First Lady of Church Exposes Husband For Cheating, Using Family Money For Vacations with Other Women

[@behh3965]

I love Garcelle. She's always so firm in her opinions.

[@theoneandonly0099]

Because her opinions make sense. Adrienne knows she's fighting for her philandering ass 'man of faith'

[@shenquejames7598]

Yes she is. She is a great addition to the show

[@poloresanderson8916]

She is the only one that speaks the truth..The wife did the right thing..

[@anneschmidt5815]

She told on her husband (Garcelle) big time! His job, his family.... I'm not mad at her🤷‍♂️🤣♥️

[@nashyplyn8676]

I love that garcelle's beliefs did not waiver. Oftentimes this happens on the show alot where eventually everyone is saying the same thing. Garcelle is an excellent addition 👌

[@natdivaz]

Herd mentality is very common.

[@brendaarteaga2664]

I love Garcelle

[@yarnellhaines4090]

Yeah she really is very consistent in her beliefs. Love her for this show. Best addition 👌🏾

[@lamarshalewis5380]

Garcelle really is a great asset to The Real

[@mertellatait9050]

I'm telling you. Class act!

[@paulagabriele3512]

"I didn't make this up" - Garcelle. 🎯🎯👏👏👏

[@tonyabennett5183]

This☝️ 👏🙏🏽🙏🏽👏

[@Nanafia1]

Yes, Garcelle! It’s easy to say “take the high road” when you’ve never been in that exact situation. Being betrayed in that manner is traumatizing. People have gotten killed over betrayal that involves cheating. That’s why it’s phrased “A crime of passion”. Putting your spouse on blast publicly is warranted, especially if they’ve portrayed themselves to be perfect.

[@aleshapaustin4492]

Garcelle did that her ex husband...

[@omphilemoerane2569]

Yeah that's the issue with being with a religious/spiritual man. You'll assume that makes him better and hold him in high regard only to find out he's just a man. Some of these church men behave no different than the street dudes.

[@ThePltsweet]

@@omphilemoerane2569 some of them are worse than non religious men. I would never be with a church leader/pastor/elder, whatever they call themselves. Spiritual yes, but religious fanatic no.

[@shenequakimbro5146]

Garcelle put her man on blast when he cheated but I think it was to their inner circle but not publicly like this. Either way, should be more empathetic since she understands how hurt this lady is

[@estherkapembwa1194]

I completely agree with Garcelle, I am not taking responsibility of someone else's actions. It should be on him.

[@tisch9233]

Yeah its on him, but dont reveal the sins of another person publicly. Its just an ego thing and revenge way of thinking

[@bleudiamondbleu]

@@tisch9233they were pastors. Them getting divorced is gonna cause gossip n rumors. It’s best to say the truth upfront. The ramifications of cheating on your wife as a pastor... is not her burden to bare.

[@kaledoniajdubrey9239]

so impressed with Garcelle’s emotional intelligence when Adriene challenged her about how her children feel about her email regarding their father’s indiscretion. So smart and classy

[@lstarsabb]

Right Addrienne like "but what about the kids" she didn't say that about the husband instead she was symptomizing with the husband.

[@mandys1038]

@@lstarsabb Exactly! I didn't like that, the affair happened years ago no one is going to be bringing that up and if they dared to do so I am sure her sons would defend their mother! Its not as deep as Adrienne is making it out to be.

[@DonnaAnderson1]

It was an odd question and off putting. How does she think her husband’s children felt. Maybe she should ask her bonus children. I know she was not who he cheated with but she knows where the bones are buried so to speak. I wonder does she worry it will happen to her.

[@missdee7045]

@@DonnaAnderson1 Especially the bonus bonus one. The one they act like doesn't exist. The one he cheated on his wife and made.

[@tisch9233]

There was nothing smart and empathic about this at all! That’s absolutely a no go! And adrienne is actually right! A kid should never go through the drama of their parents. Instead of protecting them as a mother you want to dispose them to the sin of their father? Making someone sins public is a sinn itself … so please sit down.

[@TheStarLaura]

I find myself agreeing with Garcelle the most these days

[@marykay7878]

YES! today and also yesterday when the other three were romanticizing will smiths violent assault. garcelle may be the newest addition, but you can tell she has been in the biz the longest. she is the realest and wisest.

