Finding Hope After Heartbreak: Crossdresser's Return to the Spotlight!

[@antoninfaltynek]

Hi Yoya! I'm so sorry it didn't worked for you 😞 I admire you for having the strength to stand your ground and for not being manipulated or tricked into this. I only started following you a few weeks ago, but you are a great inspiration to me! Be yourself, stay strong!

[@coscorrodrift]

Sad to hear you heartbroken but glad to see you back on the stage, you conquer it. Thank you for sharing, I think you will be glad to have done it in the future, to have captured these moments of reflection and recovery. Wish you the best in Bali and that you find your footing again, and rebuild new futures to look towards for when you're back in NYC.

[@bookworm5433]

Couple things. I've watched you for years now. You're such a strong person. I know you're going to be okay. Also, I love the way you danced in this. I think it's pretty. I like the way you move. Keep being you babe, unapologetic and brave as ever. Also, this last Saturday was my first time really putting myself out there like that. I've been outside before. But this time I was in a bar full of people and gave no f's whatever. It was crazy powerful. On the way there a guy going the other way hit a curb trying to get a look at me. He almost took out a sign. I was that beyotch. It was so good, I still can't wrap my head around it. I loved it.

[@TheNighthawke502]

I'm so sorry to hear about your broken heart, and I know from experience how difficult it is to realize that the "one" turns out to be anything but. In my case, my girl had agreed to marry me too and at the time was excited by the idea, but shortly thereafter she ghosted me with a message saying that I should just forget about her and move on. That was when I learned for myself the accuracy of the saying "love is blind" too, in how I was the one blinded to the various red flags and warning signs. Regardless, while it was far easier said than done, I somehow managed to reassemble the pieces of my shattered heart and I know that you will too, since you have such a strong heart and will. Both will serve you well in your coming future, in whatever direction you should take. As such, I'm likewise glad to hear that you are holding on to your personal integrity in charting your future too, since that is a trait that seems to sell for so little these days, and it can never really be replaced once it has been surrendered. Stay strong while following both your passions and your instincts, since together they will lead you to healing and a much greater future for you! Ciao Bella, and have fun on your travels! 💖 It's true that life never works put like you planned

[@YoyaFabulosa]

Thanks for sharing Nighthawke, you've made several great points! I do fall into the "love is blind" category, ignoring blaring red flags but in the end I know I'll make it through. You're right on that I have a strong heart and resolve. One day at a time, that's my new motto. ❤️ Wishing you love and joy in your future!

[@Chris-chanellife]

You’ve gotten here by being true to you. Don’t stop that and don’t let anyone dim your light. As a 50ur old cd you are a true inspiration ❤❤❤

[@bebeg900]

This is so heartbreaking 😢 i’m really sorry things didn’t work out for you 🥺 you’re a beautiful human being inside and outside, remember that ❤❤❤ big hugs and kisses, hun 💋❤️❤️

[@pixelpudding3914]

It’s nice to see you doing well! Love the top on you!

[@michaelmitten2977]

I'm sorry you're going through such heartache. It's very brave of you to share. You're so very beautiful. Stay around the good energy!!! Wishing you all the best. :)

[@marquese1960]

I'm so sorry to hear about your turn of events in LA and I wish you all the luck in the world.😢❤

[@YoyaFabulosa]

Thank you 💓

[@gladfan1989]

I just discovered your channel and I know mere words from a total stranger won't totally take away the pain. Wish I could reach through the screen and give you a big hug.

[@purplxed1519]

Sending you so much love and light ❤️🌟💜

[@Dominolittle]

A little bit of insight, nothing last forever especially for a gurl . It's just something that we can't control . Hugs sister

[@amandabenjamin7683]

wonderful artist ! 🤩🤩🤩

[@rlien7355]

That is raw. Thank you for sharing. Glad to see you are doing good. Be well dear.

