Finding Passion Again: Embracing New Beginnings In Intimacy | Myesha Chaney

[@victoriaperry1256]

I'm in the process of healing from a divorce and cancer treatment. You are helping me. Thank you for sharing. ❤️🙏🏽

[@NicciTCarr]

ME TOOOOOOOO SISTER!!!! where are u located??? How can I pour into you on your journey!!!

[@Myesha]

Bless you. We are rooting for you.

[@luvte1]

I hope you receive the healing that you need, are you in the north ?

[@victoriaperry1256]

Thanks for the support. I'm in Cleveland, Ohio❤🙏🏽

[@pathenderson9093]

Healed delivered and set free

[@_edrinwilliams]

“Give yourself the love you’re seeking in other people!” A powerful encouragement! 🙌🏿 I’m praying for you on the journey!

[@Myesha]

Yes! Thank you!

[@JANEGOMA-v4x]

I found the truest way of worshiping. I had to deny the desires of my flesh when no one is looking. I will wait upon the Lord this time around.

[@Myesha]

So good!

[@OjochideFrank]

You handled this topic so tastefully. Thank you. I also am on the same journey. I have also had to avoid any movies that rouse feelings that cannot be satisfied. I am four years from my marriage and initially it was hard and there were moments of just calling out to Christ to help me. I am now at the place where I love Christ more than rousing feelings that cannot be satisfied. The Lord has filled my life with so many other things too. I am learning to love the woman the Lord created. In God's mercy, the urge for intimacy, has subsided over the years and when it arises, I know that I am either ovulating or have entertained something I should not have watched. God help us all in this journey of healing, restoration, discovery, and waiting. Again, thank you for this video. So nicely done.

[@Myesha]

Thanks for sharing!

[@joannawofford]

Waiting on God is the greatest thing you can do because God will bring the right person in your wait. To value your self and to know your worth is a blessing that God also value.

[@Queeny4you]

Waiting on god, you'll be waiting your whole life...lol

[@Myesha]

Yes, it was absolutely the best thing. I had work to do and trauma to heal.

[@cj4127]

I really appreciate your transparency. Fortunately, I'm a happily married woman of almost 28 years, but in the event my husband passes before me, I've thought about intimacy and how I would handle it. You offer some great advice and I think you're making the right decision...a brave and very necessary decision. Too often, people dive into relationships after a breakup only to discover that they're even more broken because they never did the necessary work of healing from the breakup. They also give into "the hot girl summer" and "Stella get your groove on" mindset, which only leads to more heartaches. Again, thank you and I'm enjoying your channel.

[@Myesha]

Thank you so much!

[@cemplygloria6261]

Divorced and celibate. About to be remarry in October 2024 and baaaaaby I'm ready for it!

[@Myesha]

Congratulations!!!

[@LoverOfTheLamb]

If your 1st spouse is still alive if you marry another that's adultery. Please read the Bible and get understanding about this topic because your soul is at stake. Read 1st Corinthians 7:1-3

[@annettebuster2021]

Congratulations

[@themoonbleu627]

@@LoverOfTheLambare you a virgin , do you judge , do you drink , do you respect your parents ?

[@queeni5212]

@@LoverOfTheLambTHE TRUTH STILL MAKE THEM FREE!!! Thank you for this truth.

[@Theprosperityqueen]

Queen, your vulnerability and strength shine through in this empowering conversation. Your journey echoes with the resilience we all aspire to have. Rediscovering your sexual identity after divorce is a transformative odyssey, and your words resonate deeply. The emotional rollercoaster and the battles with self-worth mirror the struggles many of us face. Your mastery in controlling desires is not just a personal triumph but a beacon of inspiration. Your wisdom illuminates the path for others navigating similar waters. This episode isn't just a conversation; it's a revelation, a testament to the power of self-discovery. Your story paints a colorful mural of empowerment, reminding us that amidst the challenges, there's a surprising twist of resilience and grace. Thank you for sharing your truth and giving us a fresh perspective on navigating the intricate landscape of post-relationship sexuality. Your candor is a gift, and it's transforming lives. You've not just spoken; you've stirred a revolution within us.

