Five Things Not To Do When You Are Anxious

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Douglas Bloch

Douglas Bloch

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In this video, author and depression counselor Douglas Bloch shares his experience of five this NOT to do if you are anxious. This video is the companion to his popular video, "Five Things Not to Do When You Are Depressed." • Five Things Not to Do ...
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@bronzesilvergold118
@bronzesilvergold118 5 жыл бұрын
Anxiety always convinces me I’m losing my mind and becoming psychotic but once it’s over I know it was just that
@misfitstranger
@misfitstranger 5 жыл бұрын
I’ve been on Lorazepam for about 7 months now. Trying to ween off of it with my doctor’s assistance. Some days I wake up and know immediately that I need it. Other days I don’t so I see how long I can go. When the anxiety is there I cannot imagine life being normal or good. Everything seems unmanageable and I’m convinced I’m going to lose all I have (including my kids) and end up in a psych ward for months on end. When the medicine is in my system and I’m feeling completely normal I cannot imagine how life could be that bad. I simply cannot stand feeling like I’m losing the ability to cope with everything, like I’m losing my very mind. It’s a hellish way to live.
@paulrenz3630
@paulrenz3630 5 жыл бұрын
We’re the same :(
@joshuagallup3005
@joshuagallup3005 4 жыл бұрын
I’m the same way, but I TRY to make it into something funny, like the time I was light headed and dizzy, I thought for sure that was the tipping point, turns out I was just hungry then I made a sandwich and I was just fine. The Sandwich saved me! Praise the sandwich gods!!!
@kayreece96
@kayreece96 4 жыл бұрын
Yes i have this really bad and it ruins my life. I also have existential ocd and some other ocd(s) so it gets WAY too much and i think im done-zo for good. Like i finally snapped and I'll never come back.
@marioavila9021
@marioavila9021 4 жыл бұрын
Allen Combs has it helped alot
@addapavan5200
@addapavan5200 3 жыл бұрын
1) don't use self medication recreational drugs 2) don't worry alone 3) 4:38 Don't spend too much time in future or futurizing. Come back to the present. Refocus your attention in the present moment. That future is not even real. Come back right here into your body and into the present. 4) avoid overexposure to the media. 5) don't over-think your symptoms or research them on the internet. Realise that you are spending energy on something that's not even real
@franzbeckenbauer7170
@franzbeckenbauer7170 Ай бұрын
Amen to number 4!
@BrittleyKdall
@BrittleyKdall 6 жыл бұрын
i am an recovering alcoholic​ at the age of 21. I have suffered from anxiety, depression and worthlessness since i was a baby. thank you for these videos
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 6 жыл бұрын
You are welcome. Good work on your sobriety. With some good therapy, you can overcome those feelings of worthlessness.
@johnkennedy8795
@johnkennedy8795 3 жыл бұрын
God bless you
@Glory-to-God.
@Glory-to-God. 5 жыл бұрын
"Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid." John 14:27
@oliviacadena2036
@oliviacadena2036 5 жыл бұрын
😇😇👍👍👍👍👍❤💛💚💙
@spa576
@spa576 5 жыл бұрын
❤️
@Fangmarks82
@Fangmarks82 3 жыл бұрын
Amen in jesus name❤
@mconner427
@mconner427 4 жыл бұрын
I, like many of us right now, have been suffering from pretty severe anxiety during Covid and this hostile political environment and you have seriously hit the nail on everything for me. Thank you!
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 4 жыл бұрын
You're welcome.
@keeperoflostsouls13
@keeperoflostsouls13 6 жыл бұрын
All very good ideas. I had to stop watching/reading the news because it gave me bad anxiety. I've had to block people on Facebook as well for posting those horrible animal abuse and death stories. My anxiety is bad enough, and all those things just added to it. I hate anxiety attacks because they can feel like a heart attack, or cause asthma issues, or so many other things. Thanks for this video! Super helpful.
