voice, tilts his head and watches the screen.

[@aaroneusjames2342]

Lol!

[@privateca11er]

It’s Dan’s dog now

[@Lovlee33161]

Interesting

[@againstthegrain91]

Saw Soder at the Fully Loaded Tour this summer at Forest Hills Stadium. Genuinely had me crying. Soder and Attell smashed it.

[@chrismard]

Hell yeah. Sat in the pouring rain and it was totally cool.

[@againstthegrain91]

@@chrismard absolutely

[@chrismard]

It was also really cool to see Shane before his Netflix special dropped and now he's about to host SNL!

[@NoPreshNetwork]

THIS RULES!!!!

[@clevermissfox]

💔 I’m sure she was laughing at Bobby saying “I love you” because she found it sweet and endearing. Funny how we always believe the worst about ourselves

[@_..-.._..-.._]

Bobby's mom laughing at him playing with himself made me lose control from laughing so hard 😂 his position on the bed is the funniest part, legs wide, head back, eyes closed 😂😂😂

[@ThatTokenOne]

These short podcasts are great. The Soder Podcast is easily becoming one of my favorites.

[@cloudbloom]

Soder is a champion and a dreamer

[@theonetrueg]

You are absolutely crushing it so far, every episode has been a true banger

[@drm8245]

You know what dude? I like this.

[@devonjenkins6860]

Dude, me too dude!!

[@Bigolebungus]

it's pretty good, duuuuude!

[@barkevvv]

i was definitely one of the selfish naysayers that was bummed about the 30 min limit at first, but dan coming out bonus footage throughout the week instead of ten second clips that ive already seen is very refreshing HOWEVER, i don't like the way he says "who wants to hear me talk for an hour" sweet bb, i listened to you for two hours a day six years straight and was scrounging for any podcast you were a guest on since march people love you and the way you can make anyone laugh

[@shadowassasin]

What a great episode. It feels like a big circle. I learned about Bob kelly, Jim Norton, Patrice O Niel, and the cellar through O and A, and then gravitated more to each comic's material. Ate as much of it as i could, and then years later moved over to their own works and podcast. I then discovered the next generation of comics like Dan Soder, and am going through the same cycle again. Thank you for all you do for your fans. Your real the shit 🤙

[@davidperez5089]

Likewise first HBO specials, then tough crowd; stern, o and a, the bonfire & now ron and fez which has become my favorite.

[@karenamyx2205]

Dan Soder was also on O and A. You don't forget hearing that freakish voice on the radio.

[@MikePallat]

Dan, these episodes have been great. Can’t wait for the Mike McDaniel episode !

[@MJ-qh2su]

I love you guys. Thank you for sharing.

[@efraincastaneda6196]

My mom kept me away from my dad for 20 years. One day i told her i was going to look for him regardless of how mad she got and by the grace of god it was like i knew exactly where to drive, there was a bigger town next to mine and this house there kept pulling at me every time i passed it. Idk why that was the first place i went. I was sure enough it that my grandma was on my dad's side house , and i guess I remembered as a baby before my moms family kept me. My grandma hug me and told me that she always knew i was going to come looking for them. She called my dad over, and he's been my best friend ever since ❤😂 coolest dude on earth 🌎

[@Cannolikiller]

Shout out to the zoom on the Bobby face wipe. Floored me.

[@dubsessed9790]

Aww what a nice moment between Dan and Bobby at the end there. Just two dudes being bros

[@justinfournier3894]

Newfound joy to witness another episode. Big fan Dan keep it up you're the man

[@rachelcassandra9]

I love the LOVE in this episode. Two favorites. Emotional and real and funny.

[@santiagocamacho1077]

The last 5 minutes are amazing. Hell, the whole thing ruled. Love coming from Tucson!

[@ryancarr808]

Gonna go ahead and tell ya Dan, I literally love listening to your conversations unconditionally. Also just want to brag that I just bought my frineds and I 7 seats in Halifax to see QOTSA!!!! Keep it up big guy.

[@HOWBAZARY]

This could have gone for 24 hrs. Never gets old, this was great! Thanks brosefs

[@DrewKane]

33:45 - the sirens tripped me out because there are literally firetrucks driving down my street right now. I paused your video, and still heard sirens, then pressed play and realized the video actually DID have sirens and it's not the bowl I just smoked fucking with me.

[@littlewigglemonster7691]

Lol ive done shit like that so many time stoned 😂

[@robertjoughinsr.2412]

I am a broken kid... you both validated my reactions as a child. We are misfit toys that, found their way in life. My childhood was full of personal violence. Thank you for talking about the childhood, that I cannot! Much Love, Soder & Kelly!

