FILTERCOPY | A STORY ABOUT DEPRESSION | Reaction | Jaby Koay

[@RahulRaj-qg5yu]

Normal people always say they are depressed when people who are actually depressed says that they are fine😕

[@dheerajsharma2398]

Waaw. This is so true.

[@omparghale]

yeah, we are just fine

[@monalisa_bora]

Wrong perception. A depressed man can say he is depressed. Trust me. I am a psychologist and I met such patients

[@dheerajsharma2398]

@@monalisa_bora coz we believe only psychologist will know how we feel.

[@monalisa_bora]

And thats what I meant.... Anyways people good luck.. don't worry .... We psychologist always believed that if any ships are sinking, there is always a hope boat to help us come out and teach us to swim .... So if you're depressed then you can be cured ..... It's just an disorder that fluctuates the order of our mind.... So NEVER LOSE HOPE AND SMILE🤗😊

[@skinnypuppy1288]

Jaby. Most people are Sad. The reason reaction channels like yours grow is because a lot of people don't have friends to really discuss about content they watch online. Watching a video together along with you and your friends makes that quest complete. The power you have through this channel could improve someone's life. Think about it.

[@pjzala1836]

That's true 😐that's so me

[@faizahussain8242]

So true!

[@ziyanshirazi]

Bitter truth

[@bhabishpradhan]

True

[@hasmukhdhayal7786]

Never thought it that way. But it make sense.

[@mrbbapun]

The problem is the people who never get depressed they never will understand how does it feels.. 'Coz depression isn't always at 3am.. Sometimes it hits you at 3pm when you're with your friends and you're half way through a laugh and you just stop.. Then that feeling stays until you cry or get high enough to fall asleep.. In that moment asking for help is really tough..

[@shrutibathla2784]

That hit hard.

[@WiL_lOw_leaves]

Mm very true.Stopping in between laughing was when I finally realised something was wrong.And I tried to figure out what was wrong.It was really hard but I'm glad that phase is over.

[@Sana-su2se]

Po it feels like there is no one in this world who can fix this. It feels like there is no purpose of this life. It feels like crying when I see a single person crying. The worst part is we can’t control our tears infront of people. We have to rush to bathroom. Unfortunately we can’t trust anyone around us to share this to.. we have to choose carefully whom to share our feelings with. Better to tell parents.

[@iBombsquad]

Bro you okay? I know this is random but you stated something on point. Mind talking if you are not?

[@nealcaffrey541]

Ive seen this video and reaction way too many times, that i dont cry anymore, but this comment gave me a breakdown. Idk if thats a good thing or bad, but i cried for sometime.

[@nikelove8704]

The worst feeling is actually not having anyone to talk to

[@satyampanchal4741]

ik

[@Juggernaut432]

may i

[@nikelove8704]

@@Juggernaut432 ?

[@Juggernaut432]

@@nikelove8704 you can open up to me, this is super random thou. but we can get to know each other.

[@nikelove8704]

@@Juggernaut432 I don't know about opening up, but yh we can know each other

[@akshattejas4348]

I have cried like that The cry where u are screaming internally bt nothing comes out other than ur tears

[@keerthanabalasundaram5674]

Really the fact

[@manasaveena1752]

Hnnn yar😐

[@aaryanbali4726]

You were not alone

[@chiragrao3077]

@Akshaytejas if that is still the case with you reach out for the help... People do care.

[@varma7706]

Yes, It pains like hell at throat.

[@haipdp1]

" I need help" are not just 3 words, its an inner cry and last thing one wants to say . Sometimes expectations, society , your upbringing, stress at work, feeling worthless , family issue and there are tons of reasons to be sad, but its true sometimes its almost impossible to explain what's going on unless someone actually tells you that " Its fine" to be or not to be whatever you are. Its really important to have ( Like mother) someone who won't judge you and tell you remain man . So kudos to all those who have the guts to speak and thanks to those who understand the unsaid pain .

[@omparghale]

it's like this feeling,it eats you from inside. that suffocating feeling.

[@owaiztanvir]

Perfect bro

[@hansikathakare4810]

But what if the one with whom we wanna talk are only the reason behind this.

[@Sana-su2se]

masumi price why would you choose to tell that person. Share it with someone who cares for you.

[@sreekuttan3444]

In India, there are a lot of expectations. You grow up living a life fearing "what would the society think?". That single question has destroyed more lives than Gun violence in India.

[@sourabh77knightdas42]

I will agree to evry word of u here

[@Jonathanlenthang]

Expectation kills a man

[@sreekuttan3444]

@@Jonathanlenthang literally.... Suicides are rising among Indian Youth.

