Finding out I'm PREGNANT 4 months postpartum

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Matt & Abby

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@MattandAbby
@MattandAbby Жыл бұрын
Watch the full podcast episode here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/poWUpH2gl9poaNU
@trichomechronicles2875
@trichomechronicles2875 Жыл бұрын
You are my IDOLS
@ceciliaacosta2585
@ceciliaacosta2585 Жыл бұрын
I hope it is a girl
@phoenixrose9400
@phoenixrose9400 Жыл бұрын
My boyfriend sister-in-law just found out she's two months pregnant with her third. She conceived five months after having the second. She found out she was pregnant the day before her appointment to schedule a time to get her tubes tied. They just bought a three-bedroom house so each kid had their own since they weren't planning to have anymore. Now they're going to have to plan an extension in the future because they still want to give their kids the opportunity to have their own rooms. (Girl 4, Girl 7months, and 2months pregnant)
@sophiagooden8171
@sophiagooden8171 Жыл бұрын
Congrats 🎉🎉 when u know tell us the baby’s gender!
@ms.saraigutierrez
@ms.saraigutierrez Жыл бұрын
@phoenixrose9400 something similar happened to a friend of mine. She had to have an emergency c-section to deliver her triplets (pre-term) - and because it was such a complicated birth, they told her she wouldn't likely be able to have any more kids. Fast forward 5 yrs later she had an appointment scheduled to get her tubes tied (just in case) since they had a 6 (almost 7) Yr old son and 3 5yr old girls, and when they did her blood work, they were like, well, surprise. Congrats :)? They now have an 8yr son, 3 6yr old girls, & 4 1yr olds (3 boys 1 girl). But this time they're definitely closed for business 🙈
@kendric2000-q3d
@kendric2000-q3d Жыл бұрын
For our second child (who was not expected) my wife woke me up at 6am on a Saturday and was panicked saying, the test is positive. MY foggy mind took one look at the test, took it in and was like 'oh...okay.' and went back to sleep. She shakes me saying, 'What are we going to do?!?' Calmly half-asleep I was like 'Have a baby, its cool.'
@marathimulgi1010
@marathimulgi1010 Жыл бұрын
Fr 🤣
@Lala_monzz
@Lala_monzz Жыл бұрын
of ur not panicking, u don’t have to go through shit…could’ve at least supported ur wife by saying more meaningful words instead of “ok have the baby” like wtf 😂
@potato1084
@potato1084 Жыл бұрын
@@Lala_monzz I don’t think you understand how the human brain works when you’re tired. They just woke up. That’s the time when you say the weirdest crap.
@kazimirawolf
@kazimirawolf Жыл бұрын
@@Lala_monzz this comment is ignorant af
@veryoffpudding
@veryoffpudding Жыл бұрын
@@Lala_monzzI woke my brother up for work once and he goes “no I don’t want any pringles” and went back to sleep. We don’t even buy pringles it came completely out of nowhere. He probably didn’t process what was happening when she woke him up
@diddntuno
@diddntuno Жыл бұрын
I took a pregnancy test at 6am in the morning not expecting it to be positive. When i saw two lines i started saying 'shut up' over and over again. I went into our bedroom turned the lights on and loudly announced 'wake up im pregnant' my husband half asleep was like 'do you want breakfast?'
@Tea23145
@Tea23145 Жыл бұрын
Bahahaha
@mexicangyrl24
@mexicangyrl24 Жыл бұрын
With my first i went to the ER because I have having a horrible migraine. They didn’t do a pregnancy test not even ask me when was my last period. They gave me medication for my migraine and it knocked me out. When I woke up I was at home lol. But something still left off and I took a pregnancy test at 4 am. The two lines showed up so fast. I woke up my husband and told him I was pregnant he told me “and” and went back to sleep after a few minutes he woke up and said “ I had a dream you were pregnant” 😂😂 I threw the test at him and told him I was and to look. 😂
@avasintuphandacha8461
@avasintuphandacha8461 Жыл бұрын
😂
@ovedkimfuta8606
@ovedkimfuta8606 Жыл бұрын
@@mexicangyrl24 😂😂 the and killed me 😂
@monamikalita388
@monamikalita388 Жыл бұрын
​@@mexicangyrl24 ok now i can't breathe 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@makennajacobs1444
@makennajacobs1444 Жыл бұрын
My parents had me and my sister 22 months apart, and we just turned 16 and 14, and she’s the best friend I could ever have. I’m so grateful our parents had us so close in age, even though they didn’t plan it that way! :)
@missbeaussie
@missbeaussie Жыл бұрын
17 months for me and my sister
@dhanimunim
@dhanimunim Жыл бұрын
Me and my brother have a difference of about 2 years and we fight like crazy
@cassandracharles6038
@cassandracharles6038 Жыл бұрын
My sister and I are back to back as well. We are in our 30s now and we are still best friends. I hope you and your sister stay close forever. It’s a beautiful thing to be so close to your sibling. ❤
@littlepumpkinseed
@littlepumpkinseed Жыл бұрын
13 months difference with me and my bro! We love each other!
@TBSebidi
@TBSebidi Жыл бұрын
My daughters are 16 months apart and they are best friends
@nachosliving7616
@nachosliving7616 Жыл бұрын
Even When my wife was 4 months postpartum we used protection (even tho she had birth control) I didn’t want to risk it , doctor said I could just breath on her I get her pregnant she was that fertile so I was always cautious ,I know she needed to heal
@tealablu3759
@tealablu3759 Жыл бұрын
Omg!! Good on you for doing your part to keep her healthy!!
