Feeling Completely Hopeless - Kyle Cease

It’s really easy to feel alone in this world.
As you do the work to release your attachments, heal your traumas, and change your life, you are moving toward the truth of what you are. Sometimes we find that we ask ourselves “what am I doing here?” Sometimes you feel “different” somehow, even from friends and people you have had in your life and felt connected to in the past.
During one of our live AEP calls, Jerry asks Kyle this question about feeling lost and empty. He feels numb and like he doesn’t have any happiness in his life. Like something is different now. Like he doesn’t belong.
Watch this video and discover that if you've felt this you're not the only one. So many of us have been in this situation. So many of us have felt lonely or alone.
Discover the truth that as we do this work, we expand our awareness and our capacity to feel. This is good news, there is magic and freedom to be found here.
Share with us in the comments what you got out of Jerry’s question or if you’ve felt this way at times too - we love hearing from you.
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[@dianemilewski8541]

I've felt alone most of my life.

[@dragonfly4712]

I feel you 🧡🙏

[@TheNewNextPod]

You’re not alone Diane. We love you so much. ❤

[@StormsofPeril]

Same

[@adammorra3813]

We are always alone. That locked room inside your head.

[@mannie2075]

Same here!! 😢 But we have each others back!! I live in Sweden 🇸🇪🌍 and we are doing this together so stay because we are doing so much good stuff also for all of the other living creatures 🌸☀️✨🙏❤️ Sleep and take care of yourself - we need each other ✨✨✨✨❤️🙏 Be in the now is my life Line 🙏❤️

[@karenkeller6198]

I'm feeling extremely alone right now. I'm a single mom of a son with autism and his behaviors are getting more intense. He shattered my Jeep window and attacked me while we were driving yesterday and I had to pull over and today I'm feeling so alone and sad and hopeless... You're definitely not alone Jerry....❤️

[@janepaterson8992]

I'm so sorry to hear this 🙏 stay strong, and please see if you can get some help... Sending love your way ❤️

[@jadebayliss9388]

Oh gosh, I hope you’re feeling relieved and more relaxed now. You’re a wonderful mother! ❤

[@nanthithashankar]

I’m sorry you’re going through that 😢❤ I’m so glad you’re still here pushing it through. Believe me I’d rather have someone cry with me and for me than someone telling me how strong I am and how I’ve to get through it all. So I just want to let you know that I’m here and I hear you ! Sending you love ❤❤❤

[@anthonyg7181]

❤❤🙏🙏❤❤

[@A-feather-of-truth]

I'm an only child and the black sheep of my family. My whole life has been spent alone. I have moments where it hurts. And moments where I love it.

[@lisak5804]

Omg...i started feeling lost last night and this morning...crying this morning...like i just dont belong anymore...im glad i caught this

[@sommerwischmann1793]

I feel like Jerry took every word of how I’m feeling and put it on paper. I cried myself to sleep last night feeling ALL OF THAT. I woke up today and saw your notification Kyle. I needed this. Jerry, thank you for speaking up. I feel so alone too 😔

[@AgainstTheGrainDragon]

As many have been saying here, you are definitely not alone Jerry. It’s a bit of relief to know many feel exactly the same. Kyle you always have perfect timing, so many of us needed to hear this. Definitely brings up the tears which has been a lot lately as I too look around at how others seem to be able to just toodle along yet I’m slammed with these feelings. Lost. For the first time in my life I have no idea where I’m going. I thank all of you for sharing and wish you lived right next door. ❤❤❤

[@expectingthebeach2368]

ohh i feel the same 🦆😥💙

[@laurielicata8174]

Wow. Pain can feel so permanent when you're in it, when you're sitting with it, letting it just be there, accepting what you're really feeling.

[@amyiseman8430]

Absolutely not alone! Hopelessness and loneliness coming in waves! I find a younger part wanting to know will this ever end! Intentionally trying to stay present. Sending love to all!

[@allisontaylor1818]

Staying present is where i need to stay....its hard to not want to get through the work quickly so as to find my bliss.

[@csepke2]

When you said watching other people having fun is us having fun because we are all one, it hit me why I so much enjoy people watching. It gives me so much joy to see all the things people do😊❤

[@sharyndew3952]

Me too 🤗🤗🙃😉💓💞❤‍🔥

[@The_GROUP_chat411]

You’re Not alone Jerry❤. Thanks Kyle ❤

[@aniseart4858]

Yes we are all in it together...we are all together....