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 6 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome. I’m glad the video was helpful
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 6 жыл бұрын
It’s good to get your feedback. I am still sick and can’t leave the house. When I can I will go to the post office
@keeperoflostsouls13
@keeperoflostsouls13 6 жыл бұрын
Don't even worry about it. Take your time. Just focus on getting better.
@sandybryan533
@sandybryan533 5 жыл бұрын
Speaking this minute, I thought i was getting a stroke just now sigh
@roseb9819
@roseb9819 3 жыл бұрын
@@sandybryan533 I have those fears to, very terrifying.
@mattreckeweg6278
@mattreckeweg6278 5 жыл бұрын
You’re the man Doug
@yoongis.tangerine
@yoongis.tangerine 3 жыл бұрын
the jokes in the beggining makes me feel that everything will be fine. i love it 💕
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Humor is healing.
@azzyazeez
@azzyazeez 3 жыл бұрын
Right?? I felt so comforted. Almost like a dad trying to make you laugh to distract you from your thoughts much love ❤️❤️
@mandy3637
@mandy3637 5 жыл бұрын
Yep that’s me researching my health issue on the internet to the point of driving myself crazy. There is so much contradiction and miss information on there. I will endeavor to STOP 🛑 Thank you 🙏
@oliviacadena2036
@oliviacadena2036 5 жыл бұрын
Good for you!!! GBU 👍👍👍👍👍👍❤
@xyzv8640
@xyzv8640 Жыл бұрын
Those jokes at the beginning every time are the best :D
@themadhatter34
@themadhatter34 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Douglas this helped due to my extreme anxiety that now has taken over my life.i can't be near people without physical symptoms taking hold of me.i often fear that I am developing a personality disorder due to anxiety (which is ridiculous) but that's because I have been abused by a narcissist who's my father most of my young adult life right into my early 30s but until recently I have gotten away from the evil beast
@adamgeorgebrown7694
@adamgeorgebrown7694 Жыл бұрын
You always make me feel more relaxed. Thank you for the videos :-)
@hueso5071
@hueso5071 2 жыл бұрын
I’m guilty of over thinking my symptoms and researching on the Internet. At one point I thought I was about to have a heart attack because of a rapid heart beat caused by anxiety or that I was developing schizophrenia or psychosis. That was enough to cause me a great amount of anxiety. I really appreciate your videos, they’ve helped me a lot. I know it may take some time to get my anxiety/intrusive thoughts under control but I’m willing to do whatever it takes to get mentally healthy again. I’m glad there are people like you that are there to help those that deal with this mental disorder. Thank you.
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome. You can also reach out to a qualified mental health professional who can coach you on how to respond to these intrusive thoughts
@anniefitzsimmons4003
@anniefitzsimmons4003 5 жыл бұрын
I always say, My Mind can be a very convincing liar! Or .... Just because you think so doesnt make it true! Keep these in mind when you are reminiscing
@arbenkrasniqi9271
@arbenkrasniqi9271 3 жыл бұрын
You're a smart man, thank you sir
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 3 жыл бұрын
Welcome
@amysmith2205
@amysmith2205 4 жыл бұрын
I just watched 3 of your videos while going through a panic attack. Thank you for sharing your experiences in a way that gives us hope. Thank you so much for today
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Amy, one of my favorite names. There is always hope as anxiety disorders can be treated. Here is my most popular video on my channel. It is about anxiety. kzbin.info/www/bejne/e4SvY6ubfZqCopY
@amysmith2205
@amysmith2205 4 жыл бұрын
@@DouglasBloch Wow! I thought i was the only one who told people, NOR I OR YOU CAN TALK ME OUT OF THIS PANIC ATTACK. Also, i was just gifted your book as well! Your journey gives me so much hope.
@jacquelinemcintosh5067
@jacquelinemcintosh5067 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Douglas. The cold water actually did help me, a lot. The ice packs were frozen solid and I couldn't stick my face in the water, so I took a wash cloth, put it in the cold water and put it across the top half of my face, repeated when it got warm and kept it there until I calmed down from my anxiety attack. It took about 15-20 minutes. I also put my back against the cool bathroom wall. It also helped to put the cold cloth on my shoulders at the bottom of my neck. It slowed my breathing down a lot. What a relief! I'm going to teach this to my nephew. Much appreciated.