[@Elizabeth-uz3le]

Garcelle is the real one 🎉🎊

[@Fridarida]

Its the classy mature woman mentality

[@divinenb4133]

@@marykay7878 ITS A SLAP, get over it

[@marykay7878]

@@divinenb4133 i never said it wasnt? that is assault, that is violence. very telling when people take time out of their day to minimize or justify it physical violence.

[@KhanyaModipa]

Also Garcelle was the perfect person to speak up because she was actually in this position. It’s easy to judge and be like “I wouldn’t have done this or that” but when something as traumatic as this happens to you personally you’ll be surprised at how you’ll actually behave

[@sashatiana-alize6186]

Agreed 💯💯👏🏼👏🏼

[@sunshinegirl02]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@TheRealDaytime]

Thanks for sharing!

[@omphilemoerane2569]

Garcelle's situation was so angering. Her ex cheated the entire time they were married - 5 years. Who does that??? Why did he even bother marrying her? She was going through IVF - literally injecting herself trying to have a family with him while he was messing around on her. It's no wonder she reacted like that. I would feel so hurt, I'd feel like my time has been wasted, I'd feel like he was laughing at me the whole time behind my back looking at me like "this idiot"🙁

[@dawncullen0214]

@@omphilemoerane2569 God bless Garcelle 💕

[@nc8358]

I. Love. Garcelle!!!! She was so needed on this show. And I love how she sticks to her convictions and isn't trying to be in favor with Hollywood folks. She isn't afraid to speak her mind and own whatever she says, and I LOVE IT!

[@lilmakori]

Thank you Garcelle and Jeannie!! It’s not my job to try and protect you once you hurt me. You weren’t thinking of me and our marriage or kids when you hurt me so why should I give you that consideration?

[@gaila.9852]

I think it is more about you not letting someone take you out of your character than you protecting him.

[@KhanyaModipa]

Garcelle is so REAL! I just love her so much. I think if she wasn’t there the conversation would have been “let’s take the high road”. She is so authentic

[@susu_m]

if the episodes I have watch so far, I haven't disagreed with her. similar how i was with jennie in the past

[@55556666ish]

Im so glad Jeannie is there to back Garcelle up on this one (not that she needs it). You shouldn't have to hold back your voice when wrong is done, and people are abusing their position of power. It should be exposed for ALL to see. Kids don't need protecting from the truth to that extent i don't agree with Adrienne. It's not the woman's job to preserve anything!!!

[@lawtraf8008]

Will smith didn’t hold back his voice when Chris rock did him wrong and y’all are blasting him for it tho

[@55556666ish]

@@lawtraf8008 this does not have anything to do with Will Smith and im not blasting him at all so i dont know what you are talking about

[@justinageorgina5748]

@@lawtraf8008 the entire world would have had his back had he blasted Chris rock over the insensitive joke. But here’s the difference, no one assaulted anyone in this story. So let’s get that straight.

[@alexandraanderson3988]

I feel like Jeannie is always there 😢😂😅😊 to back up Garcelle in that sense most of the time that's why i love her for that 💞😽 but I feel ❤️ like their not always there to back up Jeannie in a sense though if they don't agreed 👍💯 with her tho lmaoo

[@Ryh_Ryh]

I just love Garcelle! She’s the most grounded and real! THE REALIST

[@catherinejohnson4997]

Love the Real show miss the twin Tamara on the show also !

[@IS33U]

Adrienne is giving “pick me protect the cheater” vibes. Hold these folks accountable for their actions. I feel like she is reliving her husband’s previous marriage

[@omphilemoerane2569]

When she said I'd blast the other woman more than the father of my children...🙄

[@jenniferaddo872]

because her husband is a cheater and did the same thing to his ex wife

[@kianah544]

Right. I didn’t like the “they’re still human just like us” angle she was coming from. Like, NO we wouldn’t feel the same way if the garbage man did it, because he’s not the one taking peoples money in God’s name, being the worst kind of hypocrite, and preaching and/or probably condemning other people for their sins. They should be held to a higher standard and God holds them to a higher standard as well. Adrienne’s advice on men cheating is really unnecessary.

