Dating Nightmare: Is Marcy Gonna End the Date? | First Dates USA

Can this Horror Date be saved? Darcy is ready to get up and leave.
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[@zosi726]

No long term relationship, never loved, has one kid - but when he says he has 3 kids, she is disappointed and amazed. What a gal.

[@tatskamaster]

And what's it with being so confrontational about the divorces, like jeez? Where is her apology? She automatically assumed that he was the problem, and didn't even seem to regret her words when he revealed that he was cheated on.. No wonder no-one has loved that woman yet. I hope she really learned something that night, and didn't just say so to de-escalate.

[@w.urlitzer1869]

she is in no position to judge.

[@NELSONandWIGGLES]

She was very obese before. Come on, who are we fooling here? She probably had a hard time of it because of her former obesity. I thought she was very pretty, kind & polite. However, the man right off starts body shaming & laughing about other women he dated - that is very unkind & rude!Only another shallow person would agree with his remarks.Yes, he did apologize - but too late - damage was done. He showed an unkind & rude side of himself. I also agree with her about being married 3 times! What is marriage to him? A big joke too?

[@johnsteelman3397]

And she has a kid out of wedlock see how that judgement thing works​@@NELSONandWIGGLES

[@RapidBlindfolds]

Projection for sure

[@LifeAdviceSite]

She judged the number of children he had, his age, and his past relationships... He’s not your type, cool, but we can still be human to each other...

[@etrebelle9812]

She was trying to understand, while he was just bragging about it

[@suzystone244]

She is HORRID.....YOU DO NOT INSULT...PERIOD.

[@Esoteric-ns2tz]

Let's just put it this way I can tell why no man has ever said I love you to her🤦‍♂️

[@lunarsabbatical7906]

She’s seems like one of those woman who’s too critical and judgemental and thinks she’s being honest

[@jayrudo6280]

I thought the same thing. She also needs to lay off the tanning saloon.

[@carleyanneart8068]

She seems highly judgemental of others, but refuses to accept anyone judging her. Interesting

[@chamboyette853]

Sounds like the women of today.

[@azaz911c]

These two are actually quite well-suited for each other. They're both a little "foot-in-the-mouth", but fundamentally nice people who could probably get along with each other. There's a weird chemistry between them, like a bickering old couple who can be genuine with each other.

[@alaalfa8839]

Grumpy old men movie.

[@navalfa7291]

Its too toxic.

[@makeapennycry]

He’s not a dream date but at least he was open. She was on guard and judgemental from the get go and felt she was a better person than him. He seemed nicer than her It’d never worked between them. Good luck to them both.

[@sergiomacias5145]

Yea she was delusional thinking she was a a catch. No guy has ever told her that they loved her and now we all know why.

[@RuPaulCharley]

She owed him a direct apology as well. They are both their own worst enemy. Except he can own up to it. My opinion he was too good for her.

[@cbeautifulworld11]

Agreed.

[@eXebeno]

she was an ageist

[@erics670]

I completely agree

[@Little_Devotchka]

I honestly think they both sucked.

[@andy42x]

bringing her turkey soup in a cottage cheese container sounds kinda sweet

[@jaynepride8646]

It does.

[@krisarbuckle]

Thats what I thought! Guy after my heart!

[@nanap7355]

I would love that , specially homemade.

[@natevic1867]

Yeah she sounds like a complete Karen. Very ungrateful

[@sm3296]

It would have been homemade, that’s very sweet.

[@tinarivas2283]

She was rude too .

[@ricksterk7014]

Down 110lbs.... you just know that's going back on

[@soundseeker63]

How can you judge someone for having failed marriages when you've never even had a marriage...? At least he has tried! When you are dating in your 40s and 50s you have to be realistic in that people by that time in life have some history and some baggage. This lady needs to chill out and not pre-judge so much otherwise she'll just keep on alientating people. Get to know the person, not just their statistics.

[@ydbetan]

Marcy us judgmental but can’t take the heat

[@daniellemcguinness4815]

She was really judgemental, not an open person. I am guessing she does not have a perfect past!