@vanishreemp6624
@vanishreemp6624 3 жыл бұрын
This video almost took half of my worries. Thank you sir. There are so many vedios on depression and anxiety but you give what exactly I needed.
@erdem1956erol
@erdem1956erol 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mr Douglas. What you are doing is a holy job.
@kylemos1088
@kylemos1088 4 жыл бұрын
Your channel has helped me tremendously with my first depressive episode at the age of 26. I am truly grateful and I feel like you have helped me more than I can describe and I feel myself getting better everyday and every week. You are God sent. Thank you.
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 4 жыл бұрын
You are welcome. Keep up the good work
@debindramainali6886
@debindramainali6886 4 жыл бұрын
You have helped me so much too Thank You sir Many Loves ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@timothyrothberry275
@timothyrothberry275 6 жыл бұрын
Following this guide can truly make or break my personal anxiety and the anxiety of others. Good stuff Douglas.
@SpartanRelic79
@SpartanRelic79 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so grateful to you and so many others. I’ve only watched a couple of your videos and already feeling more at ease. Thank you for making these videos :D
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 2 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome. I’m glad videos have been helpful.
@snoopy22560
@snoopy22560 6 жыл бұрын
This Video really helped. Thank you so much. I am always reading the bad news and was making me really depressed and not wanting to see anyone or go outside.
@sholeh4334
@sholeh4334 10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this very important and valued information.
@gregorylazo9868
@gregorylazo9868 Жыл бұрын
Douglas gives practical advice in 10 minutes what others spin for hours.
@lyricduo
@lyricduo 3 жыл бұрын
I keep returning to this advice over the years. Thank you for making this. ❤️
@kevinmcmanus6466
@kevinmcmanus6466 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you . All are valid and I have experienced a greater anxiousness than needed to be.
@OscarGonzalez-ep7mc
@OscarGonzalez-ep7mc 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you your awesome your so much help to people like us i really appreciated
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 6 жыл бұрын
I’m glad the video was helpful. You might want to join me during my live chats on KZbin, every Wednesday and Sunday at 12 noon Pacific time, US.
@armincartoonist
@armincartoonist 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Douglas. Your videos are fantastic. One question though, what about too much "positive" media? Social media doesn't seem like a "bad" thing, but for a depressed individual, it can lead to a lot of insecurities and comparison. We only see the positive sides of other people's lives and therefore judge ourselves to be less worthy as a result. In addition, seeking validation can happen through notifications, wanting to be "liked", Tinder, Instagram, etc. I know I've struggled with this and many other people have as well, and I'm curious about your thoughts on it.
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 5 жыл бұрын
I agree with you. That is why I made this video called "Is Facebook Making You Depressed?" kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z3S1hpdvabidl9E
@couponmommilife
@couponmommilife 5 жыл бұрын
I'm guilty of googling my symptoms and medication side effects I have health anxiety I love your videos I was feeling so anxious I just came outside sat down and listening to u calmed me down thank you
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 5 жыл бұрын
I'm glad the video was helpful
@marioavila9021
@marioavila9021 4 жыл бұрын
coupon mommi life what is health anxiety, I do google a lot
@rebeccajones9757
@rebeccajones9757 Жыл бұрын
Not worrying alone is a great tip! I struggle with reaching out, but it does help.
@jamesharmer9293
@jamesharmer9293 4 жыл бұрын
I self medicated with alcohol for 20 years. When I ended up in rehab I was diagnosed with bipolar. These days I take prozac and go easy on the caffeine. Two cups of tea and I'm all over the place. I agree with you about not isolating. I recently met a lady who's also anxious, but when I'm with her, both of us are much calmer.