[@Taikyaa]

Especially with her “I’ll blast the other person before I’ll blast the father of my children” chile she’ll blast the side chick and protect the husband, yikess 😬🥴

[@luvbug4388]

@@Taikyaa right

[@Nnnnnnnn426]

Adrienne thought Jeannie was throwing shade at her at first when she said she wants her thoughts on it bc of her husband cheated on his first wife and had to leave the church he was working at

[@takemypainaway9517]

Yupp. I caught that too. And who knows, maybe she did but covered it up with “oh no because you are in the church” lol. The fact that A felt that says a lot tho.

[@Mirwright]

OHHHHHH THAT MAKES SENSE. I DIDNT KNOW THIS!

[@takemypainaway9517]

@@Mirwright yupp. And he has kids with his mistress too

[@Mirwright]

@@takemypainaway9517 it all makes sense now, cause I was VERY confused with her response.

[@sequillarochelle4044]

Well when the shoe fits and it's yours,WEAR IT!!!

[@EmorettaRobinson]

I feel bad for the wife of that minister. She lost a child and then her husband cheats on her and leaves. So now she's grieving both the death of her child, the end of her marriage and dealing with betrayal from her husband.

[@annie6891]

Men are blaming her saying she's got crazy eyes, he is traumatized so he had to take a white pill to fix it.

[@michelleelmore5533]

What’s worse is the lady is posting pictures like everything is ok and hunky dory

[@shenquejames7598]

Yes. She definitely needs prayer. She had two major losses

[@d.t.4150]

So devastating😢😭 I feel for this poor lady... too often we protect the mans bad behavior by not saying anything so the madness continues unfortunately!!! I will be praying for her

[@shalalala868]

Went through that recently and it was terrible. Lost my pregnancy and then a few months later, realized I’d be grieving the loss of my marriage bc my husband was a covert narcissist who pretended to be Christian. It stung.

[@moimeself1088]

Adrienne needed to sit down. Why blast the woman when *he's* the one lying, cheating and stealing? Why does *she* have to pay a higher price? Sit this one out, sis. You're just wrong.

[@georgiawhite7314]

I agree ,@, moi meself

[@businessdevelopment4834]

Adrienne knows who she married, that why...lol

[@moimeself1088]

@@businessdevelopment4834 meaning?

[@chiletheghetto7763]

@@moimeself1088 Adriennes husband cheated on his ex wife.

[@moimeself1088]

@@chiletheghetto7763 not with her, so how does that explain her position? She makes no sense.

[@CookieFridays]

Hearing about so many people cheating is making me more nervous about relationships, even guys I talk to and ask if they’ve cheated and they tell me yes they have. One guy cheated on his wife and newborn baby, like why do you think I’ll want to date you after that. Cheating is a nightmare to me.

[@gaila.9852]

I am glad they were honest with you.

[@Thesilentvoice...]

This is why many young adults and women have high standards in the area of commitment. Many guys now days are not faithful. I’ve seen more women and girls like the guys who aren’t stereotypically masculine because they seem more truthful and honest. At least those guys said the truth it saved you from going further with them

[@veronica5080]

Oh yea, the more I hear about men the more Im genuinely not interested. Like what am I supposed to look forward to... This?

[@hospitalityandlifewithtafa2712]

I love the way Garcelle is solid in her opinions

[@cheftruvii6146]

I love Garcelle! She keeps it real and I love that. A lot of pastors have been corrupt for awhile. Their human so it’s not shocking at all. (Not excusing the behavior). But such behavior should be addressed. Then the congregation should have them step down

[@ninaaden8338]

Doing that garbage shouldn't be justified because "they are human". Where is the "Christ like" moral compass these pastors claim to uphold to? They are rotten hypocrites to the umpteenth degree.

[@geziellnash5776]

I’m sorry but Adrienne was out of pocket for asking Garcelle about her kids perception of their father cheating.

[@JT1L]

She probably thought Garcelle was going to change her opinion based on kids being included in the question. Kudos to Garcelle for standing firm in her opinion.

[@MsLisalisa24]

How was she out of line? Far Elle wasn’t out of line putting the fact that it happened out there. So why is she out of line for asking

[@sattasana7753]

Totally out of line and very awkward No need sometimes to change the way people feel..to someone people heart break is common but some of us can't afford it

[@gaila.9852]

She asked about the email.

