Fighting in front of Children, Extra Marital Affairs, & Divorce | Smile With Prachi

Fighting in front of Children, Extra Marital Affairs, & Divorce | Smile With Prachi
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[@vindicatress_]

Bells it may sound funny...but ssc CHSL intermediate (12+) forms are out you apply for it and start preparing for it online.. there are many such government jobs you can apply and prepare for which requires just class 12th qualifications. You can on the other hand apply for the post of cashier in any mall or receptionist for a short period of time to Mangage expenses somehow

[@SATYAMDHARIAA]

One of the best advice!!!

[@bharath2326]

Quora Person 😀

[@tazeenrashid2055]

Just one more thing the exam centers of SSC exams are usually quite far from residential areas so you need to keep that in mind as well

[@edu-social-cbse157]

Someday prachi di will win a award for this series...these don't only help those two people everytime..but they are more like self help videos...much awaited video

[@sanika5067]

If you fight in front of your children, also patch up in front of them. Don't just move past it without addressing it appropriately.

[@sheikfareed8012]

Yes that's really important ! Cuz not all the times the kids will understand - no matter how old they are.

[@nehaneha_]

hey 2nd letter.. i am sending you so much love and hug yaaa.. theek ho jayega sab.. bilkul daro nahi.. ❤ someday you will make your daughter proud of how you won this for her.. i am proud of you.. ❤

[@beck8210]

Hey Prachi! Thank you so much for making these videos, as a person with Tourette’s and adhd I have had a lot lot of guilt and insecurities but honestly these videos have made me feel so much better thank you for this keep doing what your doing(:

[@deepikar3853]

Bells.. you're a strong woman. I'm praying to God that things should be fine at your end..

[@geethumaddali3632]

The way uh advice and handled the most sensitive case of bells is juz out standing di. Uh r soo inspiring therapist no show off no lengthy unnecessary discussion, crisp and clean 💥

[@celestia_0894]

Bells hey! Ur a really strong young woman. My mother has been in a similar situation as you. She gave up her well paying job after having me since she didn't trust the idea of nannies. But due to this she became financially dependent on my dad. She trusted him but my dad began having extra-marital affair. My maternal grandparents are supportive to a huge extent but my mom didnt wanna depend on them and put them to shame due to her situation then. Uk how hard getting a divorce was back then. My mom stayed with my father only to finish my education and make me financially independent. My mom took some really practical steps, stayed in the loveless marriage just so that the both of us could be financially independent. She is just about to reach her goal and I am about to finish my education too. Just in the end I hope that throughout ur journey u don't vent out ur frustrations on your child because its gonna be hard. U may be walking on eggshells now because u could be cut off financial support from your husband anytime without proper reasonings so pls listen to Prachi di's solutions. That's exactly how u need to move forward tbh.

[@scalerup]

Omg, that's very terrible. I'm sorry for you. The fact that your mum is still w that cheater for the sake of your betterment is very touching. Take good care of her and NEVER GIVE UP YOUR FINANCIAL INDEPENDENCE. all the best

[@jyotidaspromax]

Come on man. Women don’t marry a man. They marry your lifestyle , career , money and nothing else. Your girlfriend or wife is with you until she found a better than you. Once she has she just leave you. You will be alone and crying . Just focus on your goals, earn money and invest yourself.

[@sparklingandsprinklingdebu846]

bells hey dear go for IGNOU degree, u can pay online complete your course in distance education and see videos for information. u can also start looking for job online. save up,read nd be more cunning. dont have more kids with this guy

[@anonymoushj8373]

Hii bell!! I just pray that good things come to you very soon.. You are a strong woman and as you mention people say you can't control your man it's your and all..No it's not your falt at all a person who wants to cheat will cheat that's their choice and has nothing to do with you. Like some body cheated on katrina Kaif too! Right? I think you can also make your profile on apps like linked in. You can get a job paying 10..15 k initially and work from home so you can save for future... Also once try to talk about this to your in law's may be they take your side and yes you are just 27 you have your whole life in front of you.. Also your letter tells that you are intelligent and have a practical mindset so don't worry things will go your way All my blessing to you

[@NJkumari]

Prachi Di.. The second story is the same with me. Each line descibes the situation in which I m currently in. The only difference is that I have a son of 8 years old. If ever I take any step in say 5 years or something they will take away my child. As I had just said that I m going to divorce him they said the child will be with us then. I m. Also very helpless but I'll not give up.