[@hrishavkant]

I m a short height guy 5'6 and i literally thinking to suicide just because of my short height

[@sreekuttan3444]

@@hrishavkant why?? Does it makes things better? It's your life man...make it really yours.

[@monalishac]

My coworker committed suicide out of depression and she was one of the most bubbliest and fun person to be around..It was shocking to know that she was depressed since months😔

[@CreativeReaper90s]

I was too..but I guess I thought dying is a easy way out..I would b known as a coward(n thab thak 3idots Nikal Kar 5 ya 7saal ho Gaye Thai.. tho photo vala scene in his purse. would replay in my head automatically), so I never let that particular thought ever creep up on..n finally I pulled myself up somehow..but I can't understand what ur frd went through so I can't say anything....all u need at that time is a shoulder to cry on or let it out somehow...

[@CreativeReaper90s]

@@sys9208 no man but at that time that's what u think the best option is..again my experience was different so I can't comment on others but all u need at that time the most is a shoulder..just b there don't ask anything don't say anything just someone to share the pain with that's all...

[@thebabuchak4812]

@@CreativeReaper90s You are brave Brother :)

[@MORGAN-CODM]

@@CreativeReaper90s glad u never did something like that bro🙌 my wishes for u❤️❤️

[@fusion_flicks95]

The only person who's gonna pick your call up no matter when or why, is your mom..

[@shalinivats9416]

And will soon figure it that I m upset...No matter how hard I try to hide my feelings.

[@StabDab]

But that won't be same always is a pill hard to digest

[@estherselvarani88]

Well there are parents, like my friends parents who they themselves are depressed, immature and don't know how to understand their child and don't bother to talk to them

[@supertuna9525]

My mum can't find her phone, ever. 😒

[@blossom3424]

@@supertuna9525 mine too 😂

[@Aria-ej6qm]

You don't know what the other person is going through. So be kind to all. Maybe just some good words is what a person might need. :)

[@suchetagumansingh5417]

By your comment my inner voice said oh Hello army💜

[@suchetagumansingh5417]

@Knowledge Based கற்றுக் கொண்டால் குற்றம் இல்லை that's everyone knows and if you want you can also make reaction videos 😬 and don't get me wrong you are also contributing in the money making😂😂

[@Aria-ej6qm]

@Knowledge Based கற்றுக் கொண்டால் குற்றம் இல்லை reaction channels don't actually make a lot of money. Also, jaby's channels, does so much other stuff too. Movie reviews, discussing the synapsis or their pov. He is going great. Also, if people like to watch these, why not? :)

[@nainitaro8699]

@Knowledge Based கற்றுக் கொண்டால் குற்றம் இல்லை personally i feel like I'm watching with someone. I like what they discuss & think about our culture & so. That's why i don't watch indians or pakistanis react to our videos.

[@ashton2266]

@Knowledge Based கற்றுக் கொண்டால் குற்றம் இல்லை It basically gives the feeling that you're not alone. Helps people who always feel they don't want to be lonely when watching the videos.

[@soumyanayak1305]

nice observation by achara kirk,"he is not talking to any of his friends"

[@swetha4420]

How the phone call scene where he cries and calls his mom is my life for the past 3 months. You just can't explain the sadness and you can't allow yourself to be happy. The video was so real.

[@dheerajsharma2398]

A person who had never suffered depression will never understand. They may think that they know how is feels, but in reality it's not the same. You don't even need a reason to be depressed, it can happen to the most happy guy as well. I am one of the guy who is facing it from last 6 months. No one knows about it, because it's not physical pain that you can describe. Anyways, I started doing Anulom Vilom, trust me, its curable.I got relieve now.it is also connected to breathing.

[@D_Chirag85]

Need to fight it out bro its mental pain but still with practice n conviction n medical support u do get out it takes time n patience but its all worth it STAY STRONG buddy n dont be afraid n hesitant to vent out to unburden urself

[@raahulnamviyar5717]

you need to focus on your breathing buddy. just feel your chest lugs abs expand and contract. This will help. go outside. take an axe cut down some wood. You need to do some outside labour job. office jobs is horriable to have. it leads to anexity amd depression. time to ignore the nay sayer and do what you like best.

[@abbashusain501]

Bhai dont worry. Everything will be all right. Sometimes we get tired. So we rest. Watch some nice movies. Just go for nice walks in parks. Turn to nature, it always helps.

[@Bharat_s]

I had a same issue last year. I couldn't ask anyone for help. It got fixed after I practice meditation.