[@sec008987]

@@sattasana7753 but ppl are trying to change Adrianne’s so what’s the difference?

[@Dori90210]

I love Garcelle’s honesty! She always speaks without caring about who agrees or disagrees with her.

[@cynthiachaparro1728]

GARCELLE SPEAKING FACTSSSSS!!!!

[@rachelmkandawire9353]

It's like Adrienne is making excuses for her husband... There were stories regarding how her husband did his ex-wife

[@yf8350]

Always

[@gracia799]

Yeppp

[@musiclover-cn7tb]

@@gracia799 it sure was .

[@mapulemampuru6584]

Not even stories… he cheated! Multiple times

[@tay9543]

Adrienne is going to learn so much from Garcelle and I’m here for it 👏

[@kathleenweinberg6442]

It's sad to see a pastor cheating and stealing from the ones that look up to him

[@roter13]

That's what they all do...

[@chrissyh3270]

@@roter13 that's not true. Those are the ones that make the news. Many (not ALL which ALL is never a true statement) start off financially carrying their church and some do this for many years.

[@michite7435]

@@roter13 not ALLpastors cheat and steal. I suppose those can't handle the power and the position there are in. We will all get our judgment day. Pastors included.

[@trini4life100000000]

Adrienne would you let Garcelle finish her point please! DAMN!

[@dianed.3544]

Adrienne talks over everyone.🤷🏽‍♀️

[@josephlovely7759]

Mostly when the conversation is about husbands cheating

[@yf8350]

She always tries to make ppl feel bad for having a different opinion than her , it’s so annoying

[@shavonh8421]

She’s so annoying 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@musicneurons7807]

Adrienne would be more mad at the woman than the man who cheated. And she would protect the husband from his consequences.

[@DaniielaVergara]

YES, I believe that too.

[@sunshinegirl02]

at 6:40 she said it!!! SMH 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

[@josephlovely7759]

@@sunshinegirl02 she'd blast the other person before exposing the father of her children🙄🙄

[@sunshinegirl02]

@@josephlovely7759 like Loni said you dont know what that man said to the other woman….but then again, she married a cheater who was serving in music ministry so are we surprised by her reaction?

[@ccMomOfJays]

Never speak ill of your children's father no matter how low down and dirty they may be

[@sashatiana-alize6186]

“TikTok Baptist Church?” 😂😂😂😂😂 When Jeannie said that, I had to pause the video for a few minutes because I couldn’t stop laughing. Too hilarious. LMAO!!

[@SydRichi]

I did the same thing!!🤣

[@businessdevelopment4834]

Jeannie is funny

[@emefaahiable4852]

Garcelle is the OG. She doesn’t say BS. She doesn’t mince words. I love her for it

[@gaila.9852]

“Thank God my faith is not built on the church. It is built on my relationship.” This is so important. Many people turn away from Christianity (or any religion) because of their negative experience at a church. No Christian is perfect. They are not God, and you should not judge God based on their actions.

[@chrissyh3270]

Right. Or they use that as an excuse.

[@zahraaalz9621]

Adrian sounds like the type that would get mad at the other girl for sleeping with her man and not her man for cheating. 😒

[@Junileli]

Garcelle is like a queen. Love her energy and wisdom in sharing her pearls!

[@marjoriecoleman8280]

I’m with Garcelle on this one. You don’t get to cheat and go about your life and people thinking you’ve done nothing wrong. By the way, Loni looks beautiful! ❤️❤️❤️

[@emilywaters1076]

I loveeeeee Garcelle!!!! She’s speaking facts and I find myself always agreeing with her even though she may not have the popular response! She is the best cast member for this show.

[@jennamarbelas5317]

And a lot of these cheaters are narcissists that only care about maintaining their good image. So until you’ve put them on blast, they really haven’t felt any consequences.

[@jenniferaddo872]

Garcelle ADDS so much to the show. She has been married AND she has multiple children. She has soooo much knowledge. Im glad she stands firm in her opinions and checks Adrienne

[@briannawilson6483]

And she needs to be checked often!

