Feeling Frustrated + What My Doctor Said

[@lauraw2074]

Considering the trauma you went through during that appointment I would hope they will allow Larry to accompany you next time for much needed support !

[@Maria-zc6jp]

I agree. Larry should be there

[@benzoplus329]

Absolutely agree

[@MegaDreamer87]

I'm glad that there's constant conversations between you, your doctor and your nurse. Stay positive!!!!

[@longhornlex]

I tell my husband all the time that I’m so invested in your baby journey because of how sweet and deserving you are to be a mom. So sorry this week didn’t go as planned and the next transfer goes smoothly ❤️

[@benbenkarmatig1]

I second this! These 2 deserve the world! That baby is gonna be so loved when he/she gets here.

[@keleighjames6712]

Same here. My husband actually watches it with me often

[@lesliemcdaniel7930]

NEVER GIVE UP! I pray for the both of you daily.

[@hollyloveshauls2869]

My daughter and I follow your channel so closely. When we saw your post before last we were devastated and my daughter immediately called me and said MOM WHAT HAPPENED TO MINDY. Girl you have so many prayers, love and support. You will be just fine this next time. I know this has left a mental scare but I promise one day you will have a sweet baby in your arms and look back at this and think “man I would do it all over again”. You got this Mindy…much love sweet lady!!

[@smartbeautifulla]

I'm sorry you had that happen. I'm sorry you are going through this.You need to feel this so you can heal spiritually and emotionally. You will have success. Keep pushing. You will be looking back on this nightmare soon.

[@oliviasmr2872]

I’ve been following you for awhile on Instagram. I am so sorry you and Larry are going through this. You guys are gonna be such great parents and your lil embryo is gonna be such a loved baby!!!!

[@PH-xk9bs]

"I think I'm like a kid waiting for Christmas." That is the sweetest and purest comment from Larry. The desire he has to be a dad again was evident in that sweet comment. God will bless you...He knows the exact right time!

[@angelablack7946]

Never give up! You are so strong and it will happen. Love you, Larry, Lexie and Luna!

[@jenweeks4398]

Also, I have endometriosis and it was only found by an exploratory laparoscopic surgery, never seen on ultrasound. But with your trial run and iui going fine I wouldn’t think that would be the problem... I’m guessing it was the doctor BUT that’s just my opinion. I’m glad your regular doctor is taking over next time and I think it will go great 😊

[@angelaeide663]

ME TOO!!!!! THEY NEVER WANT TO ADMIT THEIR MISTAKES. I QUESTION THIS DOCTOR!!

[@brandinunn1003]

This! It bothers me so much that it seems like they are brushing off their mistakes and trying to blame her body. Endo is definitely not diagnosed with an ultrasound. I feel so bad for her right now.

[@shalissastewart8761]

I agree. Hopefully the other doctor can get things taken care of. Praying for you Mindy.

[@photobug3737am]

My endo was also not seen with ultra sound. When I had my procedure the dr was shocked with how much I had for (at the time) a 22 year old. I had YEARS of pain and tests since I was 12 and it wasn’t found till I was 22. If I would have gone a couple more months I would have lost my uterus and my left ovary.

[@rainbowmonkey16]

Sadly same.. sad how many women go untreated :(

[@monicachristiansen4055]

Thank you for your updates sweet Mindy. We love you! And wish you all the best on your journey to having a child. They way you and Larry look at each other... brings tears of joy, the love you two share, omg. Loads of love and blessings to you both.

[@caitlinkerfont8124]

Watching your journey from day one, all I have to say is I'm so sorry. The strength that you have during all these hiccups are incredible! Documenting your experience and how you pull through it is helping so many people out there. I'm currently going through the process of being diagnosed for Endometriosis. It took so long to be able to see a specialist to be told I will not have a surgery to confirm this. The sadness and anger and disappointment is something I can relate with you on. It is not easy dealing with all of that. I'm glad you have an amazing support team and good doctors that aren't going to give up. I send you both much love and prayers on this journey ahead💗 You have helped me through mine in more ways than I can explain.