[@aditisrivastava7973]

but they say that depression is not curable it can come back happen, is it so?

[@proofmatterswithgauravmali702]

I was in depression from 2013 to 2019, I've faced 6 years of darkness, then my elder brother helped me to come out of the depression. Whenever I was lonely, I used to cry a lot, it seemed that no one was with me while I was surrounded by people from all sides.

[@proofmatterswithgauravmali702]

@@Ananya_Sharma1 not just fine even I'm truly satisfied with my life.

[@mejarbmx]

I love it when Cami said that he needs a hug. Not everyone get to that level of understanding to be very honest..

[@kishorpawar5080]

Jaby actually you has helped me in depression. Watching things with you didn't made me feel alone. Thanks Jaby. I am watching you since 2016 and my English is also improved seeing your videos.

[@CrazyMantrii]

The thing with the depression is, Most of the people who're depressed can't cry. Crying is out is the best solution to get all of your frustration out, but depressed people can't do that. They always believe there's no one who would understand what's going on inside their mind. Life is tough, and if you're an introvert, it's tougher because you don't know how to share your feelings. That's one of the reasons Facebook and Instagram are successful today. Introvert started living a cool life on social media, the life they actually wanted to live on. And soon, even on social media, extrovert took it over. . . And for everyone out there, whenever you meet someone, please be kind. Because you never know what a person is going through!

[@CrazyMantrii]

@Cannabis Queen You need to share your feelings. Talk to someone, If you don't have anyone, share it with a stranger. You can share everything as no one is going to judge you.

[@kcb_baebae5885]

It’s not true for everyone. There are people who cry, get over it for a small while then bounce right back into it.

[@CrazyMantrii]

@@kcb_baebae5885 Crying it out actually helps you. And trust me, most of the depressed people don’t cry that much.

[@kcb_baebae5885]

@@CrazyMantrii I accept it as your personal experience and observation.

[@tiarachaudhuri8219]

Oh my god thats exactly how i feel i cant cry how much ever pain i might be in i rarely cry and thats the worst feeling ever why did this have to happen to me i hate this.

[@yuidesu2249]

Hardest think is to act okay in front of people and cry at night holding your breath, try not to cry loud.

[@vikasmaurya6120]

After watching this, now I realized I was depressed few years ago. I crying the same way.. calling my brother for help. I just wanted to go home.

[@mdmohsin2618]

vikas Maurya I hope you are better now 😊

[@vikasmaurya6120]

@@mdmohsin2618 Thank you ☺️I am okay now. Maybe focusing on my hobbies helped me. That's other thing that it cost me my exam😜

[@satkrapp7697]

If you truly are depressed, then you are finished.

[@abbashusain501]

Great to hear you are doing better. Help others also since you know how being depressed felt like. Maybe someone needs ur help also 🙂

[@keerthanabalasundaram5674]

@@abbashusain501 i need help

[@MayTheForceBeWithYou7]

It's like you feel your life has hit full stop but you are still alive, almost like living in virtual coma, but you can move and talk...

[@ricoetbello]

The ones with the biggest smiles are the ones that are hurting the most....

[@rish_31]

I needed to watch this. 🙌🏼 Great acting by the guy, could see the real emotions right through him. Thank you FilterCopy.

[@AidantheLegend]

"Achara the big goofy Kirk" "Oh thanks" 😂😂😂

[@ranjithkumar382]

When you're brave enough to ask for help and then them being ignorant about it makes it much more worse.

[@keerthanabalasundaram5674]

Truth because i experienced it now unable to come out of it

[@good-gpt2-chatbot]

true man,... Everyone's like.. "Oh, it'll be fine" and "I promise it will be good".....and then continue being the same person they were before...they just say "It'll be fine"...they don't mean it...

[@CreativeReaper90s]

Been on the receiving end passed that phase..but it changed my internal wiring to a lvl I never expected it would...it like since no one saw my pain..from now on I am ignore urs as well to shield myself from that negativity...will tell you this it's been acting like a charm 💃💃💃... But the think is I come out insensitive more than quite often..it's like I can see the crap for what it is now there's no rainbow colours it's just black n white, good or bad, profit or loss, only two entities into which one of everything fits there come hardly few times which get in the sweet spot between the two..other than that.. it's pretty much simple for me now 😅😅😅😅... But ya I have become way more insensitive if I introspect..but in retrospect it's easier this way..