[@denisecortez8907]

i love garcelle sm!!! she doesn’t allow anyone to invalidate her opinions, and she does so in the most graceful manner 🥰 in all seriousness, she’s really the only one who should’ve been talking.. she LIVED through something similar. the judgement she got from adrienne was weird.

[@brittanymccormick3098]

Adrienne don’t like this topic because her husband is a man of god and cheated on his ex wife. As much as I love her, I don’t agree with her comments on this topic.

[@yf8350]

Period

[@shaypattersonthompson3700]

I’m with Garcelle and Jeanie , and i love how Garcelle stick with what she say !!! ❤️

[@FlwrPetalsOnVenus]

Of course Adrienne would blast the other woman more than the cheating husband and pretty much told the wife to be quiet about it 😭😭😭😭😭 & good for u Garcelle BLAST HIM! Cuz if u want your wife to speak nicely about u, then treat her nice and don’t cheat 🙃

[@mapulemampuru6584]

YUP!

[@Lara-tr7xb]

I love Garcelle’s raspy voice.

[@jjayguy23]

I bet she could spit some MEANNNNN rap verses. Reggae comes to mind!!!!!!!!

[@gaila.9852]

@@jjayguy23 Now I want to hear that, hahaha.

[@cinemeleon2808]

Yes, it’s rich and sultry

[@saramatthews7159]

Me too

[@Operation-Reality]

THERE ARE SOOOO MANY CASES LIKE THIS...I wish more woman came out to expose this mess.

[@LTScheming]

My heart feels the weight of Adrienne wanting to protect Israel during this topic. She loves her husband. Understandably so, her opinion may be conflicting between empathy for those experiencing the pain of betrayal and love & loyalty to a man who she's sees as forgiven & redeemed. It has to be difficult for her speak up for a truth that makes her feel like she's condemning Israel. I pray that she's able to one day remove the weight of defending his past sin. Adrienne should simply say "I can speak on this bc I've heard the heartfelt regret & loss experienced by the adulterer; I also know & love the same children that had to forgive & grow due to no fault of their own. Just own it boldly, Adrienne; and let God & Israel deal with the rest.❤

[@jhademitchell1281]

💯💯

[@eileenumana]

Beautifully said!

[@JuiCyNess08]

Beautiful! I don’t think she’s ready to address that. I believe that could change everything for her

[@beverlynoelle6941]

She’s never going to own it because she’s embarrassed! Israel still doesn’t see his two children he had outside the marriage with his first wife. He and Adrienne are CLOWNS!

[@honeybee7855]

Wow. Beautiful words Amen

[@crystalmasters8582]

Good point Jeannie it’s definitely fraud.

[@MsMak03]

They probably get away with it because tithes and offering are seen as a donation? There is no legal contact between churches and their congregants on where the funds will go, technically no breach

[@ForeverGodsGirl03]

Lol, they had to parent Adrienne at the end. She thought she said something correct when she said she would've blasted the mistress more than the father of her children, lol. Clearly Adrienne didn't know what she was talking about, lol.

[@ChellesShell]

Garcelle has won me over!! She has become my favorite! She said what she said! Adrienne didn't like it cause her husband did it.

[@thuang2800]

Whoa far fetch..no?

[@cynthiachaparro1728]

Ooooof

[@august21xp]

Exactly , he cheated and thinks cause he asked the pastor to forgive him it makes his kids in Texas go away ! Please ! Adrienne needs to be honest and stop acting like her marriage is perfect !

[@ashLen868]

Oppppp☕️

[@lecydecy9257]

@@august21xpoh boi

[@thedrflo4558]

💃🏻 👈🏽 that’s me dancing on my bed at what Garcelle said!!! “I didn’t make this up” The woman standing up for herself won’t hurt the kids. We stan a Queen 👑

[@tonyabennett5183]

That part 👏

[@veronica5080]

Omggg shes smart loved that

[@maggief1851]

Why should we always think about the children was the dad thinking about the children when he was pulling down his trousers.Garcelle 👏👏

[@ellenasmith1963]

Garcelle definitely keeps it real! I love these ladies!

[@lindahines9380]

Loni love is the only one that keeps it Real!

[@bookbag6432]

I saw the video a couple days ago on Insta and I agree he should be called out PUBLICLY because he is a public figure as a minister and EVERYONE in and outside the church should know what kind of man they are going to see. If it was just a cheating husband at home in a corporate job it would be different.