[@jennysparks220]

Thank you for being so REAL and soo HONEST with us, your followers ❤ even tho you don't have to, we are all behind you and Larry with so much love and support ❤ take care 🥰💐

[@Sara-bear-]

You are a very strong women and we all will stand with you and we will stand with you …. Hope you have a great week and we love you mindy for to keep fighting

[@dee20221]

I watched your video about your transfer on the day before my own transfer. I was nervous! But mine went okay. There was no pain at all and now I'm just hoping it works! I'll keep you in my prayers Mindy 💕

[@MindyMinx]

I’m so happy your transfer went okay❤️ Sending you lots of love and hoping you have a positive pregnancy test soon❤️

[@theresa9925]

Saying prayers Danielle for a positive pregnancy test.

[@3August23leo]

Keeping on the trend of looking on the bright side and staying positive, I feel like you’re already doing this but once you’re out of this you’re going to be a great support for other women going through this.

[@anitaludington752]

Y’all are so strong through all of this! I can see and feel your pain. Hugs to both of you! Guided meditation works like a champ.

[@Thegratefulnurse]

Mindy, love you guys as always. As a nurse ONGYN here in NY I think the sedation suggestion was overkill to be honest. I think your doctor is correct in saying let’s do it again “the test run” and see what’s going on. My suggestion…….don’t let the same doctor do the embryo transfer the second time that had a problem the first time. If the nurse called you and said that…..there is a reason she was trying to say to you without saying it…if you know what I mean. Why can’t your doctor who’s doing the test run do the transfer ? Ask that question . Please . Request it. It’s your right. If he is successful at the test run he will be successful at the real thing, also can they use another embryo they didn’t thaw for the first transfer in case it didn’t re- freeze properly ?? You have been through so much why take a chance. Just my opinion with what I know. Love you both. As always Stephanie from New York ♥️

[@kimq1934]

Mindy you are handling all this just fine…no one is judging you….We are all praying for a successful transfer for you & Larry. So sorry to hear of all that pain you went through.

[@sarahbradburn3944]

My heart just breaks for you guys.. it's so sad to see not only you, but Larry too, in a state of grief, and let down. I can feel it through the video. I wish so badly I had the power to help in some way. I have been cheering you on so loudly from Indiana! I think of and pray for your family daily! And please don't forget that all those feelings you talked about feeling, is totally 100% not only normal, but it's okay! You have been through so much Mindy, and to still see you with a smile and still so humble is freaking so inspiring! I have grown to really feel a connection to your channel and actually find myself looking to your channel to lift my spirits up when I'm feeling down. You never disappoint, and are always such a nice reminder that even when life doesn't go as planned, there is still happiness to be shared, and brighter days ahead! There is no doubt you two will be the most amazing parents ever! ❤ live in the moment, enjoy the journey, and just remember, your time IS coming! Love you girl!

[@dorisw2507]

Gosh, I was just skipping through the comments and there is such a rollercoaster of opinions... I don't know how you can manage that. Hope you are able to stay grounded and breath. All the best to you and Larry 💓

[@jenniferdsouza4552]

Mindy you are a strong girl and I know that every thing is going to be find.and Larry is a wonderful companion. Have faith things will be fine

[@katieburns2107]

Prayers for you both. Just take one day at a time. Process your emotions and don't be afraid to cry or express your frustration. Sending prayers of healing to you ❤ Never give up!

[@hdeak01]

Love you guys and am praying for a safe and pain free transfer.

[@breannasimmons868]

Are they able to make medical exceptions so Larry can go in with you? I feel like that is something they should try to accommodate. I’m so happy you’re so open with this. I feel like people don’t give women (and the people supporting them) enough credit on how much creating life takes a toll. Best of luck to Larry and you.

[@breannasimmons868]

@@user-tp8ys8ed6z That is incredibly rude to comment on someone’s post who is going through a fertility journey. It’s incredibly insensitive. Why are you watching if you don’t like them and their choices.

