Explaining Divorce to Our 5 Year Old Daughter - She Surprised Me

[@piddly]

I’m not crying, you’re crying. Thank you Skyler for taking a really big topic and making it relate in a way that not only children can understand, but also adults too! Sending you and your family all the love.

[@letsgofather]

Thank you for watching! 🤗

[@erinsoper2514]

OK your crying, I'm crying anybody else crying? Skylar you are awesome, Jamie is also awesome, I love your co-parenting style. Thank you and yes Mrs. Doubtfire was my favorite movie and still is.

[@christine0418]

@@letsgofatherI cried this whole episode just because I know what you wanted for your family. To not be able to make her wish come true is very hard. That’s what really made me cry, they are all so young and will be okay as well as you. You both are beautiful amazing parents and I wish you all nothing but happiness and love!! That was a great way to explain to your 5 children that are 5 and I’m sure will see this one day. I can’t wait to see what the future holds for you all. Sending love and hugs 🤗 from sunny Florida ❤

[@debbiecrum7585]

Sometimes people look at children and think they cannot understand things like Divorce. Yet, given a good explanation that they can understand and being honest and truthful, kids can and will surprise you with how much they do understand. I am a retired teacher. I taught different grades but my best was preschool. Your right Skylar, 4 and 5 year olds are the best. They sure can be creative, entertaining and honest. My body would be tired by the end of my day with my students, but my heart was overflowing with love and happiness. You and Jamie are doing great.

[@elmoette11]

I think we are all crying

[@susanschultz8142]

Skylar, This was the best video explaining divorce. It should be made into a book or short film to be used for explaining to all young & not so young children experiencing their parents divorce. I'd be lying if I said I didn't shed a few tears. I sincerely hope your children including Shayden and Landon see the video. So proud of the way you and Jamie handle co-parenting.

[@libbyworkman3459]

The more I listen to Skyler talk, the higher my opinion of him goes. He always seems to say exactly the right thing to the children in the videos also. All the children are very lucky to have such wonderful parents.

[@RoadkillbunnyUK]

Make me cry why don’t you! So lovely. I wish my ‘kids’ (19 and 16 now) had a father like you rather than the deadbeat I inadvertently lumbered them with in regards to my ex husband. Your whole family, Jamie included is lucky to have a man like you. It’s not been easy and you have had many ups and downs but you haven’t wavered on being the best Dad and coparent that you can be.

[@kathiedel4647]

This made me cry, but so happy Daisy Kate felt free to express herself to her Daddy. And I imagine that all the kiddos wish this in their hearts. I love how you handled it. Love to you all!!

[@letsgofather]

Thanks Kathie! 💛

[@tinajanette7103]

Keeping it honestly simple is best. Daisy Kate smiled after your initial explanation and carried on being her own sweet self. Well done!

[@samg873]

Children understand more than we think

[@GreatScotts]

You are a great father, Skyler! We are so proud and grateful to have you in our lives. ❤❤❤

[@letsgofather]

Love you! ❤

[@DoctorJoanieTool]

Your family, @GreatScotts, is also a real inspiration for this world. With the same message. All that truly matters in this life is love - and the safety, respect and compassion that comes with loving each other unconditionally. I’m thrilled to have found both of your families (which is also one extended family) online and to follow along as you help the world become a gentler, more accepting and loving place. Gratitude to you all. ☮️❤️🌷

[@jodydark8102]

Hey Skyler please write a children’s book about divorce

[@LAT.MTL.]

Holy crap, bawling over here. Powerful video! Skyler you are a precious human and your children are so so fortunate to have you as their father. This simple explanation and parallels to Mrs Doubtfire is remarkable and awesome sauce.

[@letsgofather]

Thank you so much! 😊

[@jenniferbeas7220]

This is a beautiful way to explain divorce and how it's ok to be sad at times to your sweet Daisy. Many blessings to you and your family.

[@bk644]

That was a beautiful post Skylar. I was crying watching it but it was truly heartfelt. All of your and Jaimes followers fell in love with both of you and all of your kiddos so that's why most would love nothing more than to see you back together. But we also know that life happens. What a precious moment with your sweet Daisy Kate, and what a wonderful response you have her. You're doing great Skylar!

[@valarya]

You're such a wonderful dad. Truly. 💜I'm 42 years old and am sitting here sobbing wondering why my dad wasn't capable of saying words like this to me. Whew. Those are some lucky kids!

[@sherylheidecker9025]

I read the comments and thought I’m not going to cry and then you said the last part and now I’m having trouble seeing through the tears. What a sweet and tender way to explain a hard topic to Daisy and her siblings.