@descoleta
@descoleta Жыл бұрын
Thaaank you sir for doing this for your wife! Not all men understand the importance of a healing postpartum body! I wish every male were able to do that! (english is not my first language, sorry if I made a mistake!)
@nachosliving7616
@nachosliving7616 Жыл бұрын
Women’s health mentally and physically is important ,us husbands would be lost without our wives . I make sure my wife is mentally good because she is the one raising our children at home and making sure everything is in order while I’m at work , her job is way more important than my job.
@radium1977
@radium1977 Жыл бұрын
@Nachos Living... equally important... But not, more so! If you lost your job, for whatever reason. Your family, would immediately be unstable!
@nachosliving7616
@nachosliving7616 Жыл бұрын
@@radium1977 not necessarily I own my own business but my wife also has a degree
@Barec76
@Barec76 Жыл бұрын
Everyone forgetting she wasn't supposed to get pregnant for a year after her surgery thinking this is no big deal
@yolina9806
@yolina9806 Жыл бұрын
i thought the same thing
@anonymous-bb2dw
@anonymous-bb2dw Жыл бұрын
what I find interesting is how she simply forgot to use condoms or other methods thinking she wouldn't get pregnant, come on home girl
@quirkygirl4345
@quirkygirl4345 Жыл бұрын
@@anonymous-bb2dw it’s not her fault
@jillbrown1411
@jillbrown1411 Жыл бұрын
@@quirkygirl4345it’s either both of their faults or not enough patient education on the medical side. When u go through c section. They recommend waiting until a year to get pregnant again bc of complications. Dangerous on mother and baby. So yes someone is at fault
@quirkygirl4345
@quirkygirl4345 Жыл бұрын
@@jillbrown1411 you need to stop blaming her, you’re being aggressive
@Leenylulu95
@Leenylulu95 Жыл бұрын
If people don't feel ready to be pregnant yet... why don't they try things to prevent one ?
@sambito702
@sambito702 Жыл бұрын
I didn’t want another pregnancy so I got an IUD as soon as I could and my husband and I use condoms. No surprises here (at least not without precautions taken)
@jamesdryan
@jamesdryan Жыл бұрын
Because they are stupid.
@jBM2388
@jBM2388 Жыл бұрын
I know. I saw Abby in a video read on planned parenthood that you don’t ovulate while breastfeeding. Which isn’t true. And a lot of women think that since they aren’t getting their period that they aren’t ovulating and can’t get pregnant. Then they don’t use condoms either and end up pregnant. But even if I just had a kid. No period. We’d be using both types of birth control. So Abby thought she couldn’t get pregnant while breastfeeding and they didn’t use protection. It was a mistake/bad decision on their part. But I just hope they learn this time after their 2nd kid. Cause it’s very bad for the female body to get pregnant again that quick after just having a baby. It’s important to wait at least a year for the body to recover. And also you are the most fertile after having a baby. A lot of people don’t know this or some don’t care. But I hope her and the baby end up healthy! ❤️
@godsgirl7201
@godsgirl7201 Жыл бұрын
Amen!!
@godsgirl7201
@godsgirl7201 Жыл бұрын
​@@jBM2388oh yeah true
@TamTam-ro5wd
@TamTam-ro5wd Жыл бұрын
I’m currently 37 weeks pregnant and my god I’m exhausted! I really don’t understand how couples don’t use protection, or pressume they can’t get pregnant due to breast feeding or because they didn’t have a a period, when they’ve given birth a few weeks / months ago. Your body needs time to health post birth… We all know how babies are made - don’t take the risk 😅
@FairestOfThemAll
@FairestOfThemAll Жыл бұрын
It's called being naive. Which I totally don't understand because of all the information out there but it's clear that both of these 2 were sheltered and must not have paid much attention during health class or to doctor's orders
@ravendawnhead97
@ravendawnhead97 Жыл бұрын
It’s apparently pretty rare to get pregnant while breast feeding and she was breastfeeding at time
@jamiegrettum
@jamiegrettum Жыл бұрын
My babies are 14 months apart. It was wild the first two years but they are such good friends now in their teens. I actually think it has been easier to manage than having them 2-3 years apart ❤
@bethaminov9481
@bethaminov9481 Жыл бұрын
My boys are 14 months apart, and they are best friends, too. I was so shocked, but now at 18/19, looking back, it was the best thing.
@Momlife1993
@Momlife1993 Жыл бұрын
i can agree with this. My boys are 13 months apart and they are now 3 and almost 2 and it is finally calming down. They are the best of friends now.
@thegoodwife144
@thegoodwife144 Жыл бұрын
mine are about to be 14 months apart too. i was wanting irish twins-still do! but now the reality is setting😂😂🥰
@lauren-pz4ju
@lauren-pz4ju Жыл бұрын
How would you know? My kids are 4.5 years apart and I think it’s a breeze because I stay home alone with the baby while my oldest is at school. She understands about babies and loves her little brother with no jealousy, only excitement to teach him and show him things.
@nesramirez9592
@nesramirez9592 Жыл бұрын
My brother and I are 16 months apart :) we grew up best friends and we are very close
@cairibour
@cairibour Жыл бұрын
I hope your hernia surgery isn’t affected at all by the pregnancy. Hope this pregnancy is safe and healthy for mama and baby.