[@johnnyrivers2519]

Listening to the reminiscences of some step parent hatred brought some memories back for me, and it was a good laugh. I love this

[@1ltcolphoto]

Dan, please never stop doing Macho Man. Any time I'm feeling a little down, I watch your Macho Man doing house chores bit... it's the surefire thing that always makes me laugh.

[@pearsequigley1092]

Single mum life, Love you guys, you are important for my day to day! I need the funny, you guys make it happen

[@jibba1681]

“Cbgb beating” 2:13 just made me laugh so hard on the toilet in this Panera bread public bathroom

[@r.zachhowell1009]

"Son's recital" are two words I've never heard together

[@tazman323]

I can’t get enough of you guys LETS GOOOOOOO

[@shutincinema4050]

Max is just becoming familiar in the eternal ways of Gary.

[@setulokavid7745]

it's a canon event

[@johnobrien7374]

Laughed harder in the first five minutes than I have in weeks at any other podcast, great stuff Dan and bobby hilarious as always 👍👍👍

[@Milo0099]

Listening to this on the way to Atlanta to see Dan tonight.

[@bheinatz1]

Another great episode; you and Bobby are always great together! Your friendship is so plain to see. Forget the haters, keep executing your vision. It's nice to have an easily consumed pod, that fits neatly into my day. Especially one that's jam packed with laughs and true emotions. You're doing it different than mostz and doing it really well!

[@badmotherfather]

There’s 200+ comments and 6 likes? Show Danny Sodes some god dam respect my guys. 🫡

[@whywouldyoueveraskforit2774]

Would love to see more of you both. The time kill comment is accurate. I love listening to Soder on the the way to work on pandora.

[@jacktheass9189]

Dan you are fucking amazing! So glad to get to watch and listen to you and the people who you want to chat with! This is a great pod! P.S. I hope Ari is guest sometime!

[@rjm6183]

this show is gonna rock as long as Soder is still kickin. Dude knows how to have fun. Keep it up, this shows awesome!

[@Hjaelteomslag]

I am a featherless man! My dad wouldn't stand for such frivolous decorations.

[@InspectorButters4]

"When the house is empty, it's time to make love"....... "wait, is that what u call beating off?!?!" 🤣🤣🤣 1min in and im already dying laughing lol, love this!!

[@TheMajor8478]

Damn Bob looks good. Killin it

[@againstthegrain91]

Seen Bobby a couple times live at different stages of his career. Always a killer

[@nameispatrick]

i like bobby and dan and i want to hear them talk about stuff

[@Mickey-ky9ew]

I love the 40 min; and I adore the possibility of the edited 20 being released after the fact, or as a teaser.

[@XPickle_RiiickX]

The wait is finally over!

[@BigShaneGillis]

Deeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwd Tiny sips dude

[@kvltvr6967]

I know you addressed this directly in the 'cast, but I'd love to see longer episodes! Love the show!

[@homelesspimp]

2 legends!!!! 🥂🥂🥂

[@footygrowsny]

As somebody who got into a fist fight with their dad at my soccer game at a military base, this was a refreshing episode.

[@davidperez5089]

How old were you?

[@footygrowsny]

@@davidperez5089 old enough to throw a sweet right hook

[@lordfordification]

Are you your own father?

[@raramcgee4982]

My dad subbed as the head coach for a game once. He just screamed attack the ball so loud and his halftime speech made the team cry. Fun times lmao

[@Downs-Indroam]

​@@davidperez5089No, he was 24... oldest person to ever go to his school after being held back 1 year in every grade, from grade 6 and up 😂

[@TommyNicoletti]

"And so is Max" Bobby is too good

[@ericbabe87]

I’m really loving what this pod is so far Dan. All these convos have been great.

[@jjsmomma2456]

Soder, we could never get tired of you. Bring on allll the content!

[@ThatTokenOne]

Damn. This episode hit hard. Crazy that we all have step dad stories.

[@IseetheEmmett]

Politely requesting Rick Glassman!! Awesome eps so far

[@desi4227]

😭😭😭 Got me at the end you bastards!!

[@robvarley3091]

Ive been down on most podcasts for months and honestly your show brought me right back in

[@BryceLK]

Hey, thanks for putting the dates on the screen during the read. I'm still fast-forwarding but still want to catch a show.

[@oliverwieie6069]

shane gillis and mark normand need to be on here at some point

[@DanSoder]

Mark drops soon!

[@HOWBAZARY]

Words 2 Live By: You have to let things Die so new things can be Born. Dan Soder

[@ashleymileschkowsky]

This might be my new favorite thing.