[@shwetaakhaire]

Legally the child should be with mother. And father can meet the child once or twice a week. Be practical and take proper steps. I hope you you win and find peace.

[@anshmittal3098]

@@shwetaakhaire nah if his husband has lot of connections it will be hard But yeah thats the best decision

[@jivipathak6824]

I hope someway it works out for you or you find some help, because living like this doesn't makes sense I know its hard but you gotta fight more harder

[@anishadas7547]

Bells you can look for jobs with your class 12th degree. The paycheck will be low but it can help you in the long run.

[@itabella3143]

Any advice on online courses that are actually helpful? And which will be useful

[@KajalKumari-qp8dy]

Hlw prachi di.. Good morning... Was waiting for your vedios

[@siddhikaiyer8100]

Do you guys feel she's genuine or Shes a very well-mannered/saintly lady?

[@khushalisethi]

Her❤

[@k-popmultistandom5690]

Blessed notification

[@saksha3389]

Please try to complete some course or education because In this there's are many companies which are giving opportunity to woman who want restart their career

[@shubhangisharma4325]

Prachi di want to share my problem not feeling right nowadays

[@vidhibaxi1039]

Finally!!!

[@navyahm1693]

Hey Prachi Please make a video on how to deal with extra marital affair or love affair

[@sg3918]

I hope that's just for education and not your situation.

[@jyotidaspromax]

Come on man. Women don’t marry a man. They marry your lifestyle , career , money and nothing else. Your girlfriend or wife is with you until she found a better than you. Once she has she just leave you. You will be alone and crying . Just focus on your goals, earn money and invest yourself.

[@shwetasingh4033]

hey prachi di so i was in realtion with a guy when we were in 9th standard we broke up at that time because a guy who liked me told him to breakup otherwise he will be beaten so we broke up but at that time he told me the reason he is breakup up coz his kother was against us i bought that reason but later in 10th he dated a girl for few months and then he had a fight with that girls other bf and it ended after all this i moved to different place as my father was posted i got into another realtion as well he cheated we parted ways. even i was in relation with someone else i had good bond with my ex(9th class one) after my breakup i called him up he listened to me and told me dont worry it will be fine and it did got fine later i started to him like gaps of months in between whenever i was drunk i used to call him and same goes for him he said it clear to me that he dont have any plan to be in relation with anyone he dont ever want to get married to anyone last year his cousinbrother one of my very good friend died and it took a very bad impact on him he become more silent after his death earlier he was atleast living his life but after him he stopped living it he cant sleep at all i met him this year again in may coz of our friend wedding we both knew we have feelings for each other so it did lead to physical intimacy between us i came back things were fine but again he realised that he cant be in relation and as we were talking daily ut felt like realtion to him so again we stopped talking now this time i shifted to delhi regarding my job and i met him again but after meeting he did respond to my call once but after that there are no sign of him he didnt call back or revert to my msg and out of anger i blocked him from every place possible i am frustrated and dont know what am i suppose to do with this should i just move on or talk to him for some reason i dont have courage to ask him face to face wtf he is doing and why please help me i just want to know what i can do

[@jivipathak6824]

I guess firstly it is important to be clear of you own feelings, that are you sure of your feelings for him or Is it same for you that when you are drunk/sad or no one else is there so you choose him, after being sure for your own feelings, have real conversation with guy, see already told from long ago that he doesn't want a relation but then again when you guys talk he does get involved with you and feel emotional connect with you as you said now this abandoning behavior might be a trauma response ,get to know his real reasons about why doesn't he want commitment those reasons could be his fears and insecurities which might be pulling back him , or it It also possible that he really is clear about not having relation but sometimes casually likes to engage with you which feels good to him , so try to find it out maybe start with some puzzle questions if you think he wont answer truthfully or be unable to for whatever reasons than take this conversation ahead and be straightforward

[@shwetasingh4033]

@@jivipathak6824 thanks will try

[@jivipathak6824]