[@WhateverSunshine]

Whew…feeling like dark night of the soul the last day and night. Not wanting to be alive on this planet and not knowing what the flip to do about those feelings. Scared. Hopeless. Alone. Powerless. Walking around the backyard in the night to try to have relief. Bless each of you feeling anything similar! I want to have the “fun” feelings please. Loves

[@joyrobertson6669]

I hear you! Lots of love ❤

[@jukkakosk1647]

I also know this so well. I have said to myself that I can feel what I feel. I'm Not doing anything wrong I dont miss anything from the good loving future that is coming We have to go day by day. We have to keep on kepin on❤❤

[@valeriefedas8205]

I could have said the exact same as you Jerry. Thank you for sharing, you are not alone in feeling this. None of us are. Thanks Kyle. 💜

[@sally5256]

Thank you! I feel like Jerry lately. Completely new chapter. Lots of self reflection and alone time. This helps so much! Thank you . 🙏❤️

[@margaretal1331]

You are not alone. So many including my self. We got this🙏🏻❤️

[@janepaterson8992]

Thankyou Kyle for bringing this up, it's hitting a cord in all of us... We have changed so much in the last few years. It can be a lonely journey, but we are never really alone... 🙏

[@namastedina10]

I so relate and also experience aloneness, sadness and separation. I compare and that is my downfall!

[@Infinitelightwizardry]

Yes, I certainly feel this as it looks like many do. Its a challenge seeing people blindly with no care in the world!! Thank you for sharing, 🙏Kyle 👏🙏✊

[@walktheredpath1453]

Jerry ❤thank you 🙏 I needed to hear this today 💫 I have been on a long journey with this too. Will it ever end? Yes I know it will. Revealing deeper layers of who I am. Blessings to you and Kyle.

[@aniseart4858]

I'm allowing it ....open to it...feeling the feels and rest...

[@suejinyi2179]

I soooooo needed this today!! 🙏🏼 THANK YOU!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@solbritskov8045]

Thank you, Jerry 💕

[@sallykirshan6800]

Kyle....This is me! Thank you! You nailed it! Last 2 years of my life. THANK YOU! Thanks to Jerry also!!

[@starlight1950]

HI Kyle....Thank you for posting this, and Jerry you are not alone. I love the analogy of the butterfly. A caterpillar has no clue how to fly, and then it turns into a chrysalis, just a glob of goo. We may not understand this part of transformation, but nature does, and it is handling the process perfectly. I am in that in between stage myself, and find myself asking the same questions,. Thank you for having the courage to verbalize it.

[@pjmrees]

YES! I am looking for a new start to what's been thrust upon me.

[@angelical4176]

Every one of us have lonely moments. They can be short or long as every one of us is different with different life situations. ❤

[@jasoncolap]

I woke up feeling this

[@ruxandraharaga4387]

"Just stay in the work" Thank you Kyle! You just answered my question. I was wondering why I was opening my phone. I felt an internal calling to do so, scrolled down, went over you, came back, click open, cry! Lonely!? You bet! I asked myself: when an I going to start my work (spiritual healer struggling to start working with ppl). Kyle says: Stay in the work, your presence is the work! I know there's a divine time for being ready. Stay in the work! Thank you Kyle!

[@gerriboudreau3343]

Loved this question!! I find I spend so much more time alone than I ever did in my entire life! I always had to be out there…party girl, surrounded by people! No longer, and yes sometimes I feel lonely too, but I know this life will be better for me. I am so much more content with ME! ❤

[@tessadowell5099]

Jerry, you speak for so many. This expansion journey can feel very empty and lonely. My heart is with you, you’re not alone ❤

[@galyaangelova9227]

That hit home SO hard 😢

[@lisarose3504]

I feel you Jerry !! Celebrate these feelings. You're raising your awareness. ❤❤ It's not easy. But it's progress. 🙏

[@lauradailey7950]

Awesome, thank you Kyle and Jerry and everyone!!! That was sooo helpful…love all the insights and appreciate your vulnerability! Vibing higher w you all!! Thank you God💛

[@sergeyatlukhanov2658]

Yeah, Jerry, I absolutely feel you too❤

[@terriferguson56]

Exact same emotions! How to reenter the dance?!🙏☮️💟

[@CGMB777]

Our energy continues to dance whether we realize it or not.

[@jodirothe4064]

Same question I had from 3 to 5 am this morning!!!