[@TiffanyRayneOfficial]

It's not that much different for the cheating husband with a corporate job. They too, have the leverage, money, and protective wall so to speak. They just don't have a spectating public audience to go 😲OMG. But the pain and humiliation is all the same.

[@knoname1092]

I like Garcelle's straight forward point of view on this topic. She handled her situation as she seen fit. The minister's wife did the same thing plus the congregation need to know what kind of person is leading their church.

[@aidasa3791]

Soooo glad Garcelle is there. WHY TAKE THE HIGH ROAD?? For what? To give him the easy way out???!

[@BigbossBonita]

This show needed Garcelle bad. She keep it real and true to herself

[@ClowneryAtItsFinest]

A complete class act! 💕👍🏿👏🏿

[@qsedi2586]

I don't believe in regrets. Everything happens the way it should.

[@Agnes-nr7do]

First of all! I whole heartedly agree with Garcelle on this one. Secondly, what upsets me about “SOME” women is that their husband or partner cheats on them and instead of directing their anger at the person who vowed to commit to them, they instead put another woman on blast who doesn’t owe them any loyalty! Come on let’s do better !!!! Yes the side piece is wrong especially if she knew he had a wife but even at that their main focus should be Their partner who did them wrong! He’s the one who owes them respect and loyalty

[@lstarsabb]

That's why I'm glad Loni and Garcelle checked Adreinne on that. She always loves to make other women the source of the problems. Making being rude struggles because she wants to prove she loves her husband is cute. Very pick me vibes.

[@Taikyaa]

*cough Adrienne cough*

[@gaila.9852]

@@lstarsabb What do you mean by “making being rude struggles”?

[@MsDera81]

The other woman is ALWAYS equally wrong as long as she knows the man is married. If you are not treating people the way you want to be treated, then you are blocking your own blessings and making appointments with Karma. Sad when you can't do right for the sake of your own future.

[@keywannabishop4962]

@@MsDera81 Absolutely! The woman that he's cheating with, knew that he was married the wife addressed that, That's why she kept saying congratulations you got him and sarcastically pointing out the tine frame of when they made their relationship public. If they're all in church then they know that God says not to covet what belongs to someone else. These cheating husbands are trash and so are the home wrecking women that get involved with married men knowingly. She is the epitome of kick her while she's down. Sheesh!😱

[@alienjess7038]

Garcelles mind is so different from the rest. I love it.

[@JaiClaire880]

I agree with Garcelle and I’m glad she stood her ground in her decision.

[@nelciejames1640]

Garcelle is the truth! I appreciate she respectfully stands by her opinions and experiences.

[@reginaldhollis3562]

I was waiting for what Garcelle would say 😂

[@lindahines9380]

I can't stand Her!

[@alina9924]

@@lindahines9380 we didn’t ask 😊

[@alexandraanderson3988]

I was waiting 😭😞 for a what'd you say😂😅😊 about my kids moment when Adrienne mentioned her kids lmaoo

[@prettydoll8505]

Thank you Garcelle!!! Love you on this show. Agree with you so much

[@dadaf254]

Thank God Garcelle is in this show. I love her. She's so straight forward and true to herself

[@denzel7341]

i never understand why people bring up “what about the kids” like garcelle said is it the truth? so why should u have to hide tht. also the “what if they get made fun of ” line is tired. trust me if someone wants to pick on a kid they will find anything to laugh at them about literally ANYTHING we see it daily

[@EverydayEboni]

I'm with Garcelle! And they come to the show giving examples of bad relationships. The people that are cheated on get tired of protecting the cheaters image. And then the cheater gets to spin the narrative how they want.

[@ThePltsweet]

Garcelle, you are absolutely right. Also Loni, i agree. I keep saying the same thing. You NEVER KNOW what those lying cheating scoundrels tell the other woman. Men LIE. So whether she's disrespectful or not, it's upto the no good husband to put the side woman in her place (that is for those who stay in these tragic marriages).

[@BrandyD1777]

Amen Garcelle, Loni......Who is suppose to be loyal to you? Whether woman/man knew of you (different if friends or family) it is not her/him that owes you loyalty, it is the person you lay with, confide in, trust, made promises to/with, etc.

