first time with our dad after coming out

[@worldofxtra]

This video is so special to me. Thank you so much for watching!

[@Laurenade]

[@the1for9yu]

NO thank YOU for uploading this. Thank you for being you and giving us so much confidence. I really appreciate everything you do and am so happy I found your account. We love you so much stannnnn, and we are proud of you for everything you have done 🫶🏻 Thank you for always making my Wednesdays better and cheering me up. Love youu ❤️😚

[@jungwoo3556]

Nakakahappy naman tong vlog ngayon.sayang wala c world of mama.😊

[@MsPandaStudies]

omg he is little by little understanding ❤ i am so happy !

[@Kroonia]

I love you soooooo much, you are the best KZbinr ever, I enjoy every video you upload, I hope you never stop making videos because they make my day and most importantly have an amazing day or night and don’t forget it’s ok to take time of KZbin to work on yourself because we will always be here for you ❤❤❤

[@brightskysyl3913]

We stan stan’s dad’s character development 🥰

[@madamebelle-]

It's his redemption arc 😂

[@shaun2.0]

THATS RIGHT !

[@dontsaymynameoutloudgurlpanda]

Say that five times fast

[@Erigato2010]

It’s his WOKE ERA!

[@watermelonsugar8261]

yesssssss

[@androidvison]

The way Stewie cried, he was genuinely so grateful. Stan you’re such an amazing brother/son/individual 😤🤌⭐️✨

[@LEVI-pb3ns]

He made me cry😭

[@LK_019EI]

frr i aspire to be stan for my sister and mama, stan stan really this video is so special !!

[@BENI_MMNA]

And Stan genuinly appreciates Stewie always having his back and fully trusting him with everything. The appreciation goes both ways. I've seen siblings being close, but the both of them are really each other's best friends. Love Steven's presence too, lmao. He has the same excitement as the two younger brothers, but is just sooo calm. Lovely family dynamic 🥰

[@JeanKulacek-france]

@@BENI_MMNAall three brothers are gay? Damn that’s rare isn’t it

[@BENI_MMNA]

@@JeanKulacek-france no, Steven is not gay.

[@sophiaisabelle01]

Seems like your dad is a down to earth individual. May God bless him for accepting who you truly are.

[@julesoxana]

So true❤ amen❤

[@BaldHeadHoshi127]

Amen 🙏

[@Cvtrice]

Amen :)

[@memi4744]

amen ❤

[@zzzxzzzz]

amen ❣️

[@anyberdilo2659]

I think that Stan had a major impact on improving the relationship in their family because he is not afraid to talk and is always so understanding

[@m.txttt_]

yes he’s also the one that’s always visiting their dad even before coming out

[@chrisgj1927]

give the others some credit, your only seeing the vlogs

[@sprinklesforlala]

I like how it seems that dad was genuinly happy for his sons to be home with him🥰

[@Cindiehams11]

I love how you talked about compromise, understanding and learning from each other 😢 my mother had been an extremely toxic parent who would refuse change and growth (would constantly say things like “we Chinese families don’t behave/believe in things like that” etc even on very basic things like women gaining independence)….I’m living vicariously through you guys as you’re healing your relationship with your father, wishing you all the best❤

[@Specters0rd]

I'm sorry to hear that. I wish you the best on healing from that, fam.

[@LA-cm9uo]

Hey, that sounds tough. I'm trying to wrap my head around it. My boyfriend is Chinese and he says "We Chinese don't do x...." but he only states it to describe differences between my people and his people, and does not condemn not push others to conform. I'll be wary if we have kids if he starts to say this, I will tell him how it affects them.

[@Soken50]

Do you mean vicariously (feeling through others) rather than precariously (uncertain, dangerous, unstable)? English isn't my first language either and they sound pretty similar so that's a mistake I could see myself making ^^'

[@julesoxana]

As a fellow chinese, im so sorry to hear that💔 Praying for you and your mom❤

[@unstableymental1765]

the way your dad said “yung pagaaral mo stewie wag mo pababayaan” idk it really just melted my heart i couldn’t handle it i cried

[@janeatinon8867]

Only Filipino can relate, at the end of the day, to our parents our future is what they worry the most. Aww. . . This is too sweet. . .