[@ruthcrawford3015]

Yes, been there, still doing that, having fleeting moments of feeling better, Will continue the work, because what's the alternative? Wrestle with God and don't give up until you get the Blessing. Yes, that's a Biblical golden nugget.

[@IrisCrain]

I clicked on this BECAUSE I am feeling this. I've watched Kyle for years, similar speakers for years, but it didn't "click" until I worked for 4 months in a mental health office among some amazing, supportive, non-judgmental people who supported me and helped me think about myself differently (as opposed to listening to speakers talk about topics that the inner critic said wasn't directed at me, didn't apply to me, I wasn't at that development yet, I didn't deserve the message....) Recently, that temp job ended, and I've been in this place Jerry mentioned, feeling alone now, and that's why I clicked the link. We are not alone, any of us. We just don't live in the same town, the same country, the same home, the same family - at least not in the conventional sense. Maybe we *are* your family, or your neighbor may feel the same and just not say anything (do any of us broadcast this to our neighbors?) your partner or roommate may even feel the same, but are afraid of letting anyone know for fear of being judged or abandoned further. Books have been written about how frequently this happens. Movies have been made about it. TEDtalks are recorded about it. It's not isolated, it's an epidemic. There's more of us out here than you could possibly know. Also, if someone can't get out of that horrible feeling and are considering suicide, I *implore* people to dial 988 - As a suicide survivor I can personally tell you, it DOES get better. Honest. Yes, I still feel lost sometimes, but I know it gets better, and that's what keeps me going. I'm married 16 years now, and I have 5 beautiful grandchildren that bring me such joy, grandchildren that I would have never seen. Their smiles when they see me are worth *every* moment of self-doubt and struggle, and every moment of self-work, and every minute of videos like Kyle's. Honest.

[@xrayvision4444]

So grateful to have found this video! WOW! Thank you 🙏 all!! 💕

[@thelightworkercoach]

Thank you for allowing me to be as I am, even when I feel so unloveable, unworthy & unable to give in the way I think I should be giving.

[@aniseart4858]

Yes I'm listening to this almost a year later and I can feel it...still feel it....and it's ok...

[@garychia9162]

So much gold. Seeing someone else's abundance as mine. Thank you, Kyle. ❤

[@gilldoyle3295]

I wondered why I felt like that! I don't feel like I fit anymore it's like I don't want to be with anyone I know!

[@communicationwithconfidence]

Seeing someone else's abundance and sadness as mine. It's a big leap to make for me right now but I can see the point in it.

[@wacubby]

❤ Thank you, Kyle. I needed this reminder. Jerry….I’m there too. 😢

[@randystebleton]

Thank you for addressing the loneliness. I fully innerstand that feeling of separation when going within. To the point where I felt, well what's next? Become a monk or a hermit in the woods??? I had cut out everyone and was floating alone. I kept only a handful of people who I knew truly supported me. Deleted all social media. Changed phone numbers. Avoided new relationships. I had learned to say, no thank you. It only takes a short conversation to hear another's low vibrations and move on. The past year I've felt more alone than ever in my peace. Which began to feel counter productive. Happy and seemingly unhappy. Where's the prize??? After all the work? I had a "mental breakdown" in 2016 and have been working towards getting stable since. I've been slowly pulling out of the depths of this separation over the past year. I've called it reintegration. Getting back into the sticky, icky soup of life I tried so hard to just leave behind. Once you begin to step back into being around people who need light in their life, the strength to remain the better me is knows when to share and when to walk away. Now I have many friends who I choose to invest in. I'm still alone. No partner. That's the hardest. I've said no thank you to interests, knowing I will protect my inner peace before falling into another relationship. Just for the sake of having intimacy. I feel I'm worth pursuing when my light is shining bright. Because I know I am not afraid to stand naked in the Soul. We have to get "dirty" again. Going back into the world we left. As better, stronger, wiser. You can sit alone and meditate to change your inner perspective. And stay there to never affect the world around you. Or you can take that work and put it back into the world around you. There is no finish line. Self awareness is only the beginning. No one "wins" by reaching peace in meditation and staying there. Your house will fall apart.

[@gothope5915]

I am blessed to get these perspectives from you. I have been encouraged in my faith when you spoke about not believing the "key" is outside of us. I'm grateful for prayer and love the God answers me with these videos. Be blessed.