@libsonteresa5695
@libsonteresa5695 Жыл бұрын
I thought doctor’s advice was to wait for sometime for another pregnancy after the hernia surgery. Did you not take it seriously at all ?
@jennyblue42
@jennyblue42 Жыл бұрын
Why so rude?
@jaredtandle2596
@jaredtandle2596 Жыл бұрын
These two are so uninteresting, I have no clue why they decided to start a podcast.
@reginageorgetownuni
@reginageorgetownuni Жыл бұрын
Ladies, lactational amenorrhea is not a reliable contraception. Use condoms or get an intrauterine device right after delivery. Stay blessed Abby and Matt 🧡
@kimaciacurtis3705
@kimaciacurtis3705 Жыл бұрын
If you watch the whole thing they explain that they know it isn't a reliable contraception, and that they did use condoms and there was 3 incidences in which they didn't. Abby also says she didn't want an iud again (she had one before Griffin, didn't want another one), and that she didnt want to be on hormonal birth control because the hormones change during pregnancy and after pregnancy. No hate just letting you know what they said in the full video.
@unzikarim2648
@unzikarim2648 Жыл бұрын
​@@kimaciacurtis3705 thanks. It's scary to know that eveb aftr condoms it din work. I don't want an IUd too nor any tablets. It's scary. Especially aftr 1st baby everythin seems scary
@johanna2690
@johanna2690 Жыл бұрын
@@unzikarim2648 Condoms are reliable if used correctly. And it seems the baby was conceived when they didn't use anything.
@Katherine-in8gf
@Katherine-in8gf Жыл бұрын
@@unzikarim2648 honestly look up the statistical information on condoms! It’s one of the worse birth control options lol I think it works like 70% of the time if I remember correctly from my Family Studies class in college. 😅
@Purpleelephant13
@Purpleelephant13 Жыл бұрын
@@Katherine-in8gf When used correctly condoms are closer 98% effective. It's incorrect usage that reduces the effectiveness due to risk of breaking
@ladyred5468
@ladyred5468 Жыл бұрын
didn’t you doctor tell you guys to wait cuz you just had hernia surgery? i hope this all works out seems risky.
@adelehazeleyes
@adelehazeleyes Жыл бұрын
My boys are also 14 month apart and I promise you’re going to LOVE his age gap! My boys are 5&6 now and I liked the age gap so much I’m doing it again lol. Griffey won’t be developmentally old enough to get jealous so between that and your incredible parenting, no matter how different they are they will be so close. Half my pics on my phone are of my boys cuddling. YES they will cry at the same time, but not as often as you fear. YES they will fight, but who doesn’t? It really felt like having all the best parts of twins without the hardest parts (birthing, breastfeeding two babies at a time, etc)
@ekramezziden9051
@ekramezziden9051 Жыл бұрын
Awwww!! God bless y’all!!!
@Saved_by_grace1
@Saved_by_grace1 Жыл бұрын
YES👏 My last 2 are 14mos apart, now 16 &17. Cheers!
@justarandomgirlvx3578
@justarandomgirlvx3578 Жыл бұрын
Actually little children like griffin can feel jealousy already lol, but that can happen with any age gap
@jackie31933
@jackie31933 Жыл бұрын
My sister and I are 15 months apart. It’s definitely been pretty cool!!
@aishaaaa.
@aishaaaa. Жыл бұрын
my brother and i are 11 months apart 😅
@skarlette6539
@skarlette6539 Жыл бұрын
That's so stupid. You aren't supposed to get pregnant so soon, especially after the hernia surgery. I hope you learn your lesson raising 3 kids.
@jennyblue42
@jennyblue42 Жыл бұрын
Did your parents not teach you any manners, honey?
@skarlette6539
@skarlette6539 Жыл бұрын
@@jennyblue42 the same way apparently they didn't learn from their doctor how serious this is?
@stacieschaefer8879
@stacieschaefer8879 Жыл бұрын
Were you not supposed to get pregnant cuz your hernia surgery or whatever?!? Is everything okay with that or what??!?
@____kd
@____kd Жыл бұрын
Wow wasn’t Abby dr ordered not to get pregnant for a year after the surgery? I feel so sad for her.
@enolagardens
@enolagardens Жыл бұрын
i'm worried about this too, her surgery just happened 😬 definitely should have been more careful, hopefully she'll be okay
@kikinielsen1768
@kikinielsen1768 Жыл бұрын
Ya well she also said the surgeon told her to get pregnant BEFORE the surgery which is totally cap.
@jillburgdorfer3298
@jillburgdorfer3298 Жыл бұрын
Yeah but they think they are above everyone and everything so they dont listen...plus matt is a horn dog and god forgbid he wears something for his 4 seconds
@Jx0592
@Jx0592 Жыл бұрын
Their hernia surgery tho?
@pragyasingh7591
@pragyasingh7591 Жыл бұрын
But you weren't supposed to get pregnant because of the hernia surgery?
@AKyaska
@AKyaska Жыл бұрын
That's what I was thinking!
