finishing high school + my college decision

[@keithwthe1andonly]

I am a C5, incomplete quadriplegic. I went through college and then on to get a masters degree. Currently working, driving daily, and bought a house. Keep going! With God anything is possible.

[@kleinfamily2001]

My 19 year old daughter didn’t go to college. She has cystic fibrosis and a learning disability. But she’s started a pet sitting business and is happy! My youngest is a senior in high school and going to community college next year. You are right. Everyone has a different path. Gods love to you and your family ❤️

[@shauntayecooper9489]

I also have a disability I have mild cerebral palsy I didn’t go to college either I also volunteer

[@johnluke6252]

Hey dear

[@chloebelk0122]

My little sister has cf also and within the last month she has realized how much she struggles to learn and find motivation while doing treatments and missing classes and has decided she no longer wants to be a vet but wants to work at an animal shelter to get to go through less school. She is only 10 so this could all change but covid was the real set back because my mom immediately switched her to virtual which made her struggle even more but it was best for her health. No matter anything others may think that disables them from doing what they want I believe they will always be able to push themselves into whatever they would like to do if they really want it. She is the reason I want to be a NICU nurse 😊

[@crustyrash]

I think Community College is a very smart move for you. I started out in CC and some of the best professors I ever had in my academic career (I have two masters degrees from Indiana Univ) were at CC. Classes are smaller and I think professors tend to be dedicated to teaching and their students. Like you said, CC will give you a chance to explore a little bit and maybe it'll help you to figure out what you want to do with your life. And I think it's good that you are purposefully breaking away from your crowd. You will always be friends and they've been a great support system. I just think it's good to go your own way with college. There are a lot of great schools out there that go out of their way to help their students with disabilities instead of just complying with the minimum requirements. I hope you get inspired! I love what you said, "Failure is exciting"! And I am delighted that you see a world of possibilities.

[@BuckeyeNationRailroader]

In addition to that. If you ever decide to go to a bigger school, starting off with getting a associates degree out of a Community College will help in getting into a college of your dreams.

[@crustyrash]

@@BuckeyeNationRailroader And a lot of CC's have arrangements with the Universities so you'll know what's needed to get into a certain school.

[@MiaDiRienzo]

I am a high school teacher, and I wish that more of my students went into their post-grad experience with your same attitude, outlook, and plan! I love when you said “you fall and you grow”-That is exactly what your post-grad years are for! So proud of you for blazing your own trail. You’re a warrior, girly!

[@LindaKayHolevas]

Thank you for your service being a teacher. So many take teachers for granted, but to me they are as important as our military. Thank you! 😊

[@bezagebremedhine5102]

I went to community college and finished the last 2 years in a state school. I am currently a physician in training ( residency). You can do it.

[@Shotovec]

I went to community college for 7 years. I have multiple physical and learning disabilities. I finally was able to go to university, and am flourishing. I have met some really good friends, especially with my college ministry. I wouldn’t change it at all. I’m graduating this spring from my dream university with my dream major. ☺️ It’s a marathon, not a sprint.

[@judypoore3130]

Trusting in The Lord is key! I love to hear you talk about The Lord and your reliance on Him at your young age! You're a blessing! Lots of prayers for you from Andover, Ks!! 😊💕

[@johnluke6252]

Hey dear

[@ellenknell9645]

He's the only way.

[@kristenhill3609]

You are so wise beyond your years! Every one graduating from high school has some feeling of uncertainty…you are doing exactly what is right for you..I think your future is so bright and can’t wait to see what you accomplish.sky is your limit!

[@bespectacledpanda]

your peace towards the uncertainty of the future and courage towards getting out of your comfort zone are both so inspiring! as someone who worries a lot about the future, particularly some big life events coming up this year, this video really touched me, & I feel like I can learn a lot from your attitudes! thank you for the update video!

[@sqwilliams8]

Makayla you are wise beyond your years!! Thank You for sharing and teaching us how to be positive and motivated!!! Your amazing!!! 💕🙏

[@debshaw8067]

I think you're making the right decision going to community College. ALL high school graduates should do community College for basics.

[@crustyrash]

CC is so underestimated--I am a huge fan.

[@lauramcclain8651]

Many kids are ready to go into a university after high school. I was quite ready to go off to college . Different for everyone . Skipped much of freshman year Bc of high school AP courses .

[@franciscachesca]

I love this video, seeing you somewhat more seriously and talking about what you are dealing with. You can't be happy all the time. And you don't have to. You are inspiring anyway, I am a 42 year old stroke survivor. And I am looking up to you for being so open about your struggles. You have to learn so much again. Good things take time dear Makayla. Sending love to you.