[@prakashdere1261]

I FELT him and I FEEL you all because I KNOW that feeling 😔

[@dr.padmajaguruprasad2912]

I lost my father 2 years ago... When i saw this video, i could relate so much to it. Last month a friend of mine lost her father. As soon as i heard, i had flashback of how i felt, what it was like for me. Nobody understands feeling unless they have gone through the same thing. So i made it a point that i call her up once or twice a week and just let her talk. Because I would've loved to have someone to talk to. I am glad to be able to help her through this. This doesn't mean don't talk to your close friends or people who have been there for you.please ask for help. Don't think that you're burdening them with your issues. WE ARE NOT A BURDEN on people close to us. Talk to them.. seek out to them♥️

[@thundermonkey4249]

Lots and lots of love and hugs to all my brothers and sisters suffering with Depression and Anxiety.Stay strong.Miles to go👍👍

[@MORGAN-CODM]

My father had severe depression... It was 2020 after the first Covid Lockdown when we decided we can renovate our shop(We have a hardware business). A few days into that... He started to feel that as it is the business was down(so were everybody's) and he wasted soo much money for nothing... And the already family tensions caused him depression...that was the time when he started crying often... Sleepless nights often... And as someone who experienced living with a person with depression... NEVER EVER LEAVE HIS/HER SIDE... NEVER... They need u more than anyone

[@samuelknair1888]

This is why I am doing honours in psychology and masters and all that I can do become a psychologist I know people need help I will be their for them

[@estherselvarani88]

Me too😊

[@samuelknair1888]

@@estherselvarani88 really

[@estherselvarani88]

@@samuelknair1888 yes I'm doing my bachelor's in psychology and other subjects:) we could maybe talk on insta if you have an account

[@samuelknair1888]

@@estherselvarani88 yes I am ( Callofdutycommunity_ ) this is my username on Instagram copy paste

[@estherselvarani88]

@@samuelknair1888 if your the one with the gaming feed then yeah I just followed:)

[@Ranioj11]

It's actually very difficult to ask for help because describing the reason is almost impossible

[@geetanjaliroy1980]

Its me everyday........sadly i m not strong enough to accept that i m suffering through depression becoz u dont know its happening.......there are no symptoms and when u know there are not enough words to express it........u cant describe it in words the emptyness is really scary😟

[@roronoazoro-518]

If u need help, we can talk!

[@rajeshnegi8718]

From "crying loudly to seek attention" to "cry silently to avoid attention" we grew up

[@kashishkohli9967]

When u tell someone u feel stressed ...ohh u so young tume kiss baat ka stress sb kuch toh hai....they dont understand wht that person is going through

[@srinivasankannan8428]

I feel like this every week, the frequency keeps getting higher and I’m getting lonelier, just waiting to end it for myself

[@armadilloburns4880]

The research which went into making this video is SPOT ON. Kudos to the makers.

[@RahulKumar-fw5qo]

Achara Kirk, you seem really kind and really nice. In this whole video, I was just looking for your reaction. You look so concerned. I hope you be this way! Loads of love🥰

[@mykrazylilstuffannie]

All my memories resurfaced.. and yes it's very hard to ask for help... I couldn't.. I almost drove myself to suicide... Almost...But as they say.. what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger..kudos to fighters and survivers..

[@adiunknown6520]

More power to you

[@Exe007.]

I have never gone to depression...but i sometimes feels like mini depression What it feels like not to talk to anyone, sleeping whole day, losing hearing and vision power and mainly can't control ur mind like overthinking whole time even during sleep

[@imumbaigenics]

It’s sad !! This is a materialistic world. No one wants to offer you something, but always wants of you. We be there for others & sadly when you’re down & need someone., you’re all alone. We need to become more human, loving & caring toward family & society all the more. Keep your head high.

[@Questionnairee]

Hello.

[@imumbaigenics]

@@Questionnairee ?

[@Questionnairee]

@@imumbaigenics hello

[@ayushi-8679]

One day my bestie called me and told me about his depression and I'm very glad that he did and since then I'm trying to get him out of it though sometimes it gets really difficult because we stay far from each other so we can only call Or chat, it's been more than a year now and we can see the improvement though slowly but I hope one day he will be out of it. So yeah ask for the help from your friends or family or anyone and be brave ❤

[@cherrycoke8794]

Good luck 👏

[@ayushi-8679]

Thank you😊

[@Questionnairee]

Hello.

[@akhilgunavardhan]

Wow!! Ur bestie is really lucky to have a friend like you... Sorry it's not friend I think you are god to him and me also...u are helping him in life... That's really great!! My best wishes with you... And now how is your bestie?? Is he/she alright??

[@twinklenaik1056]

This happened to me just last year. I didnt even know if something was wrong with me. It was truly a horrible feeling. Thank god, I got out of it.

