Find Healing From Toxic Family

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[@sadieflint1994]

Defense is what u do to protect your ego, faithfulness is what you do to protect your anointing

[@Aconsejandodesdeloaprendido]

Powerful

[@n23391]

❤

[@amyteurlife9408]

This touched me too

[@hmay6160]

best quote!!

[@mzzroxxie]

💯💯💯

[@n23391]

trauma and triggers, strongholds and demons - Amen, nothing new under the sun!!

[@_shaylamarr]

I needed this message. Thank you Pastor Mike. My mother died when I was 9, she was an alcoholic. My brother in law sexually assaulted me in 2018 and no one in my family believed me, and it destroyed me. I haven’t talked to them since then, 5 years. I know I need to learn how to grieve, how to forgive them, how to be like Jesus and give grace and mercy. It’s so hard, but it’s nothing compared to what Christ has done for me.

[@Mara-xd4ky]

May god give you peace.❤

[@Samgiftedd]

Im right here with you 🙏🏾

[@amyteurlife9408]

I am sorry for you. Seek healing by any means...counseling, books, internet. Research narcissism...melanietoniaevans, Jill wise, Dr. Ramani and many others are good. You're abusers were abused too. If your inner self is healthy, the external environment must match...bad people will sense your health and run to target a more "needier for human love" person. Otherwise you repeat generational trauma...even when you say you won't, you will do the same but in a different way than your caregivers did to you. Satan wants you bitter so you destroy your life with bad relationships and destroy your children as he attacked your parents to destroy you. This is a spiritual battle. The best advice I could give is to be healthy physically, mentally [seek help] whether you think you need it or not, don't sleep with a person for a long time...get to know them well, marry Gods way without sex before wedding bc this is Satan's biggest weapon...he hates families. Trauma causes us to feel ugly so we destroy ourselves by any means. It causes us to find a person who is at first wonderful, the first one to give us "real attention" to confirm our inner child that we are finally worthy of love, approval and security...the person becomes our source of love which God should be...we make them an idol. We need to stay single in our younger years so God can teach us true love before we get in relationship and bring forth the next generation. God bless.

[@marinawilson7034]

That happened to me to I was only 6 years old it was my fathers best friend, nobody believed me then my cousin I was scared ashamed I thought I was my fault very to deal with ty for sharing

[@Vdianna114]

This has to be the most realest authentic sermon I've ever heard. I get tired of pastors pretending they have perfect lives and being so perfectly polished. How are you supposed to glean from that ? This church is so blessed to have an amazing courageous pastor !

[@maxhenry8031]

Stay on the table of surgery ,with pastor Mike, because Jesus Christ is the Surgeon Hallelujah

[@ChristyLynnMiles]

PRAISE THE HEAVENLY FATHER FOR THIS MESSAGE!!!! This speaks VOLUMES about my life with my ex husband and how he is with me and I our kids. Praise God that I have peace that my walk with God is just that, mine. This m safe helped me make sense. My ex hates me and all I stand for are n Christ because it exposes him and his actions and his cheating and his behavior and his evilness.

[@B2flo77]

Appreciate you Pastor Mike and V1 Church for this transforming message from the Most High King Of Kings. As of me & my house we will serve the Lord🔥🌪️

[@TammyBlevins-mw7bj]

O my,, I just got it... I asked God last night for an apifany, he deliver today before I had seen this. Praise jesus christ....

[@veronicacamacho1647]

Same here! Praying for my adult siblings to come to Jesus! God has been doing things in their lives because of my constant prayers over the years ! Praise our Good God! He is promise keeper!

[@ninamarise237]

Amen and Hallelujah!!!!! Your prayers for your siblings are so powerful!! I was very deep into new age/metaphysics and my sister never gave up praying for me and 3 years ago I had an encounter with Jesus in my Living room!!! His presence filled the room and I fell to my knees and wept.. I gave Him my life that night and never looked back. No One is too far gone for God to save them!! 🥹🥳🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@TiffanyHernandez-k2l]

Thank you Jesus for this message. I needed to hear this Lord. I love you Father

[@angelinajade]

I have always been searching for the truth. I finally found it.