[@SRPaulsen]

@@user-tp8ys8ed6z while I don't agree with how they said that.. I cannot help but see Larry is not as interested in this.. I believe he wants it because Mindy wants it.. as someone who has a child with someone 30 years older.. it's not exactly a cake walk. 😕 I just hope they survive all parts of this.

[@emilyflores9844]

@@SRPaulsen well having a child and taking care of a child is a challenge no matter what age or age difference for couples. Its hard. It take a village. I think Larry seems very laid back..go with the flow and I think he will be a great support. I don't view him as a push over in anyway..he doesn't seem like the type of man who would do something he didn't want to do. Having a little one is not a cake walk 24/7 for anyone

[@sherylgreen1251]

@@user-tp8ys8ed6z its really so ridiculous that people like you can hide behind a computer or a phone i hope you don't have ever have to feel the stress and feel what struggles couples have to go through i pray that God has mercy on your soul you're very rude shame on you

[@emilyflores9844]

Plus Larry has much more time than a person working a full time job. He has expressed multiple times how hard it is to not be there in the room with her.

[@elleb7523]

Larry is a total gem. Bless him. He is a great partner.

[@Tfowler1026]

I can totally see where you are coming from as far as getting ahead of any potential issues prior to the mock date. Be your own advocate and don’t be hesitant!! Good luck ♥️

[@jennac823]

You all have been through so much and are handling it beautifully in my opinion, shows how strong and loving you both are. Thanks for sharing the ups and downs! Really praying next time it THE time 💕

[@Dec4AllTimeAlways]

I've never ever seen Larry really upset, sad, and disappointed until this video. This video has shown the most emotion that we've seen of him. He's usually smiling or explaining something.

[@amycampbell113]

I'm so sorry you had to go through this. I am praying for both you and Larry.

[@brooke8798]

Thank you, Mindy, for sharing yours and Larry journey with us! I know it's probably hard especially while you're going through this right now. I'm so sorry this happened to you! I hope the next one works out better! Thinking of you both and praying for you!!

[@Mayberry206]

Larry needs to be in there with you. I’m sure they will make an exception for you! At least they SHOULD. ❤️

[@carmenbanister4917]

So sorry to hear what you went through sometimes we have to go through highs and lows before we actually receive our blessings this too shall pass

[@barbarabravo6182]

Mindy I am so sorry you had to go through this, please continue to be positive. God willing everything will work next time. I send you love and many blessing. Can't wait for you to give us the good news about the baby.

[@mandy7294]

Praying for you guys! I truly admire yours and Larry's positivity. God bless you both! 🙏🏻

[@stephanieodonnell8849]

Prayers for you both on this continued journey. God is in control and that baby will come at the perfect and right time 🙏🏻❤️

[@Anna81Louise]

I understand how you feel. During my pregnancy journeys I've had times where I felt excited and happy followed closely by devastation and sadness. I'm glad you have Larry and family for support. ♥

[@alleywatson324]

I’ve followed you since you had about 10k subs, an I’ve been rooting SO hard for you guys! But I have complete faith that it’s gonna work & y’all are going to make the sweetest baby! An in the end, it’ll make all these struggles worth it! That baby will always know how wanted they are & how much they was loved before they even arrived! Sending you so much love 🥰❤️

[@dglvr58]

Everything happens for a reason! Perhaps not meant to be?? Too many obstacles…. I’m Sooo sorry to see you go through all the negative experiences…You are some STRONG woman! May you be blessed abundantly when you go through it all again.

[@basic_CeceRae]

Your attitude of real ness but optimism is incredibly relatable but also inspiring. You are 💯 right about being your own advocate. It’s your body and your life and you have every right to ask questions and have as much information as possible. I’m praying for y’all as you move forward. I know all of this is not easy at all. Also 👏 hopefully the Valium can take the edge off.. cause even under the best circumstances your going to be understandably anxious now.

[@dorothydavis6276]

A big hug for both of you .