@markheithorn3905
@markheithorn3905 3 жыл бұрын
Hi James. When I stopped drinking 4 years ago, I went into a severe depression. I was put on Sertraline and went up to maximum dosage. In 8 weeks I went from Depression to Hypomania. Bang. Was diagnosed Bipolar 2. I know how tough it is to be a recovering alcoholic and live with Bipolar. Thanks for sharing.
@MrFlex1969
@MrFlex1969 6 жыл бұрын
good stuff brother douglas you help so much
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks.
@FullerUK
@FullerUK 6 жыл бұрын
Point number 3 is very true, agreed Doug. I've noticed that this is what often brings on my own anxiety. At least now I'm noticing it more and reeling it back in to the present! My therapist has recommended that I try grounding techniques i.e. looking at things around me, what I can smell, taste and hear, I'm hoping that this will help when I'm alone.
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 6 жыл бұрын
Your therapist has given you very good advice. Let me know what your experience is with it.
@DragonNestMP
@DragonNestMP 5 жыл бұрын
You can stop social media and be open to people and exercise 😀
@leighannmcgowan5239
@leighannmcgowan5239 6 жыл бұрын
Don't drink caffeine either makes me very anxious in my case .....I having a rough time lately ...I haven't cut myself in awhile but I did today ......now I feel ashamed ....I can't beat this illness sometimes I wish I'd just die in my sleep this is no way to live
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 6 жыл бұрын
Try to forgive yourself. As the saying goes, "Relapse is a part of recovery." Here is a person I interview about her experience of cutting. kzbin.info/www/bejne/nZrcnGetbtSfjqM
@SWildMF
@SWildMF 5 жыл бұрын
I hope you're doing better 👏
@keithnandin1053
@keithnandin1053 5 жыл бұрын
Leighann McGowan Trust me you are not alone. I hope this brings you comfort and I hope your doing better from last year
@cliffkonkle3467
@cliffkonkle3467 4 жыл бұрын
Hope you are feeling better LOVE YOU FRIEND
@nicolajc
@nicolajc 5 жыл бұрын
done 4/5 - sure did mess me up. Thanks
@yestoglobalpeace
@yestoglobalpeace 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, all these tips are very helpful. I got rid of my tv 3 years ago and now I google the news headlines or articles about medical conditions only occasionally. That alone prevents triggering or aggravating anxiety. Apart from all the other useful tips Douglas gives in his videos, it's the state of mindfulness that works most efficiently for me. However, that requires regular practice and perseverance!
@wolfblitzer1981
@wolfblitzer1981 6 жыл бұрын
Very constructive advice helpful and explained in an easy way
@kunela2275
@kunela2275 6 жыл бұрын
doug i absolutely agree with you thank u man . i just got your book dont stop i loved
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 6 жыл бұрын
Great. Let me know how you like the book.
@k.ravishankar5063
@k.ravishankar5063 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Douglas
@tariqreid1445
@tariqreid1445 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Douglas!
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 3 жыл бұрын
No worries!
@orianamosca6034
@orianamosca6034 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! Very encouraging! These videos help so much, more than you can imagine.
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 6 жыл бұрын
I’m glad that they are being helpful How have they helped?
@lorenheard2561
@lorenheard2561 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you once again!! God bless you and your family!!❤️🕊️☘️
@lorianne4608
@lorianne4608 4 жыл бұрын
Great information !! I will apply these techniques to my life. The depression and anxiety is very much debilitating at times. You are very kind!
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 4 жыл бұрын
You are welcome.
@nourmatarid2162
@nourmatarid2162 4 жыл бұрын
Just wanted to say I love your content and all of the jokes you come up with and share them in your videos, they are really helpful and make me smile. I also love all of quotes and positiveness in your videos. Gives me lots of hope. Thank you for taking the time to make and share these videos.
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 4 жыл бұрын
You're welcome. Thank you for your lovely feedback.I have also made three videos on coping with the pandemic
@lalaland6546
@lalaland6546 3 жыл бұрын
I always know that I only live once and until today, after years of anxiety and depression, yet through a gradual process, I could be able to live by it. Thank you for those wise advice, especially the one don’t spend time in the future when worrying.
