FILIPINAS Are Worth More Than S*X

This series is not about #feminism or woman’s #liberation in the #philippines . We are already liberated, and we never want to give up our #love of, and for, #motherhood and the importance of #family . It is about recognizing the achievements of the #filipina s over the images being pushed on social media. We hope you will watch with open minds and will join us in celebrating the accomplished women of the Philippines.
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[@__Craig__]

Very well said and mindful content. In addition to being leaders and full of substance, I think the majority of the subscribers here are also attracted to qualities that not many speak about. Very few talk about the qualities that I see; empathy, compassion, caring, loving, loyalty, and the most pure happiness mindset I have ever seen. As soon as you step foot outside of the big cities, you feel that energy. The heart of a true Filipina is worth its weight in gold. "Sex Sells" is unfortunately a global problem. Thank you for being a brave and strong leader in your community. I think your message is certainly the message of the silent majority.

[@Life_WithShay]

That is why we are speaking out about this Craig! Because you've seen us, and you've expressed what you experienced so beautifully! Most of us want to be known for who we really are, and not the objects of "sex sells." So, we plan to expose the world to who real Filipinas are, and what we are about, just as you said. 😌

[@frank5436]

I'm standing with you Craig that Filipinas are the most wonderful people in the world! They are to be treasured, respected and appreciated. They are worthy and accomplished, even as mother's and housewives. Happy Mother's Day and bless them more 💐❤️🙏

[@albraun-sq6rg]

A very powerful and important video! You two presented it with such class. My wife is one of those Filipinas who is accomplished, and it bothers us to see how Filipinas portray themselves on social media just for more views. We support your channel because of the high cinematic quality and the messages you convey, and because you care so deeply about these topics. Thank you and we are looking forward to this series.

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you as always Al for all of your support! Please say hello to your lovely wife for me! We couldn't make these videos without patrons like you! 😌

[@jspice-kl2wc]

Filipina women are at the top of the list for best at everything. Just from spending a little time in the PH I saw firsthand how the Filipina people are amazing. Thank you, great video.

[@Life_WithShay]

That is so beautifully said Joe! And we saw the best in western men when we spent time with you. 😌

[@charlesweatherly3586]

Gooday Shay, everything you said is an accurate depiction of how many Filipinos are viewed by the West. One of the ways the narrative can be changed is primarily going to be through Education. Filipinos often times get overlooked due to being too shy, not willing to be counted due to not finding their voice. In Western societies the competition is fierce for every position in life. If one is not willing, or not able to speak up, stand up, and demonstrate what and who you are, then yes you will be overlooked, passed over and possibly become a Doormat for someone else's ambitions. Case in point in the various areas of endeavor the Group that stands out the most is the South Asian Diaspora people from India. They are highly skilled and very competitive, and many sit atop the corporate ladder in the US and other Western democracies. Filipinos have found success as well but more work needs to be done to achieve their dreams.

[@Life_WithShay]

Yes Charles. The loudest and most sensational draws the most attention. But there is a whole culture of quietly accomplished Filipinas (and Filipinos) here who are not out there on social media grabbing all the attention. We would like to be a small part in changing the perception. 😌

[@marshallayers7282]

i enjoy your content. i have a relashionship with a 49 tr old widow. she has 3 kids 25, 21, and 10, she was married to a good man for 24 yrs. he passed away. i have been to his grave many times to honor him. on topic. my gf soon to be wife takes great pride in being a mother and housewife. now with a new grand son. she is not educated or worldly. or beutifull. but she is to me. success is not just measured in education and such. i have also been to the graduation parties of several of her nieces. her life is simple but sucessfull. and we are happy.

[@Life_WithShay]

"... she is not educated or worldly. or beautiful. but she is to me..." One of the most beautiful lines we've read. Yes, Marshal, educated is all about knowledge in something. If she is a wonderful mother and grandmother, then she has knowledge and wisdom in that. And yes! Simple can be successful, and we would like to portray that as such. Thank you!

[@dwaynekeith156]

Filipinas are strong, resilient, smart, because many times they have to be. They add a huge amount of GDP to the country. Support their families even when sometimes they shouldn't.

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Dwayne! We agree with you here and will be saying more. Keep watching 😌

[@IanCrouse]

This video could have been 4 hours, and I would have watched it all. You should be the voice of The Philippines. I vote for you. You and Ray are great together. Love the production value.

