Female asking why she's still single? What's the best age for a woman to get married assim al hakeem

[@Mesmerising_Eyes]

May Allah makes marriage easier for men & women who are finding it difficult to get married, Ameen Ya Rabbi. We are living in an era of fitnaah. Marriage is the best solution to avoid adultery, fornication, lust, addiction to porn & etc. May Allah protect us all, In'sha'Allah Love & prayers from Europe❤

[@azkahajadeen]

Aameen aameen aameen

[@URshellabi250]

Ameen ya Rabbi

[@freestyle5190]

Amin

[@mahonie77]

Why is Marriage solution to Lust Marriage is still lust Sex is always lust and have you no will to not watch Porn no 1 forces you rght. There r so many other things in World why people who believe in Allah think they have to Marry and fuck etc Your born alone it's a Choice if really love Allah you take Allah love and opposite you no need Men Wife bcs you have Allah

[@jannatulferdous5996]

Ameen

[@porse911]

MashAllah, a pure joy to listen to him. A such wise man.

[@anonymous-il9sd]

I’m a single Muslimah living in Europe and I testify that marriage is very important at very early age especially in the west

[@galaxyphones8318]

How old are you now😊

[@sadikbroboniqi6744]

​@@galaxyphones8318keep it halal bro

[@infinity5184]

@@maryammary3494 I just ask her for marriage did I said anything wrong to her...!!😔

[@infinity5184]

@@maryammary3494 I am extremely sorry actually you are right ..,this is not the way to ask someone for marriage..!😔 For sure I am going to die single in this world no problem insha'Allah will marry someone in jannah...!

[@jar30207]

@@infinity5184 No brother...you will In sha Allah get the one at right time...Allah plans are best!!

[@HnEhsanulHaque]

May Allah bless Assim Alhakeem and every one of us ❤❤❤Ameen

[@khabirulislam999]

Mash Allah! Very informative, inspiring and calming video. Thanks a lot Sheikh. May Allah bless and protect you. Love you from India

[@smreenbanu9580]

Ma sha Allah.... alhamdulillah we have people around us like Mufti to understand life and situations in a better way . He is one of best guide..... jazak allahu Khairan for your every video.

[@diahmaratus3625]

Alhamdulillah, thank you for reminding us, syeikh. May Allah make it easier for me as a woman and a wife. Barakallahu fiik.

[@Bpgie]

Mash'Allah, my favourite shaikh, may Allah preserve him ameen

[@abdullahunal8745]

May Allah promote you to an air conditioner

[@shakirah7566]

Masha Allah Barakallahu Fik Sheikh. Well said. We loved you for the sake of Allah. May Allah rewards you immensely and your family Ameen. Beautiful reminding us all. Jazakallahu Khayran for sharing your knowledge.

[@asifmuhammed611]

Very well said Sheikh Jasak Allah Khairan

[@kidsplayx4950]

True words, may Allah make it easy for the muslim man and muslim woman 🤲🏻

[@rakiyamohammedkabiradamu8118]

Allaahumma Aameen.

[@endoneezer]

jazakallaahu khair yaa shaikh, this was a different side we saw of you than your usual Q and A self, relaxed and jokey, Allaahumma Baarik

[@gibi498]

I Love you Sheikh Assim.. May Allah Bless and Protect you always and your Family..❤❤❤

[@maharlikanaonkudarat7928]

Allahuma barik. 13 daughters

[@bushra1008]

Alhumdulilah. Very beneficial explanation.

[@crazylottt7946]

Ya ALLAH Make me and my whole family and friends true muslims Allahumma ameen Phd

[@azkahajadeen]

Aameen aameen aameen

[@Mesmerising_Eyes]

Ameen

[@MA-2020]

I take this video as a reminder, no human is free from flaws/error 💔

[@sunnahnotes1451]

may Allah bless Sheikh Assim al Hakeem

[@hammed368]

May Allah guide everyone of us in spreading peace and being good to one another. The purpose of marriage in Islam is so you can find peace in one another and create a family so that our ummah grows. We should all apply the guidance of the Quran and follow the sunnah if we are to find peace in our homes.

[@shahid8673]

I am 29 still single, jobless, depressed. soo worried about life

[@shafqatishan437]

Don't be depressed brother, it is from shaitan. I'm 30 and I've came situation, but I trust Allah's plan, and if He wants to test me harder, I'm willing to take it for the afterlife

[@giftcards9111]

Me too😢😢😢

[@ahmadsauyack2770]

InshAllah may allah protect us from haraam and make marriage easy for us

[@azkahajadeen]

Aameen waiyyak .. May allah make it easy for all of us , bless everyone who is looking to get married with a good, righteous n understanding spouse n may he bless everyone who is married with a happy married life filled with rahmah n barakah aameen aameen aameen

[@Dr.Afiya_Ghori]

May Allah bless me with good spouse 🥺

[@Dr.Afiya_Ghori]

@@sugar_genius2421 In sha Allah sister

[@mi_amor5282]

Ameen

[@amadujamila6033]

Aameen 🤲

[@amadujamila6033]

Aameen 🤲

[@amadujamila6033]

Aameen 🤲

[@PrivatePrivate-do2on]

I would work side by side with him, but I could not be with a husband who was angry. Who had no compassion and love to me.