[@VR-nm5mb]

It’s just all too real, asking for help is the toughest thing to do, gosh I just feel this all the time.

[@zoyslash9179]

I cried watching this because I've been through it.. Endless night, just crying to yourself and having no one to talk to.. I didn't even realise it was depression until I finally had to go for counseling. People who didn't go through it, will never know the pain.

[@gsa7162]

Did you get out of depression?? Asking because i m currently going through it... Terrible feeling... Always on the verge of crying...i live with my family but they literally know nothing about what is going on in my life...i m not brave enough to ask for help i guess....

[@yuidesu2249]

The music thing I do the same. Whenever my mom and dad fights I've tried stopping them but I got pushed hard and got hurt since then I just sit alone at my dark room, music loud in my ear, cry by myself, talk to myself, laugh by myself

[@tusharsaxena9778]

Yeah it happens with many people like us. But we need to make sure to bring the change for future generations.

[@yuidesu2249]

@@tusharsaxena9778 yeah 😊

[@redkyng]

This is me right now..... it's feels so good to see that someone can feel and describe it in a video! 🥺

[@iBombsquad]

I know this is random but if you are depressed about anything talk to me. Seriously. Just reply me on this comment we'll talk try to get through this together

[@redkyng]

@@iBombsquad thank you for the kind message but sadly I am not brave enough to talk about it 👍

[@iBombsquad]

@@redkyng No probs, but in case if you feel super down some time, just text back :)

[@sumith3212]

Whenever i am depressed, i talk to my mom. Best way to come to life again at least for me

[@mdmohsin2618]

Don Die same, This is the only escape I find right, This is the only way I find comfort.

[@sagarsinghnarukka6084]

A few years back when my mother and father had some very serious issues with each other,my mother left home for some two months and at that time i was DEPRESSED and I didn’t knew about it because i was just 13 all i used to do was to cry the whole time i used to miss my mom and my father wanted Me to hate her i wanted some one with me but i was an introvert I didn’t had friends and that feeling was worst and those days were the worst days of my life i hated my mom and myself and everybody around but NOW I’m finally out of it alll thanks to my cousin who told me to be happy in every condition

[@avantikasingh01]

This video hit harder than I thought it would. I relate to it so much.

[@kuchyaadeinkuchbatein]

Me too

[@kuchyaadeinkuchbatein]

loneliness is killing me inside why nobody understands??

[@atharvsingh3190]

14:57 the triangle in Cami's necklace perfectly frames the mole on her throat. PS- i do not know why i noticed it, but i did. and I might come across as a creep, but iam not.

[@raktim.kalita]

After reading your comment I was only looking at her necklace 😂

[@prakarshsrivastava1043]

Something a creep would say

[@ZnefuDY]

illuminati confirmed 👍

[@akshay6027]

Mother of observation

[@iamwhatiam5091]

🔎

[@amitcytes5903]

Like those who watching after the death of sushant singh...peace

[@roronoazoro-518]

I guess everyone is.. mental health is most ignored yet very important

[@muymuy777]

Oh dear Lord... been there. It gets worse when no one around understands or is willing to. It passes away.. key is not to give in or give up. Self help proved the best help for me. My very own Self, Doctors, medications, faith, religion and loved ones failed over and over, but despite all the failures and hopelessness and darkness, I learned to fight and I still am fighting. Don't give up precious people.

[@muymuy777]

@@venomhope6767 I have knocked many doors, there is no much help available where I live sadly. I've tried and tried and still trying. It's not like the U.K. or the U.S. where trained people volunteer to help needy ones like me. Thanks for the hope and positivity my friend.😊

[@rudraprathap7068]

Even I went through that. It's just unbelievable for me then that it actually happened to me. But I got strength to fight it by doing meditation and yoga daily around 30 min to 1 hour. I suggest you to try YSS SRF or Ananda or ISHA genuine(not fake ones) meditation and yoga

[@venomhope6767]

@@muymuy777 where do u stay

[@D_Chirag85]

Yes buddy thats right self help n self inner strength will only get u thru it rest support system will only work when you find ur own strength

[@muymuy777]

@@venomhope6767Somewhere in Asia I'd rather not say...sorry. ☺

[@ved5art]

Whenever we have to express our anxiety to someone. There will be no one to listen to you. Everyone just asks the reason of sadness but no one think of the feeling.

[@adarshsharma1434]

:) what a smile can hide, could be much more than you can imagine.