[@nursecharlene]

I’m going through a divorce too. I’m glad you are SUPER honest about this subject. Great video ❤

[@Myesha]

Thank you for watching

[@roxyrussell-shanks5344]

Thank you Myesha for sharing this precious and sensitive topic with us ladies. I am 2.5 years separated from my now ex husband of 23 years. I was going crazy for awhile and begun to pray incessantly for God to come in and strengthen me. I am a 59 year seasoned woman who've prior to marriage had many experiences with trying colors, sizes etc. But I remember not landing a committed partner and I remember not liking myself when the noise stopped. So something told me that after God has blessed me with the amazing experience of belonging and feeling whole, just because my husband was a cheater I didn't have to throw away allll the work that I had done!! So I decided to rock myself to sleep 💤 at night, take long walks with myself and Not use the Rose at alll. Because I didn't want to lie to me and say this is a good substitute when I know I want a real body..

[@Myesha]

I’m so happy for you. Thanks for sharing this.

[@angelabarnes3121]

Well said 🌹 sex isn't just a physical connection it's a soul to soul connection. Yes I am happy to hear you say disconnect from your husband on every level.. 🙏

[@Myesha]

Yes, Angela. It’s was necessary.

[@callen7709]

I am here to listen to your perspectives on women’s issues, challenges, and victories. I’ve never been married, but I appreciate your transparency. I have abstained from sex for many years because I haven’t met anyone I’ve wanted to share my body with. Great topic!

[@Myesha]

Wow! Thanks for sharing!

[@Elliesteffen2023]

I was perplexed as well. You are so on par! I felt like you were telling my story. I had my moral compass that I always held close to my heart regarding intimacy but then I also had this yearning to be a free spirit and take off the ropes & chains of trying to be someone perfect…. I pretended I was for so long.

[@Myesha]

Yessss!! I feel seen.

[@reneegathers4097]

I’m so so glad you are talking about this. I lead a group call Women On A Journey. This group meets once a month. We encourage, talk about women issues, and pray for one another. I lost my husband, Military related death. We were married for 20 years. After 20 years, I had to get used to a new norm as a Christian woman without a man. I went through everything. Dating, trying to fill the void, but God. He allowed me to walk through this process and I made it out sane and saved. Keep doing what you are doing. Women need this. I came to one of your conferences in Chesapeake Virginia a long, long time ago. It was so good. It was about lipstick.

[@Myesha]

So very cool. I’m glad to hear this.

[@shatajshinabrock1680]

I know you’re speaking to your audience but while I was listening, I felt like God had you talking to ME!!! Omg… I’ve gotten so much advice but I have YET to hear deep and personal issues from someone actually divorced and in the Faith. I’m a church girl to the core and divorce was never an option. I left the abusive relationship in April and filed for divorce. At 41 I am just now struggling with the “itch” and it caught me by surprise. I was married for seven years. When the itch came I felt so shameful but had to remind myself that I was married with a sex life for seven years. The way I was raised you not even suppose to acknowledge the fact that you even”itch”! I will wait until marriage but there’s comfort in knowing that it may be ok to “love on yourself” for a season. Thank you so so so much. You went through this for us! 🙏🏾❤🙌🏾

[@esthersbeautysecrets4541]

I totally agree with your decision. I refrained from sex for 3 yrs after my divorce. I was married for 27 years. My life after divorce has been the greatest gift outside of my children and family.

[@Myesha]

Amen!!!

[@busitseba]

❤I am your testimony 🙌

[@Asha-c6x]

Thank you for being authentic and honest. This is truly what it means to witness.

[@Myesha]

Thank you

[@idivorcedit]

This conversation was so necessary and powerful. We need to love ourselves before we open the love to door again. I’m learning who I am and I’m loving the woman I’m becoming. Adrienne is all that she needs. Period.

[@Myesha]

You are awesome!

[@cola_314]

I had a warm girl summer. I am working on myself, still healing. Not interested in a man or sex at the moment

[@Myesha]

Let’s goooo! Love this.