@shannalawless2544
@shannalawless2544 Жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness as someone who has went through this exact thing I am praying for you! Please please please be patient with your body. Especially after baby #2 is here. It took me a few years to feel normal again
@alyssdem
@alyssdem Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU!! For saying this. My babies are 15 months apart, youngest is a year now and I still don’t quite feel 100% “normal” Stay patient with your body, your healing, and give yourself grace in every way. As women, we give so much of ourselves to grow our babies and family. Beautiful sacrifice 💕
@vikashrathi8575
@vikashrathi8575 Жыл бұрын
Hi shannala
@Mars1pan24
@Mars1pan24 Жыл бұрын
Omg! Im so excited for you and your growing family!!!!!!!!!! I hope Abby and baby are/ stay healthy. Sendings lots of love❤❤❤❤❤❤
@kaylalong2929
@kaylalong2929 Жыл бұрын
My third baby was unplanned I was on birth control but got a antibiotic from the denist that counteracted with the bc. I already had a 3 year old and a 1 year old so to say I was shocked is a understatement lol me and my husband cried that first day but then we decided we would make it work. It was super hard but i couldn’t imagine life without him he definitely completed my little family he’s 4 now 💕
@kierstenc741
@kierstenc741 Жыл бұрын
shouldn’t the dentist have asked if you were on any medication already?? seems like you shouldn’t have got that particular medicine while you were on birth control… glad it all worked out and is good though!
@kaylalong2929
@kaylalong2929 Жыл бұрын
@@kierstenc741 I told them I was on birth control and the nurse said it was fine to take together..after that I never went back to that dentist it all worked out but in the end but i was so worried something would be wrong since I was on birth control when I got pregnant. I did find out early I was like 8weeks I didn’t have my period but I thought it was because of the birth control but I noticed I was super emotional which wasn’t like me. That was the only reason I even took a test
@AAStudiosdesign
@AAStudiosdesign Жыл бұрын
​@@kaylalong2929 bro I would sue them if they told me that
@JoanLouiseL
@JoanLouiseL Жыл бұрын
The only antibiotic that interferes with birth control is rifampicin, which is used primarily to treat tuberculosis and leprosy. Those diseases are basically unheard of in the developed world. Almost no one gets them, but so many women blame their unexpected pregnancies on antibiotics. It’s just not true.
@kierstenc741
@kierstenc741 Жыл бұрын
@@kaylalong2929 have you looked it up? i just can’t imagine they would give you that if they knew it would do something to your birth control. it’s not that i don’t believe you and it still sucks that it all happened when you didn’t want it to. just hope you find some answers! xx
@lowkey-buggy
@lowkey-buggy Жыл бұрын
I love your videos so much y’all are my favorite KZbin channel, but please don’t turn into one of those annoying family channels that use there kids for fame like the Labrant family
@radium1977
@radium1977 Жыл бұрын
If you were not feeling equipped to be a mother...again...You should use birth control!
@sayantanisaha
@sayantanisaha Жыл бұрын
She actually needed a gap between the pregnancies. She had a hernia surgery as well as her body is returning back to all the changes it did in the 9 months and getting pregnant again. There's a reason the doctors ask to have at least 3 years gap between pregnancies. The mother physically becomes weak otherwise.
@xSwordLilyx
@xSwordLilyx Жыл бұрын
I don't know why anybody else isn't saying you still can choose whether this is what you want and it's not wrong to choose not to. Your body is probably going to be deficient of nutrients and physically it is not recommended to do this so close together, you should be letting yourself heal. You could lose teeth. I hope you discussed the decision with your OB and your mental health matters too.
@themomandthemaverick
@themomandthemaverick Жыл бұрын
I am mother of 5. I was only 2 months postpartum with #3 when I became pregnant for #4 they are a year and 16 days apart in age. 8 months later I started feeling very sick and no food could get in my mouth fast enough to beat the nausea. I realized that I was pregnant with #5. Dealing with pregnancy again before the girls were 1 and 2 was overwhelming. It was very hard when they were little but now they are 11 about to be 12, 13 and 14. We actually are glad they are all grouped together and had playmates as they were growing up. Congratulations on the upcoming bundle of joy!!
@lauranorre8956
@lauranorre8956 Жыл бұрын
Birthcontrol is invented, in case you didn't know 🫣🤣
@themomandthemaverick
@themomandthemaverick Жыл бұрын
@@lauranorre8956 🤣 yes I am aware. My body has adverse reactions to birth control so I was tracking my cycle. Which didn't work out well.
@cass4762
@cass4762 Жыл бұрын
Lol.. this sounds a bit familiar... I was pregnant 4 WEEKS postpartum, both of my babies were born in 2021... they are 1 and 2 now... and I just found out I'm 3 months pregnant :) ☠️
@kyla6538
@kyla6538 Жыл бұрын
​@@themomandthemaverick did your body have adverse reactions to condoms too? It's clearly an excuse otherwise you'd of gone on to have 10 more babies but you decided to stop at some point and use a form of birth control now didn't you? you could of done that after baby 1 2 or 3 or 4 etc but you didn't want to and used "adverse reaction" as your excuse. I seriously think women begin to believe themselves when they say this lmao. I didnt want to have anymore babies and I didn't want the reactions of birth control so I got the Paraguard which is the highest effectiveness form of birth control all while being 100% hormone free so no side affects and it lasts 10 years. boom problem solved.