[@tkuhel12]

I’m halfway through the video and just have to say how strong you are. You have been through so much with this. You remind me of myself, as far as your personality. You are an optimist, and it’s so sad to see you so optimistic and hopeful and then for things to keep going wrong. It just isn’t fair. I am going through IVF as well, I had my embryo transfer on 9/22. I had two extra embryos and found out that they didn’t survive and had to be discarded. So the one inside me now is our only shot. I won’t be doing this again, this process is just too difficult emotionally and physically. But I have two kids (teenage girls). My current husband does not have any of his own. And we tried to get pregnant naturally, and did! But both pregnancies ended up being tubal, one ruptured and nearly killed me, and the other one was caught in time, but my remaining tube had to be removed. I am now 37, and told my husband that I can’t go through this again. But I feel for you because you don’t have children, and I know that drive within to want to be a mother and to have a family is soooooo strong. Probably stronger than any other pull in life. I just wish the best for you and Larry, you are both so deserving of having the family of your dreams and I know you will make amazing parents! Thinking of you both during this difficult time. Hang in there! 💜 your friend from OH! Xoxo

[@katealire8010]

Can’t even imagine all the emotions you and Larry are going through!!! Reading some of the other follower comments I have to agree that it seems like the Doctor doesn’t have very much experience doing this type of procedure; I would not see him again for anything. Why can’t you see your own Doctor ??? I would state you’re only going to see a certain Doctor for your journey…. You should not have had to go through what you did!!! I’m so so sorry!!! I hope the next try is with your a doctor you have confidence in and you will have no pain and only success!!!!! Prayers for you and Larry!!! 🤗🤗

[@anahill7170]

PRAYING THAT FROM NOW FORWARD YOUR JOURNEY GETS BETTER AND THAT YOU GET BLESSED WITH BEING A MOMMY

[@KellyMO22]

You two are a strong and amazing couple. I’m sorry you have to go through this. Let yourself feel those emotions and don’t hold them in. Big hugs to you both!

[@kristenbrett8103]

I can’t imagine! We did ivf as well and I am praying for strength for you and Larry!!

[@maringarba5373]

just focus and think possitive always, be enjoy and i hope u always healthy and be happy...

[@hollymarcus9284]

Hope you are doing ok, I’m praying for you and Larry! This whole nightmare will be so worth it when you get to hold your gorgeous little baby ❤️

[@juliewheeler2139]

Please allow yourself to feel all the emotions someone goes through that has been thru something so traumatic. Never downplay your experience. How ever long it takes to heal emotionally you have family that will support you no matter what. I’m so sorry you went through this.

[@rajanimaki0323]

Mindy and Larry, I am so sorry this happened to you. I pray for a healthy and simple procedure next round. I hope this next round is the bingo round. This baby will be so loved!

[@klw8771]

You two have been thru so much & remain still so strong, brave, authentic & as positive as you can! Thank you for showing this & sharing your journey with so many. Wishing you both only good health & a successful embryo transplant next; this will be it I’m sure. And seeing the end goal or dreaming out far as Larry did with taking the kid to the zoo or library is a perfect way of manifesting your desires of pregnancy & a little one❣️🙏🏻👍🏻

[@Casper-jx1zd]

You and Larry will have a baby soon. Your very young and healthy, and Larry is also young, maybe not very young, but young. ( in my humble opinion) You both have time to get this done.

[@erikao3982]

When Larry was talking I started tearing up… I have never heard him so sincere and sweet. I am praying for your next procedure. I hope you get your little one soon ♥️

[@amandasharples8176]

I am so sorry you went through all that. I have watched all your videos and am rooting for your guys! I am about to start the 3rd ivf attempt tomorrow with a transfer for mid October and the ptsd is a real thing. I am excited but my fear is higher. The first attempt did not stick and the second we got called the day of transfer with the news all 11 embryos did not make it. Staying positive is really hard when you go through so much. You and Larry are so strong and I pray this next attempt provides you with your miracle baby. ❤️