[@mimibtiful]

I am so glad I found your video... I'm in the process of dealing with my recent divorce of 2 years and as a" church girl" I was ashamed of feeling those urges but listening to your video gives me hope that I too can overcome... thank you for your openness and honesty on this subject.

[@Myesha]

So glad to hear this

[@EmmaT-y2y]

Thanks dear Myesha I love this video! It’s so great to hear from other women it’s really inspiring. I divorced 4yrs ago and I’m still going through healing process of which I don’t know if it has ending especially after being with someone for almost 3decades, 28yrs together married for 22yrs. I keep talking to my adult children about how I have been betrayed. But what I like now I’m no longer crying about it, they were and still my pillars of support when my tears were overflowing every day for 12 months after divorce but now it’s just a story. It’s so true when they say you don’t know your husband until you divorce him! Being disgusted by the lies, only to find that cheating and unfaithfulness is the main reason behind all the abuses: emotional, physical, financial and sexual because if your partner can sleep with you and still go and do the same thing with another person it’s nothing else by sexual abuse! Trusting, praying, loving and doing everything a wife would do to respect and protect her husband in everything everywhere. Then the worst part is when you refuse to look at the red flags and all the negativity and coldness you exposed to and keep telling yourself no no no not him not at church, oh no not at his work place he won’t do that after all he said? No ways? He’s always saying cheating is like trying poison and he will never try it he said what if it kills him, oh boy, I trusted him and I felt for it , I lived that statement and I felt sorted. Little did I know. And me fearing God above all else, I was submissive throughout all the storms. Still the lies escalated. Well, 4 years later no rose and no man I mean no touch not even on my hand! I don’t think S£x is good! This thing separates lovers and families. They forget themselves while stealing that thing and don’t even care about what they would lose no matter how far you come from, building up everything from the scratch together, planning for the future, starting family and all the commitments. When you are about to enjoy the fruits of your sweat… Bang! They’re just okay to break down everything. At 54 that’s me, Can you still try again, is it possible to get a lifetime partner with senses? But again for what big reason? Sharing your body is something else, trust is another but I know I love love and I’m so afraid to fall into that trap again! That’s why other people think marriage is just a scam? What about love? Love/marriage/stable-relationship/sex/money, who’s a scam here?

[@Myesha]

Thank you for sharing this. Wow!

[@SonAng113]

I absolutely agree with you Myesha, after my divorce I definitely got into another relationship too quickly and it ended you horribly. I realized that I didn't give myself enough time to heal, my self esteem was beyond shattered, but now I'm taking the time to heal, and after telling myself that I am worthy, it is helping me tremendously while I am waiting, because I believe in marriage & love again.

[@Myesha]

Thanks for sharing

[@terashaking4119]

So proud of your courage, transparency, and care for others. Great talk.

[@petulawaller]

Realist conversation ever! Thank you for sharing your journey Myesha

[@Myesha]

You are so welcome!

[@mees2751]

Thank you, Ms. Myesha for your transparency and helping us women.

[@Myesha]

You are so welcome

[@lithabrown529]

Divorced for 4yrs and celibate since my divorce. My soul, my future and my children are worth me waiting until I say "I do" ❤

[@Myesha]

I love this for you!

[@ladiesofiron]

I am a Mom Of 7 Anointed Brilliant and Beautiful Royals, I have been widowed since May 19, 2023 and unapologetically abstinent 💎. The short version of My Testimony for sake of space, GOD Is Faithful. I have desires, HOWEVER, I literally witnessed my husband watching his life story in his dying days, and he shared with me that GOD was showing him all of the bad things that he had done, He had a chance to repent 🙏🏽HOWEVER, I know that I’m not perfect, but I tell you what…these legs will stay tAgethA until my NEXT husband comes.❤ Myesha, I’m SO glad that The Holy Spirit led me to your channel via Willie Moore Jr❤, I have subscribed and now I’ve been up since 4:17 AM binge watching! Keep Going Sis. I Hope to meet you soon girl.❤

[@trenaromain2817]

I love your transparency. I relate to you on so many levels. I am divorced after 23 years. In the beginning I engaged in sex with my Ex because I needed to feel wanted. In my head I felt if I had sex with him he would want to reconcile. All I did was start the pain over and over again. I would cry every time because I knew it meant nothing to my ex. He was just having fun. I then decided that I needed to stop this reckless behavior. I have decided to heal from within and not have sex. I had to let him and the past go. I learned that I would always use sex to feel worthy and loved. When it wasn’t love at all. It was lust. I feel so much happier from the inside out now. Thank you for sharing such a personal part of your story. Knowing I’m not alone gives me the confidence and courage that I’m on the right path.