@themomandthemaverick
@themomandthemaverick Жыл бұрын
@@kyla6538 I do have adverse reactions thanks for asking such a personal question. I actually have extreme allergies. I had 8 years between child #2 and #3, so I did follow natural ways of preventing pregnancy. I did not have more children because I got a tubal ligation in 2011 after my last child was born and I had been on bed rest because of health complications during pregnancy. By the way it is very rude of you to make such judgemental comments. Next time maybe you should just keep on reading and keep your personal opinions to yourself. I am a 46 year old woman and have tried a lot of different birth control choices, none worked well for my body, no matter how they worked for yours. Everyone's bodies are different and you shouldn't speak about what you have no idea about. Thanks and have a blessed day.
@beckydavis2235
@beckydavis2235 Жыл бұрын
I fell pregnant when my daughter was 4 months. They are 6 and 7 now and they can be the best of friends or the worst of enemies but they always have each other and some one to play with.
@kelliebrady5480
@kelliebrady5480 Жыл бұрын
He did not look fake he was the sweetest thing ever.
@raeleenpreston4019
@raeleenpreston4019 Жыл бұрын
He didn't come across fake to me, he came across as solid supportive and unshakeable. You two are sweet and lovely
@zaraheart
@zaraheart Жыл бұрын
What is it with content creators having babies almost immediately after they just had one!? 😂 It’s like they need to pump out them kids so they can continue to have content.
@pippin3168
@pippin3168 Жыл бұрын
Answered your own question
@jennyblue42
@jennyblue42 Жыл бұрын
Rude
@jasmingovers4403
@jasmingovers4403 Жыл бұрын
Oh no, I'm sorry, I remember that you guys saying that you shouldn't be pregnant so shortly after your operation? I hope you both stay healthy ❤️
@erikawilliamson176
@erikawilliamson176 Жыл бұрын
I thought you couldn’t have a baby for a year after the hernia surgery??
@Mystical244
@Mystical244 Жыл бұрын
Aren't you supposed to allow your body to heal properly for at least a yr or two before getting pregnant again?
@melodyrose2269
@melodyrose2269 Жыл бұрын
Yes, you are. Having them back to back can be really damaging to your body. You need at least a year to fully heal. It takes at least a year for your hormones to settle back to normal also. I’m almost ten months in and I’m just now starting to feel somewhat okay but I still have no control of my emotions🥴 I am not getting pregnant until my daughter is two years old because I’m not doing the two under two crap💀💀 they’re gonna have their hands full that’s for sure. My ob even told me “just because you’re breastfeeding make sure you use are protected because it’s not a birth control and you can still get pregnant”. I even knew that I was most fertile after giving birth because I did my research.
@danielle9927
@danielle9927 Жыл бұрын
Congratulations!!! So happy for you both xx
@Tinkerbellll
@Tinkerbellll Жыл бұрын
Wait!!!! She's pregnant again??? I'm so excited!!!!!
@bridgetclement2968
@bridgetclement2968 Жыл бұрын
I don't think they have done Video on Birth, but BABY #2 was Due on AUG 15
@HeyTripleJ
@HeyTripleJ Жыл бұрын
Yes! Mine will be 19 months apart and I’m due March 1st🎉🎉🎉🎉 it’s a good thing! Better this way, knock ‘em all out! ❤️❤️❤️
@addy.grace14
@addy.grace14 Жыл бұрын
Me and my sister are 12 months apart and we consider each other our greatest best friends ❤
@Mollysmith99
@Mollysmith99 Жыл бұрын
Congratulations 💖💖Hope you and your baby is healthy!!
@alisonequestrian
@alisonequestrian Жыл бұрын
Omg congratulations!!! I know it might be tough having another pregnancy only 4 months postpartum, but I know you will do amazing!
@blacklion5436
@blacklion5436 Жыл бұрын
I thiught you should not become pregnant for at least a year because of the hernia surgery 😱😱
@stardustring
@stardustring Жыл бұрын
If this happened to me the extreme anxiety I would go through would kill me.
@irishcountrygirl78
@irishcountrygirl78 Жыл бұрын
.....but...they know how that happened, play with fire 🔥 you get burned. Always fascinating how people are irresponsible, mess around...then feel "ill equipped " and "shocked". There are so many options nowadays to not get pregnant if you aren't ready.
@pippin3168
@pippin3168 Жыл бұрын
Being “shocked” makes better clickbait …
@jennyblue42
@jennyblue42 Жыл бұрын
And none of them are failproof. Your point being?
@numbdigger9552
@numbdigger9552 Жыл бұрын
​​@@jennyblue42 A 0.1% chance of pregnancy is leaps better than a 50% chance. You could die in a car crash anyway, so why wear a seatbelt? God you're stupid...
@irishcountrygirl78
@irishcountrygirl78 Жыл бұрын
@jennyblue42 was with my boyfriend from 15, never had a baby unplanned, what's your point? You can absolutely avoid pregnancy unless forced. Had our first pregnancy at 27.
@jennyblue42
@jennyblue42 Жыл бұрын
@@irishcountrygirl78 My point is that no 100 % failproof birth control exists yet. The fact that you yourself did not have an unplanned pregnancy changes literally nothing about that.
@stayathomemarine
@stayathomemarine Жыл бұрын
And here I am 3 months postpartum and we haven't even resumed having seggs 😵‍💫
@shanicewhite4929
@shanicewhite4929 Жыл бұрын
It doesn’t look fake! He was so sincere and tried calming you down. So sweet!