[@iBombsquad]

I know this is random but if you are depressed about anything talk to me. Seriously. Just reply me on this comment we'll talk try to get through this together

[@divyanshichaudhary5717]

Spread love and kindness because this is the real meaning of life,this is the real meaning of our existence... A little bit of care or hug or a small gesture of making other person feel that he/she is not alone is one of the most beautiful things we cud do in our life.....be kind and empathetic 😊😊

[@dileepraghuwanshi3972]

Thats how exactly I cry while trying to hide even from myself that I m crying..

[@sachitagarwal8940]

Real depression--subtract all the friends, remove the job replace to struggle, subtract the fact that you just cant reach your parents, and have the expectations of becoming successful... Loneliness×depression×struggle×failure=real depression 😅😅😊🙂✌️✌️

[@mayankhitkari]

I'm actually in this state from many months😒😒😕

[@Man_Tri_Ji]

@@mayankhitkari 4 years and still going

[@venomhope6767]

@@Man_Tri_Ji 10 years...

[@madan2412s]

Last 2 years I m in same slot

[@venomhope6767]

@@madan2412s most of the people in the world are... We are all fighting.. You are not alone....it will be okay

[@arnavjaydev4447]

It's true that people who are depressed try to cheer up others. And then they think that that guy's life is sorted and theirs is not, which is the exact opposite. My friend had gone through this and I know what kind of mental torture these people go through.....it's just heartbreaking. And surely asking for help is the best thing you can do.

[@kingvegeta7301]

Arnav Jaydev + Not exactly true. There are some people when they are depressed they try to pull others down to make him or herself feel high. Like insulting , humiliating, mental and sometimes physical torturing someone to feel own happiness. I had a friend like that. no matter how much I tried to make him feel happy. No matter how much I tried to be nice with him he always yielded at me. He used to call me into a crowd intentionally and humiliate me in front of everyone everyway he could. I treated him like my brother. He treated me like a worthless slave. Then one day I lost my patient. I punched him in his face. Teeth broken. Police was called by his parents. Parents vs Parents tag team battle royal. My team lost. I got beaten by my parents. Long story short It was all about depression. What's the reason? A girl rejected him.

[@DevVlogs]

Irony is we saw this video but never actually realized how much our close ones need us in real life till date and the sad part is we might never realize..Rest in peace Sushant Singh Rajput. Wish you are amongst the stars shining bright.

[@ashwinsubramanya]

I'm ailing from dipression and jaby partly you helped me get through the rough phase..

[@kaustavadhikary8940]

Every detail of this video is the story of my life from 2012 to 2017. Friends don't help because they don't know how and everyone has lives and they don't really have time. And you don't really want to talk to anybody. This video was just perfect. Being in Europe far away from family didn't help either.

[@kaustavadhikary8940]

@gabru when the project that you have worked for 8 months becomes a major success, your boss surprise you with a brand new Tesla, you throw a massive party and go home with your office crush that night. But that night you cry in your bathroom because you feel absolutely devastated with pain and sadness, and feel your life is worth less. That is depression. No amount of "success" or "wins" Can make you happy. Depression is not sadness. You feel sad when you have a breakup or your dog dies. But after a period of time you don't feel sad anymore. Depression is a mental illness that has no cure. You can never cure it. But you can definitely manage it. Do positive things to keep the momentum going. You can have fun with people and care about others. Do what makes you happy and that pain deep within will be less painful. And it will give you the strength to wake up the next day and have another new adventure. I hope this will give you more clarity of what you have, and how to deal with it.

[@ajinkyasingare9350]

I am fine with smile on face . . High level of depression

[@pakhi5073]

i can hear Jaby for hours about this subject. it can be seen in his eyes and voice he has faced it. he has gone through it and he will understand what a depressed person thinks. i agree with him, it is not about what made you sad. it's just you are depressed. all the reasons are just your way to find an answer to the question.

[@trishas1827]

It's so true that depressed people are the best at hiding their true self from others normally for fear of judgement ...

[@rajveersehgal1716]

Only a mother knows how to pull her child from that abyss. I can relate. That is exactly what depression looks like. The portrayal is eerily accurate and uncanny.

[@nileshghadge5016]

Depression and embarrassment are long life friends that don't show their friendship out in public

[@durgeshvuppuluri3494]

Two days back, I kinda started to watch this video. I watched first two mins or so, didn't have courage to complete it. Today when you uploaded it I was hesitant first. Now I watched it completely, I thought you guys were beside me while I was watching it. Thank you for company. I can relate to this guy in some instances. Most difficult thing for a grown up man to do is ask for help about mental depression.

[@georgezp7787]

The cure to depression, isn't too laugh or smile, the best think you can do when you are depressed, is to cry. Watch a sad video and cry your heart out. It'll make you feel better. That's me opinion anyway

[@VivekSingh-ik5tv]

So true!!... crying does helps in releasing that huge burden.

