Fiance helps with my natural hair!

[@korrynwalker]

Girl, don't apologize for talking about yourself! Ya'll are a team and a package deal. We want to know about both of you and how you navigate this crazy thing called life (even hair routines). Keep doing what you do and thank you for sharing a part of you. Look forward to following your blog!!!! #naturalhairpoppin

[@amor797]

I think it's because some people give them lot of hate. They delete the hate comments, there are even racist ones to both of them. I can be wrong but I think she don't want to get bad attention.

[@jackimccall4483]

Yessss I find talking about your hair so interesting & amazing ☺ So many products & mantience🤦‍♀️ End result beautiful ❤

[@alisaishere]

I think because it's a couples channel, so she feels bad doing something by herself. Plus a lot of their content is about Cole's disability.

[@tiego26]

We do!!!!

[@coleandcharisma]

Thank you! ❤️

[@CactusJack252]

I’m married to a black woman from 🇹🇹. Last night I helped her wash her hair and dry it. It takes hours to do but I love her and I don’t complain and I enjoy helping her. She always feels so much better after a hair wash. Black hair care is so much different then white hair care. It requires a lot of patience and love.

[@randomvintagefilm273]

Just consider it bonding time. Im sure she appreciates you trying to help!

[@nubiancutey2530]

I'm a fan of Charisma & Cole from 🇹🇹

[@foulmouthjapanese6316]

Trinidad and Tobago in the house. 🇹🇹

[@princesspeach9951]

Trini Massive 🇹🇹 🇹🇹 🇹🇹!! Happy Independence day everyone! I love seeing Cole and Charisma's content crossing continents to all cultures

[@brooklove90]

@@rachmae4180 that's good to ask for help because my mom just left my hair..she didn't know how to take care of it so my dad ended up doing it lol but it was always actually super cute when he did it 😋

[@Abbiekakez]

The way he looks at her when she’s speaking 😍😍😍 so sweet

[@brendamawenu]

The way Cole looked at Charisma while she was talking abut her blog...😍

[@aprilyisrael1654]

Cole is getting the Black hair experience!! LOVE IT!!

[@AshleyMadisonsRight]

Um..he’s just doing his girlfriends hair. Why does it matter that she’s black?

[@aprilyisrael1654]

Oh BTW they're engaged

[@gamegirl85]

Ashley Madison it doesn’t matter

[@niagreen3404]

Ashley Madison it doesn’t but black hair is different than other types, it’s extremely kinky and curly

[@vanderson5226]

@@AshleyMadisonsRight because our hair is different.

[@BHadassah]

"I want BIG curls like macaroni noodles..." That was so cute! You two are beautiful together!

[@sacred.hearts]

YES that was cute lol

[@LADIEECATHY]

I love the way Cole looks at Charisma and when he talks about there future children his eyes 👀 light up; so cute 🥰!!!!!! #StayPositive

[@garlandfraley734]

Lol Cole is afraid of hair products,brave man to even attempt his ladies hair. You two rock

[@yvonnesinclair5244]

She got the hair twisting done really quickly. Wonderful couple. I thought they were already married. God bless.

[@denys7707]

Great job! I know how hard natural hair can be to style.

[@tangelayoung7442]

+q+

[@janadams2978]

Cole, your face when Charisma was talking about her blog was so sweet. So much love in those eyes 😀

[@ezcsharet1947]

Charisma is so pretty !!! Receives greetings from Mexico 🇲🇽 🇲🇽

[@stephanielynn5456]

When Cole said he'd love for his kids to have a "mess of hair" I imagined just little energetic kids with free, natural hair being complete cuties with their hair getting messy in the wind as they run around and play :D

[@InuMiroLover]

My husband is white and alot of times he gets curious about my 4C hair and Im always happy to teach him about my hair! I really think its great when white guys in relationships with black women make an honest effort to learn about our hair!

[@bobbieabbott]

I like that Cole is so open-minded and he's inquisitive and wants to know about things. Charisma you really are stunning very pretty and it's funny because Cole just watches you and you can just see in his eyes that he's memorized by you.

[@dancedanceCRASH]

Does anyone ever tell Charisma that she looks so much like Eartha Kitt?