[@briant392]

Dan was incredible in Burlington. I recommend you all go see him if you can

[@grilledcheez8491]

Just finished the Regz now watching this, I might OD on Soder and Bobby today.

[@steezycheezeyfries5930]

Great episode can relate

[@Joeymccarthy29]

Easily best new pod of 2023

[@josecervantes9521]

We want longer eps Soder!

[@zeddy7458]

Bobby is the best! He makes every bit funnier

[@zeddy7458]

Hoping the mods don’t delete subtle sarcasm

[@greg1685]

Alan cries in a session like he's going for an Oscar. Keeps them 💰 coming back 😅

[@luciisaura]

This is great

[@lordfordification]

Damn Dan, sorry to hear about your sister. You guys really opened up on this one. I've lost everyone except my sister and my cousins. I had a great father l, and he died on my 19th birthday while I was in basic training at fort Benning. Trauma is trauma, though.

[@pmackowi]

God put Dan on this earth to inspire us to be the best we can be, brighten our day, and let us look at this White Chocolate Milk Dud with a Goatee guest 😂😂😂

[@RayCharles-oo-]

I Demand still yet more Dan.

[@danielles007]

I love you Dan and Bobby you guys are the best ❤

[@seanmac4854]

Counter point: Norm Macdonald's old podcast. The more edited shorter Netflix version isn't as beloved as the longer, older ones. You're overthinking it. people love hour+ pods. Even Regz you're often funnier in second hour. Longer is a strength of yours you should utilize

[@luciferigno408]

I didn't even know he was sick...

[@jefferymorton9704]

THIS WAS A GOOD IDEA :)

[@HowlingEcko]

Bobby doesn’t need a Gary, he is a Gary

[@leatheryfoot6354]

I got into The Bonfire maybe a year after Dan left and I was so upset that I had missed one of the funniest comedy duos in podcast history. So happy that I can continue to follow their careers afterwards tho. All good things...

[@NickJ1897]

Dan the people NEED a Jacob episode.

[@justinsilveira2957]

quickly becoming my favorite podcast u fuckin rule dan

[@brandonlyons3657]

Love the podcast. A good conversation with friends that we love as much as the host. Great first 4!

[@PlzReturnYourShoppingCart]

Dude, I am so dang happy that Soder is back in cast form. I love the dude. His mind is something I really appreciate. The whimsical journey of his words and voices are so fantastic.

[@ja5304]

New fan here Dan. This is great! Amazing convo. Funny. Real. Silly. I’m in!

[@shanestephens4728]

Fast forward gimmick for bonuses/Patreon is fucking genius. Start one, I’ll buy and I’m not alone here, Dan. ❤️

[@twofatchicksproductions9015]

Listening to this last night made me so happy and relaxed. Thanks guys.

[@ShotooTodoroki]

Soder is my new favorite podcast

[@samanthajade47]

Dan is so handsome all clean shaven ❤ love the pod!

[@TheOrlandoTrustfull]

I love Bobby but he needs to get out there in the wide world and create some new stories.

[@CrackinJacks138]

He was a child criminal who banged lots of hotties and he used to be sexy, show him some respect!

[@askmemum]

Any world including Bobby is a wide world by definition

[@waveydaveygaming]

Bro, he’s an old dad. Let him be him

[@applejacks8160]

@@waveydaveygamingno shit. I’ve listened to OandA since 2003 and Bawwby has been making me laugh for two friggin decades now.

[@jawnzen8366]

​@@waveydaveygamingnaw bring back Wigger Bobby circa 1994

[@Tanner1990]

Great episode! Thanks for the content!

[@Eleks_]

damn bobbys lookin pretty good nowadays

[@spiralbones]

It's hard work destroying a decade long radio show.

[@gunnarmathes2803]

My mom had me at 35 too soder pap, I feel you

[@alabamaman21099]

The reason I watch this is bc I like Dan and Bobby. Idgaf what they talk about I knew I’d enjoy it. Thanks all it is.

[@_..-.._..-.._]

Is that an Anthony Bourdain prayer candle behind Bawby?!? I need that!

[@TaysGamez]

Great ep dudes.

[@l3a4c1m]

The title alone with Bobby Kelly as the guest???? This better become a mini-series!

[@chillpineapple8070]

I know this will be a killer ep! From one Dan to another I know youre the Man

[@jessebremner5209]

Love this ep..this is my therapy 😅

[@BargainBinkey]

As a dad goin through the split now, you guys give me hope that my kid can one day be 53 on the brink of podcast success 😅

[@christianmccollum1028]

DAMN, what a fantastic episode!