[@PrivatePrivate-do2on]

@@The-Monotheist Women want a man they can be safe wit and be safe from. I know I am a worthy wife willing to submit and serve my husband. When a man marries a woman he gives up his money, when a woman marries she gives up her identity, her autonomy, and the future of not only herself but also her children. Good men need character. Money can't buy character. There are 2 tragedies in marriage 1) a godly woman falling victim to an an ungodly man 2) a godly man falling victim to an ungodly woman I am secure in my faith and willingness to have a good marriage. I know what I'm willing to give...everything. but not to just anyone. The fact that you instantly created a straw man where I am full of anger based on wanting to be cared for...what does that say about you?

[@PrivatePrivate-do2on]

@ongpong7726 Then that man needs to pray he is prepared to be worthy of a good woman. "Be broken over and over while he matures" is not an acceptable life. I don't want to gamble on if he even wants to mature when I'm married for life. If he is an angry abuser and abuses for ten years then one day he is better then now she is broken from ten years of abuse. Also the kids are broken. This philosophy is dangerous for generations

[@ifrat1555]

​@@The-Monotheistbut there is a difference in being a little bad and literally being an abuser, I would rather stay single then stay in an abusive marriage

[@PrivatePrivate-do2on]

@@The-Monotheist I don't have to prove myself to you. You don't have to prove yourself to me. But I know what I'm worth. I will not settle for a man who is not worthy of my love because when I find him he will get the best of all of me. I don't believe in divorce. I am not willing to gamble all of me for the rest of my life for someone who might mature. For someone who might not abuse, or someone who might have the character to have honor when things get tough. I trust our creator to show me the truth. I have continually prayed for Him to prepare me to be the wife He wants me to be and I know there is a man out there praying to be the husband he's called to be.

[@ifrat1555]

@@The-Monotheist okay

[@SIRATOURAY-w7h]

May the almighty Allah bless us good spouse....ameen

[@rocaasir2651]

I am 51 still single , no more time i think, and the grave soon, wallahu aalam

[@anonymouslady828]

Are you a man or a woman?

[@abs96188]

InshaAllah same I’m from Pakistan and men here and the toxic in laws are hopeless to ever get involved with

[@lou2053]

So sorry to hear that...i am almost 39 i feel the same...but who knows maybe in the future insha Allah

[@Jojo98495]

If we don't find someone while on earth, Allah will give us a soul mate in the hereafter inshallah

[@abz7800]

@@anonymouslady828 the chances this is a women is highly unlikely more likely its a man

[@nadianadia4655]

Beautiful speech..

[@MrMago11]

Teacher assim has enough experience to talk about those topics and he knows what he's talking about. I hope sisters can see the wisdom in his words. Overlook the emotions of frustration or the feel of discrimination because what he told about demand and supply and also the situation after dovorce is common. If sisters would not aim so high with educational goals they would not exaggerate their standards. Arrogance and pride can destroy your heart

[@مسلمةالحمدلله-س6ز]

​​@@maryammary3494 Being attracted to the person is important in a marriage, and should not be condemned. Basically beauty is essential.

[@ifrat1555]

​@@مسلمةالحمدلله-س6زmaybe to a certain extent but I'm sure you won't be happy with a beautiful but disobeying wife

[@ifrat1555]

Can you please explain what you mean by exaggerated standards

[@MrMago11]

@@maryammary3494 What do you mean with greed for beauty and capital?

[@MrMago11]

@@maryammary3494 No, I mean how does the greed show. I am asking genuinely because I think I know what you mean but I am not trying to assume

[@nadianadia4655]

Thank you Sheikh for the perfect explaination

[@leb2455]

Wait if he has anger issues, and doesn‘t show compassion and love to his own wive, he is SINFUL and has to improve otherwise the wive will be unhappy and that won’t do him any good

[@mukhtarali1974]

A person is not sinful until he acts upon it.

[@yeager9731]

It's simple, if he is an abusive husband you divorce but if he jas anger issues and tries his best to control them then forgive him.

[@leb2455]

@@yeager9731 but you do now that we cannot interfere and tell people to forgive sb else. The only one to decide this is the wife and that’s it. Allah gave everyone the right to forgive or not.

[@tdackjordan5873]

Mention it bothers you and tell his parents so they can advise him

[@riaaulia8323]

Yes!! I was shocked when I heard the sheikh basically told women to endure husbands that have anger issues!. Isn't the Quran says that men should treat their wives with kindness and respect, and that they should be patient with them?. I wonder if this sheikh will advise a husband to endure a wife that has anger issues 🤔.

[@aminaadamus.5746]

Allahu Akbar ❤️ may Allah bless us all with a blessed spouse, aameen

[@abdulkarimjakietay3458]

You nailed it on the head

[@BQ900]

I married my husband when I was 17 and my husband said keep going to the university. He’s Muslim; but I’m not. Very good man and a great blessing. ❤

[@BQ900]

@sigmagrindset8627 are you asking me? Some of it I like very much. Wearing the beard, no tattoos. Praying 5 times a day, no unnatural behaviors in the marriage. Even doctors say that’s best. (Even if the evil therapists say everything is good)

[@BQ900]

@sigmagrindset8627 I went with the Xtians for a short time; but I had trouble with them because I don’t accept the Trinity.

[@zuki7776]

@@BQ900 May Allah Azawajal guide you to Islam sister.

[@imahmud]

If you love your husband so much that you want to be with him after life (in Jannah), you will need to become a Muslim sincerely. May Allah guide you.