[@coleandcharisma]

All the time!!

[@kre.7339]

A lot of people say that, in my opinion Charisma looks like Zoe Saldana

[@myfaithismusik]

@@kre.7339 yep ..

[@ellie9248]

@@coleandcharisma lol

[@DDJones-yi1pm]

Yeah, I agree! I knew she looked like someone familiar, but couldn't put my finger on it. Charisma is an attractive young lady. Continue to treat yourself well, Charisma!

[@slashandburnfitness]

👂🏾”High Porosity” Go Cole! I love this dude🥰

[@maranathacomelord7115]

I'm a 61 year old white old lady. LOL Lately I've been into watching Hair care for the African gals. I am so into it. I love silk press Never saw hair so shinny. I think I've watched so many I could actually do the silk press. I'm still trying to understand the products and such Also learning some about different staged hair. I don't know why but Suddenly I want a new career. LOL STAY POSITIVE and my God bless your blog. AMEN

[@elliotross3217]

Aww I find this so sweet 💗 Keep exploring your passion!

[@mango7966]

Lol so sweet 💕

[@kathleenevers7016]

LOL. Our hair is not easy to deal with but we a loads of versatility

[@Caly19977]

That's cool, it's fun to learn about and get interested in things outside of your personal daily experience that you might not otherwise have been exposed to. KZbin is pretty awesome really, you can learn more about almost anything

[@justicejoycetv]

Maranatha Quickly I hear your joy so please hear me in 🥰 love... as I trust you mean/meant no harm. *Please don’t use GaL when referring to, talking about or talking to Us* please just know it’s rooted in bad history and dehumanizing us. #BeWell

[@angiemoss9814]

This is too cute that Cole really wants to understand your natural hair.😂❤️

[@elanajiselle93]

I love this!! My boyfriend is also white and I am mixed, black and white. He asked if he could tried to braid my hair, I only got to explaining he had to separate it into three parts and he quit 🤣🤣

[@girlwiththebraidsinherhair2516]

🤣🤣🤣

[@wibbledee]

I learned how to do it many years ago on long campervan journeys. We used to sit on a picnic rug with a fringe and plaite them together

[@urbanitylush7154]

nature hair isn't for the faint of heart! lol

[@CactusJack252]

💀

[@randomvintagefilm273]

Lol, now that's sad

[@host945]

The fact that he mentioned porosity - love it! Black hair, such work!

[@mariacafetherapy]

Y’all are the cutest couple!!! I’m so excited to see y’all become parents. Your children will be so beautiful inside & out!

[@tabbykat2015]

Can we talk about the passion and love in Cole's eyes when he looks at Charisma? Just pure focus on her. They are the definition of love. Race, abilities whatever doesn't matter. Keep being yourself ❤❤

[@alexm5654]

YAY!! I'm so proud of you guys for making this far. Cole did a great job on your hair Charisma!

[@tammykentopp8660]

Way too cute! I love how Cole is already thinking ahead on how to help with their future children. Yes! I want to follow your blog! God bless

[@afuabafoa4996]

Awww Cole you are so sweet. I can feel how much you wish you could do Charisma's hair. But just sitting by hair and giving her the moral support is so amazing!!!

[@ryanm4769]

I found these two from "LOVE DON'T JUDGE" and must say they are so cute! And she is so pretty!

[@MadeeMadness]

A dime size is absolutely never enough for natural hair 😂

[@hari7-x7k]

I am smiling every time I see u guys. your love is contagious! I LOVE YOU GUYS. MUCH LOVE AND SUPPORT FROM ETHIOPIA. Stay blessed!

[@maryd5217]

Cole you are so funny😄 Charisma your hair is beautiful you guys are such an amazing couple stay blessed safe and healthy

[@nancydrew1882]

This is so cute!🥰 Cole knows all the curly hair terminologies. He’s killing me! 😂😂

[@nataliegrooman4328]

Ms Charisma, your hair is beautiful those twist curls are gonna look bomb!