[@ChrisGoodwin-m9l]

So very sorry that happened I had a relationship go bad thought it was going to be a great relationship but I was wrong and was very hurt you are a beautiful person wishing you the very best Hun

[@Geoboy68]

I’m so sorry what you’re going through, hugs and kisses ❤

[@xaneres1]

I nearly posted this before out of concern and feel I should now. I had a talk with a therapist who told me she had a client who was a feminine gay man who'd come under pressure to transition from his boyfriend. He went ahead with a full sex change (vaginoplasty) and was subsequently dumped by his boyfriend. I know nothing about this person but felt very angry being told the story and tell it here now as a warning. Never do anything because you are pressured by others. That HRT stunt was fucked up and you are well rid of those people. Good luck with whatever you do next x

[@njlauren]

A lot of guys are attracted to femme gay guys or trans girls, but they are conflicted bc that would make them gay. The problem is they are attracted to the person having a penis. If the person gets the bottom surgery they are then a girl..and aren't attracted to it. It is why someone needs to be themselves, not what others want them to be.

[@xaneres1]

@@njlaurenThere's something in that but I don't think that's the main driver. Encouraging someone to mutilate themselves for your personal gratification is the behaviour of a sociopath.

[@njlauren]

@@xaneres1 I am not saying it is good behavior but I don't think it rises to that level, it is more likely the conundrum I talked about with his own identity and sexuality. Trans women will tell you of a guy that seemed to live them when they were pre op but then when they got the op lost interest. With the ex it likely is bc of family pressure& not being 'gay'. Btw it isn't mutilation to get the bottom surgery to a person who is trans, to them it is like fixing a birth defect or a woman getting her breasts rebuilt after cancer. To someone who is not trans it would feel like that but it isn't. Yoya isn't trans,she is happy being her gender fluid self, so to her getting surgery would be mutillation, as it would be if someone did it to you, but it isn't to a trans person. Yoya, I apologize for extending this discussion but I hate leaving misinformed people unanswered.

[@xaneres1]

@@njlaurenI'm not misinformed, I wouldn't normally use the term. But in the case of a healthy gay man who removes his sex organs for the pleasure of a partner and deeply regrets the decision it amounts to mutilation.

[@Macron87]

You believed any of the recent posts?

[@karlburns6221]

❤❤ Yoya no matter where you go in life please know that you have my full support and respect. Stand tall and keep going forward and never go back. Also remember that I love you for you as well. I understand the heartache you have endured. Sending you love hugs and kisses and prayers always and forever ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤. By the way you look so beautiful in this video. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@percyjulian5737]

Take your time and space Yoya. You're amazing and so real and you already know who you are! Embrace yourself with love always. Hope to see you back here soon! ❤👍🏽😉

[@dm9078]

Wow! The sister story is off the chain

[@AlexEncee]

A story no one could have written. Best of luck to you!

[@drewrosecrans9728]

So sorry 😞 for what happened!!! U will be ok u will! It's just going to take some time 💯 ur strong & u will get through this u will! Much love & and respect from Pasadena CA 👠👠❤️❤️

[@michaelgutman4910]

I'm so sorry it didn't work out. Love HRT? Really? You're totally femme! And what a performer! Wow! Well, you've won my heart many times over. I'm so glad you kept your apartment It will be easier to resume your life. Much luck Much love ♥️😘♥️

[@BlueAndWhiteAreRight]

I really feel sorry for you Yoya you will find someone who will love you and treat you with love and respect your Really Beautiful Yoya please keep strong

[@notgray88]

Can I just say your dance moves are amazing 😭

[@edwardbush2152]

So sorry about what happen you will bounce back have faith and keep positive😊😊👍

[@licenciado2004]

Hi how are you love cute video would love to get to know you I respect trans or bi nary beautiful people like you.whats your Instagram

[@claudigiga3602]

wonderful

[@sethuramanan5450]

Awesome performance, fantastic dance. I don't want talk about your heart break incidents. Let's be always happy, cheerful. Always be who you are, enjoy your life to its fullest. God bless you with all best things in the world.❤❤❤❤❤🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

[@Angie-ww4ub]

Sorry to hear this. You are a strong person! In time you will bounce back.

[@erikdirks]

You are growing and getting stronger! Keep growing and loving my love!