[@AkumaChakai]

I love the vibes Steven brings 😭 he's so out of it & I love it

[@user-tg8yx9pt1k]

FRRRR idk Steven's my favorite brother HAHA

[@arktycznamapa1701]

HE IS SO CUTE

[@nomifreimixes]

saaame so out of it but being supportive also

[@AwsomeasIce]

It's really nice to see your dad making the effort to be more accepting and to build a better relationship with you guys. It's thankfully never too late to reconcile a strained relationship (sometimes). Love this for you guys ❤

[@LA-cm9uo]

Right. The first video was really hard for me to watch

[@devilsuoh]

@@LA-cm9uo What first one? "Going to See My H0m0phobic Dad"?

[@devilsuoh]

I agree!! I would like not only parents, but also children to learn to reconcile. (indirect to my brother haha)

[@LA-cm9uo]

@@devilsuoh yes i think so

[@LA-cm9uo]

@@devilsuoh how old is your brother?

[@vogelpredigt]

i just love how stewie casually spills some tea here and there

[@planetestheonly]

The fact that Steven stood next to them the whole time with a happy little smile radiates so much of a comfort scene to me. My older brother and me were brought up from a tough love asian household, our parents hardly reveal much affection. We grew up touch starved, especially my brother, when he's a men, his world view would be even harder than mine. I'm practicing to heal and be more affectionate towards people who I value highly, esp my narcissistic mom who's showing a sense of aware these days and I think I should give her a chance. Shout out to courageous people who's breaking the cycle like Stan :) I hope things will turn out okay, If it's not okay, it's not the end.

[@ErinDavid]

the two gay brothers: having a moment that is healing the pain their father inflicted on them with their dad because of their sesguality the straight son: he,,, he didn’t buy me anything :’DD their dynamic as brothers is very warming

[@3hi954]

387 likes and no comments let’s fix that

[@kairabanzon3928]

but he's still happy for them also hahaha

[@shinobuplayz]

Aww but I cannot support you because I am Muslim so oh well

[@strawberryjam7466]

@@shinobuplayz huh

[@sheeshee5083]

​@@shinobuplayz ohh because Islam condemn homosexuality?

[@mariposaluna99]

I feel like Stewie was overwhelmed with everything going on with their dad plus the gift and it just all came out in that moment. I love these family vlogs

[@user-ze1dh1rx2u]

the compromise convo at 9:00 onwards is one great lesson & a hard pill to swallow in a healing parent-children relationship especially when both are growing & outgrowing things. i’m crying bc i’m going through the same shit 😭

[@Sushigabby]

i really appreaciated that talk too being the same age !!

[@Animerocker11]

"he serving the function of a dad so we're also giving that to him BUT he's also giving that to us" YYYAAASSS

[@shyjjj]

I teared up a little over you gifting stewie and him crying after receiving it. Will always love watching and supporting you and your channel stan! While I may just be a subscriber, I can see and am proud of how much each of you have grown! ❤ Ps. Steven has such calm but chaotic energy 😂

[@karanshukla7962]

I just love him so much

[@coldragon2001]

As a parent with a gay son, you guys have to understand that it also takes a lot change in mindset and adjustment on the part of the parent. In fact I had always thought of myself as a progressive thinker and accepting of different genders but hits different if it involves your children. So just give them a bit of time to get them to accept it.

[@julien5664]

❤

[@ElyMarasigan]

Lately, both of your parents are living alone.. and just visiting them once in a while, shows that you truly care and love them ❤️ Y'all are an inspiration to youngsters who moved out already, THAT they must not forget their parents' presence regardless of issues 🤗 Much love and support 🇵🇭💕

[@jingjing525]

Your dad is growing because of how good you and brothers are. All of you have such big hearts despite the trauma.