@@shwetasingh4033 happy to help 😊

[@Serenemind.135]

❤️🙏

[@tike621]

Hi prachi first of all please give me suggestions and in comments anybody can give me suggestions actually I'm 18 year old girl I'm kind of live in middle class family and I'm here we live in village mere family me ,me bachpan se dekhti aae hu how my father always violence abuse my mother but mummy ne bhot faislo ke baad bhi unke sath rehne ka decision liya or because of child's me 12 th me thi me 17 th ki hue hi thi or mere liye rista aa gyaa like hmesa se hi mere liye riste aate rhe the because me other girls like family friends me height or beauty me achi thi so 14 ki age se hi ye start hogya tha or mere ghr mummy papa strict the or papa kuch jada but like educated the not like that ki unhe kisi chij ki smj nhi thi but then rista aaya or meri sadi hogae me bss 18 me turn hue thi or sadi hogae mummy ne bhot kosis ki rokne ki sadi but papa or mere relatives nhi Mane they says acha rista he badme kese milege vgera vgera like hmari ek sal sagae chli or jbtk i don't express that love khi na khi muje life me education chaiye thi because me bhot pehle se ek open minded ldki thi but meri jisse sagae hue thi my fiance vo hmesa mujse bhot Wade krta tha bolta tha study everything they manage or muje iss chij ki khushi thi or love bhi tha but bhot si chije jo muje us time ya meri family ko pta chli hmne dhyan nhi Diya sadi ke baad vo change sa hogye like mene kisi other se sadi ki ho or bhot si problem isi bich chlti rhi or study to durr ki baat he bhar khi lejane pr unki family me debate ho jata tha vo marriage ke 6 month me hi ye chij hue jha bss choti si baat pr unhone mujhe ghr se nikal diya or night ko parents ke ghr chhor diya then phone lgake mere bare me mere relatives ko bhot kuch bola i don't know why then because logo ke dar se mere husband ka ek month bad call aya or usne kha sorry glti hogae ab nhi hoga esa me family ko smjauga or ye bat keh vo rha tha jo muje ghr se bhar nikalne me sbse aage tha or unhone ek word nhi bola unke parents ya brothers ko ki meri wife ko kyu bhar nikalre ho ghr se now ab mujhe smj nhi Ara kya kru because mene usi time faisla leliya tha divorce ka or mummy papa or relatives says ki divorce ke baad kisi or se sadi hogi vo achaa milega ya nhi kisko pta like unko to sadi krani hi thi meri koi consult unke liye jruri nhi tha but now everyone say ki jo krna he tumhe krna he soch lo mummy say ki tum divorce lelo because vo nhi chati muje unhi ki trh life jite dekh but everyone say ek forgive dedo ushe or muje nhi smj aara kya kru please suggest me kya kru because me abhi 18 ki hu i don't know kya krna chahiye please guide me

[@SmileWithPrachi]

Whatever you do, 1. Don’t get pregnant. Don’t get pregnant jab takk puri clarity Nahi mile. Nahi toh helpless situation ho jaati hai. 2. Tell him you will only come back if you are allowed to finish your education. He has promised you before marriage, toh ab kya ho Gaya?? Finish your studies, this is extremely important. 3. Remember one thing, future mein if you get remarried, there is no guarantee that the family will be good or bad. But one thing you know for sure is that this family is not respecting you, and they are very bad. Future mein divorce ke baad at least hope toh hai. 4. If you choose to forgive him, let him know that you are not afraid to divorce. And you will use your legal options to put his family in jail for mental harassment. Such families only start behaving better if they realise that the girl is not desperate or scared of the society.