[@johnnj3858]

I'm sending Irish love to you, you are strong and will get through all of this.🙏🏼 I hope you come back East.💚☘️💚

[@hertimusb]

Ur beautiful and amazing mannn i hope you never change

[@njlauren]

Yoya- I am so sorry, you are a beautiful, warm, loving person who puts their heart out there. I was kind of afraid that this might happen, I was so happy for you but I also thought after your blowup over the bottom surgery he was conflicted. That his sister tried the tactic with hrt *OMG*, that tells me this is coming from his background, that stinks. The problem is I think he loved you, but he couldn't reconcile to the you that is you. He wanted you to be something you can't be and the irony is had you done what he wanted he would have likely found he wasn't atrracted to that. I don't think he is a mean person , I think he is conflicted and you got caught in the cross fire of it. I kind of feel sorry for him, unless he gets help& breaks from his family crap, he wont find happiness. I say that not to denigrate him but to make you feel better, because you are an amazing person who was honest with him, he isnt true to himself so he couldnt be true to you. I am kind of glad you are away from NY, I think this will let you re energize yourself in a new place:) My love and healing energy go to you.Btw I loved your makeup with the purple shadow, I love those colors but I never got the look you achieve, you rock it!

[@shermanmcelmurry4752]

Keep your head up Babygirl 💞 you can get any man that you want ❤

[@ratcageproductions]

Sending love from Dallas Texas your are so very beautiful and strong continue to stay strong We love you

[@johnjamieson7688]

Sure it is dissapointing now, but in the long run I'm sure you will do just fine. You have a good head on your shoulders and will find someone, or something else to be successful with.

[@YoyaFabulosa]

Thank you John!

[@FloridaSalon]

Good for you. Don't let anyone pressure you into b. s.......as far as your dancing.... WOW!

[@madmania5080]

girl can dance!!!!!

[@raystoke6326]

What a drag! Have you seen a character in the old TV show "Kids in the Hall" named Buddy? It's decades old but you might be amused by his flaming persona. Watch out for those Balinese gong ensembles.

[@daurydavis3983]

*hugs* ❤

[@alejandromorotemassieu2046]

how did you learn how to dance like this? is it improv or a choreography?

[@kkayenikki6687]

I know the feeling. You're young and life bring these things. You have to approach these relationships and most of all long term and marriages like a plane that can crash and never let go of your own personal security, emotional well being as well as not letting go of your life until it is fully off the ground dig. I live in Texas, my partner in marriage lives in Chicago. I own a home in Texas and eventually will buy one in Chicago but will not turn off the lights in Texas until, I know we are crash proof. Babe. Move on and don't look back. You got a long life ahead.

[@mariomicallef7142]

Hi dear Yoya. You look fabulous. You need a mature partner by your side, someone who accepts you and appreciates your unique femininity.

[@DavidLopez-oo1nd]

I'm sorry about you and your ex partner didn't go well no matter what happened you will always welcome here in LA if you want to find a house or apartment feel free to do but don't give up your hope your dream and your future let them be your guide so you can find your destiny

[@tobyflagg8058]

Sorry to just learn of your split and breakup from your fiancé. Deep down for me I knew he wasn't the right fella for you after he tried to get you to undergo vage surgery and you both ended up in a quarrel about it last year was it or 2022? For me that's a big red flag in a guy that's asking a crossdresser to get under the knife for something so cosmetic yet so irreversible. In this day and age there's no need for crossdressers to undergo such a life changing procedure that at the end of the day won't stop the day-to-day arguments, fallings out and cold shoulders that every couple on earth go thru. You was right to refuse the surgery and it should only ever be undertaken if the dresser/transwoman wants to do it, not be asked by the partner to do it. That kind of surgery was all the buzz in 2002 onwards in the never ending desire to become women by taking away the main issue that says otherwise. These days no one gives a sh*t if the dresser/transwoman is tucked away and the admirer is cool with that. Honestly I think you was/are too young to get married at this point and you should enjoy that freedom being single with the good friends you have and actually date guys that are on your wavelength. Enjoy life what it can offer you instead of becoming "Mrs Fabulosa", continue being "Miss Yoya" and turning guys heads in town. Forget the flakes in LA and come to London for a vacation! All the power to you Miss.