[@BQ900]

@sigmagrindset8627 yes, I am studying more about how the religion works

[@Rubded]

Such wonderful knowledge.

[@azkahajadeen]

Subhanallah an amazing video.. Im actually looking to get married n it has been very hard to find a good man who accepts a niqabi.. Pls include me in ur duas .. May Allah bless me with an amazing, understanding husband who loves Allah n his rasool , has a good character n treats me nicely n also will take me to jannah.. may he also help me be a good understanding wife who compromises n does everything for the sake of allah n a person who brings him peace at home n someone who will help him go to jannah.. May he bless everyone who is looking to get married with a righteous n understanding spouses who will be the coolness of thier eyes n may he bless everyone who is married with a happy married life filled with rahmah n barakah aameen aameen aameen ... May allah make all our tests n trials easy for all of us , make us steadfast in our deen ,guide us to the right path n always keep us connected to the quran at all times n forgive all our sins n accept all our duas , grant us jannah n safeguard us from the hell fire aameen aameen aameen

[@sheriffmanneh4989]

Āmeeen. There are some men around.. l hope you will her proposal from one someday .

[@azkahajadeen]

@@sheriffmanneh4989 Jazakallah khair.. May allah bless u with his unlimited rahmath n make whatever test or trial u are going through easy for you , forgive all your sins, accept all your duas n grant u jannah aameen aameen aameen ..

[@Sabersafe]

​@@azkahajadeen Keep wearing niqab. That's the legit full hijab. May Allah Keep you on the straight path. There are many men who accept and want niqabi women. Men who have ghayrah and respect niqabi women. Wish i was rich so i can marry a righteous and niqabi woman. Anyway, Alhamdulillah.

[@azkahajadeen]

@@Sabersafe Jazakallah khair for ur kind words ...May allah make it easy for u , bless u with his unlimited rahmah n may he bless with a good righteous understanding spouse who will be the coolness of your eyes n will take you to jannah aameen aameen aameen

[@romanreigns5796]

Wait you are getting rejected for wearing niqab? Are you in Muslim country?

[@samhoss8882]

Not everyone gets that choice though especially if there is alot of discrimination and discrimination from parents and sometimes you may not be ready to get married if you have had a eg major operation which sets you back 3 or 4 years it's not cause you don't want to get married but if you can't find the right people then. I got married when I was 27, but cause of my race I would not beable to marry who I want

[@Ugaas3]

What do you mean because of your race?

[@samhoss8882]

@@Ugaas3 race is where your parents come from

[@kanizfatima3447]

@@samhoss8882awww so the person ur married too isn’t the person u wanted to marry ?

[@FarayukiDiro]

Thank you Syeikh 😢

[@dwicahyaningtyas7478]

jazaakallahu khoyron sheikh

[@user-rn3bb3dj4p]

😂At the people upset at the laughter, we have to understand it’s the island culture. I grew up around Samoans and Tongans and they laugh very loudly, at the smallest things.

[@yeager9731]

Wallah i love sheikh for the sake of allah

[@morgeenee811]

All the brothers immediately understood their assignment after that😂

[@AMiah-jz8uu]

What's the assignment

[@sully111]

i'm pretty sure we assigned to get a wife!

[@SidMunLaila]

nowadys everyone wants to get married reir girlfriends. noble woman dont make boyfriend, they are not involved in any illegal relations and love thats why they are still single.its a bitter truth

[@faridak2194]

The pious men are for the pious women. Better to not marry then endure a life with someone who is far below your level. Compatibility is key. Kafaa I believe it's called

[@SidMunLaila]

@@faridak2194 yeah so true. 👍

[@SidMunLaila]

@TornMarble yes and if you try to stop them from female friends they will call you backword

[@shahid8673]

​@@SidMunLailawhat do u mean...u mean there r no noble men exist ?

[@riddikulus1432]

as usual savage ( in a good way) and with good sense of humor reply

[@unknownpage9239]

The best video in the entire archive of my islam research

[@springwellssw]

Im a male..... I guess I'm not the only one that goes through this 😂

[@dontoni8041]

💯💯💯

[@springwellssw]

@@dontoni8041 looool

[@Sabersafe]

​@@springwellssw It's okay. Just let it go and don't overthink about it. Believe in the fate that was decreed to you by Allah. And be happy with it.

[@dwicahyaningtyas7478]

Alhamdulillah. Baarakallahu fiikum

[@user-zm3no5xb6t]

I’m 30s still unmarried. Have degree but couldn’t find good match yet not because I didn’t want to marry young. In the west it’s hard to find good man, everyone did zina

[@user-zm3no5xb6t]

@@DemoGlory why are you commenting here? You don’t sound Muslim considering you just recommended me to get a dog… Also society looks down on you if you’re single and family pressures you till you get married. Am I supposed to die a virgin?

[@shahid8673]

​@@DemoGlorybro. go enjoy ur botka,wine. this clip is not for u

[@abs96188]

@@user-zm3no5xb6t as a Muslim too he’s right why? Because life is a test and even we don’t find then it’s Allahs test just like someone married young but became widowed or divorced or their kids died- people still talked and people talk for singles too- let people talk- focus on your life you work you relationship with Allah what’s the point of saddening over spouse if you get hellfire in akhirah? Make jannah your main goal and live a productive life anyway we all will get old no one will remember us and InshaAllah in jannah there will be a spouse for all

[@KadershaN-ou2sj]

@@DemoGlory Those women aren't the role models for muslimahs women who sides with her feminine attribute is Islamic otherwise it is cursed by Allah. For a muslim marriage is important the parents of a Muslimah will be eager to find a good groom for her, they don't go for their daughters career.