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 3 жыл бұрын
You're welcome.
@einsteindarwin8756
@einsteindarwin8756 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Douglas! It's hard when you live in Washington DC and people expect you to be well informed.
@daves5443
@daves5443 5 жыл бұрын
This is everything I do. Thank you for the video
@Suraj_Mehra0211
@Suraj_Mehra0211 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the video sir. I will follow these 5 steps.
@CMoore8539
@CMoore8539 6 жыл бұрын
Excellent Information! Thank you.♥️
@1230sandrag
@1230sandrag 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! I have a fear/anxiousness about dying. My mother died when I was 11 years old because she was born with 3 holes in her heart she was also on the heart transplant list (obviously never made it) The last 3 years of her life I watched her struggle and she was deteriorating. She eventually died. Fast forward to me now (33 years old) I have been having heart palpitation issues. I thought I could have been anxiety however it had become worse. I would be relaxing and out of no where my heart starts racing (160-180 bpm) and would last anywhere from 5-45 mins. I would go to the ER but they said they couldn’t find anything wrong and it was anxiety. I finally went to see a cardiologist and he says it’s a short circuit in my heart that is causing this issue. There is surgery that can fix this and medication (that has terrible side effects and doesn’t stop it from happening completely) Every time this racing heart happens to me I really do feel like I’m going to die. I’m in constant anxiety and panic. I have reoccurring thoughts of dying and what if I end up like my mother (dead) What about my kids? And this this condition anxiety can make this rapid heart rate reoccur more. Literally, last year 2018 I was for the most part over all doing well (besides the occasional rapid heart rate) I was going to the gym, very social, worry free and now I feel trapped in this terrible place with my over all health and constant thoughts and feelings of dying 🤦🏽‍♀️
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 5 жыл бұрын
What happened to change your state of mind from doing well to ruminating about dying? There are psychologists and doctors that you can help you to change your thinking and brain chemistry. There’s also a book called brain lock by Jeffrey Schwartz that teaches a four step process to stop obsessive thoughts. Help is available.
@boldb4542
@boldb4542 4 жыл бұрын
I relate to this SOOO much; however for me, I just struggled without actual diagnosis and with a case of severe hypochondria. I really hope you feel and get better dear, it's just a miserable state of being and a mental ordeal to be so encased in that state of anxiety. For me personally, I trusted in God and over time my anxieties resolved a LOT, until I was just going along and didn't even realize I had gone immens long without being caught up in a shroud of anxiety. If you're open I'd love to encourage you to do the same ❤ You may even find healing for your physical issues. That's what happened for my mother 28 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
@caribbeantigress
@caribbeantigress 5 жыл бұрын
Also, If you suffer from OCD marijuana makes it worse.
@FoxinTaiwan
@FoxinTaiwan 4 жыл бұрын
Have you tried CBD instead of high THC marihuana?
@georgebsuh5144
@georgebsuh5144 4 жыл бұрын
it makes everything worse.
@abhisheks3283
@abhisheks3283 4 жыл бұрын
true.......
@kayreece96
@kayreece96 4 жыл бұрын
Gonna comment on this that i used it for a while bc i thought it was helping but eventually it just made me extremely paranoid and now 3 years sober i realize how much it had brought out anxiety and ocd
@megzzimmer4266
@megzzimmer4266 4 жыл бұрын
But, what about pure CBD oil without the THC (no high)? I heard that it is supposed to be completely calming. I would like to learn about it more though. Marijuana is legal in my country now, and I am not sure if that's a good thing.
@maggiebuehler8484
@maggiebuehler8484 5 жыл бұрын
Doug you are amazing as always
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks Maggie
@minisight2000
@minisight2000 6 жыл бұрын
Excellent video!!! Thanks for the wisom. I thought smoking weed would decrease my anixity the opposite happened! I had a panic attack on weed. :)
@jemgem9593
@jemgem9593 5 жыл бұрын
I wish I could attend your group but I'm in England! Will aim to order your book x
@Anonymous-bc6zl
@Anonymous-bc6zl 5 жыл бұрын
My problem is #2. What do you do when you have no choice but to live alone? How do you change the situation if you have no one and have to live alone?