[@Life_WithShay]

Hi Ian! Professor Ron and I will provide you with at least the four hours you want to watch because we appreciate you 😌

[@Randy30165]

I think Filipinos have become world renowned as intelligent, creative people that value education as attested by its 96% literacy rate compared to 86% in the US. A great number of Engineers, Medical personnel and Artists from the Philippines are making contributions in numerous countries throughout the globe. Anyone that thinks the Philippines or Thailand or any other country they see depicted negatively on the Internet is the true picture, they have a problem. Filipina women are some of the strongest most intelligent and gifted women in the world, I should know, I married one.

[@Life_WithShay]

We love this comment Randy! It is so beautifully written and very moving, especially because you are speaking from first hand experience. That's why we want to do this series - so that the world can know who we Filipinas (and also Filipinos) are. We are so much more than the way we are often portrayed in social media. Thank you for being in our community! 😌

[@ryanm9371]

@@Life_WithShay Being a great mother and wife is way more important than being an engineer, etc for a woman. You think you are spreading a good profound message but you’re not. Good mothers and wives form good families which are the foundation of strong societies, without them it crumbles. Men from all over the world do Not travel to PH for career women who value money over everything, they go with their life savings to build a family with a good woman. Think long and hard about this video you created. It is the wrong message

[@Life_WithShay]

Hi Ryan, I think I am a very good mother, and I am also a photographer.videographer and have always had to work to support my children. These things are not mutually exclusive. It's not about valuing money. It's about being accomplished as a human being and doing what you or I want to do. You want us to fit your own mindset of what a woman should be, but women can be anything, just as men can be. Men can be stay at home dads if they choose. I think that is a great accomplishment as well.

[@frank5436]

​@@Life_WithShayYay Shay! Preach it to the world 🌍

[@todf1958]

Very well said Shay, I agree 100%. Every woman deserves honor and respect regardless of where they come from!

[@paulk8444]

Yup 100% as the reason I subscribed was because of her intelligence, compassion and truth she conveys and Always treat a Lady as such and leave her better for knowing you.

[@ActiveAussie2024]

This is incorrect. Not every woman deserves honor and respect. Respect is earned, it's not just automatically given. Do you think a Filipina ( or any woman) deserves instant respect because she exists? She does not!

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Paul for subscribing. We will grow one viewer who likes substance at a time 😌

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you for saying that Tod!

[@scotfree8363]

Without getting into many words, I agree with everything you said. God bless you and all the strong resilient loyal and loving Women there. 🙂

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you so much Scot!

[@batsignalcomics6433]

I have seen several blogs asking collage age women about sex on the first date. Honestly, the young ladies answer candly, but then they have dreams and ambitions . Some fall for the trap many forginers push. Yet many stand for the dreams they have started to accomplish.

[@Life_WithShay]

Well said Steve.

[@NineToes19]

Hi Shay. It’s Phillip again. I have something to say to all the Filipinas and hope expats can be encouraged to see Filipinas in a different way. To all Filipinas who watch this and hopefully read the comments. I am an American man, living in America. First, you do not live in a 3rd world country. You live in a developing country. You’re getting better. Please take pride in that. Also, to all the Filipinas, I am very worried that you look to the west and want to be like us. Especially the females of the west. I beg you to be true Filipinas and develop yourself as your country is developing. Filipinas do so much. You provide so many essential things that all men need. That’s another reason why God put females on earth. You do so much as women. Don’t allow men to use you for sex. You’re much more valuable and capable than that. Don’t act like 1st world women. They aren’t like Filipinas. Filipinas are not sex objects. Filipinas are essential for this world and your country to grow, develop and be strong and happy. Please, Filipinas. Embrace how feminine you are and how much you help this world and your country going forward. You’ll get there. It’s not easy, but I know Filipinas can do it. It takes time. Filipinas. Stay being who you really are deep down inside. Filipinas are perfect, just being yourselves. And expats and tourists. Don’t use Filipinas for sex. Enjoy their character and laughing and dancing and their smiles. It’s a happy place made up of tough, resilient people. Let the Philippines change you. Not the other way around. Another great video Shay. Take care and stay safe, Phillip.

[@shawnm2597]

Yes, because men are visually stimulated, we are often attracted to Filapina women due to their looks first. However, we keep coming back to that same beautiful lady because of the whole person, not just her looks. So please ladies, keep smiling like so many Filipinas do, and just keep being you. You are worth more than you know.