[@KadershaN-ou2sj]

@@user-zm3no5xb6t I feel sorry for you. Single life is suffering when you reach at a age where there is no hope left then it will be living hell nobody loves us as our spouses love s us even our children don't want is when we're useless. Ever body around us only want benefit from us that's why people are getting suicide. Women who are average men are happier than single rich earning women. Women who get divorced regret later and cry for their presence. Women need to get married at Young because so they can give their husband best of her self and healthy children. Your heart is so good and pure as i can sense it through your word. The man who gets your love is luckiest to have you.

[@tehreemfarrukh5695]

Making husband happy is the most difficult thing and obeying parents are for both boy and girl both

[@melissaa2337]

It’s not a woman’s job to make her husband happy, it is to obey him. As for obedience to parents the woman is only responsible of obeying her parents fully until she gets married. After she marries she must keep them good company and obey them if she’s able to under her husband. For example a married woman doesn’t have to obey her parents if they tell her to move back home and leave her husband. Or if her parents tell her to give them some of her husband’s money. But a man must obey his parents even if he’s married.

[@shafqatishan437]

It is more difficult for women who don't do hijab, bcz those who are disobedient to Allah, are disobedient to their husband as well

[@candysworldofficial]

Thankyou sir for this information

[@minoz394]

Some parents don’t want their daughters to get married so they can forever take care of them. My father said even if you are under the bed, your proposal will come.

[@MA-2020]

😢. May Allah open your father's heart..

[@isarichard]

MaashaAllah tabarakallah ❤

[@lubyakbar]

Oh my god I live in Malang, but how i didn't know that syeikh Assim was here?

[@Mi-jz5ro]

Mashallah 😊

[@fazlerabbi7601]

Finally Shekh your team allows comment 🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🍔

[@layman-]

Vai re tomar playlist hide koro shudu shudu pap share hobe

[@shakirahbello7132]

Ma Sha Allah

[@D_A-G]

Spot on!!

[@TalkIslam_TI]

Masha-Allah 🤲

[@ridwan6695]

If the angel of mercy do not come in houses where there are pictures, why is there the picture of the sheikh ?

[@SalafiReminders]

You are absolutely right! The fact that they are displaying picture in MASJID, the house of Allah, this is very offensive, not to mentioned being ghuluw towards the Sheikh. The Nabi shalallahu alaihi wa sallam order the Muslims to destroy the pictures and flattened the graves. The Sheikh should be the first one to notice this and reject this act of ghuluw.

[@sully111]

@@SalafiRemindersi think the picture is displayed during questioning times and removed during the prayer to their Lord. it seems like a roll up picture!

[@SalafiReminders]

@@sully111 There is no justification whatsoever for displaying/hanging pictures of living being in Islam. The Sheikh himself said in his lectures, that's why this video contradicting what he said in his lectures about image making.

[@tataa51]

I'm sure the sheikh didn't say anything because there are some scholars who say photos are permissible since they are a 1:1 mirror and not like a drawing or a statue done by a human. So there is difference of opinion regarding photos.

[@Aman_Hanbali]

Does Sheikh Assim saw the picture of him behind him. What’s the point of putting his picture?? This is not right, giving fatwa is something but hanging a picture on your back is a different world. How does the angels enter the masjid now? Why do you deprive them of the masjid??

[@motia7759]

Thankyou sheikh

[@SalafiReminders]

Is Sheikh at 3:57 making fun of suicide? Sheikh with all due respect, you're not a comedian or maybe you want to be one? Suicide is not a joke! I expect a Muslim knows that better than anybody else. Don't try to make people laugh by making fun of religion. You try to talk a lot then you're gonna make mistake. Your own advice, Sheikh.

[@Reciter01]

You got beef with the sheikh 😂 I see your comment everywhere discriminating the Shiekh let the shiekh crack some jokes here and there akhi/ukhtii 😅

[@SalafiReminders]

@@Reciter01 You have no ghairah/gheerah for this religion, read Qur'an Chapter At Taubah verse 65-66 and you tell me if Islam is a joke.

[@iShahfahad]

@@SalafiReminders verse is all about munafiqeen

[@SalafiReminders]

@@iShahfahad So? Are you sure you're not a munafeeq or can't become one? The point of that verse is for the Muslims to not joke about Islam. Comprende?

[@iShahfahad]

@@SalafiReminders are you sure that they all are munafiqeen..?

[@miss.matured4399]

Sheikh plz reply for me. One day I met a man in my relatives home. I like him. I can't forget him. His looks at me feels like he likes me.... But recently his parents has decided to marry him with his cousin after 5 years. Bcz he is not in marriage age.he is only 23 yrs. He is now in another country. What can I do ? U can't forget him. Sometimes I feels may be he loves me...he may be thinking about me.