@thatoneguythatlooksweird1746
@thatoneguythatlooksweird1746 3 жыл бұрын
I have anxiety everyday but this video helped me feel a little bit more calmer when I’m stressed!, thank you!
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 3 жыл бұрын
You are welcome
@binkybunsssss
@binkybunsssss 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your videos, Sir! I think I have anxiety and my coping would always be writing the worry over and over and over again. It should be helpful at first because it is a form of journalling. But the problem is I spend hours writing and rewriting the same things over and over. My notepads have become very thin since I always rewrite stuff. It calms me but at the same time takes away a lot of time and energy.
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 3 жыл бұрын
It sounds like he might be overdoing it. You should reach out to a counselor or therapist and talk about it with them and see what they can do to help you change your behavior
@binkybunsssss
@binkybunsssss 3 жыл бұрын
@@DouglasBloch thank you for your suggestion, Sir! 💙
@letsgoBrandon204
@letsgoBrandon204 5 жыл бұрын
Number 2 is tricky when you have social anxiety disorder. It's true though - I found that I was much happier immediately after I had been to see my therapist. I felt really happy and well adjusted, but it didn't last, it was gone by the next morning. I can't spend ALL my time with a therapist. It's not so bad at home because I have my parents to talk to (and the dog 😉), but it gets difficult at work.
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 5 жыл бұрын
It takes practice feeling comfortable around people. When I was younger I was very shy
@catherinegoldie3432
@catherinegoldie3432 5 жыл бұрын
Great video Doug💕
@ajc2208
@ajc2208 6 жыл бұрын
Great advice. Thank you.
@kingh2310
@kingh2310 4 жыл бұрын
Could you make a video on people who are really sensitive? How to toughen up and not let people get them down.
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 4 жыл бұрын
That's a good idea. There's a book that has been written on the subject called "the highly sensitive person" by Elaine Aron You might want to take a look at it.
@einsteindarwin8756
@einsteindarwin8756 3 жыл бұрын
I told my mother that about the news. Now we’re both anxious and nearly helpless. She never listens.
@chrisobrien6192
@chrisobrien6192 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 6 жыл бұрын
You are welcome
@nancygee3137
@nancygee3137 Жыл бұрын
I am disabled with tons of health problems. I spend so much time worried about when my dad dies, will I be homeless, go crazy, or end up in prison. I think about this so much to the point of wanting to take my own life before these things happen. I just want to escape the future so bad.
@sandhyanambiar6284
@sandhyanambiar6284 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Douglas Bloch. Very useful info. Greetings from India
@CreamyBeige
@CreamyBeige 6 жыл бұрын
I love the fact this comes from a place of knowledge. You have clearly experienced what you are talking about and it feels genuine. I have been watching your videos a lot lately. I don’t know if my problems are imagined or real as they cause physical symptoms such as fast heart rate, a feeling that I can’t breathe and back pain. I’m getting checked over by a doctor this evening but if this is my mind doing this - it really is a dangerous thing as you can get so wrapped up in what is going on in your head. I feel like I’m ready to cry at the drop of a hat too. Can’t wait to get better. My life has stopped. I wish everyone on here all the best, it’s nice to know I’m not alone.
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 6 жыл бұрын
I hope that you and the doctor can work out some good treatments.
@janishager9886
@janishager9886 3 жыл бұрын
I'm currently reading a book called The Emotionally Absent Mother, and learning that this issue (childhood trauma) can contribute to the extreme anxiety I experience as an adult. That said, have you written about this subject and/or posted a video? Thank you for this video, it's helped ground me during a very anxious time.