[@tonimendive566]

Skyler…I have followed since the quints were tiny, but rarely remarked. Today I must. Wonderful analogy…and even your first reply to Daisy was probably adequate…but worth repeating often to the kids for reinforcement. I was extremely sad for all through the separation…but now also find peace in your and Jamie’s choices. Stay true to yourselves and keep lovin’ ALL those babes…especially the nearly grown ones!

[@vjannelle723]

I love the daddy walk idea. Skyler I think you'd be a great parenting coach. Even being a father of a teenager, you are so wise in your parenting

[@2000calleen]

I went through an unexpected divorce 2 years ago. It was very traumatic to me and my 5 kids. My kids are older than yours but they have basically not had their father in their lives since then. It is really hard to understand. It is really great that your kids have their dad in their lives just as much as their mom. That is great parenting through divorce-it’s just hard when that’s not the situation that happens.

[@michellelea5065]

This made me cry Skylar. I hope you and Mommy could always be friends and have love for each other. All the kids come first. You have a beautiful family.

[@sandygeswaldo2245]

I was not ready for this video today. I cried many tears watching it. Skyler, you are so right and this video is a keepsake. Daisy, and all the kids will thank you for it one day. Thanks for sharing.

[@debbienowlin1268]

Wow😢

[@Kamarca]

I'm glad it's okay to cry, 'cause you just made me. Beautifully said! Skylar, I think you have at least one more children's book in you.

[@karenlloyd16]

What a beautiful way to explain divorce to your kids. ❤ Such a serious topic but there's a little part of me that can now imagine you dressed up as Mrs Doubtfire, knocking on Jamie's front door asking for a job.

[@kristianwillson6185]

What you said was wonderful!! I am sad you aren’t together anymore, but all of you are doing your best! I love your family.

[@susanrnbc]

Thank you Skylar, for being brave enough to share this in such a thoughtful, open, and honest way. You are absolutely right-families are not all the same, but as long as there is love, it is OK! Your sweet Daisy so innocently expressed her wish, and was just fine with your answer. You are doing a wonderful job parenting all of your kids-and I know it is not easy to be a single dad. I am thankful the kids have you and that you have worked out a co-parenting arrangement with Jamie that seems to be working for your family.

[@JennSafari]

I love this comment ❤️ Thank you for being so kind.

[@737poison]

I’m not crying, you’re crying. thank you for the words of wisdom i my self grew up with my grandparents an i understand the struggles

[@vanessavanderkramer6588]

Skylar, the way you explained loving children no matter what, is really beautiful and special, just like you. It was such an incredible moment so thank you so much for sharing that. You’re a wonderful dad, Jamie’s an amazing mum and you have seven incredible children together. Families come in all shapes and sizes but at the heart of them all should be love. You and Jamie have an abundance of love for your children and respect for each other. This vlog is truly special! ❤

[@letsgofather]

Thank you so much! 😊

[@surpriseme4275]

The hurts these children are or will experience is so profound that no Hollywood movie can repair.

[@darleneengebretsen1468]

Divorce is never easy on the kids or the adults, but living in a home where the adults can't get along is much worse for kids than divorce in most cases.

[@courtybear12]

Your children will always know you put them first, above everything♥️

[@sandraeckert2166]

OMG Skyler, you got me, over here crying like a fool. You are a wonderful dad and I love the references to Mrs. Doubtfire.

[@pamwalker1069]

Skylar, I love the way you used Mrs. Doubtfire as an example. Very nice.

[@ShinyNickelBlades]

That was such a beautiful way of explaining it. You have me in tears!

[@deedexter3807]

Omg. Skylar you are such a great father. ❤

[@Rccr6554]

Gosh that little girls heart was broken. Sometimes divorce is necessary, but most of the time compromise is avoided and spouses just take an easy out. The burden always falls on the kids.

[@kathleentayl]

Wow Skyler that was amazing! Yes I cried quite a bit. But I also smiled a chuckled a bit. You did a great job explaining that. It even helped an adult feel good inside.

[@CathyGreene-kf5dd]

Very special message to your children. All of us also. You should write a book.

[@JohanaFlores13]

Youre such a great father. This was so touching 😭🥺

[@elizabeththorson5184]

Skyler, what a beautiful message you shared today. Yes, it made me cry. I’m going to share it w/ my son and daughter-in-law, divorcing after being together for 13 years w/ 2 little ones, 2 1/2 and 4 1/2. Thank you. You’re children are very lucky to have you for their father.