[@saint-harrington]

Oouuup 🤭 Adrienne tried it with GG she caught it and reversed it !! BAAAMM

[@semmungrei4197]

I wouldn’t necessarily let my dirty laundry out in the public unless absolutely necessary. However, I completely understand why people do it. The pain, the hurt and the disrespect is too huge to take the high road all the time. So, I am glad that people spoke out because it teaches all of us a valuable lesson. People learn and grow most after humiliation. If you choose to keep it private, good for you and if you want to make it public, I won’t judge you as well. Everybody handle things differently.

[@SammySam316]

That's why we shouldn't act out until we've cooled off and let out some steam. The things we can do in the moment when we feel so hurt and betrayed is insane.

[@ellekay4758]

Adrienne’s constant weird defense of men was me when I was in the most abusive relationship with the seemingly ‘kindest man’ on earth in the ‘happiest marriage’ so it’s a huge 🚩 for me. I hope she’s okay.

[@nadashaq1676]

Garcelle! Always realistic and on point🙌

[@lamarshalewis5380]

Adrienne needs to just sit this one out. Don’t know if the alleged allegations of her her husband or true or not. But there are things out there about her husband and other women and her and him before they got married

[@juliaunasamone]

I know this family personally… the things said aren’t lies.

[@omphilemoerane2569]

@@juliaunasamone lol well thanks for confirming that. Now the "you don't know them personally" people can rest😂

[@shirleynatural5158]

lol my girl Adrienne getting offended, no babes some Garcelle speaks from experience let her be.

[@petitelune5284]

adrienne gives pick me. how ur going to blast the other girl more than your husband who made a commitment to YOU ?

[@brendanb7729]

Exactly!

[@essie420]

She does this alot e.g. when the Khloe incident happened too with Jordyn. But also, I remember her husband's last marriage and her past cheating so I understand why she's so defensive of protecting men that cheat

[@droge410]

10+ yrs ago at my Grandmother’s church the pastor embezzlements money to fund his mistresses. Expensive trips gifts flying the women out to places it was a mess. Not sure if charges were pressed but if not they should have been cause it’s stealing.

[@jessicasalazar9117]

I want to be Garcelle when I grow up lol “no regrets” wow! What a mature woman👍🏻

[@jamieleigh807]

Well done Garcelle and Jeannie mai the only ones that keep it real here!

[@missjamerica6461]

Garcelle and Jeannie are both parents and both know what it’s like to be cheated on by a spouse. They could identify with the woman. Adrienne and Loni have not walked that road. They are giving from a theoretical standpoint, Garcelle and Jeannie are talking from experience.

[@shavonh8421]

💯

[@NMA635]

Adrienne didn’t need to go the children part but I love how Garcelle is always classy and firm with her opinions .

[@lk5393]

Garcelle is keeping it real. THANK YOU 👏👏👏

[@hlobisileskincare3837]

I absolutely agree with Garcelle and I am so proud and happy that she said it. Women can't always take the high road for situations that men create. We are human, we feel and can't always be the "responsible" one for situations and pain we didn't create.

[@KayQhosa]

Yes!!

[@veronica5080]

Yes. Thank you.

[@MakaylaLynnOnYoutube]

I sent a family member a very strong email after I gave myself a week to calm down over a really serious situation with that person. It rocked my entire family and I was called “ignorant” and “disrespectful” for the years to come, but it was the ONE way that I was finally able to hold this person accountable, because they would have been supported endlessly by people that did NOT know the other side of that person (because love makes us turn the other cheek sometimes). Now, everyone has finally settled and some even understand why I wrote my email and that it was to stand UP for myself instead of allowing this person to continue their life as if their hands were clean. It helped everyone learn, and unfortunately some people don’t learn until they are wholly embarrassed. It’s not the best way to teach, like this will smith situation, but it’s a teacher nonetheless. I personally haven’t been disrespected by this person since, and that’s that on that.

[@junebrown5270]

I totally agree with Adrienne when you walk away from your family after such a huge loss and taking family funds should be held accountable and he definitely should step down.