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 3 жыл бұрын
I did create a video called how healing old wounds can lead to depression and talked about childhood trauma in general. Here it is kzbin.info/www/bejne/pJXal4qondVnhKM
@TheYanbibiya
@TheYanbibiya 6 жыл бұрын
you are so right Douglas to point out the pros and cons. What I really like is your non judgemental information. Its very true that those of us with anxiety and depression and those of us treating those with anxiety and depression often have to both observe and experiment with all these pros and cons as well as apply -where possible-the evidence or mechanism behind the experience. i loved the media expression. so very true.
@robertjamesstove
@robertjamesstove Жыл бұрын
@Douglas Bloch, this is the first time I have ever heard depersonalization and derealization mentioned in connection with marijuana. I once took a small amount of it (unaware that it *was* marijuana) and the result was utterly horrible for me. The sensation was that of watching myself going wholly insane, yet being unable to do anything about it. Although fortunately I was able to sleep it off - and there were no subsequent problems of that sort - the experience was so sickening for me that no amount of money would prevail on me to undergo it again.
@swisshart1067
@swisshart1067 6 жыл бұрын
very helpful, thanks again!
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 6 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome.. I received your lavender oil. How do I use it?
@krish.5823
@krish.5823 4 жыл бұрын
Your work, expertise, and explanations, is the most helpful too me.
@johnmccann8319
@johnmccann8319 2 жыл бұрын
Great video Douglas.Keep well!
@chanphoieng1650
@chanphoieng1650 4 жыл бұрын
Right on mark. Thank you very much for your valuable advices. I am so much tuned in about my future and medications side effects that cause me very anxious.
@freestyleoldscool135
@freestyleoldscool135 5 жыл бұрын
You are right in a way........but not bloody easy......
@MrBungle900
@MrBungle900 3 жыл бұрын
“Don’t worry alone.” Listening to this whilst living alone and trying to survive with GAD & CPTSD in what has become a year long lockdown. ☺️😄
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 3 жыл бұрын
There are many of us who are dealing with the same thing. Can you talk to people you know on zoom or see a therapist or counselor on zoom or some other video platform?
@Allanwify
@Allanwify 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Very good video with very usefull advises
@kirturiba7128
@kirturiba7128 6 жыл бұрын
Highly beneficial . Thank you, Douglas.
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 6 жыл бұрын
You are welcome.
@melpancoast4
@melpancoast4 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 6 жыл бұрын
You're welcome
@milaaquariosoulinc4994
@milaaquariosoulinc4994 5 жыл бұрын
Thunder Wear!! Love it!
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 5 жыл бұрын
It is a cute joke.
@cccrisologo1641
@cccrisologo1641 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for all your help
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 3 жыл бұрын
You're welcome.
@sunilbhoire7783
@sunilbhoire7783 6 жыл бұрын
thanks
@ralfigs
@ralfigs 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you . You, this really helped.
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 4 жыл бұрын
You are welcome
@RomanGWatch
@RomanGWatch 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mr. Bloch
@elizabethseiden8386
@elizabethseiden8386 5 жыл бұрын
I like watching you tube celebrity gossip, but sometimes I get bullied on there. Yesterday, after I was bullied some women started to get on my team for support.
@natsdad07
@natsdad07 5 жыл бұрын
I do all of those...
@mushroomcomic897
@mushroomcomic897 3 жыл бұрын
I love this. Keep these videos coming!!
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 3 жыл бұрын
I'm glad they are helpful.
@rocbronson
@rocbronson 3 жыл бұрын
I'm beyond guilty of rule #5. I've tried to stop doing research, but it is harder than I thought.. I swear everything is wrong with me. I'm going to do my best to kick that bad habit..
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 3 жыл бұрын
I wish you well and change your habit. If you have a laptop you could turn it off and have someone hide it somewhere
@rocbronson
@rocbronson 3 жыл бұрын
@@DouglasBloch my biggest mistake is not being able to put down my smart phone. I am getting better, but as one thing gets better another arises.