[@rach_i]

Love makes a family. Thank you for sharing 💛

[@ValerieGriner]

This was beautiful! If only ALL divorced parents could be as loving and civil...there would be a lot less trauma in the world. You are a wonderful father and it REALLY shows when the kids are with you. You are sooo much fun and they adore you! God bless and Merry Christmas(from a grandma in GA).

[@sheilawarren9808]

Im so crying, you are so special, Skylar. Jamie is too! Ya'll are doing fantastic. Prayers for continued strength for both parents. I'm a Grandparent of triplets who's parents divorced. Beautiful way to show your Littles for later. Much Love to all❤

[@angelaclausing5565]

Oh my stars Skyler, that was beyond beautiful. I'm balling my eyes out at how perfectly you put all of this together. Sweet Daisy Kate will remember this her entire life, along with all the other kiddos. You and Jamie are such beautiful parents and you both keep doing what your doing for those precious babies, all seven of them.

[@vix.00.]

This literally made me cry... but in a good way. I love the simple approach and having nothing but positivity throughout. I'm happy to see that you're both working hard to make things as easy as possible for everyone. I've been here since day one of your channel, and I feel privileged to see into your lives and the love you instill no matter what the circumstance ❤

[@dorienichols6688]

Skylar, you and Jamie are doing a wonderful job at co-parenting, I definitely see the love you both have for your kids

[@tweety34ful]

I’m usually the silent viewer I don’t comment, but this made me cry and want to say your right. This made me think a lot with my life. I’m not divorce but hoeing thru a rough patch and I have a preteen and it’s hard. I’m over here crying like a baby. Skyler your such a great a Dad & your kids and lucky to have both of you as parents.

[@realart5995]

I have no words. Beautiful Skylar. Well said. It's all about the LOVE.

[@sharonmurray6982]

Such beautiful words for your beautiful daughter. Explained in such a beautiful, heartfelt and meaningful way and made me cry. I take my hat off to you as an amazing, thoughtful, loving and kind dad.

[@jackieaudus9829]

So very touching… it’s an ongoing process and I know kids blame themselves… as adults we mess up so often. Beautifully explained Skyler. Movies had such a memorable place in my heart growing up as I lost my Dad, I hope they see your special movie when they’re older and can take it in.

[@lindahayman8291]

Daisy Kate, everything your daddy says is so true. Love wins over anything else that may happen. 🥰

[@Nonniof7]

Im not crying either. I love you all

[@joyceallen2596]

Skylar, so beautiful! I love that you shared this beautiful moment with us.

[@shellybielawski1773]

That was so beautifully explained! Terrific job Skyler. Love 💕 y’all!

[@cindymanning3097]

So beautiful, Skyler. Your children are so fortunate to have you and the family that they have. Someday, they will truly see this and realize the gift of what they have come from. In the meantime, your openness and acceptance and nurturance of them as they work through this new family arrangement is a precious gift.

[@elainetaylor2564]

Your message to Daisy was really beautiful ❤

[@patricialoveyouguysongener7410]

This made so sad Daisy cake went her mommy and daddy live in the same house I know how this feels my children feel Same way went I was divorced I really think children just like going back and forth two different houses It very difficult for them I try to have a one day with my x husband over for dinner so they would both Parent together for them for little while I feel was great for them

[@bkm2797]

Skylar that was so beautifully shared, made me cry and wish I had parents that would have shared with me like that when they divorced. I live about 3 blocks from the beautiful home that was in the movie Mrs. Doubtfire, it was a very touching film that many here have not forgotten, people still place flowers there in memory of Robin Williams now and again. Thanks for being such a great dad!❤️

[@michelehilbelink8066]

Skylar, this was truly amazing!! You and Jamie are such wonderful parents!!

[@s.a.6082]

Wow! You brought me right back to being 5 years old wishing the exact same thing that Daisy Kate did. And I was also lucky enough to have two parents who loved and cherished me, although unfortunately they fought like cats and dogs and that had a really negative impact on me. You and Jamie are class acts, and always put the kids first. This life is hard, but it’s also beautiful when love wins ❤

[@sicilywyatt8396]

I’m 42 with divorced parents and I still wish they were still married. I think the big thing that impacted me the most was that no one really cared how their divorce really made me feel. Everyone wanted me to be ok with it…and I wasn’t. I would encourage you yes…to continue to tell them that you both love them etc but also to allow space for them to feel what they feel and to have the space to really share that. This was a beautiful video though.

[@briellebardot5252]

❤ This! No one can make the wish go away with logical reason. Sharing sadness when there's no real solution to it is the hardest for a parent for sure but it happens in life.