[@evxie3349]

14:19 the way steven was so happy about the cookie 😭😭 im so glad that your dad has had so much growth and seems really fortunate to have you guys as sons; he seems so happy now and so do you guys !❤❤ love you stan !!

[@sussybaka1100]

That’s Stewie idiot 😂❤

[@GeraldTheBookworm]

Your dad speaks like Steven. Hehe. This is such a heartwarming vlog Stan, my heart is filled with joy and NOT ME GETTING TEARY EYED at some parts????? We love your dad's character development! 🫶🏽

[@koalaantlernine1234]

(I'm a newbie subscriber.) So I want to know: Are three boys siblings, and are they all gays??

[@JohnCarlNicanor]

Nope only the two are gays while the other one is straight if I not mistaken.

[@abbykurosawa7997]

​​@@koalaantlernine1234 theyre all brothers yes, stan and stewie are gay, steven is the straight (eldest) one of them :) hope that helps!

[@koalaantlernine1234]

@@abbykurosawa7997 thank you, it helps a lot...😍🤩

[@chiaseed7974]

HAHA luv the pipino accent. -also pipino

[@cadgon7289]

Your dad has always seemed malambing, but his acceptance of who you are made his good points shine brighter. I hope his character development continues because it's been amazing to see how happier you guys have been around him and in general. 🙂

[@pekoeji]

the character growth on both sides is amazing, and hearing "i'm so glad we get to love our dad in this timeline" really brought me to tears, him showing growth and progress and genuinely trying to appreciate you guys after everything and you're able to be with him comfortably is so sweet! also love seeing all the brothers together! y'all's dynamic is so fun :3

[@koonshia]

it is lovely how we went from you telling us you were “uncomfy and scared” of showing your true self when your dad was around to this scenario where you and stewie can be yourselves around him too😭 i’m in tears, hope anyone in the comment section that’s dealing with something like this gets to experience it as well🤍

[@rectortayo4469]

It really fits different when you can really understand the whole scene with Stan’s dad without the subtitles since I’m a Filipino gay boy myself, the whole scene is just so touching and I’m really glad they were able to have that quality bond and connection as a family. I wish nothing but the best for all of us queers regarding our family circumstances and thank you Stan for this video!

[@azwaalislam]

You probably wont see this but I've been subscribed for 2 years now, started watching when there were like only 2 videos, and this video had me tearing up. I remember how much you and Stewie struggled and how you both did not have a close relationship with your dad. The growth in this video was so wholesome and heartwarming. I'm so glad you all can enjoy being around each other again and how can be more like yourself around him. Everyone in the video grew so much over the growth of this channel, EVEN STEVEN. Keep up the amazing work Stan! So incredibly happy for you all.

[@xaquariix]

Idk whether you know how much this video means to me and your fans. My dad is also Filipino, and he's just like your dad. I remember a time when he would get angry very easily. Now he's changed and he's still a hardcore Catholic but he is willing to listen to me and he shows that he cares for me. Thank you for this video Stan, I'm literally crying.

[@justnicole4030]

i love how through the entire video stan and stewie show such a range of emotions and steven is just :> the entire time nah but fr this video is so cute 🥹

[@gayleee3]

This is honestly one the most sweetest videos I've seen on this platform

[@july-fb5mq]

3:41 I started crying at this. It must a blessing for a parent to have changed and try to actually understand their children and love them for them.

[@rwtrwt14]

It's so nice to see how close you and Stewie are. I can see that you both lean on each other for both the good times and the bad times.

[@auspicious.emilia]

I think dad realize that he loves his sons very much and it could get pretty lonely without them. After all, family is our own bestfriend that will be there for us. We’re lucky if we have their company. Im so glad your dad accepted you guys’ gender identity!!💃🏻💖

[@jennyontheblock]

u mean sexuality?....i dont think they are trans...but i get what you mean hun lol

[@auspicious.emilia]

@@jennyontheblock ah yes,, i get pretty confused, now I understand lol thank u

[@Lucky-si4ih]

a well-deserved dad redemption arc! so wholesome!