[@Tekno2012]

perfect past? are you kidding? 49 yo chick that has never had a serious relationship means something is wrong.

[@susannadvortsin]

Shes too much. She's not datable.

[@sabbottart]

He’s got this Steve Buscemi thing going.

[@antwto8784]

I was thinking somebody from the Sopranos or some italian movie

[@icebergstorm]

​​@@antwto8784 definitely got the (retiring) italian new yorker mob vibe 😅

[@cbeautifulworld11]

The end, the rejection time, was the best part of this date. They were both so lovely and kind to each other, genuinely willing to see where they went wrong, especially him as he actually apologized while she went about it a little more ambiguously and did not directly say that she was sorry. Worth watching to the end to see their better qualities shine.

[@MatthewNY94]

This one was kind of tricky. On the one hand, she was rude right away and immediately shot him down for his age and past marriages. On the other hand, I'd be warey of someone who was married 3 times before already as well. But they both could have handled themselves way better, but it was nice that they at least mutually agreed they were both in the wrong.

[@samoday2992]

Hes been married 3 times while she dates younger guys ! Does that mean its ok for her to go out and get banged by loads of guys while hes been in 3 committed relationships . I met a woman once who told me she had been on 40 dates from the internet…..

[@TomNook.]

@@samoday2992 there's no denying there is a huge bias re: mens and women's standards in society.

[@TomNook.]

Its ironic because men are vilified on social media for refusing to date single women, yet the hordes seem to understand when women don't want to date a man with previous baggage. Always double standards.

[@lavinder11]

​@@samoday2992 This older woman is triggering y'all tonight.

[@w.urlitzer1869]

He is 58, it is normal to have a past at that age. Paradoxically at that age BOTH would have to compromise a lot while older people get less flexible.

[@AdamFrancisco]

She’s in no position to judge him. He is more desirable to women than she is to men.

[@britlew5933]

Two people that have been hurt and they are so guarded that it stands in the way of a connection.

[@kaycampbell8532]

It started out rough but when he was so humble and apologized, that just melted me. I thought he was so nice. Life scars all of us, it also molds who we become. Sometimes we end up better for all the pain. Sometimes we just become bitter.

[@vanna13v]

She's so unselfaware it's ridiculous! She lies to herself instead of being nice. She's had no ability to understand how she treats people makes them feel. He's very polite.

[@cbeautifulworld11]

Couldn't place who he looks like until now - he has Ray Liotta eyes.

[@padelicious9093]

She needs to love herself before someone else can love her in a healthy way. Good luck to them both

[@khalidsamu]

I love how she is judging but she has a kid as well meanwhile she never had a relationship

[@lifeaccordingtotheo9643]

Tbh, that is what marriage is about. Being able to call each other out, apologize, and realize your weaknesses so you can refine yourself and get better. So I think they made more progress than the average date.

[@laurastuart3814]

I disagree, marriage is about knowing when to keep your mouth shut.

[@Myview246]

Wow she has VERY negative energy. No offence but I can see why shes never been married. He has flaws too but at least hes big enough to apologize.

[@ashley96734]

I agree. She seems to desperately want a man to love her but has zero self awareness, accountability, and cant get past her own insecurities.

[@duvine3882]

He dodged a bullet; someone who is brutally honest by admission being hyper sensitive without clearly apologizing is an oxymoron.

[@jasminaj3682]

Him not wanting to date a heavier girl is completely fine but the way he talked about a woman's body is completely degrading and unacceptable. She had her guard up right off the bat and killed any chance of just having a nice evening early on. I can see why both of them are single tbh.

[@PROVOCATEURSK]

Do you want to live in a world where you try to not hurt anyone´s feelings 24/7?

[@pleun315]

@@PROVOCATEURSK yes 😃🙏❤️ love and respect is what this world needs right now !

[@richcampbell6808]

She was rude to him from the beginning. She needs therapy.

[@magrebtraveler]

I appreciate that they both could apologize and move on.👏🏻

[@samoday2992]

Im not into big women . Its a sign of laziness .