[@Life_WithShay]

Awww! Thank you Shawn!

[@jerryfritz374]

I really can't believe how resilient the people of the Philippines are as a whole. I get information from different vloggers. The main thing I have learned and will tell all who will listen. The Filipina is as a whole not only very intelligent but very stout-hearted. And if you get to know one in particular, asking her opinion about some things shouldn't be a problem. Just be ready for the Truth. Ald Always treat All Filipinas with Dignity & Respect.

[@Life_WithShay]

So true Jerry! Well said!

[@GlennHiggins]

A very beautiful video Shay, excellent and well said. I'm sure your filpina ladies would be greatful of you to document their place in society. 😊😁😉

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Glenn! It's the way we feel. We want to empower Filipinas, not degrade them the way social media so often does this. We need to take pride in who we Filipinas are. 😌

[@GlennHiggins]

@@Life_WithShay 💯 exactly 😉

[@charlesc.9572]

This is a very important message. Well done.

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Charles!

[@ervinalexander1734]

Ms Shay social media can help and hurt that's why I prefer too travel too many country's too get on hand about their Culture great video dear 😊

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Ervin! Hope you are well!

[@brucedavis6244]

Hi Shay fillipena are The best moms wife and there hard worker they are so intelligence and smart kind and friendly people

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Bruce! We completely agree with you. That's why we want to show that we Filipinas are more than just sex objects.

[@williambreeze2659]

When I remove the physical components of a Filipina. The first words that come to find are stubborn, resilient, resourceful, and intelligent.

[@Life_WithShay]

Very accurate William! 😌

[@DwayneC-o4d]

Dwayne C. Hi Shay human nature good or bad ??? When you look at a person male or female , what do we see ? Outer beauty at first. But the person within is the true gift. For some life's journey is harder. But that journey is what builds us. Doesn't mean you have to settle for something you don't want. Being physical, being intimate, with a person is a gift with the right person. To any filipina reading this, your being, your life is more then intimacy. Strive for your dream. Only in life we fail when we give up on that dream. You can be more than you think. Hope I made some sense. 😊

[@Life_WithShay]

You made beautiful sense Dwayne. We love having you in our community because of your "sense." 😌

[@timothybush9633]

Hi Shay, this may be considered "Not Manly" but I'm an older man, 65 so I'm not young, but ever since I was a teen I've always treated girls or woman with the utmost respect, prior to popular belief, and after being a musician for a number of years I waited to marry when I was 29, we had 3 kids and I stopped pursuing any career in music and focused on the family. Sadly I ended up as divorced because of her constant cheating, I tried many times to reconsider my decision as I'm Catholic, but I became a single father raising 3 children at 45? she left me alone and I never remarried because I was told my standards were too high? but I didn't want just another woman. I'm still single, not for not looking, but I feel that after 20 years of searching I may find a friend or companion who I may find with the right mentality as mine? I realize I'm older but a woman who could be a partner & friend that I will not always thinking of sex? it's been twenty years without a girlfriend or wife so I won't be in a hurry🙂

[@Life_WithShay]

Beautifully written Timothy. You will find a woman of substance because that's who you are.

[@dannydubose]

Very Good Shay, spread the true word I agree.

[@Life_WithShay]

We are trying Danny! One viewer/sub who prefers substance at a time. See you soon! 😌

[@brucedavis6244]

Thanks you shay for Great video god bless you my friend

[@Johnny-ql2vd]

Much respect Shay …. Love ❤️ the P.I. !!

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Johnny! 😌

[@CharlesLamb-xe3nk]

Very good video, just like all of your other videos.

[@Life_WithShay]

We appreciate that Charles! 😌

[@thomassnew1053]

Excellent video Shay...

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Thomas! 😌

[@angelicatasan]

Thank you for empowering!

[@Anthony_in_Bloomington_Indiana]

Tuesday, May 7, 2024 ☁️ 🌥️ ☁️ Well done, Shay! 😀 I admire your perspective, your sense of balance and your maturity! 🙎 .

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Anthony! We have perspective and balance together.

[@xxxyyy-h4w]

I say " until they can prove it " ... honesty = trust ...

[@RickR_in_WA]

Incredibly important message for foreign men and Filipinas. Foreign men should never treat a Filipina as something "less than", especially considering the likelihood of there being an inherent power differential between them. Likewise, Filipinas need to honor their own, often Incredible, value and self-worth. There can be amazing matches for honorable men and Filipinas. Again, thank you.