[@catistokes]

I felt the same way about my parents divorce until my 40s. But now I’m my 50s I finally understand. I realize now that it was best for everyone. The wish that they would have worked things out and gotten along wasn’t reality. As hard as it was on everyone, it was best that they didn’t live together. But they were both still great parents to me separately. ❤❤❤

[@peaceful525]

This is an exceptionally important comment. Divorce hurts kids, even if it's done the "right" way and even if we all wish it didn't.

[@joannewebb2391]

Super emotional! Brilliant brilliant brilliant! Skylar that was beautiful honestly. Sending love to you all from Wales UK xoxo

[@letsgofather]

❤️🇬🇧

[@sandynorman4636]

I'm crying.... so special.

[@jennellmutch9985]

You are awesome at making old women cry lol My mother passed away last year, it's not quite the same as your story, however I never realized how much my mom was that person who was taking care of " things ". Keeping my dad happy and healthy, keeping us kids happy and healthy, even we are all in our 50s, she still had to take care of certain needs. I also realized how hard it was for my dad to take care of her the last 8 years and keeping her alive . I am married and have one child , and I do the same for my kid and grandkids that my mom would do. Ya need 50 bucks for gas? Here , no worries don't pay me back. You wanna get your daughter what? Here let me help , I can do it. You did something wrong and have to make it better ? Let me tell you how that works , you come and tell me , then we talk about how to fix it . There are so many things we do for our kids and family to help, it doesn't matter if they are 5 or 50.

[@christeinsanders1]

Skyler as a single mom this is a great way to explain to a child that families can be different but to know even in those differences you are always loved. I truly hope one day my daughter can also understand this. She is nine years old and even though she was only months old when we split, she still has this same wish. I think you did a wonderful job talking to her about this change. Keep your head up you got this! Blessings

[@Grandmotherof3]

You have such a good head on your shoulders! I’m sure Daisy understood your message. LOVE!

[@letsgofather]

💛💛💛

[@KeepingItHopeful]

Such a sweet video! Love the ending to Daisy. ❤

[@vicki9777]

Crying….. that was a very special message… great job Skyler.

[@lauralee5692]

I missed this vlog earlier, but so glad I went back to catch up. This is your best vlog ever! Such a special message. Blessings to you Skylar and also to Jamie and the kids. Wherever you live, you are a beautiful family.

[@letsgofather]

Thank you so much!! 😊

[@janebuteyn2466]

Oh wow, Skyler! This was so very sweet. You and Jamie are so amazing at making sure your kids feel loved and important and valued. Your love for the children is so evident and even your continued love and respect for each other as their parents. You and Jamie are making this transition for your children to be as successful as it can be. I will continue to pray for all of you. 😊

[@ace6285]

That’s a wonderful explanation Skylar. As an adult of parents who had a ‘difficult’ relationship, I can say that I wanted more than anything that they would love each other as I loved each of them. Impossible, I guess. It made me wonder why they didn’t. It saddened my whole life.

[@jaime4890]

I’m not crying, you are! 😭 😢 ❤️ Such a sweet explanation. And such a sweet moment between dad and daughter. You’re both amazing parents, don’t ever forget that! Btw Mrs. Doubtfire is such an iconic movie.

[@lynnecollins3284]

Omgoodness that was beautiful.❤

[@bonniejorgenson6677]

That was beautiful Skylar..brought tears...❤😢 with the 2 of you being there for your children...they will be fine.... God Bless 🙏

[@christiliablitch2485]

Skyler, after watching and listening to this episode, I'm convinced that you should write a children's book about divorce. Also, a side job could be narrating books for other authors. You have a great storytelling voice.

[@tammymyers7772]

This may be my favorite video from you yet! You nailed the explanation!

[@chelle2093]

It doesn’t matter what age your kids are (mine are teenagers) they will still always want mum and dad under the same roof… but it’s how you respond to each other even after all the messy stuff that comes with separation… Your response was beautiful ❤

[@ryanrobinson7178]

Wow, this video brought tears to my eyes. I wished when I was younger and my parents were going to divorce it was explained to me the way you explained it to your kiddo's. Skylar you and Jamie are doing great. And I wish you all the best of luck. #bigfan #loveyourfamily ❤ Sending love and prayers from California ❤

[@letsgofather]

❤️❤️❤️

[@ngendonancy8994]

You are great dad. Always ask myself why the mom didn't give a second chance just once

[@amylinehan9260]

I am crying ❤️ your amazing ! ❤ much love to your family !