[@rachelelaine7094]

Did community college for two years. Didn't feel ready to leave home and live on my own. Which helped financially as it was much cheaper than if I went to a university. Also didn't know what I wanted to do with my life either so gave me more time to decide what I wanted to do in my life.

[@pookieroweyeagley3968]

You rock!! Super happy that you are doing so well! God is truly using you as a vessel! You are a strong young beautiful lady!!

[@raisedfromperdition2x919]

Makayla you are so much stronger now. Your upper body strength is really showing all the work you put into working out. Congratulations girl! You have really gotten so much stronger. I’m so happy for you planning out your path and doing your own thing. You look fantastic! You have done some major healing and work! You are amazing.

[@enilec.]

I don't know if you read the comments, but I get so much joy from your videos. I've been in the word so much lately and it's so encouraging to come onto KZbin and the first video I see be yours where you are so trusting in Him too. Can totally relate to what you said about not being sad about not doing the things others are, because you yourself don’t want to, but feeling weird about not having the option to.

[@johnluke6252]

Hey dear

[@gracefully_ever_after]

Makayla I’m a senior too and I feel like everything your saying is exactly how I’m feeling! I have very similar plans for next year (community college to doing the Disney college program) but it’s soooo hard to decide exactly what to do bc there’s soooo many amazing opportunities and I’d LOVE to be able to do them all but I can’t be in two places at once 😂 keep trusting God to guide you, he will guide us and see us through every step of the way! 💜

[@kennyphillips5153]

Such a sweet girl. Praying for her full recovery.

[@robertwiebler7470]

Makayla; you're a true inspiration for people everywhere. We know that you'll be successful.

[@laurencannon2478]

I went to community college my first 1.5 years and couldn’t recommend it more! Cost effective and great learning opportunities. Great choice!! Best of luck to you ❤ Thank you for sharing your story and always being so open.

[@kimbrawley7093]

A phrase I like is "Either life is a daring, bold adventure or it's nothing at all." Follow God's path for you and keep your eyes on Him. You got this, Girl!

[@lydiawilliams4040]

I love your confidence in trusting God is paving a path that is exactly right for you, even if different from what you anticipated years ago. As I battle with chronic health issues, I’m getting ready to start another semester of online classes tomorrow. Your confidence and excitement has made me even more excited too!

[@marklawrence7412]

I appreciate everything u are doing and planning !! Life is full of beautiful unexpected events !! God has a wonderful plan for your life.

[@jacquelynanderson2105]

Your positively really sets the bar. Thank you.

[@mda1501]

Do what your heart tells you. Escape the comfort zone the best you can and make an adventure out of life! College will always be there. I took several years off to work and then went back to school. Never regretted it. Happy New Year!

[@breeannwalker8309]

I'm chronically ill and did community college then my Bachelors with no family support and in and out of the hospital. You got this

[@coco120]

Hi Mikayla, I didn't go to college until I was 23. I knew I wasn't ready. I have cerebral palsy and wanted more life experiences before going. I have friends that went to college much later and have lead some really interesting and fulfilling lives. Everyone has different paths and challenges. You won't realise how many people you have inspired byy talking about your own personal journey. I graduated in 2016 with an occupational therapy degree, it was tough but worth it. I got so excited when you mentioned OT😄. Good luck for your future.

[@blumberg1982]

I love that you have an OT degree as a person with CP! That is super cool and I am so curious what type of adaptations you use to treat your patients. I am a huge disability advocate as I have learning disabilities and my boyfriend is blind. We both have post secondary degrees and work.

[@coco120]

@@blumberg1982 That's lovely to hear 😀

[@byuftbl]

Yep gotta do what’s right for you. I thought for me I thought it would be four years of college and started at a Junior college. But two years of that showed me college wasn’t for me. I lived back at home and had a bunch of jobs that I just hated, then finally found dog grooming 5 years later and have done it for 17 years now. And this is definitely what I’m meant to do and I love it. Working with dogs was always my goal, it just took a different path than I thought it would be.

[@jenniferl5745]

You have such a great positive attitude. Wishing the best for you.

[@dianahernandez1709]

Stay close to your support system. You are getting stronger everyday and you can always change your path without doubts. Rooting for you always!!

[@michaelbarnhart2593]

You are absolutely right in your thoughts here Makayla! I qualified for Community College night school my senior year and only had to be in high school less than half the hours each day with only 3 remaining core classes. It was great the first couple of months to come home early to chill, then go to night classes with the "adult" students, but then I realized the same as you that I needed to soak in all those experiences of my last high school year that I could - so I would stay full days and participated in clubs to fill that time. I am so glad that I did and have great memories! Each day is a gift for all of us, though most of us never acknowledge it. You make each day count in what you take from it and give back to others around you. You are a true inspiration!