[@sanketrautajss123]

So true it really helps. The thing is happy things makes you sad when you're depressed

[@farazalikhan5242]

For me it is going out with family or friends or just a person with whom you feel happy My friend really helped me without even mentioning it once. For me Good friends are the real cure. Although i had best and old friends, but they just made a distance from me thinking about i was mad

[@siddharthdhulipala24]

it does help but in my experience it's just a temporary relief.

[@farazalikhan5242]

@@siddharthdhulipala24 exactly, but as you keep yourself busy into something that temporary starts getting permanent And best thing is not to think about it And keep believing that you are strong

[@juliaj2927]

Firstly, thank you @jabykoay for reacting to this video. I was encouraged by just the knowledge of the existence of such a video.The video is so appropriate, for various reasons. Also, I was relieved to see how many people relate to it, and how people have gone through what I have (its selfish, I know, but still). I wouldn't wish it on anyone but I can say I am better for the experience. Even if its just so that I can help someone once I overcome it myself

[@Ankur_Misra]

Good luck trying sharing about this with your friends and family. They have 100 labels ready to stick on you. In the worst of my times, I have found myself alone, with labels all over me. People can smell sadness and they make a distance from you the moment you want to be vulnerable. They are back once you are back to cheerful and smiling all the time.

[@karthikvenkata5628]

Depression is not like sadness, it's like a mood swing, you fear something worst part is you don't know what is that,

[@tea7748]

The beginning hit hard... Just made me think about everyone around me.. If I have ignored anyone around.. This video is so good that to show my gratitude I am actually going to give the original video a like.. 🙏🙏

[@pathaniaskid]

This video made me cry breathlessly my heart felt very heavy watching it

[@peternotgriffin7237]

I saw depression up close.. I saw what is does to a person. It's been 7 years I lost my brother. The only regret is mine is I should have talk to him that day. I should have

[@sameerchoudhary7803]

This video really hit me. Bcz i m going thru the same situation n know how it feels

[@D_Chirag85]

More power n strength to u buddy fight it out

[@sameerchoudhary7803]

@@D_Chirag85 already fighting brother. But it's really hard to survive when ur mind is forcing u to end all this suffering by committing the biggest mistake. 😒

[@keerthanabalasundaram5674]

@RAJAT SHARMA what to do if friends r the real reason for this situation. My bestie left me and i couldn't do anything without her. I'm learning CA i couldn't concentrate on my studies and my parents are hoping that I'm studying soo hard while here I'm thinking about my friend and wasting time. Plz someone help me i don't want to live.

[@keerthanabalasundaram5674]

@RAJAT SHARMA now i couldn't concentrate on my may 2020 exam actually we where doing group studies since my school days now since she left for her own studies i couldn't study alone. I'm always crying. I have a fear that I'll not fulfill my parents hope on me..i couldn't learn even for an hour . What shall i do, shall i do my exams on nov 2020

[@keerthanabalasundaram5674]

@RAJAT SHARMA Tq I'll try my best, i will definitely.

[@Luckylavu]

Actually when I saw this video the day before I was talking about this feeling to my mother because I was feeling like that for a long time and next day I showed it to my mother

[@ayush9791]

The problem with people, close friemds and family is that they never ask "How are you doing today ? "or "How was your day? " or "How are you feeling today?" or "Are you OK? " Please ask people close to you like your friends, family, maids ,classmates these questions. Also hear their part of story without being judgemental. I hope you all are doing fine today.

[@vijendrasingh9634]

Just imagine you approached someone for help someone you thought you can rely on... and the moment you start... is the moment they leave because they think you are sick. Imagine this happening several times with several people you know just ignore you when you need help and tell you to fight on ir own. Just Imagine.

[@AjayDanieldannyajchris]

been there bro!!!

[@senaro5018]

happened with me dude,

[@pranavbiraris3426]

I dont know why people egnore me when i say i want to die i am dam serious. When you look normal from outside and cant convey what you feel it hurts so hard that nobody can ever imagine.

[@SwekshaSrijan]

Lucky are those who don't get anxiety attacks 🙃

[@kingvegeta7301]

Flukey Entity + I get sometimes. When I get my inner voice gives me 2 options. 1. Suicide. 2. Be a serial killer. But I always take option no. 3 3.Visit a doctor.

[@kingvegeta7301]

@@SwekshaSrijan Good choice.