[@sarahcamille4783]

Go with your parents/wali to his parents and see if he is interested, or have your wali/parents talk to him and see if he is interested in marriage at this time. If he is either not interested in marriage or his family is unwilling to marry him to someone else other than his cousin, move on. yes, move on. walk away from it and move on. There is no use putting yourself into fitna, volunteering yourself for a trial of heartache and heartbreak over a man who is either not ready for marriage or a family dynamic which may break a marriage. there are plenty of good men in the sea, so to speak. And your husband is written for you no matter how many glances you sneak or not. And until you do the above things, stop thinking about him or writing about him. This is a non-mahrem strange man you are dreaming about. The first glance was not a sin but if any other glance follow, know that the consequences are on you for those actions. So lower your gaze during this process. This could be very well someone else’s husband. Another man could very well be written for you as your husband. So stay modest, and remember Allah has already written what will and will be, and nothing good will ever come from haram. (I hope you don’t find this blunt or harsh, this is a message to myself also). May Allah grant us spouses who will be the coolness of our eyes and keep us on the firm path. None lose hope in Allah’s plan except the disobedient people.

[@shahid8673]

lol may be he thinking about me 😅...why r u soo worrying about it seems he even haven't chat with u and you made whole history of future.😅

[@asinner]

Feminists fuming

[@sanakhan-jx9uv]

😂

[@keltoumghouar]

Baraka Allahou fikoum

[@newmankramer1903]

Oh Sheikh finally opened comment section.

[@olivia8822]

It's 1st time your comment section opens sheikh.

[@riddikulus1432]

no , he closes of for controvertial topic videos not all videos

[@callospaziale]

@@riddikulus1432I agree with him. KZbin comment section can be poisonous

[@suveeraamin5100]

SUBHAN ALLAH ALHUMDULILLAH ALLAH AKBAR.

[@abduljabbarmohammed4188]

Can someone kindly tell me which country is this?

[@mohamedimohamedi8933]

Indonesia

[@abduljabbarmohammed4188]

@@mohamedimohamedi8933 Then I have to find a wife there.

[@iloveflipflops]

​@@abduljabbarmohammed4188😂😂

[@Ira1000-w5h]

@@abduljabbarmohammed4188 I am here🤣🤣

[@gretavains8707]

Exactly. This is all BS😊

[@goodplrbr3121]

How can I get connected to this man, I have a question to ask

[@kitt7477]

😳 MaShAllah la quitta illa billa, 13 daughters.

[@Ayesha______]

soo cutee

[@maawymuhammad6779]

وليس ٱلذكر كٱلأُنثَىٰ

[@factsgalaxy6228]

Also female is not like male Go and watch Christian prince's video Now no one is coming to accept the challenge Now Quran is in 27 or more different forms Allah Not unchanged Allah has two right hands and leg 😂😂 So Allah has shape So Allah is not infinity, eternal Embryology is wrong in Quran It's proved by Embryologists So many mistakes and contradictory things Don't try to fool the world in 2023

[@maawymuhammad6779]

​​@@factsgalaxy6228re you a christian or a muslim Allah says وَلَمْ يَكُن لَّهُ كُفُوًا أَحَدٌ Allah has no form of anything. Human biengs have their patners but allah does not have any partner. Allah is just alone nothing or none like him. How great is he??? Not only Allah who doesn't have gender even his angels Allah mentioned in the quran that those who call angels with female names don't have anything from the knowledge except following steps of what they think of إِنَّ ٱلَّذِينَ لَا يُؤْمِنُونَ بِٱلْئَاخِرَةِ لَيُسَمُّونَ ٱلْمَلَىٰٓئِكَةَ تَسْمِيَةَ ٱلْأُنثَىٰ وَمَا لَهُم بِهٖ مِنْ عِلْمٍ إِن يَتَّبِعُونَ إِلَّا ٱلظَّنَّ وَإِنَّ ٱلظَّنَّ لَا يُغْنِي مِنَ ٱلْحَقِّ شَيْئًا Indeed those who don't believe for hereafter they call the angels female names And they have no knowledge of it, they don't follow except conjecture and conjecture does not avail anything from the truth

[@haqqcenter7469]

@@factsgalaxy6228Look at this Mickey Mouse rambling all over the place, your mind is so baked and toasted with all the lies you’ve been fed by Christian Princess.

[@alveerakhan7633]

Assalamu Alaikum warahmatUllah wabarakatuhu Alhamdulillah Good advice Jazak Allah khairan kaseer Ya Allah please bless every Muslim believer to obey Your Commands and teachings of Rasul Ullah Sallalahu Alaihi Wassallam ameen. (Please myself not a religious scholar, but isn't it wrong to have pictures of making or decorating of animal kingdom means humans and animals?) Assalamu Alaikum warahmatUllah wabarakatuhu

[@TahseenulQuran39]

I am 35 never married it hurt alot

[@galaxyphones8318]

What happened 😢

[@SalafiReminders]

Just so you know, you are not alone. Many Muslims have their own circumstances. Ask your parents to find you a spouse, if they refuse, this is depending where you live but you can try marry an orphan girl, you can kill two birds with one stone, you can get married and you're helping an orphan. But it's really difficult to get married now because the girls wants to pursue their career even an orphan girl and they don't care if a man propose to them. Back then in the time of Prophet Muhammad, marriage is easy because you don't have to wait until the girl is graduated from her school. Now, the most of the Muslims make marriage difficult.