[@DanFontaine]

It's fascinating watching someone project their insecurities. It's clear as day in this episode. It amazes me how many people don't know how to interact with others.

[@Sokman00]

He looks incredible for 59!

[@TheVeggiekat]

I would have guessed he was older.

[@ritadonnelly8820]

yea 😮😮

[@jasonbarney4278]

Marcy, I’ve been told the exact same thing, that I overshare. My new motto is “I’m gonna be myself all the time and the right one will find my oversharing adorable!” ❤😂😂❤

[@JLili12]

I don’t understand her judgment about being weary he’d been married 3 times, it would make me weary that she’s never had a serious relationship or had any man want to live with her… don’t throw stones if you live in glass houses!

[@angelsweet9611]

She shouldn’t have said all that 😮

[@lavinder11]

You don't know if anyone wanted to live with her or not, just that she said she hasn't been in a serious relationship. For example, I've been proposed to thrice and all three wanted to live with me, but I declined. Based on what you said about ole girl, you'd assume something was wrong with ME even though I was the one who turned those guys down.

[@rohananya]

Never had a serious relationship……. whose children did she have …… immaculate conception ? 😂😂

[@zachbowman9396]

😆😆

[@siddaye]

Both of their approaches are horrible awful

[@jasminaj3682]

This date was always gonna be a train wreck because they're both going about dating completely the wrong way haha

[@tomfoolery342]

That fool said "Her azz is the size of two NBA basketballs", I died laughing!!

[@julzjenkins4322]

She's very judgmental on something she's never experienced

[@tinipants2]

not at all he’s a pigeon

[@jujubegold]

I was just going to say that! For someone who just lost over a hundred pounds I’m sure she’s felt judged by her weight so she should at the very least not be rude and call him out. You can see judgement written all over her face. He’s not perfect by far. But she irritated me more.

[@angelaknox]

What are you smoking?

[@Johanna-qf1yx]

She’s too edgy and that’s why she’s single.

[@etrebelle9812]

She seems great to me

[@TomNook.]

Here's the thing - as you age, you gain life experiences, and thus are more discriminating for any future potential partner - because they can't be [insert 100 attributes of previous partners]. Simultaneously, as you gain such life experiences, you also create more baggage for yourself, and the reputation that goes with it. That's why in general its actually much harder to meet "the one".

[@JLili12]

He’s so nice, I hope he finds someone ❤

[@mame-lomamee]

He already found 3 different ones 😂😂😂

[@Dixiesgirl00]

Anyone else immediately think “sopranos” for some reason when they look at this guy 😁

[@tonyaziz8820]

Shes the one with the attitude from the start it was written all over her face

[@jamesperreault4506]

so she puts him down for being married.3 times but gets pissed when he does the same to her..

[@francinejones2524]

To be honest Marcy you should have given him a 2nd date. You may actually be suited to each other.

[@simonscowled9925]

Man: no filter but not malicious Woman: bitter? Maybe unrealistic? Good luck to you both

[@massurname7940]

Well said

[@carolinekamya2339]

downhill from here...

[@etrebelle9812]

I see the opposite

[@sanicthehedgehog1260]

Shes pretty immature and rude to run to the bathroom to call someone for reassurance instead of making her own decisions on what she wants.

[@s.m.7635]

I think the producers tell them to do tht because it happens almost every episode

[@MatthewNY94]

Yeah I think they have them do that as a way for the audience to know what they're thinking and how they feel about the date.

[@massurname7940]

And she's 49, isn't it shocking lol

[@amam-qq5jc]

Oh come on she looked at him like she didn’t want to be there and then about the age and the marriages, and then acts sensitive about the weight comment. She shouldn’t date!!! I like him!

[@281189ism]

Woman who has never been married or in a serious live-in relationship judges guy who's been married three times. OK. Wonder why she's perennially single

[@belindahopkins-leigh9193]

I thought exactly the same

[@durrr1007]

They’re both huge red flags, never being married or living with someone and being married 3 times both are bad. But don’t ever comment on a woman’s weight

[@Tekno2012]

49 & never been in a serious relationship before. Chick needs to buy a cat and call it quits. She would only make some guy miserable. He dodged a bullet on that one.

