Feminine AND Powerful | Can Feminine Qualities THRIVE at Work

[@Mahamaven]

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[@henna1435]

Your cheekbones are everything!

[@Mahamaven]

thank you!

[@poetvallyo]

I find that ppl who are intimidated act super bold and loud against you... They'll constantly try to streamline the attention to themselves. Don't compete. It's just a show. If you submit to the game, that will empower them. The point is to own who you are and continue to be the example 🤎.

[@tora3584]

I LITERALLY LOVE THIS VIDEO!!!! I've been searching for alpha female/queen energy videos by black girls like me so this was amazing. I hope you make more alpha female themed videos! I'm also 19 in college minoring in pre-law, so you've got yourself a new subbie!

[@Mahamaven]

yes! they will be on my second channel kzbin.info/door/8Tp11JAgAZVJhAZpbXCcxQ

[@BELLADONNANAJWA]

hi Queen, am 19 and pre-law too!!!

[@FindingDeidre]

The issue of no being taken seriously due to my outward appearance is something I dealt with for a long time in the work place. I got to a point of indifference and chose to be me. I allow my resume and performance to speak for themselves

[@DorianParpari]

Good message and helpful. I'm not interested in dating but want to be more feminine. I work too much and in my part time job feel like I am being put in certain positions because I'm a black woman and there is a stereotype that we are supposed to be stronger and do hard work. I embraced the work in the beginning because I wanted to be taken seriously by my employer and needed that extra coin and at times I wanted to compete against the men there to show them that women are just as good if not better. However, I have been finding certain people, a Karen or Ken putting me in the toughest roles purposely when there are clearly other people who are available and perhaps more appropriate for certain tasks. I am a social worker full time and don't tell everyone at my part time job my business and I think it bothers them that I haven't given up everything else I am doing and working the full time like them. As I work that job, I am losing my feminine energy and I need to get it back.

[@Mahamaven]

i'm sorry, that is so frustrating smh. I will cover this topic more in depth on my second channel kzbin.info/door/8Tp11JAgAZVJhAZpbXCcxQ

[@george.eliot42]

THANK YOU!!! No one /ever/ talks about Alpha Females!!! We're expected to tone ourselves down and be betas but that's just not who I am, I'm not a delicate flower, but I'm still a feminine woman. Ugh, I appreciate this video /so much/, thanks girl ✨💕

[@adesuwawilson-iguade1730]

i really connected with this! especially your take on dating as a strong woman. i'm a feminist who is sensitive towards certain gender role tropes, yet I also view myself as a poised, alpha female. You have a really positive and balanced view that really is a gem

[@theycallmeshug]

@7:15 I do that too! I would wear a conservative color on my hands but a bright color on my toes. That way I can have the best of both worlds.

[@cleabric3706]

You're gorgeous I came across your content on tiktok and fell in love. I can't wait to see more of your content here on YT

[@NothingWasted]

Hey beautiful! So, as we all know feminity is definitely an energy and not all of us want to use as many products or treatments. Some prefer embracing and playing up our natural beauty. Skin, hair, eyelashes that we already have. Do you have any opinions and advice on that? Natural beauty, presence and energy vs getting our eyelash and hair extensions. I mean no disrespect. You do you! Thank you!

[@pruetoricangirl]

Glow is beautiful.

[@bogiemamma]

I have been waiting for something like this! As someone new to the dating world in after nearly 20 years, still struggling with some self confidence issues but also one who identifies as a powerful alpha female-well educated, excellent job, ambitious, active and supportive mom....dating is HARD!!!!! Seems like men I attract are alpha men, which I love, but don’t quite know what they want or I’m giving off vibes that communicate then not knowing what they want with me....anyways, I love your video and I can’t wait to watch more and to keep learning!!!

[@shalomibk]

Great content as always 🙌🏾

[@mani-ksb]

Great video. So true, I can relate as a a lawyer in uk. Love.