[@carmenbass6545]

Cole you never cease to amaze me, you’re always trying new things with Charisma, and charisma, you’re always willing to learn things about Cole, you guys Rock, I’m a 56 year old woman from Alabama, that love your KZbin channel, can’t wait to see the wedding:

[@kwamalitasimon5006]

I agree do not ever apologize of who you are and anything about yourself. It would be nice to see more about how Cole will adapt to the new house with you alone. Also, may be when you have kids how will he manage. These blogs are very educational. Even though me and my husband are able body. You never know what life may turn out for you. Blessings to you both Kay S. In California

[@globalmatters4272]

I look forward to these videos. I find myself pouring through the postings looking for something I haven't yet watched. Most importantly, I have recently suffered spinal cord injury through illness. So, I am now dealing with paraplegia. Watching you has helped me and has given me much needed information in order to deal with this. Most importantly, I feel motivated to get my life back...or even a better life back.

[@sharon22669]

You're a huge part of Cole's life don't be shy about talking about yourself too! You two are such a beautiful couple inside and out. New but subscribing! So far it's been fun, happy and educational.

[@blackstrongmom73]

I love it. Lol. Too cute how Cole was watching you. You could see the love in his eyes.

[@juliekaufman4945]

This is hysterical... you’re so stinkin cute and genuine! Thanks for being a good example and encouraging to others!

[@sacred.hearts]

You guys are so cute I can’t stop smiling watching you guys. My boyfriend and I have the same type of vibe and it’s refreshing to see other couples being able to feel so much love for each other despite differences and struggles 🥺💗

[@THLauren]

You guys are too adorable and precious. You both must be protected at all costs. I can't wait till you guys have children!!! I just found you yesterday and I've fallen in love already. I'm mixed (black and white) and I have very fine hair but tight ringlet curls. However, my brothers have thick thick hair with ringlet curls. But anyone could end up with any kind of hair.

[@matthew-wyattburress3958]

“Can’t be contained” black hair in a nutshell

[@bethstrickland7985]

You guys are so awesome together, you can truly see the love!!!! Stay safe, healthy and blessed!!!!

[@lauraswan8647]

My sister is half black and my black friends taught me how to do her hair when she was little. I've had a lot of practice taking care of her hair and I know I am real good at it...it takes practice and research...it's actually easy .

[@charmainekgomotsomokwana5625]

Is not easy. I guess biracial people and black ppl's hair is to different nt

[@ningwachemjong9018]

I think it’s lovely you learnt how to take care of your sisters hair 💖

[@chrism9294]

@Laura I’m glad you learned and helped keep your sister’s hair done. Idk why some of the comments come off as discrediting the ease in which you do YOUR SISTER’S hair especially since anything you’ve had a lot of practicing doing will get easier and become easy. Also just because your sister is biracial doesn’t mean her hair isn’t natural nor does it mean that she automatically has the perceived mixed girl/easier to deal with hair. I know plenty of mix people with hair that takes more time to manage than non mixed black people. You never know what hair you’ll get being mixed. However, most of the non mixed black people that I know do have to put in more time and care than most other people. But, at the end of the day, practice and experience do help. I’m glad you’re good at doing your sister’s hair because I’m only mediocre at doing my own hair.

[@lauraswan8647]

@Monica Jones my sister has very very coarse hair. She doesn't have wavy hair, or however you're saying. It's easy for me because I remember instruction pretty fast and I am very good with my hands; my Asian friends also instructed me what to do. I've been doing my sister's hair up to the age of 18..no i am not black , but I am good with all types of hair..for me it's easy

[@lauraswan8647]

@Shell my sister's hair is coarse and now she's grown up and I am still good at it...it's a gift. To God be the glory

[@parisinthe30sx]

I love black women's hair, there is so much you can do with it! I have thin stick straight Navajo hair that won't hold a curl at all. I have to wash it every day. Grass is always greener I guess 😁

[@kre.7339]

Sunday Fun!!! I love the natural look!!! No relaxer, damaging chemicals....healthier hair. #interesting #fun

[@samanthajauer8454]

They way y’all look at each other is pure love ❤️ best couple ever

[@ivorellarackley4401]

Cole straight up embodied the white guy blinking meme when the hair clip that Charisma was trying to use blew out of her hands... I love you guys, but I have never laughed harder than his face in that moment

[@ivorellarackley4401]

13:22 for those who aren't sure what I mean.......