[@tarraholifield4998]

I've experienced the way the Lord leveled me up and how it provoked others and I've also been the one provoked by others in my family leveling up as well. Grace. Mercy.

[@SRY.GODISGOOD.92]

Man this is fire. Praise the Lord heavenly Father 🙏

[@sheilaalvarez83]

I just received revelation and now I understand the WHY of my situation. Thank you Jesus

[@Metanoia_Spirit]

I used to get high - now I am with the most high !

[@SunitaHo-j6m]

Pray for my family . In Jesus name . Amen 🙏🏻 Thank you Jesus Shalom 💜🔥

[@susanwill6351]

This is SO good! Another great preaching/teaching Pastor Mike. 😊

[@kristythompson9815]

I'm just now hearing this sermon Pastor. I will tell you that I went through a grieving process during the time you preached this sermon. I will tell you I had the desire to get a tattoo for the person I lost, but I looked to God instead. I realized that my allegiance is not to the person I lost, my allegiance is to Christ alone. In that moment that I realized that, my grief season ended! 🙌 Something snapped off of me that day and I have not been in the grief again. Not that I am never sad, but that I have not had to revisit that dark season, because Jesus gave me the power to get through it.

[@emmahanley-shine3284]

TRUTH and FREEDOM is this sermon. AMEN and AMEN and AMEN. Thank you for being a God Gezzer,mighty Warrior,may he bless and protect you and your family as you walk his path.

[@jenniferpoindexter3120]

It’s true!! That’s another reason why I had to learn not to expect an apology from certain people

[@doug-e-fresh3596]

So good! Thank you, Jesus!

[@PreacherJoshDingess]

Best message you have preached so far! As a preacher I needed to hear this so bad !

[@andybautista9728]

I've been watching your preaching for the past 8 months n I just want to thank you for your obedience and your word it's always on time may God continue to anoint you and have favor over you n your family Pastor Mike🙏✝️🙌

[@Rebecca-zr3lu]

God thank you for healing us from toxicity in your timing and season in Jesus name amen 🙏

[@donnasanchezministries]

Thank you Mike! I can’t express what an encouragement this is to me today! I said Tuesday morning that it feels like the enemy is laying legos on the floor in front of me beginning in ministry and praise the Lord, it’s just a sign I’m encroaching on his territory! I’m a breaker! ❤

[@LadyNolaJ]

Conflict produces intimacy with God but not necessarily with the person you lovingly confront....but it's better than not confronting ever.

[@scherherazadegibson668]

🙌🔥This word speaks to my heart

[@judilopez6051]

My family is the family I want! I love them all so very much ❤

[@Aconsejandodesdeloaprendido]

Wow confronting rejection And grieving properly! 😢

[@soy.ingrid]

I need this 🥹🥹 the damage from my childhood is starting to be more evident as I grow older

[@silverrose9248]

With conflict usually someone has to leave. Wow. This video pops up just 1.5 hours after I have a big fight (again) with my mom and I tell her she has to get out of my home. She has to leave. And this pastor is saying no one leaves, instead talk out openly everyone's feelings. Question: How? Without dissolving into a mess of blame. My mother blames me for her unhappiness in life. I blame her for bringing in and dumping it in mine. I've been her "therapist" for as long as I can remember. How do I let that go and let Jesus take it all and take over? What am I doing wrong?

[@JulieSevelson-nb9nj]

No two situations are alike. Please don't feel you have to deal with your mother right now, do it later when she gets her own place. It's not dishonoring to have parents in separate living quarters. If your mother had lifelong resentment towards you, getting along will be difficult, you both definitely need family therapy to save your relationship. She needs to forgive you for being born, first.

[@amyteurlife9408]

Yes Step in faith but take a step. Always be loving and don't lay guilt on a person let God do that. I find in some situations you take an in between step. In my situation...it is not to divorce my husband right now but to rent a room for a month to see what God shows me....sometimes just a little separation for a time. This could be setting up the home so each has a bit more privacy....a little effort towards privacy goes a long way.