[@TahseenulQuran39]

@@galaxyphones8318 being never married till today at the of 35 is big pain in life

[@TahseenulQuran39]

@@SalafiReminders i am girl not a boy, my parents tried alot even i tried alot bt Allah knows better my parents r failed to find husband for me and know people say u r over age

[@SalafiReminders]

@@TahseenulQuran39 I'm 32 also looking for a spouse, I'm like desperate, so how about it? I'm in Indonesia and I'm poor but if you don't mind me then maybe this is a sign from Allah... Or not?

[@SajjadRavat]

Is it allowed to print tasweer? I really want to know

[@tamadoucoure792]

If you live in Europe or USA you may help your husband for provisions or stay single forever ❤

[@chutney-h3o]

However if that husband married back home, he'd not expect the wife to work.

[@qr1656]

Subhaan Allah

[@proQuran]

“Quit college”. Okay, no. Even if women don’t want to work, we need a contingency plan at the very least in case the marriage doesn’t work out.

[@SyedAli-ij8nu]

With that mindset, your marriage is at risk. Contingency plan should also be tawakkul on Allah.

[@MrMago11]

I agree with the former comment. The best contingency plan is to create a big family which supports one another and is always there. Does a boss save you from poverty or is it Allah?

[@rabbi619]

No you need to become a good slave

[@Abu-Kurdi]

If you're getting married with that mindset, I feel sorry for your future husband.

[@Future_B]

Thats west mindset, you dont want the contingency plan, you just want plan B, that in case if you dont like the person or you get bored in relationship that you can rely on that plan. And most women stays single with that having that mindset. Relationship is all about sacrifice and compromises. Follow teaching of quran and allah is the best of planar. May allah plan best of the best of us. Amen

[@boblashli7995]

What a typical story at the end Sobhana'Allah

[@icedtea5745]

I'm still single living in Pakistan. Almost in my 30s due to familial issues I couldn't get married and now it seems kinda hopeless for me

[@Rabbi-Jill-kews]

Same bro but I’m in the west, shit should be easy for you

[@abs96188]

Same I’m from Pakistan, I have given up on marriage to men now. InshaAllah a single chaste life till I get one in jannah cause Pakistani men and their mommies are too toxic and secular sometimes

[@Rabbi-Jill-kews]

@@abs96188 I’m arab, Pakistani women are the same. Even if they appear religious they end up not knowing anything about it and want you to marry their family. Nothing Islamic about marrying Pakistanis. It’s like marrying a hindu

[@salimyasini3100]

​@@abs96188 don't give up on marriage. Change your environment or your settings. Rasool (s.a.w) says those who choose to remain celibate are not of us. Have you really exhausted every guy in your country? I'd say that's impossible

[@iftis-art]

I want to get married but my family ufff😔who will teach them

[@KadershaN-ou2sj]

Are you a girl?

[@Pavel81433]

MashaAllah

[@mohammedhanifrashidal-ali5577]

I am single i haven't met a girl that wants to marry a man who doesn't have anything 😂

[@Sabersafe]

Ofc. But it's okay. If you don't have anything at the moment. Keep fasting.

[@shahid8673]

right...nowadays girl marry with money of man not with man

[@maryamsalah135]

​@@shahid8673if I get married, I would care about his character not the money... I would rather marry the poorest man who would treat me with kindness and love than marrying the richest man who barely shows his love or care or is too controlling

[@estiakahmed2033]

What do you say about the picture printed behind you?

[@inzykhan415]

What do you say about your lack of knowledge on the levels of shayk

[@Ira1000-w5h]

Syekh Invited in 6 cities in Indonesia, as seen in the picture, Malang City

[@estiakahmed2033]

Many people are misunderstanding me, I am not blaming the Shaykh here or catching the Shaykh's mistakes. I am just showing the foolishness of the organizers of this program to Shaykh.

[@Ira1000-w5h]

@estiakahmed2033 organizer stupidity? That's just to indicate the place, because not every place is in the mosque, there are some events that are held at hotel

[@Ira1000-w5h]

@estiakahmed2033 because this is an official invitation, of course the banner.... No need to worry about trivial things, especially if it's not your country, it's better to respect each other

[@AmaduBellasamura]

Masha Allah

[@chutney-h3o]

Please address the single never married muslimahs over 45 who were overlooked because the males and their mothers didn't want an educated muslimah. These males went back home to marry. This has led to so many single muslimshs in middle age, struggling and depressed, in the west. These males are now raising daughters and pushing them educationally. Hypocrisy.

[@abs96188]

Don’t worry sis life is a short tests if you’re single maybe couple of women got widowed or divorced or had abusive marriages all youth- always work on your main goal cause all the married folks will die and so will you and in hereafter this life and it’s enjoyment won’t be remembered except the good deed we did to please Allah- as Allah says verily in the remembrance of Allah hearts find peace so find peace through Allahs obedience be a devout Muslim these humans aren’t our fixes

[@chutney-h3o]

@@abs96188 thank you 😊 Very wise!

[@taimurahmad]

who wants a woman over 45\????? yoru degree doesnt matter...a woman cant even have children at that age

[@taimurahmad]

It isnt "hypocrisy". No man wants an old wmn. Yohu pursued your own career, men didnt push you to it. And men dont want to marry such wmn because often theya re arrogant and unsubmissive to their husbands...and a man values a wo;m;an's beauty kmore then he values her degree...

[@chutney-h3o]

@@taimurahmad who mentioned careers? I know two Hafiz females in this position. Shame on you for judging.