[@tike621]

@@SmileWithPrachi thanks for guiding me i know I'm strong girl or me life me bhot better kr skti hu thank you 💫

[@saimmm88]

Hello vedika! i hope you are doing well. Ye bohot ajeeb lagega ki main suddenly reply kar rhi hoon but i really want to help you. Toh main tumhe batana chahti hoon ki tumhe sabse pehle financially independent hona hoga, tumhare apne liye. Taki tumhe agar phir pati ya uska parivaar misbehave kare toh tumhe financial support ho aur upar se tumhare papa v reliable insaan nhi hai so issiliye. Now tumne freelancing k bare main suna hai? usme tum online Kam kar k paise kama sakte ho. Vo sab karne k liye tumhe degree ki jarurat nhi hai but skills hone chahiye (aur ek laptop). Aur maximum skills tum online free main h seekh sakte ho. Maine aise online bahot se logo se baat ki hai jinhone degree li lekin kaam nhi ayi phir online seekh, skills badha k paise kama rhe hai.....main v middle class family se hoon and apne toxic parents se chutkara paane se ki koshis kar rhi hoon. Maine 2 saal continuous minnate kare k bad ek laptop la k dia hai taki main v freelancing kar sakun.....aur main online dekh rhi kaunsa niche mere suitable hai aur us pe skills develope karungi. I hope we both have great future ahead, sending love and strength ❤

[@tike621]

@@saimmm88 thank you so much for comforting me actually now I'm more confident girl actually ab mene work start krdiya he online jha me tutoring krti hu based on my skills or ha jha tak mere toxic husband ki bat thi bhot sochne ke baad faisla liya he me unhe divorce dugi kuch din bad hi case lgane ja rhi hu or sch khu to ab dar nhi lgta ki family or dusre mere sath he bhi ya nhi bss me ab khudko hi itni strength deti hu ki khudke faisle khud le sku it's been 3 month jbse me mere ghr hu or mene in bich bhot bar socha unhe maf kru but unhone hade par krdi he to bss ab ek toxic relationship se bhar ana he and jese aap bol rhi ho toxic parents to mere parents bhi same he but aap ki trh me bhi khudke trust krugi or aap bhi hmesa khudpe trust krna because mujhe lgta he hmare siwa hmara koi nhi hota he so please take care or thanks for supporting me 😊

[@saimmm88]

@@tike621 oh thank god i am so happy tumne apne liye stand lia and i would say tumne bohot accha decision lia hai, i support you and sab yaha prachi ki sane viewers v tumhe support karte hai. Like prachi said koi v toxic relationship deserve nhi karta, chalo peedhighat torture ko khtm karne wale bante hai * high- five* . You are so strong!!!! I admire you so much! Main v peeche nhi hatungi and brave rahongi

[@aishwaryasharma6418]

Your videos never disappoint 🤌🤌👍

[@kallolpoetry]

Bells first of all, so sorry to hear the kind of problems and issues you are facing. Not a lot of people can have the courage to stay safe in tough times. But believe me, when there is a will, there lies a way. So, have faith that you will do good ahead. Here are some things Bells you can do to save up on your account as finances. Bells have you done some writing before. I think you can take up freelance work in writing through facebook groups and then build your network. Eventually with your skill improving, the money will also increase. The entire process is digital, so there is no issue whatsoever with payment. It will take 2-3 months for you to develop your skill. If you put your mind into it you can get an entry level pay and even more if you improve. You can take up private jobs in good malls, hotels, and even hospitals as a receptionist/front office. You can do that to save some amount initially, build up on it and then when you are financially stable you can think about cutting ties with your husband. You can gather skills in digital marketing as well, it's a new field and does not require any prior qualification as such. There are plenty of courses available in skill share, upwork and udemy etc. You can even try learning about it in youtube and then include it in your writing. Bells, you say you are a good kid, what did you take up in 12th. I mean your stream. Tuition teachers make more money than even some mid level software job. If you took science, you can tuitor maths, chem, phy etc and charge on an hourly basis. You can also do that in commerce subjects as well. You can also tuitor somewhere. One of my friends who was depressed while preparing for CA taught SST in DPS Gwalior. He was also pursuing his bachelors at that time and taught there. If you decide to get a degree, you can actually think about becoming a teacher. If you prepare well, you can even get a govt job in teaching. Even good private schools will pay you a sustainable amount. Regardless, while you look for a source of income, complete your education, get a Bachelors degree from IGNOU. Its a central university though open, you just have to make assignments and sit for test. Try to get a professional degree. And most of the weekly classes there happens online. That way you can work and study. I feel really sorry to see you suffering, but try getting back up on your feet little and little. You will do wonders. Have faith...😞😞😞🥺🥺🥺