[@AndyUK-Corrival]

I hope they split the bill… her apology was a little light on sincerity.

[@NavigatingAcademia]

He definitely is a bit awkward, but that woman seriously needs to get an attitude overhaul. Woah.

[@s.m.7635]

Oh gosh this is atrocious. They very clearly should end it here because there is zero hope for ANYTHING just go home. Dont need to sit there and talk more

[@1farahnaz]

I think she started on the wrong foot. He seemed open and willing to let his guard down but she already came in angry it seemed? I think they both are lovely but some professional help from a therapist would do her a great favor. Might even see a psychiatrist for her mood/overall state of mind. Also, at her age it's not that crazy to have a 10 year gap while dating and it's also not crazy to have a divorced person in front of you. Instead of showing interest she just shut him down with judgement. Wishing both of them the best.

[@ContrarianExpatriate]

I can see why she’s never been married!

[@steveh7487]

Have seen a few of these videos on this channel, am I the only one thinking it's weird that there's a camera that can record video AND audio in the bathroom? Seems like an outrageous invasion of privacy there....

[@RuPaulCharley]

They agree to it and sign the waivers. Plus they are only at the sink area. They are miced the entire time anyways. I would just not use the bathroom the audio is all recorded even w no camera 😂

[@zabag]

This is common here in North America

[@eagillum]

I actually think they prompt them to go make the call in the bathroom. I think it's something they have to do.

[@amberholland5561]

I think they would be good for each other! She’s being too picky!

[@McFraneth]

Poor man. Hang on in there.

[@spentlife]

Not hard to see why she's never had a relationship ...

[@jobella2656]

Is odd she thinks there is something wrong with him for marrying three times as the same can be thought of her for never been married.

[@tivvy9708]

Gotta love Marcy, she's in the can talking to a friend on the phone. She says, "oh god, he's worse than my last date who brought me turkey soup in a cottage cheese container". 😂😂

[@aldfjak]

want the truth? the dude picks wrong women and then hates women instead of fixing his lousy attitude. and just cause someone isn't skinny, doesn't necessarily mean they don't take care of themselves. and she also shouldn't stereotype people who have been divorced. the guy is almost 60, he isn't 30. every 60 year old in America has baggage get over it. it is more important to know WHY the divorce happened, in his case the women cheated on him so that is a legit reason for divorce.

[@padelicious9093]

I totally agree.

[@susancross5192]

Most men these days say the woman cheated on him or we`grew apart` when they were just impossible to live with and drove their wives away.

[@purplekennedy]

omg he looks sooo young!! 58yo no way

[@travmarquee3213]

Every single episode I’ve watched the woman has denied a 2nd date and the man has been open to a 2nd date. Even a women at her age, still waiting for Prince Charming and being hyper judgmental.

[@TA_Tactics]

This is car crash-train wreck material, but it's impossible to look away.

[@deadeyes4626]

“You told me too much” 💀 *the irony* why would you ever admit too this..couldn’t water board that 💩 out of me

[@akirrat9216]

They're perfect for eachother.

[@metime4325]

At least he apologized.

[@danoulo28]

What a nice straightforward dude

[@jayyoung3976]

I understand why people on these first dates are still single! I feel like Iam watching middle schoolers! The lack of social grace in the over 40 crowd is unbelievable!!!

[@oanamunteanu4744]

Married 3 times, 3 kids and he criticises women body 🤦‍♀️😬😳 No, no, no 😅

[@mtbiker4life918]

What's wrong with that? Why can't women be held up to standards? .

[@Tekno2012]

but its ok for her to reject a short guy right?

[@mtbiker4life918]

@@Tekno2012 what she doesn't know is he can hit the gym, boost his income, and up his status as a man giving him more options. She, thinks she can always do better but her match is sitting across the table and the pickings get less and less.

[@zachbowman9396]

@@mtbiker4life918 Exactly cause she sure was judging him the moment she layed her eyes on him .