[@nanthithashankar]

I’m here exactly! I was thinking I just had to end it but I was terrified to. I stopped seeing the point in anything. I’m frustrated and angry. At God too. I just wanted to remove myself from this equation I don’t get it at all. I’m just watching this video and crying. There are so many unanswered questions inside me that I don’t even want the answers to anymore. I literally told myself 5 times today that I gave up. I really do give up. Kyle when you said Don’t hurt yourself to Jerry and said ‘even though you didn’t mention anything about that here’ I broke down. It was as if it was for me. Thanks @Kyle 😢❤

[@lisak5804]

I really needed to hear this today...thank you Jerry for asking the question

[@philhob4317]

I can so relate. I feel... guilt? Guilt for doing something horribly wrong but I don't know what I did? Guilt for existing?

[@Chickypoo69]

I'm not having fun yet but I'm trusting the process! I cry daily.,.. I'm doing the inside work& I'm not there yet but headed in the direction of healing. Keep on keeping on!!

[@andys7937]

Only just watching this now. 100% could be me writing this question ❤❤❤

[@4XtraOrdinaryMen]

So this video was done a year ago. I clicked on it today. I'm currently feeling exactly what Jerry was feeling. Of course that's the universe working for me. It's so bizarre how you can feel so at one with the world at one moment, and then so disconnected from the world at another moment. Yes, this will pass. Sometimes polarity is a bitch. I have no idea where Jerry is or what he is up to now but...... I feel you. RIGHT NOW! I guess the funny thing is, just admitting it, and letting it out of my body helps me feel better. 🙏🏽❤️

[@BlueJeansandJellyBeans]

Ugh....😢 I feel the same as Jerry. I still am able to have fun by myself, but feel like I want more. I too have a work gathering coming up in the next couple months and really not feeling it.❤

[@Jeanette11]

Thank you so much Jerry, thank you so much Kyle! ❤

[@StormsofPeril]

I've been feeling hopeless a lot lately, but I didn't know that asking "what's the point? Why do I exist? " was called hopelessness. I've been feeling lonely too. And I'm depressed but not diagnosed. I can barely get anything done and when I do I'm not proud of myself, instead I'm still super hard in myself. I can't and don't get out. I'm emotionless sometimes and sad other times. Everything feels hopeless and pointless. Life is hard and I use escapism too much. I try to evoke emotion but nothing corns out

[@cole3053]

Btw, you're wonderful, Kyle. Thank you so much for what you do.

[@LoveLeigh313]

Beautiful. Love my aep fam ❤️🩷

[@katjamlinar9500]

❤ ❤ ❤ I experience this every week, then it just passes through. Its become like emotional hygiene. It comes, it washes through.. At its peak its totally ‘I give up’ though. Sometimes I think oh, Ill need three years for this to pass and then in two days its gone. Kyle, I love you, I love your work too!

[@Sastovall84]

Let's all say this. My eyes are swollen from crying so much.

[@carolwells1040]

The higher i evolve the less i have in common with the people around me and the more i struggle to relate. It’s a very lonely place

[@melaniejackson4199]

Yes and together we defuse the suffering.

[@jennlaponder]

❤ So much love to you, Jerry. And I just want to let you know that I've been there too. And thank you Kyle for bringing light and love to all of us who've had this question. And for making it ok to feel these feelings. And for bringing in a new perspective. ❤

[@sitaradelmar]

Jerry 💛 you are sooo not alone in this 💛 your words could be my words 💛

[@yasminkausar5186]

Brilliant analogy as always👍💕

[@nanaharritsjrgensen5025]

If I was Jerry I would reach out to someone to talk to and not be alone all the time. I think there is such a thing as too much meditation and introspection.

[@lindavenema4982]

Thank you for this video!! It sure helped me! It is so hard getting through this. But we will get through this

[@karolinawyrzykowska3574]

Hello, the question was perfect as well as the answer. Thank you, you've expressed how I'm feeling exactly. Thank you :)

[@Tavish333]

Ty for this message ❤

[@sabreenashelumiel6124]

Hi Kyle Listening to this video has made me so sad..I just can't stop my tears..I know something has shifted in me and it's leaving my body.. Thank you..

[@lionessc4893]

Feel alone but glad I’m spiritual💜

[@yokaijem]

Kyle you've been my solace many times over the past few months. My existential fear has often felt overwhelming and isolating. What you said in this video about how so many people are feeling it but pushing it down has been so true for me -- i started seeing a chiropractor when I was 13 for severe chronic chest pain and I would always say to him "why me? No one else has body pain like this" and he would say everyone else does too they just push it down or take pills to numb it. Also I'm wondering how can I join one of these calls to ask you my own questions?