@isabelakait
@isabelakait Жыл бұрын
Wow, this is amazing!! Congratulations guys!! I am the oldest of 8, and it's awesome. All my siblings are about 2yrs apart and I love how close we are. My siblings are my best friends ❤️ Griffin is so lucky to have a brother close in age! Having siblings is the best gift you can give your child, coming from an oldest of 8 😁 especially when they're all teenagers, you have best buddies in everything you do! Congrats, again!! 🎉
@annapainter2763
@annapainter2763 Жыл бұрын
Everybody repeat after me," breastfeeding is not a reliable form of birth control". 😂 Congrats you guys! If anyone can do this it's you two
@Jakefromstakefarm
@Jakefromstakefarm Жыл бұрын
Y'all know what causes that, right? Can't be too surprised if y'all didn't prevent it.
@JCLO119
@JCLO119 Жыл бұрын
Abby and Matt it will be so worth it. They will always have a play mate. I spaced my kids out. However we spend every weekend together. They Love each other respect, each other and would do anything for each Other. We got married at 18 and 19. Our oldest just turned 37 our middle is 34 youngest is 27. 2 boys and a girl. I have Mark Matt and Amanda. We have 5 Beautiful granddaughters and nothing has brought me more joy. We have been married for 38 years that sounds so strange to say it out loud. I’m so happy for you both. I never thought they would be so close and bring my husband and I even closer. Here’s the advice my husband gives… it’s not going to be 50/50 sometimes it could be 80/20. Because I too have had some serious surgeries. So imagine like Matt does when you need help he’s always there. I literally married my Best friend, never thought that would happen. Don’t let anyone decide what is wrong or right. You both really know. I live in Az as well. My life is complete. Of course we bicker but in the end of the day I’m happy to be bickering with him. He’s a wonderful Husband and Father. I am truly blessed. Joanne ❤ Enjoy every moment, don’t Blink it goes by so fast. Be present as much as you can. I never thought I would be saying I’m 56. 😳 yikes. I’m happy you have such a great support system. Sending you Blessings and Love!!❤
@NeedANewName
@NeedANewName Жыл бұрын
I thought you weren't supposed to get pregnant for the first year after your surgery? Is all of that going to be okay?
@melanieschafer1297
@melanieschafer1297 Жыл бұрын
Holy moly girl! I am so happy for you! FYI though, not that I really need to tell you now, breast feeding is NOT reliable to count on as birth control 😯. You are such a wonderful mom and you will be an AMAZING mom to two! I love watching you both.
@emc4870
@emc4870 Жыл бұрын
Learned this the hard way. I was exclusively breastfeeding and had not had a period so was like oh it’s fine, he’s getting fixed soon anyways so we should be fine. SURPRISE, baby #4. 😂 He’s now almost 12 and I couldn’t imagine life without him although we were God Smacked. 😅
@jamesdryan
@jamesdryan Жыл бұрын
Are you kidding me, some people actually believe and use that as birth control?😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@melanieschafer1297
@melanieschafer1297 Жыл бұрын
@@jamesdryan actually some women do. Because they don’t get periods. In all actuality they are wide open to getting pregnant, even more likely than usual in the first 6 weeks.
@braapbraaaps5084
@braapbraaaps5084 Жыл бұрын
Though you guys weren’t expecting it you guys are already great parents and Griffin will have so much fun! Trust me you guys will do awesome!!!
@pookapook1382
@pookapook1382 Жыл бұрын
Im so happy for you! I know it’s scary now but in the far future you’ll look back in this and be so happy you woke up and took that test! As a sibling that’s 14 months apart from my brother I know what it’s like to have a close sibling! Griffin is going to be an amazing big brother!
@juliapalko7289
@juliapalko7289 Жыл бұрын
Oh goodness this is cringe.. They act like they don't know each other's story. As if they live separately. I find it weird that they are discussing everything with each other as if they are not related, but just interviewing each other. This does not look like a family conversation. " You then wake me up", "You see the positive pregnancy test", "It really caught me off guard. They are talking to nobody, but each other when they know everything already.
@egk4885
@egk4885 Жыл бұрын
Congratulations! I hope you have a healthy pregnancy and baby! Griffin is going to be an amazing big brother!!
@kaylyncornett4985
@kaylyncornett4985 Жыл бұрын
my fiancé sent me your guys videos all the time when i was pregnant with my first. we were pregnant at the same time and my fiancé felt quite a few of your guy’s videos were relatable for us 😂. i just found out that i’m also pregnant three months postpartum. we’re in this together again apparently 😅🎉
@lillyfauguel
@lillyfauguel Жыл бұрын
WAITT!! YOUR PREGNANT!!! CONGRATSSS 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
@apow19xx
@apow19xx Жыл бұрын
I just had to watch this 3 times to make sure I was hearing this right!!!! Yayyyyy! I'm so happy for yall!!
@rozanndelange8302
@rozanndelange8302 Жыл бұрын
OH MY FREAKING WORD!!!!! yall are pregnant again!!!!!! no freaking way! I'm soooo exited for you guys,, congratulations!
@katieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
@katieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee Жыл бұрын
CONGRATS MATT AND ABBY!!!!!!!!!!!!! I know Griffin will be an AMAZING big brother and you guys will become more amazing parents! Wishing you the best from Texas! 💕💕💕
@RachelleByn
@RachelleByn Жыл бұрын
Our son was 5 mos old. When we found out we were pregnant again. I was already a month along lol. No regrets, I love having them so close in age. Fights can be horrendous though, so watch out for that.