[@sergiomacias5145]

Remember fellas, according to women, guys can’t have preferences like women can

[@jonsantos6056]

haha this guy could be in the movies, a blend between Steve Buscemi and Joe Pesci

[@AiramAvilsa]

Honestly- she aint no prize. Maybe there's a reason why she never had a relationship

[@dianecarman1979]

Shes never been in a serious relationship? She's so tense , has walls up immediately.

[@traceytansley1659]

They both have a lot of baggage. You can see deep pain and hurt and distrust, at same time as hopefulness, but you must find self-love and self-respect before trying to find these qualities from another. If they both work on that within themselves, they should be able to find someone to share their lives with. They both are too fragile and too sensitive ; overly and easily hurt because they lack confidence and self esteem. I wish them luck and love.

[@streaming5332]

They're arguing before they even know each other.

[@Abcxyz-12340]

He should have walked out way sooner

[@ppumpkin3282]

I learned when I was young that it was good manners not to talk with food in your mouth. But no one on any of these dating shows in any country does that. What am I am missing?

[@mnc365]

He reminds me of Al Bundy from Married with Children. Fun to watch, horrible to live with. But the woman is just insufferable. No redeeming qualities.

[@Little_Devotchka]

Everyone in the comments saying she's a witch and he's too good for her when they both were very awkward and they were both mature enough to apologise and be amicable. What more could she have done? She owned her behaviour and that she judged too quick but was also honest and so was he.

[@foundnoone]

You wondered why he was married three times but then he started talking I can barely get through the video

[@ashley96734]

I feel like she may have unrealistic expectations, deep rooted insecurities, and a problem with accountability. They both hesitated when asked about another date and I think she took his hesitation as a no prompting her to say no.

[@siemensohm]

That guy looks 100% like an actor from some italian mafia show. Hollywood missed a diamond here.

[@nickbargas7352]

"if I can be brutally honest I would NEVER date a man that has been married 3 times". That sounds to me like it's a wrap!

[@zikannoli]

But she also hasn’t been in a relationship so stop judging lol

[@hekate1971]

If a guy was bodyshaming i d leave. I don t do that. Its says everything about a person.

[@erin2080]

This is a train wreck Lolol

[@hamidrahman120]

If that was me, I'd walk out the back door before paying...she is horrendous

[@jennm5675]

Holy Ray Liotta I didn't like him at first but he won me over in the end (well when he apologized really). Seemed like a nice genuine guy just looking for someone to love.. like everyone else

[@backstagewithcaitlin]

she's projecting her insecurities so much lol

[@NinaKarmen]

At least he knows what marriage is lol

[@seanabernethy5345]

She has never been married and has never been in a relationship I would run

[@shanfarco1574]

They were both super judgemental. At least he was big enough to accept it and apologize. If shes looking for love she needs to learn how to compromise.

[@Teenywing]

Marci is a karen

[@keralytekid]

If Steve Buscemi's character from The Wedding Singer was real, he'd be that guy.

[@reneegoldberg3580]

She’s going to be alone if she doesn’t stop being so rude, she thinks it’s funny he’s been divorced so many times, some may think it strange she’s never been married, never had a man say I love you not even her child’s father, she needs to lighten up.

[@BeautyBeauty-di8xq]

And when you continue to judge you’ll never have a man look you in the eyes and say he loves you.

[@georgeawestjr.9087]

This evening was a train 🚂 wreck right from the start. 😁🥴🤣🤪😂

[@zchoicez]

I thought he was nice. I didn't quiet like her..

[@derrickmapp2391]

i wish she would have given him a chance but i understand that that was quite a rocky start to overcome. they both seem a bit "stuck in their ways" and sensitive about romantic partnering due to their pasts. hopeful that they both get another chance to match with someone.

[@gandalfthegrey9277]

They are both stereotypical americans for their age XD

[@siddaye]

They are both messing things up for themselves in the situation smh

[@cbeautifulworld11]

Gandalf The Grey Not true.

[@MikeC77]

What did she expect, the guy is 58, is he supposed to have no history? She is super uptight. Dodged a bullet there my friend.

[@ogunshineyoureye]

this guy reminds me so much of america splendor Harvey Pekar