[@Life_WithShay]

This is so beautifully written Rick! Thank you for saying this! We love the response so far, and we plan on saying more.

[@StevenThomas-mz8lb]

Too be honest, how a woman or a man projects themselves to others online or in person, is what they will attract. Men leading with the wallet will attract women who value money more than the man, and the women who leads with sexy clothes and photos and videos are trying to attract men’s attention for the sex appeal they have to project. High value men and women don’t follow others, they have quality personalities and attract each other. I don’t think anything will change, this is how people choose their path to feel they are smart, and utilizing their resources to their advantage. I wish it was different but this is the reality of the world we live in today, broken and upside down, and social media isn’t making it better. The Philippines are the highest social media consumption country in the world, so it starts by getting off social media platforms, and making a quality life for themselves. ❤️🙏✨

[@Life_WithShay]

This is why we are doing this Steven. Even if only one mind changes, we have to speak out. We see things getting worse, as you say. It's not up to western men to change this perception of Filipinas. It's up to us Filipinas to change the perception by showing who we really are.

[@StevenThomas-mz8lb]

@@Life_WithShay I agree with the efforts to change the mindsets of the general population, your right it’s one person at a time showing by example a better life to live, and achieve through thoughtful planning your goals, and right path to follow. ❤️🙏🙌

[@johngalt6708]

I think if you insert the word "women" where you are saying "Filipinas" you have a more powerful point. What I've always found attractive about Filipinas is that they can do smart and sexy in equal measure. One doesn't cancel the other out. The resilience of the single mothers is extraordinary. I would always say to any woman, be who you want to be, not what someone else wants you to be.

[@EliHarrell]

John I often comment when I hear people say "here in the Philippines", "we Filipinos", or "Filipinas". I always suggest to them that they consider what is really different from the rest of humans... Here on Earth. We humans. Women. Interestingly I also think that Shay's main point here is that people in this country and maybe women especially tend to identify (constantly see themselves) as in many ways different, or more limited than they perceive people from other places to be. This is exactly at the core of the problem that I think Shay is talking about and really is the underlying cause of much of it. So while I would generally say we could just say WOMEN instead of Filipinas, in this context, it might be useful to shine a spotlight on what using Filipina really means to the psychology of both the women from PH and the men who see them from a distance. I was just asking my partner the other day about this. Many Western men are seeking "Filipinas" because they perceive them to be contrasting from western women. These ideas are mostly unfair and inaccurate stereotypes that lead to a lot of relationship problems. In my view. Anyway, fascinating and important topic for sure.

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you John! We are speaking about Filipinas, not all women. I do not know western women or the way they think, so I do not try to speak for them. I know Filipinas, and I want to speak to them. Perhaps someday I will get to travel to the west and understand that culture. And we want our viewers from around the world to understand who we Filipinas really are.

[@johngalt6708]

@@Life_WithShay I value all women, especially those who helped bring me up when my father left us to it. I think it’s very hard to assign universal traits to one nationality, but having married ( and now divorced ) a Filipina and lived in Cebu for a year, I gained first hand insight into how afam view and treat women over there as well as how we are seen by the locals. Cebuanas are very different to Makati girls, no doubt also different from those who live deep in the provinces. What I would generally say, is that being smiled at by someone half your age when you would be all but ignored in the West is a fabulous thing.

[@Life_WithShay]

All humans should be smiled at John! Yes, that is a fabulous thing, We should all do that.

[@rolandmueller7218]

I think highly of most Filipinas. They are intelligent, kind, strong, hard working, happy, and loving. Such a powerful combination of positive traits. Oh, and they are beautiful as well.

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Roland 😌

[@pauldenham9406]

magandang hapon sis, kumusta ka ? i have seen some of your videos now,and also i just subscribe,"" 2 minutes and counting "" haha i see your vidz and the way you explan things,always good advice,sometimes fun,sometimes serious, but always interesting,i have been to mant diifferent dating sites, and always i see the same things,many girls want money,and many men ask the girls for sex,"sure it is not 100 percent of people like that"" but trying to find a good girl in a dating site is almost impossible, so i stop using them, and also i see in the philippines and many south east asian countries how the girls ae treated, it is really very sad,it is not often they are treated as a girlfriend or wife, most are treated like slaves and sex objects,there are many hings i want to say, and discuss, but i dont know if you find the time to reply,but i just want to say i love the philippines and her people, and i am onestly tired of seeing stories of ow they are used and abused by many people, philippine and foriegners,salamat for your channel and the honest and open way you talk about many subjects, full connection to you,now and always, God bless