[@Myesha]

You are awesome. Thanks for sharing this.

[@telishawilliams2028]

Well done 👍👍. Keep at it. I know it wasn't easy but I'm sure that decision to break free of that sexual tie was worth it.

[@tumwesigyemoses-tu8wk]

Keep it up girl don't give it to anyone till you marry

[@paulag6199]

I just watched your divorce story, and now watching this…. Sounds like you needed a break from ministry and all that comes with it and became burnt out. You look refreshed and more healed…. I pray God restores that which was lost and stolen 🙏🏽❤️.

[@stephthecreative6312]

I’m staying celibate until I remarry. It’s tough though!

[@Myesha]

I’m rooting for you

[@tumwesigyemoses-tu8wk]

Keep trying and don't give it out until you marry

[@sisteroflovea7215]

Yes Yes, Myesha this what I’m all about, helping women to save themselves and doing it God’s way!!

[@Myesha]

Yes! Thank you for listening!

[@MrParvenu1]

There is no greater gesture a woman of God can give to her future husband. The beauty of him waiting and her waiting, then The Father allows then to meet n marry, is the essence of true love. I say this because it blesses me as man to hear that even a beautiful woman like yourself who can have who she wants chooses to wait. I Applaud you. May our Lord doubly Bless you greater than your previous sacrifice of those 18 years. You're a True Prudent & Virtuous Woman.

[@kathomas514]

Your ministry and transparency is a healing balm.. This is so desperately needed❤️

[@Myesha]

Thank you for saying this.

[@danielleavery3767]

God’s way is always right and best. As commanded in 1st Corinthians 7, I’m remaining celibate. Anything other even masturbation is not of God. We cannot be lukewarm. We must be careful in what we communicate. Not all should be teachers as someone had to tell me. Sex is not great than God’s blessings, nor enough to risk awakening in hell.

[@jairuskaingo9576]

The statement on self mastery; "Whenever we deny what we have a right to for the sake of what we value most we build our muscle" was the pick up line for me. Thanks for sharing.

[@Myesha]

Love that!

[@pangiesmokie3350]

I have been divorced since 2006. It has been a long journey, sometimes happy and many times sad. But, today, I am grateful….teeeheee

[@Myesha]

I’m happy for you

[@elphaba46]

This new you is sooo refreshing! You have emerged from that cocoon and it is fantastic to see!

[@Myesha]

Oh thank you! Yasssss! I am enjoying my life frfr

[@MrsMuruli]

You explained this beautifully ❤

[@Myesha]

Glad you think so!

[@HopeBCARE]

Such great points! It's so important and healthy for us to allow ourselves to feel those temporary emotional discomforts while we heal, and as we get a brand-new opportunity to discover/ rediscover who we truly are and ultimately, we will develop a stronger self-esteem & better self-control.

[@Myesha]

So true

[@adazzsthoughts]

It’s tough sometimes! Coming across this topic is such a blessing!

[@Myesha]

So glad to hear that

[@inspiringsista5047]

Thank you so much….I felt like that after my divorce. And I also decided to live a celibate lifestyle, and it was very challenging, but I wanted to satisfy the Lord and wait for what’s best for me. I truly thank you for your truth. The pain of my divorce was so great that I didn’t know if I was ever going to get over it but I am now healing.

[@Myesha]

Thanks for sharing

[@chryssokonofua1109]

You are just beautiful in and out; in character and content. Congratulations on your decision. You are matured.

[@Myesha]

Thank you

[@somethingbettertodaymarlene]

I did date after breakup but now I am so strong and I thank God I am waiting

[@Myesha]

Way to go!