[@stacyburrell13]

Thank you Jerry!!

[@allisontaylor1818]

I am doing the work and am alone ...after years of abuse, I am finding peace but have no joy or fun either. I feel like I dont belong.

[@Erica7Warrior-cm8kd]

Wow Kyle. Thank you.

[@emmaleadbetter869]

I've got used to being on my own so much now that I like it more but I feel I should make more effort with people, but I'm mot surrounded by the people on my wavelength so I come on here and then I feel happy 😂

[@lindavenema4982]

I feel the same ! I need help too! Thank you ❤🙏

[@stephbutler8704]

Oh yes, many times, and still do some days

[@deannaforseth8469]

Is he reading my mind? Jerry I am you.

[@Sastovall84]

I'm a single mom that lost her relationship, a job, hit a deer with my car....and doing this work is realizing to surrender the whole world 🌎 (singing a 🎵 🎶 "we got the whole world in our hands) lol drop the world lol

[@WomanFullyAlive]

That was next level Kyle 😂

[@RebekkaEngels]

same here.... but I know it's passing.... it's just that each time you go into a deeper level, so each time it seems to s#ck a little more ( but this too shall pass, I dare even say right now that I'm in the middle of it)

[@mannie2075]

So much I recognize that 😮‍💨 Lots of sorrow 😢 But we are doing this together even if I am in Sweden 🇸🇪 ❤

[@solbritskov8045]

Thank you 💕

[@extern83]

So alone. 40th birthday next week, and no one to celebrate it with. So scared of ending up like the loneliest person in Sweden, that the newspaper wrote about, which nobody noticed died in their apartment for 6 years. 😢

[@pganapathy2705]

It's going to be OK. You're going to have to think of something fun you've never done before to mark yr birthday and only do that. determine to choose only that which makes you smile that day. If yr reading this after yr birthday, pick a day to do all of this and celebrate you. may beautiful little surprises find you. Stay well

[@ingridconde8845]

Yes, oh my god, yes.

[@kevins123]

It sounds like you are in "the dark night of the Soul". "This too shall pass". You are NEVER alone. It is an impossibility. Go into meditation. Go visit yourself. Be with yourself and tell your past self you will always be there. Give your younger and fearful self all the comfort you wish you had. Imagine it. Have a conversation with your past self. There is buried treasure there.

[@amandabame7981]

Same here Jerry

[@8mom8son8]

Yes!!

[@60nygal]

I feel at the end of my rope..even thought I prefer not being here anymore My health is bad ..still no home .no support ...I push old friends away...I'm tried of being controlled ...of feeling a failure My father disowns me ..I realize the many years of emotional neglect as a child. I'm old now...what's the use ..? I don't know where I want to live . I think I've spiraled into a depression .. My heart aches for the abuse my little inner child experienced. But I fail even at that ..I just want to roll over and never wake up. I've lived in a fight flight mode 62 years. I.appear I'm a freak. Confused and indecisive ...I never had kids fearing I was not good enough..never married mortified at the thoughts the attention would be on me. Ouch what a mess. I think more and more about how injured I am from the crazy dysfunction I lived thru .. But no idea how to heal any of it ..I think I have to give my sweet cat ..the only thing that has endured with me..as I slipped into homelessness due to health. It's not fair to drag him around anymore. Another pet lost :-( Thanks for sharing this video

[@annatosza1832]

Sending you strength and lots of loving energy 🙏

[@joyrobertson6669]

Sending so much love to you ❤ The days of bliss - that we deserve - are coming xx

[@joseph.micheal.romero]

I love it

[@sandrineakondia3819]

Yes, me too

[@rachelrichardson172]

Yes

[@EmpoweredToBeMe]

Could it be that we need to get to know the person we are after all the conformity and people pleasing.

[@ericwolfe666]

That means I'm a bobcat. Cool.

[@aniseart4858]

That's expansion...

[@ASaaaxxx]

I feel like that most days.. the world is becoming crazier every day … .

[@r.r.9981]

Yes, yes ,yes!! Grappling EVERY single day. It's almost all I do, and the rest of the time, I'm only going through motions. To what end? Feeling soooo alone. Why am I even here? Thanks for voicing this, Jerry. I don't feel so alone now. Thanks, Kyle, for addressing this so well.

[@Sastovall84]

Let's all say this. My eyes are swollen from crying so much.