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you for joining our community Paul! We very much appreciate your support! We try to talk about topics we feel strongly about, but yes, I also have a fun side 😌

[@DonaldWilliams-g2o]

Unfortunately Shay the vast majority of Filipinas especially those that have KZbin channels and have a platform to do positive all they talk about is how big is the bananas and how to get money from men, now Ms. SHAY you and your content is far superior to those, many of the ladies that you do videos with aren't even close to your level of class and poise, but go to the shock factor not recognizing the damage they are doing and frankly I honestly don't believe they care as long as subscribers are footing their life style

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you for your thoughtful comment! We are creating artistic videos of quality, and we appreciate your support. Our views and subs creep up slowly, but we are proud of the content we've created and will create, no matter the views and how many subs we get. 😌

[@DonaldWilliams-g2o]

You constantly do very good content and I am so please that you always present in a mature, and respectful matter, I wish you continued success, I pray 🙏 that others will follow your lead and strive to develop content that is both meaningful and helpful. Thank you.

[@Life_WithShay]

We appreciate your encouragement!

[@frankellis9627]

It's very simple they're doing it for views and money 🤔

[@Life_WithShay]

Hi Frank!

[@kbtred51]

This essay stands up if you take out the word Filipina. Comparisons are not excusable such as Thailand is worse. The access to images is morphing female beauty world-wide giving some unimaginable opportunity and many mental anguish.

[@isaacellison9373]

Hi Shay! Have a blessed night, and stay safe!

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you! You too!

[@jeffcoleman7859]

You Filipinas are very smart most are well educated and without a doubt the most beautiful ladies in the world by far. Im moving there soon and I hope to meet a Filipina I can have a family with and a lady I can treat like the Princess she is and both of us be happy and really in love. Great video and your right.

[@Life_WithShay]

And she will treat you like a prince if you treat her like a princess. You will respect her Jeff because of who you are.

[@17_jan]

Hi! Shay happy Mother's day to your Mother!💐🌹🤗♥️💕

[@JenGioPhilippineJourney]

Filipina women are the best in the world as a spouse and family ❤. Sex comes last in my book I want the intelligent, trustworthy, motherly, family oriented , loving, caring ❤️ sex is the last thing on my mind without all the others I listed I might as well stay in America and remain single correct?

[@Life_WithShay]

We have so many good qualities, and we can be very accomplished as human beings. Sex is just one part, and we believe it should be the least public thing we are known for.

[@sandman6988]

I get what you are saying here Shay....however, I think this issue may soon take care of itself. If the same femininst cancer continues to grow and flourish in the filipine culture as what has pretty much ruined relationships here in the US and the UK men will soon stop coming and others will leave that are there for other countries...as they will get fed up with it just like they have in the US and the UK. Of course, when that beginis to happen their dolllars and progress will stop and start to devolve just as it has here....

[@Life_WithShay]

We are not western women and never will be. We have the ability to grow as Filipinas, not imitate westerners. But you seem to blame your women for everything bad in the west. But again, we are our own culture. I love being a mother, a good and loving partner, and I also love to learn and to accomplish. We think the problems in the west are multi-dimensional, and not just because of women. But you prefer to blame, and that's a problem in itself.

[@sandman6988]

@@Life_WithShay I have been to the Phillipines about 6 times in the past when I was in the US Navy. I am no blaming anyone I am a realist and just telling it like it is...why do you think many men are walking away and going elsewhere? The problem is that women still want men with traditional values they want their time , attention, affectiion, provision and resources but they are no longer traditional women....as is happening especialy with women in many of the cities in the Phillipines....

[@Life_WithShay]

You've been here 6 times in the Navy. I've lived here for 40 years, everyday of my life. And I am a Filipina.

[@albraun-sq6rg]

@@sandman6988I was there many times before and during Vietnam, I’ve been married to a Filipina for going on 50 years and I wouldn’t even presume to know what Filipinas think or think I can “tell it like it is” when it comes to what it’s like to be a Filipina. Sorry Sandman, Shay is telling it like it is.

[@chrisplatt3869]

I couldn't agree with you more on this subject one should love another before having sex it is a sacred thing like marriage i guess i might have been brought up differently anyway wishing you a happy day 😊

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Chris! Happy day to you too!