[@bolajistartuplaw]

Girl!!!! Thanks for this feminine alpha female

[@bri4njeff3rs0n]

The "Let him (x/y/z)" line of reasoning suggests the core inhibiting characteristic many women of a certain upbringing may have trouble with unconsciously since their natural impulses may seek control and they'd likely respect a partner who primarily were to be domineering; perhaps due to being conditioned for a different type of social culture. Compared to their competition, it may be easier (although not necessarily more desirable for the purposes of those who would benefit most from this video) for many men to pick an attractive woman of any other type (anyone with a naturally gentler and more feminine nature.) Although it is not my philosophy, I'm beginning to understand how some see this option as a path of lesser resistance, as some women (the type mentioned initially) can often be resistant and disagreeable. To be clear, I'm not alluding to ethnicity directly nor is that my intending meaning when I mention a disagreeable type (Frequent disagreeing is the necessary condition), only people who grew in a less compassionate environment and developed traumatized, anti-social behavior patterns. That state of being that may be more prevalent in some cultures or specific phenotypes (potential sufficient conditions) relative to others based on more complex factors. Alpha positioning is a relative good; mentioning such as a value mainly conveys the desire to control. Good people tend to be helpful, team players, and don't often care about being in charge (directing others, potential for aggressive overreaching) as much as being self directing (assertive) and meeting their own goals in harmony with their environment. Good people cooperate well because they are humble enough to be genuinely of service in any role whether leading or supporting. When a role places us in charge the most important rules we impose on ourselves to protect the followers from the possibility of ethical failings and faults from us.

[@maggidiy]

Love your content so much x

[@NinaSofia_]

Yes definitely believe you can have both qualities and balance them 💗😘🙏🏽

[@californiumcoati]

I’d say Beyoncé and Rihanna are perfect examples of feminine alpha females!

[@devonlovemusic]

Thank you because I am definitely struggling with this

[@Keke1980s]

Real talk ❤️

[@FindingDeidre]

LOVE THIS!!!!

[@eyeofheruenterprises]

She said take a break 😭😭😭💖

[@terrellthetaurus6568]

Feminine - having qualities traditionally ascribed to women, as sensitivity or gentleness. Please may you consider to share this definition to your sisters and mention sensitivity and gentleness. They literally need to here the words and rethink their little beautiful world. It difficult to bump into a sensitive woman. Men would appreciate women like you to say the whole truth in a gentle and sensitive way. Its all about the words and TACT? I love you. In a brother type way. Take care. NOBODY: ME: i take care of black women by the way... and I work for black entrepreneurs and turn them into millionaires. Because I am literally a business minded genius. Jay Abraham is my mentor. Get to know Jay Abraham. Go watch a video on youtube. Just type it in when you’re comfortable. Peace fembot.

[@queenveramathew]

So beautiful

[@tonyaborges3971]

I am both

[@Bossesroundhere]

👑👑👑

[@adamant7794]

Question, would opposites attrct , 2hat about a beta white british man?

[@adamant7794]

So yew are like the queen of sheba in my mind & i am just a peasant!!!

[@joetroutt7425]

I'm sorry I just couldn't continue, the beauty tips were boring me but I will say this. Alpha is pretty much a term reserved for men. Now with that being said if you are looking for an alpha male then there is definitely gonna be a power struggle there bc from society standards beta men are considered weak and no woman wants a weak man. Just saying. Now what a man want is a woman with intention and not floundering around in life with no ambition. A women that is submissive (not a doormat) where it matters the most. If you find a man who can't manage his own money responsibly then move on. If he treats his mom like crap. Move on. Maybe this isn't a video on how to attract a man but I think the requests may have alluded to that when you said you have have alot of requests for this topic. I watch alot of how to attract a woman videos and I watch alot of how to attract a man videos (bc I love educating myself) and this is what I have found. They both say the same exact thing. If men and women are so different then why are we getting the same exact advice? Women don't want to seem easy so they act hard to get. Men don't want to seem needy so they act aloof. Eventually attraction will fade bc neither want s to show their hand.bsomebody has to give. Why not it be the woman? Bc if the man does it then he's a needy beta which no woman "supposedly" wants. Childish schoolyard games is what it is. Grown adults shouldn't have to jump through hoops to get dates.

[@sunflowerrayne6026]

Woman keep telling woman to be alpha and strong I dont understand where that comes from so odd.

[@delightedbyu1]

Are you doing law for a job or are you just youtubing?