[@TheNiceOne_]

What if I don’t want to get married? Does he mean that unmarried women can’t get to Jannah

[@Soldier-Of-Mahdi]

But getting married completes half the faith as per hadith, and its sunnah of the prophet(saw)

[@neutral9349]

No you will still go to jannah if you don't do haram things he is saying that for married women

[@unknown559]

I Don't understand actually, women also get attracted to men's voice, to their attitude, to their presence. But women control her feelings. It doesn’t mean she feels any less than a man. Women control it. They are taught to control from childhood and it ultimately becomes a mindset. But in islam i noticed only women are said to hijab herself more, The logic is that men can get attracted to the women! Why are men not taught to control themselves? If it is Ramadan do men break their fast and eat? Do they break their fast and get intimated with their wives? No they Don't. Why? Because they control. No matter what Muslim men fast till the magrib. That means they can control themselves if there is a mindset. Sometimes I feel islam is not the same for men and women. You can say, look at the other religion. How is the position of the women there! Islam rulings are a far better religion to women. This is not the point. Islam is the ultimate religion, this religion is the truth. I know! But it feels like women are 2nd class citizens in the eyes of islam. Astagfirullah if i am wrong. But what can i do? I feel that way sometimes. Why can't women sing nasheed without music in front of non mahram while the men can. Why women need to cover more than a man? Why can't she preach islam to all directly but the men can? Why she can't do adhan? Why she can't speak or laugh loud? Men can get attracted? Women also get attracted to men! Don’t women have thoughts of non mahrams? Don't the fall in love with a mufti's face or way of speaking / or the way he behaves? What about women's thought?!! What about their attraction? Why don't men cover themselves, why don't men stop preaching islam with women directly, why not men stops call out for adhan loudly? Since both parties got attracted to each other, shouldn't the rule be like men interacted with men only and their mahram girls and women interact with women only and mahrams. Or...if the things which men are allowed to do, women should be allowed to do those right? Else, The rules which are there for women, men should also have those rules. I Don't understand. I Don't understand.

[@KadershaN-ou2sj]

Do sahaba women did this? No. Men and women are different like day and night. Women control her urges because she is a woman and have the capability so she can give her husband best. Women praise their men in islam because what they're obliged to their women so good women will never hesitate to be chastity to him and she thank to Allah for her husband and children by avoiding their negative sides. If you still think why this then ask Allah why you created like this and get what you deserve am afraid of the consequence Allah created men and women for different purpose and have their obligations to do themselves.

[@unknown559]

@@KadershaN-ou2sj i got it, what you've said. Well i am trying to Follow Islamic rules unconditionally. Like putting on a hijab, praying etc. It's not like- 'show me, prove me all rulings with logic and then i'll follow Islamic lifestyle' I am already trying to follow it Alhamdulillah. But I also want to know and understand the logics. What's the point behind the rules. Since islam is a rational religion, it is the ultimate truth. Then what are the rational truths behind these Islamic rules for women. Women and men are different. Obviously. Physically, also mentally sometimes. (Mental differences - women are more adaptable, sometimes more mature, but more affectionate to gossip, much more emotional, also more painstaking. But since they are emotional in decision making and physically not stronger, I understand why Allah chose men as the 'captain' of the ship. But are their feelings different than men? Don’t women feel hungry just like a man? Don’t they need to sleep - feel pain - have sexual desires? Ofcourse they have! These are the basic human feelings. These are the same for women-men-all humans! Which Allah swt created all of us as like this with these basic feelings. Sahaba's didn’t ask these questions? Why? Actually i think, if I am having these feelings and questions then definitely there were- are- will be more people like me, who had/have the same questions. So, there must be some rational answers. Where can i find it? Which sources can enlighten me, clear my confusion? Islam is not an illogical religion. There must be some specific answers. But if there are no answers. Then i doubt whether these 'women rule' are authentic or common human made.

[@unknown559]

@@KadershaN-ou2sj also if you can provide me any book/video /website/ any source, which can answer my questions i'll be forever grateful.

[@maryamsalah135]

​@@unknown559I thought I was the only one who had these thoughts...

[@Quranandsunnah-s6q]

​@@unknown559 Assalamu aleikum warahmatullah dont let shaytan whisper in your ears dont listen say Auzubillah minashaitan nirajeem i want that every muslim reach paradise ,life is short

[@muhammadmuhammadalfulanial4490]

Sheikh what you said IS WRONG. The acquisition of knowledge is an obligation. And you know that. there is many people who are married and they have studied together.

[@MrMago11]

The acquisition of knowledge which is fardh on you is knowledge which regards faraida. Allah did not command us to learn something we don't have to learn. Is it an obligation to study art, literature or language?

[@muhammadmuhammadalfulanial4490]

@@MrMago11 I'm not a scholar. However, write on youtube: Muhammad fazlur rahman ansari. Listen his lecture intitle: Address to muslim youth. Take your time and listen carefully this lecture. I think this lecture will provide you an answers of your question inshallah.

[@layman-]

How do you say acquisition of knowledge is mandatory?only Islamic basic knowledge is mandatory -_-... and in few stances there is worldy knowledge which is communal obligation nothing else .. sheikh mentioned about the girl..in no way their gaining knowledge is obligatory except in very rare cases as their husbands will provide for them

[@mjusama369]

I don't agree . Islam is ordering you gain useful knowledge. It can be religious knowledge or other.In my country scholars says there is only 2 types of knowledge. One is knowledge about creator ,2nd is knowledge about his creation. I am disappointed with your sheikh. I thought you will advise to muslim women to gain knowledge as much as they can.Is women's are made for babysitting, satisfying their husband.