[@shani411]

Tell ur mom to get a life. You have to live. Say it kindly tho. But stress affects the body. The mood. Heart rhythm.release of cortisol. Anxiety. Frustrations on the rise. She shouldn't blame you. She should look for ways to correct her behalf and leave the past alone. She has to understand that she needs to lean on God and get the pressures of her past off of you..I've been there. Yes they hate it but draw the line as quickly as u can

[@bakedvegan6379]

This was amazing! Wow, thank you so much!! ❤

[@lo-ul8nq]

Hallelujah, Thank you Jesus

[@franceshaggitt3104]

Yes I was rejected by fam No more i has to dust off

[@dorleenlastra3337]

Youngest of 6 🙋 I have been alienated.

[@Allietransformations]

Im crying and laughing at the same time Every day i starrted holy spirit fire Jesus🔥🔥🔥🔥Yes Jesus el Shaddai thank you Jesus

[@vasitinawalu3796]

Grieve deferred is grieve multiplied

[@mzzroxxie]

C’mon good sir!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@michaelsane.1729]

IN JESUS NAME AMEN‼️

[@veronicacamacho1647]

Waiting for that day my brother will hug me again and he knows his knows Gods purpose for his life!!

[@danaturtles]

Fear leads to selfishness. This leads to us hurting others. Jesus is the answer and healing with and through Gods word. Amen

[@leticiamartinez2109]

When you grieve with GOD it’s called prayer but when you grieve without GOD it’s called addiction.

[@andrearyan6592]

Now that sticks!!! Wow

[@mandytiver1564]

My in-law family are pure EVIL! I am desperately wanting to finally be free/divorced...but I'm devastated that I will remain attached because I have 4 children now part of this awful narcassist family!

[@leticiaclaro-qq8xz]

I have a toxic family, but i keep on praying for them, and learned to love them.

[@judilopez6051]

Thank You Father for the family You have given me ❤❤❤❤

[@kellyschroeder7437]

Thank you Father God. Forgive me my magical/wishful thinking and waiting on another besides You Jesus Christ. Some Old grief Jesus Christ Holy Spirit Father God let it come and be lanced and healed by You alone 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻✝️✝️✝️🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@kee7678]

Rich Mullens....such a great Godly musician...rest in peace Rich....

[@Mary-LeeSwanepoel]

My sister told me that she hates me and that I never suppose to be there. She hurt me so much. She took my everything. And I always have the feeling that she so want me dead.

[@EvanescenceFreak22]

May god send healing and the power to look only forward and not backward at what’s happened to us all.

[@naturehealers3727]

I'm hoping this also means from toxic relationships too. I need that. ❤

[@sheilaalvarez83]

My ex fiancés families did witchcraft on him to help him come to this country & he destroyed our relationship because he had to go back because it was required by w.e they did. Which I found out before we actually got married thank Jesus he took me out of that relationship!!!

[@maxhenry8031]

Preach Pasror Mike

[@jjlifestyle4257]

Wow that was a powerful word trauma and triggers are just a new school way of saying strong holds and demons!!! That resignated so strong!

[@joycemiracle1588]

WHAT A WORD. I AM LEARNING, GROWING AND HEALING!! TO HEAL, I MUST CONFRONT. FEELINGS DON'T GO AWAY

[@madelinebigio7565]

Yessss help me with my toxic family members too ! I need the blood 🩸 of Jesus Christ to heal me and my family! Thank you 🙏

[@judilopez6051]

Yes Amen 🙏🏼 finish the work You started in me ❤

[@arielnichols6204]

Whooooo praise God hallelujah 🙌 thankyou Jesus 🙌

[@MrsTeena]

Stay right here🎉

[@jamesfranklin8871]

It is so good when you share your testimony

[@nancylohe986]

Mike , This is Really Very Helpful on so many levels ❤❤

[@vasitinawalu3796]

Gap between getting anointed and appointed 👏🏽👏🏽🙏

[@LovelyDancing-dz8yh]

Amen my family needs prayer I'm always family encouraged thm I pray Im worki on my spiritual life with God but thy always hurting me becos I relise becos I walk with God's favor

[@arielnichols6204]

Thank God!!!