@zgypsy8027
@zgypsy8027 4 жыл бұрын
The paintings (on the right) keep changing
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 4 жыл бұрын
yes they do
@caitalbuquerque149
@caitalbuquerque149 4 жыл бұрын
Lovely advice I'll follow your guidance
@mawmawlinna
@mawmawlinna 6 жыл бұрын
Very helpful!!!
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Linda.
@nathalei224
@nathalei224 4 жыл бұрын
Talking to another person... but Ilive alone and have close to 0 social contacts outside of work....
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 4 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you have people at work
@andremaccarini1656
@andremaccarini1656 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah that doesn't work for me. There isn't anyone that I would consider talking about such things. Hardly anyone would care. I just try to suck it up and keep going forward... It's been harsh sometimes but I'm still here.
@nathalei224
@nathalei224 4 жыл бұрын
@@andremaccarini1656 I dont really know how to help yoj. Maybe seek professional help?
@ericajane5465
@ericajane5465 4 жыл бұрын
André Maccarini I am so proud of you and am thinking of you...wishing you the best. Maybe try joining a support group or even a club of some sort? Sometimes you may be surprised to make a connection with someone :)
@roseb9819
@roseb9819 3 жыл бұрын
@@andremaccarini1656 I understand when I was alone I joined a Facebook group called Christians & anxiety/panic attacks, depression, mental illness support group. It was hard to talk up but seeing so many people with the same issues have been comforting. It may be a good place to meet people there. I'm not sure if your a Christian or not, but there might be other non-Christian groups as well, hope you stay safe
@JennyB957
@JennyB957 Жыл бұрын
Your mind is like a bad neighborhood you don't want to go there alone. That's a good one .
@Magnate1992
@Magnate1992 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing video. Great tips. Thank you. God bless. ^^
@carlosaguilar5175
@carlosaguilar5175 4 жыл бұрын
Very useful thank you
@mikedecastro9806
@mikedecastro9806 5 жыл бұрын
Solid info. Ty!
@Hot-1LE
@Hot-1LE 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your videos.
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 5 жыл бұрын
You are welcome
@elishasavino8554
@elishasavino8554 5 жыл бұрын
This video really spoke to me. I suffer from GAD and I have tried several SSRI meds that haven’t worked or given me terrible side effects. My doctor recently prescribed an anticonvulsant at a very small dose. Of course the pharmacist gives me 4 sheets of paper with potential side effects. Well here comes my anxiety. I’m still trying to work myself up to trying the medication.
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 5 жыл бұрын
What did the doctor prescribe you
@elishasavino8554
@elishasavino8554 5 жыл бұрын
Douglas Bloch Lamotigine, is generic for Lamictal. He wanted to start me off at 25mg and I said no. My anxiety got better for two whole months. I didn’t even have to take my Lorazepam. Then all of the sudden my anxiety came back with a vengeance. I woke up out of a dead sleep with vertigo and my heart racing. Now he wants me to try it again and gave me a 5mg dose. I’m terrified I will have another bad reaction or it will make me a zombie.
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 5 жыл бұрын
I am on Lamictal and it has been helpful. Work with your doctor to find what works for you.
@mrghostrecon8548
@mrghostrecon8548 3 жыл бұрын
After my Anxiety attacks start to subside i start sweating really bad 😢
@jennycook201
@jennycook201 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Douglas Very helpful thoughts! I like your analogy of worrying as being tantamount to visiting a bad neighbourhood without a friend! I wonder what your thoughts are about “brain wiring” for anxious and /or depressed people. I was told by a Dr many years ago “not to worry as anxiety usually strikes really sensitive nice souls”! My own thoughts are it is grounded in childhood, namely mothering/fathering plus individual personality (being a sensitive person).
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 2 жыл бұрын
I agree with your assessment. Our mental health is a combination of our inborn temperament interacting with thee environment in which we were raised. Nature plus nature. You might want to take a look at the book "The Highly Sensitive Person" by Elaine Aron.
@bobbyjohnson5637
@bobbyjohnson5637 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@DouglasBloch
@DouglasBloch 5 жыл бұрын
You are more than welcome
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