[@talleman1]

Never settle.

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you! 😌

[@Mark-pw1yw]

Shay i would like to see you delve further into the educational availability there, as an obsever i see a high percentage disadvantaged by their circumstances whether it being geographical or financially, otherwise i support your intention of bringing up the respect of Philippine women, 😊

[@Life_WithShay]

Thank you Mark! It's already in the works.

[@Mark-pw1yw]

@@Life_WithShay look forward to seeing the difference in socio-economic situations and how it affects their life choices and behaviours 😊

[@EliHarrell]

Nicely organized thoughts here. Most of the best business leaders in this country are women and far more women are in the workplace and creating value than men in this country TBH. Intellectual powerhouses... agree. My only comment about the video is that there is a presupposition that a digital footprint of putting oneself out there in "compromising" ways is objectively a bad thing. I would argue that we can as individuals choose what we are willing to expose or share. For example, if someone has a nude video of you, and if the world was to see it, does that necessarily hurt you? It really just depends on your comfort level with that being seen. Actors and actresses certainly become comfortable having the world see more of them than most people are comfortable sharing. I loved the scene in Billions where Chuck decided to just tell the world openly about his BDSM fetishes which immediately deflated the opposition's attack. Anyway, my only point is that, while I 100% agree that all humans have a hell of a lot more potential value than their sexuality or their ability to earn money (loved that simile), it is not objectively bad to put oneself out there in whatever way as long as there is no shame nor wanton harm caused to others. It only becomes a bad thing when there is shame or fear of other people's judgement in the mix. What do you think about my theory?

[@Life_WithShay]

Hi Eli! How are you? We discussed your theory and, "... We think it is one thing to be an actor in a movie who is being paid to do a job and a completely different thing to portray a group or nation of women (Filipinas) as sex objects known for the sexualizing of their bodies rather than being human beings of substance and accomplishment. We are not saying anything negative about sex between consenting adults. That's irrelevant here. We're talking about a misguided and skewed representative portrayal of who the Filipina is to the world through social media, which damages the reality of how difficult it is for many Filipinas to achieve what they have achieved, at all levels. There is so much to discuss, so we plan to do this over time in more videos." 😌

[@pauldeanda4985]

Who said that “Filipinas” were only good for sex? I’m a heterosexual male and I think that every woman’s goal should be to be great at sex, it’s a main part of being a woman. With that said, it’s up to her how she sells herself when trying to attract a man. She has to know how much or how little of it to convey in landing a good man. 🤷‍♂️

[@Life_WithShay]

"... every woman's goal should be to be great at sex, it's the main part of being a woman?" Thank you for helping to prove our point here Paul.

[@anon36522]

You go girl, keep cashing in those 25+ not Women Patreon's

[@Life_WithShay]

You've mistaken Patreon to OF. You must be in OF a lot. Haha

[@ronprince1478]

Remember sex is easy in the west, finding a life long partner is very very hard. Just be carful not to turn could be mothers into business women who will find at 35, 40 that they can no longer be mothers and the business brings little satisfaction. Sex is not the most important thing to western men, it’s just one of the many great things about filipina.

[@Life_WithShay]

Hi Ron. We are not talking about sex. We are talking about Filipinas being viewed as sex objects rather than women of substance.

[@ronprince1478]

@@Life_WithShay which is why I said what I did. I can only speak from a man’s point of view. I have interacted with a few very successful women and the lack of intimate conversation and interaction played on them. I am the father of 4 grown boys, I raised them alone and I know from experience that I could never be their mother. I believe that running a household and raising children is the most underrated and important job there is. A woman is her own master and can do as she pleases, I wish her luck but there is a cost. A lot of women in the west have chosen a business career over family and are now paying the price. Thanks for your time, I wish we could have a longer conversation.

[@Life_WithShay]

Ron. I am mother of two beautiful daughters, and I have always worked to support them. I have a career and I am learning on a daily basis and my partner encourages me every minute. These things are not mutually exclusive. We are not the west, and we will never walk away from motherhood or love of family. 😌

[@ronprince1478]

@@Life_WithShay I meant you no disrespect, I love the fact that you are not the west. I hold little hope for the family unit here. My mum worked but family came first and I believe she did a good job of raising us. If I started again here I would get myself established then hire a surrogate mother buy an egg to have children. I would not risk loosing them in a divorce. I believe the world undervalues a woman keeping a house and raising the next generation. There is no more important thing. Best wishes to you and yours.