[@stephaniemomof9746]

So sorry you went thru all this. Prayers that next time goes so much better! Sending love and hugs

[@nicoleperez9756]

Stay positive Mindy!! It will go your way. I have endometriosis also since i was 17 and i a became a mom at 22 yrs old. 4 years later i had one of my fallopian tubes removed due to severe endometriosis. My chances of having another baby were very low. But I did. Now im a momma of 2 girls. I never thought i would be a mom. Also if it doesn’t work out. Have you and Larry considered adopting? I totally see you as a mom. Ill pray that it all works out for you. Peace and Love from my family 🥰

[@teresaann8054]

I’m so sorry! I totally agree with you. Find out why and what happened now. With all the time, money and medications it’s best to know now and get some answers! Hugs to you ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@brenna.husnik]

Hieee!! So sorry things didn’t go as planned, but what’s meant to be will happen. Your baby will be so worth it & loved! Sending so much love & hugs yours & Larry’s way! 🤍🤟🏼

[@brennakali1996]

@Brenna Husnik you have the same name as me 😂 funny!

[@brenna.husnik]

@@brennakali1996 haha that’s awesome! 😁

[@conniecrook8582]

Mindy , I understand how you just cant be bothered by other people at the moment. It’s so hard to see other people laughing / smiling ,going about their normal lives ,when you feel so completely sad inside. It’s such a , confronting and confusing feeling .. Questioning “ why is this so hard “ is normal ,and yes it is so brutally unfair. I have no answers my lovely except, this baby is so wanted , and you and Larry as the sweetest couple ever .. We are all here for you in this journey.. Stay Strong !

[@MamaFox__]

Definitely keep advocating for yourself on things especially IF the next time comes to the same outcome. I sincerely hope that your actual doctor has some magic touch and this is your time! Praying things will continue to fall into place💕 love you guys!

[@fhouacym]

So sorry transfer day didn't go as planned. I'm very thankful my journey was smooth and I've made it to my 2nd trimester. I've been cheering for you and Larry this whole time. I usually don't comment but wanted to write you to support you & Larry. The wait will be worth it ! Good luck on your upcoming transfer day in November. Sending you lots of hugs from MN.

[@chelle2093]

I believe everything happens for a reason… Maybe if your Dr just took a chance it would have missed, or not worked.. I’m glad to hear they are taking precautions, although I am sure it is very frustrating for you both.. Hopefully they get to the bottom of whatever was the problem or if it was simply just the timing wasn’t right I pray your next transfer goes smoothly for you 🙏🏻 Thanks for the updates, I am sure you are helping other women who are struggling through the same thing… it brings normality to a situation that a lot of women go through

[@dovie127]

I agree you need to find out what was blocking uterus NOW! Waiting until next transfer doesn’t make sense to me?

[@jenweeks4398]

Sending love and prayers to you and Larry, you’ve got this! Keep your head up❤️

[@anamelfe1431]

I have never commented but I’ve really felt your pain through this video and the last one. I’m sending positive thoughts to you both, I’m sure you’ll have your little one pretty soon and you’ll have a heck of a story to tell them ❤️

[@Dec4AllTimeAlways]

*18:52* "I'm upset if you're upset." That's true love right there coming from Larry's beautiful blue eyes.

[@elleb7523]

Your strength shines through the whole video. I had goosebumps listening to the story. (Also, your makeup looks fantastic and so fall-y)

[@courtclerk99]

Stay strong! Thinking of you both! ❤️

[@lyss222]

I'm surprised the nurse said that endo would normally be seen on an ultrasound. It's definitely not. The only way to diagnose it is laparoscopic surgery, like you said your mom was all bound up in there and they didn't know. But it's wild that you've had iui's AND a mock transfer and had no issues, only to have this happen. That just sucks so bad. Although I was able to get pregnant on my own, I had bumps in the road. My first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage, and I 100% understand your feeling of being so excited, you're finally there, it's finally happening and then to just have this humongous letdown. My third pregnancy was an unexplained ectopic, so from that point on I was terrified of future pregnancies because I'm at increased risk of another one. Thankfully when I did get pregnant again a year later, all was ok. I'm glad for your that at least your embryos weren't lost in this process. Hopefully next time everything will be better and it will bring your baby ❤️