[@KatHalfaker23]

It's wise to take some time with Community College. It gets you into the swing of a more flexible routine, Gen Eds out of the way, time for OT, etc. I hope you push through the semester and have a super fun summer 😀 💙

[@arushatanzaniatimes9246]

It's ridiculous how life works out. Many would have folded but here you are inspiring who knows how many people ❤️

[@dtae7855]

The things we take for granted. 😢 Thank you so much for your vulnerability. It’s so refreshing & I hope that you enjoy the rest of your senior year :)

[@maddieebobaddiee]

I went to community college! I graduated with my nursing (RN) degree in May 2021. I’m now in a RN-BSN completion program at a 4 year college and I love it! some of my classes are online and some in person, my first year was 100% online and I did get a tiny bit depressed but my final 1.5 years do have some in person components so that’ll be awesome!!

[@gracielatkovski]

I love listening to what’s on your heart and mind!!! You will do amazing things and you already are. Never change for anyone!💗

[@SamTheeStallion]

Great choice to start at CC. I ended up transferring from Arkansas after 1.5 years and finished at UT Dallas. Really nice calm and quiet campus ❤

[@elizabethmorris8639]

God has a very special plan for you friend!!! I can't wait to watch it unfold ❤️🤗

[@thecirinos]

You are an amazing young lady and God is preparing you for greatness. Love you my Christian sis!

[@andreaberg7777]

You are so sweet ❤️ I'm glad you are excited about your future. You should be! I'm excited to see you grow in the Lord. ❤️

[@KatMerriam75]

You are an incredibly strong an determined young woman and you can do anything you set your mind to. I think its great that you are taking your own path and not conforming to what the crowd says is the way. You are amazing keep smiling

[@RHTQ1]

Community college for the basic core classes is rlly the smart thing to do! Advice from someone who did it: take a look at the course requirements for your major at the university you plan to transfer to, as soon as you have an idea. Use that to avoid taking classes that you won't need later and to make sure you get pre reqs out of the way (for example, as a Georgia Tech student, I'm so happy I took Linear Algebra despite my previous university only requiring it for CS majors)

[@cristinacasillasexposito9042]

You are amazing Makayla . Keep going brave girl 🥰 love from spain

[@debbieray7563]

You're gonna rock the world no matter where God leads you! ❤🙏🏻

[@soul76can]

I went to a Community College and landed an amazing job straight out, after my field placement at the end of 3rd year which led to further employment opportunities down the road! I made tons of friends there, many that I still keep in touch with, including my current gf of 5 years. I know exactly how you feel about the worry of missing out on the experience of a big school or Uni but for what I wanted to do, College also made more sense and besides life’s regular ups and downs, everything worked out beautifully! I wouldn’t have changed a thing. I just know things will work out for you too! God’s plan. 🙏

[@justalittlenobody1618]

Community college is an awesome option. I once spike to a guy who part of an admissions board in medical school, and he said they like seeing community college on an application because it shows the applicant can make good decisions

[@starsha23]

I went to community college and became an occupational therapy assistant. I’m now 38 and went back in to school. Finishing up my bachelors. Cc is great! And life is full of surprises! Don’t rush! You have plenty of time for college. ;)

[@insightbytes2136]

Yeah everyone goes thru that phase senior year. I think it's actually a good marker...a transition. It can also start to be a fresh start for after graduation...

[@silentowlscribe]

Always a step ahead when you have a plan! That seems like a great plan to have. Continue to look up.

[@clarec3]

I love how you're taking this time in your life to explore different things. It's all about the journey... You go!! Thank you for being the light that you are. Much love ❤️❤️

[@ashleytunny]

Going back and catching up on your videos since your graduation. Congratulations! So many exciting things for you happening! ❤❤❤

[@catherinecarver09]

I think if you want to go to university and do the traditional path, you can absolutely do it. Maybe not now, but in the future, do it. It is SO worth doing. ♥️

[@Jeriann-027]

That's a very normal way to feel. You're going to rock whatever you do after school! God Bless you. ❤🙏🏻

[@torigillispie9823]

Your a success because you focus on the positive. I know people with no disabilities but they are so negative and their life shows it. You really have abilities rather than disabilities!!!! GOD IS GOOD 😊

[@janeleckert2039]

My daughter went to community college then to her dream college, and my son decided not to go to college and has gone in to trade! Everyone has their own path for sure ❤❤