[@susiehadfield3985]

Thank you sweet Charisma for posting about your hair. It's really interesting and for some of us (i am not African American) it is the only way to learn about different hair textures etc. I would never approach any of my African friends and put them on the spot or make them feel self conscious by asking them about it, but any time anyone volunteers to give me information about something, I AM ALL EARS!! I love, love, love your posts and wish you and your handsome beau a LIFETIME of happiness together xx

[@glorialowe5881]

You have a warm and good friendship. Also a loving relationship. Which will get you through life as a couple . Love how you complement each other. Cole you are very special and understanding. Stay safe guys ❤🙂😷

[@pjtribble7214]

Awesome!! You guys are a team so, it doesn't matter what you two talk about with us on YOUR channel!! Charisma you are beautiful inside and out!! Have a wonderful, safe and blessed day! Peace and Blessings!

[@nancya2490]

Charisma and Cole you show people that anybody can do anything and no one can tell you different!

[@teresahicks7479]

I just love y’all chemistry. Yes that natural hair is something else

[@ABeautifulMess101]

“As I am” is a great co-wash. It gets your hair clean like a shampoo, but doesn’t strip the hair and it adds moisture like a conditioner.

[@karennicholls8618]

I love the fact that ‘natural hair’ can be changed into so many other looks. Most people would love that. So unique and love Cole’s involvement lol. You guys are so good together 💕

[@zivagoldman2001]

Normally, I don't encourage newlyweds to have children, but I just love that Cole looks forward to becoming a Father. I think you will have beautiful children. I would love to see Cole attempt to do a little girl's long, curly hair! :)

[@nataliejunge2901]

You guys are the cutest couple! The fact that Cole is willing to at least try/learn how to do your hair is awesome. I can’t even get my husband to brush or play with my hair, I’m so jelly! I love that you talked about yourself in this video because it still shows how you work together as a couple and navigate the things many couples deal with. Blessings and good health to you both 🙏💜

[@amberrogers0709]

I love you guys so much u guys are the cutest couple ever I can’t wait for another video

[@fanolawilkinson8309]

Cole and Charisma you are one in a million. You will never imagine the positive impact your videos are on your subscribers. Keep up the good work and don't let negative people discourage you. Remember you have more people for you than those against you. God bless you both.

[@cassiew1734]

My husband had no clue about women’s hair and what we have to go through. After I talked him into shampooing my hair it only took one time for him to start paying for me to go to the beauty shop and the nail shop twice a month. 😆. He said he doesn’t know how women do it. He said we use too many hair products and it confusing to him. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@DDJones-yi1pm]

That's the way to do it!!👍🏼😀👍🏼

[@wynetteabc]

👍🏾

[@shantaworld4702]

Paid off for you lol

[@alisaishere]

I think it all depends on hair type and personality. My have oily, fine, thin hair, so I just need to wash, condition the ends, and a bit of volumizing dry shampoo on the roots and I'm good to go. It air dries in minutes, even in the winter.

[@parisinthe30sx]

@@alisaishere fine thin club here too. It sucks honestly. I have to use so much product just to make myself look like It's not so thin. I miss my thick hair, I don't know what happened 😣

[@poojagokool6462]

2:25 Omg it’s called a container because it contains things..Cole just made me realize this 😂

[@lakep7798]

Hahaha, eureka moment!😂💖

[@patsavage2714]

Such a good couple your hair looks good

[@ShereneMc]

The struggle of having nature hair, is all the work that goes into it. Charisma made it look easy, and fun having Cole help out. Excited for the blog :)

[@meditatewithme5189]

Once you learn what products to use and what works best for you it's easy. I use to spend a lot of money on products but now I buy coconut oil or olive oil that you cook with and a maybe eco styler gel or gorilla snot. Keep it simple and allow your hair to do what it wants.