[@mjusama369]

Thats why i advised to rely only Saudi sheikh for fatwa about obligations like prayer,fasting.I always like sheikh yusuf al qardawi.Hi daughter is one of the best nuclear scientist.

[@NightWarrior972]

😂😂😂😂 Sheihks crazy funny

[@wasimashaghasi6802]

sheikh has 13 daughters, wow!

[@liliumbosniacum7781]

You mean; Masha’Allah!!!

[@maryamsalah135]

​@@liliumbosniacum7781maybe they didn't know how to write it in English

[@baariyey7099]

Some men are like holding fire in your hand. How to keep men like that.

[@KadershaN-ou2sj]

A woman can calm her man by giving intimacy he will get healed and forget his previous problem.

[@s19-f6j]

As far as I know, the first word revealed to Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) was 'Iqra', not 'Nikah'. He didn't know how to read or write. What kind of speech is that 'quit college'? Does this mean we shouldn't have female doctors ect.. ? Should women go to male gynecologists? Oh, wait, that's haram too. Hatidja (may Allah be pleased with her) was a successful businesswoman, or do I not know nothing about Islam? On the Day of Judgment, it is our knowledge that will save us, not our husbands. Because of such statements, the West World thinks that women in Islam are oppressed.

[@K69g-m7n]

Nowadays, by age 15 gone case oredy..

[@mushambadauda332]

They need a nurse 😂😂😂

[@wisemeoww]

Why i am still hungry? Well i'm not still eating. We have to work for it if we want something.

[@abdullahk8691]

I need a nurse. 😂

[@chutney-h3o]

It's an English saying that afrer a certain age, a man needs a nurse or a purse i.e. someone to look after him or provide for him because he's providing for his first family.

[@habibaa4689]

Mashaallah

[@The_Angry_BeEconomist]

the Shaykh is allowing comments for this vid?

[@anfacmohamed7597]

Assualma allaykum Can any one share me where can I send my question please I was looking the sheekh longer

[@eesaabdurrahman1569]

I think he answers questions on Twitter

[@makbutahplengngen1541]

Lho... di Kota Malang kah?

[@Erispedia]

Keliling Indonesia: Jakarta, Jogja, Malang.

[@makbutahplengngen1541]

@@Erispedia Terimakasih. Wah sayang sekali baru tahu. Padahal saya tinggal di Malang.

[@crochet915]

But i don't ever get any proposal. I'm losing hope that i'll ever be able to get married 😢 how should i find a man, who would not allow free mix during nikah and walimah......

[@PreparingForTheHereafter1]

Do Istighfaar dear. Lots of Astaghfirullah you'll find. InshaAllah

[@SalafiReminders]

How about me? I'm against having free mixing party and music, it' better to not having walimah than compromising my religion, I don't have a lot of money anyway, I only need akad nikah, because of this people told me, ''Good luck finding that girl who's willing to accept such strict rules from you!'' I'm 32 years old virgin, I'm poor but I can afford daily needs or necessities Insya Allah. So how about it? I live in Indonesia, I can come to get you if you don't mind to be with me.

[@SalafiReminders]

Are you ignoring me? If you don't like the fact that I'm poor, at least say no in a respectful manner, nothing worse than being ignored, this is not fair you know, a Muslim should have good manners. I approached with honesty and good manners but you ignored me. I think those men who never propose to you make decision if this is how you treat a man.

[@crochet915]

@GintamaKintama-sx3zz I'm really sorry. I didn't mean to offend you. I'll make myself clear- i saw your other comments on this channel, and you've been criticizing sheikh Assim. This is something that i truly hate. Not because i think sheikh Assim is superior or perfect. But simply because it doesn't befit a laymen to criticize an 'Alim. For the things you've been calling him out, you might not know the context or the exact ruling. I feel like you're an extremist. This part of you dissatisfied me, but i did not reply because I thought you might end up forgetting about me after a while, so its best to not cause unnecessary arguments. I definitely did not expect you to get offended. I'm really sorry for ignoring. On a side note, i did not even think about you being poor being a problem.

[@SalafiReminders]

@@crochet915 I'm simply reminding when he made a mistake and reminding other Muslims of his mistake, you don't seem to know the magnitude of the effect when a scholar made a mistake, I know he just a layman student of knowledge (his own channel is named after that), he is not a scholar. The real scholars are the likes of Sheikh Salih Al Fauzan, Sheikh Utsaimin, Sheikh Albani, and Sheikh bin Baz. But so many Muslims are looking up to him to the extent that they are trying to justify the mistake even though it's clearly against the Qur'an and the authentic hadith, this is called ''ghuluw''. They are going to the extreme. It is unfortunate that you feel that way about me even though I don't have any bad intention or to antagonizing the Sheikh(I even take knowledge from him until I notice his mistakes), but the fanatics, the fanboys/fangirls accusing me with horrible accusations, even when I present my evidences. This is the path of those who try to hold on to the real teachings of Islam, it's said in the hadith, it's like holding a burning coal, people are antagonizing me, but I'm ready for the hate and I will never want myself to compromise my religion for people to accept me.