[@YoyaFabulosa]

Thanks for your insights Toby. What I thought was resolved and in the past wasn't, and I'm going to be a lot less lenient with red flags like that in future relationships. Also London does sound lovely!

[@tobyflagg8058]

@@YoyaFabulosa Good girl, and London is a sh*tshow city at the moment with everything going on but it's still a safe and sound city to show a beautiful girl a good night out. I'm a nice fella and I'll wait whenever you get the itch to pack your evening gowns, sharp stiletto heels and hot collection of sexy wigs to fly over here for a couple of weeks and hit the town for drinks and clubs 🍷💃

[@tobyflagg8058]

@@YoyaFabulosa Let me know whenever you fly out to here. Drinks and dinner is on me.

[@amandabenjamin7683]

You did well to be careful for New York

[@PeteyHoudini]

Sorry for the heartbreak

[@waynewheaton6129]

Dear Yoya, While I think that you are beautiful, let me tell you why I am such a big fan: you're funny, strong, fearless, and confident. Your great big personality shines through in your posted videos. I would marry you...he doesn't deserve you.

[@danaswitch5865]

Yoya, first of all I love you. But when someone says that they are "fine" especially after heartbreak, they aren't. It takes time to wash someone out of your soul and even then sometimes they have to be rung out. But this is the vulnerability that every trans women faces: What is real? Who is real? What is true and are there any truth tellers left? For a second I thought I saw a tear form in the edge of your beautiful brown eyes. And that's the real crime. When someone that i've followed for advice is hurt then I don't know what to do other than be hurt also. Be well is all that I can offer. Dana. Forever.

[@YoyaFabulosa]

Thanks for your kind words Dana. I'm taking it day by day, cause that's all I can do.

[@kuji-vijay]

Nice dance ❤

[@TVTanya-eq2yc]

feel for you sweetie

[@pauljackson5326]

Hey beautiful, you're so close... Australia for a while???

[@briakitty7754]

Big hugs hun love your videos and beautiful outfits so cute 💋👠

[@JimenaVentura-h1h]

wow! you look like Ale Muller (an mexican actress) ❤ very pretty

[@jfolz134]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@CarlLandry-x4i]

where do i find a cd girlfriend

[@robertennis428]

Hey Yoya What's up Girl I heard u not gonna get married & stuff. Sorry all that Happened to you but continue to keep ya head up Girl, I'm here for you. Love you Girl.🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥❤❤❤❤

[@zaktyler7565]

Hi Yoya baby I’m really sorry for you love. I understand how you feel babydoll. Feel free if you want to talk for your upcoming livestream or asking questions video we here for you babydoll. Love the dancing and golden necklace looks gorgeous gold on you. P.S You go girl❤️😊😍😚🥰☺️😘😉

[@Macron87]

Have any of the recent videos contained an element of truth?

[@SandraCross-gy2ow]

🖤❤❤❤🖤

[@Highheelsfan]

Du schönste und bezaubernde CD Mädchen ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🤩🤩😍🥿🥰🥰👠👠👍👍👍👍

[@josephjohnscurto9985]

come to nyc ;lets get to know each other

[@DaisyLynn-ho8gj]

You are such a total cutie 💓 💗 💕

[@waynedonnelly4585]

YOU ARE ADORABLE LOVELY BODY FANTASTIC HAIRSTYLE BEAUTIFUL VOICE & SEXY DANCER FIRST CLASS ENTERTAINER ❤❤🎉😮

[@aprylvanryn5898]

I can tell by the string of syllogisms that you are not ok. I'm truly sorry it didn't work out for you. Distractions are great, but they will never help you deal with the root problem; however, if you do have to be distracted, I can't think of a better place than Bali. Hopefully you find some time to reflect and process your emotions in a healthy way. If you need a shoulder to cry on you have both my email addresses; I may know a thing or two about heartbreak. If u want u can marry me when u get back to NY. I always wanted duel citizenship 😆 🤣 😂 Love u girl. Remember, chin up and tits out.

[@daveforgot127]

Terrible a landlord is losing tons of money.Because you selfishly reds without your place

[@OldGrowthRedwood]

Nice performance but I’d hide the belly.