[@thingl7859]

The giggles and the smiles and the hugs oh my goodness this video is overflowing with love

[@ambztata7335]

omg i’ve been waiting for an update on how things are going with ur dad i’m so happy that u finally get to be yourself around him and that he’s finally come to accept you. i’m so proud of how far u have come !!

[@dmybeloved]

I love seeing Stewie and Steven, their personalities are so different but they are so much fun.

[@stephiemendoza4599]

Hearing Stewie and Steve spoke some tagalog words with your dad.....naluha ako😢😢😢 So happy that everyone is happy as well and your dad already accepted you and stewie's gender. Nothing but an amazing family reunion ❤❤❤

[@hellomelaniee]

im living through you right now, i don't think i could ever forgive my dad bc he is a p3d0.... but i love how you guys are here for him and he is here for you and i hope the rest of your lives you have him in your lives bc this is so sweet!

[@golden_raisins]

Forgiveness is definitely not mandatory for healing 🤍

[@cheeryypop2045]

I'm sorry you had to go through that.. I was a victim when i was 15 .. that person passed away and i still haven't forgive him for what he did.. honestly i think p3d0phil3 just don't deserve our forgiveness..

[@dodoblah7090]

I long for a relationship with my father too, but I don't think I can morally forgive him for doing p3do and violent things to me as a kid. I hate it, it also put a strain on my relationship with my brother because he has been so brainwashed by my father. It hurts Stan's video really help ice the wound for me.

[@rtdt3721]

the sibling moment at 16:38 of stewie saying "i can hold it" while stan is Literally gifting it to him got me tearing up as a fellow younger sibling myself ;u ;

[@Papi_Churr0]

Omg 🥹 the way he is absorbing the things his sons say like a sponge, he is dedicated to growth, that's beautiful for a father 😭

[@Pochopo]

Watching them mend their relationship with their dad has really inspired me to also become closer with my dad. My dad is the type of Filipino dad who’s always been more authoritarian and traditional, and being 2nd gen born in the US, I feel like we never saw eye-to-eye with our values. We’d always get into verbal fights when I was growing up, and I always thought we’d never get along for as long as lived! But as I’m getting older and am now living on my own, i realize how much I really mean to my dad. Now we both are trying to find compromise and do things that we both enjoy, like going grocery shopping together or going fishing! This series has honestly helped me so much 🫶

[@im_hannis]

this genuinely made me cry. ive never really had a close relationship w my parents particularly, hoping my dad becoming that in the future gives me more motivation and hope currently. i love this channel as this is like my comfort zone, ily stan and hope ur whole fam does well ❤

[@maer5429]

your more emotional videos always are so well done with a lighthearted feeling but also a serious one when needed💜love you Stan!

[@MACATON]

The fact that the title is “dad” now and not “homophobic dad” anymore. BRB CRYING

[@stairysky]

How is kuya Steven just naturally, effortlessly funny 😭

[@thirrinwildcat]

Having a parent that is willing to learn and grow and then put in the effort to do so is always a heart warming experience💖💖 I am so glad you've all been able to grow and spend time together!!

[@novi_chique]

So proud of how far you have come with your journey ,I hope to be able to come out someday ❤

[@vessel_iii]

Stewie crying because he got a plushie got me crying aswell man thats adorable

[@a-okaye]

The energy shift from the past videos with your dad is so so nice to see 🥹 im genuinely so happy for you guys

[@saintc7790]

Bro, this is a blessing! You got me sitting here proud of your whole family. I hope that each day brings y’all closer together, in the most respectful and loving ways.

[@AwsomeasIce]

2:06 Steven basically on his "I ain't scared of no damn body ❤". Lol love him 😂

[@Pandasqueen12]

Nah cuz why is Steven so funny without even trying, i'm really happy for you guys and the relation with your dad

[@amalilconfused]

The waterworks just started at 17:00. I never knew it would be so touching to see Stan buying presents for his brothers and his Dad.