[@sonyajones6279]

I’m going to waiting on God. I don’t want to be soul tied to just anybody. Great conversation and love the honesty.

[@Myesha]

Yes indeed

[@kerrywhite5253]

Not to mention, if we're following Christ,there should be no sex at all outside of marriage.

[@shalondariddle2639]

I like this Myesha she is powerful, god fearing, strong and is doing her work.

[@Myesha]

Thank you

[@destinationjunkies9577]

I’m so glad you talked about this topic. Thank you so much for sharing

[@Myesha]

You are so welcome!

[@lakrishagarner5807]

OMG!!!! This is a part of my healing journey right now…. I truly needed to hear this.

[@Myesha]

So glad about that!

[@tylamapp5317]

I really love that you are not judgmental. God bless your new ministry. Women need this safe space.

[@jamelglover6617]

Myesha is a breath of fresh air

[@Myesha]

Thank you

[@mzfee7521]

I respect this...its honest and you chose the right Godly decision.... kudos to you for real!!❤

[@Myesha]

Thank you. Still going strong lol

[@somethingbettertodaymarlene]

Thank you so much I really needed this. I’ve been divorced a while and it was so hard for me. I thought I would die! I hollered and cried . Now I’m in a better place. I too stopped listening to and watching anything sec related. I would love to be married again one day and waiting on God

[@Myesha]

I’m rooting for you!

[@somethingbettertodaymarlene]

@@Myesha Thanks so much. Must watch the other video uplorded this week

[@vlaja3777]

I was in a abusive marriage and sex was chore like at times. I divorced after 9 years and initially struggled with what to do with the itch but with prayer I am able to remain celibate. I noticed the triggers and quickly take captive the thoughts. It’s a process.

[@somethingbettertodaymarlene]

@@vlaja3777 yes we must pay attention to the triggers.

[@tumwesigyemoses-tu8wk]

Wait for the right man his on his way sweet girl

[@mariaprice8306]

I love this and how real you talked about this subject; thanks for being real

[@Myesha]

You got it!

[@preachingprophetayesha4576]

Glad you chose abstinence

[@Myesha]

Yes, me too

[@itsmeycb]

I love your candidness. 💕

[@Myesha]

Thank you! 🤗

[@deborahmccorkle3585]

Amen Sister! This is so needed for men and women period.

[@Myesha]

Thank you

[@drkennyakinsd3dwoman451]

Myesha thank you...

[@pamelamiller1579]

05-26-24 ,This is so true,celibacy is needed. Decernment is distorted when sex is at the forefront.

[@Myesha]

Thanks Pam

[@mcclendonhaus]

I’m doing what you’re doing, so much peace

[@Myesha]

I know right!

[@mzsonsie]

You're very brave for sharing this important insight. It's definitely very empowering and liberating to abstain even though it seems painful and hard, it actually is a beautiful gift that purifies the soul. People should try it

[@Myesha]

Thank you so much!

[@shugandspice]

Loved this 🤍

[@shuntarenee3594]

I’m soo proud of you… and THANK YOU!!! 24 years married then divorced ughhhh!!!! I went on a hot gurrlllll summerssssssss!!And girlfriends “oh girl God know what you need” when I should have rannnnn!!! That 🌹 no joke!!! I cleaned out my drawer🙌🏽 and just started focusing on what was and was not pleasing to GOD!!!! And sexual immorality is not PLEASING to the one who CREATED IT!!!! Twisted world!!!!! So healing, self control and priorities!!!

[@Myesha]

That’s it!! You are doing your work

[@sharlawilliams4597]

Thank you for your transparency. I appreciate your perspective.

[@Myesha]

My pleasure!

[@kimberlycollier-jefferson4091]

I’ve been wondering about this very topic for awhile. You are right no one is talking about it. I am going through an divorce after 24 years. My husband was my first and only partner. We were very sexually compatible. So not having sex is really a challenge. But, I agree with you saying no to sex is best.