[@LP-km7gj]

You guys have been through so much and my god…I am just going to say it…it’s so sad that some people who don’t even want a baby get pregnant so easily and a family like you guys have to go through hell. I know that doesn’t help to say but I am frustrated for you! I thought my fertility journey was rough but I can’t imagine what you are going through. I had the same experience as your mom…all tests and ultrasounds were normal until they did laparoscopic surgery then found endometriosis. End of November seems far away but I will say think how quick this year has gone by…it will be here soon…and it will be the best Christmas present ever!!!!

[@andreachristine2419]

I agree it's heartbreaking how easily people who don't want or will be a loving mother can so easily get pregnant when so many of us women who dream of the day of seeing a positive test just can't catch a break. My brother in laws sister who already has two children that my sister and brother in law has custody of is once again pregnant now....she's getting an abortion but it upsets me that I would do anything to have that blessing and it never happens all while she just pops them out

[@LP-km7gj]

@@andreachristine2419 when I was on my fertility journey I knew this girl who had three children already, wasn’t working, did not have a stable home and then got pregnant again while I was going through hell trying to get pregnant.

[@cristinaxx6440]

She does not get pregnant because she choose a man who clearly told her from start that he had a vasectomy . So no, she is not unlucky she knew it from start . If she is that eager for a kid maybe should consider adoption instead ? Let’s no play victim

[@andreachristine2419]

@@cristinaxx6440 have some compassion

[@cristinaxx6440]

@@andreachristine2419 compassion ? You are all pointing finger to “ people that can have children and don’t deserve it “ while “ poor women can’t have kids and want them desperately “ She can have kids it is her partner that can’t and she knew that from start . No victim here .

[@angelaeide663]

Your DOCTOR should be doing your embryo transfer. Not a different doctor. I would question this clinic. I don't trust something here.

[@fhouacym]

Definitely should have been prescribed valium too. And yes I'd question why a different doctor took over who wasn't familiar with her uterus.

[@kutie217]

EXACTLY!! Your doctor should be doing the embryo transfer. I also don’t understand how you only saw your doctor once during the entire process. Your doctor should also be the only one doing any and all ultrasounds not just the mock embryo transfer either.

[@danettevillalobos6990]

Your doctor did the mock embryo transfer.. But when it came for the actual procedure . Another doctor does it . That doesn’t make sense ? Even the doctor said he knows your body. I would totally tell the doctor this time around you are doing both the mock and actual procedure.

[@becca7378]

I'm so so sorry you experienced this. It broke my heart watching your video on when it happened. Hopefully you get some sort of answer as to why they couldn't reach your uterus. I'm so glad they're giving you something to help relax you for the next round.

[@stephaniehiotes4829]

Mindy. I'm sorry your going through These struggles. You'll get there and when you do you it will be amazing!

[@getatyagurlsash]

Im praying 🙏 everything goes well next time. I pray that you both find peace and comfort in your hearts. Much love and positive thoughts and energy to both. ❤

[@OhYouKnowKT]

Mindy so much love and prayers sent to you and larry. Your feelings are so valid. The trauma you endured can be rollercoaster. It's almost as if you're grieving the loss of the experience and process you were promised. So much thoughts and love! ❤❤

[@AlbaDouek1]

Everything will be just fine - and so worth it - you will see! Lots of positive energy and love from England! 😘

[@caseyalvarez3463]

My heart breaks for you. You have gone through an absolutely traumatic event. In a sense, you are grieving. Even though you didn’t lose the baby, you essentially did emotionally and lost the chance of being pregnant. Take time to grieve this loss and be angry, sad, high and low ❤️ better times are ahead!