[@julia-leddybetty]

Nothing like a good cry on a Monday ❤❤❤ You have a special heart, Skyler. You and your kids are loved by so many people you have never met

[@letsgofather]

Monday crys are healthy! 💛🤗

[@locket5312]

Oh my word- did not expect to be crying in a car park in the middle of a town centre in England- but here I am. You appear to be such a kind man and living father. What a blessing for your family.

[@tammyfales7699]

Loved how you explained this in a way that little children can understand.. It made me tear up. I love how You & Jaime work together as parents & not bash each other to the children.. Great job co-parenting. The kids need you both now more than ever. God Bless!

[@patriciacullenbach8472]

❤ok this one made me cry...love and hugs to all of you...

[@mjhv287]

Thank you for including foster children. I’m a foster momma and same sex family (two mommies). I have had 13 kids within 1.5 years. And it brought tears to my eyes that you included MY CHILDREN ❤🫶🏼 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

[@marciejones3538]

Aww. 😢. If my dad had explained his leaving like that, I might not have struggled so much.

[@anthonyfalcone5605]

This is a beautiful way to simply explain a very hard to understand subject....even for adults. Great job,Skyler! Faith Falcone

[@taniasierens5286]

That is what most children from divorced family wish…..

[@tkathiee]

Hands down best approach to such a difficult circumstance for little minds. Daisy Kate will definitely blossom under your care, as so will all your other 6 children. You're the best dad ever Skylar and such an awesome human being. I truly wish you the best kind of happiness!

[@jeansalsbury5098]

What a beautiful explanation! Your children will always know they are loved by you and their mommy! I pray you are doing well!

[@kathypopp531]

You did good dad. Great explanation.

[@vivbrowne294]

One of my favourite videos! Skylar you have a very special ability with words. I also love the Mrs Doubtfire movie. Your children are very lucky you happen to be such a great Dad

[@arielmcgillacuddy6640]

That was always my wish when I was blowing out my birthday candles when I was little “I wish Mom and dad would get back together” I think you explained it really well.

[@mackiemadepapercreations]

Oh wow! I bet that knocked you for a loop! I think you handled it the best way you could, especially for a 5year old! And this video will be so special to them one day. I hope you plan to keep it in a special place, to not be forgotten or hard to find for them in the future. ❤️❤️❤️

[@littlebitmckee8234]

My 5 year old son said the same thing to me. I swear the holy spirit took over - because immediately I said "well we could live in the same house, but we wouldn't be happy or we can live like we are and be happy". He said to me ''''let's keep things like they are and just be happy". It never came up for him. I guess that was a good enough answer. And for the ending of the story - we stayed apart and all three of us were much happier. My son is 31 years old and really understands that we made a good decision. Life is good!

[@michellesorenson1292]

OH WOW! That breaks my heart.

[@Selsey17]

That was beautiful ❤

[@donnabasile829]

I am weeping, Skyler!! You are such a good man and Dad! Keep doing you:)

[@kathybasilico5686]

Skyler, out of the month of babe's. Daisy Kate is so open and honest. Perhaps the other quints feel the same way. What you said to Daisy was great. It gave comfort. I bet the other 4 would like to hear something along these lines too. One on one time is a good way to see how each quint feels. So good job Skyler. ❤ Long Island Kathy

[@katelyncarmichael]

Being a child of divorce and just lost my father this was a beautiful episode thank you Skyler

[@jodydark8102]

Skyler not only are you the most amazing Dad you are a beautiful kind soul. Jamie if you think the grass is greener on the other side well good luck.

[@bobbyebordelon2608]

Ok I’m probably going get in trouble for this comment, but here goes! Daisy is my favorite sorry, but she has been from the beginning, there is something about her that really tugs at my heart! They are all wonderful, beautiful,and smart kids! So glad she felt comfortable to say how she felt!

[@JennSafari]

Why would you get in trouble? There's nothing wrong with you being partial to Daisy. 🤍

[@lindastudley6149]

That was a beautiful video.❤️

[@pandaloves17]

I'm crying. I wish my parents had said these things. I was 8 and my brother 6 when they divorced. We blamed ourselves for 10 years about it. Now we're older and we understand more. I love Mrs doubtfire. I wish my parents had been good co-parents but instead they said horrid things about each other and we're so mean about it all, played who's the favorite parent. It was so hard. Because of everything my brother refuses to believe in anything, God, Jesus, and happiness :(

[@katiemccarthy5349]

We are all crying! What a beautiful explanation for you children and just how wonderful is it that not only will they feel loved but they will have this confirmation of family love all their lives

[@letsgofather]

Thanks for watching Katie! Glad you enjoyed the video. ❤