[@noah1502]

the growth is beautiful!! you are good hearted people for hearing him out, giving him a second chance, not looking at his words through a microscope and trying to understand him etc. im sure you wont agree on everything, but theres a lot you can bond with!! wishing that relationship soooo much growth.

[@ExcellentExtraordinary]

This was incredibly healing to watch. May your relationship continue to mend and grow. I think it’s clear that your dad really loves each of you and you love him.

[@Multi-A]

I love how steven is just... there. along for the ride.

[@lourdespearlina]

STOP- I love you brother coming in after your dad got you and Stewie your present like - he didn’t buy me anything 😭😭

[@AwsomeasIce]

I always love seeing the family activities when that'd the video topic but this one was so special. Knowing how awkward the visits were not even 3 years ago compared to the more chilled out one now is so amazing. Your dad's growth and genuine effort is so good to see. Thanks for sharing this with us Stan ❤ (all of you continuing to be laugh out funny keeps me going every Wednesday 😂).

[@Valentino016]

I ACTUALLY KINDA MISSED YOUR DAD SO MUCH IM SO GLAD HE IS SUPPORTIVE ❤

[@cassiadsouza709]

I'm so happy for your dad. Hope he and all of you continue to grow and learn. This genuinely made me so happy and gave me hope in improving my relationship with my family.

[@jayvensokul]

The growth and affection is radiating in this video. One of the best videos hands down. ❤️

[@icantblameu9611]

im lowkey getting so emotional to see your dad PRAYING cause hes so happy to see you guys its honestly so emotionally happy too see that he really appreciates being with you guys i see a lot of growth with him and his sons which is honestly the most wholesome thing ever. I really hope you guys hang out a lot more together 🥰🥰

[@lovehate73]

This video made me so emotional. It’s so nice to see everyone getting along and loving each other. Thank you for always sharing your life with us. ❤

[@manaricelle]

Okay now why do you have me crying like thiiiiiisssss. Hearing your dad have that moment and everything and then express appreciation for yall being there, thats so moving. I wish y'all nothing but love and happiness. Also, I live for whenever Stewie starts voguing and dipping! Y'alls energy is so fun. I love the love you three have for each other.

[@WordsByShayma]

I really love how Steven is calm and collected and loved seeing him in the video! 🫶🏻 hopefully he’ll be in more videos too 🤍

[@Gambit19900]

Crying rn.. happy for the progress you’ve made as a person, as a loving son to your parents and ofcourse as a wonderful sibling. This video makes me want to forgive my dad 😢

[@Rat2736]

This might be one of the cutest videos every from Stan and I love how they all try there best to communicate with each other like the dad being more supportive and the Stan, Stewie, and Steven trying to respect their fathers beliefs this video shows that even though you might not have a great relationship with a parent you still love them and you want them to support you and you will support them!! 🫶🫶

[@gracetheleopard7483]

smiling for 20 mins feels so good

[@el713]

please enjoy spending time with ur dad as long as u can

[@sinjita2406]

It's always chaotic energy when you and your brothers are together love your videoss so happy that your dad is accepting you💗

[@xxaavviieerrrrr]

it's so nice that your brothers and your dad try to understand each other its so sweet 9:12

[@MikaTray]

This just warms up my heart! He evolved much and trying to understand you guys.. That's so sweet! Love y'all and your whole fam videos! Stay like you are! (everytime I'm eating somewhere I be like: SALAD FIRST!!! or smth like DA FUQ or SHUTUP!

[@shaneabenoja1940]

“yung pagaaral mo stewie wag mo pababayaan” huhu, it melted my heart

[@JerrelBaumann]

I'm actually tearing up because I see how genuine your father is now and how you guys are starting to love each other and spend more time with each other! ❤

[@dentedcarrot7464]

its been so nice to watch stans journey of healing his relationship w his dad, the difference from this video to the first one you ever did with him is so crazy! so proud of all of yall

[@abyssstudios5097]

I'm not gonna lie I cried a lot while watching this. Thank you so much for this heartwarming video. It means so much to me, and I'm so so happy for you guys. I hope one day my dad and I can be like this again.