[@joannagantz9266]

sending sooo much love to you guys❤️ you’re so strong!! i love that you’re trying to stay positive!

[@melissagreen1117]

So glad ur hang'in in there. Your a tough but Min. You will get through. Hav a good nite guys🌛

[@crystaljacobs3023]

I’m sooo excited for the day you announce your pregnancy!!!! Sometimes god has a way of stopping something from happening bc it’s not on his time. But I do truly believe your time is coming and a beautiful baby will come from it! Sending you all the love and good baby vibes ❤️

[@theresag3782]

To give you a little hope, my grandmother (25) and mother(mid 30’s) both had hysterectomies, I am 35 and no issues like they had so far. I also was on birth control from 18-24 then had 2 kids and got back on the pill last year I was on the IUD for 4 years prior to the pill but I don’t think that helps with endometriosis like the pill can. So Could be why I’ve had better luck… but I think you would have had pretty intense symptoms if you did have it so just think positive and it was just a crazy happening. I hear “I’ve never had this happen before” often which is very frustrating! Good vibes coming your way! 💕

[@melindabarefoot4612]

Good evening Ladybug!! You have a right to feel the way you feel. What happened isn't your fault. Please understand that. Just curious, is Provera the medication they give you to make your cycle start? That's what they gave me, since there were more months for me, without a cycle, then months that I had one. I understand your concern for wanting to know what the obstruction is, before the mock transfer happens again. I know you're frustrated and sad. You had your hopes up, especially when the mock transfer went well. The embryo is good and that's a wonderful thing. PAP SMEAR is the exam you were referring to. You're so strong and so positive. So glad that you have Larry to lean on. You have a wonderful family that supports you. Larry is so sweet about it too. You can see the love as he talks about waiting for the miraculous event to happen. I'm so glad you can still laugh together. That made me smile. Keep moving forward. Stay strong. You got this... Love and hugs to y'all!!!

[@mopanimickey1591]

Good on you for having a positive attitude for the next procedure. Your feelings and emotions are perfectly normal after what you experienced. So glad you have such a supportive and loving partner in Larry. Bless you both and thankyou for sharing. ❤🙏

[@helenanazih3304]

I am so very happy that you took the time to "glam up". You are very inspiring to me. ✨❤️

[@melros903]

Sending love to you both! You are so strong Mindy!!♥️♥️

[@ToriSchmaltz]

I’m sorry for the bumps on your baby journey. Sending love and prayers your way!!! Hoping for the best!

[@raeganschultz8246]

My story is identical to your moms. I was 25 when I had my hysterectomy due to both endometriosis and adenomyosis. It was never found on ultrasound, only laparoscopically. I was always told it was impossible to find with ultrasound. BUT. There’s a silver lining, I was blessed with two healthy, perfect children before my diagnosis. Your day will come ❤️You are Larry and so deserving.

[@sarahorr4357]

Sending thoughts and prayers to you and Larry and your family. You are going to be a great mom.

[@sarahelizabeth5656]

I choose to believe everything happens for a reason. Try to keep the faith that everything works in perfect timing. It'll be worth it when you are holding your sweet little babe next year. ❤️ But you have every right to be sad, angry, upset, frustrated... Sit with that and then try to move on. Sending so much love.

[@rhoadestraveled]

I’m still heartbroken for you guys that this journey is so difficult. I received my Pumpkin Spice sweatshirt yesterday and I washed it right away! I’m going to think of you guys every time I wear it

[@katiem4151]

Sending love and hugs to you and Larry!! Keep being the strong lady you are 🧡

[@shelbygrace6405]

❤️ you girl, stay strong!