[@Life_WithShay]

Ron, we re all different, and women can value family, partners, and still have a passion that earns them a good living. We spoke praisingly about mothers and homemakers in this video. Women do it all, and so can men. Why limit ourselves? As I said, I have been doing this for 19 years now, which is the age of my eldest daughter. Best wishes to you and yours as well!

[@mafp22w]

Filipina woman with faith are too precious. They need to limit themselves to only Christian men.

[@ronprince1478]

My first wife was a born again Christian, she just couldn’t keep her legs together. Finding a Christian guarantees nothing. Better to find the soul of a person and cling to it for life.

[@phil-ammike]

Hi Shay.

[@Life_WithShay]

Hey MIke. How is everything going?

[@phil-ammike]

I’m good. Love your channel and the way you conduct yourself on screen. Your guy there, Ron, is an excellent script writer too. 😉

[@Life_WithShay]

He said to thank you for the compliment Phil 😌

[@phil-ammike]

@@Life_WithShay Phil?

[@Life_WithShay]

@@phil-ammike I meant Mike, but typed Phil. Sorry!

[@davidkarl5192]

right on, our woman are insane...joking....kind of🤭🤭

[@Life_WithShay]

Hi David. 🤣

[@ronlafleur4246]

Shay its a shame you even feel the need to make a video with this content. A strong intelligent woman is an amazing human being they are not sex objects. It's all women not just Filipinas. You introduce the success of Filipina women which is needed and there are many as you are an example. Reality is that sex get attention. Humans have one biological goal and that is to procreate. So should not be a surprise that sex is a driving force in relationships. Mature intelligent people do not treat others as sex objects but sex is in relationships. It should be enjoyed not advertised. Water as you know follows the path of least resistance. If some women are that path it is not a reflection on all women. Men fight the stigma also that the only reason you are here is for sex and in most cases I don't think that is true. So ? Enjoy life it's all we have.

[@Life_WithShay]

I love this line Ron: "It (sex) should be enjoyed, not advertised." Yes! This is what we are saying here. We are not saying that sex is bad. Not at all. We're talking about the value of Filipinas as accomplished women, not sex objects. We don't need to be promoting them in this way. We need to have pride in our value as women with value other than the shape of our bodies. Thank you!

[@tomfarmer5314]

100%

[@dave-d-grunt]

Sounds like you want Filipinas to become the same as western women. Do you think that’s a good idea?

[@Life_WithShay]

Hello Dave. First, I feel sad that you categorize western women so negatively. I am sure the majority of them are good women. I have met western women who are wonderful mothers and are still accomplished in what they do. Second, we are Asian, not western. I have never been to the west. I am pure Filipina. But we do live in the world. We can still be who we are and yet be part of the rest of the world. This has nothing to do with being a good idea or not; it is reality.

[@dave-d-grunt]

@@Life_WithShay my comment is about attitude. Yes, there are a few good western women. But look at the divorce rate here in the US. Categorize? Take a look at the “passport bro’s”, there’s a reason for that. So you can see where my bias comes from, I’ve been married to a fantastic, smart, beautiful Filipina for going on 49 years. I know I’d have never had as long of a happy relationship with an American woman. Thank you for the reply. I did enjoy your vlog

[@Life_WithShay]

Hi Dave, I do not know many western women and again,, I have never been to the west, but a divorce rate goes two ways. I wouldn't put that solely on women. And passport bros, yes we have many here. But a few loud and obnoxious women on social media doesn't prove that all western women are that way. I don't know even one of those, but I know Filipinas with bad attitudes as well. I look at the individual always. What we are talking about here in this series are the perceptions created on social media by Filipinas, and also by foreign men who see us in a certain, misrepresented way. We just want to portray Filipinas for their positive contributions to our culture and society, and being seen as mere sex objects detracts from that. Thanks for your comments.

[@dave-d-grunt]

@@Life_WithShay thank you for getting back to me. I see your point. I do get a bit angry when I see comments asking Filipinas how much and just being generally rude. That old cliché it takes two to tango fits the divorce rates. Again thanks for your time to reply. Take care

[@Meta-llicana]

Filipinas should push boundaries to develop their own country and don't develop the western women mindset.

[@Life_WithShay]

That is what we are saying Gregory! Thank you ! 😌