@halofp2023
@halofp2023 Жыл бұрын
FIRST! Matt and Abby ate literally my favourite couple on KZbin. Griffin is so lucky to have parents like you!
@TC_ReflexYT
@TC_ReflexYT Жыл бұрын
I’m first lol
@danaetorres3094
@danaetorres3094 Жыл бұрын
That was the funniest reaction 🤣🤣🤣
@justhere5037
@justhere5037 Жыл бұрын
You’re the most fertile setter pregnancy! Do not forget this use protection if you’re not ready!
@milabenmimon6747
@milabenmimon6747 Жыл бұрын
I’m not being funny, but only in America would someone think that breast feeding would act as contraception…however, everything happens for a reason and I’m sure you’ll do great, it’s scary when things happen unexpectedly, but at the end of the day, the baby is just more joy entering your home ❤ Take it easy, it’s ok to feel anxious, and having doubts is normal, just don’t let it consume you, you did amazing the first, and you’ll do just as amazing the second time around! Good luck and congratulations! 🎉❤ Love from the UK 🇬🇧
@elizabethadebola1946
@elizabethadebola1946 Жыл бұрын
Well, I got pregnant 14 months postpartum and I wanted to die! I was really hoping to give them 2 years plus gap but I was so devastated when I found out. My husband was really helpful during my devastated period that lasted until I got to accept the fact that I was actually pregnant, lol. And God so good, I got a baby girl . I was so grateful to God cos my first is a boy.. They're 23months apart, still 3 and 1 year olds and I'm so looking forward to them growing up from this stage cos it's not been easy🤭. And I just tell people they're 2 years apart, what's the difference anyway 😁
@elliejohnson8146
@elliejohnson8146 Жыл бұрын
They....are 2 years apart. Lol.
@elizabethadebola1946
@elizabethadebola1946 Жыл бұрын
@@elliejohnson8146 Right... Lol
@Coach.Angel11
@Coach.Angel11 Жыл бұрын
Mine are 18 months apart now 6 and 4 I got pregnant 8 months postpartum they are best friends is a lot when there little because is two baby’s they need so much but then as they get older they play together sleep together they have each other for life
@dievans4786
@dievans4786 Жыл бұрын
My number one and number two are 13 months apart. The first year was really hard, but now they’re the best of friends and I’m so grateful we have them so close in age!
@MrsCan
@MrsCan Жыл бұрын
Same here. Lol it's hard at first but seeing them now, it's such a blessing. And they truly have a bond 💓
@LilMissy9315
@LilMissy9315 Жыл бұрын
I literally was in denial for so long after I got pregnant again 2-3 months after my daughter, I’d never had regular periods so I went 21 weeks without realizing something was off and it was my hubby who made me take the test! He just knew! 😂😂
@user-Mia-123
@user-Mia-123 Жыл бұрын
Congratulations, prayers for a safe and healthy pregnancy and baby.
@spookysushi4988
@spookysushi4988 Жыл бұрын
Lol my pregnancy tests told me no. But my doctor told me to come in. Their pregnancy test said yes. I am right at the end of being able to call my babies Irish twins. Scared but excited. Happy my little man will have a lifetime buddy. I wish you and everyone else luck in this because postpartum plus pregnancy hormones out together is a new ride for us 😭 hahaha
@nilanjana_
@nilanjana_ Жыл бұрын
Give your body time to heal
@roni5400
@roni5400 Жыл бұрын
It's not like she didn't want to!
@nilanjana_
@nilanjana_ Жыл бұрын
@@roni5400 when roles are divided already in a marriage according to gender I don't think the woman has much say
@ch-cz5hh
@ch-cz5hh Жыл бұрын
​@@roni5400 come on..... I dont want to get pregnant and I havent through all these years. There are so many ways to prevent it
@radhika7387
@radhika7387 Жыл бұрын
I am confused... don't doctors recommend that there should atleast be a gap of 2 -3 years between pregnancies ??
@nilanjana_
@nilanjana_ Жыл бұрын
@@radhika7387 that should be the case. At least a year is the minimum.
@jessicacruzh7004
@jessicacruzh7004 Жыл бұрын
I’m 35 now at 24 I had my first and at 25 had my 2nd my daughters are 11 and 10 years old 11 months apart! Was it hard heck yes but love the closeness it did scare me had my 3rd 2 years ago! I’m done ✅😂
@kellipetrat108
@kellipetrat108 Жыл бұрын
What a blessing you two, God has given you a huge blessing. He will help you through it.
@kerrisquier5216
@kerrisquier5216 Жыл бұрын
I have 4 kids and my youngest two are a year and 3 weeks apart. I cried for like a whole week straight when I found out I was pregnant again! It was definitely hard at first but I wouldn’t change it for anything! Congratulations on your second baby!
@nikkyk4839
@nikkyk4839 Жыл бұрын
How about using protection? You know, the thing that prevents pregnancy.
@Lilith816
@Lilith816 Жыл бұрын
As if condoms don't break..? Protection isn't a 100% guarantee no matter what you use.
@dianaking1106
@dianaking1106 Жыл бұрын
They should have been more careful considering she just had a tummy tuck..or "hernia surgery" * *eye roll* *. It's called being a responsible adult. If you're "not equipped" for pregnancy you take extra precautions especially considering the state of abortion law we currently have in this country.