[@tomjones5338]

Congratulations on finishing high school always being positive and smiling u have a wonderful character and personality always full of life ur also a amazing beautiful gorgeous young lady, wish you the best of success in whatever you choose to do hope that also find a really caring guy who will love you always be there for you you have a lot to offer stay strong stay positive God bless you and ur family

[@JeepGirl45]

I would recommend community college for the basics. I went to one and ended up getting a transfer scholarship to a University. I went on to get my Master’s in Speech-Language Pathology and I’ve been working with children and adults with developmental disabilities for the last 15 years. Absolutely love what I do. ❤❤

[@cyber4052]

Hello Mak! Since you won’t be living in s dorm for your first year in college, I thought you might be interested in hearing about my experience. I lived in a dorm when I was a freshman in college... and it wasn’t fun. It was noisy. There was was a late night area for talking, and it was outside my room. People usually talked there until 2 AM. My first class was at 7:30 AM. I set my alarm for 6 AM. I was sleep deprived. Also, there was a study room, but it was noisy. I spent a lot of time on the “quiet study” floor of the library. I asked for a quiet room for the second semester. and I ended up on the floor for juniors, seniors and graduate students.

[@RandolphFelber]

You have a very good attitude and likeable personality. Stay strong.

[@anastasiamcguire1617]

I also went to the Community College because it had really good accommodation whereas mostly small classrooms. In this Spring semester 2023, this will be my last semester before my graduation. The Public university will make decisions whether I'll be accepted into the Inclusive Early Childhood Education program or not. To support for the children with and without disabilities within my own classroom.🥰 Hope everything goes well!❤

[@whitewatermelontea]

Hey Mak I’m super proud of you for being able to rationally make these tough decisions, even though it is super difficult emotionally. You’re totally right about paving your own path. I’d say typically, after college, everyone is gonna be on different paths anyway, so you’re just experiencing it a couple years earlier. Keep it up, always rooting for you and looking forward to more videos!!

[@catherinereeves5707]

Your makeup looks great today!

[@surgicaltechleader9068]

Im glad you know that your path doesnt have to look like your peers path. Good for you.

[@leiladowdall4690]

Loved this update. Proud of you Mak!

[@tryingtolearn2876]

I saw/heard some lady money advisor saying something on this subject while back and do agree were she was coming from, but always 2 sides of story. She was saying kids getting out of high school should maybe not go to college right away but take a few years exploring different jobs and/ or different opportunities that may come from having these jobs and that those years probably develop an idea of what they really want to do then go to college. During this time they can be saving money that will help them During college.

[@apriltownsend8463]

I'm disabled too and even I took a semester off AFTER taking a 7 year break after high school and I went to one of the most handicap-friendly colleges in the country. It was just needed for my mental state and that's okay.

[@miss__atomic__bomb]

I went to community college. I got straight A’s and got adjusted to the transition of college life. Then I went to university and got a bachelors degree. I had some of my favorite teachers in community college I still keep in touch with one today

[@PreciousRubi]

God bless you Makayla 🙏🏽

[@kristykirkland5081]

Love your clarity that God is in charge ... everyone has these same thoughts and this understanding that God is in charge that you have is amazing!!!

[@andyblank3546]

Congratulations on your future. No doubt it will be amazing ❤️🙏

[@nataliemitchell6148]

It’s so nice to hear you are doing your own thing! Like you said nothing is guaranteed but your still excited about it ❤️ I literally love that for you, I love how positive you are about everything, that been said still be kind to yourself if you do feel deflated about things ❤you’ve got this 😊

[@BillClarke-lb1ip]

Hey Makayla, I just viewed your latest video and what you said was really good. I remember from other video's that you really like the ocean, so I would like to suggest a couple you might not have thought about. The schools are in and around Charleston, South Carolina which is an old southern town full of history and just happens to be located near the beach. The schools there and are Charleston Southern, and The College of Charleston. There is another one called The Citadel, but is a military type school and I don't know if you would like that. I understand some of your needs as a disabled person, but just wanted to let you know. I wish you the best in your continued recovery and most of all I appreciate your unashamed dependence on God.

[@katia4103]

You are a very smart person, everyone has bad moments and doubts, does not matter the situation. And everyone has your path. Best wishes for you!

[@suewinter3693]

You are one smart cookie! Such a blessing to the world.

[@cutienoski25]

You are amazing!!! I wish I didn't try a big college and live on the campus- looking back, I would have stayed living with my parents and did community college! I just finished my nursing degree! You will do amazing things!!!