[@arunnair7830]

There is always a depressed person around you who keep motivating others and help others but in reality that person actually needs help and its very rare people can make out if the person is ok or not. Thankfully I am surrounded by people who are always there to ask if you are doing well or not. My thoughts and prayers with those who are going through such phase. It can't be explained and asking for help is the bravest thing.

[@madhusampreethr6081]

Jabster & Cha-Cha, u guys got a lotta work to do this week... U guys need to watch & review these movies: 1) 9th Jan - Rajinikanth's DARBAR 2) 10th Jan - Ajay Devgan's TANHAJI 3) 11th Jan - Mahesh Babu's SARILERU NEEKEVVARU 4) 12th Jan - Allu Arjun's ALA VAIKUNTAPURAMLOO

[@VikasSharma-bh2in]

That's why we should have at least one friend to whom we can share everything which we feel

[@raahulnamviyar5717]

You body loves physical labour jobs that requires you to work outside. Office job and cube job is a b. You need to sweat and you need to use your muscles. Our body was build to do farming and hard labour. The physical labour are most happiest people in the world. Farmer live longer. Even pushing carts outside of costco is your cure to anexity and depression. Trust me. You T

[@ronakkothari398]

Been their, it's hard to explain what you are going through people don't understand, you are putting a happy mask for everyone else staying their for everyone but no one is their to here you out. No one understand it, moods keep swinging at a point you are just super happy nd next you are down and out.

[@madhusampreethr6081]

Jaby & Achara, why don't u do a fun interview of Jordindian guys Or u can do a double interview - where u guys interview Jordindian & they interview u people!! 👌😁

[@ananyabhagat7052]

Many times , there isn't really a traumatic experience that puts a person into depression , many times it's the repetitive daily life , the feeling of not having a goal to live for that puts a person into depression which may seem like nothing on the outside.

[@aryaraut3560]

IF I was in depression and told my parents then my parents will just laugh and say that 'you are just being a drama queen' and brush me off😔

[@cravenpeak12]

Ah this video reminded me of those dark times. That feeling of emptiness inside. I wouldn’t want anyone to ever feel that way. It’s horrible!

[@aditisrivastava7973]

cravenpeak12 hey, can you please me by sharing the things that helped you to come out of depression?

[@gautamshukla3025]

@@aditisrivastava7973 good friends and parents always help.☺

[@vinayvardhansingh8938]

Idk maybe I need help after watching this.

[@abbashusain501]

You should just have a conversation with your parents too. I'm sure they'd love to chat with you for sometime.

[@poulomi__hari]

I must be really depressed which is why I caught the depressed guy in the short film within the first glance. I knew, why he was being so caring. He wanted to fill a void in his life. He needed to be treated the he treats others. But no one cares afterall! No one cares except the one who is really depressed.

[@Tillu_dream16-39]

why should and how could anyone else in that competitive cruel busy world out there care?

[@abhishekbhagat506]

Why am I crying

[@kushalamruthraj3626]

same here bro and idk why

[@DineshBabariya]

When tears come out in being lonely and depress all friends they only worry about there problems, In my life I have learn the lesson keep doing good deeds and expect nothing in return keep your head up no matter how bad it gets and keep moving forward. Cherish your yesterdays, dream your tomorrows and live your today's.

[@rkaurjohal5321]

I don't think I'm depressed ☺ but crying alone somewhere is the only thing I usually do 🙃 there are lot of expectations from you when your mom abandons you with your dad and grandma for some greedy considerations 🤐 I have seen a lot from my childhood even though I'm only 18 but being a single child for my dad and grandma I don't have anyone to talk from heart 🙃 but still I don't know the exact definition of being depressed even though I can't show my inside feelings to anyone... I can't but I have to act like brave and independent to live in this type poking society 🙂

[@dskedits9931]

Are you OK now?😞

[@rkaurjohal5321]

@@dskedits9931 I'm okay dear.. My grandma passed away last year in October 🤕

[@dskedits9931]

😟

[@extra-lives]

The most happy and motivated person is the one who needs the most help.

[@lavingjr44]

10:00 my situation almost everyday does that mean I'm depressed?

[@madhav3848]

Here after shusant singh rajput This made me cry

[@realpiyushraj]

Cami storming the show

[@sharima7178]

I feel suffocated r.n. knowing well what the things were going and what each and every one was talking about. Especially when cami said, "he needs a hug". O god! I am still gulping down the lump in my throat even mentioning it.

[@sanatkapur3281]

RIP Sushant 🙏🙏🙏🙏 We Dont Know What You Were Going Through But We Will Miss You🥺🥺

[@UNFNETWORKHINDI]

Achara's face expressions changed very quickly.