[@Allieflower]

I know the frustrating of it not happening yet, and it’s something I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy. But know you have a lot of people on your corner, cheering you(and Larry) on! It just takes time and patience ❤️

[@jessicagonzalez1648]

Hey! I have commented on your videos before and not sure if you see them, but hearing more of your story, it is insanely close to mine and what happened to me. First off, I’m sorry! You’re so right… it’s awful to feel so excited & then be let down. It happened to me many times with various things in IVF. Always be cautiously optimistic. BUT with you transfer, please advocate & push for anesthesia. My dr did my mock transfer & it went fine! They tried to give me Valium for my first transfer & they couldn’t get a vein so they gave it IM & I never felt it & the pill didn’t work either. Then I went through transfer & tons of speculums, pain, repositioning, painful full bladder & never truly getting a good view & then finally they ended up inserting it. I’m fully convinced that’s why it didn’t work. Next transfer w/ anesthesia & the same dr & he said with them being able to position me different & my body totally relaxed, it worked so easy & I got pregnant only to miscarry at 10 wks & find out I had a clotting thing (APS) that caused it. So my other 2 embryos we chose to test so they had to be thawed like yours, biopsied, refrozen & then thawed at next transfer. Always a chance of an embryo to not make it through thaw but really uncommon (kind of like what happened to us 🙄) but so glad they didn’t transfer it after all that because it’ll also cause you to spasm after & that’s not good for the embryo either. I’ve seen several doctors say they don’t recommend anesthesia & a few girls on fb groups say they have had this & I told them the same thing, to push for it and they have all messaged me after saying thank you, they did it & it was so different. Valium unfortunately just doesn’t do much, nothing like being under can relax everything completely to where they can manipulate your legs & everything fall in place to where they can get the right view. My uterus is tilted & pretty sure the adhesions in my abdomen seem during my c-section are what caused the issue when trying to transfer despite easy mock & hsg & all that. Endo can be silent for sure & not always diagnosed on ultrasound but it sounds more like the positioning wasn’t right & then they started probing & your body responds & it’s hard to find the exact spot. You’re paying these people to help you get pregnant. Please advocate for anesthesia! It’s so worth it & no it’s not typical but it works & I have my baby girl now. On my 3rd transfer, even under anesthesia, my Dr said they had a hard time seeing & had to tilt me way back & move my legs way up, etc & had I been awake, it wouldn’t have been good! Please reach out on IG also if you have any questions but the first dr is right in wanting the next one under & 2 drs. Never can be too cautious when you’re dealing with this type stuff. Head up, it does work eventually & then they grow up so fast. Mine just turned 10 months!

[@gigiruiz3786]

Sending you and Larry a big hug! 🤗 I’m so sorry things didn’t go as planned. Hopefully everything works out next time around. 💕💕💕

[@naomideleon8363]

I've had endometriosis for over 20yrs . Trust me I could write a book on this horrible disease! There is absolutely no way no how to know if you have it thru an ultra sound endometriosis can and will hide anywhere .. that is why endometriosis specialists can only diagnose thru surgery which is explanatory surgery and once they're in there they can excise it .. God bless you on your journey... you will be blessed with a baby 👶sooner than you think.. lots of love !

[@lindseybearden8914]

I’m so sorry you had to go through this! Praying for you and Larry!

[@lace1245]

I also had adenomyosis and this is the first time I’ve ever heard of anyone else having the same. Prayers for your journey. I pray it gets easier for you 💜

[@Unofkystudent]

I had stage four endo that eventually led to a hysterectomy at 35. Nothing was ever seen on an ultrasound or other imaging test that indicated it. I was diagnosed after my doctor recommended surgery for an ongoing cyst at 25. I think an exploratory lap should be an optional baseline procedure for anyone experiencing infertility. I am praying and hoping that this next transfer goes perfect and sending the biggest baby vibes your way!!

[@sashacali2425]

I'm sure it was just the rides. I had the same issue, you're not alone your docs just never met me ;) But really clear your mind and don't do any rides this time! Gravity can effect you for a couple of days not every doctor comes across that. My doctor was military and delt with gravity all the time. He was right we tried again without rides and it was fine.

[@melissanewman1247]

Wow that is something to think about.

[@shannonsmith2642]

What does rides mean?

[@shannonsmith2642]

@@Tx_Hogwarts_Disney thanks, I didn’t understand what they were talking about. Lol....