[@Myesha]

For this moment, it is the best decision

[@sanctuaryofhopeministries5438]

Powerful enough that we give up what we want most for what we want now 💯 🙏 😌 🙌

[@Myesha]

Yes!

[@purposebyhisdesign7614]

I think you have to know yourself and understand your needs and be comfortable in whatever space you’re in. I’ve had a hot girl summer with no sex it’s possible. It’s all in your perspective and as you said how you value yourself❣️💪🏾

[@warkeys9147]

Please share more. I like this comment

[@Myesha]

Love this

[@purposebyhisdesign7614]

@@warkeys9147 I’ve chosen to get cute hang out with the girls flirt with the guys and not end up in anybody’s bed‼️ Hot girl summer no sex‼️ We can be sexy know that we’re sexy them tell us we’re sexy and yet not allow that to end in sex. So I go out I have fun (lunch dinner brunch breakfast movies other events in the city along with church and church events). I’m outside‼️

[@malindaworsham8148]

Good information

[@janicelvance]

Wow ... this video is so good!

[@Myesha]

Thank you

[@JustBree716]

Thanks for being honest sis❤❤❤ my initial reaction was to judge. But thank you. Everyone's journey is really different. And doing it in a way thats not preachy. Im definitely the one abstaining not by choice 😅but it is at the same time. And not necessarily for religion. I was raised in church so my moral compass leans that way anyway. I gained alot of wait is part of the reason and my history of promiscuity. Long story but thanks for letting me share as well in your comment section

[@Myesha]

My darling. You are beautiful. You are worthy of love just as you are. I would love to believe for love for you. Abstinence has been lovely for me and healing. It has been a season of self control and discipline but we are wired for connection.

[@needmusicnmylyfe]

Wow so unbelievably transparent Thank you!

[@Myesha]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@cobylee3057]

I totally agree with her. Take of yourself

[@Myesha]

Yep!

[@jrichy438]

Thx for your honesty and maturity ❤

[@Myesha]

You are so welcome

[@aminataguerrier3846]

I am extremely happy that I came across your story today, your story is amazing it is helpful and helping me with my journey.

[@Myesha]

I'm so glad!

[@tumwesigyemoses-tu8wk]

All is well with you

[@kimberlyanderson1539]

This is the truth, It's important to heal jumping in the bed with the next,simply opens you up for new issues. Healing first knowing yourself ,and then when you meet someone worth of you moving forward.

[@Myesha]

Right!!

[@starclassic71]

GREAT VIDEO AN BETTER WISDOM!!!!!!

[@Myesha]

Glad you think so!

[@vittoria5210]

I thought we was about to have a hot girl summer 😂. Abstinence is a beautiful thing.... I tell God EVERYTHING how I would like my future husband to be like! Thank you for this....

[@Myesha]

Exactly!!

[@TheeEarthAngelBri]

This is what I love! The real and raw👌🏽

[@Myesha]

Yasssss!!!

[@shalitaanderson7932]

Love the transparency ❤Go Myesha!!! Let God use you...yes these conversations are very necessary especially in/coming from the church❤

[@Myesha]

Thank you so much

[@yolandajones1794]

This is beautiful to hear. To decide not to have sex, after the divorce. God does want sex within marriage. After prayer and repenting for past sexual immorality. I wanted God's forgiveness. Healing is what I need. Good advice for those who know what God wants for our relationships. 🙏🏿❤️

[@dawnie2302]

I'm so happy for you. Thank you for your transparency and for sharing your journey with us. Blessings to you my sister ❤️

[@Myesha]

You are so welcome

[@mrsataylor1980]

Myesha, I just love you, you are the sister/friend, I just haven't met yet...lol! I just love your transparency and authenticity regarding all matters post divorce. Your platform is needed! I'm a 2x divorcee and this struggle of singleness is real real. Especially after having continued (team no break, lol) companionship for the past 20 years. There is so much I would love to type here but well you know...lol! 🤣I appreciate your platform and respect your journal...Thank you you for sharing!

[@Myesha]

So very glad

[@nanettewingard120]

I needed to renew my mind! ❤❤❤❤

[@Myesha]

So good

[@debrabond5029]

Absolutely helpful ❤️

[@Myesha]

So glad!