[@enchantingfelzx8490]

Guys jennie looking fly that post pregnancy glow is 🔥

[@sweetcaramel4750]

Adrienne gets offended lol when She "My thoughts " 😂 🤣

[@marygitihaable]

Lol I peeped that I was like 😬

[@TheMarlonChannel]

PUT HIM ON BLAST! I'm with Garcelle.

[@Amaryllis-4U]

Garcelle is such a perfect addition to this show that it makes it even more of a disappointment that this show is ending this season. Love this particular group. I think they have the best dynamic of all the panels of the show’s entirety. But I will especially miss listening to Garcelle’s and Loni’s take on topics.

[@kikibigbangfan3540]

Why is it that people always act like women have to take on the burden of fault. Not only for herself, but for a significant other, children, friends and or other family members. You can be the best gf/wife and still have a cheating husband. Be the best mother and still have bad kids. We as women are not responsible for the actions of other grown-ass individuals.

[@toluadeyemi9049]

Yes!!! And they try to cover by saying ‘women are strong’. My strength is not for other people’s mess!!!

[@KayQhosa]

@@toluadeyemi9049 Girllll!!! Say it.

[@laylazay2]

This!

[@SegoKotlhai]

She said" let's go there" and Garcelle checked her😭😭😭😭

[@shavonh8421]

Yea, I don’t understand what’s going on with Adrienne. Every since Jeannie been back she has been shady

[@shavonh8421]

@Brooklyn-Jenny I was thinking that also

[@8luvbug]

Wow, this hits way too close to home for Adrienne.

[@JoyFay]

That’s why she compared the pastor to a garbage man.

[@thecosmicvalkyrie7145]

She needed to do that video because if she didn't she would've been silenced and this would've been hidden under the rug. He deserved to be aired out on video. To answer Jeannie, the establishment clause basically. Theres a reason it is so hard for scientology to be charged with all the crimes the commit. Unless people in the church try to do something, and even then theres usually nothing that can be done. The same way they protect child harmers.

[@kymberlipomerants5520]

How can Adrienne say ANYTHING, wasn't SHE friends with Israel's wife and then took him?

[@Nediahn26]

I’m with G and J on this one.

[@omphilemoerane2569]

Tell them Miss Garcelle! You wouldn't know what you'd do until you find yourself in that situation. And this is why men will keep disrespecting us. They know most women would be too embarrassed about being cheated on to blast them.

[@veronica5080]

I dont know why I should be made to feel embarrassed when I didnt do anything? I never understood that. Hes the one that stepped out on his family, broke s commitment he vowed to uphold and keep, agreed to be monogamous when he doesn’t have that ability. Like how tf is it not embarrassing for him? Its weird

[@aidasa3791]

YES ADRIENNE YOUR THOUGHTS since your husband you know. Lol.

[@MyFavourites1]

I love it when they all have different opinions. Yet they listen, stand firm with some points and are able to see where the other person is coming from another moment.

[@euniceawosika3416]

'Put him on blast', I love Garcelle. Women are tired of martyrdom, thanks Garcelle for keeping it real. This is very close to home for Adrienne, hence her misplaced defensiveness of the undefensible.

[@noirlily3413]

Adrienne didn't know which direction to go in as her Husband cheated on his ex-Wife... 👀👀👀

[@tamaraemily1391]

Would have just loved to see the dynamic between Garcelle and Tamera. They’d have been great. 🥰 Totally agree “put him on blast.” A man would do the same if you treated him that way and his kids would 100% be on his side. Put him on blast!

[@roni6752]

Dang you’re right Jeanie! People are being scammed when church funds are being used for selfish reason. And, there should a law protecting churches.

[@NellieKAdaba]

I completely agree, I used to go to a church, where the pastor used money for other things and not for church.

[@preciousnunique]

I like Garcelle's honesty - she is the most realistic and dosn't always say the most kumbaya answer. Jeannie has gotten there after her divorce - she realises that the world is not all flowers and rainbows -she's become more real. Adrienne has grown a lot but still needs to work on empathy and understanding that people don't always act perfectly or should be expected to act perfectly.

[@chrisleftwich5]

High five to Garcelle for speaking TRUTH!!

[@TEDRACAKES]

That’s why I build my relationship with God. I know I don’t attend church & things as much as I should but my growth on my spiritual journey is for myself not trying to prove a point to anybody else.