[@MrYoda707]

Thank you guys for making this video I don’t know anything about Black people’s hair

[@shantaworld4702]

Now you know Jade, it’s a struggle. White woman can just wash blow comb and go, not black woman. We go thru it lol

[@Areyousayingidontknowmyname]

@@shantaworld4702 Im a white chick. I wake up. brush my hair and away. My ex neighbors and friends are from Zimbabwe and Kenya. The extent they went through. I would go and check it out. But the damage done to the hair was crazy. Beauty is harsh in the case of their hair. So many bald spots. Opened my eyes.

[@colorfulcodes]

@@shantaworld4702 Depends on the black woman. Lots of type 4 wash and gos. It's just that we choose to do more styling.

[@stephaniereavis1908]

It's a job, Jake.

[@MM-ti6yk]

Shanta' World it’s depends. My hair is too thin and its a challenger every time I do my hair.

[@poeticlyliving0703]

“I recognize that terminology...” 🤣🤣😂🤣 He sounds like my husband when it comes to hair el oh el but sissss Spill the skin care deets. Your skin is beautiful and clear. Yess we love cole but we love you too!!

[@asiamontgomery9665]

A must watch, Cole is too cute

[@jessicaford5259]

Omg! You two are a perfect match! Charisma I have to admit I was trying to figure you two out. I have watched a lot of your videos but after this one I get it! You LOVE working with Cole and allowing him to do anything he’s willing to do! Cole is very handsome so of course he’s attractive and as an Occupational therapist this is your heart and soul, I see now Cole isn’t a burden to you AT ALL, you actually enjoy every second you’re together. You allow him to do things on his own and you’re always there to help if he needs you but you encourage him to do the things on his own, like you enjoy watching him and seeing him in all his glory ❤️. I love you guys! And Cole’s determination and constant upbeat spirit is very encouraging. I love how he makes you laugh and he is very funny. So sweet!

[@lysianeamougou]

I wish I have a man willing to care for my fro hair. You two are so cute 😍😍😍 greetings from Cameroon, Africa

[@fayexsaturns]

I just love their relationship and how they look at each other. This is such true love and it is so beautiful to watch.

[@QueenJosephine85]

Cole: De-co! Deep Conditioning 🤣🤣🤣

[@tobby6312]

I will be borrowing his word "de-co!"😆

[@Humbirdhippo5475]

I love authentic, transparent & unapologetic blogs. Shared heartfelt and honest experiences are truly ‘the journey.’ Those are the ones I read. I’m sure yours will be fabulous. Can’t wait.

[@J3MF]

So happy with the growth I’m seeing on your channel! You guys deserve it all 💖

[@karleymurphy]

Cole trying to learn about charismas hair is THE cutest thing I've ever seen and honestly props to him bc natural hair can be a mammoth to conquer and it can be entirely different for different types of curl patterns and thickness.

[@baabaasmah4096]

Charisma your twists are soooooo neat... That can never be me 😂😂😂

[@emaleeplumley3418]

You are Roll with Cole AND Charisma - don’t apologize for talking about yourself! Yes, we love seeing how amazing Cole is and being inspired by his story and his ability, we love him! BUT we love you too! We want to see your life, your abilities, the things YOU do!💗 We love you both dearly! You two are a team!

[@lucindagray8882]

Good for Cole 👍🏾 for trying to understand more about ethnic hair!! Can’t wait 😊 till the day when we see Charisma walk down the aisle & start a family 🥰🥰🥰🥰.

[@blairf7118]

So I am Black and my bf is white and also a wheelchair user. We've been together for almost 4 yrs and I see so much of us in ya'll 😍😍😍thank you for all you do to spread education, awareness and love!

[@kaceykent2269]

Omg Charisma singing while washing her hair is literally me 😊❤. Love you guys!

[@suelyth3936]

Your videos are uplifting and fun to watch. Hope your relationship lasts forever with your humor and and devotion to eachother. Wishimg you the best

[@Nicolelovesdonuts]

I still get emotional when I remember your mum proposed to Charisma 😭😖 so cute I love her!

[@barbaralockett2956]

You did a great job with your hair, and I’m sure Cole learned a lot, love you guys

[@eep0128]

I love this quality time & all-around education of disabilities, black culture, & everything that y'all experience personally & together. Maybe I can educate anyone that doesn't know this, but most "standing" showers have floors that are built downward/concave, in hopes to keep the water from going out & damaging the floors. If the water were able to get out, not only could it damage floors, but also the baseboards, walls, etc. So it's generally better to not create a flat surface in your "standing shower."