[@lo-ul8nq]

Thank you Pastor Mike great service

[@mzzroxxie]

I’m that one!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙃

[@arielnichols6204]

Amen!

[@JacquelineRivera-ot5ho]

Pastor Mike Signorelli I live in Suffolk County Long Island NY I have never been to your Church but I want you to know that “ I Love You “ ❤I tune in to your channel on You Tube. My niece in Austin Texas recently got saved, she says you are awesome! she tuned in also. 😀You are truly a man of God, you’re loved ❤and appreciated !

[@richiewilliams2412]

Pastor Mike is my hero

[@lo-ul8nq]

Thats the very Truth is right

[@allyfurey293]

This so good!!! 🔥🔥

[@davena4Jesus]

I had to back it up to let me start with opening your bibles ❤ this is good

[@jenniferbenavides7031]

My family is very toxic!

[@lewizayoussef7030]

I am really really blessed by your message It touched my heat Do you really read my Comment?

[@lewizayoussef7030]

I mean my heart God bless you pastor I live in Canada Would you please pray for me!!

[@lucillewright5153]

I'm going through this right now I was at V1 NYC in person for this. I keep Praying for them.

[@lo-ul8nq]

I been going through it myself with my family. I keep praying for them to come to Jesus. Keep trusting God with everything.

[@lucillewright5153]

@lo-ul8nq yea sometimes daily I have to lay them @ his Feet. 🙏🙌

[@alwaysgrowing7273]

❤❤❤

[@Elias-l7j]

This is what gets me how does real parents abuse there own kids. I was taken away from my real parents because of being Born with cokcain and yet my adopted mom abused me and my adopted brother sexually abused me as well God as seen me thure a lot. I have forgiven them and myself for not saying anything but yet how do I love myself after being hurt and fear is holding me back. Elias

[@JulieSevelson-nb9nj]

It's illegal to abuse children, physically, sexually,etc. it's an actual crime. Please get trauma therapy, for this abuse done to you. Forgiveness and reconciliation isn't the same thing. You could even file charges against them both,if you choose to.

[@morganmcdermott6832]

Stay right HERE don’t get UP🛐

[@ericyelverton2639]

MAN LOOKS OUTSIDE APPERANCE, BUT GOD LOOKS AT YOUR HEART

[@ericyelverton2639]

Im feeling this BOTHER

[@jenniferpoindexter3120]

Amen!! That’s truth right there!!

[@Hephzibah-eq9kr]

This was good

[@jenniferpoindexter3120]

Hallelujah Jesus!! 🙌🏼♥️

[@laurastauffer1275]

I sure wish you were in Utah

[@shemabryan5667]

Hallelujah ❤

[@jamesfranklin8871]

It is so important to hear this

[@MaryofSwords]

Thanks so much for this!!!

[@caseylott2422]

Thank you 🙏🏼

[@Glorytothahighest]

Wow really needed this today

[@anntodd2315]

Stay right here Don't get up

[@gaolatlhemothibedi9451]

My word of season

[@kirstietroup8894]

I love that Song too!!! 🎵🎼💗

[@amandaplss]

Amen

[@SnizhanaSvirid]

Powerful word Pastor Mike!!

[@SnizhanaSvirid]

Watching with my husband from Upstate NY. We must visit this Body 🙌

[@ednigma896]

Amen 🙏 thanks for this message

[@jenniferpoindexter3120]

I like that old school “Family Matters” in the background 😂😂

[@marianmcvea5114]

Stay right here

[@vancehenry7738]

Stay right here, don’t get up

[@ForMeNotAgainstMe]

So Pastor Mike, if one can not go back physically to their places of grief, how would you recommend doing the process of getting to the root of the problem(s) with the Holy Spirit? Do I need to physically write out the instances one by one, one per day perhaps or something and ask "God where were you?" Thank you for any advice you can give on this topic. This particular sermon was very important for me and I'm sure many others as well.

[@jamiemoody7112]

Sooooo good!