[@purposebyhisdesign7614]

Oh how I wish this conversation was available to me 3 years ago. I’ve made choices that were 🥴😬🧐 but I’m getting back on track. Thank you for your transparency❤

[@Myesha]

You are so welcome

[@warkeys9147]

Mistakes are a part of the journey as long as we learn from them. It appears you have. Thanks for sharing your experience

[@reginachukwu3595]

Thanks to God you overcame🎉 Much love here

[@Myesha]

Yes! Thank you!

[@sinovuyomyendeki479]

Loved this ….. I’ve never been married and in my 40s….i have dated but sex without commitment has left me empty and I’m In a journey to abstain

[@Myesha]

Thank you so much for saying this.

[@elphaba46]

Myesha I’m watching this episode right now on YT on TV. As I listen, because I’m also rewatching Preachers of LA, it reminded me of the episode where your ex husband agreed to have and then did have, a vasectomy. Given the divorce I wonder how he feels about having that procedure done.

[@Myesha]

Listen! My womb is still open. I am thankful for that!

[@lovefelix1566]

Lol 😂. God bless you honey! 🙏❤️

[@denabrown3457]

Thanks for sharing! I relate very much to your decision to heal and abstain. I’m on a similar journey as I heal from divorce (almost 2yrs). God is a keeper and lover of my soul. I’m so thankful I’m learning to fall more in love with Jesus and myself! Blessings to you in your new beginning too!

[@Myesha]

Thank you so much

[@rachels.9602]

"Aligning with yourself" is great and sounds catchy, but is it not enough, and ultimately more compelling to align with the word of God?

[@Myesha]

I am aligned with God now that I am grounded and centered in who he created me to be. The word of God should lead you to the One.

[@shalondariddle2639]

Great You have to know yourself and stay on the road. Looking inside is powerful remove all of lustful things

[@Myesha]

So true!

[@nanettewingard120]

Oh so real! ❤❤❤❤❤ let’s talk retreat ! Old Towne Alexandria, VA!

[@Myesha]

Yassss

[@PinkCollar]

Good stuff❤ love the honesty

[@Myesha]

Always!

[@MissMy143]

So true and way to show up for the women. I myself is a single lady and loving it. Never been married cause by neglecting intimacy☺. Nonetheless, upscaling my differences in love/lust has been a challenge. My abstinence have truly been an fun adventuress ongoing journey....Just wanted to touchdown on the subject.

[@Myesha]

Thanks for sharing!

[@NthabisengMatakane]

Thank you so so much for this information I am also married for 22 years and I am divorcing and we are still living together and I was thinking about sex situation after we are not living together anymore

[@Neah1987]

I’m not waiting until marriage the second time around…I’m not sure I want to get married again tbh. I’ve never got to know myself intimately prior to marriage or during marriage. Just recently I’ve discovered how to take care of myself in that way thanks to my sister giving me a special gift similar to what a friend gifted you with. I love it here. 😊

[@Myesha]

Thank you for sharing this. I hear you.

[@eurspenc]

Been practicing it since my divorce after 12 years!! Only God!!🔥🔥🔥

[@Myesha]

Only God!!

[@odnypierre5025]

You don’t align yourself with yourself but you align yourself with God’s will.

[@sonyayeadon1195]

I am still waiting until I get married again. I just got divorced after almost 25 years of marriage. I didn't sleep with my ex until we were married, and I am doing the same thing until I meet and get married to my next husband.

[@superbchannel3167]

May God bless, heal, and provide you with a loving husband.

[@Myesha]

Thank you so much!

[@prettysithole5621]

Thank you so much Myesha for this today. Powerful Powerful Powerful. I am also waiting post my Divorce. I v had a full filling sex life whilst married. 3 yrs post divorce I realise I still had another area I had to heal and forgive in order to move forward. If I was busy having sex, this wud have been in the way for my healing journey to be complete. So, thank you❤

[@Myesha]

So true!!!

[@geraldcarroll8394]

I also decided to abstain from sex after my divorce. Your messages are helpful and greatly appreciated.