[@88ashjen]

My kiddos are both biracial (black and white) and their hair textures are so different. My daughter has straighter wavy hair just like her dad who is white and my son has such beautiful curly hair. If you could imagine how native Hawaiians has such beautiful hair that is his, I love his hair so much. I’m also natural and have been for 11 years and I love my hair it’s thick curly but I love how it has grown over the years.

[@juneowiny1028]

Cole's gonna be a good daddy. He really wants to know all about your hair Charisma.

[@patprentice4127]

I so enjoy watching yall,its so nice to see bow hall go thru every day routines. I wish y'all the best.Thanks for sharing.

[@lhshnailed7523]

Lol when the conditioner was rolling away - imagine someone starts watching the video from there and you guys are talking to something on the floor😂😂 hugs and love to you both.

[@misspooh7588]

Love the way she keeps him involved and the fact that he wants to be involved. You guys are going to have a great married life together. Can't wait to see you guys as parents. You're going to be awesome.

[@evaadams8298]

It’s 2.15am and couldn’t sleep. So I logged in and look what I found! YAY! You guys are fab!! Cheers from Australia 🇦🇺💙🐶

[@MissBanks612]

i know this is super late but when your clip flew across the room i felt it in my soul. i have locs and when i retwist i lose at least one clip EVERYTIME! you are the cutest couple and i love your love.

[@destynirodgers6203]

Ill watch them everyday

[@taml754]

I really love you guys... You both give me hope that a better world is possible... One full of love, respect, humor, support, acceptance and of course Positivity!!! Thank you both for being such awesome people!!!

[@abbymmoja8540]

I'm addicted to watching your videos.You guys are my favorites.

[@deweydeese3699]

Y'all are so cute together. Thanks for your positive attitude.

[@missmolino9786]

I dont know why I laugh every time Cole hides under a curtain, he's so silly😂 I love it. Also, my 3 kids are biracial and they all have very different hair. I'm black and had to learn how to maintain their hair.

[@tinap9787]

Thank you so much for sharing Cole and Charisma. This was fun to watch because it was you two in relax mode. Talking & thinking about the future and what your children will be like. You both made me smile. Tina in Cali

[@paytonpfile6046]

I just watch your “ Love don’t judge” on Snapchat and as soon as I saw you had a KZbin page I just had a follow you because you are a beautiful couple with a strong connection💖 I wish the two of you nothing but the best😘

[@beverlydust5381]

Cole and Charisma I like the way you teach each other what you know, you educate each other and your utube viewers. I like how you each have your own strengths but are willing to help each other when needed. That is a very good way to have a balanced relationship, it bowdes well for a long marriage.

[@msguineapigsrus]

"Do we have duck tape?" LOL I died, duck tape is the solution to everything!

[@iheartdbell6029]

The only thing I was nervous for Charisma about was detangling. Cuz WOOOOOOO chile it can be rough sometimes.But he needs the practice, especially for when they have kids. And teach his mom also. 👍🏾

[@DDJones-yi1pm]

Hello, Roll with Cole & Charisma! Bathroom scene...what's up here? Black hair...oh my!! It's all good! Lil' Sis, you have beautiful hair. So, PLEASE, do your best not to neglect it, ok?😏 Don't take it for granted; alhough, I don't think you intend to. I wish you well Cole!👍🏼

[@babycakes1658]

Haven't seen you two crazy kids in 3mos. Sorry. Love how involved you two are with one another. You both do plenty for one another and that is the key to make a marriage work. Keep your happiness up give a swift kick to all of your blues. Yall got this.

[@ladym34]

YAASSS Cole with the natural hair term "High Porosity"... Love the end result Charisma, great job Cole!

[@bluepearlagain]

CAN NOT Wait for the blog!!!!!!would love to see: tours of your city and spots that you like/vintage shopping for your home furniture/ workouts / Your diy for your garden + house!!!! Can’t wait !!