[@bababalletcamino7867]

🙏🏾❤️ You’re a strong young woman. ❤️🙏🏾

[@DiddyCanFly]

Your updates and videos make me so unbelievably happy. I’m so very proud of you. 💜

[@bridgesalex]

Makayla, you will be a rock-star in whatever you do in life and wherever you are planted! Remember that and continue to shine for Jesus!

[@angeladomann-bolduc5077]

My daughter is your age and she is going to a Community College too. She could go to a lot of state schools but she is happy to go to Community College. I think you will be great at whatever you pick to do in your life. Proud of you to have a relationship with Jesus.

[@sionandjess]

I’m sorry I’m in the U.K., what is rushing? You do what is good for you. You can study at any time, if you have other opportunities now just do them. It’s your future to live and enjoy, can’t wait to see what things you decide to do xx

[@Michelle34485]

You just have to do what’s right for you because you’re the only person that knows what is exactly right for you some more power to you for doing what you want for setting goals for yourself and accomplishing your goals along the way. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@claireduckworth7659]

I went to college for two semesters but it wasn't for me! I am now involved in the community theatre of Greensboro where I live! You are right that everyone does have a different path! ❤

[@diannedean390]

You're the most amazing young girl what a wonderful loving family you've got

[@AnneAndCamel]

Take the path presented to you, opportunities may only come once.....so try them as you have the chance. As the old saying goes: you can only play the cards that you are delt. Best of luck to all endeavors in the future.....and the future starts tomorrow!

[@tarabastable8229]

So proud of you mak, I love you

[@lorischeuer4946]

Enjoy your last few months of high school. I like your decision about going to a comm. college just to get the basics out of the way. Best of luck to you. Your vlog was very nice.

[@eh2139]

My path looked different than my friend’s & still does - it can be hard, but i wouldn’t change it now that I’m older.

[@mrsir7046]

Love you, Makayla! You’re the best.

[@kikilong8411]

Girl Tupperware isn’t the easiest for me & my hands are fine! Good for you! 🥳🥳🥳

[@Sunniday89]

So many people go to community college at the beginning bc the first year or two are more core classes with maybe a few classes towards a major. Your path is very similar to many peoples path through college…. Not mention it is a bit cheaper and saves some money. It is a very normal choice and good choice. Dorm rooms were fun and sorority life but it is also over rated. I felt sorority life was more dictating to how I spent my time and also made it hard when friendships grew apart bc of different sorority choices. I enjoyed college better when I switched universities and shared an apartment with a friend and decided not to re-affiliate to my sorority, less pressure more fun.

[@lorifoster8637]

You are an inspiration! I am so glad you rely on the Lord…life changes - He doesn’t. Keep Him close and He’ll direct your path 😊

[@paulag.6982]

I think it‘s so crazy what a big thing this seems to be in the US! Personally, I am from Germany and I finished high school last year and went directly off to uni but this is a pretty rare thing to do here nowadays. Really, most people choose a similar path as you do 🙈 Many of my friends do sth called a “voluntary social year” where they just help out in a kindergarten or something like that for one year before going to college. Others take a gap year in another country and even other friends just take a year off working or doing internships to find out what they want to do with their life. So what I wanna say is: It may seem to you as if you’re standing out with what you’re doing bc you are in the US and in your environment but globally seen this is sooooo normal nowadays!! So please don’t go crazy thinking about this, it’s the perfect path for you, you will hopefully be happy doing this and that’s the most important thing!!

[@janab.7037]

couldn’t agree more, I’m also from Germany ☺️

[@london977]

You inspire many young people, positive vibe you

[@BuckeyeNationRailroader]

Going to a Community College right after high school is actually the much more better move to advance a future career. Smart Choice.

[@laurelremington2056]

First of all I want to congratulate you on your improvement with your fine motor skills via the Tupperware and to open and close them. You are absolutely right in that everyone has a different career path. I moved out of my parents house at 18 y/o going to college. After college with my BSW I stayed in that town for almost 25 years. I moved back to my hometown ten years ago due to transfer in my career. I made the decision to go back to school after almost 25 years and got my MSW. Three years ago I started my doctorate program so I’m working full time in my career and going to school full time. I should have my doctorate in social work in May 2024. Congratulations with your chosen path. All of us whom are your cheerleaders support your decision and wish the best for you!!

[@sippingtea4743]

Wisdom. Loved hearing your wisdom on looking into the future and not worrying. I needed that for myself

[@KingKaylea]

Can’t wait to see what God has planned for you!

[@ParyMarker]

I regret going to uni, instead of doing CC first. You're making a good choice!

[@sonyau2682]

Your precious … proud of you 👏

[@StarrFiggs]

Love you Mak ❤