@Lilith816
@Lilith816 Жыл бұрын
@@dianaking1106 We don't know if they didn't take any "precautions" or not, maybe they did..?
@dianaking1106
@dianaking1106 Жыл бұрын
​@@Lilith816 no, we do know that. They used the "pull-out" method. They talked about it.
@johanna2690
@johanna2690 Жыл бұрын
@@Lilith816 If condoms break you need to use lube. Very easy to avoid.
@cleo1827
@cleo1827 Жыл бұрын
You guys should do a collab with Two Hot Takes podcast!!
@adele9198
@adele9198 Жыл бұрын
Congratulations guys!!! So happy for both of you 💓
@danielleescott5888
@danielleescott5888 Жыл бұрын
Hi guys, I just wanted to say we have three children and when we had our middle child, he was 3.5 months old when I found out we were expecting again 😮 YOU WILL BE FINE! Sending lots of hugs xxx
@adayinthelifeofolivia651
@adayinthelifeofolivia651 Жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh!!!!! Congratulations!! Having them so close will be awesome, Griffin will have a best friend for life!!
@JesssicaMessica
@JesssicaMessica Жыл бұрын
I love you guys, genuinely. But i don’t understand how you were not equipped to enter a new pregnancy? Unless you’re on birth control ?
@Apocketfullofbs
@Apocketfullofbs Жыл бұрын
My oldest two are over two years apart and that was stressful even with the gap. I was breast-feeding my oldest and she was having problems feeding because she could smell my hormones from my pregnancy and it lead to a world of stress and chaos in both my life and her life and caused a lot of problems with my pregnancy, so I really hope everything turns out well for you.
@colnjac
@colnjac Жыл бұрын
Omg I'm in shock in a good way. You will be amazing and congratulations 🎊 👏 💐 🥳 ❤️ 💖 🎊 👏
@sarahbriggs523
@sarahbriggs523 Жыл бұрын
And here I am begging my partner to be open about having another baby after years of “waiting until our daughters older” she’s five now. So glad baby boy will have someone to grow up to be best friends with. I was an only child and wished every day to have someone close to me…I hope soon my daughter will get her wish too.
@blakebarnhart7392
@blakebarnhart7392 Жыл бұрын
yeah I have 2 brothers but they’re 5 and 10 years younger than me, kinda sucks cause we never really talk or do things with each other much
@emilywalton4105
@emilywalton4105 Жыл бұрын
I'm in the same boat married two years now. I want to start trying for baby number 1
@shiroyuki495
@shiroyuki495 Жыл бұрын
My older brother and I have a 12month and 5 days age gap and my younger brother and I have a 16month and 6days age gap and now we're 19, 18, and 17 year old respectively and I wouldn't change it for the world. Sure we grew up with little fights here and there but we who doesn't. Our bond is not like any other siblings. We just know we were born for this. We get mistaken for triplets a lot. They're gonna be the best of friends.
@haleyt3754
@haleyt3754 Жыл бұрын
The fact that you got accidentally pregnant that easy is a little irresponsible don’t you think…
@pamelaleannefreeland9025
@pamelaleannefreeland9025 Жыл бұрын
You’re pregnant?? Weren’t you medically advised not to get pregnant for a year?
@sebastianpalsson1261
@sebastianpalsson1261 Жыл бұрын
Imagine finding out you were an accident from an old youtube short your parents made.
@SunnysBibleASMR
@SunnysBibleASMR Жыл бұрын
I had 3 sons under age 4 when I was only 23- (a new born, a 18 month old & a 30 month old)… and went for my checkup 6 weeks later & they thought I was pregnant again,.. THANK THE LORD NO…. But then had my 4th son at age 35 😂 & first grandson 2 years later at 37
@moonluna464
@moonluna464 Жыл бұрын
I thought she was not allowed to be pregnant so quickly after her surgery?
@nehirgunes
@nehirgunes Жыл бұрын
no hate here, if u don't want another baby maybe try prevent getting one? use condoms or sth
@kimberlyv5306
@kimberlyv5306 Жыл бұрын
Hey guys when are you planning to post your pregnancy videos??
@paxielle
@paxielle Жыл бұрын
It was very difficult on parents to have kids so close together, my brother was very jealous and so my father never interacted with me cause he was so possessive of him... my brother used to bully me apparently, I was too chill to care but I do remember him cutting a piece of my finger off and me bleeding everywhere....
@archangel5395
@archangel5395 Жыл бұрын
So true, wow. I don't even know how to react.
@morgansart1742
@morgansart1742 Жыл бұрын
Omg! Girl! Maybe that’s why you were sick a couple videos ago maybe it was a sign
@drkhushisharma
@drkhushisharma Жыл бұрын
Random people making podcast about the life noone wants to know
@Lynxiewinkie
@Lynxiewinkie Жыл бұрын
I literally found out today that I’m pregnant with my rainbow baby 🥺🥺🥺💜💜💜
@dainasia
@dainasia Жыл бұрын
congratss 💗💗
@jamusedwards2410
@jamusedwards2410 Жыл бұрын
Congrats!!!
@Louisefenner
@Louisefenner Жыл бұрын
You guys are young. Still hard to have two almost under one but rather now than when you are older and have less energy. And at least neither has a 9-5 job you have to leave the home for so you have each other.
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