[@kodzu2987]

14:06 THE FACT TYAT THE “WOOO” echo doesnt stop until he talks for 4 seconds after LMFAOO..

[@rtdt3721]

immediately stopped everything i was doing to watch this video. am about to watch this journey but just wanted to send the biggest hugs to stewie (and the rest of the stan fam!) before starting happy pride y'all!!!

[@BREATH0FTH3M00N]

I remember when you guys were like legit so worried about your dad and I’m so happy to see the growth and seeing how happy stewie has been since moving out is amazing I’m so happy for you guys!

[@feehi_2275]

happy to see this. You can genuinely see that hes worked so much on himself and its so genuine. Im so happy for you guys. Im praying one day i get to experience this with my dad.

[@eventuallyy]

Watching this growth gives me hope for rebuilding my relationship with my mom❤ I love seeing you guys loving and supporting one another

[@annisaautami]

i'm so fckn happy for your relationship with your dad! how you guys grew up makes me emotional too!! like, i wish i could be closer to my dad as well :(

[@jazz624]

The serotonin this vid gave me is otherworldly!! Happy for you and your family Stan!!

[@cacahueteschamuscados]

i just love how ur dad was so happy and excited that y'all went to see him, he was trying his best to make y'all notice how happy he was, i love it

[@AwsomeasIce]

18:58 Steven in his rich boy era 😂

[@mooncxke9706]

this is such a sweet vlog😭im glad y’all and ur dad were able to spend time and it’s nice to see how people can grow in different aspects🫶

[@hoorayforliving]

Very happy for you guys

[@aliyah.bouziane]

i absolustley admire your relationship with stewie because if reminds be of my relationship with my older sister and i am so grateful for her. I am also super proud of all of you guys and your relationship with your dad. you've come so far and this video really hit close to my heart. Love you guys and I will be praying for more moments like this for your family

[@salembookworm]

So wholesome to see your dad had some character development! God bless y'all.

[@justfandomthings]

the videos with your dad never fail to make me cry :(

[@elle0009]

7:03 IM DYING I CANT PLS HELP ME (also I LAV U STAN U WILL ALWAYS BE MY COMFORT KZbinR)

[@sangeetha5912]

i was doing a stan rewatch marathon and i cried again watching all three of y’alls relationship with your dad because its so wholesome and as someone who doesnt have a great relationship w my dad myself, this is so beautiful and sending only love your way.

[@ecks081]

Loving the growth of Stan’s papa. Very happy for Stewie, such a sweetheart. Though stewie may not have good growing up memories of his dad’s house, it’s good to know that his dad chose to have character development while stewie is still in his developing years. Very happy for the entire family. Way to go Papa Xtra! Lol

[@mibs1075]

These videos with your dad are making me so emotional 😭😭 I feel so happy for all of you 💕

[@avoidlien]

The way Steven closed his ears at 15:17 HAHAHAH

[@mikesdc5062]

This is kinda like the dynamic I have with my mom. We’re both are trying to understand each other and our differences, while also loving and learning from one another❤ your videos make me so happy and giving me optimism not only for you and your families, but for mine aswell💓 thank you Stan

[@_izbee]

THE GROWTH i couldn’t stop smiling the whole time i’m so happy for you all!!!! 💗😊✨😎

[@Andyisabeansprout]

This video legitimately made me tear up. I know what its like to have parents be hurtful because of religious reasons and its so beautiful to see a parent willing to learn and apologize for hurtful words. I hope your relationship just gets better💜💜💖

[@cntfromgod]

your father found what it truly means to love god and it has blessed him with open mindedness and love! Wish it was like this for everyone, this is real self reflection!